How to Accept, Love, and Motivate the Choleric
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- While people of the choleric temperament have a lot of great attributes, boy can they be tough to love sometimes.
But what if there was a way to use the habits of the choleric to your advantage to enter into a deeper relationship. NO! It's not manipulation. Rather, it's honoring the strengths of this powerful temperament while leveraging the natural motivations and drivers of the choleric person.
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This channel is totally underrated. This info is very transformative. Please keep doing these videos/podcasts!
Thank you! More to come!
I came across this Channel yesterday. It’s very profound and insightful. Keep at it friends. You’re doing well.
I'm really angry with my choleric partner because I was very sick and he seemed oblivious to it. He got angry at me for not being active when I'm very sick I'm not going to be doing chores as I usually do. This is really bothering me. Why cant they not look after others but when they are sick they are like babies and expecting hand and foot treatment. Are Cholerics narcissists?
I'm a phlegmatic and don't like conflict so I'm just annoyed but not saying anything but this is really making me reevaluate the whole relationship. They can't practice in sickness and in health so what's the point of being with someone who can't be there for you at your worst
Being sick is the worst! I don’t care who you are, we all want to be taken care of when we are sick. I’m with you there.
I certainly would not categorize all cholerics as narcissists. Perhaps another way of framing this is that you and your partner are two people with your own ideas of the best way to respond in this situation.
That’s just step one. Recognizing that you and he both have different ideas of how to approach you being sick.
And here’s the wild thing, both of you are being driven to act in a way that you not only perceive to be good, but your greatest good.
One of our latest episodes, “How the Phlegmatic Catholic Leader Embodies Ownership” is my recommended follow up.
Keep sharing your heart! We see you 👀🫣❤
@@mattingold8780 thanks for your response Matt, I appreciate your point of view but just really struggling with the level the lack of empathy is at.
Thanks for the recommendation as well will look for it.
Helpful thank you 😂
Came here because both me and my dad are choleric and are driving each other crazy (doesn't help that I am Catholic and he is not and even against it).
Chao, you've come to the right place. What did you learn about being in a better relationship with dad?
So pretty much give the choleric their way and always try to pacify their anger. No marriage can survive a choleric who will not chsnge. Love and kindness are a need..not a preference..Cholerics also destroy their children by anger and dominance. You are saying to pretty much “endure” the poor treatment of a choleric..having a specific personality type does not excuse the unChristlike treatment of others
“Why should I grow in empathy?” Hhmm maybe because God commands us to love others..if you have to have an explained reason to grow in empathy you are in a sad self consumed non Christ like mentality ..