If u really care about marriage and love make people aware about consequences and emotional dangers for future marriage of premarital sex, instead of this feminism shit.
Great acting n good story telling skills... still telling 60s n 70s stories to RUclips viewers who are already matured... if you really meant what u said... don’t waste ur time here in RUclips or in social media... travel to villages n educate them there... your speeches are more useful there... if you are already doing that... then 👏👏👏👏 If not and u only wants views n likes continue the same acting with nice background music n nice editing and continue it in front of camera... hope u bring real change not reel acting... anyways all the best...
I got married year ago.... I was afraid of everything but my husband is Co-operative... I was not bleeding at that tym... Not because I wasn't virgin but because of my sports activity.... Nd my husband never ask me a single qsn.... Because he knows bleeding doesn't mean virginity nd virginity not makes any relation strong or weak.... It's about a person's soul who make a perfect relationship.... I am very proud of my husband I wish all girls get that kind of husband 😊
@abhishek bharadwaj dekh bhai vo mera gulam h ya m uski vo hmara matter...... Ye mera personal experience h mne share kia taki logo pta... M y khri hu hymen nhi hota... Aur agr ladki vergin b ni h to kya hua.... Agr teri wife vergin na mili to kya tu usse chd dega... Balki sach to h ye bhai... Tu kisi se b share ni krega ki teri wife vergin ni h... Nd that's a fact... Even tu apne sbse ache dost aur bhai se b nhi.... Jha tk bat gulam ki h... Vo mujhe pyr krta h aur meri ijjat krta hai...teri language m hoga ye gulam hona but hmari family m to isse care khte hai aur apne farz nibhana
@new vlogs vo isliye lete h kuki unko ladies ki respect ni hoti jo smjhdar h... Aur respect krta h Aurto ki vo smjhega... Iske alava auro ko smjhana bevkufi h... So just chill... Aur virginity kuch ni hoti... Agr apka husband acha h to apne vergin na hone p b vo apke sath h aur agr nhi h to vo apke vergin hone pe b apke sath ni hoga... 😊☺
I will fell so proud if my wife is an athlete and lose her virginity because of sports😘..... . . .BUT i will surely reject her if she lost it by sleeping with another men ,coz in my personal opinion sex should be given to a particular person whom u love not to any one just because u were feeling horny🙂..
@new vlogs toh sister sex is not a toy woh tabhi karna chahiye when u r full sure to marry each other,...on other case u do it in attraction and because of growing body hormones which forced u to do that ,but later on when u get to know that u have done a mistake then u will start regretting, so i just want to say that think proper before taking any step😊
I trust my lover and I never asked her to make physical relationship even after 4 years relationship . My friends tell me that you should be sure that she is virgion or not because you want to marry her . but I trust her and I am 100 % sure that she is perfect for me . I don't need any evidence to prove her purity because she is an angle for me
Being a biology student.... 'The presence or absence of hymen is not a reliable indicator of virginity or sexual experience.... It can also be broken by a sudden fall or jolt, insertion of tampon, or by doing vigorous activities like cycling, horse back riding etc..... In some women the hymen even persist after 1st coitus...' The exact lines of NCERT... So in which world u r living guys...
@Raghunath Reddy hello mr,, Who the hell are you to determine the virginity of a girl, there is no any true signs of virginity, what you think the breaking of hymen and bleeding of a girl in first night is the test of virginity,, it's not true man, it's medically proved that the hymen is not the true sign of virginity, And remember one thing if you demand to a girl for virginity test firstly you have to be virgin and you have to go through test ,and if there is no any test for you then shut your mouth up to talking about the virginity of a girl.
@Raghunath Reddy +what if the girl is supposed to be a housewife or has a stable job and is not a virgin. Its clearly your choice. Even men ecpect a lot from women. Its how humans are made. Dont talk like normies. Its 2020.
I agree with your notion. Just wanted to let you know that hindusim is a feminist religion. Or atleast very much less patriarchal than what is shown to be. The patriarchal manipulate situations in the epics and give you a false idea to make you follow it. Sita didn't do it to prove purity. Infact Ram Sita herself chose to do it herself and it was not to prove virginity but loyalty. Which is not falling in love with Ravan. This was done to show the society that even if a woman lives in another placed kidnapped and coerced to marry someome else, it dosen't mean she will fall for it and stop loving her husband. Also Ram had said that no wife should be questioned or made to do the whole fire thing. He had to do to show that Sita still loved him and all wife's who are in her situation love there husband. He infact denied agnipariksha bland promoted belief in wife's. The purity thing is fakely created by the abrotish patriarchal which is followed till date
@@sahilyadav2883 u r ryt bro, he is nothing more than a hypocrite, who thinks and lives in a 7th century orthodox, patriarchal, discriminative, gynocidal, hypocritical Arab society himself
@@amanjotkaur7037 we only see whats on suface. How im painted red and happy, bright sequins shimmering all over me, but you dont know what lurks just beneath my skin. How shimmering glittering sequins are burried deep and bruised me from within. And it would be too late, when you would realise the attire was not red out of passion but rather carmine of my blood.
That's beautifully spoken. You just nailed it girl, this is so needed in our society to make people understand what exactly the women is and what exactly she wants.
@@eknumberbantai bhai lekin agr non virgin se ho gyi uske baad kya karenge usne jhooth bol ke kr liya. Mai bhi isi problem me hu. Kripya thande mn se soch ke jawaab dena ki iss case me kya karenge us time
@@jonbanks653 offcourse if a boy starts telling such things PPL will only make fun of him. Sucide rate of boys are more but nobody cares.a boy is only respected when he is successful and earning whereas a girl is always respected.what laws are their to protect the boys.all court society media is anti-male only
Wese toh m koi bui video English m dekhta nhi huu....pr iss video ka topic bht shi tha.....4 Bari repeat krk dekhi tb smjh aaya....bht courage chahiye in baaton k ly... salute to mam....nd every woman
@LUCKY SHAKYA I am a medicine student and know all these things already. And I find no significance of this gyaan as a reply of my comment that was just an appreciation.
Ladkon me aisa kuch nahi hota jisse pata lagaya ja sake ki wo virgin hai ya nahi. Warna ye log bhi check karti. Waise bhi ladkiyan shakki to hoti hai. Khud das se karwaye to thik par pati kisi ko nahi chu sakta. Maine dekha hai delhi me ladkiyon ko kya karti hai. At the same time they have 5-6 bf. And then they want to marry a well settled person. Matlab ham ladke to chutia hai.
"When he would come whether he would have sex or make love...would not be mine choice backk then..." thiss hitss the mostt....phenomenal!! amazinglyyy written and even more amazinglyy presented...."🔥🔥
It was impactful!💮 I so wish this act could be presented in Hindi too, but then there would have been so much hatred in the comment section. Funny world we live in.
Agar Boy Virgin ho to tab to haq se adikaar banta hai ki wo virgin girl se hi shadi kare..... A virgin man deserves a virgin women. I prefer to marry a rape victim..... its not about hymen it's about character....
Yes , it is your body , it is your choice. Also you should not say, men should accept the way you are . Let us be true to ourselves, let us respect the relationship , let us try to meet each other needs, let us be honest to each other. Never forget to cherish and celebrate the relationship Like u have a choice , men too have a choice. Let us respect each other and honest.
Yes u surely download this video and show this to ur husband. Now u girls got a license. Ajkl ki ladkiyon k liye sex is just an excercise.. husband to bechara puch bi sakta ki r u vigin. Kyuki phir ye video hain na apke pass dikha dena usko
@@AMANSHARMA-sn5rj why should anybody ask... And do we girls have these kinds of things to test your virginity. How many times you have seen a man getting rejected on his virginity.... You can't even imagine how tough is to be a girl in this narrow minded male dominant society.
U r outstanding mam Being a girl i can understand u What problem u faced Many women faced this domestic problm nd i just glad to see someone who spoken it out😊
Mam, no matter of understanding, in this no one look it, no one talk about the virginity of a girl, but one a should have, truthfullness toward his husband his partner. Some girl make it big issue as satipratha..and other miths.
Larki ko larka ka bhavishya se farq parta hai. Larka ko larki ka atit se. Larki ko bhi pata hai yeh baat . Isi liye jhutha tasalli deti hai ki larki ka atit matter nhi karta. Larki ka charitra aur swabhav kaisa hota hai woh matter karta hai. Sab bakwaas ki baatein hai yeh. Larki jhuth kyu bolti hai ki virgin hai tab??
@@ak-ci5ih Still he has no right to call her cheap and infected jus coz of her statement...U guys don't hv to take literally about wat she said....The only thing she wanted to emphasize is no one...absolutely no one governs a women's body except her own self...U know people/society feels that they can dictate how a women should behave, wear particular clothes only ,whom she should have sex with...Which is bullishit...No has the right to control her except herself....this was the msg deepika gave and it was very strong and powerful...Unfortunately people misunderstood it and started calling her by disrespectful names
@@sacredheart7962 wait a second....then why do feminists say men should respect women? It is our choice to respect or not, we also only want the good of women when we say women should dress modestly, if we can't say that you shouldn't be telling us either, if Deepika wasn't wrong neither was Hardik, it was his choice to sleep with any number of women, the feminists misunderstood it then, why should he be blamed for it then?
Ohh the music of heart beating in between sounds sooo reall , it literally gave goosebumps while listening to the Poetry from a very confidential woman 🔥
Even I am a this generation gal But still I feel ppl, my generation over think and over react sometimes It is ok to loose your hymen to sports and dance, but not in pubs and clubs It is ok not to be pure physically but.. It does not mean to hook up with multiple boys It is ok to have second chance after first break up, but we shid know the second chance comes only first time and not take that second chance multiple times Even our generation needs to think Life is not simple as we hang out
@KRISHNENDU DAS what you have said is absolutely right.but if you notice,the Delhi,and Kolkata girls and boys both are damaged and sick mentality.bengal produced Vivekananda and now Bengali boys can not control their sexuality.what a shame.
Very harsh but true as well..👏👏. May be it will change minds of not only males but females too... Bcoz purity is not verginity... God bless you, keep writing in this pace...
So according to you,sex before marriage is right or wrong.if it is done by your boyfriend before marriage and if he is unable to marry you what you will do.
@@moumitaroy2687 hi moumita.. according to me sex has no relation with marriage..many people dont even marry in their whole life.. what do u expect them to do?
@@deepmoyhazra9179 cheating has nothing to do with virginity. virginity does not define a human's character. there are many other factors like..whether the person is happy with the partner..their moral values..
I really respect your spirit Taranjit. Start to end I heard every Word.... & I was speechless . It was gone to my deep heart & my Soul was asking why.....????
If that is how you think then let your wife be fucked by other men even after marrige, after all she only loves you right, it does not matter who else uses her body, such is your logic, lol.
Respect a rapist girl.don't make her shame.Live her to live a independent life.She also have the rights to take decision and secuess in thier life.Let them live happy life.
Women should know that being bold is not only being confident even they can raise their voice not only for her, for entire number of female who is suffering from that ....... Hats off to you Ma'am ✨✨❤️
Wow! It just left me speechless.. she spoke all through my heart.. brilliant composition and more importantly the presentation.. our society needs to grow up and develop
Didn't expected that such a sensitive topic will be raised👏kudos maam...bcZ it's literally mentioned in biology that hymen is not a sign of virginity ....
Pahle khud ko dekh....social media pe feminist wala chutiyapa koi bhi kar sakta hai....agar virginity kuchh nahi hota to ek sex worker ya rape victim se jake shadi karke dikha.....nahi to bakwas band kar
It may be pseudo-feminism to you, to me it's just treating her right. Nobody in this world deserves that. And then again if you expect yours truly to be a virgin, you should be too. A coin may have two faces but every coin is fair in itself, or at least it should be. And the thing about a prostitute or a rape victim. It is none of your business whom I marry, why would I set an example for people like you, who can't even understand the plight of a woman and takes it as a sheer act of feminism or at least take my comment as one. Besides I'd have the same stand if the situation were the opposite. Women cannot do the same to men.
Abe jiske sath sex kiya ho kya pata wo std infected raha ho? Ek wajah ye bhi hoti hai reject karne ki aur jo ladka virgin raha ho wo virgin ladki hi dekhega,,
If visiting Oyo Hotel rooms can be your choice then being a virgin choosing virgin can be their choice too. I am proud of my culture which avoids pre marital sex.
ok but this culture of yours is dangerous. adults having sex isn't the major problem when people in this country believe hymen is the proof for virginity. They are so ignorant that they don't even know hymen can break any time a woman inserts tampon or while playing sports
Daksh Kumar Sharma Do u really think, society should be blamed for this....in the society females too exist, is they are the reason for this cause, just think again, still we are unaware about this all, that who's the actual villan in this . .. u, me , society or our God ??? 🌸
@@lifedose1000 Yaa Definitely Bro. I agree with your point. But the answer should be clear naa. I won't blame anybody I just want to say that we think before we do. As we just stuck only on the old mindset without knowing the actual facts. So that is the issue .Major thing is awareness. We just depend on the myths which were formed by our anchastors. Those might be True or might be Not. So we do research too rather believing on the thoughts of somebody. I think that will be a better option.
Please read my whole comment and reply on it ! I am 21 year old, good looking, handsome guy, topper in school and college and currently focusing on my career. I never proposed any girl. Instead ‘I got proposals from 3 girls’ and many indirect proposals from several girls but I rejected their all proposals with respect because i have some morals, ethics and rational thinking. I believe first to focus on education, career. I don’t want to betray my parents by having love affair at the time of studies and personality development. So my point is i am ‘proud virgin’ by my choice. I believe in marriage system. I want to love only one person and stay loyal for lifetime to that person. in future my wife is going to first love for me (emotionally and physically). So why should I don’t expect same from her? I am not judging anyone. But in some youtube videos,articles they all are only getting side of non-virgins and they are imposing non-virgins on virgins. They are asking virgins to have big heart and accepts directly non-virgin, why ? If loosing virginity was their choice then its our choice to reject them. They don’t have right to judge us. I looks at this things rationally . And in my personal life, I am behaving in the same way that I expect from my future spouse (not having a past love and physical relationship with someone else). So my expectation is based on equality. I like to think rationally and keep modern approach. I am not judging anyone but yes virginity matters for me.(‘ I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first night etc.’) You will say ‘what about trust,love,care etc.’ so then yes! With all this things virginity equally matters a lot for me. I want to explore those things emotionally and physically first time with my future wife and expecting same from her. This is my wish, my choice. So whats wrong in this ? Who are this people to call me narrow minded ? Try to understand our point of view. Get one fictional example. If Girl is having all random relationships and at the same time one boy is struggling to achieve something in life and he stays single for that. After he became well settled he wants same virgin wife as he is. And after all random casual relationships now that girl wants serious,caring,well settled guy. Whats now ? They both deserve good partner. But no one can impose that girl on that boy. Its their choice. Every relationship should start with honesty and truth. Each and everyone has right to choose their life partner according to their preferences and values. Past matters ! What is my present is because of my past. Today i am enjoying success cause I struggled lot in past. So I respect everyone. I am not going to judge anyone. But try to understand virgin’s point of view. their is no one who can talk about virgin like us who stays virgin by choice until marriage, And expect same from future partner. Each and everyone just normalising non-virginity and imposing non virgins on virgins in the name of modernism,21st century and bla bla… And sorry if I hurt someone. If someone suggests me this illogical suggestion that ‘past is past’ and focus on present for marrying non virgin in the name of love so I have many doubts. some querys. after knowing the fact that she is not virgin what if i started imagining continuesly her with another guy and feeling depressed, still you force me to marry her? After knowing the fact that i am not first for her still you force me to marry her? If i can’t digest that fact and not seeing myself happy with that girl still you will impose that non virgin on me ? Rethink ! what about if she is medically ok or not (std)? What if her ex had some photos of unethical activities and blackmail us after marriage and spoiled our married life? Or make fun,troll or teasing? what if she never forget her past ? What if she compares? What if i found that born baby is not mine ? And in todays world considering gossiping,social pressure ..divorce is punishment for whole family although mistakes was done by only one partner. I just want to be virgin for my future wife and expecting same from her and want each other to be loyal for life time ! What is wrong in this ? If i am perfect, I deserve perfect. After our marriage if any disaster comes newly then i am ready to stand with her and fight for her but i am not ready to handle problems related to her past relationship which she did by her choice. Why should i take unnecessary risk. I want to be in monogamous relationship. I am the only one for her in whole life ,she is the only one for me in whole life for the “first and last time.” How beautiful feeling is this ! But it is very disgusting that everyone is avoiding our point of view, just trying to impose directly non virgins on virgin and trying to make atmosphere where non virgin can feel comfortable and easily ask to virgin that have big heart and accept us. No one trying to put our point of view and side. You may express your opinion! I am waiting for response. This all are my humble queries. Anyone can reply on it. You may express your opinion! …..
Your point is correct but will you judge her if her hymen didn't break and no bleeding and will you think her that she's not a virgin because she didn't bleed, because sometime some girls don't bleed, or they don't have hymen since birth so they will be virgin only but can't prove it by bleeding then will you think that they are not virgin, it's a very important question I want to know as a girl please do reply 🙏, because I want to know what boys think about this, it's very scary when your don't bleed after being a virgin too, please reply🙏 I will be waiting....
@@unnati928 have you read my whole comment ? In my comment also i have clearly mentioned and here again i am saying you that I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first time. This are unscientific. I am very well aware of sex education. If you read my whole comment then you will understand what I want to say…
@@unnati928 first of all not all guys are like that . If she is not having hymen it doesn't make her non virgin. Or if she is a non virgin it doesn't make her impure ,it's her choice. The real man will never judge a girl with her hymen or virginity . As a virgin boy myself ,i expect that my bride should be a virgin that's nothing wrong in that it's my choice because at the end it's my life . I am 21 years old working my ass off to be successful in life and to build a strong career and i expect my girl to be also having great ambitions like me , if she is roaming with a guy and having fun with him and just living her life without any ethics and ambitions how can we expect her .(i am not judging her ) And last thing hymen can never say a girl Virginity . If girls are honest with guys about her past we can accept her , because she is not lying to me before marriage and i trust in her . And you told you are afraid , never be afraid just chose a worthy man and gentle man . It is also depend on your choise .
मैं हिंदी भाषा को अंग्रेजी से बेहतर समझ सकता हूं, लेकिन फिर भी मैंने आपकी कविता पूरी सुनी! हृदय से कहूं बहुत अच्छी लगी। लेकिन मैं इन भावनाओं दूसरे अंदाज में पेश करता हूं, जहां किसी को अपना शरीर नहीं अपना मन ही समर्पित कर दिया गया था, किन उसका शरीर वर्जिन था ... दुनिया के प्रचलित पैमानों पर, जब उसने तुमको तौला होगा। हां, तब तक थी तुम वर्जिन, उसने भी यह जाना होगा। प्रथम आलिंगन के एहसासों को, भीगे-भीगे होठों के पहले-पहले चुंबन को, किसने किस पैमाने से जाना होगा ? दिल के शबनमी शर्मीले जज्बातों को, अब मैं अपनी कविता में तौला करता हूं।।
Perfect thought. And as discussed, Seeta mata faced Purity test. Not Virginity Test. If we compare and Understand everything with our own understanding of Ramayana events, then you need to believe that Fire will not burn Virgins :P
@@maryshaji3132 Joseph had 4 sons and 2 daughters. Years after his first wife died, he married Mary. Therefore, the brothers of Jesus would be the children of Joseph by his first wife.
I never knew of these things. I don't know when people living in India say " We love our country and really mean it" But this is only gonna happen when people with such mentality does not exist.
i can relate to it so much thank you for making a video like this and showing it to the world because still we women in this days hd to give this so called"virginity test" or "purity test".....i just wnna ask who the hell are you to point out fingers on our purity? science and nature both proved that its not any hymen that will determine our purity so boys and all the women out there who still thinks that bleeding while having sex symbolizes our purity then please go and study hard or go through google and read some of the articles hope you will get a glimpse of reality
Keeping this excuse girls like you will have like chocolate many people and act like purity is heart not hymen ba ba ba .... Dont insult sports girls...
India mein girls ke freedom ke mayne sirf "Virginty, sex, boyfriend h".. freedom should be in wearing cloths, most important choosing career, free lifestyle how they want to leave" ....Let's talk about RAPE in rape what rapiest do "sex" if they caught they used to punish for minimum 10 years...if you slap any one you will not punish for 10 years that means if you are doing sex without permission you are punish for 10 years that means this is a big things for women's, men's , government so how it becomes a small things if you are saying to that man who want to marry with you..” I am not vergin is it ok with you". Now come on topic if Virginty is going in natural way this is happens we can understand but when a girl used to do sex and feel proud to say, I am not vergin then they should say like han main chudi hun pehle Kisi aur se.. everyone will be clap on her courage..and there are many mens and they have done the same things in his life so they should have no problem to marry to these girls. " here equality matter " because when a man/ women focused his/her life on career and then they do sex after marriage that is different things and here different thought is rises.. Conclusion :- Bhart is developing country where culture is different from western culture so these gyes should leave in western society where it isn't a big deal why they want to change the culture of Bharat..this is not narrow thinking this is our culture..you can see every state within India has different culture..
Being a male, I won't say that it's totally wrong ..... Yaa, there may be some reasons for it to happened and our society is obstinate to do this all riti and rivaz etc.... So please let them also live as they can, stop judging a girl by her situations, it doesn't matter how she consider it but it matters how she approach it. A grateful salute to all the woman's . Just giving an example is not enough to express my thoughts. But the role overhere is perfect example for every lady to know it . Well specced !!! 🤘
Virginity is not a certificate of character.. A non virgin girl may also love us truly .. Let us not make this a big issue.. & i think we should not care & think about what happened with our wife in the past.. People have false defination about purity.. A pure mind is the most essential thing for me 😊😊
@KRISHNENDU DAS hey u.. Ye jo control wali bat kahi na tune ye hampe v lagu hoti hai .. & ye jo hai na naturally hota hai.. Desires sabki hoti hai samje ???
If it is just about HYMEN, it is not a problem at all. But in reality people associate VIRGINITY with "never had a physical relationship before" And yes, if has had physical relationship with multiple partners is the background story, then one can simply not deny the fact that the very psycology of the person can create a lot of imbalance in the future life. So to choose a right partner with this aspect in mind (has had multiple partners) can not simply be ignored.
@@amitapatel6744 Everything in life revolves around how you train your brain. More you give yourself to sensual gratification more you deviate from having the sense of responsibility and this is what determines the quality of life.
@@amitapatel6744 UK is not a big country. By the India haa culture of its own, as US its own, Pakistan has its own... And china has its own.. All have their own😂😂
Heartfelt , ma'am your poetry truly has conveyed a message that's very crucial for our society to understand cuz I believe that equality between both genders is important Nd as far as the hymen tissue in females is concerned it can break even by accident ... Kudos to u !!!
Virginity tests are wrong, bad and humiliating for women. We should not judge women by their appearance or their hymen. We should judge women by their heart. If they have a pure heart, then that is all that matters. Nothing else matters. Nothing.
Shubham Rathi or agr kisi ladki ka phle bhi kisi se physical relation rha he to kya hua bhai..! Har koi sex kr sakta he usme shadi ki aad lena kya sense he..?
A pure hearted one will never have a broken hymen. Because if they do they betrayed or get betrayed by (and a pure hearted one in no way can betray or get betrayed) someone and choose another marriage.
I m virgin boy. And I will be virgin till marriage. And it's my choices. Bcz it's my life. Bcz I know the power of brahmcharya and power of my culture. 🚩JAY BHAVANI.🚩 ✴️JAY SHREE RAM ✴️🙏🙏
@@tiger8003 bro.. le me clear my point.. galati hmari society ki hai.. salo se females k sath galat ho rha hai.. peda hone se pehle bchio ko maar dete hai jisse ek toh sex ratio india ka esa ho chuka hai . ladkia kam ladke jada ye ho gyi males ki galati ab females ki galati chahe khud ki shql mogambo jesi kyu na ho unko chahiy alpha males.. hrr ldki k dimaag k ghode par aane wale rajkumar ki kahani daal di gayi hai.. isse average ldke reh jate hn orr unme desperacy boht bad jati hai and i am not talking about just sex... casual relationship nahi milti 80% laundo ko ..orr prostitute k sth muh markr koi mahaan kaam nhi krte
@@roigy2071 Bhai agar sirf sex chahiye to prostitutes bhi ladkiya hain...even Jo call girls hoti hain unka boyfriend bhi hota hai... Vo college jane wali ladkiya hoti hain! Part time call girl ban jati hai....! Aur ladkiya ko patane ke liye guts chahiye... Aaj kal ke laundo mein itna bhi confidence nahi ki ladki ko samne se jake propose kare...bas Facebook par ladkiyo ko pareshan karte hain...
What taranjit said is right, society shouldn't judge a women on her virginity. What taranjit should have said is in this lustful society a girl should not give consent or involve herself into giving away her virginity or into sexual activity without making a bond of marriage with the right person that tends to last till the end of the life. But where sexual predator walk around in the name of love, giving away her virginity to some random guy and sleeping around is considered "her body, her choice" then her body craving for lust has no value, her choice is poor. Having said that virginity(self control over sexual desire, commitment to the future life partner, binding sexuality with marriage) for both gender does matters.
When women says men cant say we want a virgin girl if they are not virgin(equality) But when a virgin man asks for a virgin girl, women says its not important!!!! What kind of equality is this
Good to see women liberalisation. But Remember no freedom again no freedom is worthful without economic freedom. Please every women must try to be independent at least on economic terms
If a boy is virgin than he deserve virgin girl and if girl is virgin than she deseve virgin boy simple . It's his or her choice and right . Many surveys says:Those who save their virgnity until marriage they are more responsible and loyal to their partners wheather its girls or boys
@@AjayThakur-ix5du Of course it matters. It speaks to character. That's why people flip out so much when you bring it up. If it didn't matter they wouldn't get so worked up.
@?? I was responding specifically to your claim that sex outside of marriage didn't matter. There are lots of facets of a chaste life but sex outside of marriage is never virtuous.
@?? It's an abuse of your stewardship over the life you've been giving. 23% of children in the US are being raised in single parent homes-- that's comes directly from this attitude that sex outside of marriage is consequence free. It's not just my own silly opinion I cooked up last night, this is natural law.
I did with my gf, but she didnt pass the test , but i still love her as i loved her before bcoz i hv trust on her and know she is pure with heart and bleeding is not mandatory to pass the test.
The way women don't want there past to be judged for their character.... The same way men shouldn't be judged as successful or failure for a girl to get married to him.... Even they are born to live and not to just fullfuil someone's needs at the cost of his own
The video was very thought provoking. I liked it. But my point is that, IF I'm a Virgin Man and I want to marry a virgin woman ( No Pre Marital sex) then what's wrong? If I don't prefer a woman who had multiple physical partners before marriage then why is it considered wrong by the so called intellectuals? I can marry a divorcee / Widow /Rape Victim but I can never ever love or marry someone who had casual sex before marriage because I can't digest the fact that I have to live with someone who was with others living the same way she was supposed to be after marriage.. It's her choice to have pre marital affairs and it's okay for her.. But it's not okay for many people who she expects to be with.. It's our individual life, and it's our individual choices. *Same Applies to so called Play Boys*
With all these videos women just want to normalize not asking for virginity or past. And even shame you for having such a preference. It's just a chance to be not accountable for the mental damage the guy would have to face becayse someone from her past just destroyed the sweet innocent women you would have adored.
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Awesome
UnErase Poetry
This is extreme feminism fuck off.
If u really care about marriage and love make people aware about consequences and emotional dangers for future marriage of premarital sex, instead of this feminism shit.
Great acting n good story telling skills... still telling 60s n 70s stories to RUclips viewers who are already matured... if you really meant what u said... don’t waste ur time here in RUclips or in social media... travel to villages n educate them there... your speeches are more useful there... if you are already doing that... then 👏👏👏👏
If not and u only wants views n likes continue the same acting with nice background music n nice editing and continue it in front of camera... hope u bring real change not reel acting... anyways all the best...
I got married year ago.... I was afraid of everything but my husband is Co-operative... I was not bleeding at that tym... Not because I wasn't virgin but because of my sports activity.... Nd my husband never ask me a single qsn.... Because he knows bleeding doesn't mean virginity nd virginity not makes any relation strong or weak.... It's about a person's soul who make a perfect relationship.... I am very proud of my husband I wish all girls get that kind of husband 😊
Tera husband toh tera ghulam hai
@abhishek bharadwaj dekh bhai vo mera gulam h ya m uski vo hmara matter...... Ye mera personal experience h mne share kia taki logo pta... M y khri hu hymen nhi hota... Aur agr ladki vergin b ni h to kya hua.... Agr teri wife vergin na mili to kya tu usse chd dega... Balki sach to h ye bhai... Tu kisi se b share ni krega ki teri wife vergin ni h... Nd that's a fact... Even tu apne sbse ache dost aur bhai se b nhi.... Jha tk bat gulam ki h... Vo mujhe pyr krta h aur meri ijjat krta hai...teri language m hoga ye gulam hona but hmari family m to isse care khte hai aur apne farz nibhana
@new vlogs vo isliye lete h kuki unko ladies ki respect ni hoti jo smjhdar h... Aur respect krta h Aurto ki vo smjhega... Iske alava auro ko smjhana bevkufi h... So just chill... Aur virginity kuch ni hoti... Agr apka husband acha h to apne vergin na hone p b vo apke sath h aur agr nhi h to vo apke vergin hone pe b apke sath ni hoga... 😊☺
I will fell so proud if my wife is an athlete and lose her virginity because of sports😘.....
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.BUT i will surely reject her if she lost it by sleeping with another men ,coz in my personal opinion sex should be given to a particular person whom u love not to any one just because u were feeling horny🙂..
@new vlogs toh sister sex is not a toy woh tabhi karna chahiye when u r full sure to marry each other,...on other case u do it in attraction and because of growing body hormones which forced u to do that ,but later on when u get to know that u have done a mistake then u will start regretting, so i just want to say that think proper before taking any step😊
I trust my lover and I never asked her to make physical relationship even after 4 years relationship . My friends tell me that you should be sure that she is virgion or not because you want to marry her . but I trust her and I am 100 % sure that she is perfect for me . I don't need any evidence to prove her purity because she is an angle for me
So sweet of you bhaiyu
Love you Inna saara bhaiyu 😘💕👍👍
Good...
4 saal hogye abhi tak physical nhi hue? Bhai check kro kat rha pakka aapka.
krit ika yes she is an angel for me .🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yaduvanshi Garima thank you sis ji
Being a biology student....
'The presence or absence of hymen is not a reliable indicator of virginity or sexual experience....
It can also be broken by a sudden fall or jolt, insertion of tampon, or by doing vigorous activities like cycling, horse back riding etc.....
In some women the hymen even persist after 1st coitus...' The exact lines of NCERT... So in which world u r living guys...
Wew , exact ncert lines!
Ncert!!!
Summie sushi u are right .
I kid you not. I actually opened my bio textbook to quote this. But then I saw that you've already done it. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Neet aspirant lagti ho😂😂
generally women do not speak out openly this.but she boldly talked.let us welcome
@Raghunath Reddy hello mr,,
Who the hell are you to determine the virginity of a girl, there is no any true signs of virginity, what you think the breaking of hymen and bleeding of a girl in first night is the test of virginity,, it's not true man, it's medically proved that the hymen is not the true sign of virginity,
And remember one thing if you demand to a girl for virginity test firstly you have to be virgin and you have to go through test ,and if there is no any test for you then shut your mouth up to talking about the virginity of a girl.
Just because she talked about sex in stage she is bold ha ha most girls talk about sex among themselves
@Raghunath Reddy is the boy virgin
@Raghunath Reddy +what if the girl is supposed to be a housewife or has a stable job and is not a virgin. Its clearly your choice. Even men ecpect a lot from women. Its how humans are made. Dont talk like normies. Its 2020.
Tell me why they dont talk openly about this ....please dear "men" society tell meeee
"Can sita stop proving her integrity?" this hit the hardest....
I am in love with this channel
I agree with your notion. Just wanted to let you know that hindusim is a feminist religion. Or atleast very much less patriarchal than what is shown to be. The patriarchal manipulate situations in the epics and give you a false idea to make you follow it. Sita didn't do it to prove purity. Infact Ram Sita herself chose to do it herself and it was not to prove virginity but loyalty. Which is not falling in love with Ravan. This was done to show the society that even if a woman lives in another placed kidnapped and coerced to marry someome else, it dosen't mean she will fall for it and stop loving her husband. Also Ram had said that no wife should be questioned or made to do the whole fire thing. He had to do to show that Sita still loved him and all wife's who are in her situation love there husband. He infact denied agnipariksha bland promoted belief in wife's. The purity thing is fakely created by the abrotish patriarchal which is followed till date
What's wrong with proving integrity even Lord Ram showed his integrity in hunting down Ravana
agni pariksha was not for testing this , stop bringing hindusm here
@@pawan2647 these people need sex ,booze and also wants not to be judged .
Yes if she continues choosing someone like Ram.
Liberals like me: "It's my body / it's my choice"
Indian society: "Well we don't do that here"
Not all Indians
LiBeRAls liKe mE 🤣🤣🤣🤣 really bro just see your subscriptions.
You have subscribed zakir naik 😆😆🤣😂😂.
Mera deen Islam 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@@sahilyadav2883 u r ryt bro, he is nothing more than a hypocrite, who thinks and lives in a 7th century orthodox, patriarchal, discriminative, gynocidal, hypocritical Arab society himself
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@@sahilyadav2883 I don't remember myself subscribing Zakir Naik. He's a scam, someone from my phone/lappy must have done that sin.
because red is the colour of passion but sequins still hurt... deep
Anmol Shrivastava Can U just Explain🙄
@@amanjotkaur7037 we only see whats on suface. How im painted red and happy, bright sequins shimmering all over me, but you dont know what lurks just beneath my skin. How shimmering glittering sequins are burried deep and bruised me from within. And it would be too late, when you would realise the attire was not red out of passion but rather carmine of my blood.
Or simply its not always how it appears on surface 😅
Well said
so meaning full line😍
That's beautifully spoken.
You just nailed it girl, this is so needed in our society to make people understand what exactly the women is and what exactly she wants.
Thanks Eriica!
Yes exactly and how a women should treat other women as well ....
Sau baat ki ek baat I want a virgin girl for marriage. Like girls want ambani to marry similarly i want a virgin girl.
@@eknumberbantai great logic Bro.. Very nice
@@eknumberbantai bhai lekin agr non virgin se ho gyi uske baad kya karenge usne jhooth bol ke kr liya.
Mai bhi isi problem me hu.
Kripya thande mn se soch ke jawaab dena ki iss case me kya karenge us time
When a boy talks like this, that would be a stand-up comedy material
Exactly boys are always neglected
U are right
@@muniraj3781 Neglected how???
@@jonbanks653 offcourse if a boy starts telling such things PPL will only make fun of him. Sucide rate of boys are more but nobody cares.a boy is only respected when he is successful and earning whereas a girl is always respected.what laws are their to protect the boys.all court society media is anti-male only
@@uttrakhandiboy4413 you are a boy. you know the reality when you turn into a man. And no dating is not all about meeting and fucking.
Mam.. I can't explain how much respect you have in many of our hearts after this video.... Stay blessed...
Sorry, I think your comment should be mine
man should not judged by their salary but by their heart..
😂
Sahi bola
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Super bhai
Ea sale ladki khudke upar jab aaega ta drama chalu...nehi ta bahut style
Well said
Wese toh m koi bui video English m dekhta nhi huu....pr iss video ka topic bht shi tha.....4 Bari repeat krk dekhi tb smjh aaya....bht courage chahiye in baaton k ly... salute to mam....nd every woman
Maybe if god was also a man that he gave me a hymen and not to him 👏👏
Written so so well ❤️
@LUCKY SHAKYA I am a medicine student and know all these things already. And I find no significance of this gyaan as a reply of my comment that was just an appreciation.
A pure man will also bleed during first intercourse they also have something similar.
@@BRBHARDWAJ people don't understand no use
Ladki ho to bologi hi so so well. Tumne bhi karwa liya hoga na.
Ladkon me aisa kuch nahi hota jisse pata lagaya ja sake ki wo virgin hai ya nahi. Warna ye log bhi check karti. Waise bhi ladkiyan shakki to hoti hai. Khud das se karwaye to thik par pati kisi ko nahi chu sakta. Maine dekha hai delhi me ladkiyon ko kya karti hai. At the same time they have 5-6 bf. And then they want to marry a well settled person. Matlab ham ladke to chutia hai.
"When he would come whether he would have sex or make love...would not be mine choice backk then..." thiss hitss the mostt....phenomenal!! amazinglyyy written and even more amazinglyy presented...."🔥🔥
Diljeet Kaur this is not true
R not in 60s
This is all for views & likes
No one is that mad,
For few u can not blame all
If u respect then u get it
It is never okay to have sex with a woman without her permission, that much is true.
It was impactful!💮
I so wish this act could be presented in Hindi too, but then there would have been so much hatred in the comment section.
Funny world we live in.
It’s okey!! Virginity is not everything for a women.
You people are the universe!!!
"and wondered if I could get up quickly and change the sheets...."
This poetry really did take my breath away
Rupal Sinha sinha hiiii
Agar Boy Virgin ho to tab to haq se adikaar banta hai ki wo virgin girl se hi shadi kare.....
A virgin man deserves a virgin women. I prefer to marry a rape victim..... its not about hymen it's about character....
Yes , it is your body , it is your choice. Also you should not say, men should accept the way you are .
Let us be true to ourselves, let us respect the relationship , let us try to meet each other needs, let us be honest to each other. Never forget to cherish and celebrate the relationship
Like u have a choice , men too have a choice. Let us respect each other and honest.
Wow.
I wonder if our Indian society will ever understand this.
Hopefully we will.
Well I just hope that maybe today's young generation shall slowly eradicate the old mindset and thought process.
Yes u surely download this video and show this to ur husband. Now u girls got a license.
Ajkl ki ladkiyon k liye sex is just an excercise.. husband to bechara puch bi sakta ki r u vigin. Kyuki phir ye video hain na apke pass dikha dena usko
@@AMANSHARMA-sn5rj why should anybody ask... And do we girls have these kinds of things to test your virginity. How many times you have seen a man getting rejected on his virginity.... You can't even imagine how tough is to be a girl in this narrow minded male dominant society.
@Subhash Mehta I would. If I believed in the shitty system of marriage
I salute this lady who is very brave.
U r outstanding mam
Being a girl i can understand u
What problem u faced
Many women faced this domestic problm nd i just glad to see someone who spoken it out😊
Mam, no matter of understanding, in this no one look it, no one talk about the virginity of a girl, but one a should have, truthfullness toward his husband his partner. Some girl make it big issue as satipratha..and other miths.
Larki ko larka ka bhavishya se farq parta hai. Larka ko larki ka atit se. Larki ko bhi pata hai yeh baat . Isi liye jhutha tasalli deti hai ki larki ka atit matter nhi karta. Larki ka charitra aur swabhav kaisa hota hai woh matter karta hai. Sab bakwaas ki baatein hai yeh. Larki jhuth kyu bolti hai ki virgin hai tab??
I am happy, people in comment section are questioning the hypocrisy of feminist who bashed Hardik but applauded Deepika's my choice!😁
Dipika is infected cheaper girl.
@@samratraj5085 And ur thinking is cheaper than that!!
@@sacredheart7962 why is he cheap? Dipikas comment on men was cheap
@@ak-ci5ih Still he has no right to call her cheap and infected jus coz of her statement...U guys don't hv to take literally about wat she said....The only thing she wanted to emphasize is no one...absolutely no one governs a women's body except her own self...U know people/society feels that they can dictate how a women should behave, wear particular clothes only ,whom she should have sex with...Which is bullishit...No has the right to control her except herself....this was the msg deepika gave and it was very strong and powerful...Unfortunately people misunderstood it and started calling her by disrespectful names
@@sacredheart7962 wait a second....then why do feminists say men should respect women? It is our choice to respect or not, we also only want the good of women when we say women should dress modestly, if we can't say that you shouldn't be telling us either, if Deepika wasn't wrong neither was Hardik, it was his choice to sleep with any number of women, the feminists misunderstood it then, why should he be blamed for it then?
Ohh the music of heart beating in between sounds sooo reall , it literally gave goosebumps while listening to the Poetry from a very confidential woman 🔥
Lol, she is certainly not confidential if anything.
I thouth it was some first tym experience or something but this is beyond my imagination ur so brave n bold to talk about this really appreciate it ❤
Even I am a this generation gal
But still I feel ppl, my generation over think and over react sometimes
It is ok to loose your hymen to sports and dance, but not in pubs and clubs
It is ok not to be pure physically but.. It does not mean to hook up with multiple boys
It is ok to have second chance after first break up, but we shid know the second chance comes only first time and not take that second chance multiple times
Even our generation needs to think
Life is not simple as we hang out
Nice comment 👌
Finally something sensible !! Well said ! ,,
exactly...
your comment makes some sense.
@KRISHNENDU DAS what you have said is absolutely right.but if you notice,the Delhi,and Kolkata girls and boys both are damaged and sick mentality.bengal produced Vivekananda and now Bengali boys can not control their sexuality.what a shame.
Truly said
“Let’s just fall in love again.” and again""
Very harsh but true as well..👏👏. May be it will change minds of not only males but females too... Bcoz purity is not verginity...
God bless you, keep writing in this pace...
this is beautiful..... i wish our society will ever understand how inhuman we act with women.. nd definitely we should raise our voice against this
So according to you,sex before marriage is right or wrong.if it is done by your boyfriend before marriage and if he is unable to marry you what you will do.
@@moumitaroy2687 hi moumita.. according to me sex has no relation with marriage..many people dont even marry in their whole life.. what do u expect them to do?
@@shaaradpandey5546 i didnt get ur point..!?
@@kousumibrahma1308
but, most of the people who do it before marriage , cheat after marriage.
what about them?
@@deepmoyhazra9179 cheating has nothing to do with virginity. virginity does not define a human's character.
there are many other factors like..whether the person is happy with the partner..their moral values..
In just 4 minutes.. u told the whole sad reality some women are facing..
May god bless you
I really respect your spirit Taranjit. Start to end I heard every Word.... & I was speechless . It was gone to my deep heart & my Soul was asking why.....????
Because men like virgins, that is why.
Can sita stop proving her integrity!!! Kudos to this line 💜
Really love is connect to Soul ,not to body so please respect eachother
I agree 💯
If that is how you think then let your wife be fucked by other men even after marrige, after all she only loves you right, it does not matter who else uses her body, such is your logic, lol.
😅
Virgin females- by choice
Virgin males- kbhi mauka nhi mila😂
Muje bhi😥
Sahi kaha
randiya bhi h es desh me 500rs do thoko
@@zxy99 bilkul bhai sath m syphillis AIDS muft hai 😂
@@roigy2071bachne k other optin bhi h , aur fir hm khatro k khiladi
virginity not matters for love marriage but does matter especially for me in arranged marriage
This Poetry or The Words those are so so so so I really dnt have words for this thing This should be reach to Every house of the WORLD!!!!
Amazing. I love how ppl talk about all sort of topics here.
✊🖤 Amazingly said. Well done.
Respect a rapist girl.don't make her shame.Live her to live a independent life.She also have the rights to take decision and secuess in thier life.Let them live happy life.
It's not rapist girl...it's girl who was raped
Bhai kya bolraha😂😂🤣rapist nahi raped girl hoga
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@@kaushleshsrivastava2160 its a rape survivor its someone who survived it and is still standing and getting better
Yes I respect girls who are rapists ❤️ very strong independent girls they are ❤️
DON'T FORGET -
*MARRAIGE IS AN AGREEMENT*
*marriages
Yes if you don't know the other person
I don't believe in arrange marriages
@@kareena6759 every marriage is an agreement....
Love marriage is agreement with a friend and arranged marriage is agreement with a stranger.
Exactly it's just an agreement . Love is what keeps people together , not marriage
Women should know that being bold is not only being confident even they can raise their voice not only for her, for entire number of female who is suffering from that ....... Hats off to you Ma'am ✨✨❤️
Wow! It just left me speechless.. she spoke all through my heart.. brilliant composition and more importantly the presentation.. our society needs to grow up and develop
What she said is so powerful...She hit the nail right on the head.
Hats off to your confidence 🙆 your the little light for the up coming future we need more such from you❤
Her voice is not little by the way
@@purusharthsharma4383 you read the comment in a different way😂😂
@@purusharthsharma4383 😂😂😂
Didn't expected that such a sensitive topic will be raised👏kudos maam...bcZ it's literally mentioned in biology that hymen is not a sign of virginity ....
No virginity test is needed if you confess everything before .
Very well recited with the expressions like it felt real at the moment what a girl go through.More power to u girl
If only he could see that he himself was not the purest soul and had no right to object and inspect.
Thank you for this.
Pahle khud ko dekh....social media pe feminist wala chutiyapa koi bhi kar sakta hai....agar virginity kuchh nahi hota to ek sex worker ya rape victim se jake shadi karke dikha.....nahi to bakwas band kar
It may be pseudo-feminism to you, to me it's just treating her right. Nobody in this world deserves that. And then again if you expect yours truly to be a virgin, you should be too. A coin may have two faces but every coin is fair in itself, or at least it should be. And the thing about a prostitute or a rape victim. It is none of your business whom I marry, why would I set an example for people like you, who can't even understand the plight of a woman and takes it as a sheer act of feminism or at least take my comment as one. Besides I'd have the same stand if the situation were the opposite. Women cannot do the same to men.
Tere jaise he launde sadak par ladkiya charate hai
Abe jiske sath sex kiya ho kya pata wo std infected raha ho? Ek wajah ye bhi hoti hai reject karne ki aur jo ladka virgin raha ho wo virgin ladki hi dekhega,,
No words to say!!!..Highly powerful words
.May god bless u Taranji...Don't knw y so mny disliked the
vdio
If visiting Oyo Hotel rooms can be your choice then being a virgin choosing virgin can be their choice too.
I am proud of my culture which avoids pre marital sex.
ok but this culture of yours is dangerous. adults having sex isn't the major problem when people in this country believe hymen is the proof for virginity. They are so ignorant that they don't even know hymen can break any time a woman inserts tampon or while playing sports
Ek no ..🙏🙏🙏🙏
Well said man
Wonderful poetry mam! A women should be pure from their heart not from their body
Society needs to grow up beautiful poem 👌
You are the one needs to grow up if you want men to force themselves to marry a virgin, lol.
Today society is better rather than sexual one
Tarnjit जी my Salute to you dear.. You spoke so well about inner feeling of a woman.. We have a equal rights..
Wahegur ji bless you more.
🙏🌹
An Irony to our So called some Valuable Rituals.
Beautifully Expressed Ma'am!
Awesome lines with an Eye Opening message.
Daksh Kumar Sharma
Do u really think, society should be blamed for this....in the society females too exist, is they are the reason for this cause, just think again, still we are unaware about this all, that who's the actual villan in this . .. u, me , society or our God ??? 🌸
@@lifedose1000 Yaa Definitely Bro.
I agree with your point.
But the answer should be clear naa.
I won't blame anybody I just want to say that we think before we do.
As we just stuck only on the old mindset without knowing the actual facts. So that is the issue .Major thing is awareness. We just depend on the myths which were formed by our anchastors. Those might be True or might be Not. So we do research too rather believing on the thoughts of somebody.
I think that will be a better option.
Open mindness is everything which every girl loves
She : i am not a virgin
Me: wow u r lucky
😂😂😂👏👏👏
Yeah😅😅😅😋
Mere to haat ke lakerein mit gaye bhai
@@priyayadav635 tom bhi nahi ho virgin
But you will never find a girl who admits that she isnt virgin.
Please read my whole comment and reply on it !
I am 21 year old, good looking, handsome guy, topper in school and college and currently focusing on my career. I never proposed any girl. Instead ‘I got proposals from 3 girls’ and many indirect proposals from several girls but I rejected their all proposals with respect because i have some morals, ethics and rational thinking. I believe first to focus on education, career. I don’t want to betray my parents by having love affair at the time of studies and personality development.
So my point is i am ‘proud virgin’ by my choice. I believe in marriage system. I want to love only one person and stay loyal for lifetime to that person. in future my wife is going to first love for me (emotionally and physically). So why should I don’t expect same from her?
I am not judging anyone. But in some youtube videos,articles they all are only getting side of non-virgins and they are imposing non-virgins on virgins. They are asking virgins to have big heart and accepts directly non-virgin, why ? If loosing virginity was their choice then its our choice to reject them. They don’t have right to judge us.
I looks at this things rationally . And in my personal life, I am behaving in the same way that I expect from my future spouse (not having a past love and physical relationship with someone else). So my expectation is based on equality. I like to think rationally and keep modern approach.
I am not judging anyone but yes virginity matters for me.(‘ I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first night etc.’) You will say ‘what about trust,love,care etc.’ so then yes! With all this things virginity equally matters a lot for me. I want to explore those things emotionally and physically first time with my future wife and expecting same from her. This is my wish, my choice. So whats wrong in this ? Who are this people to call me narrow minded ?
Try to understand our point of view. Get one fictional example. If Girl is having all random relationships and at the same time one boy is struggling to achieve something in life and he stays single for that. After he became well settled he wants same virgin wife as he is. And after all random casual relationships now that girl wants serious,caring,well settled guy. Whats now ? They both deserve good partner. But no one can impose that girl on that boy. Its their choice. Every relationship should start with honesty and truth. Each and everyone has right to choose their life partner according to their preferences and values.
Past matters ! What is my present is because of my past. Today i am enjoying success cause I struggled lot in past.
So I respect everyone. I am not going to judge anyone. But try to understand virgin’s point of view.
their is no one who can talk about virgin like us who stays virgin by choice until marriage, And expect same from future partner. Each and everyone just normalising non-virginity and imposing non virgins on virgins in the name of modernism,21st century and bla bla… And sorry if I hurt someone.
If someone suggests me this illogical suggestion that ‘past is past’ and focus on present for marrying non virgin in the name of love so I have many doubts. some querys. after knowing the fact that she is not virgin what if i started imagining continuesly her with another guy and feeling depressed, still you force me to marry her? After knowing the fact that i am not first for her still you force me to marry her? If i can’t digest that fact and not seeing myself happy with that girl still you will impose that non virgin on me ? Rethink ! what about if she is medically ok or not (std)? What if her ex had some photos of unethical activities and blackmail us after marriage and spoiled our married life? Or make fun,troll or teasing? what if she never forget her past ? What if she compares? What if i found that born baby is not mine ? And in todays world considering gossiping,social pressure ..divorce is punishment for whole family although mistakes was done by only one partner.
I just want to be virgin for my future wife and expecting same from her and want each other to be loyal for life time ! What is wrong in this ? If i am perfect, I deserve perfect.
After our marriage if any disaster comes newly then i am ready to stand with her and fight for her but i am not ready to handle problems related to her past relationship which she did by her choice. Why should i take unnecessary risk.
I want to be in monogamous relationship. I am the only one for her in whole life ,she is the only one for me in whole life for the “first and last time.” How beautiful feeling is this !
But it is very disgusting that everyone is avoiding our point of view, just trying to impose directly non virgins on virgin and trying to make atmosphere where non virgin can feel comfortable and easily ask to virgin that have big heart and accept us. No one trying to put our point of view and side. You may express your opinion! I am waiting for response. This all are my humble queries. Anyone can reply on it. You may express your opinion!
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Your point is correct but will you judge her if her hymen didn't break and no bleeding and will you think her that she's not a virgin because she didn't bleed, because sometime some girls don't bleed, or they don't have hymen since birth so they will be virgin only but can't prove it by bleeding then will you think that they are not virgin, it's a very important question I want to know as a girl please do reply 🙏, because I want to know what boys think about this, it's very scary when your don't bleed after being a virgin too, please reply🙏 I will be waiting....
@@unnati928 have you read my whole comment ? In my comment also i have clearly mentioned and here again i am saying you that I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first time. This are unscientific. I am very well aware of sex education. If you read my whole comment then you will understand what I want to say…
@@unnati928 first of all not all guys are like that .
If she is not having hymen it doesn't make her non virgin. Or if she is a non virgin it doesn't make her impure ,it's her choice.
The real man will never judge a girl with her hymen or virginity .
As a virgin boy myself ,i expect that my bride should be a virgin that's nothing wrong in that it's my choice because at the end it's my life .
I am 21 years old working my ass off to be successful in life and to build a strong career and i expect my girl to be also having great ambitions like me , if she is roaming with a guy and having fun with him and just living her life without any ethics and ambitions how can we expect her .(i am not judging her )
And last thing hymen can never say a girl Virginity .
If girls are honest with guys about her past we can accept her , because she is not lying to me before marriage and i trust in her .
And you told you are afraid , never be afraid just chose a worthy man and gentle man .
It is also depend on your choise .
@@Binod273 brother clap for you 🔥🔥🔥
@@naveensoni4272 🙏
मैं हिंदी भाषा को अंग्रेजी से बेहतर समझ सकता हूं, लेकिन फिर भी मैंने आपकी कविता पूरी सुनी! हृदय से कहूं बहुत अच्छी लगी। लेकिन मैं इन भावनाओं दूसरे अंदाज में पेश करता हूं, जहां किसी को अपना शरीर नहीं अपना मन ही समर्पित कर दिया गया था, किन उसका शरीर वर्जिन था ...
दुनिया के प्रचलित पैमानों पर,
जब उसने तुमको तौला होगा।
हां, तब तक थी तुम वर्जिन,
उसने भी यह जाना होगा।
प्रथम आलिंगन के एहसासों को,
भीगे-भीगे होठों के पहले-पहले चुंबन को,
किसने किस पैमाने से जाना होगा ?
दिल के शबनमी शर्मीले जज्बातों को,
अब मैं अपनी कविता में तौला करता हूं।।
No virgin no deal...
THE AMOUNT OF FRAGILE MASCULINITY IN THE COMMENT SECTIONS!! 😂
Speechless...i literally got goosebumps listening to ur words... Each and every word u said are true, very true
Lauda true
@@manjushreeray1093 haha....I obviously talk like a man....but not to sluts....! I just fuck sluts....wherever I find
रंडी स्पॉटेड
Perfect thought. And as discussed, Seeta mata faced Purity test. Not Virginity Test. If we compare and Understand everything with our own understanding of Ramayana events, then you need to believe that Fire will not burn Virgins :P
If I could press that like button a 100times, I would!!
Thz for uploading such positive thinking videos, really need more like this in up coming videos!
ruclips.net/video/RNd7HmCvJlk/видео.html
Can we just call her Mary instead of virgin? *Goosebumps*
Mary gave birth to 5kids, after Jesus was born
@@maryshaji3132 Joseph had 4 sons and 2 daughters. Years after his first wife died, he married Mary. Therefore, the brothers of Jesus would be the children of Joseph by his first wife.
S Sharma without knowing anything about our religion don't comment rubbish. Go and ask some Christian people about Mother Mary are read the Bible.
Aksin Shaji you fool who are u to comment about Mother Mary without knowing anything about her.
Arun King without knowing anything about mother mary don't comment rubbish.
Kisi ldki me bhi courage nhi hota h ki wo openly ye sab bole but she having a great courage to talk about the virginity ,salute u go ahead in ur life
I never knew of these things. I don't know when people living in India say " We love our country and really mean it"
But this is only gonna happen when people with such mentality does not exist.
Matlab tum muh kisi or se maaro gi or saadi kisi or se koro gi 😂😂😂
This one is the beautiful UnErase poetry I have ever seen..!!!
i can relate to it so much
thank you for making a video like this and showing it to the world because still we women in this days hd to give this so called"virginity test" or "purity test".....i just wnna ask who the hell are you to point out fingers on our purity?
science and nature both proved that its not any hymen that will determine our purity so boys and all the women out there who still thinks that bleeding while having sex symbolizes our purity then please go and study hard or go through google and read some of the articles hope you will get a glimpse of reality
ruclips.net/video/RNd7HmCvJlk/видео.html
@KRISHNENDU DAS yes
Keeping this excuse girls like you will have like chocolate many people and act like purity is heart not hymen ba ba ba ....
Dont insult sports girls...
Girls like her aldready slept with many men now she is sugar coating with modern on their sins
don't hide it if you are asked about past relationships.... that's it..
no body is doing any tests
Recently I met her during shoot ,she is so graceful ❤️
This makes me teary..I dont know why..
My goddess what a powerful poetry with realty really took my heart away 😘
India mein girls ke freedom ke mayne sirf "Virginty, sex, boyfriend h".. freedom should be in wearing cloths, most important choosing career, free lifestyle how they want to leave" ....Let's talk about RAPE in rape what rapiest do "sex" if they caught they used to punish for minimum 10 years...if you slap any one you will not punish for 10 years that means if you are doing sex without permission you are punish for 10 years that means this is a big things for women's, men's , government so how it becomes a small things if you are saying to that man who want to marry with you..” I am not vergin is it ok with you".
Now come on topic if Virginty is going in natural way this is happens we can understand but when a girl used to do sex and feel proud to say, I am not vergin then they should say like han main chudi hun pehle Kisi aur se.. everyone will be clap on her courage..and there are many mens and they have done the same things in his life so they should have no problem to marry to these girls. " here equality matter " because when a man/ women focused his/her life on career and then they do sex after marriage that is different things and here different thought is rises.. Conclusion :- Bhart is developing country where culture is different from western culture so these gyes should leave in western society where it isn't a big deal why they want to change the culture of Bharat..this is not narrow thinking this is our culture..you can see every state within India has different culture..
Being a male, I won't say that it's totally wrong ..... Yaa, there may be some reasons for it to happened and our society is obstinate to do this all riti and rivaz etc....
So please let them also live as they can, stop judging a girl by her situations, it doesn't matter how she consider it but it matters how she approach it.
A grateful salute to all the woman's . Just giving an example is not enough to express my thoughts.
But the role overhere is perfect example for every lady to know it .
Well specced !!!
🤘
the day is not far away when the women will prove adultery right.....!!
Where are you ?? WAKE UP
Adultery is legal in INDIA 🇮🇳
@@bhanupriyanayak7574 adultery is legal but still it is the foreground of divorce. Btw murder is legal in sudan as no law governs it illegal.
True u nailed it
Its time to break sterotypr n rewrite the history
Well done dear
U are such a brave girl with good heart
Virginity is not a certificate of character.. A non virgin girl may also love us truly .. Let us not make this a big issue.. & i think we should not care & think about what happened with our wife in the past.. People have false defination about purity.. A pure mind is the most essential thing for me 😊😊
@KRISHNENDU DAS What about men??? You said about women but what about men????
KRISHNENDU DAS wow, really? You gotta get some life man.
@KRISHNENDU DAS hey u.. Ye jo control wali bat kahi na tune ye hampe v lagu hoti hai .. & ye jo hai na naturally hota hai.. Desires sabki hoti hai samje ???
@@sarveshsarolkar6432 Agreed...
@Sarvesh Sarolkar exactly
If it is just about HYMEN, it is not a problem at all. But in reality people associate VIRGINITY with "never had a physical relationship before"
And yes, if has had physical relationship with multiple partners is the background story, then one can simply not deny the fact that the very psycology of the person can create a lot of imbalance in the future life.
So to choose a right partner with this aspect in mind (has had multiple partners) can not simply be ignored.
True brother
@@psr1777 😊
@@amitapatel6744
Everything in life revolves around how you train your brain. More you give yourself to sensual gratification more you deviate from having the sense of responsibility and this is what determines the quality of life.
@@amitapatel6744 UK is not a big country. By the India haa culture of its own, as US its own, Pakistan has its own... And china has its own.. All have their own😂😂
Heartfelt , ma'am your poetry truly has conveyed a message that's very crucial for our society to understand cuz I believe that equality between both genders is important Nd as far as the hymen tissue in females is concerned it can break even by accident ... Kudos to u !!!
एक भारतीय अगर अपने शब्दों को हिंदी में बोलते है तो कही गयी हर एक लब्ज बात प्रभावशाली होती है । but are you good works ..😊😊😊
Virginity tests are wrong, bad and humiliating for women. We should not judge women by their appearance or their hymen. We should judge women by their heart. If they have a pure heart, then that is all that matters. Nothing else matters. Nothing.
Shubham Rathi or agr kisi ladki ka phle bhi kisi se physical relation rha he to kya hua bhai..!
Har koi sex kr sakta he usme shadi ki aad lena kya sense he..?
@@VivekThakur-hh8zu that's right
Lol. That's what I thought but apparently men put prices on me based on the appearances of a lot of parts of my body.
A pure hearted one will never have a broken hymen. Because if they do they betrayed or get betrayed by (and a pure hearted one in no way can betray or get betrayed) someone and choose another marriage.
@@mindfulnessandbetterliving being betrayed is not a choice.
Awesome! Described well! Love the way you said! God Bless!
Such a bold topic to carry...It's wonderful...thanks
Beautiful voice nd amazing pronunciation
Randiyapa hai aur kuchh nahi
Tears rolled down from my eyes.
I m virgin boy.
And I will be virgin till marriage.
And it's my choices.
Bcz it's my life.
Bcz I know the power of brahmcharya and power of my culture.
🚩JAY BHAVANI.🚩
✴️JAY SHREE RAM ✴️🙏🙏
boys never have choice to be a virgin😂😂 they are always victim of circumstances
@@roigy2071 it's not so...there are so many call girls and brothels in India.... You can get girl even for ₹300!
Ladkiya patana vo ek talent hai...😉
@@tiger8003 bro.. le me clear my point.. galati hmari society ki hai.. salo se females k sath galat ho rha hai.. peda hone se pehle bchio ko maar dete hai jisse ek toh sex ratio india ka esa ho chuka hai . ladkia kam ladke jada
ye ho gyi males ki galati
ab females ki galati
chahe khud ki shql mogambo jesi kyu na ho unko chahiy alpha males.. hrr ldki k dimaag k ghode par aane wale rajkumar ki kahani daal di gayi hai.. isse average ldke reh jate hn orr unme desperacy boht bad jati hai
and i am not talking about just sex... casual relationship nahi milti 80% laundo ko ..orr prostitute k sth muh markr koi mahaan kaam nhi krte
@@roigy2071 Bhai agar sirf sex chahiye to prostitutes bhi ladkiya hain...even Jo call girls hoti hain unka boyfriend bhi hota hai... Vo college jane wali ladkiya hoti hain! Part time call girl ban jati hai....! Aur ladkiya ko patane ke liye guts chahiye... Aaj kal ke laundo mein itna bhi confidence nahi ki ladki ko samne se jake propose kare...bas Facebook par ladkiyo ko pareshan karte hain...
@@roigy2071 yes...I agree! 👍
What taranjit said is right, society shouldn't judge a women on her virginity.
What taranjit should have said is in this lustful society a girl should not give consent or involve herself into giving away her virginity or into sexual activity without making a bond of marriage with the right person that tends to last till the end of the life.
But where sexual predator walk around in the name of love, giving away her virginity to some random guy and sleeping around is considered "her body, her choice" then her body craving for lust has no value, her choice is poor.
Having said that virginity(self control over sexual desire, commitment to the future life partner, binding sexuality with marriage) for both gender does matters.
Verginety must should not be the issue but cheating is.Tell everything about your past before getting enter to a bond.
Only before marriage is good but after marriage is wrong. #PeacefulHypocracy😅
If premarital is good then extra marital affair is excellent 😊
And most of the time women lie about there past
She: Maybe God is also a man.
Ariana Grande: God is a woman.
God is not man n women, God is God a formless super power....
😂
@@onlineteacher9171 thank god that god is not feminist
@@mrb-94 hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Krishna is a man and Laxmi is a woman. Ariana Grande is stupid.
S U P E R B ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
Brutal and Honest. Gut wrenching & true!
When women says men cant say we want a virgin girl if they are not virgin(equality)
But when a virgin man asks for a virgin girl, women says its not important!!!!
What kind of equality is this
@@otakuneet5467 that's great, here i was talking about people being hypocritical when it comes to things which are not in their favor
Good to see women liberalisation.
But
Remember no freedom again no freedom is worthful without economic freedom.
Please every women must try to be independent at least on economic terms
If a boy is virgin than he deserve virgin girl and if girl is virgin than she deseve virgin boy simple .
It's his or her choice and right .
Many surveys says:Those who save their virgnity until marriage they are more responsible and loyal to their partners wheather its girls or boys
Stupidest comment, totally illogical
Those surveys are created by people like you. Assholes deserves assholes. Noble people deserve noble people.
@@Divinefrequencies555women ☕😂😂
This survey was done by times of India 😂
What a spectacle it will be to see feminism spread throughout the rest of the world, all televised
It's dosent mtr vigrin or noy
@@AjayThakur-ix5du Of course it matters. It speaks to character. That's why people flip out so much when you bring it up. If it didn't matter they wouldn't get so worked up.
@?? It speaks to character. Purity has been seen as a virtue for all of history until this recent period of TV's in people's homes.
@?? I was responding specifically to your claim that sex outside of marriage didn't matter. There are lots of facets of a chaste life but sex outside of marriage is never virtuous.
@?? It's an abuse of your stewardship over the life you've been giving. 23% of children in the US are being raised in single parent homes-- that's comes directly from this attitude that sex outside of marriage is consequence free.
It's not just my own silly opinion I cooked up last night, this is natural law.
I did with my gf, but she didnt pass the test , but i still love her as i loved her before bcoz i hv trust on her and know she is pure with heart and bleeding is not mandatory to pass the test.
IS SHE A HINDU?Did she convert to islam?
The way women don't want there past to be judged for their character....
The same way men shouldn't be judged as successful or failure for a girl to get married to him....
Even they are born to live and not to just fullfuil someone's needs at the cost of his own
What is the meaning of virgin?
@@nishathakurain6089 u really don't know ???
Or angry on my comment??😔😔
Seriously I don't know plzz tell me
@@nishathakurain6089 mam if I m not wrong there are other sources from which you can check its meaning..
@@richieviv1044 I search on google but I don't know the proper meaning plzz bta de bhai
This is really really beautifully and heart touching 😍😍😭😭😭😭
Virginity is an individual preference....No one should judge anyone
Non virgins deserve stoning to death
@Nimbuzz S True
The video was very thought provoking. I liked it. But my point is that, IF I'm a Virgin Man and I want to marry a virgin woman ( No Pre Marital sex) then what's wrong? If I don't prefer a woman who had multiple physical partners before marriage then why is it considered wrong by the so called intellectuals? I can marry a divorcee / Widow /Rape Victim but I can never ever love or marry someone who had casual sex before marriage because I can't digest the fact that I have to live with someone who was with others living the same way she was supposed to be after marriage..
It's her choice to have pre marital affairs and it's okay for her.. But it's not okay for many people who she expects to be with.. It's our individual life, and it's our individual choices. *Same Applies to so called Play Boys*
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With all these videos women just want to normalize not asking for virginity or past. And even shame you for having such a preference. It's just a chance to be not accountable for the mental damage the guy would have to face becayse someone from her past just destroyed the sweet innocent women you would have adored.
Don't know why ❓❔⁉️
But I came to tears 😢
Q aap bhi meri tarah virgin ho kya?
@@Ashishsah69 Yeah virgin... But I think this question need not to be asked.
@@ravcheema6882 o sorry mereko laga virgin log
sad rahte hai ise liye aap rone lage bhai
@@ravcheema6882 I'm 18 but i'm virgin i started crying while watching the video
For this I thought I would ask.
@@ravcheema6882 virginity is a curse😭😭
Took my breath away girll !
you go girlll !! 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️
Non virgin girl spotted 😂😂.
Gussa mat hona behan bas majak Kiya Hai .
Yes she is going in hell after marriage
Randi girl
@rick banner koi na bhai,😂