I think those men write things like that because often times, women will write physical deal breakers while seemingly having all the choices available to them. People need to say what they want in their bios, rather then what they don't like. There's no need to essentially call someone inadequate on your bio, it just shows how damaged or vein they really are. Although he is doing it in a spiteful way that is obviously immature, I don't appreciate that your first response was to roast his looks. Two wrongs don't make a right. The difference when men do this vs when women do this is that men often do not have the support network nor the confidence boosting attention that comes with being constantly desired. Instead of supporting these men we cast them aside and at most tell them to "get therapy". Imagine if you had no support network and anytime you cried someone posted about it and essentially sentenced you to being alone after laughing at you with friends. I appreciate that you stopped ghosting people because I think that open end leads people's minds to wander, usually to self deprecating places. People deserve respect. I have never gotten a date on these apps and it has been years and every time I have been ghosted. I know I'm a man so I'm just supposed to take it but it hurts A LOT. Years of seeing who is out there and available but just not interested in me. I probably seem nutty since I'm typing such a long winded trauma dump here, I feel like if a man has any emotions it's a red flag these days lol Ok wait wait.... so this group is to protect women from dating a guy who is dating multiple girls but you condone women having a ROSTER? Are you serious? lol This just proves that "women support women" means cosigning anything they do no matter what the morality. By your logic it seems like girls can do whatever they want but men can't? And then the condescending hair flick? Common ladies, clearly you can see the hypocrisy here. I'm genuinely shocked at how you so casually you said that and giggled about it.
I think those men write things like that because often times, women will write physical deal breakers while seemingly having all the choices available to them. People need to say what they want in their bios, rather then what they don't like. There's no need to essentially call someone inadequate on your bio, it just shows how damaged or vein they really are. Although he is doing it in a spiteful way that is obviously immature, I don't appreciate that your first response was to roast his looks. Two wrongs don't make a right. The difference when men do this vs when women do this is that men often do not have the support network nor the confidence boosting attention that comes with being constantly desired. Instead of supporting these men we cast them aside and at most tell them to "get therapy". Imagine if you had no support network and anytime you cried someone posted about it and essentially sentenced you to being alone after laughing at you with friends.
I appreciate that you stopped ghosting people because I think that open end leads people's minds to wander, usually to self deprecating places. People deserve respect. I have never gotten a date on these apps and it has been years and every time I have been ghosted. I know I'm a man so I'm just supposed to take it but it hurts A LOT. Years of seeing who is out there and available but just not interested in me. I probably seem nutty since I'm typing such a long winded trauma dump here, I feel like if a man has any emotions it's a red flag these days lol
Ok wait wait.... so this group is to protect women from dating a guy who is dating multiple girls but you condone women having a ROSTER? Are you serious? lol This just proves that "women support women" means cosigning anything they do no matter what the morality. By your logic it seems like girls can do whatever they want but men can't? And then the condescending hair flick? Common ladies, clearly you can see the hypocrisy here. I'm genuinely shocked at how you so casually you said that and giggled about it.