girl, you are so mature for your age! im 28 and just learning these lessons. time is everything. time is money! you got a good head on your shoulders, I hope you know that!
I remember when this video first came out I watched it and I knew that it was good advice but sort of just brushed it to the side because at the time it wasn't something that I wanted to face. I'm currently going through a break up right now and I want to talk to him so badly. I remembered that you filmed this video. I went back watched the whole thing and this seriously AMAZING advice. I'm only 18 and no boy is worth any stress right now. I just wanted to say thank you so so so much Rose. You're seriously a huge role model in my life.
You made this video at the right time. Im going through a bad break up where he keeps coming back to treat me like shit (excuse my french) when the one who messed up the whole entire relationship was him! Im so angry and hurt. All I do is cry all day with no energy to even get up to go to class. We were engaged with a hurtful past i have so much anger towards him and this video calms me so much. Its gonna be such a long road :,(
U hav honestly touched me deep in my heart. Out of everyone in my life telling me wat to do n bla blah.. yes ive listened but u hav given me that extra strength iv been needing. The way u explained it.. idk it was like an epiphany. THANK U so much for making this video. After being in a 4 year relationship. The pain n heart breaks I went thru were mind blowing becuzz thats how heavy the sadness in my heart was. Im good now tho.(: Im so grateful with God for putting souls in this world like u..
Thank you so much Rosita! You inspires me so much to be an independent woman, to believe in me, to stand for my worth & fight for my dream! I never forget this quotes you said in a video " Know your worth and stick to it! " God bless you always. Kisses from Paris. xx THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 😘😘😘😘
Girl I feel you!! It's better to be happy alone than to be miserable with someone. A good woman knows her worth & won't settle for less.. that's my 2 cents lol Keep it up! xox
It's so funny that you mentioned people being in relationships just to tell Instagram or social media. I was actually one of those people and when me and this individual broke up; I was so embarrassed. However now I realize I'm not ready to be in a relationship. Yeah I wanna date occasionally but I wanna mostly focus on building my career. I want a balanced relationship where we both bring something to the table. And not feel we have to impress the masses to prove happiness. Anyway I needed to hear that, thanks girly.
its crazy how God works...... i really needed to hear that. I thank God that you posted this video. you inspire me to be stronger. Especially after a break up. I hope you realize how much of a beautiful soul you are girl. thankyou
It's like you read my mind!! I love your lets talk videos. I like to listen to them when I'm doing design assignments and always end up nodding my head in agreement. I'm currently up doing an assignment at 03:01 woops! I've watched all your lets talk series and logged on to re watch one but saw you had uploaded :)
Girl...I seriously absolutely love love love this video. I can relate to so many things you said as I recently broke up with my boyfriend after 4 years. It's been hard and I've found myself avoiding even thinking about it. I just feel a sense of empowerment after watching this and I had to thank you for that. You've really got the best mindset you could possibly have regarding relationships. You go girl!!
You made a good point. The problem is, he moved on like literally a week after. It's not love if you don't fight for it. Ugh why do us girls fall in too deep?!
i totally agree. my mom as always told me not to settle for less, and never bring home a bum. at 16 i was in a verbally abusive relationship, and i've had low self-esteem. thank God Tyra Banks had her Talk show out at that time. Going through that, i've learned to love myself, before i love someone else. SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE.
Ur homesly more than a you tube guru, more than a pretty face love all Ur advice and all your videos. .you get very personal with your lets talk videos and I deeply thank you for that. .Don't know you but feel so much love for u..:-)
At one point in this video it was like a build up listening to you...im like yes! yes! preeeeach! AMEN! You give some badass advice (in a good way) rosita..you are a beautiful person behind that pretty faceeee. Thank you for this, i needed it im sure a lot of people did.
I wish there were more girls out there that had this same mentality. You sound very mature for your age and it's good and refreshing to see a girl that knows her worth. I hope that if there is any girl out there watching this video and is in any of the situations you mentioned, hopefully seeing this video will inspire them to make positive changes and know they're worth. Thanks for the video Rosita! Keep up the good work!
👏👏👏such great advice ...you are wise beyond your years. I wish I had had your insight and wisdom when I was your age . You really hit the nail on the head with some people just can't be alone .
This is the best video on relationship advice that i have ever seen. Most of these videos are like 6-7 minutes and they r rushing through it..u covered so much in this video..Good Job..Kinda needed it..Thank you as well...
I just finished having a convo with my mom about my boyfriend and when I got to my room ur post came up.... thank u for this girl couldn't have came at a better time!
Part of being a couple is dealing with the good and the bad. Every couple has a story and as a person who has been in a 5 year relationship I can say that actions speak louder than words. Don't give up so easily on the relationship unless it is abusive. Let the other person show you they can make things right with actions not just words. If not then let go of them but at least you know you tried and it just didn't work out. I don't think someone who has never been in a relationship longer than a year should give advice on the subject but to each their own.
like I said in the video, I was asked these questions, I am asked to do these videos - I'm giving my opinion not my experience - yes to each their own..and this topic was personally requested to be filmed....I didn't say just give up on someone I said if its abusive or hes cheating why would you stay?
I'm actually going through a break up, a 7 year relationship. I'll be watching this to keep me focused on the truth, not dwelling on all the time we were together. We were miserable for the longest, I'm looking forward to getting past this. We fought constantly and he put me down constantly. I don't know why I took so long.
my point is let go no matter how hard if its so bad its changed u let go bc u have no idea what happiness there is out there waiting for you to experience whether its alone or with a new partner just let go of the negative and you will find happiness. I used to cry daily now i smile for months and weeks straight (with a small meaningless argument here and there but nothing is perfect) lol anyways love life and love yourself first ...thanks for this video loved it
I know that this video was 3 years ago but, I just want to say that you are so wise for your age. Your advise can go towards relationships in general such as co-workers and friends. I wasted 5 years with the "wrong one". I knew he was the wrong one just months into the relationship. Where were you honey when I needed your advise. I actually did the math and you were only in elementary school when I went through my ordeal. But, thank God that I got out and by the way, I did meet Mr. Right and have been with him 15 years and going strong. Luv uP.S. don't forget to always follow your own advise sweetie
Omg girl.. You do not even know how much this has helped me.i am going through exactly everything you spoke about. I have a 3 year old daughter with him. We were living together he cheated on me. I left him moved out and now he looks for me then stops looking and then comes back it's been four months since our breakup. And now he tells me he has a girlfriend. I'm hurt and devastated but hearing you say all this makes me look at the reality. Why be with someone who after hurting me so much still does it now. It's true he just wants someone there. Do you realize that you do do an impact in our daily lives? Thank you so so much
Hey Rosita, first I wanna say how amazing your sense of clear thoughts are. Many people struggle to understand what they actually want, and that as a matter of fact is HUGE! And so to this, I wanted to post a request, can you please make a Lets Talk video basing on how to fix things in a relationslip, like after a fight. Thanks. Love
You have such a great outlook on life and I hope you remain positive. I'm 38 and single, have a good career, home, family, and a 17 year old daughter. But believe me when I tell you that you do not want to settle. I would love to get married some day but it's totally not worth being with someone just for the sake of saying I have a man. Not every break-up is going to be bad so it's best to learn or grow and move on. One quote that helps me through things is "I'm a great girl and he's a great guy but that doesn't mean we're great for each other."
I was in a relationship for 5 yrs which made me an ugly miserable person and i tried to find reasons to blame that person and i felt dependent and one day i just woke up and ended it and felt pain very rarely but not much bc i enjoyed myself being me and finding myself as a single person not as a couple. It was the true me and i became this completely happy person and didnt have to blame that person bc all along we were just dealing with eachother and tolerating it. We were simply better off apart and that made us both happy. Granted we dont speak but its better being happy than miserable and now im in a relationshipfor a yr after a yr and a half of being single and this person is calm nice loving person.
Wow:) Just hearing things straight out from another person who is not biased makes everything easier even if you already knew ^-^ Sometimes you just gotta hear it from someone else
Hi the guy was already dating that girl while he was with her. When a man gets a women that fast to move in. They were an item before. If a man loves you and you break up he doesn't move on that fast. I agree that you should never allow anyone to abuse you in anyway.
So young, strong, & with a good head on her shoulders....LOVE IT!
Loved this! You're amazing Rose!
I love how you explain things. I could not have said it any better myself. You go sista!
"God has given me the strength to wait." love that!
Great vid. I'm single and sick and tired of some of these men out here.
Beyond perfect timing for this amazing VIDEO. Greatly appreciateddd!!!!
REAL TALK .. well spoken.
girl, you are so mature for your age! im 28 and just learning these lessons. time is everything. time is money! you got a good head on your shoulders, I hope you know that!
I remember when this video first came out I watched it and I knew that it was good advice but sort of just brushed it to the side because at the time it wasn't something that I wanted to face. I'm currently going through a break up right now and I want to talk to him so badly. I remembered that you filmed this video. I went back watched the whole thing and this seriously AMAZING advice. I'm only 18 and no boy is worth any stress right now. I just wanted to say thank you so so so much Rose. You're seriously a huge role model in my life.
The first quote literally made me cry. Thanks so much for this
You made this video at the right time. Im going through a bad break up where he keeps coming back to treat me like shit (excuse my french) when the one who messed up the whole entire relationship was him! Im so angry and hurt. All I do is cry all day with no energy to even get up to go to class. We were engaged with a hurtful past i have so much anger towards him and this video calms me so much. Its gonna be such a long road :,(
aww :( Good Luck healing your heart.
Love this so much. Just what I needed. Thank you. 💕🙌
U hav honestly touched me deep in my heart. Out of everyone in my life telling me wat to do n bla blah.. yes ive listened but u hav given me that extra strength iv been needing. The way u explained it.. idk it was like an epiphany. THANK U so much for making this video. After being in a 4 year relationship. The pain n heart breaks I went thru were mind blowing becuzz thats how heavy the sadness in my heart was. Im good now tho.(: Im so grateful with God for putting souls in this world like u..
Thank you so much . I broke up with my daughters father after 18 years and I did exactly what you have said. Love your honesty .
Thank you so much Rosita! You inspires me so much to be an independent woman, to believe in me, to stand for my worth & fight for my dream! I never forget this quotes you said in a video " Know your worth and stick to it! " God bless you always. Kisses from Paris. xx THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 😘😘😘😘
Very true, girl. You are definitely wise beyond your years.
& I love your makeup. ❤️
" forget money forget possessions forget everything in the world the only thing we have is time time is of the essence" BRAVO 👏👏👏👏
Honestly I Love and Respect you so much
this is so on point & relevant. thank you so much, this saved me in so many ways.
Girl I feel you!! It's better to be happy alone than to be miserable with someone. A good woman knows her worth & won't settle for less.. that's my 2 cents lol Keep it up! xox
Love this!! This explains my situation I was in! Really needed to hear this!
It's so funny that you mentioned people being in relationships just to tell Instagram or social media. I was actually one of those people and when me and this individual broke up; I was so embarrassed. However now I realize I'm not ready to be in a relationship. Yeah I wanna date occasionally but I wanna mostly focus on building my career. I want a balanced relationship where we both bring something to the table. And not feel we have to impress the masses to prove happiness. Anyway I needed to hear that, thanks girly.
Love this such great advice :D XO
u said it all girl! I really like ur lets talk videos this was just perfect :) love u rose!
I really needed this I love you Rosita!!!
its crazy how God works...... i really needed to hear that. I thank God that you posted this video. you inspire me to be stronger. Especially after a break up. I hope you realize how much of a beautiful soul you are girl. thankyou
I wish I can just skip to the part where I get over my breakup :,(
It's like you read my mind!! I love your lets talk videos. I like to listen to them when I'm doing design assignments and always end up nodding my head in agreement. I'm currently up doing an assignment at 03:01 woops! I've watched all your lets talk series and logged on to re watch one but saw you had uploaded :)
You are on point with this ♡
Amennnn! Love it.
Loved this. Thank you soooo soo much
This is the best video thus far. You are wise beyond your years and strong!
Thank you so much Rosita
This is perfect !🙌
Girl...I seriously absolutely love love love this video. I can relate to so many things you said as I recently broke up with my boyfriend after 4 years. It's been hard and I've found myself avoiding even thinking about it. I just feel a sense of empowerment after watching this and I had to thank you for that. You've really got the best mindset you could possibly have regarding relationships. You go girl!!
Great word of advice crazy how i came across to this video thank you doll 💜
So wise and beautiful, love you!
You made a good point. The problem is, he moved on like literally a week after. It's not love if you don't fight for it. Ugh why do us girls fall in too deep?!
You are so wise at your young age. Great advice! I'm sure many girls with benefit from hearing this. Keep up the good work mamita.
i totally agree. my mom as always told me not to settle for less, and never bring home a bum. at 16 i was in a verbally abusive relationship, and i've had low self-esteem. thank God Tyra Banks had her Talk show out at that time. Going through that, i've learned to love myself, before i love someone else. SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE.
I needed this! thanks rose oh and great selection of quotes
This made me feel so much better thank you Rosita 💕
Loved this!! ❤️
you always know what to say! love you girl!
LOVE YOU!! Amazing video
Great advice. 👍
lol bloopers were sooo funny!! please add them to every video and thanks for the best advice
Thank you so much for this! And you look amazing loving that makeup
Thank you for this Video! xo
amazing amazing amazing advice!
You are such a strong woman! Your mindset is inspiring and so positive.
@Latoya47 this young lady is wise & strong! her mother taught her well
Ur homesly more than a you tube guru, more than a pretty face love all Ur advice and all your videos. .you get very personal with your lets talk videos and I deeply thank you for that. .Don't know you but feel so much love for u..:-)
I agree but also if you have enough faith in someone and they truly do love you they'll change for the better!
At one point in this video it was like a build up listening to you...im like yes! yes! preeeeach! AMEN! You give some badass advice (in a good way) rosita..you are a beautiful person behind that pretty faceeee. Thank you for this, i needed it im sure a lot of people did.
Great advice gurly that's why I'm still single and it's been almost 2yrs and single mother of 1 and I won't settled for less ANYMORE :)
I wish there were more girls out there that had this same mentality. You sound very mature for your age and it's good and refreshing to see a girl that knows her worth. I hope that if there is any girl out there watching this video and is in any of the situations you mentioned, hopefully seeing this video will inspire them to make positive changes and know they're worth. Thanks for the video Rosita! Keep up the good work!
👏👏👏such great advice ...you are wise beyond your years. I wish I had had your insight and wisdom when I was your age . You really hit the nail on the head with some people just can't be alone .
I really needed this great advice
This is extremely great advice.
Very mature way of thinking, keep it up!!
This is the best video on relationship advice that i have ever seen. Most of these videos are like 6-7 minutes and they r rushing through it..u covered so much in this video..Good Job..Kinda needed it..Thank you as well...
Yup you go girl your amazingggg love u
Hey Rosita, I just wanted to say thank you, your video was the reminder that I needed. It Couldn't be at a better time.
I needed something like this to really wake me up !! Your amazing &| I realize what I need to do for myself &| my life. !!
I just finished having a convo with my mom about my boyfriend and when I got to my room ur post came up.... thank u for this girl couldn't have came at a better time!
Awesome video . I think you should do a Let's a Talk video on self esteem and body issues .
Part of being a couple is dealing with the good and the bad. Every couple has a story and as a person who has been in a 5 year relationship I can say that actions speak louder than words. Don't give up so easily on the relationship unless it is abusive. Let the other person show you they can make things right with actions not just words. If not then let go of them but at least you know you tried and it just didn't work out. I don't think someone who has never been in a relationship longer than a year should give advice on the subject but to each their own.
like I said in the video, I was asked these questions, I am asked to do these videos - I'm giving my opinion not my experience - yes to each their own..and this topic was personally requested to be filmed....I didn't say just give up on someone I said if its abusive or hes cheating why would you stay?
Wish we lived close seriously were twins! Knowing your self worth has a lot to do with this topic! Preach it mama
I'm actually going through a break up, a 7 year relationship. I'll be watching this to keep me focused on the truth, not dwelling on all the time we were together. We were miserable for the longest, I'm looking forward to getting past this. We fought constantly and he put me down constantly. I don't know why I took so long.
Awesome ...:)
love you:)
You opened my eyes.. Thank you :)
Your talking to me❤️thank u for the video!
You are so inspirational. I wish I had a friend like you :) thanks for all the advice. I'm looking forward to make some changes in my life
my point is let go no matter how hard if its so bad its changed u let go bc u have no idea what happiness there is out there waiting for you to experience whether its alone or with a new partner just let go of the negative and you will find happiness. I used to cry daily now i smile for months and weeks straight (with a small meaningless argument here and there but nothing is perfect) lol anyways love life and love yourself first ...thanks for this video loved it
Off topic but that colour suits u so well!!!! Love it ! And u always have informative videos love ur advices
Can you do a video about friendships? Like dealing with fake friends, negative friends, or just feeling like you dont have friends at all, etc
Love!!
Great video! Thanks for the advice i needed this! Xo
someone recommended this video ti me and i'm so glad I watched! new subscriber :)
You just read my mind,im going through that right now,thank you so much for you advise :D
I know that this video was 3 years ago but, I just want to say that you are so wise for your age. Your advise can go towards relationships in general such as co-workers and friends. I wasted 5 years with the "wrong one". I knew he was the wrong one just months into the relationship. Where were you honey when I needed your advise. I actually did the math and you were only in elementary school when I went through my ordeal. But, thank God that I got out and by the way, I did meet Mr. Right and have been with him 15 years and going strong. Luv uP.S. don't forget to always follow your own advise sweetie
Your such inspiration😘
Omg girl.. You do not even know how much this has helped me.i am going through exactly everything you spoke about. I have a 3 year old daughter with him. We were living together he cheated on me. I left him moved out and now he looks for me then stops looking and then comes back it's been four months since our breakup. And now he tells me he has a girlfriend. I'm hurt and devastated but hearing you say all this makes me look at the reality. Why be with someone who after hurting me so much still does it now. It's true he just wants someone there. Do you realize that you do do an impact in our daily lives? Thank you so so much
Looooove this video!
Hey Rosita, first I wanna say how amazing your sense of clear thoughts are. Many people struggle to understand what they actually want, and that as a matter of fact is HUGE! And so to this, I wanted to post a request, can you please make a Lets Talk video basing on how to fix things in a relationslip, like after a fight.
Thanks.
Love
OMG MY EYES ARE OPENING U HAVE SO MUCH AS WISDOM AS A YOUNG LADY I'LL TAKE THAT ADVICE :)
This video was awesome!
great vid speak the truth gurl!!!!
Rosita your young and amazing you can take your time finding the one. Im 29 single mom. I feel like nobody would want me and I have waisted time
That's not true.
Your so right
Very wise, admire you a lot more, brains, beautyget it girl
You have such a great outlook on life and I hope you remain positive. I'm 38 and single, have a good career, home, family, and a 17 year old daughter. But believe me when I tell you that you do not want to settle. I would love to get married some day but it's totally not worth being with someone just for the sake of saying I have a man. Not every break-up is going to be bad so it's best to learn or grow and move on. One quote that helps me through things is "I'm a great girl and he's a great guy but that doesn't mean we're great for each other."
I was in a relationship for 5 yrs which made me an ugly miserable person and i tried to find reasons to blame that person and i felt dependent and one day i just woke up and ended it and felt pain very rarely but not much bc i enjoyed myself being me and finding myself as a single person not as a couple. It was the true me and i became this completely happy person and didnt have to blame that person bc all along we were just dealing with eachother and tolerating it. We were simply better off apart and that made us both happy. Granted we dont speak but its better being happy than miserable and now im in a relationshipfor a yr after a yr and a half of being single and this person is calm nice loving person.
Yay! Thank goodness. But now it won't play for me😔
Greaaat video ! 😊
Wow:) Just hearing things straight out from another person who is not biased makes everything easier even if you already knew ^-^ Sometimes you just gotta hear it from someone else
Great video! :)
Hi the guy was already dating that girl while he was with her. When a man gets a women that fast to move in. They were an item before. If a man loves you and you break up he doesn't move on that fast. I agree that you should never allow anyone to abuse you in anyway.