Remarried after a 14 year divorce - the power of forgiveness and divine possibilities

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024

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  • @lorrainelebelo948
    @lorrainelebelo948 3 года назад +22

    Nothing is impossible with God and what God has joined let no man separate.marriage is a ministry

  • @aphiwefihlani3807
    @aphiwefihlani3807 8 месяцев назад +3

    Covenant where God sealed it himself can not be revoked. Trusting God 🙏 impossible is nothing with God

  • @TheMysalvation
    @TheMysalvation Год назад +8

    Wow, I claim this testimony for me and my husband

  • @AmateurAthleteAllDay
    @AmateurAthleteAllDay Год назад +4

    @35:24 he says they love me so much but actually they didn’t love you enough to correct you the way the friend who warned you did. They loved ministry and money. When someone loves you, they will correct you in love, not watch you go in the wrong direction in silence.

  • @koelganellspeaks8679
    @koelganellspeaks8679 2 месяца назад +2

    Amen! Thank you for this testimony! This testimony is what I needed to see to be encouraged to keep standing for the restoration of my marriage. We have been divorced for 6 years now. God has promised to restore. We have 5 children-aged 22 down to 15 years old. He has been gone for 10 years. I refuse to remarry even when people say I should. Our relationship has gotten better-God has been working on me in the process. I KNOW God will make something brand new out of our story. I am writing a book to help women understand the power of submission in marriage while I pray and wait for restoration! God is GREAT!!! He will restore!!❤

    • @alivingstone4Him
      @alivingstone4Him Месяц назад +1

      Amen sister !! Go God ! Restore this marriage my marriage and all those standing for their marriage. WE are many that are standing LORD for marriage. Join us back with our spouses O God. Let not man put us asunder ever again. In Jesus mighty name, Amen !!

    • @koelganellspeaks8679
      @koelganellspeaks8679 27 дней назад

      @@alivingstone4Him Amen! Thank you!

  • @purdygirl1748
    @purdygirl1748 2 года назад +7

    Standing for my marriage... praying husband will leave his significant others and come back home to God and Me. It's been over 4 years since he left. I forgive him and her and his family. God is good. If He can do it for them He will do it for us!!

  • @dimphosalang
    @dimphosalang Год назад +3

    When she said “Im humbe, i was born humble and I’ve got this thing that you must respect your husband” ohhh i cried for her😭. Covenant marriage 👌

  • @eseosarain
    @eseosarain 4 года назад +9

    Wow! As a woman born and raised in America I cannot relate to this in the natural realm at all. But I can clearly see the power of the Holy Spirit in their testimony.

  • @angelmehta2030
    @angelmehta2030 Год назад +5

    My covenant husband has an baby too with his adulterous remarriage.. PlZ pry for my husband's salvation and restoration of my marriage in Jesus name

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  Год назад +1

      Cannot be easy for you. May the will of the Lord prevail

    • @coolestsommer3973
      @coolestsommer3973 6 месяцев назад

      I’m going through that too battling with letting him go

    • @angelmehta2030
      @angelmehta2030 6 месяцев назад

      @@lifeofinterruptions4044 but with God everything is possible

    • @angelmehta2030
      @angelmehta2030 6 месяцев назад

      @@coolestsommer3973 God bless you dear have faith in God He can only restore everything when I obey Him completely

  • @skhumbuzomashati5576
    @skhumbuzomashati5576 3 года назад +5

    as of today my hopes and faith are restored and i am reborn

  • @manumuteba6695
    @manumuteba6695 4 года назад +12

    Great testimony! God answers prayers. Glory to his name for humility, forgiveness, restoration of the hearts.

  • @mrsk2876
    @mrsk2876 4 года назад +7

    This is the 2nd time I am hearing their story. Mama Nkonki is a true example of a woman completely surrendered to God! I am challenged and encouraged as a woman seeking to live a life fully surrendered( coming to the end of me and the beginning of God!). This God that we serve is Mighty indeed!

  • @susanmoeng2427
    @susanmoeng2427 2 года назад +3

    God's ways are not our ways indeed...He is the God of Restoration.....the story is similar to what happened to me...and I believe God for Restoration

  • @carlinndube9999
    @carlinndube9999 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Father for this testimony. We give you all the praise and glory. Thank you Mr and Mrs Nkonki for listening to God’s direction in your marriage ❤

  • @eileenfisher587
    @eileenfisher587 2 года назад +3

    I had to come back and watch this again! It gives me hope that God showed this man the importance of the marriage covenant with the wife of his youth. . . May the same happen with my husband -- he thinks he is married to someone else now. Our 7 children have been sad and they behave as though his departure and indifference towards them means they arent worth much . Now 12 years later and my husband is reaching out to his adult children. Praise the Lord - i pray the healing presence of God sets our children free from all the effects of their dads abandonment . But my husband needs deliverance and healing from his dads abuse and rejection happening to him as a child. . . I wonder how much longer it will take. The poor lady my spouse is with doesnt even know he is still married to me. I forgive them both with all my heart.

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  2 года назад

      Oh wow. Please visit my website and get a copy of my book Marriage Gods Way.

  • @gloriachirikuutsi1542
    @gloriachirikuutsi1542 3 года назад +5

    This is amazing....l.connect to the reconciliation and restoration of my marriage in a Godly union. All is well that endd well. The word says so and so shall my marriage in Jesus's name. Amen

  • @bontle7609
    @bontle7609 4 года назад +9

    I don't know if I would be able to walk this woman's walk. I believe it is her gift and her purpose. But I wouldn't want a man who dis-honored myself and his marriage to gain a way in again. My heart would reject him and I would go through the agony and heal, and learn to focus on my kids. I would definitely pray for him, but not that he comes back to me. I feel most sorry for the kids involved. He was selfish and to make matters worse, his family failed to challenge him.

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  3 года назад

      🥺😢

    • @Sharon777jr
      @Sharon777jr 3 года назад

      I agree🙏🏿

    • @eileenfisher587
      @eileenfisher587 2 года назад +4

      Pride and unforgiveness is a trap and a snare for your soul. Besides for that - those who belong to Christ & who are forgiven much - will love you much for your mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgement

  • @aminakhristoffo7948
    @aminakhristoffo7948 8 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve been personally blessed by this testimony. Not only is this a real story that we NEED to hear but it has boosted my faith. I am woman who has been standing for a few years now and I see similarities in the story, especially on her side. Her humility and true forgiveness was an indicator that it was the right time for her to be reconciled back with him. Oftentimes God wants to take time to heal the heart so that us women don’t make the man pay for it by bringing it back up constantly or acting out of spite - which we can definitely do if deeply hurt.

  • @aminakhristoffo7948
    @aminakhristoffo7948 8 месяцев назад +2

    Anyone else notice that his plans crumbled AFTER he divorced his covenant wife tho?

  • @burkesenterprises7479
    @burkesenterprises7479 3 года назад +5

    GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME........I AM IN A SIMILAR SITUATION I AM LIKE THAT WOMAN AM STILL WAITING ON MY HUSBAND TO COME BACK.. I WAS SEPERATED FOR 17 YEAR MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS JUST LAST YEAR WE REALLY STARTED TO COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER...I WAS TYPING IN REMARRY WHEN I SAW THIS VIDEO AND I START TO WATCH IT IT GIVES ME HOPE THAT I AM CLOSE AND DOING WHAT GOD WANTS US TO DO. BLESS YOU

    • @eileenfisher587
      @eileenfisher587 2 года назад

      I am sorta in the same predicament. Except we were married in 1987 - separated around 2003 and as far as i know we were never divorced. He says he is married to the gal he lives with now and he has had a few relationships with other women that lasted more than a year. When im not busy i try to go online and do searches to see if there was a divorce docket or dissolution of marriage filed. I cant seem to find it but i keep trying.

  • @ndeyapyikison3675
    @ndeyapyikison3675 4 года назад +8

    Oh what a beautiful love story, almost similar to mine but I'm still praying and believing God Almighty to some day soon testify to his glory as well. I so much love this channel, keep up the good work your doing, God bless.

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  3 года назад +1

      You shall testify. Your expectations shall not be cut off

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  • @traceyc.7428
    @traceyc.7428 3 года назад +4

    God gets all the Glory & the Honor!!

  • @tshegofatsoaphane175
    @tshegofatsoaphane175 4 года назад +6

    Many woman and many man can see themselves in their story. Loved it.

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  4 года назад

      True right. It has a powerful lesson

    • @tshegofatsoaphane175
      @tshegofatsoaphane175 4 года назад +3

      @@lifeofinterruptions4044 My Philosophy for life is "work on yourself" and that when i find myself judging, complaining, criticizing, blaming and having resentment - its a calling, signal or diagnosis to change myself and not other people or situation.
      Having a Godlike character is not easy.
      Thank you for sharing their story, i'm not a cry baby but i shed a tear.

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  4 года назад +4

      @@tshegofatsoaphane175 yes, he was fortunate to discover his shortcomings in his lifetime, and make amends with the love of his life. Many die inside their error

    • @youtubelimekid8198
      @youtubelimekid8198 3 года назад +3

      Yesss I'm with my ex husband after 11 years ❤️💞

  • @percymothibi9513
    @percymothibi9513 4 года назад +6

    this is a must watch for every couple, i love what he said about marriage being a covenant..hmmm. Thank you Lord. thank you Pastor Pearl for sharing

  • @josephinekouni9792
    @josephinekouni9792 6 месяцев назад

    Instilling hope. God works wonders nothing is impossible.

  • @constansia9879
    @constansia9879 3 года назад +2

    Indeed wait upon God. I salute this women

  • @rosannefarley828
    @rosannefarley828 3 года назад +3

    The most beautiful and inspiring story on YT

  • @sonyajones1799
    @sonyajones1799 Год назад +1

    Such a blessing. Glory to God, and to God be the glory hallelujah‼️❤️

  • @mbimbapeh8241
    @mbimbapeh8241 4 года назад +5

    Oh My God Bra Louis... what a story. Great story and fantastic episode my dear sister.

  • @lissalissa3321
    @lissalissa3321 2 года назад +2

    Id love to get married however its frustrating and depressing after separating from someone who loves drugs more. I offered to support them them in getting help but they refuse to seek treatment. All I can do is pray for them and pray that I forgive myself for thinking I could change them for the better. Thanks for sharing this video it provides a healthy and realistic perspective on true (Godly) love is in a marriage.

    • @erikaorrissHD33
      @erikaorrissHD33 2 года назад +1

      I relate to this. My heart is broken after loving a man for 3 years but his alcoholism got worse and now he can't stop drinking. I wish I could be with him but I can't handle loving the drink more than me. Horrible.

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  2 года назад

      My heart goes out to you both
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  • @wanjare7777
    @wanjare7777 3 года назад +5

    I thank God for this testimony! Mine is coming!😊

  • @lovealwayz222
    @lovealwayz222 Год назад +1

    Beautiful story🥰♥️🙏🏽
    My story🙏🏽. I have also had the same heart towards my ex-husband. Although, our children are adults they hurt, we all hurt.
    Blessings to them and to you for sharing🙏🏽
    Sincere gratitude✨♥️✨

  • @EdwardsEvelyn
    @EdwardsEvelyn 11 месяцев назад +1

    Watching this was an absolute blessing

  • @sp-ip6tn
    @sp-ip6tn 3 года назад +1

    Awesome Praise God he is a God of Covenant !!Its power in Jesus !I loved the journey the faith conviction of holy spirit My God you are so full of grace &mercy

  • @tameekasmith321
    @tameekasmith321 Год назад +1

    I love this testimony so much! Still a blessing!!!

  • @imgrateful7142
    @imgrateful7142 Год назад +1

    Beautiful testimony. Glory to God!

  • @Vk7289
    @Vk7289 2 года назад +5

    Lesson here is two wrongs don’t make a right especially in a covenant marriage. If the woman had remarried, would restoration be possible? I don’t think so.
    A wise woman builds her home. She honoured her part of the vow even when her husband remarried, and God came through for her against all odds.
    Just sad it took the man 14 years to come to his senses...😠

    • @heracles5541
      @heracles5541 2 года назад +1

      I'm in the similar circumstances but I'm waiting on my wife to come come to her spiritual senses.

    • @Vk7289
      @Vk7289 2 года назад

      @@heracles5541 , keep trusting God and pray for her as well.

    • @denisejackson776
      @denisejackson776 2 года назад +3

      I have been studying the scriptures on divorce and remarriage to a new spouse while your covenant spouse is still living, I'm very concerned, from what Im learning remarriage while your spouse is still living is adultery..I'm still studying and learning tho, adultery can send a person to hell.

    • @godgavemeeyestosee
      @godgavemeeyestosee Год назад +1

      @@denisejackson776 I also learned through studying the scriptures that if you divorce your covenant spouse and marry someone else while your spouse is still alive, you are committing adultery. Mark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18 and Romans 7:2-3.

    • @sylviaruth5008
      @sylviaruth5008 Год назад

      @@godgavemeeyestosee While a covenant spouse is still alive, in the eyes of God, a remarriage really isn’t a marriage at all? That so called remarriage is actually adultery. Is this right?

  • @nozukosigweba8481
    @nozukosigweba8481 Год назад +1

    Yhooo what a powerful testimony...We give all the glory to our God👐

  • @GabyDee7
    @GabyDee7 2 года назад +1

    Watching from America. Thank you for the testimony, it truly blessed.

  • @constansia9879
    @constansia9879 3 года назад +2

    Praise GOD for everything

  • @edithl348
    @edithl348 3 года назад +2

    Wow this story was needed

  • @boitumelo.speaks
    @boitumelo.speaks 2 года назад +1

    My word...what a beautiful testimony. I love the interviewer, intelligent questions and responses

  • @jayageorge9778
    @jayageorge9778 3 года назад +1

    To God be the glory, Great things He hath done.

  • @lovelydaphnegrant4872
    @lovelydaphnegrant4872 2 года назад +1

    Great testimony. I love it

  • @aphiwefihlani3807
    @aphiwefihlani3807 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing

  • @erikaorrissHD33
    @erikaorrissHD33 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful!!!

  • @loringe1000
    @loringe1000 3 года назад +11

    At least the man lived to get this right with God and his wife. Praise the Lord that the wife truly forgave him and her so called friend. Remarriage is adultery when both Covenant spouses are alive. I pray that many will take this teaching serious!

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  3 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @Vk7289
      @Vk7289 2 года назад

      @ Loring, if one spouse steps out/commits adultery. The other innocent spouse is free to remarry, that’s what I learnt lately.

    • @loringe1000
      @loringe1000 2 года назад +8

      @@Vk7289 You have not got this from God, but your flesh. That doesn't state that in the Holy Bible. If your spouse cheats on you. You pray and ask God to show you what to do. You have to forgive. If you for any reason leave that marriage, that doesn't give you a license to remarry and that spouse is alive. You will be living in adultery. You will have to reconcile that marriage or stay single as long as your spouse is still living. Marriage is for one spouse as long as each other live. Why do you think they say til death do you part? The body of Christ is out of order and has not been following the ways of God, but the ways of the world and wicked teachings. Read Roman's 7:1-2. There are many others as well.

    • @Vk7289
      @Vk7289 2 года назад

      @@loringe1000 , watch this video when you get a chance. I’m not saying one should remarry when the covenant spouse is alive, it depends on the circumstance.
      ruclips.net/video/6SA-Vd7f854/видео.html

    • @loringe1000
      @loringe1000 2 года назад +1

      @@Vk7289 I saw this video. They are not accurate with the Bible for grounds for divorce and remarriage. If you divorce your spouse for adultery, you can divorce, but you will have to remain single or reconcile the marriage. Look, I done heard every argument. Matt 5:32 and Matt 19:9 is referring to marriage according to the 2 step process of Jewish marriages and this was addressed to a Jewish audience because they understood the marriage process this way. The betrothal or formal engagement was broken due to fornication, so the man can get out of it and this was brought before the elders to investigate and the marriage was considered off. If the man married someone and say they discovered adultery, that thet would be stoned to death.Look at this example in Matt 1:18-20 how they handled such cases.The other scriptures were mainly addresed to Gentiles So. there are no exceptions when it comes to divorce and remarriage. Like I said, you can divorce for whatever reason, but you can't remarry. Please seek the Holy Spirt and fast and pray. Sometimes that is how you will get the correct understanding of God's Word, not man's interpretation.

  • @wisdomlifewithtk
    @wisdomlifewithtk 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love your content!

  • @holyishe7903
    @holyishe7903 2 года назад +1

    I love to hear this ❤️🥰

  • @msdee2905
    @msdee2905 Год назад +1

    Thanks

  • @aphiwefihlani3807
    @aphiwefihlani3807 8 месяцев назад

    How does one get hold of Mrs Nkonki

  • @DrChristineBacon
    @DrChristineBacon 6 месяцев назад

    How can I meet these two people? I'd like to invite them onto my own podcast.

  • @Jamdunqueen
    @Jamdunqueen 2 года назад +1

    Wow!

  • @karenwalker3756
    @karenwalker3756 3 года назад +4

    I need prayer. I need direction from God I left my family in 2006 and married the man I had an affair with. We have been married for 11 years now. He is a good provider and a good man but we aren’t friends, he won’t seek God with me we have nothing in common honestly all we really had in common was lust. My former husband still loves me which I think is unbelievable but he is a great man and was a great husband I just let satan destroy us. I want restoration I want my family back but most of all I want Gods will in my life. I so wish He would tell me what to do. I don’t want to hurt any more people and I don’t want ANY MORE REGRET!!!

    • @BlessednHighlyfavored12
      @BlessednHighlyfavored12 2 года назад +1

      I pray that God directs you to make the right decision

    • @purdygirl1748
      @purdygirl1748 2 года назад +2

      God is telling you. You wrote your answer above...

    • @purdygirl1748
      @purdygirl1748 2 года назад +6

      You have to DO right by God NOT Your Feeling's. You have to obey God's word and your covenant for your 1st marriage!!!

    • @marcusburgess1701
      @marcusburgess1701 2 года назад +1

      Go get the OG!! Glad you woke up... now get out of bed

    • @punishednomorefreetoprotec2165
      @punishednomorefreetoprotec2165 2 года назад

      You belong with your covenant husband that’s the only marriage God recognizes anything else is adultery

  • @punishednomorefreetoprotec2165
    @punishednomorefreetoprotec2165 2 года назад +2

    Was this a covenant marriage two first time marrieds? That’s the only Marriage God recognizes

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  2 года назад +3

      Yes it was a covenant marriage. Hence when he divorced her and married someone else for 15 years, God told him He did not recognize that 2nd marriage and commanded him to return to the wife of covenant he had left 15 years prior

    • @sylviaruth5008
      @sylviaruth5008 Год назад

      @@lifeofinterruptions4044 This is so good. Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @sylviaruth5008
      @sylviaruth5008 Год назад

      @@lifeofinterruptions4044 My son was married to his wife for 11 years. They have 5 kids. She took kids and moved in with her boyfriend. Later on she divorced my son and married her boyfriend. They now have a 3 year old son. Last year she got saved and asked my son to take her back but he wouldn’t. She is still with the boyfriend/new husband but complains because he is unsaved. She is pursuing my son like crazy. What do you make of this? What is the right thing in God’s eye? Thank you.

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  Год назад +1

      @@sylviaruth5008 is your son saved. She should know that God forgives but we may still need to bear the consequences. Having said that, she should pray and seek God's will not hers. She cannot manipulate your son, but if she is God's will for him and her heart is purely for God's will, He can work miracles

  • @amitdudhankar2672
    @amitdudhankar2672 11 месяцев назад

  • @unpoppinopinions
    @unpoppinopinions Год назад

    Wow 14yrs 🙏🏿

  • @iamPhillipleblanc
    @iamPhillipleblanc 3 года назад +1

    Will never happen in America

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  2 года назад +4

      God is still God even in America though. But I hear where you're coming from. I get what you mean

    • @iamPhillipleblanc
      @iamPhillipleblanc 2 года назад +3

      @@lifeofinterruptions4044 Too many options for a woman to move on, with child support, her own job, alimony and a new guy who brings new money when she leaves. WHY STAY. Women are incentivized to break families in America

    • @lifeofinterruptions4044
      @lifeofinterruptions4044  2 года назад

      😭😭

    • @purdygirl1748
      @purdygirl1748 2 года назад +4

      I'm standing for my marriage..... until death...or until tells me other wise

    • @iamPhillipleblanc
      @iamPhillipleblanc 2 года назад +2

      @@purdygirl1748 There are some who beleive in Vows and some who beleive in pursuit of non stop happiness which is elusive