Thank you. I found that my sense of humor is like a peacemakers superpower. So many situations of potential conflict and violence has been averted by pointing out the ridiculousness of the thought of violence.
@@SLASHERamc yip, that dark sense of humour puts people off. I think we come from a place of so much trauma and conflicts that dark humour while funny to us, can be off putting to most people. Suppose even hell can be funny if you've been through it long enough😂. I think that's dark humour if I am not mistaken 😅
@zm1611 just because we have a dark sense of humor, doesn't mean we can't also be kind and great conflict resolutioners. I just enjoy a great dark joke once in a while, throws ppl off and to see their jaws drop is hilarious 😂
I was surprised to discover that not everyone can see through obvious narcissistic behavior. Some people absolutely believe these manipulative liars. When I was younger I was deeply in love with a narcissist and wanted strongly to believe him, though I could tell he was lying. I wanted to be wrong so much. I should have listened to my gut. I learned to do that as I aged.
As an INFJ, to be honest, I was unaware most of these qualities were superpowers at all. Some people would point out my abilities but had not specified them. This led me to feel more of an outcast rather than looked upon as having uniqueness. After this video, I am looking at the qualities mentioned and thinking about past incidences where I can now see these mentionalities are indeed true. I hope this makes sense.
Yes especially for me I am doing the same, thinking of incidents in the past and benefiting people and down play my abilities. I never thought I was the only one, I thought everyone is like me
of course... but you know you enjoy surprise moments!! Just act... the real point is you, thinking its normal to do your things!!... thats the funny part of it!!
I always find it unbelievable that all these years I thought all people thought the same way …… I mean I know all people are different and have different thoughts but what I didn’t understand was what comes naturally to some ( things I thought all people possess simply by being a decent human ) does not come natural to others . I still find myself not being able to fathom that when it comes to empathy for example or thinking ahead into the future or several other things mentioned in the video , some people really aren’t apt to care for those things as much . To me they seem like very important things to care about . It’s a bit disheartening to realize because it makes me feel like people aren’t as good as I thought they were . Maybe I’m seeing that wrong , idk , but it’s disheartening . It explains a lot though . Often I have found myself with my jaw hanging open at some peoples behavior but knowing this , it doesn’t surprise me as much now . That’s not to say that I don’t also see a lot of beautiful souls out there that I feel blessed to know , I do and I love them so much but people ….. some people are a chore 😆…. Which is one reason why I like being alone.
As s child i knew I was different but was scared that it was a negative difference but as I grow i discover and recall events then finally put a name to me. So happy I'm among the rare beings but very difficult to get a partner and keep some certain friends
I really did know that I have these, but it’s true that I don’t see all of them as special. Especially strategic thinking - I guess I think everyone can do that, if they bother.
Now fully accepting and knowing I'm an INFJ I realize my ability to predict and see future outcomes is very accurate and a previous boss of mine said to me she noticed I'm a " highly perceptive person."
I grew up thinking everyone could do most of these things. Then I could never figure out what they were thinking when they did things that seemed dumb and not thought out well at all 🤔 .
All very true about me. Sadly, those very abilities have caused me lots of tears and heartbreak as people I have trusted have used them against me or felt me as a threat, hence worked to break me. I reached a place and hated myself and considered ending my life because these very things had caused people to want to harm me, yet I know these are not abilities I can get rid off. Unfortunately, I never knew about most of them until the same people began mentioning them though...and then I started feeling alone, weird, and different from other people. Thank God He saved my life and I am still recovering. It is unfortunate that abilities that we never played a role in having, can cause us to experience so much pain and attract so much harm. Wishing all INFJs here a great journey on their life🙏
I WAS aware I had all these just, as u mentioned, I may of thought that everyone had these abilities. And I thought everyone did until well, thinking back now, until kindergarten honestly. Everyone targeted me and still do today because I’m considered “weird” for just merely existing! What the hell!? You’re existing too! Do u see me calling you out on it or talking about you behind your back?! No! So what’s so weird about me? That’s what I don’t understand. I’m 12 years old now and I’ve learned to not care what they think because those kinds of people are pathetic. I was told as a kid that they’re just jealous that I’m confident in my abilities and that when they look in the mirror, they wish they were too. I mean, if you aren’t confident in your abilities that doesn’t mean you’ve gotta take out your anger by hurting people like oh, idk, me! My friends consider me to be their therapist and if they have a problem they come to me! You see this happening! Why not talk to me for advice too?! Well, too late now. It’s clear to me that you’re a jerk, and why would I want to give good advice to a jerk? So it’s an infinite loop hole. There’s no helping these ppl anymore. At least not from me. In conclusion, as an INFJ, I know that people are gonna be big ol’ dumbo idiotic jerks to me in my life. At this point, everything they say just goes in one ear and out the other. Better yet, not even into the first ear because I don’t allow that trash talk into my ear, GOD! I’ve heard the trashy insults so many times by now that I just have comebacks lined up! Oops! I said something back?! How surprising! So if you’re struggling with a bullying problem and you’re somehow still reading, just know that what you’re rubber and they’re glue so whatever they say should bounce off of you and stick to them because you shouldn’t listen to what they say! I hope this works! Signing off, Arielle the INFJ.
I used to think people have these qualities so it's not special if i have these qualities but now I know people lack even simple and common things and it's so disappointing!
My perception, because it comes so naturally to me and I’m scared to tell others my insights because I don’t want them to judge me. I’m already odd enough to afford letting my mask slip
Nobody ever said we have to share everything with everybody. Another superpower is our ability to keep a secret. Even if it is about us and our insights.
Totally unaware ‼️ I used to think everyone was like that mainly. I learned the hard way. But I learned. Love being this way. Helped some people along the way. Thanks for the info 💕🙏
You have overlooked the energy drainage aspect while i understand why you consider leadership as a superpower it by far more complex in the entanglements of existence of the past present future. While what has been undone due to your astounding current insights becimes a burden of the past mistakes of others upon me which hinders me from here pnward
What some call intuition is just lighting fast assessment. I am hyper vigilant so I see things coming waaaay before they happen. If I had to I could tell you the very intricate reasons why. It’s a superpower, definitely.
As you become older maybe your life gets a little simpler and you are free from distractions that may interfere with many of your powers as an INFJ. And maybe we become more accepting, so we are not constantly and unconsciously always trying to turn our square peg selves to fit the round hole that is the rest of the world. At least I think this is what is happening to me. And I like it.
Seriously. Some people freak out when they sense they are really being seen. Mistake it for being scrutized and judged. Watch out for them; generally hiding something. Unless, of course, you are trying to be intimidating! (It could happen. A pissed off INFJ is a terrible thing to witness)
I am introverted, to a very high degree. However, I am not intuitive, feeling, nor judgmental. I am just an isolated introvert. The only power I have is the ability to do everything alone.
We're not judging others. We are thinkers and judge the best way to get results. I don't judge other people, because I feel that it is looking down on them.
@@angieholt736 Introverts really can not judge others. Most of us do not know others enough to give a fair judgement, and we know it. Thus, we do not even try. Truthfully, most that judge others are almost always wrong anyway. Even if I were social, I believe I would not be judgemental. Of course if someone is stealing constantly and I know it, anybody could safely judge that person a thief. But, I am referencing subtle behaviors. There, I find no reason to judge that. For me, it just seems wrong.
@@indridcold8433 Absolutely!!! It does feel wrong to judge them. Everyone has a story. We need the entire picture to "judge" and determine which path to take in order to help the person. Our heart wants to help other people. Thanks for replying.
@@AlisonGwynethBrownWho does understand a Psychopath? I know I dated one years ago. 🥺 I know that Psychopaths are born and Sociopaths are developed over time. The most important thing learned is STEER CLEAR of any in the future. 🤪
@angieholt736 This is an attitude to women as a psychopath would treat men like this also l agree steer clear but men wait until you are say pregnant and vulnerable to show true colours as my ex did.
Thank you.
I found that my sense of humor is like a peacemakers superpower. So many situations of potential conflict and violence has been averted by pointing out the ridiculousness of the thought of violence.
hmm, if your sense of humor doesn't offend most of the population, you're probably not an INFJ, I have an extremely dark sense of humor 😂
I was going to say, "I see what you mean, but most people are either greatly disturbed and perplexed by my sense of humor or find it funny as hell."
@@SLASHERamc yip, that dark sense of humour puts people off. I think we come from a place of so much trauma and conflicts that dark humour while funny to us, can be off putting to most people. Suppose even hell can be funny if you've been through it long enough😂. I think that's dark humour if I am not mistaken 😅
You are all right....they find it funny and attacked.
@zm1611 just because we have a dark sense of humor, doesn't mean we can't also be kind and great conflict resolutioners. I just enjoy a great dark joke once in a while, throws ppl off and to see their jaws drop is hilarious 😂
As an INFJ I have an ability to see behavior patterns in people and rell when they lie ro me
Me too ! 💭it stinks
You know im am and ENFP and i feel like i do all the same things
Never mind is one of the most said words in my head, when I see a pattern and learn to change my behavior to influence others patterns
@@londonsbeautystudio9543 only infj can do that, other MBTI personalities can’t do that and the’re stupid
Me too and people hate it but I do not because it shows me their true character
I was surprised to discover that not everyone can see through obvious narcissistic behavior. Some people absolutely believe these manipulative liars. When I was younger I was deeply in love with a narcissist and wanted strongly to believe him, though I could tell he was lying. I wanted to be wrong so much. I should have listened to my gut. I learned to do that as I aged.
Yes! I’ve been surprised about ppl not knowing too!
I bet part of you, perhaps masochistically, you knew he'd hurt you, but you wanted the experience.
@@Rollwithit699 I don't mind being wrong. It adds to my life experience.
As an INFJ, to be honest, I was unaware most of these qualities were superpowers at all. Some people would point out my abilities but had not specified them. This led me to feel more of an outcast rather than looked upon as having uniqueness. After this video, I am looking at the qualities mentioned and thinking about past incidences where I can now see these mentionalities are indeed true. I hope this makes sense.
Yes especially for me I am doing the same, thinking of incidents in the past and benefiting people and down play my abilities.
I never thought I was the only one, I thought everyone is like me
of course... but you know you enjoy surprise moments!! Just act... the real point is you, thinking its normal to do your things!!... thats the funny part of it!!
I always find it unbelievable that all these years I thought all people thought the same way …… I mean I know all people are different and have different thoughts but what I didn’t understand was what comes naturally to some ( things I thought all people possess simply by being a decent human ) does not come natural to others . I still find myself not being able to fathom that when it comes to empathy for example or thinking ahead into the future or several other things mentioned in the video , some people really aren’t apt to care for those things as much . To me they seem like very important things to care about . It’s a bit disheartening to realize because it makes me feel like people aren’t as good as I thought they were . Maybe I’m seeing that wrong , idk , but it’s disheartening . It explains a lot though . Often I have found myself with my jaw hanging open at some peoples behavior but knowing this , it doesn’t surprise me as much now . That’s not to say that I don’t also see a lot of beautiful souls out there that I feel blessed to know , I do and I love them so much but people ….. some people are a chore 😆…. Which is one reason why I like being alone.
Amen!
Same. Thank You for describing this so well. Love and light to you.
Can you walk onto the deck and Howl? I'm with you.
still astonished at the pure evil some people have no problem doing
As s child i knew I was different but was scared that it was a negative difference but as I grow i discover and recall events then finally put a name to me. So happy I'm among the rare beings but very difficult to get a partner and keep some certain friends
I relate to all.
I know I have super powers but what super hero lived without people trying to tear them down. Got to always be careful
Helping others is being real
As an INFJ I have the ability to be assertive
As an INFJ I am caring crearive compassionate and very empathetic
I really did know that I have these, but it’s true that I don’t see all of them as special. Especially strategic thinking - I guess I think everyone can do that, if they bother.
Apparently, not true. Sadly.
Now fully accepting and knowing I'm an INFJ I realize my ability to predict and see future outcomes is very accurate and a previous boss of mine said to me she noticed I'm a " highly perceptive person."
I grew up thinking everyone could do most of these things. Then I could never figure out what they were thinking when they did things that seemed dumb and not thought out well at all 🤔 .
Story of my life lol
I can see through others behaviors and motivations, and their weaknesses.
All very true about me. Sadly, those very abilities have caused me lots of tears and heartbreak as people I have trusted have used them against me or felt me as a threat, hence worked to break me. I reached a place and hated myself and considered ending my life because these very things had caused people to want to harm me, yet I know these are not abilities I can get rid off. Unfortunately, I never knew about most of them until the same people began mentioning them though...and then I started feeling alone, weird, and different from other people. Thank God He saved my life and I am still recovering. It is unfortunate that abilities that we never played a role in having, can cause us to experience so much pain and attract so much harm. Wishing all INFJs here a great journey on their life🙏
its been a long tough journey my friend a very long one
Yeah all true and very aware of them. Also tired of being an INFJ. It can get to be draining.
commune with nature and animals. spend all the time you need alone, concentrating on things you love. this, too, shall pass
I WAS aware I had all these just, as u mentioned, I may of thought that everyone had these abilities. And I thought everyone did until well, thinking back now, until kindergarten honestly. Everyone targeted me and still do today because I’m considered “weird” for just merely existing! What the hell!? You’re existing too! Do u see me calling you out on it or talking about you behind your back?! No! So what’s so weird about me? That’s what I don’t understand. I’m 12 years old now and I’ve learned to not care what they think because those kinds of people are pathetic. I was told as a kid that they’re just jealous that I’m confident in my abilities and that when they look in the mirror, they wish they were too. I mean, if you aren’t confident in your abilities that doesn’t mean you’ve gotta take out your anger by hurting people like oh, idk, me! My friends consider me to be their therapist and if they have a problem they come to me! You see this happening! Why not talk to me for advice too?! Well, too late now. It’s clear to me that you’re a jerk, and why would I want to give good advice to a jerk? So it’s an infinite loop hole. There’s no helping these ppl anymore. At least not from me.
In conclusion, as an INFJ, I know that people are gonna be big ol’ dumbo idiotic jerks to me in my life. At this point, everything they say just goes in one ear and out the other. Better yet, not even into the first ear because I don’t allow that trash talk into my ear, GOD! I’ve heard the trashy insults so many times by now that I just have comebacks lined up! Oops! I said something back?! How surprising! So if you’re struggling with a bullying problem and you’re somehow still reading, just know that what you’re rubber and they’re glue so whatever they say should bounce off of you and stick to them because you shouldn’t listen to what they say!
I hope this works! Signing off,
Arielle the INFJ.
another superpower-our ability to rise above and accept other people however flawed
As an INFJ. I started talking when I was nine months old i sais mama and dada
Same apparently my first word was turtle
I used to think people have these qualities so it's not special if i have these qualities but now I know people lack even simple and common things and it's so disappointing!
hahaha
Wait until they wake up !😊
It has past several months I've been studying about the infj
Whew! Awesome... thank you so much...
As an INFJ I am very aware of these powers. Although, I have never called them powers. But I will now. Lol
hahahaha
My perception, because it comes so naturally to me and I’m scared to tell others my insights because I don’t want them to judge me. I’m already odd enough to afford letting my mask slip
Nobody ever said we have to share everything with everybody. Another superpower is our ability to keep a secret. Even if it is about us and our insights.
Good video. Keep going. ❤
Totally unaware ‼️ I used to think everyone was like that mainly. I learned the hard way. But I learned. Love being this way. Helped some people along the way. Thanks for the info 💕🙏
You have overlooked the energy drainage aspect while i understand why you consider leadership as a superpower it by far more complex in the entanglements of existence of the past present future. While what has been undone due to your astounding current insights becimes a burden of the past mistakes of others upon me which hinders me from here pnward
As an INFJ I was unaware of being a visiiomary
One of our greatest gift
What some call intuition is just lighting fast assessment. I am hyper vigilant so I see things coming waaaay before they happen. If I had to I could tell you the very intricate reasons why. It’s a superpower, definitely.
I want my cape NOW!!
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Any other INFJ like not a morning person 😮????
No worked nights 24 years
So true...
As an INFJ I feel at cpeace
Infjs how many of us are actually autistic?
Also, many INFJs are diagnosed with rare dieseases.
@@angieholt736 what kind?
@@mercedesharrison5550 Paget's Breast Cancer....no one in my family as far back as we can remember had breast cancer.
@@angieholt736 check out "Gabor Mate"! do it
@@angieholt736 would be interested in seeing documented correlation
As a PSOCMDNWDOGHTABPPD ? Luckily with 3 redeeming features , and I may be an INFJ too ? WOW ! 🌌
My intuition powers becone more powerful each. year. I use. my intuition daily
As you become older maybe your life gets a little simpler and you are free from distractions that may interfere with many of your powers as an INFJ. And maybe we become more accepting, so we are not constantly and unconsciously always trying to turn our square peg selves to fit the round hole that is the rest of the world. At least I think this is what is happening to me. And I like it.
I resonates with all 1m % and more. I'm so fed up humans. Our kinds are really rare. Hhhhhhmmmm
I can haz super powers?
hahaha
cool
Often seen as intimidating so not much really
Seriously. Some people freak out when they sense they are really being seen. Mistake it for being scrutized and judged. Watch out for them; generally hiding something. Unless, of course, you are trying to be intimidating! (It could happen. A pissed off INFJ is a terrible thing to witness)
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I am introverted, to a very high degree. However, I am not intuitive, feeling, nor judgmental. I am just an isolated introvert. The only power I have is the ability to do everything alone.
We're not judging others. We are thinkers and judge the best way to get results. I don't judge other people, because I feel that it is looking down on them.
@@angieholt736 Introverts really can not judge others. Most of us do not know others enough to give a fair judgement, and we know it. Thus, we do not even try. Truthfully, most that judge others are almost always wrong anyway. Even if I were social, I believe I would not be judgemental. Of course if someone is stealing constantly and I know it, anybody could safely judge that person a thief. But, I am referencing subtle behaviors. There, I find no reason to judge that. For me, it just seems wrong.
@@indridcold8433 Absolutely!!! It does feel wrong to judge them. Everyone has a story. We need the entire picture to "judge" and determine which path to take in order to help the person. Our heart wants to help other people.
Thanks for replying.
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Infj are a little bit psychopath😂😂😂
You misunderstand but as a psychiatric nurse l am sure you do not understand psychopaths.
@@AlisonGwynethBrownWho does understand a Psychopath? I know I dated one years ago. 🥺 I know that Psychopaths are born and Sociopaths are developed over time. The most important thing learned is STEER CLEAR of any in the future. 🤪
@angieholt736 This is an attitude to women as a psychopath would treat men like this also l agree steer clear but men wait until you are say pregnant and vulnerable to show true colours as my ex did.
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