a money rant: how to avoid lifestyle creep, keeping up with the Joneses, practicing gratitude, etc.

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @kimberlygillis9074
    @kimberlygillis9074 2 года назад +9

    I agree. I own a kia forte and plan on keeping it until the wheels fall off. Lifestyle creep is a real thing. If you are not careful, you will find yourself living a lifestyle you truly can't afford. My goal is to purchase my home either by the end of this year or the beginning of next year. I want to have my car paid off before then. I also want to make sure that my monthly expenses can be paid with one check. Iam moving extremely slow and intentional. I just don't want to see myself drowning in debt. It just isn't worth it.

  • @carladavis2587
    @carladavis2587 Год назад +1

    You have made so many good points. The one I like the best is where you ask yourself would I still want this item if no one could see me with it. That is a very good question and it’s kind of opened my eyes to how to recognize whether some thing is, it’s just a purchase 2 to upgrade my lifestyle or if is it something that is really useful and needed. Thanks for this video!

  • @MichelleTurnz
    @MichelleTurnz 2 года назад +2

    I was bad at it when I was younger but once I turned 30 I decided I didn't need to show off and got myself together. Great vid.

  • @meltluvsluxe952
    @meltluvsluxe952 2 года назад +2

    One, I needed this conversation two years ago because I am living this cycle. Two, you are glowing! Very insightful tips and great perspectives.

  • @minnellis
    @minnellis 2 года назад +4

    Videos like this is one of the reasons you’re one of my favorite RUclipsrs: You come real with some great and practical tips. Thank you!

  • @yolandabacon3662
    @yolandabacon3662 2 года назад +3

    ALWAYS great to re-hear similar things you have heard. Great points/Great vid. The LV bag should be a treat to yourself - when you are ready. Financial organization is your niche.

  • @lifeasqueline
    @lifeasqueline 2 года назад +2

    This was a really good video! I felt like I was watching a masterclass or Ted talk. I love how you break things down and give examples!

  • @srlopez13
    @srlopez13 2 года назад +2

    I loved this sit-down talk! I'm in the season of life that I use the same strategies that you shared to determine whether a purchase is worth it. I love hearing others that have a similar approach because it feels rare these days.

  • @briannashanelle4858
    @briannashanelle4858 2 года назад +1

    Loved this & I definitely look at your for inspiration for where I want to be headed! I'm glad you're vulnerable enough to share the nitty-gritty.

  • @capitalcitycouponqueen988
    @capitalcitycouponqueen988 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for these videos… these are always things that we notice about ourselves but never address

  • @7779311sassy
    @7779311sassy 2 года назад +2

    Great tips as always! I never thought about setting goals with my money. I kinda just spent it as I went, not actively thinking of ways to cut back on bills. Thanks for sharing and your skin looks great!

  • @emBraceSinghlife
    @emBraceSinghlife 2 года назад +7

    I fall victim to this every time my income increases. Thank you for this video, it put some things into perspective. 🌸💚

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 2 года назад +4

    I wanted a car so bad. Once I got one, I realize that what I actually wanted wa to live in a place that didn’t require a car. A car is convenient but it’s a money pit, none stop money pit (gas, tires, maintenance, oil changed, insurance, car tax) etc etc😒

  • @justjanel1
    @justjanel1 2 года назад +5

    Ahhhh I just love you and your whole vibe. This video really made me think. I really loved the gratitude point. Be content with what we have ❤️ Really inspires me to THINK before I BUY. Social media makes me always wanna buy stuff 🙈

  • @ltnichols09
    @ltnichols09 2 года назад

    Real talk … I especially enjoyed the discussion on accountability!

  • @allegralockett1567
    @allegralockett1567 2 года назад +2

    Your content gives me life, Shay. Thank you for the reality ✔. As a result, my husband and I canceled changing to another alarm monitoring company that was going to be a higher payment each month. I also downgraded a subscription by $13.00. It feels good. Thank you 😊.

  • @FunandBudget
    @FunandBudget 2 года назад +9

    I've never fell victim to lifestyle creep...I'm more on the side of giving myself the pep talk of, "girl...you make good money, act like it" - LoL

    • @ShayBudgets
      @ShayBudgets  2 года назад +5

      Rich people probz 😂😭

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings 2 года назад

    You look stunning, Shay! It's my first time coming across the term "lifestyle creep" even though I know what it is. My policy is no need to pay the full price if I can get it for cheaper. I'm ready to spend top dollar for an item I actually need versus an item for flexing. Great questions to ask ourselves. The gratitude part was so powerful. This is such an informative and practical video.🙂

  • @couponwithStar
    @couponwithStar 2 года назад +1

    Great video and you look so pretty! 😍♥️

  • @Tan-rf6oe
    @Tan-rf6oe 2 года назад

    Great ideas for questions to ask yourself? Love this!

  • @itsthatbudgetgirl8813
    @itsthatbudgetgirl8813 2 года назад

    Very great tips and those honest conversations with ourselves and our mate is so important. I wish I had those personal conversations earlier on in life.

  • @lifeasqueline
    @lifeasqueline 2 года назад

    Omg! 😳 I never realized that was a thing! This is the cycle I always seem to fall into! I just started the video but I can tell this is a must watch!

  • @charmainephasoana6850
    @charmainephasoana6850 2 года назад +2

    Hello, new subbie here
    You're so beautiful ma'am. Couldn't Couldn't focused coz of your perfect face and teeth 😍 💗
    Thanks for the rant, looking forward to your content 😊

  • @redtoblackbudgeting
    @redtoblackbudgeting 2 года назад

    Great content!

  • @tamararoberson6482
    @tamararoberson6482 Год назад +1

    Lol I wanna flex in my Lexus but I also know that they are very quality vehicles that last.

  • @arteshamcfadden1532
    @arteshamcfadden1532 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video! Great tips! ❤️

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 2 года назад +2

    15:30 🎯

  • @yaniwilliamson
    @yaniwilliamson Год назад

    Escape the Creep: How to Build Wealth While Living Well is a great book about lifestyle creep

  • @lifeasqueline
    @lifeasqueline 2 года назад

    9:03 😂🤣😂 I love ya'll

  • @tieonne
    @tieonne 2 года назад

    Hi Shay, great information! Do you have any investment videos?

    • @ShayBudgets
      @ShayBudgets  2 года назад

      I do! Here are some:
      ruclips.net/p/PLTtNlSOtdFdc_ffdtKz0OMQ8zf6sjtU8K

  • @meggo0515
    @meggo0515 2 года назад

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @maloumasereel966
    @maloumasereel966 2 года назад

    Me, listening closely, while making zero dollars a month: 🤓

  • @Anaownshercraft
    @Anaownshercraft Год назад

    Suttle flexing