When I dated in Kiev (now living there), I usually paid for the taxi drive for the lady to get to the place (of course be real with it not like 800 UAH if they just live 1 district from the meeting location). Also I paid the lunch and/or dinner. When you ask the lady to propose a place to go eat it says a lot about the lady as well or she can test how far you go for her. It does help if you understand at least Russian ordering in the restaurants. This prevents you from being scammed by girls who work with staff (and yes there are some who do this, but I must say I have only seen it twice). Try to find the mutual topic to speak about, this keeps your evening going well, speak about interests and what goals someone has in the future, ask her about her family.
It's the first date. suggest the food court at the mall or a coffee shop and a walk in the park. It's not like i'm going cheap on purpose.... more like i'm giving you the comfort of being someplace where if shit just is not working..... just say goodbye and blend into the crowd. If you hit it off and want to see each other again. Fine. then you go someplace nice, maybe go to a movie or something. I would say date 3 is her choice where to go and what to do. Totally. You want to get to know her and her choices are going to say things about her.
I was surprised to hear the question about who pays for the first date. The place where I come from we usually pay for the foods/drinks even for my friends without any question. And if I ask anyone for a date, of course it’s my responsibility to pay otherwise why would I ask. And if the other person wants to pay, don’t have any problem. It’s mutual understanding.
exactly. if she asked me i would not expect her to pay but would leave that door open and see what she says, it can get complicated with a more independent woman. if i ask her. i totally expect to pay. organize where. pick her up if she will let me. even pay for her cab home if it goes badly.
Another important thing I think is that a guy does know his limit in alcohol use when he drinks something. I've seen many guys who I know who drank just that little to much on a date and ended up not seeing her anymore.
Some humor for you... and yet it does have some truth in it. In my Country, one guy said you should just ask on the first date, How do you vote? That can eliminate going on a second or reinforcing another. :)
lol. why would anyone be that obsessed with voting? That's the dumbest thing i've heard. If i like her i like her. If we get along we get along. If she thinks the other guy is better to vote for...maybe i should respect her opinion and listen to her reasoning why....and not argue with her...but talk to her about why i like the other guy. Respectful conversation, without fighting. to just not want to be with someone for a voting preference... it is literally saying... i blindly vote for this party no matter what they are actually saying. I do not uphold my voters rights to choose who i vote for... i am a sheep. i am blind to other opinions. I'm actually a threat to our rights and freedoms because i don't think when i vote. See the US as a class 1 perfect example of sheep voting 101. they literally stole rights and freedoms and were obviously trying to turn democracy into something bordering communism... actually believing they were above the law of the land...and damn near half the SHEEP voted for them again.
@@MPlain - I think the point he was making was based on values... and he was talking about dating someone you would view as a future husband or wife. Not a hook up. Also attitude is a huge tell. I can usually tell quickly by an individual's attitude toward many topics how they are likely to vote. That alone tells me a lot about their character. So not so dumb after all. :)
For men: Woman will never tell you the most important things what you should do. You need to know it yourself. That's what can make you sexually atractive. Man who does exactly what woman tells him to do will be friendzoned ;-) I don't want to broke the things that girls say in this video - they are good advises. It is very good they say it because of cultural differences. These things are just not enough for success :-)
I want to date Lana because she will alternate cost of dates and wants only small gifts!! She's so hot also!! :) JK, I know she has serious boyfriend, but what a beauty.
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Great job and thanks to the ladies that answered your questions.
When I dated in Kiev (now living there), I usually paid for the taxi drive for the lady to get to the place (of course be real with it not like 800 UAH if they just live 1 district from the meeting location). Also I paid the lunch and/or dinner. When you ask the lady to propose a place to go eat it says a lot about the lady as well or she can test how far you go for her.
It does help if you understand at least Russian ordering in the restaurants. This prevents you from being scammed by girls who work with staff (and yes there are some who do this, but I must say I have only seen it twice).
Try to find the mutual topic to speak about, this keeps your evening going well, speak about interests and what goals someone has in the future, ask her about her family.
It's the first date. suggest the food court at the mall or a coffee shop and a walk in the park. It's not like i'm going cheap on purpose.... more like i'm giving you the comfort of being someplace where if shit just is not working..... just say goodbye and blend into the crowd. If you hit it off and want to see each other again. Fine. then you go someplace nice, maybe go to a movie or something. I would say date 3 is her choice where to go and what to do. Totally. You want to get to know her and her choices are going to say things about her.
I liked the video!
Dates should be fun for the lady, so that they want another date with you ASAP. Always keep them wanting more.
Nice
I was surprised to hear the question about who pays for the first date. The place where I come from we usually pay for the foods/drinks even for my friends without any question. And if I ask anyone for a date, of course it’s my responsibility to pay otherwise why would I ask. And if the other person wants to pay, don’t have any problem. It’s mutual understanding.
exactly. if she asked me i would not expect her to pay but would leave that door open and see what she says, it can get complicated with a more independent woman.
if i ask her. i totally expect to pay. organize where. pick her up if she will let me. even pay for her cab home if it goes badly.
I don't bring up weird topics unless the girl asks first. I've often paid for the lunch or dinner on a date.
Another important thing I think is that a guy does know his limit in alcohol use when he drinks something. I've seen many guys who I know who drank just that little to much on a date and ended up not seeing her anymore.
Some humor for you... and yet it does have some truth in it. In my Country, one guy said you should just ask on the first date, How do you vote? That can eliminate going on a second or reinforcing another. :)
lol. why would anyone be that obsessed with voting? That's the dumbest thing i've heard. If i like her i like her. If we get along we get along. If she thinks the other guy is better to vote for...maybe i should respect her opinion and listen to her reasoning why....and not argue with her...but talk to her about why i like the other guy. Respectful conversation, without fighting.
to just not want to be with someone for a voting preference... it is literally saying... i blindly vote for this party no matter what they are actually saying. I do not uphold my voters rights to choose who i vote for... i am a sheep. i am blind to other opinions. I'm actually a threat to our rights and freedoms because i don't think when i vote. See the US as a class 1 perfect example of sheep voting 101. they literally stole rights and freedoms and were obviously trying to turn democracy into something bordering communism... actually believing they were above the law of the land...and damn near half the SHEEP voted for them again.
@@MPlain - I think the point he was making was based on values... and he was talking about dating someone you would view as a future husband or wife. Not a hook up. Also attitude is a huge tell. I can usually tell quickly by an individual's attitude toward many topics how they are likely to vote. That alone tells me a lot about their character. So not so dumb after all. :)
For men: Woman will never tell you the most important things what you should do. You need to know it yourself. That's what can make you sexually atractive. Man who does exactly what woman tells him to do will be friendzoned ;-)
I don't want to broke the things that girls say in this video - they are good advises. It is very good they say it because of cultural differences. These things are just not enough for success :-)
Food is ok...drinks are bit okay too...but wat abt shopping
Why not to carry out some short interviews with girls from your database? ;-) (It would make much more sense ;) )
A lot of ladies do not want to be on e video cause of privacy
@@TayaUkraine ahh Ok then ;) Merryy Christmas to you Taya! ;-)
How can find girl in Kive without marriage agency for the Engyoment
onona.ua is free but beware, many scammers on there. For that reason a dating service who checks the ladies is a good thing.
@@connectedeurope onions.ua its website?
Afcose to be advised he relentless desire to work
Of course not only you, most women will love that they man/boyfriend transfer it's salary straight to your account every month.
So, what I gather from this video is, all Ukrainian women are independent until they see a check coming.
Not all of them are that way.
I will never let a woman pay for my meal, even if she's rich.
My hero!!
Good guy
True. But if she's really rich I will let her buy me a car. ;)
Can i will marry a cute ukraine girl
I want to date Lana because she will alternate cost of dates and wants only small gifts!! She's so hot also!! :) JK, I know she has serious boyfriend, but what a beauty.
I want to McDonald's with taya and her sister 😋😏😋
Nice