Siti Aishah Actually, when it’s school break, I work 8 hours a day at a Kindergarten, 5 days a week, so I went to that « adulthood no fun life » but you still made a good point though...
Alexis is my cousin!! Their relationship is just as cute as you would think it is. I'm so happy for her, she's such an amazing woman and she deserved her fairytale ending. :')
@@Ben.A-Mella she said in the video that they found out the tumor was benign - this means it wasn't cancerous or life threatening (at least not yet). We can assume he's ok then. :)
@@wowokthenbruh Hi! WOW. I wrote this comment on my way from the gym, and couldn't expect it to receive that much of thumbnails and especially a comment from Alexi's relative. May be Pat could join us?
idk all her decisions were pretty questionable/impulsive ngl. Like she hears about her ex going to Japan so she immediately books a 2-week trip there? She spends 36 hours with a guy on the other side of the world and decides he's her boyfriend? She dates him for ONE year and they get married?
You have no idea how much I needed this video right now. The parallel of what’s going on in my life right now and what you were going through during the time you were in Japan is striking. I’m constantly wondering and worrying about if I’m going to find ‘the one’ and I literally was just sobbing about my fathers declining health when I decided to go onto RUclips to distract myself for a little while and this is the first video that pops up on the home page. I’m so happy your father is okay and that you found your person, thank you for sharing thus with us. This honestly gives me so much hope.
I went to Japan and I completely fell in love with the country. I truly admire the culture, the history, and the people. The trains are all in great condition, everyone is so kind, the culture is fascinating, and the food is amazing. I started learning Japanese after I went two years ago and I hope to live there for a little one day. If you ever have the opportunity to go to Japan, go, because you won't regret it at all.
My husband and I always wanted to go to Japan since the first time we met. We lost his sister to stomach cancer a few months ago which sparked us to finally book out trip to Japan. We just got back and it was an amazing experience. Life is short so enjoy every moment you can.♥️
I usually don't comment but on this one I had to. Such an awesome story, so happy for how your dad is cancer free and how you were able to find true love and not just found it but actually act on it! Favorite video ever.
What a brilliant story! We went to all those places in Kyoto too, so we really understood your story. What a strong character you are and you're very inspirational.
Awwww!!!You made me cry. My mother was also sick from complications from diabetes.She passed away on October 21st of 2018.She developed chronic kidney disease and a rare blood cancer. As a result of her refusing to get dialysis. She was a woman of Jesus Christ.We grew up Methodist.I'm glad that you found love and my sincerest condolences for the loss of your dad.Praying for you and your family. Beautiful story.
I initially did say that but it didn't feel like a realistic tip as not everyone could afford to go to Japan. So I wanted to go with believing in love because that's something we can all do even though it can be hard to do.
Congrates! from Japan. But please make it sure that you've got hapiness is not just because you came to Japan, you became very positive by yourself and tried to get your life better. It's your effort. You made your life so happy by yourself. Hope you keep your life so happy for ever and visit Japan again with your husband together.
What a beautiful ending to an amazing story! I got chills from watching this I'm so happy your dad is doing well. I wish you and Josh the best! You guys look cute together!!
SOOOOOOO GOOOOOD!! I am speachless!! I love it!! And love the fact that you shared your story!! That was awesome!! All the best wishes to you, your dad, Josh and the rest who you care the most!!
Queenwith5000subs Star I bought my round trip tickets to Tokyo for $716. Had to buy them 1 year in advance to get that deal though and we leave in May 2019 😁
This year i went to my first solo trip to Japan. It was amazing, I learned to be social and I met so many amazing people. Almost everyday I hung out with new friends. With Japanese people, travellers, even a couple who owns a café in rural Japan. It was amazing to meet so many strangers and make memories. I also learned to have fun by myself. To just go out and enjoy spending a whole day doing whatever I wanted. I can't wait to go back in a few years.
Was feeling fine, I swear! Then watched this video & cried SO HARD through the whole thing!!! I don't even understand what happened with my emotions :-P
My step mother has stage 4 colon cancer. She's only 48. Last week we finally went to Paris and London, we all prayed for her to be cured and we lit candles in Notre Dame and Westminister Abbey. 2 days after we got home she had a PET scan. All of the tumors in her liver were gone, now she only has 1 left in her colon and she might be having illeostomy reversal surgery in a few weeks!!! Im not a spiritual person but wow.
Damn... The speed and desperation of that rebound though... Glad the dad is okay, I hope your relationship can last, it seems to have had a 'fling' start and those are hard to keep going long term so best of wishes to you and yours!
Anyone else found it odd that she went to a Shinto Buddhist temple & prayed to a Judeo-Christian God? If you believe that's what saved your father's life then perhaps it's time to convert from Baptist to Buddhist.
So if you pray to God at Walmart, Walmart saved your dad? You pray to whoever, wherever. When Spanish colonizers forced Christianity on Maya people, sometimes they'd hide their idols inside Christian crosses and pray to them inside Christian churches. Where you pray doesnt matter, a church or a temple is just a place. It's what you believe that matters.
Lol. You make a good point. I took my shoes off and followed other customs depending on the temple. So I wasn't like "YO GOD you hear me up here?" Haha! Definitely tried to remain respectful.
I thought it was weird too, but then I realized she’s just progressive. It’s so much better to be open to other cultures than being super conservative and denying everything that’s not in the Bible. I know a few American missionaries in Japan, and I’m kinda scared of them. They HATE shrines and temples. One of them even said she once pretended praying at a shrine out of pressure, and she suffered so much from that huge sin she committed.
Just the video I needed. Going through a rough time. Got myself tickets to Tokyo aswell. Im here now, went to sensoji shrine and got a good fortune after making a wish for happiness. I started crying right there. Now only two days left here, wish I could find true love too 😝
RUclips needs stronger emojis. Like isn’t good enough. I LOVED this story. Congratulations on finding Love. I spent 3 months there in an exchange program after graduating high school and now that I am 47 and without a love companion in my life, maybe a trip back is overdue.
I love Japan! It's amazing, but not just Tokyo. The outskirts of the country with the mountains and ancient castles and tea houses are the places to go.
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R.I.P. to our fallen soldier Pat.
Tralx Rest In Peace
F
Wait what happen to him ?
He didn’t deserve a fate so cruel.
Benjamin J nothing happen to him
I am the pat in every situation
Same
Same
Yeah....me to
Amy Slotover i am the true pat
Yeah, me too, the odd one out :(
Well I'm off to Japan
WAL33D MAS 😂 same
I’ve been
543
I'm here now
I’m going with you!! I need this miracle!
So you casually left Pat for a week?
Oof
Pat’s gay.. he was out with a ninja hunk. So twas a win-win.
Fritz Andrew HAHAHAHAHAHA NINJA HUNK u made my week thanks!
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How free can you be to literally suddenly plan a trip to Japan for revenge?
Dico Soliman lol true but I think you can work from your computer at buzzfeed at home if you need to
Alexa Hernandez True lol
While we’re going to prison everyday (school) and barely get a week or two of holidays at Christmas
Dico Soliman wait till you work in a normal 9 to 5 office then tell me which one is prison? Appreciate your school time kiddo 👀
Siti Aishah Actually, when it’s school break, I work 8 hours a day at a Kindergarten, 5 days a week, so I went to that « adulthood no fun life » but you still made a good point though...
“We headed straight to his hotel” - cut to: Next Morning hung over... wonder what happened there..
Ryan Anthony yada yada yada
Dot dot dot
@@cooki522 is that from Mama Mia?
They fucked. A lot.
@@Hern78 Good spot, yeah it is x
I feel sorry for Pat.
Guernicaman The friend zone is a dark zone.
@Andrew LeeYou know that if you travel with a guy and he meets a Girl he can abandon you just the same, right...?
I think he is gay
@@mirofeya yeah that is what I assumed too
@@mirofeya - I thought so too, but for a Baptist to have a close best friend is...unusual.
Imagine telling your kids you met your SO in Japan ! How cool 😭
Lina Molina my parents actually met in japan😂
Lina Molina an aussie and an american find love in japan
Andi K Lucky, my parents met in Arby’s 😂
Andi K same lol
@@andreak8897 SAME!!
"You know that chemistry you have when you go out with your crush?"
No. No I don't. My crush hates me.
Tina Yael Severinovna M.
That is actually a thing in the LGBT community
Demisexuality
Alexis is my cousin!! Their relationship is just as cute as you would think it is. I'm so happy for her, she's such an amazing woman and she deserved her fairytale ending. :')
How sweet! Please wish them a best of luck and a life filled with laughter from me.
What happened to her dad
Can you tell Alexis that she is kind and amazing and has the most amazing story ever!!!
@@Ben.A-Mella she said in the video that they found out the tumor was benign - this means it wasn't cancerous or life threatening (at least not yet). We can assume he's ok then. :)
@@Ben.A-Mella Ray is doing just fine! He's a trooper. :)
I feel like it is universal law that whenever you meet someone new, randos from your past come out of the woodwork. Happens every.single.time!!!
FACTS!!!! They always pull up when you are falling in love. Lol.
purplegal05 YES lol
Truer words haven’t been typed
Yessssssssssssss
PLOT TWIST!!! THEY ARE MARRIED YOU GO GIRL!!!
Hayley Michael 😍
Poor Pat. Ultimately friendzoned😂😂😂
The friend zone isn't real
ruslanbekov88 if she was just a friend to him too there wasn’t a problem, you know, normal friendships exist 🤷🏻♀️
Hi, I'm Alexis' cousin and they're best friends! No friendzone involved. :)
@@wowokthenbruh Hi! WOW. I wrote this comment on my way from the gym, and couldn't expect it to receive that much of thumbnails and especially a comment from Alexi's relative. May be Pat could join us?
@@ruslanbekov88 LMAO maybe!
She's crying on the thumbnail, hope everything is fine... 😂
True
Watch the end
😒
She looks like it was 9/11 Japan by the map.
Tears of joy lol
I don't usually like buzzfeed's content but this video was really heartwarming and had a lovely message
idk all her decisions were pretty questionable/impulsive ngl.
Like she hears about her ex going to Japan so she immediately books a 2-week trip there? She spends 36 hours with a guy on the other side of the world and decides he's her boyfriend? She dates him for ONE year and they get married?
Amazing story! And japan is amazing as well
Ius and The Foods It is! Bet it was one of the best choices she made in her life 😁
Ius and The Foods No China #1 japan gay
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This video is one of my favorite this series. I love that she booked a trip to Japan for herself, and received so much clarity and hope afterwards.
More importantly,what happened to her dad??
Nia S. Exactly
She said they found out his tumour was benign so he's ok
It was from type one
Did u not see the video?
exactly i didnt rlly understand it whem they said it was benign
You have no idea how much I needed this video right now. The parallel of what’s going on in my life right now and what you were going through during the time you were in Japan is striking. I’m constantly wondering and worrying about if I’m going to find ‘the one’ and I literally was just sobbing about my fathers declining health when I decided to go onto RUclips to distract myself for a little while and this is the first video that pops up on the home page. I’m so happy your father is okay and that you found your person, thank you for sharing thus with us. This honestly gives me so much hope.
I wanna go Japan and explore the Pokemon centre
Ishan Ali I’ve been there it was amazing!!
Lol me n hubby said that!
*SAME*
Same but for me I will also be exploring One Piece everything!
Yo wtf i see you EVERYWHERE
i was worried about her dad more than her and josh
I went to Japan and I completely fell in love with the country. I truly admire the culture, the history, and the people. The trains are all in great condition, everyone is so kind, the culture is fascinating, and the food is amazing. I started learning Japanese after I went two years ago and I hope to live there for a little one day. If you ever have the opportunity to go to Japan, go, because you won't regret it at all.
To the *2%* of people who randomly see this comment...
Have a wonderful day and God bless!
Willy's Toys you too!!
You too
I hate you
213%
You too is great that there is still people like you
RIP to the “friend” PAT.. @4:04
My husband and I always wanted to go to Japan since the first time we met. We lost his sister to stomach cancer a few months ago which sparked us to finally book out trip to Japan. We just got back and it was an amazing experience. Life is short so enjoy every moment you can.♥️
Sending lots of prayers & healing for your dad! 😭💕
Welll me mother had cancer when I was 7 years old. I am ten now. She has no more cancer
😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
That's great
That's so great and awesome I feel happy for you!!😘💛❤️💖
haha... my dad died from cancer when i was 4..
Great god bless :>
@@zoe-xj6jy o
I usually don't comment but on this one I had to. Such an awesome story, so happy for how your dad is cancer free and how you were able to find true love and not just found it but actually act on it! Favorite video ever.
Japan has a beautiful culture and beautiful people.
WHY DO I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE?
Theodora Potterhead its potential
I see you everywhere wth !!!
Who else would love to visit Japan? 🇯🇵 🙋🏻♀️
Alexandra Mei no one
Meeeeeeee 🙋
Meeee..been wanting to go for 16 years😓😭
Alexandra Mei I’m a little too black to go 🤠
billie eilish’s eyelashes Me too.
What a brilliant story! We went to all those places in Kyoto too, so we really understood your story. What a strong character you are and you're very inspirational.
Are you a Travel Agent?
Krista Lajoy We’re RUclipsrs lol
Awwwe I feel so bad for her father, I also have a grandmother who died of cancer, I hope your father feels better!
SUCH AWESOME STORY!!!!!
So happy to hear about your dad's recovery and true love of course ;)
Awwww!!!You made me cry. My mother was also sick from complications from diabetes.She passed away on October 21st of 2018.She developed chronic kidney disease and a rare blood cancer. As a result of her refusing to get dialysis. She was a woman of Jesus Christ.We grew up Methodist.I'm glad that you found love and my sincerest condolences for the loss of your dad.Praying for you and your family. Beautiful story.
i thought she was gonna say "i hope the one thing you can take away from this video is to do the same, GO TO JAPAN"
I initially did say that but it didn't feel like a realistic tip as not everyone could afford to go to Japan. So I wanted to go with believing in love because that's something we can all do even though it can be hard to do.
Congrates! from Japan. But please make it sure that you've got hapiness is not just because you came to Japan, you became very positive by yourself and tried to get your life better.
It's your effort. You made your life so happy by yourself.
Hope you keep your life so happy for ever and visit Japan again with your husband together.
Shout out to man pat who went all the way to japan to hit that and got friend zoned.
undefinedxandr lmaooo
Honestly, people who think platonic relationships between men and women can't exist are pathetic
What a beautiful ending to an amazing story! I got chills from watching this I'm so happy your dad is doing well. I wish you and Josh the best! You guys look cute together!!
Thanks Buzzfeed! You never disappoint. (Now with correct spelling!)
SOOOOOOO GOOOOOD!! I am speachless!! I love it!! And love the fact that you shared your story!! That was awesome!! All the best wishes to you, your dad, Josh and the rest who you care the most!!
I love this girl. She needs to be in more videos!!
I love it when Buzzfeed does these stories. They need to do more.
Dammit , I was not prepared for the engagement and marriage. That's so cute!!
This is so sweet. I cried! So glad everything worked out. Like a fairytale! ❤️😍😢
I want to visit Japan and Canada when I am older
Knight Slasher same
If you come to canada, just don't come in winter xD we have -40°C and it is horrible to experience xD
Mariebesonozaki I agree, it’s why I go south in the winter
@@marieebesonozaki lol trying to scare her off?
-40 is only in some parts of Canada :) you'd have more fun in the summer tho for sure
Videos like this are why I continue to support buzzfeed!
$750 for a round trip to Japan? Last time I checked it was $1,100
Queenwith5000subs Star I bought my round trip tickets to Tokyo for $716. Had to buy them 1 year in advance to get that deal though and we leave in May 2019 😁
It depends on the time of year that you fly.
Kimberly Cummings wow! Enjoy your trip
My tix were $516 USD roundtrip! These types of deals pop up from time to time.
Queenwith5000subs Star awe! Thank you! 😊
I love these buzz feed story’s
Alright I'm definitely definitely going to Kyoto when i go to Japan
I love this story!! I'm so happy her dad is well and I'm happy she found true love. This gives me hope 🥰 Cheers to finding love!!
I love this story...so inspiring
This year i went to my first solo trip to Japan. It was amazing, I learned to be social and I met so many amazing people. Almost everyday I hung out with new friends. With Japanese people, travellers, even a couple who owns a café in rural Japan. It was amazing to meet so many strangers and make memories. I also learned to have fun by myself. To just go out and enjoy spending a whole day doing whatever I wanted. I can't wait to go back in a few years.
Was feeling fine, I swear! Then watched this video & cried SO HARD through the whole thing!!! I don't even understand what happened with my emotions :-P
Went to Japan in mai. People are so proper its ridiculous! Its just sooo fun and out of this world
who's been to Japan and who hasn't
like if you have
like if you haven't
lol
lol
If*
I live in Japan lol
lol
lol
My step mother has stage 4 colon cancer. She's only 48. Last week we finally went to Paris and London, we all prayed for her to be cured and we lit candles in Notre Dame and Westminister Abbey. 2 days after we got home she had a PET scan. All of the tumors in her liver were gone, now she only has 1 left in her colon and she might be having illeostomy reversal surgery in a few weeks!!! Im not a spiritual person but wow.
Don’t give up on love. 💓
Damn... The speed and desperation of that rebound though... Glad the dad is okay, I hope your relationship can last, it seems to have had a 'fling' start and those are hard to keep going long term so best of wishes to you and yours!
Awww so happy for you
I'm literally crying... That was a beautiful story
Anyone else found it odd that she went to a Shinto Buddhist temple & prayed to a Judeo-Christian God? If you believe that's what saved your father's life then perhaps it's time to convert from Baptist to Buddhist.
So if you pray to God at Walmart, Walmart saved your dad? You pray to whoever, wherever. When Spanish colonizers forced Christianity on Maya people, sometimes they'd hide their idols inside Christian crosses and pray to them inside Christian churches. Where you pray doesnt matter, a church or a temple is just a place. It's what you believe that matters.
Lol. You make a good point. I took my shoes off and followed other customs depending on the temple. So I wasn't like "YO GOD you hear me up here?" Haha! Definitely tried to remain respectful.
According to the Bible, God is everywhere.
I thought it was weird too, but then I realized she’s just progressive. It’s so much better to be open to other cultures than being super conservative and denying everything that’s not in the Bible. I know a few American missionaries in Japan, and I’m kinda scared of them. They HATE shrines and temples. One of them even said she once pretended praying at a shrine out of pressure, and she suffered so much from that huge sin she committed.
God doesn’t exist wake up
Just the video I needed. Going through a rough time. Got myself tickets to Tokyo aswell. Im here now, went to sensoji shrine and got a good fortune after making a wish for happiness. I started crying right there. Now only two days left here, wish I could find true love too 😝
Didnt wanna watch cause crying in thumbnail but then Japan! This was a great story turns out 🥰🥰🥰
RUclips needs stronger emojis. Like isn’t good enough. I LOVED this story. Congratulations on finding Love. I spent 3 months there in an exchange program after graduating high school and now that I am 47 and without a love companion in my life, maybe a trip back is overdue.
RIP Pat a fallen soldier
This is one of the best ones BuzzFeed has ever posted. Am definitely sharing. :)
Oh that's amazing I'm so happy for you and your family God bless you you had faith in God that everything is working out amen God bless your union
That was actually a nice love story, I hope the best for them!
4:28 I literally thought she just said “because he’s also a Nazi!”
Meee too lel
That was like a sense from the movie, it's amazing, you guys are the best.
I really want to go to Japan!!!!!!
Lilly Myers go. Save up money and go
Lilly Myers you never will
I've just been to Kyoto last month. Kyoto is AMAZING, Kiyomizu-dera is AMAZING, basically everything Japan is AMAZING.
Tokyo: land of the rising sun
Texas: land of the setting sun
okay this is possibly the sweetest story ever
I was looking at the thumbnail and was like " why you cryin'?!"
this story is so beautiful I lowkey teared up
Seeing the thumbnail. 'Welcome to Lijiang tower'.
Mathew JV next stop hanamura
ok but why am i crying. this is the cutest thing ever
RIP PAT
okay by far the best video on buzzfeed this is my story im crying
byeeeee i'm heading to japan
i’m honestly happy for you
But what happened with her dad?!?
Marsh xD will we ever know
I needed that shot of positivity, love, and happiness!! Thanks for sharing your awesome story!
that seems a bit insane. Who books a trip just because there ex did?
OH MY GOD THIS IS THE BEST ONE YET CONGRATULATIONS ON LOVE AND MIRACLES 💞
So like is the dad okay?
nsxivc no
Yeah the tumor was benign
No lie, this just gave me so much hope. I feel like trying more thanks to this
Let’s give a moment of silence for pat.
That wedding dress is so unique I love it!
I luv u buzzfeed
Such a beautiful story💓I’m so sorry that happened to your dad!
all the JAPANESE men in japan and she went for the tourist.....ok
There's a ton a single men and women in Japan. No one is hooking up over there it seems.
What's the big deal if they're Japanese or not
This shii made to heartbroken as soon as she cryed
Did you guys catch instead of oncologist she said onocoligist?
GUILTY! I have a tendency of mispronouncing certain words. My team at BuzzFeed is very amused by it. My 2019 resolution is to get better at it! XO
I'm currently in Melbourne, Australia, by myself and this story has really given me hope...
4:12 can we get an F for my mans Pat?
I love Japan! It's amazing, but not just Tokyo. The outskirts of the country with the mountains and ancient castles and tea houses are the places to go.
NOW I HAVE TO TRAVEL TO WALK TO THAT DAMN STONE!!!!
Love the fact that you found your true love in my country 💛