짝사랑을 한다는 이 감정 그리 로맨틱하지는 않은거 같아요 그 사람이 날 봐주고 그 사람도 날 좋아할꺼란 착각 딱 그 감정이 생기면 로맨틱하다고 착각하는 것이죠 하지만, 저의 짝사랑은 걸레처럼 쓸모없어요 그 사람은 제게 자신의 짝사랑을 털어놓아요, 들을때마다 가슴이 찢어질듯 아프지만 티 내서는 안되요 그 사람이 알게된다면 나를 피하고 자신의 마음을 털어놓지 않을꺼에요, 그래서 항상 참았어요 들어주고 그 사람의 짝사랑 상대의 나쁜면을 은근쓸쩍 이야기 해보고 혼자 욕도 해봤어요 그래도 달라지는건 그 사람이 다른사람을 짝사랑하는 마음의 크기 그러던 찰나에 그 사람의 짝사랑은 끝이 났어요, 전 너무나도 기뻤죠 근데 그 사람은 슬퍼했어요, 왜? 난 여기 있는데 나는 봐주지 않는거야? 나는 너에게 사랑받을수 없는거야? 평생? 이러한 질문을 속에 품었어요, 그러던중 그 사람에 친구에게 털어놓았어요 그 동안의 나의 짝사랑, 근데 그 친구가 자신이 그 사람과 썸을 탄다고 해요 정말 미안하다고 말 안하면 더 상처일꺼 같다고 그 날 난 미친듯이 울었어요, 세상이 모두 끝난 사람처럼 모르는게 나았겠다고 생각했어요, 왜 난 눈치 채지 못했을까요 내 짝사랑은 이젠 정말 걸레짝처럼 너덜너덜하고 슬퍼도 눈물도 더 이상 나지 않는, 그런 사람이 되게 만들었어요 그런데도 그 사람을 포기할수 없는 이유는, 그 사람을 사랑하는 예쁜 나의 모습 때문인거 같아요 그 사람을 짝사랑하고 난 뒤부터 사람들이 예뻐졌다고 해요 그 사람은 눈치도 못채겠지만 많은 노력을 했어요 그 노력이 물거품 될꺼 같다는 생각에 포기하지 못하는거 같아요 짝사랑 하는 이 감정, 비참해요 짝사랑을 하고 오래 지난 지금 난 자존감이 많이 떨어져있고 나를 비난하고 망상하게 해요 그런데도 그를 포기하는건 나를 포기하는거란 생각이 들어서 차마 그것만큼은 못하겠어요, 짝사랑을 하고 있을 많은 사람들이 알아줬으면 해요 내가 제일 소중하지만 짝사랑하는 사람의 입장에선 듣지도 않을 이 말 그 사람 날 좋아하지 않는다면 포기해요, 그러지 않으면 난 저 끝까지 나를 끌어내릴꺼에요, 내가 그랬어요 슬퍼도 눈물도 안나고 주변사람들에게 무관심해지고 그 사람에게만 잘해주고 , 잘 된다면 좋겠지만 난 그러지 않더라구요 언제나 내가 가장 중요한거지만 모두 짝사랑하고 있는 입장이라면, 한번쯤은 나를 바닥으로 끌어내리는 사랑을 해보는것도 좋은거 같아요 그러니 이걸 보고있는 당신들의 짝사랑 응원해요 전 이미 걸레 같은 짝사랑을 마무리할 준비를 하고있지만요.
짝사랑 초반에는 이게 짝사랑인지도 알아채지 못할 만큼 이 사람을 좋아하는 마음이 엄청 부풀기만 해서 매일, 매순간 머릿 속에 그애가 떠돌아다닐 때 쯤 갑자기 어느 순간 띵하면서 아... 나 얘 좋아하네... 이러고 더 본격적으로 좋아하기 시작함. 난 아침에 알람이 울리기도 전에 눈이 떠지고 학교 가기전 준비하는 과정이 너무나도 설레이고 학교가는 길이 그렇게 좋았다? 학교 가면 그 애를 만날 수 있었으니까. 등굣길이 좋았다니... 으. 말도 많고 장난도 많이 치던 내가 그 애 앞에만 서면 고장나고 말도 안 하고 눈도 제대로 못 마주치고 엄청 조용해지고, 민초 절대 싫어하던 내가 그 애가 민초 좋아한다고 하니까 매일 민초 가방에 넣어서 학교 가져가고, 동아리 활동 잘 안 했던 내가 그애가 있는 동아리에 매일 참석하고. 이렇게 좋아하는 티가 엄청 나서 내 주변 친구들도, 걔도 처음부터 다 알고 있었다네 ㅋㅋㅋ 새벽까지 문자하고 통화하고, 침대에 누워서 이불을 끌어 당긴채 엄청나게 쿵쾅거리던 심장소리가 들릴까 손으로 가슴 누르고 그애 목소리 듣고 있고. 근데 지금와서 생각해 보니 짝사랑이든 뭐든 타이밍이 참 중요한거 같아. 나 혼자 좋아하고 설레이고 웃고 울고, 결국엔 아무것도 되돌아 오지 않아서 겨우겨우 맘 정리 다 하고 드디어 괜찮아졌을때 친구에게서 들은 말이: "야 개도 너 처음 부터 좋아했다는데?" ... 이미 맘정리 다 끝나고 더이상 아무런 감정도 남지 않았는데 이제와서 무슨. 19년 동안 살면서 인생 처음으로 누구를 좋아해 본거 였는데, 뭔가... 누군가를 좋아하니까 내가 진짜 살아있고 심장이 이렇게 빨리 뛸수도 있구나라는걸 깨닳았고, 그 애를 좋아했던 시간들이 아프기도 했지만 어떻게 보면 참 빛나기도 했던거 같아. 누군가를 그렇게 열정적으로 좋아하고 오르지 그 사람만을 위한 감정들은 그때의 나만이 느끼고 할 수 있었던 감정들과 행동들 이였으니까 참 소중하지. 에휴... 하고 싶은 멀 참 많은데 여기서 이러면 뭐하나... 잠이나 자야겠다.
When I was in high school I had a crush on this boy. Before I ever talked to him, a friend of mine asked me if I knew this guy that went by a silly nickname. If you're wondering what I said in response, I think the better question would be who didn't. What I knew at an arms length was that this boy was loud, he was obnoxious, and so very confident. He'd run around the cafeteria, classrooms, and hallways begging people to stream the music he made. He wore funny clothes and bleached his hair spontaneously. And, admittedly, I thought he was a little kooky but I really admired him for how sure of himself he was. Somehow we ended up in the same social circle and one day we started talking. We found out that we went to the same pre-school together and I just never realized it was him. The conversation wasn't long but we bonded over the fact that we actually knew each other for a long time in a sense. Whenever he was around others you could just see how people gravitated towards him, like moths to light. He could liven up any room he walked in. So time passes and after getting aquatinted with each other better through friend groups I was curious and gave his music a listen. It wasn't anything special, but it was the beginning of something exciting and you could obviously see he had both talent and potential. The following year we ended up in the same math class and that's when we became proper friends. Of course, he continued plugging his music wherever he went and as it was high school, some people were bound to judge and mock. It always made me so upset when people would laugh at or make fun of him because you know they would never allow themselves to as live freely as he did. As angry as it made me, he would just let all of it roll off his back like he never even knew what they'd said or done. That just showed what I really loved about him. We'd always chat away in class, such fun and effortless conversations, the teacher even had to change our seats because we talked too much. He'd just make you feel so comfortable when you talked to him, no judgment. He'd make you feel like the funniest person in the world. Another friend of mine that was in the same class would always ask if we were dating, so maybe our chemistry wasn't as deluded as I'd thought. She'd ask and ask but I could just never admit that I had a crush. When COVID hit and school went remote we used to talk frequently over DM's, but then the messages started to fizzle out. It went from a few times every week, to once a week, to once a month, and then nothing. I remember always telling him how talented he was, probably every time we spoke. Though, I don't think he ever knew that my words were deep and genuine. Fast forwarding to senior prom and graduation, a long while since we last talked, we'd catch glimpses of each other throughout both of those nights. His hair was long and no longer bleached and brassy, his sense of style changed, and his music was completely different from before. Despite all these changes you could just tell he was the same without him having to even lift a finger, I don't know why but I am very sure of this. I knew that he saw me and he knew that I saw him but now we were strangers and neither of us approached one another. Now I'm in college, still thinking about him from time to time. I don't care about the dating, I'm actually not even sure if he liked me back. I just wish I could have expressed to him how special of a person he really was. I know that one day he will make it big, and I will always admire him even if it's from the background, just like before we started talking.
@RandomPasserby OnTheInternet isn't love so weird? It's the thing that can make us so happy but often times it's the same thing that saddens us the most
짝사랑이 나쁘다고 생각해 본 적 없다. 내 맘대로 널 해석하고, 매일 밤 내 꿈속에 널 초대할 수 있어서 하루 종일 네 뒤통수만 보다 헤어져도 괜찮다 더 가까이 가면, 내가 만든 네 세계가 깨져버릴 것만 같아서 네가 만든 노란 목도리의 주인이 한번도 나라고 생각해 본 적 없다 넌 내가 무슨 색을 좋아하는 줄도 모를테니, 그래도, 가끔 니가 뒤 돌아 웃을 때면 난 또 내 맘대로 해석하게 돼... 자꾸만, 걸음을 좁히게 돼 우산 쓴 너의 옆자리가 내 자리가 아니라는 걸 알면서도 그냥 가끔, 조금 서운할 뿐이야.
Being on the other side of unrequited love also sucks...maybe not as badly. But especially if you're mature, gone through something similar, and/or can empathize, you feel bad that you can't reciprocate the affection someone has for you. But at the same time, you know you don't feel it and can't force things.
These feelings can evolve overtime. I forced myself to be with her because I knew I should be lucky to have someone who loves me, because I have been there as well and didn't want to do the same mistake my ex did. It took a year but I developped feelings for her
@@varsa507 it can be for people.. But some people u just don't feel at all.. If i m being neutral and if i find someone who like me.. I will fall for him too
정말 누군가를 매번 좋아하고 사랑에 빠지지만, 이번만큼은 그러고 싶지않아요. 나도 이 항상 이 감정의 끝이 무엇을 보여주었는지 알기에. 하지만 널 눈에 담을 때마다 이러지 말아야지 하면서도 내 마음은 왜 내가 조절할 수 없을까 내 마음은 원망해도 너무 멋진 넌 원망할 수가 없다. 그냥 그 자리에서 항상 빛나줘, 나는 그런 널 이 마음이 문들어질 때까지 짝사랑으로 남겠지. 단지 네가 누군가의 애인이 되었다는 소식, 그거하나만 내게 닿지 않았으면 해..
you know I kinda miss having a crush... because I would spend hours of my time thinking about them or getting really shy when they come close to me, well now...I just think about all the problems in my life and feel sad and feel empty. It’s sad when you find out someone doesn’t like you back but I think it’s more sad when you keep feeling empty and useless.
yes i miss blushing whenever was around them or getting butterflies or falling asleep thinking about them. everything feels much more lonely without that fantasy of what could be with them:(
그냥 어느날 복도를 지나가는데 엄청 작고 이쁘장한 애가 지나가더라. 처음엔 우리 학교에 저런 애가 있었나 싶어서 궁금한 마음으로 널 지켜봤는데 네가 짓는 눈웃음이 너무 예뻐서 행동 하나하나가 다 귀여워서 점점 어느 순간부터 네가 신경 쓰이고 좋아하게 된 것 같애. 너는 되게 조용한 아이였고 순수하고 너무 착해서 널 아껴주고 지켜주고 싶다는 생각만 가득해서 아무 것도 못하고 짝사랑이 끝나버렸는데 지금은 잘 살고 있으려나 다시 널 본다면 꼭 말하고 싶어 많이 좋아했다고. 눈 웃음 정말 예뻤다고.
I’ve never had unrequited love. I’ve never even been in love. But I long for the feeling, the feeling of wanting to be loved and wanting to love someone just as much. They say love comes in many different ways, friendship, family, and of course, real love. But I don’t think I’ve ever felt truly loved in either of these ways. Friends drifted apart after graduation, family only expect you to be successful and pressure you into supporting them more then they support you, never getting the chance to experience real love because I always knew I would never be more than a friend. So I avoided love because I couldn’t find it. Maybe this is a unrequited love. Longing for it but never getting it because the universe wouldn’t allow it. Or maybe because I’m a coward to admit how I feel. Somehow, I still have a little bit of hope that I can love and be loved back.
몰래 좋아하는것과 몰래 사랑하는건 확실히 다르다. 몰래 좋아한다는건, 말하자면 내 감정을 주체할 수가 없는거다. 그 애의 좋은점을 알고, 더 가까이 다가가고싶고..갖고싶은. 뭐 그런 애틋하고 싱그러운 감정. 그게 좋아하는거다. 몰래 사랑한다는건 바꿔서 이야기하면 언제든 그 아이를 놓아줄 수 있다는 것과 같다. 그 애가 무엇을, 누구를 좋아하는지 아플만큼 누구보다 잘 알고 있으니까. 그 아이는 마치 햇살처럼 웃는다고, 우린 그것을 알고 있으니까. 그저 그 애가 한번만 더 내 앞에서 햇살같길 바라며, 마지막까지 그 아이의 행복을 빌며 놓아주는 것. 그럼에도 한동안은 마르지 않을 눅눅한 감정이 바로 몰래 사랑하는 마음이다.
i don’t understand even a word of these comments but i read that the title means “one sided love” so i hope everyone here finds their special someone to make them feel happy and if not i truly hope you find inner peace and self love because loving yourself is the most precious love anyone can have. you’re all so beautiful and loved already💞
Ty, I hope u find someone special for u too ^-^ (if u didn't in the moment im writing this) also ur english is good ;) (its not my first language too, but I still think its good:') )
I have a story to share. Just finished 10th grade and going to Senior High this August but this was during the last 6-7 weeks of my recently implemented face-to-face method in school. I was just having fun acting like a friend with my 2-year-long crush (female, I'm a man, 6-day age gap just so there'll be no calls for concern) until one day, after school, we texted until it became night and then she asked me a daring question that I wasn't expecting. She asked me if I still had feelings for her, in which, yes, I did. And the reason why is because she was ready to accept my feelings and try enjoying life with me but with an agreeable stage of mutual understanding, since she had strict parents. So, of course, we did, we talked everyday, we discussed about our futures in a smaller scale, talked about our dislikes, likes, similarities, differences, and so on and so forth. Our relationship as M.U (mutual understanding) were surprisingly VERY stable and so happy, with no arguments at all. I was really looking forward to spend the rest of my long life with her until one morning, after a long and good dream about being with her, She sent me a letter in text regarding breaking up. Of course this was super unexpected, I was in absolute shock. I began questioning why but I realized that she was ignoring my messages because I was archived (yes, I know her behaviour). After a full month and 11 days, it was over. Just like that. She told me the reason why, and it was because she didn't really have any feelings of romantic love but only infatuation. Mind you love and infatuation is different, and I felt my heart ultimately shatter into pieces until there was nothing left. I had to make a letter for her sent by a friend of mine so we could have a talk discussing about this. I tried to convince her this wasn't really a good decision but I eventually had to let go because it was just finalized. One day I was thinking about sharing stories when I'm old about how I found my wife and then it just all went down to the gutter like it was just all a dream. It was truly devastating. My mother found my face wet from tears as I went down the stairs emotionless to make myself a hot cup of Milo to distract myself. She tried to comfort me but I just wasn't having any of it. I respect her so much to the point that my loyalty to her was unshaken and she was still valuable to me more than a crystal gem. Love in today's society is like a beautiful book that uncovers a deathly curse to someone who dares to read it. Please remember that she isn't a bad person at all. I regard her as beautiful, spectacular, very kind, and a genius as well. I don't like to see comments talking negative things about the people I cherish. Let's remain civilized, and thank you. And Janelle, if you're reading this, I'm still here and I still love you from the bottom of my heart.
@@erammap4131 All the best to you too. Actually, I was also writing a novel documenting about the experiences of my life but with a change in era and character. I've been writing it for her but since we're no longer together I might as well just write it until I think it's ready to end and publish it to the public. Thanks to her, I've been aspiring to become a writer, and now I'll, well, eventually bloom in this dream because she was my inspiration to do so. Funny how I actually shared this for no related reason. Focusing on, people just, really are unpredictable and I can understand why. I guess I'll probably wait until she has changed her mind for the right time (I know, I'm kind of obsessive which is bad, but do consider that I don't want to be with anyone else other than her) or just live the rest of my life alone. That's what I chose as my fate, to be honest. But, the future shall tell.
I love how pure your love is. You're like a water flowing that's so clear finding its spring, so don't go somewhere you will get there anytime soon. Also don't just look in the same direction you might miss something. Fighting though! 👍✊
A short story to add - I’m currently in college and have fallen hard for this girl that lives in my dorm. She’s the embodiment of glowing and every time I see her she always looks pretty and has a perfect smile on her face. We’re in the same math lecture and we study together often, and through this I’ve learned a lot about her life. Every time we study we always end up laughing together or occasionally exchanging stories. I would do a lot for her, even though I truly don’t know her that well. I feel so nervous to try to reach out more and form a deeper relationship. It’s scary. The fear of rejection, even from someone you may not really know that well. And I think this girl will never reciprocate, but without asking there’s never any way of knowing. I fear losing what small but amazing friendship we have to time and I don’t know what to do. This may be different than many of the other stories but this playlist still speaks to me
I would say fuck it and just do it it’s just like you said if you don’t say anything you’ll never know don’t flat out tell her i love you because that might be too much just ask her out on a date and see how it goes if the first date goes well go on more and eventually ask her to be your girlfriend even though you like her don’t over pursue I made that mistake and ended up pushing her away
Just tell her it’s not too late bro what really could go wrong like she ain’t gonna cut your neck after that the most she can do is reject you and that’s it you guys can still be friends
Remember that she is not the only woman who can make you feel this way, she's just the first. She may reject you or things might not turn out, but that you found one means you can find another. Do not harden your heart, rejection will come and rejection will go. Pain is only temporary. Meet as many people as you can. For a lover love comes easy, do not be afraid to be a lover. Do not close off your heart to the world.
You’ve hung out with her a lot and u know a lot about her. Why not ask her to hang out with you and get to know each other better through friendship? When people connect with each other they build a bond. And through that you can tell her how you feel. Your love for her doesn’t have to be romantic if you know that love is really something you want for the both of you to be with each other regardless of what kind it is. Time is never perfect for you. You might never know when it will be the day to tell her. You may fear that this wouldn’t be the perfect time, but, inside you would feel that we haven’t connected yet, I don’t think I can tell them. But yet I know eventually, they will find someone else I don’t. There isn’t a perfect answer for that problem. Just like there isn’t a simple equation for love. It’s complicated. Like everything else in life. This is what I would’ve have done but whatever u do it’s ur choice and u can do it however you want. But if we’re really longing to connect with someone and have them in mine and their life, I would tell them that of how I feel. And that regardless of how it works out or not, I want to connect with them as a person and would want them to do that with me if they were willing to connect with me. And no matter how it turns out if it is romantic, platonic, or it doesn’t at all, I would still like to get to know them. For who they truly are. You already know that time would move on even if you don’t make that decision. What are you waiting for then? The fear to go away? The perfect moment? Your self doubt? That is valid. How you feel of that. But what would happen if you did try? It may not be either of what you expect or fear. So then, Why don’t you give it a go? Wouldn’t you like to try?
Since people are sharing their own experiences, I thought I should share mine just to get it off my chest. I don’t know if anybody will read this, but if you are, thank you. Well, it all started last year at the beginning of second semester. I had a class that was only one semester, so it changed to PE after the first semester was over. We were doing laps around the gym when this guy came up to me and just started talking. Neither of us had any friends in that classes, and I guess he was just bored. I have always struggled making friends in school so I was immediately drawn to him and his personality. We ended up sitting together every day we had PE and complaining about how boring that class was, but in reality I looked forward to it every day. I obviously was catching feelings for him, but since the past year had been all virtual with no contact to anyone I forgot what having a crush felt like. After months of this, I started to think about telling him. (Oh, and for context, we also had algebra together but had assigned seats and didn’t sit together.) So one day in algebra, I saw everybody staring at him while he walked in the door, smiling. I heard people whispering at him, and it didn’t take long to realize he had started dating another girl in that class. I couldn’t cry in front of everyone, but it was so hard not to. After school ended, I ran and tripped down the stairs, which just added salt to the wound. In PE, I would talk with him about it and how happy I was for him. It was so hard trying to act normal after that. Eventually they broke up, and while it gave me a new sort of hope, I started loosing feelings. Summer started quickly after and I didn’t talk to him much. I remember the first day of school this year, I was going to my art class and as I walked in I saw him sitting at a table, smiling and telling me to sit next to him. I sat down and we talked the entire period. He ended up making new friends from the people sitting behind us and the four of us would talk the entire class. I’m pretty sure our art teacher doesn’t like us because of how loud we are, but I don’t mind. Two weeks ago I heard the people behind us talking about this other girl, and how cute her and him looked together. I sort of thought there was hope this year. I thought maybe, maybe this time I could make him like me. But nope. They haven’t started dating yet, but I know he will never think of me as anything more than a friend. I just feel such a lump in my throat that won’t go away, and I don’t know how to make it go away. I love everything about him. Well, maybe I will edit this comment in a few months for an update, who knows. If you read all of this, thanks for listening to my dumb little story. [[ JANUARY 2023 EDIT: first of all, wow this got wayyy more likes than i expected!! to think that over 1.5 thousand people read this is crazy. well i thought this deserved an update, so here it is. my feelings towards him are no longer what they used to be. he is in a good relationship and it has taken a while to get to the point i am now where i truly do not care. i am simply happy that he is happy. this crush taught me a lot and i hope that in the future, when i develop feelings for somebody new, i'll have that courage to take a chance. i've gotten much more confident since last year, and even since originally writing this comment so who knows. i still have that same art class with him and laugh like i used to, but i think any pressure or nervousness i once felt is gone. it's only been about 3 months since i wrote my original comment, so i'm sure there is lots more to come for me and i'm excited for when that happens, whatever it may be :). ]]
I have a feeling he does like you more than a friend. But is too shy to tell you since y’all are friends. He’ll swing around sooner or later. I hope it works out for you guys! 😊
I’m inclined to believe Hachi. It’s entirely possible he feels the same way but is instead going for other girls to “avoid” you. Perhaps because he’s nervous. Well, take this with a grain of salt because I don’t know the entire situation. Just no matter what, always be honest with yourself and with him :)
It actually matches the vibe of the playlist lol like an anime i once watched,just super chill. But yeah, looking forwrd to hearing you get the love you deserve someday
제가 가장 좋아하는 플리인데 어느새 댓글창을 외국인들이 다 먹어버렸네요 허허… 아주 가끔 너무 공허해서 울고싶은데 눈물조차 나지 않을 때 이 노래들을 찾아 들어오곤 합니다 요샌 유독 그런 날이 많은 것 같아요 남의 사랑에 아파하고 안달내는 내가 너무 우습네요 모든 사랑들이 낱낱이 공개되었으면 좋겠어요 모두가 서로의 사랑을 전부 알았으면 좋겠어요 내가 그들의 생각을 읽을 수 있다면 정말 좋겠어요. 다신 돌아올 수 없는 사람들인걸 잘 알지만 마음 한켠에선 어쩔 수 없는 희망이 여전합니다. 이렇게 계속 나의 꿈을 되내이다 보면 죽기 전에는 한번쯤 찾아오겠죠 불가항력으로 나는, 필사적으로 나는 그들이 그들의 씬으로 돌아오는 상상을 합니다 그런 믿을을 갖습니다 될 리가 없다는 생각과 언젠간 오겠지 하는 생각이 내면에서 하루가 멀다하고 다툽니다. 그들의 재림을 기다립니다. 얼마 남지 않은 올해 나의 생일 소원도 어김없이 그들의 복귀입니다.
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currently listening to the playlist and feeling nostalgic. my room was so quiet when i played the first song, that i noticed it actually matched my heartbeat.
I just read this comment and checked my heartbeat while playing the first song, and the song matches my heartbeat too! Perhaps it was because we had the same state of mind while listening to it, so we had the same heart rate? Our hearts have beat to the same tune, and there’s something poetic about that. Thanks for sharing that comment, it made me smile :)
2년전에 짝사랑하던애랑 잘 안되서 이 영상노래들으면서 댓글보면서 울었던게 생각나네.. 지금 생각해보면 별 감정 없지만 정말 그때는 혼자 좋아하고 설레고 질질짜고 슬퍼하고 그랬는데… 하지만 그만큼 좋은 추억이였고 내 인생에서 못 잊을 사람인것같음..가끔씩은 내 생각하면 가볍게 피식하면서 웃어 넘겼음 좋겠다.. 고마워 이런 아름다운 추억 남겨줘서 좋아했어
순간이 평생을 살게한다. 그 시절 힘들고 사랑받고싶던 나에게 너는 한 줄기의 빛과 같았고, 정말 사막의 오아시스같았다. 니가 나에게 보여주던 미소, 웃음은 밝은 여름 날 태양보다 더 밝았고 그 어떤 비보다 시원하게 나의 갈증을 해결해 주었다. 돌아갈 수 없는 그때 그 시절, 그때의 너, 그리고 그때의 나. 모든 것이 소중하고 또 소중하던 그때. 그 때 그 순간이 자꾸 날 살게 해. 지금이 아니라 그 때를. 이제 다시 현재를 살아야겠지? 미련은 버리고.. 진짜 좋아했다..하ㅛㅅㅂ 새벽감성 오지네ㅠㅠ 4년 짝사랑 이제 그만할래
좋아하던 놈이 있었는데 내가 어렸을 때부터 시력이 안 좋았어서 두꺼운 안경을 끼고다녔음 너무 예전이라 기억도 잘 안 나는데 더러워진 안경을 닦으려고 벗을 때면 좋아하던 놈을 포함해서 몇몇 남자애들이 못생겼다고 놀리곤 했음. 되게 상처였는데 어쩔 때는 또 그렇게라도 그 남자애한테 관심을 받는다는 게 좋았었음. 어느날은 그냥 가만히 앉아있는데 내가 좋아하던 놈이 와서 안경 좀 벗어보라고 징징거렸음 근데 안경만 벗으면 못생겼다고 하는 게 너무 짜증나고 속상해서 절대 안 벗을 거라고 했었는데 그때 그 놈 옆에 걔랑 성씨가 같은 놈이 하나 더 있었는데 가만히 보고만 있다가 나한테 와서는 안경을 벗어달라 그랬음. 걔는 내가 안경 벗는다고 놀린 적도 없었고 뜬금없이 그러니까 난 당황해서 너도 나 못생겼다고 놀리려고 그러지?! 라면서 괜히 짜증을 부렸었음. 솔직히 별로 관심도 없었고 그닥 친했던 애도 아니었는데 걔가 스쳐가듯 했던 별 거 아닌 그 말이 아직도 잊히지가 않음. 예뻐서. 예뻐서 벗어달라는 거야 안경을. 근데 난 그런 말을 남자애한테 들어본 적이 없어서 당황도 했었고 엄청 부끄러워서 싫다면서 결국 안경 안 벗어줬거든. 근데 삼일인가 얼마 안 있고 다른 학교로 전학 갔더라. 내가 그 애를 좋아했던 것도 아니고 걔도 그냥 스쳐가듯이 했던 말인데 그날따라 많이 속상했었거든 좋아하던 놈 때문에? 그래서 그런 걸까 잊혀지지가 않더라. 난 걔 번호도 몰랐고 성격도 워낙 소극적이어서 그 후로 언락도 못 해봤지. 그냥... 이렇게 가끔 생각나더라. 아쉽기도 했고, 전학 가고나서 한동안 걔 생각 좀 많이 했었거든. 너 전학 가고나서 한참은 좋아했었다.. 초등학교 저학년 때 일이라 기억도 안 나고 유치하긴한데 그냥 가끔 생각나고 아쉬웠어 너가 전학 안 갔으면 말이라도 더 걸어봤을까
진짜로 딱 저랑 비슷한 상황 ㅜㅠㅠ 3년을 바라봐온 남자애가 유독 1주일간 친근하게 느껴질때가 있었는데 그 1주일이 지난뒤 아주 먼 곳으로 이사갔더라고요 단체사진 찍은 다음날에요..ㅠㅠ 다른 반들은 겨울방학식에 맞춰서 마지막 인사 하는데 저희 반만 겨울방학식 이틀 전에 인사를 했던.. 빠른 이별이 막 생각나요😭
있지 너는 나에게 있어서 첫사랑이였어 처음으로 사랑이라는 소중한 감정이 느껴진 건 너였어 사랑에 형태에는 우정 연애 가족 다양한데 그중에서 너는 우정이더라 내 첫사랑은 우정이였어 너가 처음이야 있잖아 나 좋아하는 사람이 생겼어 그래서 그 애랑 연애중이야 가끔은 너무 우울해져 만약에 너가 같이 있다면 너가 내 새로운 사랑은 응원해준다면..별 생각이 다 들더라 내가 정말 널 사랑했어 나보다 가족보다 이 세상보다 너보다 널 더 사랑했어 너랑 있을때 행복했어 아무리 내가 다른 사람을 사랑한다고 해도 그 감정을 느껴보지 못할거야 이런 감정을 느끼게 해줘서 고마워
너도 나한테 관심이 있는 줄 알았다 모두에게 친절한걸 알아도 나한테는 남들과는 다르게 더 잘해주는 줄 알았다. 그 친절한 모습때문에 좋아했던거였다 근데 너는 아니었나보다 처음볼때부터 친구로 남고싶었다는 말을 듣고 머리가 멍했다 그 동안 혼자 했던 상상들이 바보같이 느껴진다 하필 짝사랑이 너라니 왜 하필 너였을까 너 없을때가 더 나은 인생이었는데
Be thankful for the experiences. Everything happens for a reason. You may be wondering why. But think of the ways that experience has shaped who you are. Be thankful.
내게 있어서 짝사랑은 슬픔이 묻어나오는 단어다. 너를 좋아하면서 행복했지만 그 기쁨은 잠깐이었다. 네가 내 마음을 거절했을 때 나는 견디기 어려울 만큼 너무도 큰 상처를 받았었다. 한 사람으로 인해 그렇게 매일을 울 거라고는 감히 상상도 하지 못했었지. 자책을 하니 드높았던 내 자존감도 바닥을 치더라. 이제는 짝사랑이 끝난지 어언 두 달. 많은 생각을 하고 자기계발을 하며 내 자신이 전보다 성장하고 성숙해진 것이 느껴져. 짝사랑이 내게 가져다준 긍정적인 결실인 셈이다. 지금은 친구로 잘 지내고 있고 너의 언행에 의미부여를 안 하려 늘 노력해. 가끔은 이게 무슨 사이인 건가 많이 헷갈리기도 했지만, 그리고 가끔 큰 상처를 받았던 그때의 상황이 생각나 마음이 시큰거리긴 하지만. 그저 관조하려 노력하며 다시 내가 할 일에 집중하곤 해. 망각은 신이 인간에게 준 축복이다. 니체의 말이 맞았어. 지워지지 않을 것 같은 이 아픔도 희미해지더라. 이젠 너를 생각하면 전만큼 힘들지 않아서 정말 다행이야. 내가 사랑에 대해 깊이 사색할 수 있도록 해줘서 고마웠어. 많은 상처도 받았지만, 너 덕분에 성장도 했기에 너와 쭉 친구가 될 수 있을 것 같아. 비애와 동시에 성장을 도모한 내 짝사랑. 네가 처음이자 마지막일 거야.
I started liking this girl after I had a feeling she liked me. And I fell. Hard. We were already friends and we had class together so I'd see her a lot. I debated for a week on my feelings because usually my crushes don't really go anywhere but I came to the conclusion she liked me too so I was thinking of maybe being a little flirty and was nervous about it because I'd never been vulnerable about my feelings in that way, even in a semi-joking manner. The day I got back to school though, I was talking with my friends and one of them mentions they have a crush on someone. It's the same girl. At this point I haven't told any of them I like her so I just sit there in silence as they all talk about setting them up. And I feel awful because I know she likes me, but I want to be a good friend. So after a week of much dilemma, I tell my friend and we agree, on his terms, to back off. So I do, and eventually I guess she loses interest. But I don't. I told a couple of my friends later as well that I liked her, but my friend and I agreed to back off. Me and this girl talk all the time and even though I think she doesn't like me anymore, at least not as much as I like her, I still deliberate on whether or not she could ever like me. If I could wait out my friend’s crush on her. I was willing to wait for her. No matter how long it took. We talked for hours every day and I liked her more and more to the point where it hurt. Knowing we could never be together because it would ruin everything. I keep everything fully platonic, thinking of my friend. Trying to be fair to him. But I'm still falling hopelessly in love with this girl. And at this point most of my friends know I like her too, but they knew before that my other friend liked her. To recap, this has been absolute anguish for about six months. I liked her for that whole time and so did my friend, our group knew about it and our agreement to back off. Around the end of the year I decide to finally tell her because of how this has just gone on for so long, so I write her a letter and I give it to her. The same day, my friend tells me that they've been talking for about a month and have been dating for about a week. All of our friends knew and none of them told me, not even my best friend. They also told her I liked her three months prior, without asking me if I was ok with that or telling me about it. They all lied to me for months, and I was naively in love for six months. And in the end she chose him. She chose him.
Hi, I just want to let you know that you're not alone. I'm in a similar situation right now and my heart hurts so much, but we have to move on right? The way you described your feelings towards this girl really shows that you love unconditionally and that your love is pure. To find people like you is so rare these days, I hope you can find love again.
Hey man, I was in a similar situation this summer and my heart goes out to you. I've never fallen for someone so hard in my life, and I cried harder than after any breakup. We didn't even date. The pain was horrible, and I've had some rough breakups. I have not one regret though. It was truly an honor to meet them.
the internet is amazing. it can bring together a group of people having the same emotion. once feeling sole, but now shared. together, not alone. wishing the best for everyone here :)
i met this boy about 4 months ago at orientation. we were in the same little group and we never talked. that was until the 2nd day of school when he said hi as he walked by. i didn't think he remembered me, so it felt nice. he passed me by a second time with a hello and that time i tried to say hi back, but he didn't notice. then, after one of my classes, we ran into each other and he gave me a note. it just said my name on it and in the corner telling me that he remembered my name and who i was. i thought it was a bit strange that he knew my first and last name but brushed it off. i thought it was kinda of sweet. i wrote back and gave it to him. after that we started passing notes whenever we saw each other. eventually, he asked for my socials and we started to talk outside of school. he was so kind and cool. i started to develop a crush on him. we started talking everyday, at home and at school. we hung out more. the more i learned about him, the more i loved him. i loved everything about him. his personality, his interests, when he rants about his interests, his eyes, his glasses, his voice. i loved him more than anything, but i knew we could and would never be together. deep down i knew he would never love me the way i loved him, see me the way i saw him... because i was a boy. he could never love a boy.
This is amazing. Thanks for sharing. I mean there still could’ve been a possibility, especially with the notes sharing part. But I get that it’s hard to really even let yourself fall into the trap of liking a guy who’s straight
이년전에 언니를 처음 만난 겨울이 오면 가끔 그 생각이 나곤 해요. 우리가 처음 만났을때 언니는 우울증때문에 병원에 갔다고 말했고 나는 언니에게 곧 나아질 거라고 말했습니다. 언니는 글을 쓰는 사람이였어요. 나는 굳이 언니의 책을 사고 주위를 맴돌며 열심히 친한척 했었죠. 우리는 말을 놓게 되었어요. 저는 늘 언니에게 고맙다 미안하다 존경한다 같은 말들을 뱉었어요. 언니는 그 무한한 사랑을 좋아했으니까요. 삼일에 한번씩 문자를 보내며 가끔 울적해질 때도 있어요. 2년동안 언니가 제게 먼저 보낸 톡이 없다는 것은 우리 관계가 언니가 놓으면 끝나버릴 기울어진 시소 같아서요. 그래도 내리지 말아요 언니. 몇개월 전에 저는 언니가 다른 사람을 언니에 투영해 안쓰럽게 보는 걸 보고 언니에게 우울증에 대해 이야기했어요. 언니는 열심히 도움을 주려고 했어요. 다정한 사람. 나는 언니에게 자주 사랑한다고 말해요. 감정의 깊이가 다른 사랑해지만 나는 그 단어가 너무나 좋아요. 언니가 조금이라도 떠오르는 것들과 마주치면 나는 끝내 울어버리고 말아요. 새벽이 지나면 눈이 빨개질때까지 울다가 황혼에 언니를 위해 기도를 하다 쓰러져 잠들어요. 나는 감히 그런 욕심을 내면 안되는 사람이지만 그래도 나는 언니가 너무 좋아요. 그리고 하필 그 상대가 언니라 더 힘들어요. 언니 지나가다 나를 마주치면 내게 문자 하나만 남겨주세요. 내 우주는 당신 별이니까, 나는 필연적으로 우주의 주인을 사랑했던 것이야. 그렇지요 언니¿
그리 오래살진 않았지만 살면서 누군갈 이렇게 사랑해본적이 없는데 아직도 널 처음본순간을 잊을수가 없어 긴머리에서부터 나는 향수냄새 어찌나 교복이 그렇게 잘어울리던지 또 눈은 그렇게 이쁜지 웃는얼굴은 하루종일 나를 설레게 하고 널보고 친해지려고 여러 핑계되면서 너네집에 자주가서 놀고 내할일도 안하고 너만나러 가고 그냥 너랑 같이있으면 좋고 행복했어 그래서 너는 내가 편해졌는지 힘든일 있었을때 전화해서 울기도 했을땐 정말 가슴이 미어지더라 ,, 혹여 내가 너한테 너무 표현하고 잘해주면 너가 내마음 알아챌까 그게 너무 겁이나서 일부러 맘에 없는말도 하곤 했는데 사실 전부 다 그반대야 넌 매일이 이뻣고 , 뭐든지 다 잘어울렸어 너랑 술마시고 취해서 가끔 나도 모르게 널 과할정도로 챙기는데 그게 그렇게 좋을수가 없더라. 아침에 눈뜨면 너생각으로 시작해서 잠들때까지 너생각으로 마무리해 어쩌다가 널 이렇게까지 좋아하게 됐는지 처음부터 널 만나지않았더라면 이렇게 힘든일은 없었을텐데 근데 웃긴건 만약 다시 돌아간다고 해도 난 똑같이 여러핑계되면서 너한테 다가갔을거고 또 나혼자 벅차고 힘들었을꺼야 며칠전에 너가 만나는사람 생겼다고 기뻐하면서 나한테 말을 하는데 순간 심장이 내려앉더라 그말 듣기전에는 어떻게든 마음 정리하려고 발버둥 치고 안되니까 차라리 너가 좋은사람 만나서 연애를 하면 좀 잊혀질까 해서 좋은사람 만나길 빌었는데 막상 너가 만나는사람이 생겼다는걸 들으니까 그렇게 슬플수가 없더라고 애써 괜찮은척 하면서 축하해주는 내자신이 너무 한심하기 짝이없어서 내가 너에게 그런존재가 못되어주는 이현실이 너무 원망스러워서 미칠지경이야 근데 이제는 점점 정리를 해가고 있어 여기서 멈추지 않으면 내가 진짜 죽을거같아서 ,, 편하게 숨좀 쉬고 싶어서 그래서 이제 진짜 잊고 정리하려고 너한테 말도 못하면서 여기에다가 푸는것도 참 웃기다 그치? 그냥 너의 모든게 다좋았어 매일매일을 사랑했고 나보다 널 더사랑했던거 같애 그래서 너가 매일 행복할순 없겠지만 매일 웃음으로 가득차있으면 좋겠고 외롭고 공허한밤이 아닌 따뜻하고 편한밤이었으면 좋겠어 너가 단지 행복했으면 좋겠고 상처 안받고 벅찰정도로 사랑 받았으면 좋겠다 이거 하나면 너한테 바랄것도 없겠네 ,,
really really liked this guy in high school (still do lol) but never approached him. he made the first move and lowkey flirted with me a bunch of times and we ended up becoming good friends. just a few days after i felt like we were close enough to be friends, he asked me to make a painting (i own an art business) as a proposal gift for his soon to be girlfriend. to say i was shocked is an understatement but yeah, made the painting and he loved it, so did she. he made me make her a bday gift as well. they’ve been dating for over four months now and he’s obsessed with her. always talks about her to me and it doesn’t make me uncomfortable anymore. i think i’ve accepted it, i only crushed on him for like half a year so it’s alright.
나 좋아했던 걔 기억난다.알게 된 계기도 진짜 어이없었는데ㅋㅋㅋ언제 여자애들이 내 반에 와서 호들갑 떠는거야.우리반 남자애가 너 좋아한다고 ㅋㅋ 당연히 거짓말인줄 알았는데 니가 나한테 직접 와서 고백할때야 알았어 사람 북적이던 복도에서 뜬끔없이 귀에 대고 좋아한다고 말하는데 뭐라 답해야할지 몰라서 그냥 못들은척 했어 사실.솔직히 말하면 그때 학교에서 문제아로 소문난 니가 나 같은 범생이 좋아하는것도 웃겼고 존나 조용히 살았는데 접점이 얼마나 있었나 싶더라 그래서,못들은척 했던거야.흐지부지하게 끝났는데 이거 들으니까 갑자기 기억나네 지금 생각하면 너 티 진짜 많이 냈다 싶어 여자애들한테 무뚝뚝하기로 소문난 너가 친구들한테 끌려나가다시피한 내 수련회 무대보고 내려오는길에 잘했다고 말해줬잖아 나한테만 직접.내 바지 붙잡고 올려다보고 뜬끔없이 잘했어.하는데 솔직히 안설렜다면 거짓말이긴해.진심 그때 흘린 땀이 확 마르더라 ㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 나중에야 많이 알았지 앉을때도 일부러 나 잘보이는 자리 골랐었다며?교실에서도.예전의 너도 내가 지금 이 글을 쓰면서 했던것처럼 나랑 있었던 일을 자꾸 곱씹었을까 어쩌면 내가 잊어버렸을 사소한 일도 다시 해석하고 또 다시 생각했을까 좋아한다는 마음이 참 신기하다 싶어.그때 제대로 답 못해줘서 미안해 나 같은거 좋아해줘서 고마워 나도 너 좋아했어
감정은 구름같다 부풀었다가 어느샌가 가늘어지고 또 어떤 하루는 가득 차올라 어찌할바를 모르고 빗물이 쏟아질 때도 있고 그런데 시간이 지나면 잔잔한 바람과 푸른 하늘과 어우러지어 평화롭게 한 구석에 자리잡힌다. 내 마음이 그런거같다. 감정에 휘둘릴 때도 있지만 너무 깊게 생각하지 않고 일상을 보내다보면 사진첩에 남은 추억처럼 가끔 꺼내보고 웃음짓는 때가 온다.
내가 좀 더 예뻤다면 너가 날 좋아했을까 좀 더 못난 모습이 아니었다면 내가 좀 더 나은 사람이었다면 어땠을까 난 아직도 그때 기억이 너무 생생하다 학교 끝나고 집 방향이 같아서 천천히 걸어갔던 모습이 기억나 넌 인기 많고 잘생겼고 난 아무도 모르는 여자애였어 우리 인연은 어디부터 시작된걸까, 내 사랑은 평범하기 그지없게 지나갈 것 같았던 날의 나를 먼저 발견하고는 넌 내게 말을 걸었다 환하게 햇빛이 들어오는 창문을 뒤로하고 내게 웃으며 뭐해라고 물어보던 날, 난 사랑에 빠졌다 그 후로는 모든 것이 바뀌었다 가기 싫던 학교는 환상의 장소였고 간간히 말을 걸어주는 네 목소리가 좋았다 나는 아직도 똑같다 짝사랑 노래를 다운받아 듣던 유선 이어폰이 남몰래 사랑을 키운 그 학교가 널 생각하면 떠오르는 행복, 그리고 눈물까지 여전히 좋아한다. 좋아한다.
In high school I always envisioned that college would be where I find someone for the first time but it's not played out like that. Still have never been on a date, asked or been asked out, never held hands or kissed or flirted with someone, or even held eye contact for a moment too long. I know I probably don't make enough of an effort and that's why, and I also haven't ever liked someone who I could feasibly be in a relationship with. I relate to so many of the sentiments in this comment section, because every amount of romantic love I've felt has been unrequited =). I wish you all luck
I'm in the exact same position as you, never done anything close to being romantic or even shown actual interest in someone else, but always thought college would be the first time l'd maybe push myself to actually try and be with someone I like. Nothing has really happened so far in college, but I'm sure we can both make it soon enough and if not we still have a future ahead of us 😅
me too.i finished high school with nine of those experiences.all who i liked never saw me in the way i hoped for. i am grateful however because sometimes those are not as they initially seem. i’m grateful i never had to realise this the tough way though it may have seemed like it at the time☺️👍
All four years of high school I didn’t make a single move. It’s only now in my third year of college that I am finally pushing myself to talk to a couple girls I’m interested in. I’m about as introverted as they come. For me, joining clubs and putting myself in positions where I could be just be around people makes your chances of meeting someone higher. I would push every time to just say hello to someone. I’ve seen a lot of progress in myself that way. All we can do is keep trying ❤
좋아하면 안되는데 너무 좋다 계속 부정해봐도 내 자신도 아는 것 같다 이 감정이 짝사랑의 감정이라는 걸 막상 집에오면 미친듯이 보고 싶어도 실제로 만나면 아무생각 안 들고 너무 편하고 즐겁다 버스에서 눈 마주치고 웃는데 아무생각이 안 들었는데 집에 오니까 그 순간이 계속 떠오른다 근데 티 내면 멀어질까봐 항상 편한 티 내면서 지낸다 연락 한번할 때, 전화 한번할 때 마다 미친듯이 고민하지만 막상 연락하면 그 순간이 너무 행복해서 잊혀지지 않는다 하루 안 보면 너무 아쉽고 주말이 되면 평일이 기다려진다 내가 즐거워하던 일을 더 즐겁게 만들어준다 이렇게 같이 집 가고 떠들며 전화하고 밤에 연락하는 이 순간들이 계속되었으면 좋겠다 이 상태라면 5년은 더 좋아할 수 있을 것 같다 곁에 계속 있고 싶고 힘들어할 땐 옆에서 위로해주는 사람이 되고 싶어진다 너무 다정해서 마음이 자꾸 편해진다 나도 모르게 의지하게 될 때도 있다 내가 고민 있나 걱정해줄 때도 밤에 늦게 들어가는 것을 걱정해줄 때도 사소한 것들에 난 많은 감정을 느꼈다 설렘을 느끼지 못하고 있던 내게 너무 소중한 감정이었다 비가 오면 더 생각난다 내게 잠깐 있으라고 하고 비 맞으며 편의점으로 달려가 우산을 쥐어준 순간이 떠오른다 창 밖을 보고 있으면 이 사람은 뭘 하고 있을까 무슨 생각을 할까 궁금해진다 둘이 만나서 잠시라도 걸으며 수다를 떨고 둘 다 좋아하는 영화를 보며 시간을 보내고 싶다 하지만 물어보면 부담스러워 할까 봐 그게 너무 두렵다 이 순간들을 이겨낼 수 있으면 좋겠다 다음엔 내가 너의 두 손에 우산을 쥐어주고 싶다
I had a crush on someone who played the flute. They didn’t talk to anyone and so it was cute. My heart raced everytime our eyes connected. And I’d sit at home wondering what to wear to make them think about me. I made a joke once in class, and they laughed. And I went home so happy that I could die. The next week I asked them on a date, they said yes. And we went and it was great, and we went again, and again, and again. Until something changed, where the idea of them stopped being real, where I learned more and more and realized this person who I was strangers with several months ago, was not the same person I had been dreaming about. I started to cry because all the feelings I had felt before were gone and I felt empty. I wish I never asked them out, because I was happy with the dream, and I hurt when we broke up, but the person I was with wasn’t the same as the person I dreamed about. It’s crazy because I’m still in love with them in a way, because they has the same face as the person in my dreams, but they’re not the same person. I have a firm idea now tho, that you can’t date an unrequited love with a stranger, because they’ll never be the person you dream of.
He nvr played the flute but yes the version I had of him gone. The person who I was infatuated by completely turned into a person I could not recognize. The tone they had, the body language, the words he spoke all turned into something unrecognizable. As the years grew so did we except he faded away and so did I. Our reactions for things over the years changed. Maybe for me the drugs and realization of life and for him the hurt I put him through at a young age. Atleast that’s what I want to believe, that I caused it because there is no way in hell that’s the boy I fell in love with. As we grew our minds changed, politics over came us some days and sometimes past trauma from eachother came up. It was unbearable but I enjoyed every second of it. It wasn’t a burden to argue it was more like I was realizing how much we’ve changed and how I have to either accept it or move on. Both of which I could not do yet in some way I did. I stayed while he turned into like u said a stranger. Maybe everything he said or did now was an action caused by me. Yet while I have to live with the realization he js isn’t who he was. Or maybe that was always him, hidden over my love and infatuation with him. It was probably the infatuation, or his young mindset that He himself outgrew. However this new him was not a burden yet I saw this young man, and I loved the way he carried himself, and I began to love the him I could not recognize. Which not in a million years I would have done. Because the new him disgusted me. The way he treated me and other woman completely destroyed what I loved. Which was the way he treated me, no longer was it obsession and love for me but a resent I caused. He held the burden of me for what idk. But that caused me to stay maybe to rebuild the him I once knew. At the end of the day he’s gone, and while I believe both of our love left when we grew up. And when he decided he could not handle me or his confusing feelings.
i had the same thing happen to me but i only thought about apperance so i didnt create a person in my head before i even met them so i had no expectations. Best thing ever.
I know many people who are listening to this playlist right now suffers from unreciprocated affection yet I want to console you all by the thought of human feeling. I love knowing that humans can still feel the emotion love these days even if the world is very chaotic and in frenzy. You guys give me hope and I thank you all for that. I hope you find the right person to revest all the effort you have given to this world.
갈팡질팡하고 있는 내 마음 속에서 어느새 커져버린 너의 영역. 이젠 단어들이 나의 나침반이 돼줘서, 너에게 데려가줬으면 좋겠다. 어떻게 하면 내 마음이 온전히 잘 전해질까, 널 사랑하는 이유 30가지만 생각해봤어. 아직도 잘 모르겠다 내가 이렇게 누군가를 좋아할 거라고는 상상은 못해봤으니 그냥 단지 널 행복하게 해주고싶어. 앞으로 살아갈 날에서 행복을 빌게 언제나.
i really love how the songs aren't depressing considering it's titled unrequited love which means, the unrequited love might bring something else that's good!
i met this girl in my 11th grade in senior high. she's very beautiful. i still vividly remember the very first day of the class when i walked inside our classroom. she was dazzlingly pretty. when i laid my eyes upon her, i felt my heart skip a beat. that's when i knew that she's my crush. her name's rose, as pretty as the flower. we interacted with each other, but never really progressed at a point that i want to tell her, i love her. at the time, i was always surrounded by my group of friends, and while i enjoyed their company, a part of me longed to have a more intimate connection with rose. however, it seemed that she never looked at me in the way i desired. one day, a friend of mine told me that rose, was interested in another guy, our classmate. that time, i felt heartbroken, "i was out of time." i said to myself. the following days, she and him were really enjoying each other's company. i felt jealous of course, but that's just normal. there were some regrets along the way, like, i should've done that, i should've admitted my feelings sooner, i should've said to her, that i love her. however, those thoughts and regrets, at that time, were no longer important. they were happy, i saw them with my own eyes. they seemed comfortable, vibing, and talking to each other. as the days went by, i couldn't help but feel a sense of longing every time i saw rose and the other guy together. it was as if a cloud of sadness hung over me, knowing that my chance with her had slipped away. however, i tried my best to put on a brave face, and hide my feelings, continuing to interact with her as a friend. despite my efforts, there were moments when my emotions would overwhelm me. i found myself daydreaming about what could have been, imagining scenarios where i mustered the courage to confess my love for her. but reality had a way of grounding me, reminding me that i had missed my opportunity. although rose and i remained friends, we drifted apart as we pursued different paths in life. it wasn't easy, but i gradually found solace in the fact that sometimes, relationships aren't meant to be. perhaps it was a lesson that i needed to learn, an experience that would shape my future interactions and understanding of love. life moved on, and so did i. the memory of rose remains a beautiful reminder of the fleeting nature of my youthful infatuations, and i am grateful for her to have come into my life. years later, in an unexpected twist of fate, we crossed paths again. this time, in an online virtual world from an online game. i never expected that a chance encounter would reignite my connection with rose. it was a quiet evening, and i found myself playing a game, seeking solace and adventure inside the virtual realm. as i navigated through my friend list in that game, my attention was drawn to a familiar username. it was none other than rose, the girl from my high school days. i am seeking resources at that time, and i reached out to her, uncertain, if she would let me join her own virtual world. to my delight, she responded with genuine warmth, recognizing me, and expressing some surprise at our unexpected reunion. we spent a few hours playing, and while it was awkward at first, we found ourselves enjoying each other's company. through our conversations, i discovered that rose had also grown and changed in many ways. she shared her own journey of self-discovery, the ups and downs she had experienced, and the valuable lessons life had taught her. it was clear that she had been a strong and independent woman. as we continued to play the game together, our friendship deepened. we discovered shared interests, bonded over our mutual love for gaming, and embarked on virtual adventures side by side. the game provided a safe space for us to reconnect and explore our feelings without the pressures and inhibitions of the past. over time, our interactions transcended the boundaries of the game. we began exchanging messages outside the game, sharing our hopes, dreams, and aspirations in life. it was in these heartfelt conversations that i started to realize that my feelings for rose had been rekindled, stronger than ever before. as more time passed by, i invited her to meet in person, a "somewhere-in-between" date, eager to bridge the physical gap that had separated us for so long. "somewhere-in-between", as we couldn't figure out what we would label it, romantic or platonic. when i finally drove at her place, we finally saw each other, after so many years. after so many years, it was the first time i felt that time had stood still. this marked the very moment, that i said to myself, i love her. i truly do. days later, after that "somewhere-in-between" date, i confessed my feelings for rose. to my surprise and joy, she reciprocated my emotions. it was almost as if, the stars brought us back together, giving us a second chance at love. as we embarked on this new chapter of our lives, we were mindful of the lessons we've learned from the past. we knew that love could be complicated and unpredictable, but we were determined to nurture our relationship with open communication, trust, and mutual respect. i am very grateful for her, to her, for giving the chance to rewrite our story, and create a love that was destined to endure. guided by the stars, today, we are on our way, to an everlasting love.
7년이다, 7년. 내가 너를 좋아한 시간이. 혹시 고백했다가 차이면, 그래서 친구로라도 네 곁을 맴돌지 못하면 그때는 내가 너무 힘들 것 같아서 그 시간을 꽁꽁 싸매고 있었어. 내가 있는 곳과 네가 있는 곳의 시간은 달라서, 가끔 네가 잠긴 목으로 영상 통화를 받아 주면 그게 얼마나 떨렸는지. 마음을 접기로 했지만 아직, 못내 내 마음은 너를 떨치지 못했을 수 있어. 이곳에서나마 고해 성사처럼 털어놓을게. 좋아했어. 함께 누워 있던 휴게실에서도, 신천역을 지나 한강을 향해 걷던 그날도. 모두 너와 있어서 좋았어.
첫눈에 반한 사랑과 스며드는 사랑 그 두 가지를 전부 너에게서 배웠다 사람이 사랑할때 가장 아름답다는 말의 기원을 너에게서 찾았다 나조차도 내가 희미해져갈때 네 눈에 비친 나를 보고서 안정을 느꼈고 내 이름을 말하는 네 목소리에서 위로를 들었다 너는 내 계절이었다 아마 나는 너를 평생토록 짝사랑하게될것이다 네가 가장 사랑했던 사람이 나는 아니겠지만 내가 가장 사랑했던 사람이 너라는 사실만은 변하지 않을것이고 아마 나는 죽는 순간에서까지도 너의 미소를 그리다 잠들것이다 영원을 믿지않는 나에게 엉겹같은 사랑을 알려준 너 부디 떠나가는 순간에도 너만은 아름답길
I see everyone sharing their stories and I want to share mine. Thank you for reading~ My last semester of college I had fallen for my classmates. I had seen him as a friend for over a year but one day I just couldn’t get his smile out of my head. For the rest of the semester I would show up early and wait for him to walk into our lectures, ask him questions and make excuses to see him outside of college. As the semester was coming to an end we became very close. We would FaceTime and study together, eat after our lectures and sometimes he would come visit me at work. He was my motivation to finish my career, seeing him so passionate over a subject that most would consider boring really made me feel comforted in my career choice. He would always say I was his school wife and whoever I end up with would be extremely lucky to have me. I knew he didn’t feel the same way… he would ask me for relationship advice and talk about the dates he would go on. Still I was okay with my unrequited love up until the last few weeks of the semester. I knew that once we both left college we wouldn’t be so close. I feared never seeing him again and I cried knowing that I’ll probably be a another character in a chapter of his life. After our final, the last day I saw him I told him how I felt about him. I told him not to feel burden by my feelings and that I wanted to continue being friends.I was rejected and the way he responded hurt me the most. He just said “oh ok” and chuckled, almost laughed at me. He later on texted me saying he felt differently and thought we needed time apart. It’s been 8 months since I’ve last spoken with him. I still miss him… I think about and wonder if he’s enjoying his new job and apartment.I unfollowed him on social media because I’m trying to move on… I hope he does well in his career and is happy.
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0:01 0:01 lonely - dvdkm
3:25 3:25 i’m tired of feeling this way - Elijah Who
5:55 5:55 lonely without you - Elijah Who
8:03 8:03 Her - Dvdkm
10:37 10:37 家族の字 - Paniyolo
13:51
The first beat is the best beat I've ever heard
@@exhausted6655 I am agree
1시간 내주세요...🫶🏻 이것만큼 공부 잘되는 플리도 없음 ㅠㅠ
이거 사클에 올려주실수 있나요ㅜ
짝사랑은 짝사랑일 때 예쁜 게 맞는 듯... 짝사랑하고 있는 내 감정을 예뻐하는 것 같음
앙 기모찌
그래도 이루어지지 않으면 많이 슬플듯
나도 느껴보고싶다 그런느낌ㅠㅠ 주변에 남자도 없고 여중 여고라 여자만 있어서 그런 감정 한 번도 느껴본적이 없음..ㅠㅠ
The traltions doing the worst for me
@@고양이v 너가 더
인생이 좀 유치한 로코 드라마, 영화처럼 되었음 좋겠다. 왜 나만 항상 진지한 다큐3일인지 모르겠음..
진짜로.. ㅠㅠ
엄청난 공감이네요 진짜.... 나만... 다큐... 지금 한 다큐 2600일 정도 찍었습니다만
저는 도전골든벨...
다큐... ㅠ 공감
난 인생극장이야
짝사랑도 중독임... 혼자 설레하고 기대하고..약간 주식 넣는 기분이랄까..짜릿하고 설레고 아프고 눈물나고..짝사랑은 주식이다..ㅅㅂ
그것은 매우 사실이다
명언이네여
하지만 항상 하한가 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅠ 한번도 상한가였던 적이 없어...
희희,
망했다.
오 맞네.. 맞아서 짜증
짝사랑 하는 기분을 즐기는거다
사랑하는 내 자신을 좋아하는거다 그러는데
아무리 생각해도 난 그냥 너가 좋은것같아...
다른사람과 연애를 어떻게 해 너가 좋은건데...
짝사랑 하고 싶은데 하고싶지 않다.. 설레이고 이런 감정 느끼고는 싶은데 결국 그 애가 나를 바라봐주지 않으면 너무 공허해져
짝사랑보단 썸을, 썸보단 연애를
와 진짜 너무 공감
당신은하지 않습니다. 짝사랑이 아파요 ㅋ ㅋㅋㅋ
지금 내 상태… 나만 놓으면 끊기는 관계 너무 슬프다
@엔뽀삐🌈 헐르르르르를ㄹ 대박ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
안녕하세요😭 신기하다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 반가워요!! tmi지만 8개월 짝사랑 성공해서
지금 연애 하고 있어요오🥰
Right person, wrong time;
Right script, wrong line;
Right poem, wrong rhyme;
And the piece of your heart that was never mine.
This hurt
✋🏽 no words
*is crying*
oh well, whatever happens, happens.
May I use these words in a song please?
나도 누군가의 첫사랑이었으면 좋겠다
제 첫사랑이잖아요 왜 그래요 서운하게
@@왜또아픈상처에소금을 닉값... 당신 너무 사랑스럽당
누군가가 딱 나만큼 날 좋아해줬음좋겠다..
You might be.. you never know ♥
me too
짝사랑을 한다는 이 감정
그리 로맨틱하지는 않은거 같아요
그 사람이 날 봐주고 그 사람도 날 좋아할꺼란 착각 딱 그 감정이 생기면
로맨틱하다고 착각하는 것이죠
하지만,
저의 짝사랑은 걸레처럼 쓸모없어요
그 사람은 제게 자신의 짝사랑을
털어놓아요, 들을때마다 가슴이 찢어질듯 아프지만 티 내서는 안되요
그 사람이 알게된다면
나를 피하고 자신의 마음을 털어놓지
않을꺼에요,
그래서 항상 참았어요 들어주고
그 사람의 짝사랑 상대의 나쁜면을
은근쓸쩍 이야기 해보고 혼자 욕도 해봤어요
그래도 달라지는건 그 사람이 다른사람을 짝사랑하는 마음의 크기
그러던 찰나에 그 사람의 짝사랑은
끝이 났어요, 전 너무나도 기뻤죠
근데 그 사람은 슬퍼했어요,
왜? 난 여기 있는데 나는 봐주지 않는거야? 나는 너에게 사랑받을수 없는거야? 평생? 이러한 질문을 속에 품었어요, 그러던중 그 사람에 친구에게
털어놓았어요 그 동안의 나의 짝사랑,
근데 그 친구가 자신이 그 사람과
썸을 탄다고 해요 정말 미안하다고
말 안하면 더 상처일꺼 같다고
그 날 난 미친듯이 울었어요,
세상이 모두 끝난 사람처럼
모르는게 나았겠다고 생각했어요,
왜 난 눈치 채지 못했을까요
내 짝사랑은 이젠 정말 걸레짝처럼
너덜너덜하고 슬퍼도 눈물도 더 이상 나지 않는,
그런 사람이 되게 만들었어요
그런데도 그 사람을 포기할수 없는
이유는, 그 사람을 사랑하는 예쁜 나의 모습 때문인거 같아요
그 사람을 짝사랑하고 난 뒤부터
사람들이 예뻐졌다고 해요
그 사람은 눈치도 못채겠지만
많은 노력을 했어요
그 노력이 물거품 될꺼 같다는 생각에
포기하지 못하는거 같아요
짝사랑 하는 이 감정,
비참해요
짝사랑을 하고 오래 지난 지금
난 자존감이 많이 떨어져있고
나를 비난하고 망상하게 해요
그런데도 그를 포기하는건
나를 포기하는거란 생각이 들어서
차마 그것만큼은 못하겠어요,
짝사랑을 하고 있을 많은 사람들이
알아줬으면 해요
내가 제일 소중하지만
짝사랑하는 사람의 입장에선
듣지도 않을 이 말
그 사람 날 좋아하지 않는다면
포기해요, 그러지 않으면
난 저 끝까지 나를 끌어내릴꺼에요,
내가 그랬어요 슬퍼도 눈물도 안나고 주변사람들에게 무관심해지고 그 사람에게만
잘해주고 ,
잘 된다면 좋겠지만
난 그러지 않더라구요
언제나 내가 가장 중요한거지만
모두 짝사랑하고 있는 입장이라면,
한번쯤은 나를 바닥으로 끌어내리는
사랑을 해보는것도 좋은거 같아요
그러니 이걸 보고있는 당신들의
짝사랑 응원해요
전 이미 걸레 같은 짝사랑을
마무리할 준비를 하고있지만요.
짝사랑 초반에는 이게 짝사랑인지도 알아채지 못할 만큼 이 사람을 좋아하는 마음이 엄청 부풀기만 해서 매일, 매순간 머릿 속에 그애가 떠돌아다닐 때 쯤 갑자기 어느 순간 띵하면서 아... 나 얘 좋아하네... 이러고 더 본격적으로 좋아하기 시작함. 난 아침에 알람이 울리기도 전에 눈이 떠지고 학교 가기전 준비하는 과정이 너무나도 설레이고 학교가는 길이 그렇게 좋았다? 학교 가면 그 애를 만날 수 있었으니까. 등굣길이 좋았다니... 으. 말도 많고 장난도 많이 치던 내가 그 애 앞에만 서면 고장나고 말도 안 하고 눈도 제대로 못 마주치고 엄청 조용해지고, 민초 절대 싫어하던 내가 그 애가 민초 좋아한다고 하니까 매일 민초 가방에 넣어서 학교 가져가고, 동아리 활동 잘 안 했던 내가 그애가 있는 동아리에 매일 참석하고. 이렇게 좋아하는 티가 엄청 나서 내 주변 친구들도, 걔도 처음부터 다 알고 있었다네 ㅋㅋㅋ 새벽까지 문자하고 통화하고, 침대에 누워서 이불을 끌어 당긴채 엄청나게 쿵쾅거리던 심장소리가 들릴까 손으로 가슴 누르고 그애 목소리 듣고 있고. 근데 지금와서 생각해 보니 짝사랑이든 뭐든 타이밍이 참 중요한거 같아. 나 혼자 좋아하고 설레이고 웃고 울고, 결국엔 아무것도 되돌아 오지 않아서 겨우겨우 맘 정리 다 하고 드디어 괜찮아졌을때 친구에게서 들은 말이: "야 개도 너 처음 부터 좋아했다는데?" ... 이미 맘정리 다 끝나고 더이상 아무런 감정도 남지 않았는데 이제와서 무슨. 19년 동안 살면서 인생 처음으로 누구를 좋아해 본거 였는데, 뭔가... 누군가를 좋아하니까 내가 진짜 살아있고 심장이 이렇게 빨리 뛸수도 있구나라는걸 깨닳았고, 그 애를 좋아했던 시간들이 아프기도 했지만 어떻게 보면 참 빛나기도 했던거 같아. 누군가를 그렇게 열정적으로 좋아하고 오르지 그 사람만을 위한 감정들은 그때의 나만이 느끼고 할 수 있었던 감정들과 행동들 이였으니까 참 소중하지. 에휴... 하고 싶은 멀 참 많은데 여기서 이러면 뭐하나... 잠이나 자야겠다.
응원할게요 🥺
저도 3년 동안 좋아하던 얘가 있었는데 전학가고 나서 걔 전번도 모르는데 친구들이 걔도 너 좋아했다고 하는거임 진짜 이제와서 맘정리 다했는데,, 그게 첫사랑이자 짝사랑이였음...보고싶다..
민초까지.... 찐사랑 ㅇㅈ..
고등학교 시절 제가 생각나네요😭😭 다들 행복하쟈
아이고... 나중에서야 그애도 날 좋아했다는걸 알았을때는 설레기도 하지만 씁쓸..
When I was in high school I had a crush on this boy.
Before I ever talked to him, a friend of mine asked me if I knew this guy that went by a silly nickname. If you're wondering what I said in response, I think the better question would be who didn't. What I knew at an arms length was that this boy was loud, he was obnoxious, and so very confident. He'd run around the cafeteria, classrooms, and hallways begging people to stream the music he made. He wore funny clothes and bleached his hair spontaneously. And, admittedly, I thought he was a little kooky but I really admired him for how sure of himself he was. Somehow we ended up in the same social circle and one day we started talking. We found out that we went to the same pre-school together and I just never realized it was him. The conversation wasn't long but we bonded over the fact that we actually knew each other for a long time in a sense. Whenever he was around others you could just see how people gravitated towards him, like moths to light. He could liven up any room he walked in. So time passes and after getting aquatinted with each other better through friend groups I was curious and gave his music a listen. It wasn't anything special, but it was the beginning of something exciting and you could obviously see he had both talent and potential. The following year we ended up in the same math class and that's when we became proper friends. Of course, he continued plugging his music wherever he went and as it was high school, some people were bound to judge and mock. It always made me so upset when people would laugh at or make fun of him because you know they would never allow themselves to as live freely as he did. As angry as it made me, he would just let all of it roll off his back like he never even knew what they'd said or done. That just showed what I really loved about him. We'd always chat away in class, such fun and effortless conversations, the teacher even had to change our seats because we talked too much. He'd just make you feel so comfortable when you talked to him, no judgment. He'd make you feel like the funniest person in the world. Another friend of mine that was in the same class would always ask if we were dating, so maybe our chemistry wasn't as deluded as I'd thought. She'd ask and ask but I could just never admit that I had a crush. When COVID hit and school went remote we used to talk frequently over DM's, but then the messages started to fizzle out. It went from a few times every week, to once a week, to once a month, and then nothing. I remember always telling him how talented he was, probably every time we spoke. Though, I don't think he ever knew that my words were deep and genuine. Fast forwarding to senior prom and graduation, a long while since we last talked, we'd catch glimpses of each other throughout both of those nights. His hair was long and no longer bleached and brassy, his sense of style changed, and his music was completely different from before. Despite all these changes you could just tell he was the same without him having to even lift a finger, I don't know why but I am very sure of this. I knew that he saw me and he knew that I saw him but now we were strangers and neither of us approached one another. Now I'm in college, still thinking about him from time to time. I don't care about the dating, I'm actually not even sure if he liked me back. I just wish I could have expressed to him how special of a person he really was. I know that one day he will make it big, and I will always admire him even if it's from the background, just like before we started talking.
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Damn that sounds like one hell of a guy. I hope he makes it big, the likes of him are bound to make it big one day.
You write beautifully I love your story
@@steviexo7238 thank you, that’s so sweet 🥲
Wow. This is the story that made me tear up. So well written and so emotional
listening to this playlist while reading yall stories hits harder than I thought
Me rn
fr though
Same 😔😭
@RandomPasserby OnTheInternet wdym its not working lol?! You don't ever start or stop loving someone, it just happens or fades away on its own
@RandomPasserby OnTheInternet isn't love so weird? It's the thing that can make us so happy but often times it's the same thing that saddens us the most
댓글들을 읽어보면 언어가 정말 다양한데 우리가 느끼는 마음은 비슷하다는게 정말 슬ㄹ퍼요
6:35 이 부분 참... 주변 시끌시끌 떠들썩한데 내가 그 친구만 바라보느라 걔 말고는 다 블러 처리된 것처럼 들리네요 너무 좋다
신기...
헐와ㄷㄷ ㄹㅇ이네요 주변소음 작아지구 그랬었는데
7:07
짝사랑이 나쁘다고 생각해 본 적 없다.
내 맘대로 널 해석하고,
매일 밤 내 꿈속에 널 초대할 수 있어서
하루 종일 네 뒤통수만 보다 헤어져도 괜찮다
더 가까이 가면, 내가 만든 네 세계가
깨져버릴 것만 같아서
네가 만든 노란 목도리의 주인이 한번도
나라고 생각해 본 적 없다
넌 내가 무슨 색을 좋아하는 줄도 모를테니,
그래도, 가끔 니가 뒤 돌아 웃을 때면
난 또 내 맘대로 해석하게 돼...
자꾸만, 걸음을 좁히게 돼
우산 쓴 너의 옆자리가
내 자리가 아니라는 걸 알면서도
그냥 가끔,
조금 서운할 뿐이야.
와 이거 어디에 있는 글이에요??
@@아아-d6h2h 제가 써본 거예요!!
제 경험을 바탕으로....(*´ ˘ `*)
@@감자만두먹고싶다 와 미쳤다 시인이 쓴 줄 알았는데ㅠㅠ
@@user-et6jq2wp3x 어우...과찬이세요!!
감사합니다~~(*´ ˘ `*)
@@감자만두먹고싶다 이거 보고 눈물나올 뻔 했어요 제 상황이랑 너무 비슷해서. 글 엄청 잘 쓰시네요
Being on the other side of unrequited love also sucks...maybe not as badly. But especially if you're mature, gone through something similar, and/or can empathize, you feel bad that you can't reciprocate the affection someone has for you. But at the same time, you know you don't feel it and can't force things.
omg u have such a great point😭😭😭 i love it, it deserves lots of likes istg
These feelings can evolve overtime. I forced myself to be with her because I knew I should be lucky to have someone who loves me, because I have been there as well and didn't want to do the same mistake my ex did. It took a year but I developped feelings for her
Its better to be clear than hurting or using them..
@@varsa507 it can be for people.. But some people u just don't feel at all.. If i m being neutral and if i find someone who like me.. I will fall for him too
You're so right, can't agree more with you
7년간 짝사랑하던 여자애를 오늘 떠나보냈내요 홀가분합니다 몇일간 휴유증이 있겠지만 살던대로 잘 살아야죠 다들 잘 이겨내시길.. 행복해요 모두
몇일이요? 멘탈 강하시네요
그냥 짝사랑으로 끝나는거도나쁘지않은거같음 그 사람과 만나다보면 내가 알게되는 새로운모습들이 반갑지 않을때도 있고 그렇다보면 실망하게 되는거같음 그냥 추억으로 꼬옥 간직해주면 되,,
@@jhjha9037 꼬옥 ~해주면 되 드립입니다 ㅜㅜ 여기서 세대차이가 드러나네요
드립이요...? 맞춤법 틀리는 게 드립..?
@@user-uj1hd8iv8m 모르시면 검색해보세요 ~..
엥 드립으로 쓴것같지는 않은데 문맥상 ㅋㅋㅋ
김시온 ㄴㄴ 꼬옥 들어가면 드립임
내가 먼저 꽃 피지 않으면
내가 먼저 문 열고 나서지 않으면
봄은 오지 않는다.
끝끝내 추운 겨울이다.
동백꽃마냥 겨울이 이르러야 피는 꽃도 있는 법이지요.
노래가 전체적으로 짝사랑해본 사람만 아는
그 쓸쓸함을 잘 담고있는듯..
너무좋아서 포기할수없는 쓸쓸한 마음이랄까
관심있는 사람한텐 다가가지도 못하고 혹시 부담일까 싫어할까 그리고 또 다가가서 나는 또 상처받을까 하는 걱정에 좋아하는 사람에게 다가가지도 못한다 상처받고 싶지않은데 혼자 이렇게 멍청하게 좋아하는 사람한테 다가서지도 못하고 그렇게 또 넌 다른 용기 있는 사람 곁에
넌 충분히 예쁘니까 자신감을 가져
겁먹지말고 너가 하고 싶은말들 참지말고 다 했으면 좋겠어 그래봤자 걘 너랑 동갑인 보통남자애일뿐이야
사랑받는 건 사랑하는 것보다 어려워
내가 사랑하는 사람들은
짝사랑을 하지 않았음 한다
의미 없이 쉬이 내주는 달달함에
취해 모든 것을 내주고
보답받지 못한 마음에
눈물과 함께 휩쓸려
떠내려 가지 않았으면 한다.
눈물나오네
@@spj9259 눈물 딱아줄게요(*´ー｀*)
@@초코나라초코송이 스윗..
이 글 사용해도 될까요 ??
@@Anonymous__1135 네네 사용해도 괜찮아요😊
우산도 뭣도 없는 내게 하염없이 쏟아지더라. 난 그런 너에게 무방비하게 젖어갔지.
우와.. 감탄하면서 읽었어요.. 사랑에 빠져드는걸 씁쓸하면서도 예쁘게 표현한것 같아요...
글 정말 잘쓰셔요...
아...
크~~
비구름이 걷히고 거의 마른 듯 해보일쯤에 소매자락에 남은 물기를 손으로 누르며 널 그리워할 땐 이미 아무것도 모르는 태양만 나를 아프게 할 뿐. 난 그저 떠나간 바람을 붙잡고 있는 꼴이 되어버렸구나. 내 옆에 스쳐 지나가는 구멍난 우산들이 애석하다.
내 손 발 어디갔니ㅣㅣㅣ
정말 누군가를 매번 좋아하고 사랑에 빠지지만, 이번만큼은 그러고 싶지않아요.
나도 이 항상 이 감정의 끝이 무엇을 보여주었는지 알기에.
하지만 널 눈에 담을 때마다 이러지 말아야지 하면서도
내 마음은 왜 내가 조절할 수 없을까
내 마음은 원망해도 너무 멋진 넌 원망할 수가 없다.
그냥 그 자리에서 항상 빛나줘, 나는 그런 널 이 마음이 문들어질 때까지 짝사랑으로 남겠지.
단지 네가 누군가의 애인이 되었다는 소식, 그거하나만 내게 닿지 않았으면 해..
공감합니다 힘내세요……
The best is yet to come perseverance be happy love life breathe 😊
짝사랑은... 뭔가 몽글몽글하고 여름햇살 같이 쥐면 부서져버릴 느낌...
짝사랑은 너무 위험하다 내 모든게 다 싫고 뭐 하나 예뻐 보이는게 없음,,, 자존감으로 지구 땅 속 뚫기 ㄹㅇ 쌉가능
야 1년됏다!! 언제쯤 나 봐줄래!?
처음부터 들려오는 기타소리가 왠지 짝사랑했던때의 저의 심장소리 처럼 느껴지네요..보통의 짝사랑 플리하면 가사로 짝사랑의 아픔을 표현하는 노래가 많은데..노래자체의 느낌만으로 이렇게 마음과 잘맞는 플리를 만든 Sea Pearl 님은 대체....
심장 소리... 언젠가 한 번 들어 본 거 같기도 하고요 너무 아픈 사랑은 아니셨기를 🙏🏻
@@user-love_wins_everything 너무 아픈 사랑은 아니엇기를.. 이 한문장에 눈물 와르르
😊
웅어아이잉 내짝남 취미가 기타치는거래여 막 기타보면 걔 생각 나고 그러네
아주 사실이야 내 친구...아주 사실이야...
노래 듣는 동안 마음이 저려오는 느낌이었는데, 댓글들을 보니까 이런 애틋한 마음은 어느 나라든 똑같은 것 같아서 위로가 된다
짝사랑을 성공했을 때 그 행복함을 느껴보고 싶다
꼭 그런 것들이 있다
볼펜으로 방금 막 쓰여진 글씨처럼
만지기 전엔 한 없이 이뻐보이지만 만지고 난 후에 번져지는 것들.
와 ㅆ 표현력미쳣다..
난 공부와 짝사랑 중.. 쉽게 다가가기 힘들어 전화하고싶어
너의 모든걸 알고싶어,,,
공부는 맨날 철벽만 치고.... 내 진심을 알아줘라ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅍ
맨날 시험 일주일 전에나 다가오고 말이야 ㅠㅠㅠ
このプレイリストを聴きながら、みんなの恋バナを読む時間が好き。
첫 곡 약간 짝사랑하는 남자애 멀리서 보고있는데 그 남자애한테 뛰어오는 여자애가 남자애 손잡은걸 봐서 허탈하게 웃고 집갔던 나의 심정을 담은 노래같다
you know I kinda miss having a crush... because I would spend hours of my time thinking about them or getting really shy when they come close to me, well now...I just think about all the problems in my life and feel sad and feel empty. It’s sad when you find out someone doesn’t like you back but I think it’s more sad when you keep feeling empty and useless.
me too 😭
I feel you
Wow beautifully said, i couldnt have said it better myself 😭
yes i miss blushing whenever was around them or getting butterflies or falling asleep thinking about them. everything feels much more lonely without that fantasy of what could be with them:(
Felt
그냥 어느날 복도를 지나가는데 엄청 작고 이쁘장한 애가 지나가더라. 처음엔 우리 학교에 저런 애가 있었나 싶어서 궁금한 마음으로 널 지켜봤는데 네가 짓는 눈웃음이 너무 예뻐서 행동 하나하나가 다 귀여워서 점점 어느 순간부터 네가 신경 쓰이고 좋아하게 된 것 같애. 너는 되게 조용한 아이였고 순수하고 너무 착해서 널 아껴주고 지켜주고 싶다는 생각만 가득해서 아무 것도 못하고 짝사랑이 끝나버렸는데 지금은 잘 살고 있으려나 다시 널 본다면 꼭 말하고 싶어 많이 좋아했다고. 눈 웃음 정말 예뻤다고.
너 나 좋아했어? 나 눈웃음 되게 이쁜데
엥
한남아
진짜 말 이쁘게 하네... 풋풋하고 추억이 되어서 그런가보다. 말 하나하나가 진짜 진심으로 와닿고 이쁜말들이라 내가 받는것도 아닌데 괜히 심쿵함.. ㅠㅠㅠ 미쳤어..
아니ㅠㅠㅜㅠㅜ 진짜 말 왜이리 이쁘게혀
미쳤나봐 ㅠㅠㅜㅠㅜㅜ 그 여자애 부럽다잉..
I’ve never had unrequited love. I’ve never even been in love. But I long for the feeling, the feeling of wanting to be loved and wanting to love someone just as much. They say love comes in many different ways, friendship, family, and of course, real love. But I don’t think I’ve ever felt truly loved in either of these ways. Friends drifted apart after graduation, family only expect you to be successful and pressure you into supporting them more then they support you, never getting the chance to experience real love because I always knew I would never be more than a friend. So I avoided love because I couldn’t find it. Maybe this is a unrequited love. Longing for it but never getting it because the universe wouldn’t allow it. Or maybe because I’m a coward to admit how I feel. Somehow, I still have a little bit of hope that I can love and be loved back.
몰래 좋아하는것과 몰래 사랑하는건 확실히 다르다.
몰래 좋아한다는건, 말하자면 내 감정을 주체할 수가 없는거다. 그 애의 좋은점을 알고, 더 가까이 다가가고싶고..갖고싶은. 뭐 그런 애틋하고 싱그러운 감정. 그게 좋아하는거다.
몰래 사랑한다는건 바꿔서 이야기하면 언제든 그 아이를 놓아줄 수 있다는 것과 같다. 그 애가 무엇을, 누구를 좋아하는지 아플만큼 누구보다 잘 알고 있으니까. 그 아이는 마치 햇살처럼 웃는다고, 우린 그것을 알고 있으니까. 그저 그 애가 한번만 더 내 앞에서 햇살같길 바라며, 마지막까지 그 아이의 행복을 빌며 놓아주는 것. 그럼에도 한동안은 마르지 않을 눅눅한 감정이 바로 몰래 사랑하는 마음이다.
사랑하는 사람을 어서 '만나'시길...
i don’t understand even a word of these comments but i read that the title means “one sided love” so i hope everyone here finds their special someone to make them feel happy and if not i truly hope you find inner peace and self love because loving yourself is the most precious love anyone can have. you’re all so beautiful and loved already💞
oh my god english is not my first language at all so i’m sorry if my grammar sounds bad! i used google translate😭
it’s okay though because today i learned a new phrase in korean 🥺🙏🏽
Ty, I hope u find someone special for u too ^-^ (if u didn't in the moment im writing this) also ur english is good ;) (its not my first language too, but I still think its good:') )
@@CoffeeHana thank you! ur english is really good too, and english is such a hard and annoying language so congratulations for being good at it 😅😭
awww
사실 그 애 아직도 참 좋아하는데
애써 그 시절이 좋았던거라며.
너의 그 귀여운 미소가 나만을 위한 것이 아니라는걸 잘 알기에 너무 아프다
I have a story to share. Just finished 10th grade and going to Senior High this August but this was during the last 6-7 weeks of my recently implemented face-to-face method in school. I was just having fun acting like a friend with my 2-year-long crush (female, I'm a man, 6-day age gap just so there'll be no calls for concern) until one day, after school, we texted until it became night and then she asked me a daring question that I wasn't expecting. She asked me if I still had feelings for her, in which, yes, I did. And the reason why is because she was ready to accept my feelings and try enjoying life with me but with an agreeable stage of mutual understanding, since she had strict parents. So, of course, we did, we talked everyday, we discussed about our futures in a smaller scale, talked about our dislikes, likes, similarities, differences, and so on and so forth. Our relationship as M.U (mutual understanding) were surprisingly VERY stable and so happy, with no arguments at all. I was really looking forward to spend the rest of my long life with her until one morning, after a long and good dream about being with her, She sent me a letter in text regarding breaking up. Of course this was super unexpected, I was in absolute shock. I began questioning why but I realized that she was ignoring my messages because I was archived (yes, I know her behaviour). After a full month and 11 days, it was over. Just like that. She told me the reason why, and it was because she didn't really have any feelings of romantic love but only infatuation. Mind you love and infatuation is different, and I felt my heart ultimately shatter into pieces until there was nothing left. I had to make a letter for her sent by a friend of mine so we could have a talk discussing about this. I tried to convince her this wasn't really a good decision but I eventually had to let go because it was just finalized. One day I was thinking about sharing stories when I'm old about how I found my wife and then it just all went down to the gutter like it was just all a dream. It was truly devastating. My mother found my face wet from tears as I went down the stairs emotionless to make myself a hot cup of Milo to distract myself. She tried to comfort me but I just wasn't having any of it.
I respect her so much to the point that my loyalty to her was unshaken and she was still valuable to me more than a crystal gem.
Love in today's society is like a beautiful book that uncovers a deathly curse to someone who dares to read it.
Please remember that she isn't a bad person at all. I regard her as beautiful, spectacular, very kind, and a genius as well. I don't like to see comments talking negative things about the people I cherish. Let's remain civilized, and thank you.
And Janelle, if you're reading this, I'm still here and I still love you from the bottom of my heart.
@@erammap4131 All the best to you too. Actually, I was also writing a novel documenting about the experiences of my life but with a change in era and character. I've been writing it for her but since we're no longer together I might as well just write it until I think it's ready to end and publish it to the public.
Thanks to her, I've been aspiring to become a writer, and now I'll, well, eventually bloom in this dream because she was my inspiration to do so.
Funny how I actually shared this for no related reason.
Focusing on, people just, really are unpredictable and I can understand why. I guess I'll probably wait until she has changed her mind for the right time (I know, I'm kind of obsessive which is bad, but do consider that I don't want to be with anyone else other than her) or just live the rest of my life alone. That's what I chose as my fate, to be honest. But, the future shall tell.
I love how pure your love is. You're like a water flowing that's so clear finding its spring, so don't go somewhere you will get there anytime soon.
Also don't just look in the same direction you might miss something. Fighting though! 👍✊
i sobbed reading this dawg
@@samah6859 read three days of happiness
f it we ball
굳이 돌아가고싶진 않을 풋풋함. 남은 자리에 부는 아림.
믿혔다..
참 신기한게 저 멀리 지나치는 옆모습만 봐도 기분이 하늘로 붕 떠올랐다가도, 그게 반복되다 언젠가 그 조그마한 뒷모습에 일희일비되는 내가 보여서 비참해지더라고요
그냥 내가 너무 비참해서 눈물이 나왔어요
혼자 하는 사랑이라 그래요
나는 한없이 요동치고 흔들리고 깨지는데 저 사람은 너무 평온하고 잔잔해서 나같은게 자기한테 아무 소용없다는듯 지나가서 그래요 내 마음은 온통 그 사람을 향해 가있는데 그 사람은 아무것도 내어주지 않고 떠나가니 멀쩡할리가 없죠
A short story to add - I’m currently in college and have fallen hard for this girl that lives in my dorm. She’s the embodiment of glowing and every time I see her she always looks pretty and has a perfect smile on her face. We’re in the same math lecture and we study together often, and through this I’ve learned a lot about her life. Every time we study we always end up laughing together or occasionally exchanging stories. I would do a lot for her, even though I truly don’t know her that well. I feel so nervous to try to reach out more and form a deeper relationship. It’s scary. The fear of rejection, even from someone you may not really know that well. And I think this girl will never reciprocate, but without asking there’s never any way of knowing. I fear losing what small but amazing friendship we have to time and I don’t know what to do. This may be different than many of the other stories but this playlist still speaks to me
I would say fuck it and just do it it’s just like you said if you don’t say anything you’ll never know don’t flat out tell her i love you because that might be too much just ask her out on a date and see how it goes if the first date goes well go on more and eventually ask her to be your girlfriend even though you like her don’t over pursue I made that mistake and ended up pushing her away
Just tell her it’s not too late bro what really could go wrong like she ain’t gonna cut your neck after that the most she can do is reject you and that’s it you guys can still be friends
Just tell them read the top comments don’t be like them
Remember that she is not the only woman who can make you feel this way, she's just the first. She may reject you or things might not turn out, but that you found one means you can find another. Do not harden your heart, rejection will come and rejection will go. Pain is only temporary. Meet as many people as you can. For a lover love comes easy, do not be afraid to be a lover. Do not close off your heart to the world.
You’ve hung out with her a lot and u know a lot about her. Why not ask her to hang out with you and get to know each other better through friendship? When people connect with each other they build a bond. And through that you can tell her how you feel.
Your love for her doesn’t have to be romantic if you know that love is really something you want for the both of you to be with each other regardless of what kind it is.
Time is never perfect for you. You might never know when it will be the day to tell her. You may fear that this wouldn’t be the perfect time, but, inside you would feel that we haven’t connected yet, I don’t think I can tell them. But yet I know eventually, they will find someone else I don’t.
There isn’t a perfect answer for that problem. Just like there isn’t a simple equation for love.
It’s complicated.
Like everything else in life.
This is what I would’ve have done but whatever u do it’s ur choice and u can do it however you want.
But if we’re really longing to connect with someone and have them in mine and their life, I would tell them that of how I feel. And that regardless of how it works out or not, I want to connect with them as a person and would want them to do that with me if they were willing to connect with me. And no matter how it turns out if it is romantic, platonic, or it doesn’t at all, I would still like to get to know them.
For who they truly are.
You already know that time would move on even if you don’t make that decision.
What are you waiting for then?
The fear to go away? The perfect moment? Your self doubt?
That is valid. How you feel of that.
But what would happen if you did try?
It may not be either of what you expect or fear.
So then,
Why don’t you give it a go?
Wouldn’t you like to try?
사랑을 사랑하는 사람은 시도때도없이 사랑에 빠진다
포기하고싶다가도 웃는모습 한번보면 사르르 풀림.. 그렇게 상처를 받아도 한번 잘해주면 또 좋아하게 되고 그냥 잘해주지말던가ㅠㅠㅠ
Since people are sharing their own experiences, I thought I should share mine just to get it off my chest. I don’t know if anybody will read this, but if you are, thank you.
Well, it all started last year at the beginning of second semester. I had a class that was only one semester, so it changed to PE after the first semester was over. We were doing laps around the gym when this guy came up to me and just started talking. Neither of us had any friends in that classes, and I guess he was just bored. I have always struggled making friends in school so I was immediately drawn to him and his personality. We ended up sitting together every day we had PE and complaining about how boring that class was, but in reality I looked forward to it every day. I obviously was catching feelings for him, but since the past year had been all virtual with no contact to anyone I forgot what having a crush felt like. After months of this, I started to think about telling him. (Oh, and for context, we also had algebra together but had assigned seats and didn’t sit together.) So one day in algebra, I saw everybody staring at him while he walked in the door, smiling. I heard people whispering at him, and it didn’t take long to realize he had started dating another girl in that class. I couldn’t cry in front of everyone, but it was so hard not to. After school ended, I ran and tripped down the stairs, which just added salt to the wound. In PE, I would talk with him about it and how happy I was for him. It was so hard trying to act normal after that. Eventually they broke up, and while it gave me a new sort of hope, I started loosing feelings. Summer started quickly after and I didn’t talk to him much. I remember the first day of school this year, I was going to my art class and as I walked in I saw him sitting at a table, smiling and telling me to sit next to him. I sat down and we talked the entire period. He ended up making new friends from the people sitting behind us and the four of us would talk the entire class. I’m pretty sure our art teacher doesn’t like us because of how loud we are, but I don’t mind. Two weeks ago I heard the people behind us talking about this other girl, and how cute her and him looked together. I sort of thought there was hope this year. I thought maybe, maybe this time I could make him like me. But nope. They haven’t started dating yet, but I know he will never think of me as anything more than a friend. I just feel such a lump in my throat that won’t go away, and I don’t know how to make it go away. I love everything about him. Well, maybe I will edit this comment in a few months for an update, who knows. If you read all of this, thanks for listening to my dumb little story.
[[ JANUARY 2023 EDIT: first of all, wow this got wayyy more likes than i expected!! to think that over 1.5 thousand people read this is crazy. well i thought this deserved an update, so here it is. my feelings towards him are no longer what they used to be. he is in a good relationship and it has taken a while to get to the point i am now where i truly do not care. i am simply happy that he is happy. this crush taught me a lot and i hope that in the future, when i develop feelings for somebody new, i'll have that courage to take a chance. i've gotten much more confident since last year, and even since originally writing this comment so who knows. i still have that same art class with him and laugh like i used to, but i think any pressure or nervousness i once felt is gone. it's only been about 3 months since i wrote my original comment, so i'm sure there is lots more to come for me and i'm excited for when that happens, whatever it may be :). ]]
i hope things get better for you, whether he ends up liking you or you find someone else
Just confess it bro, ik u can do it🤧💖
I have a feeling he does like you more than a friend. But is too shy to tell you since y’all are friends. He’ll swing around sooner or later. I hope it works out for you guys! 😊
I’m inclined to believe Hachi. It’s entirely possible he feels the same way but is instead going for other girls to “avoid” you. Perhaps because he’s nervous.
Well, take this with a grain of salt because I don’t know the entire situation. Just no matter what, always be honest with yourself and with him :)
It actually matches the vibe of the playlist lol like an anime i once watched,just super chill. But yeah, looking forwrd to hearing you get the love you deserve someday
제가 가장 좋아하는 플리인데
어느새 댓글창을 외국인들이 다 먹어버렸네요 허허… 아주 가끔 너무 공허해서 울고싶은데 눈물조차 나지 않을 때 이 노래들을 찾아 들어오곤 합니다 요샌 유독 그런 날이 많은 것 같아요 남의 사랑에 아파하고 안달내는 내가 너무 우습네요 모든 사랑들이 낱낱이 공개되었으면 좋겠어요 모두가 서로의 사랑을 전부 알았으면 좋겠어요 내가 그들의 생각을 읽을 수 있다면 정말 좋겠어요. 다신 돌아올 수 없는 사람들인걸 잘 알지만 마음 한켠에선 어쩔 수 없는 희망이 여전합니다. 이렇게 계속 나의 꿈을 되내이다 보면 죽기 전에는 한번쯤 찾아오겠죠 불가항력으로 나는, 필사적으로 나는 그들이 그들의 씬으로 돌아오는 상상을 합니다 그런 믿을을 갖습니다 될 리가 없다는 생각과 언젠간 오겠지 하는 생각이 내면에서 하루가 멀다하고 다툽니다. 그들의 재림을 기다립니다. 얼마 남지 않은 올해 나의 생일 소원도 어김없이 그들의 복귀입니다.
엑스원 이야기입니다…
감사합니다
Lo último que supe de ti fue una historia de WhatsApp
Donde decía dejala ir creo que fue para mí? Eres libre siempre lo fuiste
Cuando te pedí salir conmigo se que fue repentino no quería
짝이 되지 못한 사랑
버려져 걸을 수 없는 신발 한 짝처럼
발자국을 남기지 못해 슬픈 한 짝 사랑
currently listening to the playlist and feeling nostalgic. my room was so quiet when i played the first song, that i noticed it actually matched my heartbeat.
reading this made me feel fuzzy inside
I just read this comment and checked my heartbeat while playing the first song, and the song matches my heartbeat too! Perhaps it was because we had the same state of mind while listening to it, so we had the same heart rate? Our hearts have beat to the same tune, and there’s something poetic about that. Thanks for sharing that comment, it made me smile :)
omg
Damn
scientifically your heart matches the beat to songs you are listening so don’t be surprised haha
짝사랑은 정말 좋은데 아프고 후회하다가도 미소짓게 만들더라
롤러코스터를 타는기분처럼.. 그 애가하는 말,몸짓,행동 말투 모두가 나한테 영향을 끼치고 나의 하루를 결정하더라..
2년전에 짝사랑하던애랑 잘 안되서 이 영상노래들으면서 댓글보면서 울었던게 생각나네..
지금 생각해보면 별 감정 없지만 정말 그때는 혼자 좋아하고 설레고 질질짜고 슬퍼하고 그랬는데…
하지만 그만큼 좋은 추억이였고
내 인생에서 못 잊을 사람인것같음..가끔씩은 내 생각하면 가볍게 피식하면서 웃어 넘겼음 좋겠다..
고마워 이런 아름다운 추억 남겨줘서 좋아했어
순간이 평생을 살게한다. 그 시절 힘들고 사랑받고싶던 나에게 너는 한 줄기의 빛과 같았고, 정말 사막의 오아시스같았다. 니가 나에게 보여주던 미소, 웃음은 밝은 여름 날 태양보다 더 밝았고 그 어떤 비보다 시원하게 나의 갈증을 해결해 주었다. 돌아갈 수 없는 그때 그 시절, 그때의 너, 그리고 그때의 나. 모든 것이 소중하고 또 소중하던 그때. 그 때 그 순간이 자꾸 날 살게 해. 지금이 아니라 그 때를. 이제 다시 현재를 살아야겠지? 미련은 버리고.. 진짜 좋아했다..하ㅛㅅㅂ 새벽감성 오지네ㅠㅠ 4년 짝사랑 이제 그만할래
사람 마음이란게 참 신기한게,
작년 6월 즈음 짝사랑이 처절하게 끝나고 우연히 이 플리를 들었을 때는 너무 쓸쓸하고 공허했는데 지금 새로운 사랑을 시작한 시점에서 다시 들어보니 노래가 설레게 느껴진다.
좋아하던 놈이 있었는데 내가 어렸을 때부터 시력이 안 좋았어서 두꺼운 안경을 끼고다녔음 너무 예전이라 기억도 잘 안 나는데 더러워진 안경을 닦으려고 벗을 때면 좋아하던 놈을 포함해서 몇몇 남자애들이 못생겼다고 놀리곤 했음.
되게 상처였는데 어쩔 때는 또 그렇게라도 그 남자애한테 관심을 받는다는 게 좋았었음. 어느날은 그냥 가만히 앉아있는데 내가 좋아하던 놈이 와서 안경 좀 벗어보라고 징징거렸음 근데 안경만 벗으면 못생겼다고 하는 게 너무 짜증나고 속상해서 절대 안 벗을 거라고 했었는데
그때 그 놈 옆에 걔랑 성씨가 같은 놈이 하나 더 있었는데 가만히 보고만 있다가 나한테 와서는 안경을 벗어달라 그랬음. 걔는 내가 안경 벗는다고 놀린 적도 없었고 뜬금없이 그러니까 난 당황해서 너도 나 못생겼다고 놀리려고 그러지?! 라면서 괜히 짜증을 부렸었음.
솔직히 별로 관심도 없었고 그닥 친했던 애도 아니었는데 걔가 스쳐가듯 했던 별 거 아닌 그 말이 아직도 잊히지가 않음. 예뻐서. 예뻐서 벗어달라는 거야 안경을. 근데 난 그런 말을 남자애한테 들어본 적이 없어서 당황도 했었고 엄청 부끄러워서 싫다면서 결국 안경 안 벗어줬거든.
근데 삼일인가 얼마 안 있고 다른 학교로 전학 갔더라. 내가 그 애를 좋아했던 것도 아니고 걔도 그냥 스쳐가듯이 했던 말인데 그날따라 많이 속상했었거든 좋아하던 놈 때문에? 그래서 그런 걸까 잊혀지지가 않더라.
난 걔 번호도 몰랐고 성격도 워낙 소극적이어서 그 후로 언락도 못 해봤지. 그냥... 이렇게 가끔 생각나더라. 아쉽기도 했고, 전학 가고나서 한동안 걔 생각 좀 많이 했었거든.
너 전학 가고나서 한참은 좋아했었다..
초등학교 저학년 때 일이라 기억도 안 나고
유치하긴한데 그냥 가끔 생각나고 아쉬웠어
너가 전학 안 갔으면 말이라도 더 걸어봤을까
진짜로 딱 저랑 비슷한 상황 ㅜㅠㅠ 3년을 바라봐온 남자애가 유독 1주일간 친근하게 느껴질때가 있었는데 그 1주일이 지난뒤 아주 먼 곳으로 이사갔더라고요 단체사진 찍은 다음날에요..ㅠㅠ 다른 반들은 겨울방학식에 맞춰서 마지막 인사 하는데 저희 반만 겨울방학식 이틀 전에 인사를 했던.. 빠른 이별이 막 생각나요😭
𝙅𝙊𝙉𝙉𝘼 아련하다 ㄹㅇ...
와....... 한 편의 시같아요 대박
혹시 ㅂㄴ초??
@@fuckyourselfloser7878 아녀..ㅇㅅ초였어요!
있지 너는 나에게 있어서 첫사랑이였어 처음으로 사랑이라는 소중한 감정이 느껴진 건 너였어 사랑에 형태에는 우정 연애 가족 다양한데 그중에서 너는 우정이더라 내 첫사랑은 우정이였어 너가 처음이야 있잖아 나 좋아하는 사람이 생겼어 그래서 그 애랑 연애중이야 가끔은 너무 우울해져 만약에 너가 같이 있다면 너가 내 새로운 사랑은 응원해준다면..별 생각이 다 들더라 내가 정말 널 사랑했어 나보다 가족보다 이 세상보다 너보다 널 더 사랑했어 너랑 있을때 행복했어 아무리 내가 다른 사람을 사랑한다고 해도 그 감정을 느껴보지 못할거야 이런 감정을 느끼게 해줘서 고마워
너도 나한테 관심이 있는 줄 알았다
모두에게 친절한걸 알아도 나한테는 남들과는 다르게 더 잘해주는 줄 알았다. 그 친절한 모습때문에 좋아했던거였다 근데 너는 아니었나보다
처음볼때부터 친구로 남고싶었다는 말을 듣고 머리가 멍했다
그 동안 혼자 했던 상상들이 바보같이 느껴진다 하필 짝사랑이 너라니
왜 하필 너였을까 너 없을때가 더 나은 인생이었는데
I hope you're doing good girl! Life is really hard sometimes i know
I don’t know why…but I’m so infatuated by him. His voice, his movements, his face…everything. It’s been years and I’m still stuck in the same place.
Me too !
Be thankful for the experiences. Everything happens for a reason. You may be wondering why. But think of the ways that experience has shaped who you are. Be thankful.
@@Topgorilla_ well said.✨
Same. 😭
Be concerned with yourself now and your happiness, they’re other gentlemen out there to meet!!
내게 있어서 짝사랑은 슬픔이 묻어나오는 단어다. 너를 좋아하면서 행복했지만 그 기쁨은 잠깐이었다. 네가 내 마음을 거절했을 때 나는 견디기 어려울 만큼 너무도 큰 상처를 받았었다. 한 사람으로 인해 그렇게 매일을 울 거라고는 감히 상상도 하지 못했었지. 자책을 하니 드높았던 내 자존감도 바닥을 치더라. 이제는 짝사랑이 끝난지 어언 두 달. 많은 생각을 하고 자기계발을 하며 내 자신이 전보다 성장하고 성숙해진 것이 느껴져. 짝사랑이 내게 가져다준 긍정적인 결실인 셈이다. 지금은 친구로 잘 지내고 있고 너의 언행에 의미부여를 안 하려 늘 노력해. 가끔은 이게 무슨 사이인 건가 많이 헷갈리기도 했지만, 그리고 가끔 큰 상처를 받았던 그때의 상황이 생각나 마음이 시큰거리긴 하지만. 그저 관조하려 노력하며 다시 내가 할 일에 집중하곤 해.
망각은 신이 인간에게 준 축복이다.
니체의 말이 맞았어. 지워지지 않을 것 같은 이 아픔도 희미해지더라.
이젠 너를 생각하면 전만큼 힘들지 않아서 정말 다행이야.
내가 사랑에 대해 깊이 사색할 수 있도록 해줘서 고마웠어. 많은 상처도 받았지만, 너 덕분에 성장도 했기에 너와 쭉 친구가 될 수 있을 것 같아. 비애와 동시에 성장을 도모한 내 짝사랑. 네가 처음이자 마지막일 거야.
Your character development is unimaginably similar to the character development luffy undergoes
시간이 많이 흐르고 난 뒤 이 댓글을 다시 보게 된다면, 그 때의 너는 사랑 받고 있길 바란다. 네 마음 속에 담긴 무수한 아픔들 따위가 조금도 느껴지지 않을 만큼 잔뜩 아껴주고 보듬어주는 사람이 네 곁을 지키길.
I started liking this girl after I had a feeling she liked me. And I fell. Hard. We were already friends and we had class together so I'd see her a lot. I debated for a week on my feelings because usually my crushes don't really go anywhere but I came to the conclusion she liked me too so I was thinking of maybe being a little flirty and was nervous about it because I'd never been vulnerable about my feelings in that way, even in a semi-joking manner. The day I got back to school though, I was talking with my friends and one of them mentions they have a crush on someone. It's the same girl. At this point I haven't told any of them I like her so I just sit there in silence as they all talk about setting them up. And I feel awful because I know she likes me, but I want to be a good friend. So after a week of much dilemma, I tell my friend and we agree, on his terms, to back off. So I do, and eventually I guess she loses interest. But I don't. I told a couple of my friends later as well that I liked her, but my friend and I agreed to back off.
Me and this girl talk all the time and even though I think she doesn't like me anymore, at least not as much as I like her, I still deliberate on whether or not she could ever like me. If I could wait out my friend’s crush on her. I was willing to wait for her. No matter how long it took. We talked for hours every day and I liked her more and more to the point where it hurt. Knowing we could never be together because it would ruin everything. I keep everything fully platonic, thinking of my friend. Trying to be fair to him. But I'm still falling hopelessly in love with this girl. And at this point most of my friends know I like her too, but they knew before that my other friend liked her.
To recap, this has been absolute anguish for about six months. I liked her for that whole time and so did my friend, our group knew about it and our agreement to back off. Around the end of the year I decide to finally tell her because of how this has just gone on for so long, so I write her a letter and I give it to her. The same day, my friend tells me that they've been talking for about a month and have been dating for about a week. All of our friends knew and none of them told me, not even my best friend. They also told her I liked her three months prior, without asking me if I was ok with that or telling me about it. They all lied to me for months, and I was naively in love for six months. And in the end she chose him.
She chose him.
im so sorry... i feel really bad for you :( nobody should have to go through that
Hi, I just want to let you know that you're not alone. I'm in a similar situation right now and my heart hurts so much, but we have to move on right? The way you described your feelings towards this girl really shows that you love unconditionally and that your love is pure. To find people like you is so rare these days, I hope you can find love again.
🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Hey man, I was in a similar situation this summer and my heart goes out to you. I've never fallen for someone so hard in my life, and I cried harder than after any breakup. We didn't even date. The pain was horrible, and I've had some rough breakups. I have not one regret though. It was truly an honor to meet them.
@@cassidylynn6203 after this he’s never gonna fall in love again
this feels like you're helping the person you love for years to get the person they love
man your comment hurts
sobbing rn
At least theyr'e happy even though its not me who makes them happy.
Damn
the internet is amazing. it can bring together a group of people having the same emotion. once feeling sole, but now shared. together, not alone. wishing the best for everyone here :)
Thank u
Ty mate aw:)
i met this boy about 4 months ago at orientation. we were in the same little group and we never talked. that was until the 2nd day of school when he said hi as he walked by. i didn't think he remembered me, so it felt nice. he passed me by a second time with a hello and that time i tried to say hi back, but he didn't notice. then, after one of my classes, we ran into each other and he gave me a note. it just said my name on it and in the corner telling me that he remembered my name and who i was. i thought it was a bit strange that he knew my first and last name but brushed it off. i thought it was kinda of sweet. i wrote back and gave it to him. after that we started passing notes whenever we saw each other. eventually, he asked for my socials and we started to talk outside of school. he was so kind and cool. i started to develop a crush on him. we started talking everyday, at home and at school. we hung out more. the more i learned about him, the more i loved him. i loved everything about him. his personality, his interests, when he rants about his interests, his eyes, his glasses, his voice. i loved him more than anything, but i knew we could and would never be together. deep down i knew he would never love me the way i loved him, see me the way i saw him... because i was a boy.
he could never love a boy.
This is amazing. Thanks for sharing. I mean there still could’ve been a possibility, especially with the notes sharing part. But I get that it’s hard to really even let yourself fall into the trap of liking a guy who’s straight
Nice story
@@IsraelLlerena i disagree with you
@@nancy3264 on what ?
@@IsraelLlerena your comment
짝사랑 현재진행중인 사람으로서...이번 플리는 사랑입니다....
응원합니다
응원해요..!
헐 너 누구 조아하냐
@@곤이-h3p 아는척오지구요
응원해요
이년전에 언니를 처음 만난 겨울이 오면 가끔 그 생각이 나곤 해요. 우리가 처음 만났을때 언니는 우울증때문에 병원에 갔다고 말했고 나는 언니에게 곧 나아질 거라고 말했습니다. 언니는 글을 쓰는 사람이였어요. 나는 굳이 언니의 책을 사고 주위를 맴돌며 열심히 친한척 했었죠. 우리는 말을 놓게 되었어요. 저는 늘 언니에게 고맙다 미안하다 존경한다 같은 말들을 뱉었어요. 언니는 그 무한한 사랑을 좋아했으니까요. 삼일에 한번씩 문자를 보내며 가끔 울적해질 때도 있어요. 2년동안 언니가 제게 먼저 보낸 톡이 없다는 것은 우리 관계가 언니가 놓으면 끝나버릴 기울어진 시소 같아서요. 그래도 내리지 말아요 언니. 몇개월 전에 저는 언니가 다른 사람을 언니에 투영해 안쓰럽게 보는 걸 보고 언니에게 우울증에 대해 이야기했어요. 언니는 열심히 도움을 주려고 했어요. 다정한 사람. 나는 언니에게 자주 사랑한다고 말해요. 감정의 깊이가 다른 사랑해지만 나는 그 단어가 너무나 좋아요. 언니가 조금이라도 떠오르는 것들과 마주치면 나는 끝내 울어버리고 말아요. 새벽이 지나면 눈이 빨개질때까지 울다가 황혼에 언니를 위해 기도를 하다 쓰러져 잠들어요. 나는 감히 그런 욕심을 내면 안되는 사람이지만 그래도 나는 언니가 너무 좋아요. 그리고 하필 그 상대가 언니라 더 힘들어요. 언니 지나가다 나를 마주치면 내게 문자 하나만 남겨주세요.
내 우주는 당신 별이니까, 나는 필연적으로 우주의 주인을 사랑했던 것이야.
그렇지요 언니¿
글 마음에 들어요. 뭔가 한 사람만이 가질 수 있는 느낌이 담겨 있는 거 같아요.
하우..ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
글 정말 잘쓰시는거같아요 계속 생각나서 다시 찾아읽게 되어요...☺️
너무 글귀가 이뻐서 그런데 혹시 캘리그라피로 써도 괜찮을까요?
Dsos L 어려울 것 같아요 죄송합니다ㅠㅠ😂
i hate falling in love with people when i know I'll never be their first choice.
I can relate
Same :(
you can be my first choice
@@x6wnz how sweet
I'm always first.. when I think of it too much I'll go down to last place.
Reading other strangers' love stories while listening to this playlist is sweeter and more bitter than I thought
그냥 너가 너무 좋았어. 내 의식속에선 모두 너였어
그리 오래살진 않았지만 살면서 누군갈 이렇게 사랑해본적이 없는데
아직도 널 처음본순간을 잊을수가 없어
긴머리에서부터 나는 향수냄새
어찌나 교복이 그렇게 잘어울리던지
또 눈은 그렇게 이쁜지
웃는얼굴은 하루종일 나를 설레게 하고
널보고 친해지려고 여러 핑계되면서
너네집에 자주가서 놀고 내할일도
안하고 너만나러 가고
그냥 너랑 같이있으면 좋고 행복했어
그래서 너는 내가 편해졌는지
힘든일 있었을때 전화해서 울기도 했을땐
정말 가슴이 미어지더라 ,,
혹여 내가 너한테 너무 표현하고 잘해주면
너가 내마음 알아챌까 그게 너무 겁이나서
일부러 맘에 없는말도 하곤 했는데
사실 전부 다 그반대야
넌 매일이 이뻣고 , 뭐든지 다 잘어울렸어
너랑 술마시고 취해서 가끔 나도 모르게
널 과할정도로 챙기는데 그게 그렇게
좋을수가 없더라.
아침에 눈뜨면 너생각으로 시작해서
잠들때까지 너생각으로 마무리해
어쩌다가 널 이렇게까지 좋아하게
됐는지
처음부터 널 만나지않았더라면 이렇게
힘든일은 없었을텐데
근데 웃긴건 만약 다시 돌아간다고 해도
난 똑같이 여러핑계되면서 너한테 다가갔을거고 또 나혼자 벅차고 힘들었을꺼야
며칠전에 너가 만나는사람 생겼다고
기뻐하면서 나한테 말을 하는데
순간 심장이 내려앉더라
그말 듣기전에는 어떻게든 마음 정리하려고 발버둥 치고 안되니까
차라리 너가 좋은사람 만나서
연애를 하면 좀 잊혀질까 해서
좋은사람 만나길 빌었는데
막상 너가 만나는사람이 생겼다는걸
들으니까 그렇게 슬플수가 없더라고
애써 괜찮은척 하면서 축하해주는
내자신이 너무 한심하기 짝이없어서
내가 너에게 그런존재가 못되어주는
이현실이 너무 원망스러워서
미칠지경이야
근데 이제는 점점 정리를 해가고 있어
여기서 멈추지 않으면 내가 진짜
죽을거같아서 ,,
편하게 숨좀 쉬고 싶어서
그래서 이제 진짜 잊고 정리하려고
너한테 말도 못하면서 여기에다가
푸는것도 참 웃기다 그치?
그냥 너의 모든게 다좋았어
매일매일을 사랑했고
나보다 널 더사랑했던거 같애
그래서 너가 매일 행복할순 없겠지만
매일 웃음으로 가득차있으면 좋겠고
외롭고 공허한밤이 아닌 따뜻하고
편한밤이었으면 좋겠어
너가 단지 행복했으면 좋겠고
상처 안받고 벅찰정도로 사랑 받았으면 좋겠다
이거 하나면 너한테 바랄것도 없겠네 ,,
와 다리 개길어
ㅌㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
약간 신형만 같음
와장창.......
컴퍼스같앜ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ큐ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
@@user-sw6vx7tl9z 아니 컴퍼스 ㅁㅊㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아 이제 저짤 볼때마다 생각날듯ㅜㅜㅜㅜㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
고3 때 연애고 사랑이고 아무것도 모를 때 들었던 플린데 벌써 3년이 지나고 첫 연애를 끝마치고 다시 들으러오니까 기분이 묘하네
really really liked this guy in high school (still do lol) but never approached him. he made the first move and lowkey flirted with me a bunch of times and we ended up becoming good friends. just a few days after i felt like we were close enough to be friends, he asked me to make a painting (i own an art business) as a proposal gift for his soon to be girlfriend. to say i was shocked is an understatement but yeah, made the painting and he loved it, so did she. he made me make her a bday gift as well. they’ve been dating for over four months now and he’s obsessed with her. always talks about her to me and it doesn’t make me uncomfortable anymore. i think i’ve accepted it, i only crushed on him for like half a year so it’s alright.
Wait so he flirted with you while he had a GF? is there a chance you mistook the flirting for something else? if not you might have dodged a bullet
@@Forit26 no, they knew each other before his "soon to be girlfriend"
That is horrible I'm really sorry. I hope you find someone who deserves you
Good to see you are happy for him
he’s actually wrong for that and i can even imagine myself in ur shoes
짝사랑만큼 재밋고 설레고 짜증나고 슬프고 쓸쓸한건 없을 걸..
나 좋아했던 걔 기억난다.알게 된 계기도 진짜 어이없었는데ㅋㅋㅋ언제 여자애들이 내 반에 와서 호들갑 떠는거야.우리반 남자애가 너 좋아한다고 ㅋㅋ 당연히 거짓말인줄 알았는데 니가 나한테 직접 와서 고백할때야 알았어 사람 북적이던 복도에서 뜬끔없이 귀에 대고 좋아한다고 말하는데 뭐라 답해야할지 몰라서 그냥 못들은척 했어 사실.솔직히 말하면 그때 학교에서 문제아로 소문난 니가 나 같은 범생이 좋아하는것도 웃겼고 존나 조용히 살았는데 접점이 얼마나 있었나 싶더라 그래서,못들은척 했던거야.흐지부지하게 끝났는데 이거 들으니까 갑자기 기억나네 지금 생각하면 너 티 진짜 많이 냈다 싶어 여자애들한테 무뚝뚝하기로 소문난 너가 친구들한테 끌려나가다시피한 내 수련회 무대보고 내려오는길에 잘했다고 말해줬잖아 나한테만 직접.내 바지 붙잡고 올려다보고 뜬끔없이 잘했어.하는데 솔직히 안설렜다면 거짓말이긴해.진심 그때 흘린 땀이 확 마르더라 ㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 나중에야 많이 알았지 앉을때도 일부러 나 잘보이는 자리 골랐었다며?교실에서도.예전의 너도 내가 지금 이 글을 쓰면서 했던것처럼 나랑 있었던 일을 자꾸 곱씹었을까 어쩌면 내가 잊어버렸을 사소한 일도 다시 해석하고 또 다시 생각했을까 좋아한다는 마음이 참 신기하다 싶어.그때 제대로 답 못해줘서 미안해 나 같은거 좋아해줘서 고마워 나도 너 좋아했어
고마워
여운이 엄청남네..
@@okcomputerr 고마와
서로 좋아하는줄알았는데 마지막에 짝사랑인걸알고 돌아설때가 가장 맘아팠어요. 차라리 시작부터 끝까지 짝사랑이면 귀엽기라도하지
감정은 구름같다
부풀었다가 어느샌가 가늘어지고
또 어떤 하루는 가득 차올라 어찌할바를 모르고 빗물이 쏟아질 때도 있고
그런데 시간이 지나면 잔잔한 바람과 푸른 하늘과 어우러지어 평화롭게 한 구석에 자리잡힌다.
내 마음이 그런거같다. 감정에 휘둘릴 때도 있지만 너무 깊게 생각하지 않고 일상을 보내다보면 사진첩에 남은 추억처럼 가끔 꺼내보고 웃음짓는 때가 온다.
片思い、という日本語のタイトルに惹かれて見にきました。コメント欄の韓国語を日本語に訳して、共感しています。言葉の壁を超えて素敵な動画に出会えたことに感謝です。
내가 좀 더 예뻤다면 너가 날 좋아했을까
좀 더 못난 모습이 아니었다면
내가 좀 더 나은 사람이었다면 어땠을까
난 아직도 그때 기억이 너무 생생하다
학교 끝나고 집 방향이 같아서 천천히 걸어갔던 모습이 기억나
넌 인기 많고 잘생겼고 난 아무도 모르는 여자애였어
우리 인연은 어디부터 시작된걸까, 내 사랑은
평범하기 그지없게 지나갈 것 같았던 날의 나를
먼저 발견하고는 넌 내게 말을 걸었다
환하게 햇빛이 들어오는 창문을 뒤로하고 내게 웃으며 뭐해라고 물어보던 날, 난 사랑에 빠졌다
그 후로는 모든 것이 바뀌었다
가기 싫던 학교는 환상의 장소였고
간간히 말을 걸어주는 네 목소리가 좋았다
나는 아직도 똑같다
짝사랑 노래를 다운받아 듣던 유선 이어폰이
남몰래 사랑을 키운 그 학교가
널 생각하면 떠오르는 행복, 그리고 눈물까지
여전히 좋아한다.
좋아한다.
너와의 순간에
웃고있는 것도 나였고
실망하던 것도 나였고
바라보는 것도 나였고
원망하던 것도 나였고
설레하던 것도 나였고
아쉬웠던 것도 나였고
기다리던 것도
기대하던 것도
전부 다 나였다
매 순간 모든 순간,
나만이 느끼고 나만 가지고 있는
감정과 기억들
In high school I always envisioned that college would be where I find someone for the first time but it's not played out like that. Still have never been on a date, asked or been asked out, never held hands or kissed or flirted with someone, or even held eye contact for a moment too long. I know I probably don't make enough of an effort and that's why, and I also haven't ever liked someone who I could feasibly be in a relationship with. I relate to so many of the sentiments in this comment section, because every amount of romantic love I've felt has been unrequited =). I wish you all luck
I'm in the exact same position as you, never done anything close to being romantic or even shown actual interest in someone else, but always thought college would be the first time l'd maybe push myself to actually try and be with someone I like. Nothing has really happened so far in college, but I'm sure we can both make it soon enough and if not we still have a future ahead of us 😅
Mae are living the same life T-T
me too.i finished high school with nine of those experiences.all who i liked never saw me in the way i hoped for. i am grateful however because sometimes those are not as they initially seem. i’m grateful i never had to realise this the tough way though it may have seemed like it at the time☺️👍
All four years of high school I didn’t make a single move. It’s only now in my third year of college that I am finally pushing myself to talk to a couple girls I’m interested in. I’m about as introverted as they come. For me, joining clubs and putting myself in positions where I could be just be around people makes your chances of meeting someone higher. I would push every time to just say hello to someone. I’ve seen a lot of progress in myself that way. All we can do is keep trying ❤
You should try effortlessness
너도 이거 들으면서 나 생각했으면 좋겠다..
좋아하면 안되는데 너무 좋다
계속 부정해봐도 내 자신도 아는 것 같다
이 감정이 짝사랑의 감정이라는 걸
막상 집에오면 미친듯이 보고 싶어도
실제로 만나면 아무생각 안 들고 너무 편하고 즐겁다
버스에서 눈 마주치고 웃는데 아무생각이 안 들었는데 집에 오니까 그 순간이 계속 떠오른다
근데 티 내면 멀어질까봐 항상 편한 티 내면서 지낸다
연락 한번할 때, 전화 한번할 때 마다 미친듯이 고민하지만 막상 연락하면 그 순간이 너무 행복해서 잊혀지지 않는다
하루 안 보면 너무 아쉽고 주말이 되면 평일이 기다려진다
내가 즐거워하던 일을 더 즐겁게 만들어준다
이렇게 같이 집 가고 떠들며 전화하고 밤에 연락하는 이 순간들이 계속되었으면 좋겠다
이 상태라면 5년은 더 좋아할 수 있을 것 같다
곁에 계속 있고 싶고 힘들어할 땐 옆에서 위로해주는 사람이 되고 싶어진다
너무 다정해서 마음이 자꾸 편해진다
나도 모르게 의지하게 될 때도 있다
내가 고민 있나 걱정해줄 때도
밤에 늦게 들어가는 것을 걱정해줄 때도
사소한 것들에 난 많은 감정을 느꼈다
설렘을 느끼지 못하고 있던 내게 너무 소중한 감정이었다
비가 오면 더 생각난다
내게 잠깐 있으라고 하고 비 맞으며 편의점으로 달려가 우산을 쥐어준 순간이 떠오른다
창 밖을 보고 있으면 이 사람은 뭘 하고 있을까
무슨 생각을 할까 궁금해진다
둘이 만나서 잠시라도 걸으며 수다를 떨고
둘 다 좋아하는 영화를 보며 시간을 보내고 싶다
하지만 물어보면 부담스러워 할까 봐 그게 너무 두렵다
이 순간들을 이겨낼 수 있으면 좋겠다
다음엔 내가 너의 두 손에 우산을 쥐어주고 싶다
제발 영화에서 보던 클리셰들이 나에게 일어나길 간절히 바래
this makes me want to write cute little love stories and draw hearts all over it
I like your enthusiasm nobitches69! Lol.. love the username too lol
@@dosesandmimoses haha thanks !!
what a vibe yo
same tbh
@@dosesandmimoses LMAO i thought you were insulting them at first 😭
I had a crush on someone who played the flute. They didn’t talk to anyone and so it was cute. My heart raced everytime our eyes connected. And I’d sit at home wondering what to wear to make them think about me. I made a joke once in class, and they laughed. And I went home so happy that I could die. The next week I asked them on a date, they said yes. And we went and it was great, and we went again, and again, and again. Until something changed, where the idea of them stopped being real, where I learned more and more and realized this person who I was strangers with several months ago, was not the same person I had been dreaming about. I started to cry because all the feelings I had felt before were gone and I felt empty. I wish I never asked them out, because I was happy with the dream, and I hurt when we broke up, but the person I was with wasn’t the same as the person I dreamed about. It’s crazy because I’m still in love with them in a way, because they has the same face as the person in my dreams, but they’re not the same person. I have a firm idea now tho, that you can’t date an unrequited love with a stranger, because they’ll never be the person you dream of.
He nvr played the flute but yes the version I had of him gone. The person who I was infatuated by completely turned into a person I could not recognize. The tone they had, the body language, the words he spoke all turned into something unrecognizable. As the years grew so did we except he faded away and so did I. Our reactions for things over the years changed. Maybe for me the drugs and realization of life and for him the hurt I put him through at a young age. Atleast that’s what I want to believe, that I caused it because there is no way in hell that’s the boy I fell in love with. As we grew our minds changed, politics over came us some days and sometimes past trauma from eachother came up. It was unbearable but I enjoyed every second of it. It wasn’t a burden to argue it was more like I was realizing how much we’ve changed and how I have to either accept it or move on. Both of which I could not do yet in some way I did. I stayed while he turned into like u said a stranger. Maybe everything he said or did now was an action caused by me. Yet while I have to live with the realization he js isn’t who he was. Or maybe that was always him, hidden over my love and infatuation with him. It was probably the infatuation, or his young mindset that He himself outgrew. However this new him was not a burden yet I saw this young man, and I loved the way he carried himself, and I began to love the him I could not recognize. Which not in a million years I would have done. Because the new him disgusted me. The way he treated me and other woman completely destroyed what I loved. Which was the way he treated me, no longer was it obsession and love for me but a resent I caused. He held the burden of me for what idk. But that caused me to stay maybe to rebuild the him I once knew. At the end of the day he’s gone, and while I believe both of our love left when we grew up. And when he decided he could not handle me or his confusing feelings.
:(
I needed to hear this... Thank you 💛
i had the same thing happen to me but i only thought about apperance so i didnt create a person in my head before i even met them so i had no expectations. Best thing ever.
L
I know many people who are listening to this playlist right now suffers from unreciprocated affection yet I want to console you all by the thought of human feeling. I love knowing that humans can still feel the emotion love these days even if the world is very chaotic and in frenzy. You guys give me hope and I thank you all for that. I hope you find the right person to revest all the effort you have given to this world.
Aww
why are there tears in my eyes this is so sweet
Thanks for that ❤️
갈팡질팡하고 있는 내 마음 속에서 어느새
커져버린 너의 영역.
이젠 단어들이 나의 나침반이 돼줘서,
너에게 데려가줬으면 좋겠다.
어떻게 하면 내 마음이 온전히 잘 전해질까, 널 사랑하는 이유 30가지만 생각해봤어. 아직도 잘 모르겠다 내가 이렇게 누군가를 좋아할 거라고는 상상은 못해봤으니
그냥 단지 널 행복하게 해주고싶어.
앞으로 살아갈 날에서 행복을 빌게 언제나.
근데 진짜 짝사랑하면 좋은게
그 사람 보려고 학교가는 날마다
기분좋고 진짜 다 설렘 그치만 좋아하는 만큼 슬픈 감정도 많이 느껴지는게 문제ㅜ..ㅠ
누군가가 날생각하면서 이플리를 들어줬음 좋겠다
i really love how the songs aren't depressing considering it's titled unrequited love which means, the unrequited love might bring something else that's good!
sometimes it's really for the better:( but we need to accept it
i met this girl in my 11th grade in senior high. she's very beautiful. i still vividly remember the very first day of the class when i walked inside our classroom. she was dazzlingly pretty. when i laid my eyes upon her, i felt my heart skip a beat. that's when i knew that she's my crush. her name's rose, as pretty as the flower. we interacted with each other, but never really progressed at a point that i want to tell her, i love her. at the time, i was always surrounded by my group of friends, and while i enjoyed their company, a part of me longed to have a more intimate connection with rose. however, it seemed that she never looked at me in the way i desired. one day, a friend of mine told me that rose, was interested in another guy, our classmate. that time, i felt heartbroken, "i was out of time." i said to myself. the following days, she and him were really enjoying each other's company. i felt jealous of course, but that's just normal. there were some regrets along the way, like, i should've done that, i should've admitted my feelings sooner, i should've said to her, that i love her. however, those thoughts and regrets, at that time, were no longer important. they were happy, i saw them with my own eyes. they seemed comfortable, vibing, and talking to each other.
as the days went by, i couldn't help but feel a sense of longing every time i saw rose and the other guy together. it was as if a cloud of sadness hung over me, knowing that my chance with her had slipped away. however, i tried my best to put on a brave face, and hide my feelings, continuing to interact with her as a friend.
despite my efforts, there were moments when my emotions would overwhelm me. i found myself daydreaming about what could have been, imagining scenarios where i mustered the courage to confess my love for her. but reality had a way of grounding me, reminding me that i had missed my opportunity.
although rose and i remained friends, we drifted apart as we pursued different paths in life. it wasn't easy, but i gradually found solace in the fact that sometimes, relationships aren't meant to be. perhaps it was a lesson that i needed to learn, an experience that would shape my future interactions and understanding of love.
life moved on, and so did i. the memory of rose remains a beautiful reminder of the fleeting nature of my youthful infatuations, and i am grateful for her to have come into my life.
years later, in an unexpected twist of fate, we crossed paths again. this time, in
an online virtual world from an online game. i never expected that a chance encounter would reignite my connection with rose. it was a quiet evening, and i found myself playing a game, seeking solace and adventure inside the virtual realm.
as i navigated through my friend list in that game, my attention was drawn to a familiar username. it was none other than rose, the girl from my high school days. i am seeking resources at that time, and i reached out to her, uncertain, if she would let me join her own virtual world.
to my delight, she responded with genuine warmth, recognizing me, and expressing some surprise at our unexpected reunion. we spent a few hours playing, and while it was awkward at first, we found ourselves enjoying each other's company.
through our conversations, i discovered that rose had also grown and changed in many ways. she shared her own journey of self-discovery, the ups and downs she had experienced, and the valuable lessons life had taught her. it was clear that she had been a strong and independent woman.
as we continued to play the game together, our friendship deepened. we discovered shared interests, bonded over our mutual love for gaming, and embarked on virtual adventures side by side. the game provided a safe space for us to reconnect and explore our feelings without the pressures and inhibitions of the past.
over time, our interactions transcended the boundaries of the game. we began exchanging messages outside the game, sharing our hopes, dreams, and aspirations in life. it was in these heartfelt conversations that i started to realize that my feelings for rose had been rekindled, stronger than ever before.
as more time passed by, i invited her to meet in person, a "somewhere-in-between" date, eager to bridge the physical gap that had separated us for so long. "somewhere-in-between", as we couldn't figure out what we would label it, romantic or platonic. when i finally drove at her place, we finally saw each other, after so many years. after so many years, it was the first time i felt that time had stood still. this marked the very moment, that i said to myself, i love her. i truly do.
days later, after that "somewhere-in-between" date, i confessed my feelings for rose. to my surprise and joy, she reciprocated my emotions. it was almost as if, the stars brought us back together, giving us a second chance at love.
as we embarked on this new chapter of our lives, we were mindful of the lessons we've learned from the past. we knew that love could be complicated and unpredictable, but we were determined to nurture our relationship with open communication, trust, and mutual respect.
i am very grateful for her, to her, for giving the chance to rewrite our story, and create a love that was destined to endure. guided by the stars, today, we are on our way, to an everlasting love.
Never knew this would have a happy ending. Stay strong to both of you!!!
this is so beautifully written and im so glad u guys are in a happy place now, im tearing up 🥹
lies
fake
this is the most beautiful thing ive read thus far this month omg..
어쩌면 짝사랑은 마법 아닐까.
상상하기만 하면, 그와 한 순간 같이 있는 것 같은 착각이 드니까.
그냥 그렇다고.
7년이다, 7년. 내가 너를 좋아한 시간이. 혹시 고백했다가 차이면, 그래서 친구로라도 네 곁을 맴돌지 못하면 그때는 내가 너무 힘들 것 같아서 그 시간을 꽁꽁 싸매고 있었어. 내가 있는 곳과 네가 있는 곳의 시간은 달라서, 가끔 네가 잠긴 목으로 영상 통화를 받아 주면 그게 얼마나 떨렸는지. 마음을 접기로 했지만 아직, 못내 내 마음은 너를 떨치지 못했을 수 있어. 이곳에서나마 고해 성사처럼 털어놓을게. 좋아했어. 함께 누워 있던 휴게실에서도, 신천역을 지나 한강을 향해 걷던 그날도. 모두 너와 있어서 좋았어.
Im crying 😭 i hope you're happy now?
love you ❤️
i never expected to find this corner of the internet. thank you for sharing your stories. i hope you all find the love you wish so fervently for.
I was thinking the same thing!
1년애 한 번씩 이 플리가 생각남.. 그냥 짝사랑하는 내 모습이 그리웠던 거야 …
첫눈에 반한 사랑과 스며드는 사랑 그 두 가지를 전부 너에게서 배웠다
사람이 사랑할때 가장 아름답다는 말의 기원을 너에게서 찾았다
나조차도 내가 희미해져갈때 네 눈에 비친 나를 보고서 안정을 느꼈고
내 이름을 말하는 네 목소리에서 위로를 들었다
너는 내 계절이었다
아마 나는 너를 평생토록 짝사랑하게될것이다
네가 가장 사랑했던 사람이 나는 아니겠지만
내가 가장 사랑했던 사람이 너라는 사실만은 변하지 않을것이고
아마 나는 죽는 순간에서까지도 너의 미소를 그리다 잠들것이다
영원을 믿지않는 나에게 엉겹같은 사랑을 알려준 너
부디 떠나가는 순간에도 너만은 아름답길
I see everyone sharing their stories and I want to share mine. Thank you for reading~
My last semester of college I had fallen for my classmates. I had seen him as a friend for over a year but one day I just couldn’t get his smile out of my head. For the rest of the semester I would show up early and wait for him to walk into our lectures, ask him questions and make excuses to see him outside of college. As the semester was coming to an end we became very close. We would FaceTime and study together, eat after our lectures and sometimes he would come visit me at work. He was my motivation to finish my career, seeing him so passionate over a subject that most would consider boring really made me feel comforted in my career choice. He would always say I was his school wife and whoever I end up with would be extremely lucky to have me. I knew he didn’t feel the same way… he would ask me for relationship advice and talk about the dates he would go on. Still I was okay with my unrequited love up until the last few weeks of the semester. I knew that once we both left college we wouldn’t be so close. I feared never seeing him again and I cried knowing that I’ll probably be a another character in a chapter of his life. After our final, the last day I saw him I told him how I felt about him. I told him not to feel burden by my feelings and that I wanted to continue being friends.I was rejected and the way he responded hurt me the most. He just said “oh ok” and chuckled, almost laughed at me. He later on texted me saying he felt differently and thought we needed time apart. It’s been 8 months since I’ve last spoken with him. I still miss him… I think about and wonder if he’s enjoying his new job and apartment.I unfollowed him on social media because I’m trying to move on… I hope he does well in his career and is happy.
Big hugs 🫂. I hope you are able to heal and move on.
YO THIS MADE ME SO SAD,, i’m so sorry this happened to you i’m sending so much love
Proud of you for even having the guts to tell him anything. Hope you find your golden fish.
You handled it very well, I wish it was different tho
I AM CRYING WHAT.
I hope you recovered btw❤️
짝사랑하면 학교 갈 이유가 생겨
ㅇㄱㄹㅇ
내가 가정학습 안 쓰는 이유
ㄹㅇ..
ㅆㅇㅈ
나는 동의한다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ