As the Stoics said: "Control what you can, accept what you cannot." - Focus on your actions and thoughts, but let go of the outcomes beyond your control.
So basically, it's the same as the serenity prayer, "Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and have wisdom to know the difference"
I've heard an old phrase "you suffer because you desire." I've spent years trying to desire less. It's difficult in the beginning because it feels like you're quitting on yourself. The truth is you haven't grown spiritually enough to attract said things.
Desiring less is a desire. People often miss the point of what detachment is. It's not about desiring less it's about not allowing the desire to consume your every thought. Desire is something we will always have it's not the root of suffering. Obsessing is the root of suffering. When you stop chasing it will come to you. Because chasing after something places you in resistance it's a belief that the only way to have it is to struggle for it. Follow the path of least resistance and life will follow you.
As I AM awakening I realize how much I do not want ANYTHING materialistic anymore. As I look at this world in shambles because of greed it repulses me. Whatever is guiding me, I AM so grateful for this guidance ... The truth shall set us all free
@@betterliffe honestly, it took for me to lose EVERYTHING by the hand of the ones that I called family, friends, lovers...GOD woke me up to the sabotage that I couldn't see. That is why I do not value anything this world can give me materialistically. I am starving for true CONNECTION. TRUE LOVE. DIVINE CONNECTION.
to all who read this, and all who don't...sending you infinite peace, perfect health, abundant wealth, joyous freedom, and unconditional love... 🙏🏽💚💚💚💚💚🙌🏽
Currently letting go of my father who is Maybe days away from transitioning due to Parkinsons. I realize more and more how this is truly the vessel and his spirit will live on. I now know why I had to start the journey of awakening ❤️ He passed on July 3, 2024 in room 333.
@@Nurturedbynature-1111 I can tell you from my own visions that we truly never die it’s truly amazing and even though I clearly know you are aware of that truth I thought it might help you to have that extra confirmation. Sending you love and hugs.
@@valeriesnyder2157 thank you 😇. I believe that now, but it's still a hard pill to swallow. I feel comforted in all the love I was given and still receive from my Dad.
I love the Laws of the Universe. I Love the Higher Self. I Love All of You. I Love GOD. I Love. I am Loved. I Love Life. Life is so easy. Life is about Evolution. Life is full of Wonder and Bliss.
After I had my spiritual awakening I was in a great place getting closer to living as my true self. I tried to reconnect with old relationships enthusiastic about showing who I’ve become and where I’m going! My ex and I have been dating again and I can honestly say I’ve taken steps backwards. From mocking my spiritual growth to where I don’t talk about it anymore and now dealing with bad attitude which drains my energy. I’m trying to get back to where I was and this video was what I needed to hear. Sending beautiful energy to all. Remember you’re amazing and love yourself.
Same here mate. I was on a wonderful path of learning, filled with enthusiasm, love and compassion for others. But then I didn’t get the promotion I was promised and everything went downhill after that. 3 weeks have passed but I am unable to get back on track and needed this video. Trying to truly follow Krishna’s advice-“karma kar fal ki chinta mat kar”, lose translation-“do the tasks you need to do without the aspirations of the fruits it would bear”
@@kajolsharma8840the promotion wasn’t for your highest good, there’s something better coming in for you but you have to stay positive. Sending you love and best wishes for the position your supposed to be in ❤
Same about the ex thing. We broke up since getting back together and I’ve found peace again. Sometimes people don’t fit into your journey any more and that’s ok. Sending lots of love your way!
Attachment is a holding onto, chasing, craving. Detachment is rejection, aversion, indifference True freedom is non attachment. Non attachment is allowing, acceptance, it’s I don’t mind instead of I don’t care not rejecting but also not holding on. It’s a state of surrender to what is. 🙏🏽♥️
I’ve said many of the same things over the years and I live in bliss. Our joy comes from within and not from external stuff. My needs are basic and I’m thankful for my simple life. Great video
It's to understand that none of us ever get to "have" anything. You don't get to "own" anything. What you want is to perceive it and be able to perceive it forever. Which you can't do if you're carrying it on your back. And you can't move forward at your own pace if you're focused on looking at it and carrying it. So let it go and it will dance alongside you. Sometimes ahead, next to, or behind. But the one guarantee is that if you keep holding it so tight, you're going to break it.
I’m realizing just now how I am desperately in need of detaching myself from anything that is not serving me anymore but causing more grief than anything . For me to no longer carry that identity of playing the victim .❤
I need to detact from a ex gf we recently split, but its the same feelings of hurt and anxiety from any ex gf so its not about the person..its in me and its something deeper so im really looking into my inner self so i can gain freedom from any attachments that dont serve me
Thank you ...your words are universal sent. I'm coming out of a 5 year narcissist relationship and trying to know I was never loved and beaten emotionally. This is the part of my healing to let go...work with the universe to heal. If anyone is in Victoria BC and would like to support each other if you are dealing with hurt. I'd be willing to share the healing
I’m working on my last year of masters of social work and my anxiety has been spiking. Listening to this made me see how I’m so focused on the end result (getting a degree ) rather than honing my skills as a clinician to grow in my career. It was such a gentle reminder of my worth as a person regardless of my degree and the worth of those that I work with. It’s such a privilege to serve others and I think I was forgetting that.
Thank you for sharing such a profound reflection on your journey. Your insight about focusing on personal and professional growth rather than just the end goal is incredibly valuable. It's wonderful to see you reconnecting with the deeper purpose of your work - serving others. Your ability to pause and reflect like this speaks volumes about your potential as a clinician. Remember, your worth isn't defined by your degree, but by your compassion and dedication to helping others. We're honored that this video resonated with you during this challenging time. Anxiety can be tough, especially during such an important phase of your education. Please be kind to yourself as you navigate this path.
For most of my life I wanted nothing and had everything I wanted Few years back when I left work for Gods calling, I was not progressing as quickly as I imagined I wanted to fulfill my souls mission so desperately I saw I had stopped fulfilling my mission
I went through extreme forms of abuse, torture. I had to rely on myself internally from getting out of this. This is what my intuition has known and relied on from my own self. You can figure this out on your is if you truly are desiring becoming a better version of yourself. Doing this is the only way of reaching the highest version of you, For many it seems harder than the end, but it’s 10x harder to do, but the outcome is 100x better and worth it than the journey of obstacles it takes to get to that point. Don’t let that stop you. I hope this helps other people see their own internal selves, and let go anything. This can include, attachments to identity. That’s one of the biggest attachments anyone can have. Being attached to your identity to the point it’s holding you back. Show yourself love. Understand you can receive your full potential. And release.
Acknowledgement Self-Inquiry Processing Attachments Taking creative action Embracing freedom Thank you so much! such a lovely video. Just needed. Regards. 🙏❤
Dude, they kept saying let go, give it to a higher power etc. It finally clicked a bit more, but I think youve illuminated a path for me that was dimly lit before
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Have you noticed that the moment of acceptance was actually the beginning of your healing? It's fascinating how letting go, even when it feels like giving up, can be the most courageous step we take. Your journey from fighting to acceptance really resonates with me - would you be open to sharing what that turning point felt like for you? Sometimes our deepest pain can become our greatest teacher, though it rarely feels that way in the moment. 🤍
@betterliffe the pain was to much I lost my job started drinking a ton lost several pounds and finally I gave up on it accepted it and hope she finds peace to ( the breakup was something neither of us wanted ) The next day I got a job offer pays twice as much and I finally slept for the first time in like two weeks and it still sucks but it's so much better when you don't fight it
I realized that I didn't release everything I thought I did. I struggled to figure out what it I was holding on to. Then, a situation happened, and it brought back feelings that I had to deal with.
A good reminder, but I struggle to zero in on exactly what I’m attached to, though I know I am suffering greatly, but this was a helpful reminder. Thank you.
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
If you involve your self with life especially of others, drama/attachment comes along with it. That's why I don't involve my self with their BS and toxicity, its way more peaceful and free.
There's wisdom in protecting your peace, and it's great that you're aware of what drains your energy. I'm curious though - have you found ways to stay connected to others while maintaining healthy boundaries? Sometimes our greatest growth and purpose can come through meaningful connections, even if it requires careful discernment. What does that balance look like for you? 🤍✨
While I don't buy and cannot reconcile the idea that you can just selectively detach from outcomes and otherwise still feel a deep sense of caring and connection with things in life, I do think it's vital that we avoid attachments anyway... to as many things, people, etc. as we can. Detaching is worth losing any of the positives associated with feeling attached to this world, to your ambitions, desires, wants, etc. It's inevitable that you'll be attached to things like family, if you grew up with parents around for example. You didn't know any better growing up. But attachment is never worth it, because it's inevitable that the majority of the time, the outcomes you desire will not come to pass. Do not add to the few inevitable attachments in life by bringing in other attachments that are not necessary. I am currently learning to let go of certain lifelong attachments that are not resulting in the outcomes I desperately desired and efforted towards. I value myself too much to be a beggar to that which is not completely in my own control. One sign that you are successfully detaching is that you are no longer praying/hoping/wishing for things. You realize that if you have to do such things, they are typically unlikely to happen. You realize it is best to focus on what you can control, and do so without caring enough to be attached.
We’d like to invite you to a deeper consideration of the perspective you’ve shared. A few questions - 1. You mention avoiding attachments to as many things as possible. But doesn't this risk missing out on the richness of life experiences? How might we engage deeply with life while still maintaining inner peace? 2. You suggest detachment is worth losing positive feelings associated with attachment. But what if there's a way to experience those positives without the suffering of attachment? How might we cultivate joy and connection without clinging? 3. You state that attachment is never worth it because desired outcomes often don't materialize. But isn't personal growth often born from how we handle disappointment? How could we reframe our relationship with outcomes to focus on the journey rather than the destination? 4. You mention no longer praying/hoping/wishing for things as a sign of detachment. But couldn't these activities, when done without expectation, be forms of positive intention setting? How might we maintain aspirations without becoming attached to specific outcomes? 5. You suggest focusing only on what you can control. While this is wise, couldn't we also find value in how we respond to things outside our control? How might we cultivate resilience and adaptability in the face of uncertainty?
Everything is temporary in this life, it is fleeting and will come and go, jobs, family, friends and worldly possessions. You can still love people, and careers and activities and things, and yet still be detached. It is a pure form of love, there is no ownership and it is aligned with the inevitable loss of said people and things. Living in the moment fully and appreciating these gifts that we get for a moment. When they are gone you will already have known the nature of all things was temporary to begin with and there was nothing to be done. When it is your time to pass you can also be detached from this physical world and effortlessly without anxiety pass to the end of this existence. This is freedom from desire of outcome, you can still do your daily tasks and work towards goals, but what will happen will happen. You simply are, it’s a stoic way of existing and it is hard to do, because we are wired and conditioned by our emotions to stay attached and react to undesired outcomes. When you can really get outside of this default state and mindset, you really become at peace with it all. You lost your job? Your girlfriend left you? Your friend passed away? You loved all of those the same before they were gone, and you can love them the same afterwards, and not be affected to such a negative degree, because you loved but were not attached. This doesn’t mean you didn’t care, or are a sociopath or something like that, you simply understand the true nature of life and are at peace and at one with it. Life is chaos and all things will change, nothing stays the same, so you just ride the wave and go with it, being the best you that you can be.
Thank you, I'm detaching from the outcome, I have a tree that needs felling and I'm anxious for it to go well without problems. It's been difficult to get someone to do it. Every experience holds value, I can not control the outcome, I have to let go ❤
My dear Universal family members. I’m pretty conscious enough more or less to align with all your words of Universal process of cause and effect. I feel very extraordinary and happy. Love and Light!
I have had many successes by pursuing my desires with a burning passion. My desire was like an endless fuel motivating me and making me productive. And I can't think of worth while successes I have had where I didn't have desire. So for me this isn't true
You make an interesting point about success and desire. It reminds me of a garden - sometimes the flowers we carefully plan and tend grow beautifully, while other times the most stunning blooms appear unexpectedly in places we never planted them. I'm curious what experiences have shaped your perspective on this? And have you found that different types of success feel different to you when you look back on them?
I have spent many time trying to get over all of my mistakes in all the attachment that I've been having sometimes it is very hard to deal with regret not a lot of emotional issues to go with it I'm just trying to be present and to be better thank you
@@boayden9971 It's wonderful to hear you're putting these ideas into practice. Every step on your journey matters, and we hope you find continued inspiration and growth! 💫
If one can be selfish, detachment is not a problem. In attachment, one at least thinks about his family. In detachment, he thinks about none but himself and his detachment from the cycle of life. Have you ever seen a detached person free other people along with him from the cycle of life? Any person who starts is path towards Spirituality, detaches himself from the material world. For who's good? It is for his personal needs to detach from the cycle of life. It is for his personal need to be part of the celestial beings. Moksha is singular. If teachings can lead the pathway to moksha, why help people with disabilities and ailments? Why help the poor? Why help anyone? Just give them instructions on what has to be done and leave their helplessness to themselves. Attachment in detachment is the key.
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Letting go is not about giving up, it’s about trusting the process. Sometimes, surrendering control allows the universe to bring what we truly need. The key to achieving our desires often lies in freeing ourselves from attachment.
What would happen if you applied this wisdom about "letting go" to something you're currently holding onto too tightly? Sometimes our deepest breakthroughs come when we loosen our grip, don't they? 🌟
I realize a daily struggle I encounter is the "romantic" situation. I see myself constantly thinking about talking to girls though I just seem to lack the confidence. When in a group or with other friends, I have confidence and am capable of talking and joking around very well. Though when alone and want to approach a woman on the street or outside, I can't seem to be able to do it. Mainly because I feel like I am being too pushy, or I don't have a logical reason to annoy that person; so by not doing anything, I kind of "protect" myself from such situations. But I always seem to feel bad and feel void for not doing anything. This made me more "attached" to my previous relationship, mainly because it was a relationship, nothing more, but u still want to fill that void
One of Western civilisation’s most significant events is the Age of Enlightenment in the 18thcentury, a period which undermined the values that society had hitherto relied on, namely, on the religious view. This engenders the most profound cultural, sociological and psychological repercussions, leaving many facing a crisis in discerning a meaning or purpose for their existence and struggling to tackle the problems in living that this gives rise to. While we previously had ready answers to the problem of how life ought to be lived and what its overall meaning and purpose was (since faith in the existence of God gave us the reassurance that we are partaking in a divine project) we are now slowly experiencing the consequences of what Nietzsche proclaimed as the death of God, whose full consequences would elude many people as he made clear: “This tremendous event is still on its way, still wandering; it has not yet reached the ears of men… This deed is still more distant from them than the most distant stars - and yet they have done it themselves.”
i am strong 💪 i am worthy i am abundant i understand i am wealthy more importantly God open before me, the gates, that I may go in and receive treasure of darkness and hidden secret places today isaiah 45:1-3 in Jesus name Everything I want shows up today because I attract what i’m attracting
Sometimes I wonder if we dont understand desire. I hear this & idk how important it (desire) could be. Where do dreams stand in this all. I just see ppl talkin ab desire, I haven’t gotten thru the piece^ yet. Been thinkin ab that stuff a lot
When we let go of our own ego-driven desires or expectations for how we think someone should be, we open ourselves to loving them more fully as they are. This "detachment" you mention could be seen as a form of spiritual freedom - freedom from the need to control outcomes or change others. In the journey of personal and spiritual growth, learning to balance compassion with healthy boundaries is key. It allows us to care deeply while also respecting each person's individual path. Thank you for prompting this reflection. Your insight aligns beautifully with the idea that letting go - of expectations, of the need to fix or change others - can paradoxically bring us closer to our deepest desires for connection and understanding. Has this been your experience in your own relationships?
I failed miserably in my past never understanding the importance detachment is to one’s overall wellbeing. I attached myself to everyone and everything and failed consistently all because of NEED from childhood. Only now “ at 69” am I grasping its full meaning. This video has helped a lot in my understanding of detachment. True Love is being detached contrary to what many believe.
I'm still in the process of internalizing that attachment to a thing is not what allows you to enjoy the thing, that you can enjoy ice cream without attachment towards the ice cream to provide a simple example. My mind can understand it easily for ice cream, but it doesnt understand that I can still date people and enjoy dating people without being attached to an specific outcome. There is part of me that fears that if I get detached from something I wont be able to enjoy that something and I wont have the motivation to work towards that thing. Ln the other hand , another part of me (probably something related to ny higher self) wants to live the exact life Im loving, with the exact goals, but more like I'm playing a fun game. ----- Now, my attachment is I want to at least once go through the experience of having sex or sexual intimacy with a woman I find very physically attractive, but when I do self-inquiry, I kind of find nothing. No societal expectation (society actually expects me to settle or demonize my desire), and if there is some childhood conditioning, I can't find it. The closest thing to an answer I can find is "You want it and you can get it. Go get it and explore your potential.". It feels as if it's something that just is. I have questioned many times but always get similar answers.
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i love ram dass but perhaps i don't understand the metaphore in the beginning - yes, if the monkey lets go of the nuts he will attain his freedom. But he won't get any nuts. I can detach from the concept of needing a job to pay rent... but if i don't have any money to pay rent i'm screwed... what am i missing? I understand that detachment from outcome is critical to let us live in the moment, but there are all these practical things in reality that have to be in place for survival
Thank you for asking for more clarity, Tristan. Let's dive deeper into the metaphors to bridge the spiritual concepts with practical realities. The monkey and nuts metaphor is a classic spiritual teaching. Imagine a monkey trap with a narrow opening. Inside are nuts that the monkey wants. The monkey reaches in and grabs the nuts, but now its fist is too big to pull out while holding the nuts. The monkey's attachment to the nuts keeps it trapped. If it lets go, it can easily remove its hand and be free. In life, we often cling to things - beliefs, possessions, outcomes - that seem essential but may actually be limiting us. The metaphor invites us to examine what we're holding onto that might be keeping us from greater freedom or opportunities. Now, let's address your practical concern about rent. Detachment here doesn't mean being irresponsible or neglecting real-world needs. Instead, it's about approaching these needs from a place of trust and flow rather than fear and scarcity. Consider this expanded metaphor: You're in a river needing to reach the other side (your goals, like paying rent). Attachment is like trying to swim directly against the current - exhausting and often ineffective. Detachment is like understanding the river's flow, using it to guide you while still actively swimming. You're engaged in the process but not frantically fighting against life's currents. In practice, this might look like: 1. Taking necessary actions to earn money 2. Being open to unexpected opportunities 3. Releasing anxiety about the future 4. Trusting that as you align with your purpose, solutions will appear The goal is to meet your practical needs while maintaining inner peace and openness to life's possibilities. It's about finding that balance between responsible action and spiritual trust. How does this resonate with your experience? Can you think of times when letting go of rigid expectations actually led to better outcomes in your life?
@@betterliffe Thanks for the detailed reply. Yes, I can think of times where letting go has helped me. I have a chronic health condition, and as things were getting bad recently, I was so reluctant to what was inevitably coming, but as soon as I let go, I went through the things that I was dreading, and my quality of life improved. Honestly in a surprising way, that which I was dreading in life the most came and went, and now that it's left, my anxiety about it has dissipated. There is a new level of challenges now for my health, and I'm kind of just thinking that if I let go completely, something will come to being that gets me closer to health. It's so hard sometimes though. I wish there was a magic pill to make me better, but it's not that simple. Thanks again
@@tristangruener9571 Get in a waterfall! I was shown in a vision a huge waterfall and Jesus was at the top looking down and he said these are healing waters . I assume he meant all waterfalls heal us . I googled waterfalls in my area and I asked my friend who has lived here most of his life, if he knew where one was and he told me where I could find one close to my house and I told him why I was wondering where I could find one and he was so surprised and he said now I know what healed me because during my cancer treatment I went there three times and I was healed from the cancer , it was completely healed. Also reiki will help you too . Sending love and prayers for your healing sweetheart!!!
Wouldn't detachment strengtnen alignment. Perhaps strengthen is not the correct word... aid? Growth always involves detachment as does expansion. The destination is to our Origin, realignment to the frequency of unconditional Love.
Thank you for sharing your profound insights, Ed. Your perspective beautifully illuminates the intricate relationship between detachment, growth, and our spiritual journey. You've touched on something truly significant - the idea that detachment isn't about weakening our connection, but rather about aligning more deeply with our true essence. The word 'aid' does seem to capture this concept well, as detachment aids us in our spiritual evolution. Your observation that growth and expansion inherently involve detachment is particularly enlightening. It reminds us that to evolve, we must be willing to let go of what no longer serves us. The way you've framed our spiritual journey as a return to our Origin and a realignment with unconditional Love is beautiful and profound. It echoes the teachings of many spiritual traditions that speak of returning to our true nature. Thank you for contributing such a thoughtful perspective to our community. Your words invite us all to reflect more deeply on the role of detachment in our own spiritual growth. How has your understanding of detachment shaped your personal journey towards unconditional Love?
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, @jalgaming241. Not knowing what we're attached to can be a common experience. Sometimes our attachments aren't obvious to us. Taking time for self-reflection, perhaps through journaling or meditation, can help reveal the things we may be unknowingly clinging to. If you're interested in exploring this further, our video on "5 Ways to Identify Hidden Attachments" might be helpful. Remember, recognizing attachments is the first step towards letting go and personal growth. Wishing you clarity on your journey of self-discovery!
As the Stoics said: "Control what you can, accept what you cannot." - Focus on your actions and thoughts, but let go of the outcomes beyond your control.
Indeed, powerful words 🤝✨
Thank you.
So basically, it's the same as the serenity prayer, "Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and have wisdom to know the difference"
I've heard an old phrase "you suffer because you desire." I've spent years trying to desire less. It's difficult in the beginning because it feels like you're quitting on yourself. The truth is you haven't grown spiritually enough to attract said things.
Well said
Desiring to not desire?
Amazing quote. Thanks for sharing
Desiring less is a desire. People often miss the point of what detachment is. It's not about desiring less it's about not allowing the desire to consume your every thought. Desire is something we will always have it's not the root of suffering. Obsessing is the root of suffering. When you stop chasing it will come to you. Because chasing after something places you in resistance it's a belief that the only way to have it is to struggle for it. Follow the path of least resistance and life will follow you.
This @@spiceynye813
As I AM awakening I realize how much I do not want ANYTHING materialistic anymore. As I look at this world in shambles because of greed it repulses me. Whatever is guiding me, I AM so grateful for this guidance ... The truth shall set us all free
How did you come to this realization? Would love to hear more about your perspective
@@betterliffe honestly, it took for me to lose EVERYTHING by the hand of the ones that I called family, friends, lovers...GOD woke me up to the sabotage that I couldn't see. That is why I do not value anything this world can give me materialistically. I am starving for true CONNECTION. TRUE LOVE. DIVINE CONNECTION.
It's difficult but at some point of life we have to accept detachment is the only way to stay happy
❤❤❤❤❤ yessssssss
is this directed at israel? i don’t get it. I am very pro Israel, and I don’t think they should be detached from their security at all
“Detachment leads to Freedom “
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to all who read this, and all who don't...sending you infinite peace, perfect health, abundant wealth, joyous freedom, and unconditional love...
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@@marigoldpluss i love ya 😘
Currently letting go of my father who is Maybe days away from transitioning due to Parkinsons. I realize more and more how this is truly the vessel and his spirit will live on. I now know why I had to start the journey of awakening ❤️
He passed on July 3, 2024 in room 333.
transitioning ? wtf is that
@@mathieuavisse4623 dying duh
@mathieuavisse4623 and he did transition since you needed to ask, July 3rd. Happy to teach you what transitioning means 😊
@@Nurturedbynature-1111 I can tell you from my own visions that we truly never die it’s truly amazing and even though I clearly know you are aware of that truth I thought it might help you to have that extra confirmation. Sending you love and hugs.
@@valeriesnyder2157 thank you 😇. I believe that now, but it's still a hard pill to swallow. I feel comforted in all the love I was given and still receive from my Dad.
I love the Laws of the Universe.
I Love the Higher Self.
I Love All of You.
I Love GOD.
I Love.
I am Loved.
I Love Life.
Life is so easy.
Life is about Evolution.
Life is full of Wonder and Bliss.
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After I had my spiritual awakening I was in a great place getting closer to living as my true self. I tried to reconnect with old relationships enthusiastic about showing who I’ve become and where I’m going! My ex and I have been dating again and I can honestly say I’ve taken steps backwards. From mocking my spiritual growth to where I don’t talk about it anymore and now dealing with bad attitude which drains my energy. I’m trying to get back to where I was and this video was what I needed to hear. Sending beautiful energy to all. Remember you’re amazing and love yourself.
Remember to take care of yourself
Leave your ex and get back on track
Same here mate. I was on a wonderful path of learning, filled with enthusiasm, love and compassion for others. But then I didn’t get the promotion I was promised and everything went downhill after that. 3 weeks have passed but I am unable to get back on track and needed this video.
Trying to truly follow Krishna’s advice-“karma kar fal ki chinta mat kar”, lose translation-“do the tasks you need to do without the aspirations of the fruits it would bear”
@@kajolsharma8840the promotion wasn’t for your highest good, there’s something better coming in for you but you have to stay positive. Sending you love and best wishes for the position your supposed to be in ❤
Same about the ex thing. We broke up since getting back together and I’ve found peace again. Sometimes people don’t fit into your journey any more and that’s ok. Sending lots of love your way!
Attachment is a holding onto, chasing, craving.
Detachment is rejection, aversion, indifference
True freedom is non attachment.
Non attachment is allowing, acceptance, it’s I don’t mind instead of I don’t care not rejecting but also not holding on. It’s a state of surrender to what is. 🙏🏽♥️
Beautifully said 🙏💫
I’ve said many of the same things over the years and I live in bliss.
Our joy comes from within and not from external stuff. My needs are basic and I’m thankful for my simple life.
Great video
Love that!
It's to understand that none of us ever get to "have" anything. You don't get to "own" anything. What you want is to perceive it and be able to perceive it forever. Which you can't do if you're carrying it on your back. And you can't move forward at your own pace if you're focused on looking at it and carrying it. So let it go and it will dance alongside you. Sometimes ahead, next to, or behind. But the one guarantee is that if you keep holding it so tight, you're going to break it.
Great comment. Have you been enlightened?
@@jamesmurphy8676 I have no idea! 😆 And I'm having a good time answering that question every day. Thank you for your comment 🪶
I’m realizing just now how I am desperately in need of detaching myself from anything that is not serving me anymore but causing more grief than anything . For me to no longer carry that identity of playing the victim .❤
I need to detact from a ex gf we recently split, but its the same feelings of hurt and anxiety from any ex gf so its not about the person..its in me and its something deeper so im really looking into my inner self so i can gain freedom from any attachments that dont serve me
Thank you ...your words are universal sent. I'm coming out of a 5 year narcissist relationship and trying to know I was never loved and beaten emotionally. This is the part of my healing to let go...work with the universe to heal. If anyone is in Victoria BC and would like to support each other if you are dealing with hurt. I'd be willing to share the healing
Glad you liked it! Unfortunately I'm located in Iceland, but it's great to reach to people that have a similar attitude towards life.
@@betterliffe thank you for your content. It's been very helpful and healing
Go into the woods as much as possible it truly heals us . Sending you love and light and hugs
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Your are most welcome
I Am now in a state of studying myself on this very subject... Thanks family, I believe we all are one 🙏🏾 💯
I’m working on my last year of masters of social work and my anxiety has been spiking. Listening to this made me see how I’m so focused on the end result (getting a degree ) rather than honing my skills as a clinician to grow in my career. It was such a gentle reminder of my worth as a person regardless of my degree and the worth of those that I work with. It’s such a privilege to serve others and I think I was forgetting that.
Thank you for sharing such a profound reflection on your journey. Your insight about focusing on personal and professional growth rather than just the end goal is incredibly valuable. It's wonderful to see you reconnecting with the deeper purpose of your work - serving others.
Your ability to pause and reflect like this speaks volumes about your potential as a clinician. Remember, your worth isn't defined by your degree, but by your compassion and dedication to helping others.
We're honored that this video resonated with you during this challenging time. Anxiety can be tough, especially during such an important phase of your education. Please be kind to yourself as you navigate this path.
For most of my life I wanted nothing and had everything I wanted
Few years back when I left work for Gods calling, I was not progressing as quickly as I imagined
I wanted to fulfill my souls mission so desperately I saw I had stopped fulfilling my mission
Forgive N forget so you can receive Gods blessings.
Forgiveness is letting the prisoner go and finding out that prisoner was me.
@@JimCalhoun-c9g😂😂 bullshit
God is a mirage... don't attach to false thoughts or ideas.
I went through extreme forms of abuse, torture. I had to rely on myself internally from getting out of this. This is what my intuition has known and relied on from my own self. You can figure this out on your is if you truly are desiring becoming a better version of yourself. Doing this is the only way of reaching the highest version of you, For many it seems harder than the end, but it’s 10x harder to do, but the outcome is 100x better and worth it than the journey of obstacles it takes to get to that point. Don’t let that stop you. I hope this helps other people see their own internal selves, and let go anything. This can include, attachments to identity. That’s one of the biggest attachments anyone can have. Being attached to your identity to the point it’s holding you back. Show yourself love. Understand you can receive your full potential. And release.
Wise words
How were you able to do that? It’s hard to leave my great grandson and his mother Any advice ?
It’s not the outcome that defines us but the journey and growth along the way 💯
Acknowledgement
Self-Inquiry
Processing Attachments
Taking creative action
Embracing freedom
Thank you so much! such a lovely video. Just needed.
Regards.
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You are welcome!
Dude, they kept saying let go, give it to a higher power etc. It finally clicked a bit more, but I think youve illuminated a path for me that was dimly lit before
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Let's practice detachment together in our supportive community. Your insights are welcome!
Such a profound, powerful and beautiful message, thank you for sharing 🙏
I finally learned to let go.😊 I love your videos they are very helpful. I hope you have a wonderful day with peace and love ❤️
Thank you kindly for your comment
its true, i meditated on it for a year and now ive solved all the problems i ever dreamt, explaining it, thats the hardesr part 😅
This was something that I had learned before yet forgot since. Thank you.
Glad you liked it!
just got heartbroken
I fought and fought but the moment I gave up and accepted it I started feeling better
And hope to use this to become better
Have you noticed that the moment of acceptance was actually the beginning of your healing? It's fascinating how letting go, even when it feels like giving up, can be the most courageous step we take.
Your journey from fighting to acceptance really resonates with me - would you be open to sharing what that turning point felt like for you? Sometimes our deepest pain can become our greatest teacher, though it rarely feels that way in the moment. 🤍
@betterliffe the pain was to much I lost my job started drinking a ton lost several pounds and finally I gave up on it accepted it and hope she finds peace to ( the breakup was something neither of us wanted )
The next day I got a job offer pays twice as much and I finally slept for the first time in like two weeks and it still sucks but it's so much better when you don't fight it
I realized that I didn't release everything I thought I did. I struggled to figure out what it I was holding on to. Then, a situation happened, and it brought back feelings that I had to deal with.
Best video I’ve ever seen honestly. Found it just at the right time. Thank you 🙌
Glad it helped!
A good reminder, but I struggle to zero in on exactly what I’m attached to, though I know I am suffering greatly, but this was a helpful reminder. Thank you.
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
you can look his name up online and you will find all you need.
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
The algorithm knew this was on my mind and recommended to me twice today
This episode complement very well with chapter 12 of psycho cybernetics ❤❤❤
Haven't read that one, gotta check it out
Dont chase.... attract.
Let go.... Of the idea of lacking. It will manifest if you allow it.
Time to let go and let God here in sw Florida. 🙏🌊🙏🌊🙏🌊🙏🌊🙏 good video thank you
Yes! 🙏✨🙌
If you involve your self with life especially of others, drama/attachment comes along with it. That's why I don't involve my self with their BS and toxicity, its way more peaceful and free.
There's wisdom in protecting your peace, and it's great that you're aware of what drains your energy. I'm curious though - have you found ways to stay connected to others while maintaining healthy boundaries? Sometimes our greatest growth and purpose can come through meaningful connections, even if it requires careful discernment. What does that balance look like for you? 🤍✨
I feel it was a wonderful piece. Well thought-out. "Joy and resilience" is brilliant!
While I don't buy and cannot reconcile the idea that you can just selectively detach from outcomes and otherwise still feel a deep sense of caring and connection with things in life, I do think it's vital that we avoid attachments anyway... to as many things, people, etc. as we can. Detaching is worth losing any of the positives associated with feeling attached to this world, to your ambitions, desires, wants, etc. It's inevitable that you'll be attached to things like family, if you grew up with parents around for example. You didn't know any better growing up. But attachment is never worth it, because it's inevitable that the majority of the time, the outcomes you desire will not come to pass. Do not add to the few inevitable attachments in life by bringing in other attachments that are not necessary. I am currently learning to let go of certain lifelong attachments that are not resulting in the outcomes I desperately desired and efforted towards. I value myself too much to be a beggar to that which is not completely in my own control. One sign that you are successfully detaching is that you are no longer praying/hoping/wishing for things. You realize that if you have to do such things, they are typically unlikely to happen. You realize it is best to focus on what you can control, and do so without caring enough to be attached.
We’d like to invite you to a deeper consideration of the perspective you’ve shared. A few questions -
1. You mention avoiding attachments to as many things as possible. But doesn't this risk missing out on the richness of life experiences? How might we engage deeply with life while still maintaining inner peace?
2. You suggest detachment is worth losing positive feelings associated with attachment. But what if there's a way to experience those positives without the suffering of attachment? How might we cultivate joy and connection without clinging?
3. You state that attachment is never worth it because desired outcomes often don't materialize. But isn't personal growth often born from how we handle disappointment? How could we reframe our relationship with outcomes to focus on the journey rather than the destination?
4. You mention no longer praying/hoping/wishing for things as a sign of detachment. But couldn't these activities, when done without expectation, be forms of positive intention setting? How might we maintain aspirations without becoming attached to specific outcomes?
5. You suggest focusing only on what you can control. While this is wise, couldn't we also find value in how we respond to things outside our control? How might we cultivate resilience and adaptability in the face of uncertainty?
Everything is temporary in this life, it is fleeting and will come and go, jobs, family, friends and worldly possessions. You can still love people, and careers and activities and things, and yet still be detached. It is a pure form of love, there is no ownership and it is aligned with the inevitable loss of said people and things. Living in the moment fully and appreciating these gifts that we get for a moment. When they are gone you will already have known the nature of all things was temporary to begin with and there was nothing to be done. When it is your time to pass you can also be detached from this physical world and effortlessly without anxiety pass to the end of this existence. This is freedom from desire of outcome, you can still do your daily tasks and work towards goals, but what will happen will happen. You simply are, it’s a stoic way of existing and it is hard to do, because we are wired and conditioned by our emotions to stay attached and react to undesired outcomes. When you can really get outside of this default state and mindset, you really become at peace with it all. You lost your job? Your girlfriend left you? Your friend passed away? You loved all of those the same before they were gone, and you can love them the same afterwards, and not be affected to such a negative degree, because you loved but were not attached. This doesn’t mean you didn’t care, or are a sociopath or something like that, you simply understand the true nature of life and are at peace and at one with it. Life is chaos and all things will change, nothing stays the same, so you just ride the wave and go with it, being the best you that you can be.
Thank you, I'm detaching from the outcome, I have a tree that needs felling and I'm anxious for it to go well without problems. It's been difficult to get someone to do it.
Every experience holds value, I can not control the outcome, I have to let go ❤
Best of luck!
My dear Universal family members. I’m pretty conscious enough more or less to align with all your words of Universal process of cause and effect. I feel very extraordinary and happy. Love and Light!
Thanks, I needed that 😊
I have had many successes by pursuing my desires with a burning passion. My desire was like an endless fuel motivating me and making me productive. And I can't think of worth while successes I have had where I didn't have desire. So for me this isn't true
You make an interesting point about success and desire. It reminds me of a garden - sometimes the flowers we carefully plan and tend grow beautifully, while other times the most stunning blooms appear unexpectedly in places we never planted them. I'm curious what experiences have shaped your perspective on this? And have you found that different types of success feel different to you when you look back on them?
I have spent many time trying to get over all of my mistakes in all the attachment that I've been having sometimes it is very hard to deal with regret not a lot of emotional issues to go with it I'm just trying to be present and to be better thank you
Good video,with some very important points . Definitely worth watching,and acting on.
Thank you so much for watching and sharing your perspective 🙏✨
Good elucidation, it truly helps me in my journey at the moment… more power & hopefully more people will learn from you ❤
So glad!
Thanks for this. I am trying this. And your video is going 2 help me with my Journey. ❤☯️☮️
@@boayden9971 It's wonderful to hear you're putting these ideas into practice. Every step on your journey matters, and we hope you find continued inspiration and growth! 💫
@@betterliffe Thanks. I also hit the🔔 on your channel.
I honor the multi-stage approach.🙏💎🤗❤
If one can be selfish, detachment is not a problem. In attachment, one at least thinks about his family. In detachment, he thinks about none but himself and his detachment from the cycle of life. Have you ever seen a detached person free other people along with him from the cycle of life?
Any person who starts is path towards Spirituality, detaches himself from the material world. For who's good? It is for his personal needs to detach from the cycle of life. It is for his personal need to be part of the celestial beings. Moksha is singular. If teachings can lead the pathway to moksha, why help people with disabilities and ailments? Why help the poor? Why help anyone? Just give them instructions on what has to be done and leave their helplessness to themselves.
Attachment in detachment is the key.
If you become the best version of yourself you give more back to the world
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there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Any interesting quotes?
@@stanlyEMdon’t worry it’s a scam
nice try diddy
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Mah hand!
Could you please do a video on the bhagavad gita and it's teachings? 🙏
Yep. Gotta work on that by not working on it.😂
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Pictures are truly remarkable.
Thanks!
Holy. Some absolute banger tidbits of knowledge here.
life is a miracle
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Letting go is not about giving up, it’s about trusting the process. Sometimes, surrendering control allows the universe to bring what we truly need. The key to achieving our desires often lies in freeing ourselves from attachment.
What would happen if you applied this wisdom about "letting go" to something you're currently holding onto too tightly? Sometimes our deepest breakthroughs come when we loosen our grip, don't they? 🌟
I realize a daily struggle I encounter is the "romantic" situation.
I see myself constantly thinking about talking to girls though I just seem to lack the confidence.
When in a group or with other friends, I have confidence and am capable of talking and joking around very well.
Though when alone and want to approach a woman on the street or outside, I can't seem to be able to do it.
Mainly because I feel like I am being too pushy, or I don't have a logical reason to annoy that person; so by not doing anything, I kind of "protect" myself from such situations.
But I always seem to feel bad and feel void for not doing anything.
This made me more "attached" to my previous relationship, mainly because it was a relationship, nothing more, but u still want to fill that void
Thank you for this 🙏🏼
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One of Western civilisation’s most significant events is the Age of Enlightenment in the 18thcentury, a period which undermined the values that society had hitherto relied on, namely, on the religious view. This engenders the most profound cultural, sociological and psychological repercussions, leaving many facing a crisis in discerning a meaning or purpose for their existence and struggling to tackle the problems in living that this gives rise to.
While we previously had ready answers to the problem of how life ought to be lived and what its overall meaning and purpose was (since faith in the existence of God gave us the reassurance that we are partaking in a divine project) we are now slowly experiencing the consequences of what Nietzsche proclaimed as the death of God, whose full consequences would elude many people as he made clear:
“This tremendous event is still on its way, still wandering; it has not yet reached the ears of men… This deed is still more distant from them than the most distant stars - and yet they have done it themselves.”
Thank you for sharing this educational , valuable information.
3:12 I don't want to enjoy what is good, but be good at what I enjoy. This iseaoriginally spawned to me from food, but it applies to other areas
I really did like working/ctrl f-ing on that exam and quiz
going thru the EXACT same thing that this video is talking about. LITERALLY VERBATIM… i’m terrified 😅
Truth is universal, your understanding of your truth is a gift that will be revealed in time 💫✨
Anyone interested in moving past desire, look into the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness and how to use it effectively. “Spiral up, keep going”
i am strong 💪
i am worthy
i am abundant
i understand i am wealthy
more importantly
God open before me, the gates, that I may go in and receive treasure of darkness and hidden secret places today isaiah 45:1-3 in Jesus name
Everything I want shows up today because I attract what i’m attracting
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Terrific video. Thank you.
Welcome
Hare Krishna ♥️
I;m desperate to get my health back. I've been home bound for 3 years with Long Covid. I hope this helps🤞
Sometimes I wonder if we dont understand desire. I hear this & idk how important it (desire) could be. Where do dreams stand in this all.
I just see ppl talkin ab desire, I haven’t gotten thru the piece^ yet. Been thinkin ab that stuff a lot
It sounds like this applies to me. I will try these steps. 🙏
When you have concern for another’s wellbeing it somehow detaches you from them because it’s unselfish.
When we let go of our own ego-driven desires or expectations for how we think someone should be, we open ourselves to loving them more fully as they are. This "detachment" you mention could be seen as a form of spiritual freedom - freedom from the need to control outcomes or change others.
In the journey of personal and spiritual growth, learning to balance compassion with healthy boundaries is key. It allows us to care deeply while also respecting each person's individual path.
Thank you for prompting this reflection. Your insight aligns beautifully with the idea that letting go - of expectations, of the need to fix or change others - can paradoxically bring us closer to our deepest desires for connection and understanding.
Has this been your experience in your own relationships?
I failed miserably in my past never understanding the importance detachment is to one’s overall wellbeing. I attached myself to everyone and everything and failed consistently all because of NEED from childhood. Only now “ at 69” am I grasping its full meaning. This video has helped a lot in my understanding of detachment.
True Love is being detached contrary to what many believe.
I have had to say let it go along mostly to my self
It's the key to God
Let it Happen
I Love You All!
Love you too❤
Run head on to let go
I'm still in the process of internalizing that attachment to a thing is not what allows you to enjoy the thing, that you can enjoy ice cream without attachment towards the ice cream to provide a simple example.
My mind can understand it easily for ice cream, but it doesnt understand that I can still date people and enjoy dating people without being attached to an specific outcome. There is part of me that fears that if I get detached from something I wont be able to enjoy that something and I wont have the motivation to work towards that thing.
Ln the other hand , another part of me (probably something related to ny higher self) wants to live the exact life Im loving, with the exact goals, but more like I'm playing a fun game.
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Now, my attachment is I want to at least once go through the experience of having sex or sexual intimacy with a woman I find very physically attractive, but when I do self-inquiry, I kind of find nothing. No societal expectation (society actually expects me to settle or demonize my desire), and if there is some childhood conditioning, I can't find it. The closest thing to an answer I can find is "You want it and you can get it. Go get it and explore your potential.". It feels as if it's something that just is. I have questioned many times but always get similar answers.
Alan Watts is the master spokesperson on letting go.
Thank you ❤
Salamat. Namaste
Going to CHURCH will be my ACHIEVEMENT
Amen 🙏
Amen
Thanks!
Welcome!
Your voice 😍
Great video!
Glad you enjoyed it
This is how Vegeta became Super Saiyan
Moral of the story is: in life, some of us are monkeys and some of us are nuts.
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This is a really awesome video but has way too many ads
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Ram Dass? Sounds like Bart is calling Moe 😅
i love ram dass but perhaps i don't understand the metaphore in the beginning - yes, if the monkey lets go of the nuts he will attain his freedom. But he won't get any nuts. I can detach from the concept of needing a job to pay rent... but if i don't have any money to pay rent i'm screwed... what am i missing? I understand that detachment from outcome is critical to let us live in the moment, but there are all these practical things in reality that have to be in place for survival
Thank you for asking for more clarity, Tristan. Let's dive deeper into the metaphors to bridge the spiritual concepts with practical realities.
The monkey and nuts metaphor is a classic spiritual teaching. Imagine a monkey trap with a narrow opening. Inside are nuts that the monkey wants. The monkey reaches in and grabs the nuts, but now its fist is too big to pull out while holding the nuts. The monkey's attachment to the nuts keeps it trapped. If it lets go, it can easily remove its hand and be free.
In life, we often cling to things - beliefs, possessions, outcomes - that seem essential but may actually be limiting us. The metaphor invites us to examine what we're holding onto that might be keeping us from greater freedom or opportunities.
Now, let's address your practical concern about rent. Detachment here doesn't mean being irresponsible or neglecting real-world needs. Instead, it's about approaching these needs from a place of trust and flow rather than fear and scarcity.
Consider this expanded metaphor: You're in a river needing to reach the other side (your goals, like paying rent). Attachment is like trying to swim directly against the current - exhausting and often ineffective. Detachment is like understanding the river's flow, using it to guide you while still actively swimming. You're engaged in the process but not frantically fighting against life's currents.
In practice, this might look like:
1. Taking necessary actions to earn money
2. Being open to unexpected opportunities
3. Releasing anxiety about the future
4. Trusting that as you align with your purpose, solutions will appear
The goal is to meet your practical needs while maintaining inner peace and openness to life's possibilities. It's about finding that balance between responsible action and spiritual trust.
How does this resonate with your experience? Can you think of times when letting go of rigid expectations actually led to better outcomes in your life?
Think about it like this, if the monkey lets go it wont get those nuts. But it will be free to find nuts elsewhere.
@@betterliffe Thanks for the detailed reply. Yes, I can think of times where letting go has helped me. I have a chronic health condition, and as things were getting bad recently, I was so reluctant to what was inevitably coming, but as soon as I let go, I went through the things that I was dreading, and my quality of life improved. Honestly in a surprising way, that which I was dreading in life the most came and went, and now that it's left, my anxiety about it has dissipated. There is a new level of challenges now for my health, and I'm kind of just thinking that if I let go completely, something will come to being that gets me closer to health. It's so hard sometimes though. I wish there was a magic pill to make me better, but it's not that simple. Thanks again
@@tristangruener9571 Get in a waterfall! I was shown in a vision a huge waterfall and Jesus was at the top looking down and he said these are healing waters . I assume he meant all waterfalls heal us . I googled waterfalls in my area and I asked my friend who has lived here most of his life, if he knew where one was and he told me where I could find one close to my house and I told him why I was wondering where I could find one and he was so surprised and he said now I know what healed me because during my cancer treatment I went there three times and I was healed from the cancer , it was completely healed. Also reiki will help you too . Sending love and prayers for your healing sweetheart!!!
The less I cared the happier I felt, ignorance is bliss
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Not anymore!!!
That's great!
Wouldn't detachment strengtnen alignment. Perhaps strengthen is not the correct word... aid? Growth always involves detachment as does expansion. The destination is to our Origin, realignment to the frequency of unconditional Love.
Thank you for sharing your profound insights, Ed. Your perspective beautifully illuminates the intricate relationship between detachment, growth, and our spiritual journey.
You've touched on something truly significant - the idea that detachment isn't about weakening our connection, but rather about aligning more deeply with our true essence. The word 'aid' does seem to capture this concept well, as detachment aids us in our spiritual evolution.
Your observation that growth and expansion inherently involve detachment is particularly enlightening. It reminds us that to evolve, we must be willing to let go of what no longer serves us.
The way you've framed our spiritual journey as a return to our Origin and a realignment with unconditional Love is beautiful and profound. It echoes the teachings of many spiritual traditions that speak of returning to our true nature.
Thank you for contributing such a thoughtful perspective to our community. Your words invite us all to reflect more deeply on the role of detachment in our own spiritual growth. How has your understanding of detachment shaped your personal journey towards unconditional Love?
Book - The Way to Love by Anthony DeMello.
I dont know what im attached to
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, @jalgaming241. Not knowing what we're attached to can be a common experience. Sometimes our attachments aren't obvious to us. Taking time for self-reflection, perhaps through journaling or meditation, can help reveal the things we may be unknowingly clinging to. If you're interested in exploring this further, our video on "5 Ways to Identify Hidden Attachments" might be helpful. Remember, recognizing attachments is the first step towards letting go and personal growth. Wishing you clarity on your journey of self-discovery!
I don't know what is my deepest desires.
What about addictions/morphine, nicotine...