If you are new to Crimson Cure, you're in for a treat. I came accross her by accident a few months ago and I've been hooked ever since. She breaks the concepts down so they can be easily understood by anyone who wants to learn. This woman is a Godsend for our society as it is today!
If this is this woman admitting her faults (as possibly many blacks skin women but not ALL back skin women have the issues she most likely touched n in her video)... shouldn't the proper title of this video be "I personally used to have nothing to offer but now I'm changing'?
My wife is multiracial and she had a son, but after we got together, she did 3 things 1) she gave me her food stamp card and ask me to manage the food shopping because she said she would spend too much on nonsense 2) she ask me to help her manage her money better even the child support money she was getting( I made sure I didn't take a dime) 3) she allowed me to discipline her son even though it was painful for her to watch Now 3 years later she looks back and still thanks me until this day So I'm not saying bw need to follow this exactly but my point is that if a woman relinquishes her pride and admit she needs help and ask for help and gives up her so called power, a mans instincts will kick in if he sees it's genuine and she will fell much better if she just lets him take the lead
@@charlesirby9571 cooperation is exactly what it is bro, now instead her having nothing left on food card I make sure I carry over $100 every month and buy Sunday newspaper and she sits and cuts out every coupon related to what we need bottom line is bro a man sleeps better when a woman just simply cooperates and trust the process
I feel like she spoke on behalf of women in general. Not just black women. Western world women have nothing to offer to mature & responsible men as we already have everything we need available to us : Peace of mind, financial stability, many friendships, skill sets to get us by in our daily lives and sex is a phone call away if we really need it as the escort market is flooded with women (especially black women) who offer sex for cheap and online p0rn is free. Men have everything they need at their fingertips. What can a women offer a man that he can't already get for himself? Nothing at all.
She needs to also recognized that she is not as attractive as she thinks she is to a man of value. Great reaction video that was spot on to her comment.
I see that too as most of them have bad attitudes and don't want to co-op on building a good household. It's like they want full control of everything.
@@destinymorton9874 no...this a national conversation because it is the norm, not a few. I don’t know this brother but I my self can vouch and validate his experience and give more details on my own experiences.
@@malikr2271 I agree. I really do. But it can be seen as both ways. Most white men and men of other races don’t leave their children to raised by their mother. It’s a systematic thing. The social acceptance of the independent woman can also be a factor but who’s putting that out for consumption? All that to say we still love y’all. We really do. I just hate it that we’re bashed and criticized to change when we should all change. All of us.
I think many women are exactly lilke her but just wont admit it. I definitely had a lot of characteristics she described. I had to and still have to, and its a HECK OF ALOT OF WORK. To reprogram ALLLLLLLLLLLLL that was put in my mind-consciously, subconsciously. From birth there were things that are taught to girls implied and directly over and over again. We see our mothers, the women in the community acting a certain way, and we totally model the behavior. I remember looking at my older cousin like she was weak, cause she submitted to her husband, they are still married to this day btw. This discussion was spot on. It's sad though cause I believe our village failed us completely, but at this point, we have to undo ourselves, unfortunately, we can't expect anyone to help us, other then like minded people like CRimson etc.
This was deep, finally a sister that takes accountability for her own actions. I honestly believe if do the necessary work to get herself together, she can make an excellent wife
Both women reveal the truth. If I am at level 8 & in your eyes I am worthy. I had to pull myself all the way up here, so why would I want to take on a financial burden & a liability. Some women & ppl in general can tear down your life so fast it's unbelievable. You take years to build it & the take days or even hours to tear it down. After you reach a certain level in life you naturally have to start be very careful who you allows in your life.
I'm a father and i promise ima sit down with my daughter and watch these important things kendra says, and i will explain it to her from a mans perspective also.
If black women in America did only play here role and respect the black man listen to the black man we would have accomplished so many things a long time ago but the stubbornness and the strong rejection from the black woman to the black man making progress come to a full STOP.
That's because too many of us black women allowed feminism and racial stereotypes from mass media get into our heads. We allowed feminism, mass media, and welfare turn us against our black men. Now we are screaming and shouting " Protect Black Women." Those who went against the leadership and authority of the black man are the ones doing the screaming & shouting "Protect Black Women." The chickens are coming home to roost.
I think you can see her stress. The things we eat make us stress more. The cheap foods are not good. Meat products are not good. When you can provide a stress free home for the man you have you have something for a man.
The most infuriating thing about this video? Its an absolute masterpeice, clinically broken down and explained with surgical precision. Each point given the time and expertise, needed to draw out theknowledge. Despite all of this, it will still be met with pushback, from a few hard headed individuals, who'll then get overly familiar with the 'dislike' button..
I will say this bm this is bw issue they all believe bm do not want them and no matter how much you show the truth they will believe what they want to believe. They KNOW what the problems are but they do not want to fix them. You can only drag someone to the water you cannot make them drink.
Beautifully done.....I listened to this video more than twice and I'm a man...girl your a gem... " priceless " and unequivocally on point...°God bless you..
That's why I promised my children I would never marry as long as they were in the home. Their all grown now, I can now offer 100% to a man. I love it! She was spot on & many of us think of these things. We're getting it together. I want to be made over, make me over!
@@logancampos2436 yes, I had 3 daughters; so I couldn't just cut up any kind of way. I've seen a lot of kids ruin marriages. It can be a rough spot for a Mother during Tug-O-War phases. I never wanted them to think they were 2nd to ANYONE. I just wanted to wait so whatever happens it would only involve my Husband & I.
@@badhombre8585 I was 23 with 3 kids, 3 baby daddies. Being a product of my environment. Anyway...I ended up running into an Ex & I was in a relationship with him. We were together 20 yrs til 2018. He's the only guy my kids grew up around. (In house)
Wow this topic reminds me of a conversation I had with a male coworker who has a wife with kids , years ago. He told me a (woman needs bring something to the table. ) don't come empty handed .🤔👏
I find it odd and disappointing that too many BW don't have hobbies or genuine interests. It's as if I could take 10 eligible, decent BW and do the same usual activities and they'd be fine... I already know their favorite movies and songs. Like where are the gamers? Do you sew or enjoy biking? What do you contemplate about this world or universe when you're alone? How do you engage the world in a meaningful way? And to be fair, I know they exist but they're just few and far between. Idk, it gets boring...
The Sister was simply being Honest. I Love when Women actually Self-reflect, heal, and put in the Work to be better as a Woman and a person. The Hero's Journey. Yes!!! 😁😁😁😊😊 Even in Literature it's typically a Male Character who is the Hero for a reason. Not many Heroines take the Hero's Journey.
I'm trying to figure out my purpose now, or I would say a reset I was a parent at 19 married in my 20's, but now at 44 I'm lost and don't know what exactly what I really want to do career wise my marriage is doin ok, but hey marriage has ups and downs its been 17 yrs married together 20, but he recently just asked me what am I with him does he offer anything, (he cheated) I forgave working passed it, let him have a (friend) but now I'm like wait what am I supposed to do for me 🤷🏾♀️, Being married is like a job some days you wanna quit goin, but you still show up cuz u have too
This woman is DEAD ON with her comments in reference to HERSELF. She must have met both my Mother and Grandmother in a previous life, because neither of them had much to OFFER A MAN other than their bodies.
There's about a million channels for guys teaching how to be a man women value. This is the first channel I've ever seen helping women to become valuable to men. Keep up the great work.
What can a AABW offer a BM: Pain, Suffering, Disrespect, an invitation to Family Court System, some other dude's kids, student loan debt, co-parenting after she leaves, her childhoods trauma, & the chinese takeout phone number cause she don't cook.
I'm beyond happy to have watched a video from this channel a week back because the content of this channel is breathtaking 🔥🔥🔥, I've subscribed and I'm just blown away by your knowledge..... young black women need to hear this because they can really learn in order for them to develop into strong black women
CrysSpeaks was talking about the same thing when people, especially women, judge others for their piss poor decisions and behaviors, but when the light is illuminated on them it becomes a pity party. So certain people, mainly women, can be excused from their choices and hurt in life but men can't? What happened to equality???
She knows that there's nothing that comes free. Simply put, brothers and sisters, the more that you follow this Beast system, the more pain and confusion that you will go through. Also, where can I get these charts, Sister Davis, the children need to hear this. 👑💎
This upload gives me a measure of hope! That sistah brought fire and truth! Her situation is similar to many if not most BW and she is taking account for her failures and not blaming others like too many BW do! I truly hope she can get a better outcome for the rest of her life because she seems to have taken the first step in that direction.
The Sister has more then 5 stars to offer. Perhaps she has not had a chance to search within to hear, feel, and see what she has to share. She is worth that. The Sister has made some things happen that is the plus. Sister It’s your being able to move foreward though it all and stand up and be earnest. Peace to you always
Wow, Im a black brother and I have NEVER - NEVER heard these conversations before, Wow👍🏽
If you are new to Crimson Cure, you're in for a treat. I came accross her by accident a few months ago and I've been hooked ever since. She breaks the concepts down so they can be easily understood by anyone who wants to learn. This woman is a Godsend for our society as it is today!
You’re telling the TRUTH!! Diggin it;-)
Hey! She is admitting her faults and that's what I respect.
YES!!! We need more black women to admit this also.
A true turn on in spite of her flaws its great that she acknowledges them
I was shocked 😲 black woman admitting her faults
If this is this woman admitting her faults (as possibly many blacks skin women but not ALL back skin women have the issues she most likely touched n in her video)... shouldn't the proper title of this video be "I personally used to have nothing to offer but now I'm changing'?
Man she talk to much first😂and she actually told the truth.she got good introspective about herself
I respect her she spoke the real about herself and she told the world about it thats how I know she was sincere. 💯
Self awareness is the new sexy.
My wife is multiracial and she had a son, but after we got together, she did 3 things
1) she gave me her food stamp card and ask me to manage the food shopping because she said she would spend too much on nonsense
2) she ask me to help her manage her money better even the child support money she was getting( I made sure I didn't take a dime)
3) she allowed me to discipline her son even though it was painful for her to watch
Now 3 years later she looks back and still thanks me until this day
So I'm not saying bw need to follow this exactly but my point is that if a woman relinquishes her pride and admit she needs help and ask for help and gives up her so called power, a mans instincts will kick in if he sees it's genuine and she will fell much better if she just lets him take the lead
Wow now that is amazing love the teamwork👍👍👍
Real Facts 💯
It appears that you both are not good parents. Wait til the son grows up. He will expose both of you
@@D13vest discipline doesn't mean bearings fyi it simply means setting routine and chores and sticking to it
@@charlesirby9571 cooperation is exactly what it is bro, now instead her having nothing left on food card I make sure I carry over $100 every month and buy Sunday newspaper and she sits and cuts out every coupon related to what we need bottom line is bro a man sleeps better when a woman just simply cooperates and trust the process
I appreciate her 100%, honesty
I feel like she spoke on behalf of women in general. Not just black women. Western world women have nothing to offer to mature & responsible men as we already have everything we need available to us : Peace of mind, financial stability, many friendships, skill sets to get us by in our daily lives and sex is a phone call away if we really need it as the escort market is flooded with women (especially black women) who offer sex for cheap and online p0rn is free.
Men have everything they need at their fingertips. What can a women offer a man that he can't already get for himself?
Nothing at all.
She needs to also recognized that she is not as attractive as she thinks she is to a man of value. Great reaction video that was spot on to her comment.
I see that too as most of them have bad attitudes and don't want to co-op on building a good household. It's like they want full control of everything.
control without responsibility for outcome too
Yupppppp..... Defiance atop of Defiance
Maybe it's the women you choose and are attracted to and the reasoning behind that. Dig deeper. Maybe it's the women (girls) you choose.
@@destinymorton9874 no...this a national conversation because it is the norm, not a few. I don’t know this brother but I my self can vouch and validate his experience and give more details on my own experiences.
@@malikr2271 I agree. I really do. But it can be seen as both ways. Most white men and men of other races don’t leave their children to raised by their mother. It’s a systematic thing. The social acceptance of the independent woman can also be a factor but who’s putting that out for consumption? All that to say we still love y’all. We really do. I just hate it that we’re bashed and criticized to change when we should all change. All of us.
All a man wants from a woman is for her to be fit, feminine, obedient, has a great attitude & a great personality
Yes 👍🏾😃😃🙂
I think many women are exactly lilke her but just wont admit it. I definitely had a lot of characteristics she described. I had to and still have to, and its a HECK OF ALOT OF WORK. To reprogram ALLLLLLLLLLLLL that was put in my mind-consciously, subconsciously. From birth there were things that are taught to girls implied and directly over and over again. We see our mothers, the women in the community acting a certain way, and we totally model the behavior. I remember looking at my older cousin like she was weak, cause she submitted to her husband, they are still married to this day btw. This discussion was spot on. It's sad though cause I believe our village failed us completely, but at this point, we have to undo ourselves, unfortunately, we can't expect anyone to help us, other then like minded people like CRimson etc.
That’s all we ask for. If more women were just honest there would be more love to go around
Truly.
@@UnexpectedWonder Absolutely!!
🎯
Good luck with that. Vvvomen lie to themselves errday
TaKbeer Assallam alaikum Sis! Bismillah keep on keeping On! You've definitely hit the hammer🔨 on the nail.
She gets it,she gets it! Now what will she do with it?
Letting that sink in! Make you think, and want to search yourself. That's the only way you will see your flaws, admit and grow.
That's right!👍🏼
This was deep, finally a sister that takes accountability for her own actions. I honestly believe if do the necessary work to get herself together, she can make an excellent wife
That's 100% ! I love the thought process, and maturity in that women entire dialog.
Monologue.
Thanks...
Most females won't run the race with guys....but they'll wait at the finish line to help him hold up the TROPHY
Both women reveal the truth. If I am at level 8 & in your eyes I am worthy. I had to pull myself all the way up here, so why would I want to take on a financial burden & a liability. Some women & ppl in general can tear down your life so fast it's unbelievable. You take years to build it & the take days or even hours to tear it down. After you reach a certain level in life you naturally have to start be very careful who you allows in your life.
Real Talk and Deeply Passionate 💯
Sad to say but this is all a result of the modern day social construct
I appreciate this message queen thank you
I'm a father and i promise ima sit down with my daughter and watch these important things kendra says, and i will explain it to her from a mans perspective also.
She is awoken in the maxtrix
I respect the sister for her.tru honesty she.has accountability for.her short.comings she's.a rare women
This is the raw truth that heals wounded souls.
If black women in America did only play here role and respect the black man listen to the black man we would have accomplished so many things a long time ago but the stubbornness and the strong rejection from the black woman to the black man making progress come to a full STOP.
That's because too many of us black women allowed feminism and racial stereotypes from mass media get into our heads. We allowed feminism, mass media, and welfare turn us against our black men. Now we are screaming and shouting " Protect Black Women." Those who went against the leadership and authority of the black man are the ones doing the screaming & shouting "Protect Black Women." The chickens are coming home to roost.
We stand behind I men not compete with them we are helpmate So offer patient love respect commitment.
Respect that
Awesome chart 6:20
I hope this woman realize how much she has freed herself with this epiphany, and I wish her well on her new life journey.
Self revelation is NOT for the squeamish!!!!
Absolutely.
now she can move forward, because she has taken accountability for her actions and learn from them
She told the truth
That is a good point. There is only one way to balance and do it correct.
True for both couple. Thanks.
She just summed up what most men think!!
Not all of us are deaf, dumb, and blind. Nor do we do anything just to appease, or please.
Facts on facts on facts
I think you can see her stress. The things we eat make us stress more. The cheap foods are not good. Meat products are not good. When you can provide a stress free home for the man you have you have something for a man.
Eh!, low quality factory farm meat is bad for you.All natural meat good 👍
@@tonycampbell9077 I am vegan so don't go there friend.
She put it down 1.000
Awesome n real topic.
Preach Preacher!!!! 👍🏽
Thank God for this woman's honesty, self awareness and accountability. Scores of Sistahs will begin their healing behind this message. 🙏🏾
Realness!!
The most infuriating thing about this video? Its an absolute masterpeice, clinically broken down and explained with surgical precision. Each point given the time and expertise, needed to draw out theknowledge. Despite all of this, it will still be met with pushback, from a few hard headed individuals, who'll then get overly familiar with the 'dislike' button..
💯💣💥
Crimson knocks it out of the park YET AGAIN!!!!!!!
My jaw is still on the floor with the fact that at least ONE of them gets it.
I will say this bm this is bw issue they all believe bm do not want them and no matter how much you show the truth they will believe what they want to believe. They KNOW what the problems are but they do not want to fix them. You can only drag someone to the water you cannot make them drink.
Beautifully done.....I listened to this video more than twice and I'm a man...girl your a gem...
" priceless " and unequivocally on point...°God bless you..
Yes that's what we need more honesty from both sides
Both Sides. exactly.
Smdh….🙄*both sides
Such a video 10 stars. Keep up the great work.
Judge yourself before others.
Another fire presentation
That's why I promised my children I would never marry as long as they were in the home. Their all grown now, I can now offer 100% to a man. I love it! She was spot on & many of us think of these things. We're getting it together. I want to be made over, make me over!
I hear that. Once your children are grown up,that's it. Do you.
@@logancampos2436 yes, I had 3 daughters; so I couldn't just cut up any kind of way. I've seen a lot of kids ruin marriages. It can be a rough spot for a Mother during Tug-O-War phases. I never wanted them to think they were 2nd to ANYONE. I just wanted to wait so whatever happens it would only involve my Husband & I.
@@badhombre8585 I was 23 with 3 kids, 3 baby daddies. Being a product of my environment. Anyway...I ended up running into an Ex & I was in a relationship with him. We were together 20 yrs til 2018. He's the only guy my kids grew up around. (In house)
That was like catching bigfoot on video. Hats off to that sista cause that ain't easy to do in the current world. Slowly the change is happening 😬
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow this topic reminds me of a conversation I had with a male coworker who has a wife with kids , years ago. He told me a (woman needs bring something to the table. ) don't come empty handed .🤔👏
I find it odd and disappointing that too many BW don't have hobbies or genuine interests. It's as if I could take 10 eligible, decent BW and do the same usual activities and they'd be fine... I already know their favorite movies and songs. Like where are the gamers? Do you sew or enjoy biking? What do you contemplate about this world or universe when you're alone? How do you engage the world in a meaningful way? And to be fair, I know they exist but they're just few and far between. Idk, it gets boring...
She's tired of seeing women wreck decent men only trying to get the best out of a female counterpart
I like the fact that she kept it a buck!
thats deep and i can respect her honesty
It’s been a while since I’ve heard a woman do self critique to this level. Kudos to her!
The real test is not when u are up but when u are down and trying to get up.
🧨
I don't know for anyone else, however I'll take that great self reflection as something you can bring to me. We don't need much.
@@BrickCityEllA thank you for understanding.
The Sister was simply being Honest. I Love when Women actually Self-reflect, heal, and put in the Work to be better as a Woman and a person. The Hero's Journey. Yes!!! 😁😁😁😊😊 Even in Literature it's typically a Male Character who is the Hero for a reason. Not many Heroines take the Hero's Journey.
you're a wise man
I like your name
@@terminatorT- Thank-you very much. Very much appreciated.
@@fairygal8798 That really means a lot to me.
I'm trying to figure out my purpose now, or I would say a reset I was a parent at 19 married in my 20's, but now at 44 I'm lost and don't know what exactly what I really want to do career wise my marriage is doin ok, but hey marriage has ups and downs its been 17 yrs married together 20, but he recently just asked me what am I with him does he offer anything, (he cheated) I forgave working passed it, let him have a (friend) but now I'm like wait what am I supposed to do for me 🤷🏾♀️, Being married is like a job some days you wanna quit goin, but you still show up cuz u have too
You have a purpose. We all do. Find it.
This woman is DEAD ON with her comments in reference to HERSELF. She must have met both my Mother and Grandmother in a previous life, because neither of them had much to OFFER A MAN other than their bodies.
Just found this channel..GREAT WORK!
If understanding the assignment was a person
Most BW will never ever make this admission but kudos to this one....
This is great info, thank you 🙏🏾
There's about a million channels for guys teaching how to be a man women value. This is the first channel I've ever seen helping women to become valuable to men. Keep up the great work.
What can a AABW offer a BM:
Pain, Suffering, Disrespect, an invitation to Family Court System, some other dude's kids, student loan debt, co-parenting after she leaves, her childhoods trauma, & the chinese takeout phone number cause she don't cook.
As messed up as it is, every one of those items are True…
Tell em have u really feel bruh 😂
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Lord you are beautiful black lady love what you doing
Been saying this the longest, I'm glad she admitted to these facts.
They won't let me share this to my FB, I'm 25 years old, if every brotha my age got a hold of this video, they would only go for Muslim Sisters.
That was excellent.
I'm beyond happy to have watched a video from this channel a week back because the content of this channel is breathtaking 🔥🔥🔥, I've subscribed and I'm just blown away by your knowledge..... young black women need to hear this because they can really learn in order for them to develop into strong black women
CrysSpeaks was talking about the same thing when people, especially women, judge others for their piss poor decisions and behaviors, but when the light is illuminated on them it becomes a pity party. So certain people, mainly women, can be excused from their choices and hurt in life but men can't? What happened to equality???
Props for the HONESTY
She knows that there's nothing that comes free. Simply put, brothers and sisters, the more that you follow this Beast system, the more pain and confusion that you will go through. Also, where can I get these charts, Sister Davis, the children need to hear this. 👑💎
Good points as usual.
If I could sum this video (and many others) in one word, it would be 'accountability'.
Realest video ever!!
She was keeping it 1000.........!!!!
This is deep!!! That mirror will set you free every time!!!
This is another level reasoning
This upload gives me a measure of hope! That sistah brought fire and truth! Her situation is similar to many if not most BW and she is taking account for her failures and not blaming others like too many BW do! I truly hope she can get a better outcome for the rest of her life because she seems to have taken the first step in that direction.
The truth is just like medicine it tastes bad in the beginning but it makes you feel better in the end!
well-said.
The Sister has more then 5 stars to offer. Perhaps she has not had a chance to search within to hear, feel, and see what she has to share. She is worth that. The Sister has made some things happen that is the plus. Sister It’s your being able to move foreward though it all and stand up and be earnest. Peace to you always
So true and facts about all she saying I agree 👍
These are the sisters I will fight and die for.... Not that other stuff!!
Ecclesiasticus 22:4 kjv
A wise daughter shall bring an inheritance to her husband: but she that liveth dishonestly is her father's heaviness.
She wore the pants in her previous relationships because she wanted to. Glad she was honest in what she said though. The man asked a good question
You are right on point in this video. If women held themselves accountable for their actions, their relationships will have a lot less drama.
Teddy wrote a song years ago 50/50 love! That's all real men want!
Not talking about u crimson cure.the lady you first had talking😊
Every now and then a moment of thoughtful truth! She's well on her way to becoming who she should've always been! 🤯🥂👍🏾
That’s a woman I’d buy a dinner for. God bless her for saying it out loud.
I tell every woman I meet about the crimson cure channel 😉
The world she speaks of does not exist anymore....the mentality is gone bye bye....it died in the 1970's...RIP.. traditional relationships!
Where is the lie here? All facts. 💯💯💯
Imagine if this started happening by the millions of females.