3 Dating Coaches Help Me On 3 Blind Dates | In Your Head | Cut

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  • @jimmyquincy7846
    @jimmyquincy7846 3 года назад +8336

    I love how he didn't really need help from coaches when he found someone he can bond with
    Im definitely cheering for him and Sophie

    • @inchw0rm
      @inchw0rm 3 года назад +192

      ikr it was so nice to see him have an easier time talking on his own with her :)

    • @Ryanjleary
      @Ryanjleary 3 года назад +99

      Yeah that was good. He’s a very nice sweet guy & he’d a great pediatrician. Hope it works out for these two

    • @asdfghj13579fly
      @asdfghj13579fly 3 года назад +13

      He just learned from the first two interactions. Nothing magical. But I’m glad for him if he actually got her.

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 3 года назад +25

      Things get better with practice. It's also helpful if you go after someone who is into the same stuff as you. You have to feel it out and don't be overbearing right off the bat. He's charming if he takes his time and doesn't ramble. Otherwise, it'd be an instant turn off. Sophie was calm and made him calm too. I think he seemed not intimidated and it made him appeal more likeable.

    • @marcclark7013
      @marcclark7013 3 года назад +23

      "when he found someone he can bond with". AKA when the producers strategically paired him with someone last that generally meets his vibe. Please tell me no one sees this as completely planned and thought the coaches in his ear were the real reason the last girl had any kind of vibe with him...

  • @matthewshields789
    @matthewshields789 3 года назад +4148

    This guy might actually be the most likable person CUT has ever had on their channel

    • @marcels_wine9602
      @marcels_wine9602 3 года назад +19

      His name is Azeem he went to Lynnwood Highschool in Washington lol

    • @c-dogg9188
      @c-dogg9188 3 года назад +18

      @@marcels_wine9602 must've been his classmate

    • @righteousraccoon
      @righteousraccoon 3 года назад +120

      @@marcels_wine9602 what you doxxing azeem for?

    • @NorthStarCinema
      @NorthStarCinema 3 года назад +6

      Thought this was Jubilee at first, lol!

    • @albertosbabo8182
      @albertosbabo8182 3 года назад +8

      I fucking agree! I wanna be his friend!!!

  • @Jsparrow123_
    @Jsparrow123_ 3 года назад +9643

    I just wanted to give him a hug to help calm him - such a wholesome guy

    • @meatismurderbevegan4224
      @meatismurderbevegan4224 3 года назад +16

      Be vegan

    • @asphaistosis6634
      @asphaistosis6634 3 года назад +30

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 Eat meat

    • @ohreally69
      @ohreally69 3 года назад +11

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 their choice bruh

    • @Kenny......
      @Kenny...... 3 года назад +6

      @@ohreally69 i know theyre being super annoying but ur reply provoked me to ask u what u think about the animals choice in the scenario? Like yeah we all grow up with meat being a big part of the culture and we never rly question it because it seems absurd that something so many people including ourselves do would be morally completely unjust, but having looked more into the arguments, how terrible the animals have it, and just being faced with the fact that what we are doing is completely unnecessary in todays western world, my views on the topic changed and now im trying to reduce my meat consumption with hopes of it being zero one day

    • @ohreally69
      @ohreally69 3 года назад +19

      @@Kenny...... I'm a vegan myself,but i hate it when they just comment things like this out of the blue,and not just that,he/she is spamming it in every comments,and that's annoying AF,if you want people to be vegan,you should property tell them what problems they are causing by eating meat,not spam these types of comments,they make vegans look bad, it's the same as christians just randomly preaching about God in someone's comment

  • @dab3stbb
    @dab3stbb 3 года назад +3734

    Lesson of the video: you can’t force chemistry and attraction on the wrong people

    • @orakekileer1552
      @orakekileer1552 3 года назад +95

      What I got: be relaxed, it’s ok to be a little nervous though, but just yourself.
      Worked for him with the last girl because he was actually connecting with the person and they weren’t giving terrible advice which worked out better than when they were. The girl in the middle was the best tho. In the end if they don’t like you for who you are though, they’re not the one

    • @agro9999
      @agro9999 3 года назад +24

      Lesson of the video.. dating is high risk low reward as a guy. "Being yourself" is advice given to women but not applicable to men. You gotta be ambitious (make money), confident and have good flirt game. Women have the ability to be completely dormant and still get hit on. You will never see a show where woman who is unable to ever have a date

    • @KinghtofZero00
      @KinghtofZero00 3 года назад +16

      Another lesson of the video: don't higher bad dating couches to "help" you on dates

    • @katakuri774
      @katakuri774 3 года назад +4

      @@agro9999 redpill 101. Im more on the blavkpilled side though.

    • @gimmekromer1151
      @gimmekromer1151 3 года назад +2

      Yeah he could only bond with the last girl

  • @justwatching5188
    @justwatching5188 3 года назад +5116

    Would have been interesting to hear what the women had to say about him after the date

    • @malcolm5514
      @malcolm5514 3 года назад +96

      would love to see more of these videos but I agree, more from the other person and possibly more from the coaches! 😁

    • @skie6282
      @skie6282 3 года назад +194

      For us yes, but for him it night be better to not hear.. not that they would really be mean, but when your that nervous about women and dating it doesnt take alot of negativity to completely knock you down

    • @malcolm5514
      @malcolm5514 3 года назад +7

      @@skie6282 I agree, I think we should be able to hear him, and probably the coaches but not him! Not the person on the 3 dates!!!

    • @justwatching5188
      @justwatching5188 3 года назад +8

      @@skie6282 As he asked all of them on second dates he may sit at home later wondering why they ghost him/cancel the date. I have a feeling he was just not their type for the first two.

    • @mr.89chevy13
      @mr.89chevy13 3 года назад +31

      Honestly, the first one might have only negative feedback because she wasnt feeling it. The second I see her giving barely any negative but lots of positive. The third, she already wants to get married.

  • @alexishall3614
    @alexishall3614 3 года назад +808

    Cora was by far the best coach. Genuine and focused more on how he was feeling/perceiving himself. Bring her back!

    • @kiwichi4488
      @kiwichi4488 3 года назад +40

      She's always so great on the show, a genuinely great personality!

    • @StrawberryNinjaNibbles
      @StrawberryNinjaNibbles 2 года назад +27

      Right?
      The guy that said “get her consent on asking that question” made me cringe lol

    • @enayaganguly4687
      @enayaganguly4687 2 года назад +8

      @@StrawberryNinjaNibbles ??? I thought that was good advice. What was cringey about that?/gen

    • @YusufKhan-ye7rp
      @YusufKhan-ye7rp 2 года назад +12

      @@enayaganguly4687 asking for unnecessary consent is a huge turn off for most women, maybe not you specifically but by far the majority.

    • @ketokeko
      @ketokeko Год назад

      @@YusufKhan-ye7rp Omg stop acting like it's the majority yall taking statistics outta ur ass it's important to get consent

  • @mattiaserra1179
    @mattiaserra1179 3 года назад +9255

    Man is brave af for even trying this!

  • @phamwhich
    @phamwhich 3 года назад +2059

    “Just be genuinely curious about the person in front of you”
    *YOU LIKE ANIME?* LMAO

    • @omgpaola4940
      @omgpaola4940 3 года назад +32

      LMFAOOOOO

    • @youtubewatcher4955
      @youtubewatcher4955 3 года назад +66

      The live action version of “act stupid…! NOT THAT STUPID!”

    • @lincreates8724
      @lincreates8724 3 года назад +49

      I mean it worked😂

    • @NOCTURNALCURVES
      @NOCTURNALCURVES 3 года назад +30

      My boyfriend of one year just realized this was the first message he sent me after we matched on tinder and we absolutely lost it. (Also I barely even like anime so it's even more impressive)

    • @TheMrbasebll
      @TheMrbasebll 3 года назад +18

      @@lincreates8724 Imagine if the girl said no. It would've been the worst scenario possible

  • @vanitum9172
    @vanitum9172 3 года назад +7121

    "Are you into anime?"
    AND IT ACTUALLY WORKED, WHAT A MADLAD

    • @alexoh6943
      @alexoh6943 3 года назад +256

      Yo that is what I’m saying, how many times in the world you get to use that line Lmaoooo

    • @okn3297
      @okn3297 3 года назад +56

      @Waldel Martell This, quite a few people like anime these days.

    • @anattackhelicopter2680
      @anattackhelicopter2680 3 года назад +84

      I honestly don't get what's so bad about asking a girl whether she likes anime. It's an interest and if she likes it, then it's a common interest. It's no different to asking a girl whether she watches your favorite show. I literally asked my current gf whether she watches anime the first time I chatted her up and now I am on a date with her today celebrating her birthday. It's an interest.
      For any guy out there that likes anime, you can definitely put out anime as one of your interests and it might work depending on the girl.
      Don't be discouraged, my gees.

    • @ians2777
      @ians2777 3 года назад +33

      @@anattackhelicopter2680 it's similar to asking if she likes gaming. She might, she might not, but there is a risk of her having some sort of negative feelings about it. You have to keep in mind how judgemental women get away with being because they have it so easy. You guys can get along fine even if you don't both like something but that may not matter as far as 1st impressions.

    • @anattackhelicopter2680
      @anattackhelicopter2680 3 года назад +11

      @@ians2777 true. I guess it's just about reading the room and the body language of the girl. Yes, you also don't need to really have much in common to hit it off

  • @wy4553
    @wy4553 3 года назад +316

    I love the energy of the second girl. She seems like a person who's really easy to talk to and would just be chill to hang out with. And I'm so happy to see how quickly he bonded with the third girl over their love of anime. That was definitely the most genuine conversation of the three. I had such a big smile throughout both the second and third date, especially the third.

  • @user-cd5mc8vs1t
    @user-cd5mc8vs1t 3 года назад +4816

    Same thing but its 3 of your friends.
    "Now tell her she got a dump truck"

  • @smokingsoilder
    @smokingsoilder 3 года назад +1577

    Homegirl in the middle is the only one who makes any damn sense

    • @UpsNdownZZZ
      @UpsNdownZZZ 3 года назад +4

      The middle date, you mean?

    • @smokingsoilder
      @smokingsoilder 3 года назад +182

      @@UpsNdownZZZ no the "dating coach"

    • @danielcaeserlover14
      @danielcaeserlover14 3 года назад +7

      Facts bruh

    • @sulagreen5792
      @sulagreen5792 3 года назад +139

      She was good on the other videos, but she tells him to ask about a second date too quick and make forward moves too soon imo. It turns them off when he moves too quick. Needs to get to know them and establish a rapport for longer imo.

    • @smokingsoilder
      @smokingsoilder 3 года назад +31

      @@sulagreen5792 agreed. Compared to the others though... Lol

  • @midnightat3am
    @midnightat3am 3 года назад +5045

    I feel like the coaches were really there just to give him that assurance and boost his confidence, so by the time he met Sophie things went better and plus they’re so similar things became super natural. Man just needed a lil help and reminder to relax, know his worth and the rest followed smoothly. :)

    • @YoungBasedChefBeezy
      @YoungBasedChefBeezy 3 года назад +91

      They ruined his chances. They have no clue what they’re doing.

    • @khalilfaiz8117
      @khalilfaiz8117 3 года назад +6

      @@YoungBasedChefBeezy fax thank you

    • @midnightat3am
      @midnightat3am 3 года назад +9

      @@YoungBasedChefBeezy how so? I did think the guests knowing they were in his ear was a horrible idea but I think what they said kind of helped him have a little bit of guidance towards the end

    • @aj3706
      @aj3706 3 года назад +60

      @@midnightat3am ''ask about what she likes about you and also get her consent on that''
      he has only met her some minutes ago and the date isn't going as good for him to ask a question like that.
      ''tum yum from thailand and that she is tum yum''
      do I even need to explain this?
      watch aba and preach's video, that will save you the time

    • @midnightat3am
      @midnightat3am 3 года назад +27

      @@aj3706 PLS THE TOM YUM ONE WAS SO STUPID LOL YOURE RIGHT

  • @Pacolad
    @Pacolad 3 года назад +836

    “And you’re thom yum”?? Are you forreal? This coach really thought he spit the best bar of the dates

    • @sunnc
      @sunnc 3 года назад +66

      fr like huh I was confuse

    • @gamalsankara1388
      @gamalsankara1388 3 года назад +101

      That shit was sooo cring smh

    • @BRexxors
      @BRexxors 3 года назад +48

      He needs to ask consent before putting out fire like that

    • @mayaibrahimli6520
      @mayaibrahimli6520 3 года назад +38

      he was not really helpful and made him more nervous((((

    • @A-Wa
      @A-Wa 2 года назад +2

      what does that even mean?

  • @frz02f64
    @frz02f64 3 года назад +11080

    "I'll show you my Animal Crossing town" Dude. You're in.

    • @jonaswolterstorff3460
      @jonaswolterstorff3460 3 года назад +549

      „ tell me that you’re into me without telling me that you’re into me”

    • @carmeister_
      @carmeister_ 3 года назад +22

      😂

    • @bella-pi4kr
      @bella-pi4kr 3 года назад +42

      MY DREAM

    • @AdamX1124
      @AdamX1124 3 года назад +109

      “Dude you’re so in there!” ~ Greg

    • @yungshad
      @yungshad 3 года назад +24

      @@AdamX1124 I WAS JUST ABT TO COMMENT THIS! Everyyyybodyyyyyy haaaaaaaates Chriiiiiiiiiiiiisssssssssssss!

  • @sammyn.9141
    @sammyn.9141 3 года назад +239

    “Tell her a hobby you’ve always wanted to try”
    “You know I’ve always wanted to do a backflip”
    THAT HAD ME WEAK😭😭😭💀💀💀

  • @Its_Jess00
    @Its_Jess00 3 года назад +3706

    The beginning had me nervous but the ending was so sweet

  • @jusemecri
    @jusemecri 3 года назад +125

    No coaches were needed after "Do you like anime?" he made the whole damn thing after that

    • @raymondleggs5508
      @raymondleggs5508 4 месяца назад

      This sis why you date people that you would actually meet where you would even hang out.

  • @susannaharnhart4910
    @susannaharnhart4910 3 года назад +2167

    It’s easy to critique him with the first two girls, but I think we gotta just critique the chemistry. He was genuine and authentic with the third girl, the coaches didn’t need to say much, and their chemistry was fun to watch!

    • @TheCiddie
      @TheCiddie 3 года назад +38

      I agree!! People also tend to be much more forgiving of our social blunders when there's a genuine vibe going

    • @Tony_Pesta
      @Tony_Pesta 3 года назад +40

      Fr tho, the first two girls just weren't a good match. He stayed true to himself and it paid off once he found someone who was actually a good match

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 3 года назад +11

      I feel liked they'd be good friends though not romantic partners. He definitely gives off a really nice and charming personality but he gives off more "let's hang out and be friends" vibes than "let's be romantic" vibes.

    • @aymace8209
      @aymace8209 3 года назад +9

      Coaches were the ones to critique they were garbage with their advice

    • @thedogbrandonchoked9830
      @thedogbrandonchoked9830 3 года назад +1

      @@aymace8209 worst coaches ever

  • @kelseyw731
    @kelseyw731 2 года назад +51

    You could tell how nervous he was with the first two girls, he was talking fast, kept saying "you know", but with the last girl that all basically went away. You really cannot force chemistry and this is the perfect example of that. Good for him for doing this

  • @Neon_Rust
    @Neon_Rust 3 года назад +1415

    He seems like the nicest guy. His nerves are obvious with how fast he his speaking. You can clearly tell he's a cool dude though. Just taking a breath and slowing down would make him seem less eager and anxious. Hope it works out for him cause he genuinely seems like a good fella.

  • @hugokarlen3510
    @hugokarlen3510 3 года назад +536

    He's shy, he's awkward, but I find that really charming in a way

    • @krisnaga91
      @krisnaga91 3 года назад +17

      Because he's a good dude who would treat his girl like a queen.

    • @onetimeiateanindonesianguy6183
      @onetimeiateanindonesianguy6183 3 года назад +11

      Or because you're insecure and would easily be able to control him, he's safe but you'd hurt him bad when someone you respected came along and threw you an ounce of something to work with.

    • @agro9999
      @agro9999 3 года назад

      Nice guys finish last

    • @krisnaga91
      @krisnaga91 3 года назад +2

      @@onetimeiateanindonesianguy6183 Facts

    • @katakuri774
      @katakuri774 3 года назад +4

      @@onetimeiateanindonesianguy6183 holy shit thats based. Good to see that more and more men wake up.

  • @MissJodieElizabeth
    @MissJodieElizabeth 3 года назад +1401

    How cute was he with Sophie?! .. the two of them together sharing similar interests and being so animated about their hobbies; literally was the cutest thing, he barely needed advice when he started talking to Sophie 🥰

    • @csch1510
      @csch1510 3 года назад +19

      Aha, being animated about anime...

    • @remylebeau4770
      @remylebeau4770 3 года назад +9

      True! When they say chemistry is important, listen to them lol.

    • @csch1510
      @csch1510 3 года назад +2

      @@remylebeau4770 yeah, did screw up royally lately because I ignored the most basic *and* important incridient for love

    • @remylebeau4770
      @remylebeau4770 3 года назад +4

      @@csch1510 all we can do is to learn and grow. Good luck 👍

    • @csch1510
      @csch1510 3 года назад +2

      @@remylebeau4770 thanks man

  • @busisiwemokatse2973
    @busisiwemokatse2973 3 года назад +51

    I had a friend who was literally like this, sweet, funny and intelligent as hell, but just a ball of nerves. We fell out of touch, but Lunga, it's still all love my dude.

  • @GARBEHH
    @GARBEHH 3 года назад +1409

    They should have given him at advice between dates. Being in his ear while he is dating just makes him more nervous and awkward

    • @blamethemonkey784
      @blamethemonkey784 3 года назад +36

      Super agree with this.

    • @user-pe2yx9kt4e
      @user-pe2yx9kt4e 3 года назад

      @@blamethemonkey784 same!

    • @mr.m9979
      @mr.m9979 3 года назад +10

      Doesn't help that their advice is terrible.

    • @joanneng9145
      @joanneng9145 3 года назад +2

      Then it would probably span 2 videos to see him use their advice. This way makes it easier to see the effect, but bad thing is that the dude gotta multitask which is not easy

    • @nathanfievet5546
      @nathanfievet5546 3 года назад

      There's this thing where giving advices within the date makes him more secure. Like if he fucks up something there's people behind him. Also i think it's easier to learn how to date with real time advices

  • @airtagoscar
    @airtagoscar 3 года назад +282

    That dude gave the most horrible advice ever. How is dating coach his profession?

    • @lalavalenzuela6835
      @lalavalenzuela6835 3 года назад +5

      Deadass!😂

    • @graceg9086
      @graceg9086 3 года назад +29

      Yes tomy-yumi ????

    • @FeelingLucky246
      @FeelingLucky246 2 года назад +7

      better than the girl on the right just saying shit like "be genuine" come on that aint helpful bruh

  • @_phiaa
    @_phiaa 3 года назад +2677

    Dude seemed so nervous 😭 I feel like he spoke so fast!

    • @meatismurderbevegan4224
      @meatismurderbevegan4224 3 года назад +15

      Be vegan

    • @ChatiseE
      @ChatiseE 3 года назад +109

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 ok Erin

    • @totga2217
      @totga2217 3 года назад +27

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 Erin coming for her revenge y'all 😭

    • @fos1451
      @fos1451 3 года назад +5

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 the dedication

    • @asphaistosis6634
      @asphaistosis6634 3 года назад +5

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 Eat meat

  • @akagrim0
    @akagrim0 3 года назад +48

    For anyone hating this man, he had the bravery and balls to do this, he’ll improve as time goes by. Some things you CANT get down overnight but we’ll see for a update. proud of bro for stepping up 💯

  • @zenobiasur2331
    @zenobiasur2331 3 года назад +3079

    I mean it's doomed from the beginning because the dates already know he's being helped by THREE coaches

    • @irian42
      @irian42 3 года назад +100

      Don't you think in that case it would be doomed afterwards then when they realized they were deceived?

    • @111-s4o
      @111-s4o 3 года назад +67

      @@irian42 yeah i mean you got a point there haha
      But those aren’t genuine conversations and the girls don’t get to know him if they can’t hear what are his words or what the coaches told him to do. He’s sort of their robot and the girls don’t know what is real yk ?

    • @irian42
      @irian42 3 года назад +21

      @@111-s4o Maybe the solution is to deceive the person with the ear piece instead: Tell him he's coached by dating coaches and instead he's coached by... I don't know... the Dominatrix!

    • @meatismurderbevegan4224
      @meatismurderbevegan4224 3 года назад +3

      Be vegan

    • @asphaistosis6634
      @asphaistosis6634 3 года назад +19

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 Eat meat

  • @PlayitAgain16
    @PlayitAgain16 3 года назад +23

    Honestly keep doing this series with just Cora! She's definitely the best one and having one person in your ear rather than 3 is easier to focus on

  • @alexisbeattie595
    @alexisbeattie595 3 года назад +2475

    this made me anxious as fuck

    • @IncredibleIceCastle
      @IncredibleIceCastle 3 года назад +137

      Because he’s experiencing severe anxiety and we all relate to that

    • @user-wp4pp6gw8h
      @user-wp4pp6gw8h 3 года назад +18

      @@IncredibleIceCastle thanks Doctor.

    • @Caljay213
      @Caljay213 3 года назад +3

      Definitely

    • @quietcell
      @quietcell 3 года назад +1

      @@IncredibleIceCastle am sweatin'

    • @isabellescales3763
      @isabellescales3763 2 года назад +2

      My hands were sweating after the first date

  • @Jack-on2fb
    @Jack-on2fb 3 года назад +58

    I feel like the coaches advice was a bit creepy...like telling him to put his hand closer and say what he likes about her...like clearly she was not matching the vibe in that way...I think it was best when he just did what he thought of himself cause it was way more genuine

  • @notoriousg3660
    @notoriousg3660 3 года назад +1433

    Bro could easily make it in the rap game if he ever got bored from his current doctor goal

    • @jrussel99
      @jrussel99 3 года назад +51

      You know?? lol homie was dope af, love his vibe

    • @InfiresTaekook
      @InfiresTaekook 3 года назад +8

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Caljay213
      @Caljay213 3 года назад +3

      Stopppp

    • @romeonetili6658
      @romeonetili6658 3 года назад

      😂

    • @joellebruce1014
      @joellebruce1014 3 года назад +38

      This man was rapping god knows how many words before he took a breath🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @makenzieroe95
    @makenzieroe95 3 года назад +17

    Im genuinely happy that sophie and him met, im happy for him bc he seems so sweet

  • @alyssaxmagro
    @alyssaxmagro 3 года назад +442

    Omg when they started bonding over anime, I almost cried. Im not even into anime but seeing their excitement talking about it was absolutely adorable.

  • @alexare7948
    @alexare7948 3 года назад +22

    The last date was wholesome af.

  • @thirza_
    @thirza_ 3 года назад +652

    I think when the dating coaches told him to do things it made it worse lol, he was doing better by himself

    • @MrKrinsebacke
      @MrKrinsebacke 3 года назад +103

      They always made him say or do something meta or unnatural-like addressing that it's a date, complimenting them in a very straight forward fashion-that's really not his deal and made it quite awkward

    • @navonmyhand7999
      @navonmyhand7999 3 года назад +60

      @Philipp S yeah like the guy telling him to make a pun joke was just awkward. Should've just gave him general help, not telling him to say specific things he thought were funny.

    • @agro9999
      @agro9999 3 года назад +3

      Dumb ahs coaches who got no experience dating women

    • @MFKST
      @MFKST 3 года назад +4

      Cuz it was women, women don't actually know what's really hook them

    • @sulagreen5792
      @sulagreen5792 3 года назад +7

      Yeah their advice wasn't great. The only good advice they gave was to compliment the women. Other than that the advice was awkward and weird.

  • @camrimatthews4
    @camrimatthews4 Год назад +14

    Omg I got super emotional with the last date!!!!! So cute. Match made in heaven!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kevinharrison1106
    @kevinharrison1106 3 года назад +548

    His confidence and reading the other person date-to-date actually evolved REALLY quickly! Slower and Lower voice would have boosted sexual tension for some razzle dazzle, but he brought it in personality. I'm proud!

  • @BLeigh1993
    @BLeigh1993 3 года назад +18

    Omg he’s cheesing so hard at the end, I’m sooo happy for him! Love this!

  • @marcoouwens9422
    @marcoouwens9422 3 года назад +132

    Yo this guy actually has a heart of gold its hard to find people like this nowadays.

  • @jamiehenson4839
    @jamiehenson4839 3 года назад +19

    OMG this was so adorable ☺️ especially the last date. He’s such a kind, genuine person

  • @cut
    @cut  3 года назад +474

    More episodes to come! We switch up the "experts". Next episode coming out is 3 grandmas giving a young man advice while on dates.

    • @orangemarmalade77
      @orangemarmalade77 3 года назад +26

      Keep Cora for all of them but switch up the other two. Cora's advice is gold.

    • @winstonliang9710
      @winstonliang9710 3 года назад +3

      You guys are feeding inkwells bluepilled advice! Stop offering false hope!

    • @berneaubourg7882
      @berneaubourg7882 3 года назад +8

      Then do 1 with 3 friends

    • @depressedessendonfan5702
      @depressedessendonfan5702 3 года назад +9

      Can you please never bring these ones back again

    • @Pacolad
      @Pacolad 3 года назад +4

      I feel bad for whoever’s getting advice, I hope you pay them well

  • @wahaburrahman3165
    @wahaburrahman3165 3 года назад +5

    He's the kind of guy who's honest and I really like that about him
    He's charming.

  • @Kreem_soda
    @Kreem_soda 3 года назад +68

    Listening to him talk feels like what goes on in my head

    • @pebbles92able
      @pebbles92able 3 года назад +5

      Right. I am very quiet but that goes on in my head lol.

  • @Cardinnall
    @Cardinnall 3 года назад +12

    The coaches are AWEFUL. Dudes cool and would have done way better by himself

  • @kiannaaaaaa
    @kiannaaaaaa 3 года назад +87

    He and the third girl had so much in common!! They r super cute together😍

  • @themischievousgentleman5521
    @themischievousgentleman5521 3 года назад +205

    The saddest part is that this kid is gonna give the coaches credit for the one date that went well in spite of them. 🤦‍♂️

    • @big-gloom
      @big-gloom 3 года назад +47

      Right. He wasn't even that awkward and his awkwardness was charming anyway, the coaches advice made this cringey.

  • @moochimichimoo
    @moochimichimoo 3 года назад +168

    Awww he's so adorable!! watching his last date with Sophie got me smiling so hard!

    • @jelly4563
      @jelly4563 3 года назад +2

      It was so adorable to watch! Chemistry was thereee!!

  • @ragealized
    @ragealized 3 года назад +79

    Man should've removed the earpiece mid-date as a power move lol

  • @JustLetMePickAFuckingUsername
    @JustLetMePickAFuckingUsername 3 года назад +399

    I loved this guy in Ned's declassified

  • @wy4553
    @wy4553 3 года назад +6

    I wanna see more eps of them using dating coaches! He was really nervous but he did a great job of working their suggestions into the conversation.

  • @sayrah6716
    @sayrah6716 3 года назад +71

    the first date was Rough, but he warmed up & did a lot better for the second & third so good for him!!! it's clear he's a genuinely sweet person who's been psyching himself out on dates in the past. I hope he gets that second date with Sophie.

  • @daijahm6159
    @daijahm6159 3 года назад +5

    That last date really brought tears to my eyes, I was so happy for him. You can’t really tell they give and they match really well 🥲

  • @user-qu8zs7vs1x
    @user-qu8zs7vs1x 3 года назад +376

    All the comments saying "Man, he's nervous af"... that's literally the point of this video, to see how someone who's not overly confident can feel more confident and relaxed with the help of dating coaches. People commenting that he's moving too much or talking too fast are really missing the point of how nervousness on dates works.

    • @amandamelo234
      @amandamelo234 3 года назад +1

      I think people are literally commenting how they fell lmao it's ok to say he's nervous because he is and we can see that and that's ok. People will always comment what they're thinking and how they feel about the content and CUT knows that, let people do that lmao

    • @user-qu8zs7vs1x
      @user-qu8zs7vs1x 3 года назад +3

      @@amandamelo234 let me comment whatever I want for god's sake then

  • @mimi-du5tl
    @mimi-du5tl 3 года назад +21

    Moral of the video is that you don’t need to try that hard when you’re with the right people. ALSO BREATHE!

  • @riyadhrollins7905
    @riyadhrollins7905 3 года назад +58

    This man is a national treasure, I hope he receives the most happiness that can fit in a person

  • @FarmYardBros
    @FarmYardBros 3 года назад +92

    Holy god these dating coaches don't have a clue. He would have done better on his own for sure.

    • @prettyhamburger6462
      @prettyhamburger6462 3 года назад +52

      The one in the middle was great. No weird things, just like encouraging him, reminding him to breathe and get back into his body. I feel like that was some great advice for him

    • @FarmYardBros
      @FarmYardBros 3 года назад +3

      @@prettyhamburger6462 she was a bit better than the others SOMETIMES, she also told him, "Tell her she's intriguing, has a little of an edge, she's got pink hair." 2:59

    • @prettyhamburger6462
      @prettyhamburger6462 3 года назад +2

      @@FarmYardBros do you think that was terrible haha

    • @prettyhamburger6462
      @prettyhamburger6462 3 года назад +3

      @@FarmYardBros I guess I see what you mean though, he would have probably found stuff to tell her on his own.. i feel like this question was a way of getting her to say more about herself and to me, there's nothing wrong with that advice from the coach

    • @prettyhamburger6462
      @prettyhamburger6462 3 года назад +7

      @@FarmYardBros but I definitely still think she was way better than the other ones, they seemed very pickup artist like and not at all in tune with what was going on, with their corny jokes and vague "make her like you" kind of advice 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @alessandraecho
    @alessandraecho 3 года назад +109

    Gosh I love Cora. She should be featured in more videos! And black hair looks so good on her! 🥰

  • @jessicashelley05
    @jessicashelley05 2 года назад +3

    i love that he says “yknow?” after everything😭 you can tell how nervous he is awh😭

  • @irian42
    @irian42 3 года назад +42

    Thank you, Cut, for not deceiving the dates! So glad you didn't try to trick them!

  • @catherinelin9711
    @catherinelin9711 2 года назад +10

    Them talking about anime and the resin knives got me smiling ear to ear, very cute, but when the dating coach told him to scoot his chair in and put his hand on the table it got a little awkward. I think he was doing really well on his own. I think the best thing the coach got him to do was breathe.

  • @12bestskater12
    @12bestskater12 3 года назад +43

    With the last girl, I really wanted the coaches to shut up tbh. It seemed like he was comfortable and enjoying her company and the coaches just seemed to interrupt the date's progress.

  • @ZeldaFeb
    @ZeldaFeb 3 года назад +16

    I was taking notes LOL that middle lady gave some helpful reminders for social anxiety 🗒

  • @julietvanzon8502
    @julietvanzon8502 3 года назад +54

    Please give us an update about the last date!!! Loved how they were nerding out :)

  • @rambayoo
    @rambayoo 3 года назад +8

    This really tells you that dating is a numbers game and its often about incompatibility rather than your inherent worth.

  • @111-s4o
    @111-s4o 3 года назад +638

    I don’t get the point if the date knows that there are coaches in the back

    • @Marronii
      @Marronii 3 года назад +40

      You can see it that way:
      You don't want to date someone who is good on first dates, you want someone you could genuinly love. Either of these traits does neither imply nor rule out the other.
      So if you are really bad at first dates. Which he seems to be, this seems fine to me. He doesn't lie or anything. The coaches just help him in what direction he should go, but what he says in the end is up to him and seems very genuine. And that is what you should be looking out for.
      Obviously confidence is an attractive trait, but that is about the only thing I can think of that it doesn't make it easier for him, which we saw in the first two dates.

    • @TheCiddie
      @TheCiddie 3 года назад +7

      Well, it's like getting advice from someone on dating and then applying it in real life. Does that make you less genuine? If they tell you to compliment someone, that's just a socially intelligent thing to do, but it's not like he's lying about finding her eyes pretty or whatever. Maybe the only thing is that the next date might not be as smooth, but hey, lots of not so favorable things get revealed about ourselves as we move forward in dating.
      Also, social intelligence is a skill that not everyone has but there's nothing wrong with needing practice or getting some support on it. As an autistic person, this video was actually super illuminating!! I'm not even anxious I just wouldn't understand why you would need to say certain things at certain moments, you know? So yeah!

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 3 года назад +1

      It's to give him practice dates.

    • @tanie3543
      @tanie3543 3 года назад +3

      @@Marronii woahhj this logic sums it up!

  • @seducedbysasquatch
    @seducedbysasquatch 2 года назад +4

    This dude is so sweet! I hope he builds more confidence and learns just how funny, smart, kind and charming he is :)

  • @irian42
    @irian42 3 года назад +494

    Alternative idea: What if it's not dating coaches but... I don't know... a Dominatrix, a Drag Queen and a Rabbi... or something like that!

    • @antoinettemur
      @antoinettemur 3 года назад +24

      That actually sounds like such a better idea lmao

    • @cut
      @cut  3 года назад +273

      Great idea! We actually filmed multiple episodes. Next episodes include grandmas giving advice and drag queens giving advice!

    • @TheCiddie
      @TheCiddie 3 года назад +41

      Or, hear me out, a Drag queen Dominatrix Rabbi?

    • @artemuycaro
      @artemuycaro 3 года назад +2

      They also have an episode on HiHo with kids coaching a blind date, super funny

    • @alfonso201
      @alfonso201 3 года назад +3

      This is horrible

  • @Blingblow_779
    @Blingblow_779 3 года назад +12

    Cora is such a baddie and my guy is very brave
    Also we need a show with this guy and follow his journey. Make this happen CUT!!!

  • @sarahhewitt9297
    @sarahhewitt9297 3 года назад +99

    I’m screaming ‘breaaaaattthhheeee’
    Breathe dude

    • @KateCarew
      @KateCarew 3 года назад +3

      Yes!! I’m breathing FOR him!

    • @jrussel99
      @jrussel99 3 года назад +2

      That one coach got him to do that before Sophie's date. Solid move.

    • @pebbles92able
      @pebbles92able 3 года назад +4

      I have general anxiety and I spend a lot of my time holding my breath. It can get really tough.

  • @Kagiso22
    @Kagiso22 3 года назад +22

    The last date shows that sometimes all you need is someone that you can relate to.
    His whole energy changed when Sophie showed up. I hope things go well on their 2nd date

  • @dennispaulson6954
    @dennispaulson6954 3 года назад +21

    I was dying inside for the first two dates but my man came through for the 3rd one!! Honestly that was upliftng as hell!! 3rd times the charm :)

  • @isabelsierra894
    @isabelsierra894 3 года назад +8

    He looks so nice and if he ever gets to be a paediatrician (which I hope he does), he is definitely going to be great with the kids

  • @nala6846
    @nala6846 3 года назад +31

    Aww he didn't even need the coaches help for that last date. They really naturally clicked together 🥺

  • @madelinerose352
    @madelinerose352 3 года назад +18

    I wanna cry he is the sweetest soul ever

  • @merlin4306
    @merlin4306 3 года назад +152

    He honestly did the best he could with their terrible advice

  • @ctineex3
    @ctineex3 3 года назад +51

    Oh I fucking love Cora!!!!!!! Glad she’s back she full hectic

  • @Bori.1776
    @Bori.1776 3 года назад +26

    If you ever feel useless remember that these “dating coaches” exist.

  • @Rozzajames
    @Rozzajames 3 года назад +7

    “You’re doing something really brave here, we’ve got your back” must of calmed his nerves so much, love it

  • @juliangomez6560
    @juliangomez6560 2 года назад +1

    Love this guy he’s that one friend that everyone has that does nothing wrong and everyone loves

  • @Clayvicle
    @Clayvicle 3 года назад +24

    Cut has been really upping the quality and variety of content lately. This was awesome

  • @BurnRandyBurn
    @BurnRandyBurn 3 года назад +7

    The amount of times he said “ya know” I took a shot. I’m dying. Help

  • @jessiearroyo2636
    @jessiearroyo2636 3 года назад +32

    Thank god I’m not the only one that talks incredibly fast when meeting new people

  • @DeadPyro96
    @DeadPyro96 3 года назад +9

    This is the best Impractical Jokers skit I've seen!

  • @2sickCHAVAS
    @2sickCHAVAS 3 года назад +7

    Crazy how just one person can completely change the vibe and make you feel a certain way

  • @TheVampireAzriel
    @TheVampireAzriel 3 года назад +34

    Abba and Preach are right though, the two dating coaches at the end are trash. The middle one is okay.

  • @adekunletaiwo1342
    @adekunletaiwo1342 3 года назад +70

    I want to be his friend so badly

    • @IncredibleIceCastle
      @IncredibleIceCastle 3 года назад +6

      Same man I know exactly how he feels even though I don’t have as consistent of social anxiety I 100% understand the physiological impacts of experiencing this level of anxiety in a social interaction

    • @adekunletaiwo1342
      @adekunletaiwo1342 3 года назад

      @@IncredibleIceCastle hey I feel you, I have never personally tried to date before simply because it’s not been an important thing in my life right now but when I do I am going to try to be as kind and understand as possible to people like this because lots of people are extremely dismissive of them when as we have seen in this case they can be really cool

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps 3 года назад +5

    He's so wholesome but he was nervous as hell 😭😭😭...bless him

  • @asandamkhize6018
    @asandamkhize6018 3 года назад +85

    He’s sooo adorable and quirky it’s giving Norbit vibes ☺️

    • @navonmyhand7999
      @navonmyhand7999 3 года назад

      I didn't wanna be the one to say it but the afro is too similar 😅

  • @dj_ccc
    @dj_ccc 3 года назад +1

    The way he switched from being so nervous to super comfortable & excited!! So wholesome

  • @popatkapopat
    @popatkapopat 3 года назад +26

    Good for him to put himself out there like that. He just needs a little practice and self love.

  • @younggod6940
    @younggod6940 3 года назад +1

    Mans had such a good mentality. “At least I’m manifesting it” inspired me to push myself

  • @Journeyman1642
    @Journeyman1642 3 года назад +89

    This would have been A WHOLE LOT BETTER if the actual daties didn’t know he had the ear piece!

    • @meatismurderbevegan4224
      @meatismurderbevegan4224 3 года назад +1

      Be vegan

    • @irian42
      @irian42 3 года назад +26

      Well, that would feel awfully manipulative and would definitely blow everything up for him afterwards. So I like that they aren't deceiving them.

    • @TheClaireyboos
      @TheClaireyboos 3 года назад +10

      @@irian42 it'd be fun but i agree that it'd be manipulative, probs best to leave that scenario to the movies

    • @asphaistosis6634
      @asphaistosis6634 3 года назад

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 Eat meat

    • @mollyhazel9278
      @mollyhazel9278 3 года назад +3

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 I really don't think this is the way to get people to go vegan. All you're doing is making people feel attacked/defensive and supporting a negative stereotype about vegans.

  • @rmg7298
    @rmg7298 3 года назад +18

    Maybe if these awful coaches stopped interrupting the flow by forcing him to make a meta comment about the situation he could actually get going, ffs.

  • @romanagusto9143
    @romanagusto9143 3 года назад +53

    I have never seen a video with this idea so I'm loving it already

  • @gregoriocascianelli3147
    @gregoriocascianelli3147 3 года назад +24

    "I'll show you my Animal Crossing town" oh yes the old trick...

  • @bethanykuntz5858
    @bethanykuntz5858 3 года назад +37

    Aww! I’m so happy he clicked with the last girl. He honestly did a really good job with all of them. You can just tell he was nervous and trying to get words out. Other than that, he did good! Everyone gets nervous for a first date. The second girl was also so sweet and supportive of him. Love her for that!

  • @alyssaroxanne9084
    @alyssaroxanne9084 2 года назад +2

    Take a shot every time he says “you know” hahah
    He’s so adorable and nervous

  • @gmork.
    @gmork. 3 года назад +5

    Omg he’s so sweet! He doesn’t need the help. The girl who also knows the awkwardness will see him and know she can comfortable with him.