Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe
Hi Aaron, I just joined your High Vibe Tribe, but the photo didn’t update. It says to skip for now. Hmmm. I’ll add a photo after you accept me into your group. Thank you.
By the way, I’ve watched your posts on RUclips since you started. Love how you made it happen. You’ve always motivated me and you’re so inspiring!! Thank you for everything you do. Also, I have shared with friends/family. Keep up the Super vibes! I’m gonna really apply more of it this year and unfold my life to be in a better space than where it’s been. With your essence and applicationsz I’m sending hugs of vibes, with positive energy your way… ✨✨🪷🧘♀️📿☀️
Yeah when I focus on t he feeling state that is representative of the things I want that’s when shit happens, takes commitment, trust, and letting go of everything else that isn’t that, which can bring up fear and guilt as it also mean alerting go of what I thought was right and safe Also I have comedy skits on my channel about my law of attraction mistake that you might like too 💪🔥😈💥🏋️♀️
Hey Aaron! Can you make a video around love topic? For example why we catch people that dont choose us, why we dont attract what we want, etc? I know its a hard topic to talk, because about love, its not only about letting go. Theres other things we cant control. Like spiritual awakenings, lessons that you need to learn before the relationship you want, destiny, our actions, people actions, karma... Infinity things
Something a lot of people don’t realize is you can’t just force yourself to let go. You have to do the inner work to get to actual acceptance. The universe knows if you’ve really let go or you’re faking and still desperately want something
Sometimes, in the beginning, it looks like forcing letting go. Just don't lie to yourself by trying to convince yourself that you're not attached. Be aware and observe your feelings while simultaneously working on yourself and finding productive things to distract your mind from the attachment. Eventually letting go comes naturally.
The more you try to force something, the more resistance you’ll meet. This is universal. That’s why the inside route works best and also why if you depend on the external, you think you’ll need to use force. But if you perfect self-concept, there is no external validation needed, it’s all inside, just like dreams at night. Force only works in the form of repetition or robotic affirmations as it’s commonly called. You override your rational mind by programming new thoughts habitually. The best approach i’ve found is getting clear on what you DO want to experience and what you DON’T. Then once you know that, do breathwork to make things 200% easier, and know that you only have to focus on what you DO want completely (besides ensuring your own survival). You need to breach your rational mind in the beginning but once the floodgates are open, i.e when you get used to the new percetion and your mind gets used to these concepts, it gets easier and easier. For me, it’s essentially like learning to see the world like a kid again, total freedom and complete internal agency through brazen impudence and quiet command. Stay in the magic.
Really cause I've heard the opposite from people. Even though they didn't really believe it intellectually. If they were able to at least feel like it happened it would eventually happen regardless of "belief" almost described to me as fake it till you make it mentality but with feelings of what you want to happen. It's more about the "feelings" then the beliefs from what I heard 🤷
@@apocalypze83 We’re talking about the same fundamental thing but it can get convoluted when breaking it down. I mentioned robotic affirmations for instance, they do work and they work really well. It is said that if you repeat something 10,000 times; this is when you build a new neural pathway. Which is one of the most major things about manifestation and most people are not going to outright accept such a radically different way of going about life. So they need the repetition, which is basically also how you learn anything new. Conscious to subconscious. Because it is very much a lifestyle. It has been the most transformational journey for me personally. But techniques don’t manifest, but they all have the same goal; to saturate your mind, to reprogram it using repetition. Eventually you create something that’s best described as a ”future memory”. It becomes so familliar that you feel like it’s already occured. It’s trippy. This is also where feeling comes in. So for me, i’d rather transform my sense of self/self-concept which then automates the feelings associated to that new belief about myself. I reach levels of bliss that make me feel high at this point daily, it’s pretty unbelievable but.. it works lol. So, while some people can consistently stay in the wish fulfilled, for me i need a practical disciplined system in place that overrides my old ways of thinking consistently. And also think about it, a belief is way more profound than a feeling, the belief is what creates the framework which the feeling arises in. So i don’t force myself to chase the feeling, i work with myself by freeing myself, giving myself peace and operating in my own favor. By focusing on my self-concept, the feeling then arises out of that. Sometimes though, the entry point is a specific feeling of freedom or bliss or whatever too. But the focus isn’t just ”feeling”. It’s the belief system behind it for me. So by repeating something like an affirmation which speaks of the fulfillment of a desire mindlessly, eventually it HAS to become habitual which in itself may bring the feelings or it may not, for me it’s automatic. If i hold a new belief about myself/self-concept, the belief automates the feelings because now it’s ingrained. Which is exactly what happens. So it just becomes a question of approach, i’ve manifested stuff using visualizations too but they are a lot of effort for me as mentioned. I’d rather just go ”nope i know what i want and what i don’t, so i’ll only give meaning and energy to what i want”. ”Those who stop feeling like prisoners are the one’s that leave the prison” - Edward Art
@@pravitt4852focus on self love, put yourself on the pedestal, stay present, enjoy and go about your day to reduce the desperation for that thing you desire. Once we drop the stress and trying and desperation, we automatically put ourselves out of the lack mentality and attract what we want.
I remember when I was borderline obsessed with finding a girlfriend and I craved a woman’s attention. But after countless heartbreaks and no traction I finally “gave up” in the sense where I just said screw it im over it. I started focusing on myself and God and shortly after, my middle school crush came back into my life. Fast forward to today, we’re married with one kid so far. I just need to work on this for money and my business now
How did you just “give up”. Even when I tell myself I give up. The feeling still exists in the back of my mind. It’s why I drink and take other substances. So I can not think about it. How do I stop wanting things I want without external vices?
@@senorfrog5605 Ya that's a valid feeling and question because I struggle with that now with my business. Because I'm a commission based salesman who has to kind of grind in order to make money so like in Aarons videos about detachment, I'm trying to consciously detach myself from money and the outcome but its hard because its like where do I draw the line between grinding it out and detaching myself from it? Because if I completely detach myself from it, obviously I'm not going to make any money. But going back to relationships, I think it was almost like I hit a breaking point where mentally and emotionally I couldn't take it anymore. Also, at that stage of my life I wasn't happy with who I was and I was in a pretty bad place and I think I used the attention from girls as my coping mechanism to feel better about myself. But all of that was a quick fix like putting a bandage over a bullet hole. It wasn't sustainable and I needed to get to the root cause of it. So I started reading more personal development books, listening to all these different podcasts and videos, surrounding myself with the right people and going to church more. So I think the sayings of you have to love yourself first before you can love others and you can't pour out of an empty cup, as overused and corny as they may sound, does hold a lot of truth to it. Because once I started doing that, it was within a year that we got back together. So if I had to answer your question, I think for me it's just constantly reminding myself and having it in the front of my mind that everything will work out/has worked out in my favor so just be patient and control what I can control without forcing things. And also just knowing that whatever happens is meant to happen and it all happens for you not to you. Let the chips fall where they may and have that mental, emotional and I'd even say spiritual clarity and awareness that everything will be alright. I know I was kind of all over the place with that response but hopefully that helps in some way🤝
My marriage sucks and my wife is an avoidant. And now I have to live with it. Maybe I should let it go. But at the same time it's very hard because if I let it go I have this feeling like I'm not being true to myself, I'm not taking responsibility to create something better, and I feel powerless
Actually giving up causes some kind of relief and therefore a high vibrational energy. It's like a dog. When you chase it runs. When you stand still it comes to you eventually.
I won't call it giving up, it would call it reaching a point where the outcome does not matter to you. And you feel happy and content in every way already.
@@duskysapient I agree, but from a personal experience: When I looked for a relationship, nothing seemed to work out, no matter how hard I tried. Once I focused on other areas of my life and stoped thinking about getting into a relationship, I met my current girlfriend. Suddenly other girls seemed to chase me as well. It's really an energy game.
@@duskysapientive recently went through that phase in my journey. Currently working on a business however I am aware that i have certain negative beliefs to overcome as they’re getting in my way, but I’ve been so focused on the goals over the years, I kept working like a maniac chasing the goals, until one day I realized, the peace I’ve lost in this journey could never be worth any of those goals. The peace along with other stuff but I finally hit that point of being completely fine with the outcome. Letting go. Going with the flow, with some sort of direction of course… Everything was failing up to that point, each move I made turned out to be a mistake 😂 and the very next day after having my realization, there it was Positive outcomes, productive moves, money, work flow etc…
Yeah when I focus on t he feeling state that is representative of the things I want that’s when shit happens, takes commitment, trust, and letting go of everything else that isn’t that, which can bring up fear and guilt as it also mean alerting go of what I thought was right and safe Also I have comedy skits on my channel about my law of attraction mistake that you might like too 💪🔥😈💥🏋️♀️
@@SouhaAbidme just being OVER IT forced me to let go and work on the next chapter . Me holding on is hindering it. But I’m never gonna forget that desire because it’s what I want TF
Letting Go Works…. Starting letting go of a SP, it was a 5 month process of training my brain to accept and let go of all emotions and attachment to her… and the week I felt completely detached is when love entered… it works… for love… now I’m coming for that abundance 😊 Thanks Aaron from a longtime subscriber’s first of many comments ❤
I know this is true- because I’ve experimented with it. It’s so true. Get busy enjoying your life, pouring into yourself- and let the universe take care of the rest. Simple, but not always easy lol.
This made me think about this guy I used to like 5 years ago. He never showed me that he liked me back. I kept pushing and pushing to the point where he went to HR on me. Stay with me, trust me. 😂 When I let him go and not worry about him liking me, I ended up not only him wanting me, but I ended up with a better man. ❤
Haha! Excellent! Thanks for sharing and being so honest. It was probably a good thing you didn't end up with that guy if he was the kind of person to go to HR on you 😅. It just goes to show doesn't it? The minute you let go people do feel it. Glad you ended up with a good man
I had a narcissist in my life while my mom was transitioning into the afterlife. He abandoned me and blamed me for it. I have had to reflect on the whole relationship. I learned that they are demons sent here to destroy the empaths. We all have trauma and don't mistreat people! He has helped me grow in ways I never thought possible. I have had to go within, most of my friends left when I needed them most forcing me to rely solely on myself. I am a Scorpio and am always there for people in need bc that is who I am. I learned that I cannot expect people to react as I do bc they are not me!
How have things gone since…the demons? I felt my mom’s husband (S-F) was demonic, took fatal possession of her and then pushed her into the transition to next world. My biggest encounter with Devil. I am guessing she passed the test and angels were there collecting her, on the other side, and hopefully not wrong about that. Best wishes
Aaron nailed it! Do what you can and move your focus onto the next thing. Don’t look back and wait for the original thing to come back. If it doesn’t come back - you’ll already be working on other things. Abundance at its best.
I've learned the power of giving myself permission to fall apart but I give myself a time limit. I become an emotional wreck feeling the feels before pulling myself up by the bootstraps. Then I can make a game plan which instills more confidence and purpose.
I let go of the energy of wanting an exclusive relationship with someone, and felt really good afterwards. He came back around a month later and wanted an exclusive relationship with me and by then, I liked my freedom of being relationship free. We flip flopped, lol. We both negotiated somewhere in the middle and things are going great. So much better when I let go of the energy of wanting to control what I wanted it to be.
It wont last. If you were so great and he was so in love with you, he never would've left in the first place or you wouldnt have pushed him away to begin with.
@rigormortis3532 so far so good. I needed to learn, understand, and respect his boundaries too. I showed him I wasn't clingy in my absence and he realized what he lost. We were in a better space overall, felt less pressure and more comfortable. Will it last forever? Doesn't matter to me. It will last as long as it will, whatever that it may be, and I'm okay with that. Which is what this video is all about. ☺️
I’ve found that instead of resisting negative thoughts, be present with and acknowledge them… they are sometimes a misguided effort at protection or something similar… Then it’s easier to let them go… Not an effort but acknowledge them and they eventually just leave :)😊
God bliss you Aaron. I watched this video for 2 days, 3x’s & it’s the 1st time in 2 years that I was able to stop thinking about what I didn’t want to think about. My brain hasn’t felt completely in its own frame, in 2 yrs, if ever at all. THANK YOU!
Everytime I think I understand this stuff fully this man makes me look at it in a new way. I've had a hard time allowing myself to feel the bad feelings. But it's the only way to let go fully. I appreciate this channel so much!❤❤❤
Realizing who I thought was my twin flame was only a "faux flame" actually helped me chill my butt out and now I can heal better. That's part of why I'm here after all.❤❤❤❤❤❤
When i did your breath work class, in high vibe tribe, my 2 grandmas showed in spirit each one holding my hand they told me to have more fun in life. And that's all i have been hearing you say in your videos. needless to say, i have been following that advice. And life has been way more fun 😅. Thank you for the great experience and great advice 😃 ❤🎉 magical ✨️
The insight on detachment as a means to manifest desires powerfully highlights how letting go can actually bring us closer to our goals. This approach not only reduces resistance but also aligns us more naturally with our aspirations. 🌟
So I have been actively practicing this as I’ve been watching your videos in this chapter of my life. I’m realizing as the feelings come to the surface and I worked through them, I feel so much better and more confident instead of looking for external validation.
I wouldn't think negative thoughts ever since I suffered with psychosis I developed a fear or stress anxiety anything that would make me feel negative things .... Now I'm coming down of anti depressants because I'm 5 years free of depression . These videos are helping unbelievable amounts
Almost 2 mill?!? The last time I watched you were almost at a million. Came to check in and was so proud of you that you’re almost at 2 mill now!! So exciting for you! Congrats
“It happens when you are not looking for it” because you align with the vibration of having it! This means you are not constantly looking for it (for the numbers to increase etc..) you already have a community which you are engaging with.
That’s the most accurate someone ever talked about my actual state of mind - thank you a lot Aaron ! I’ve learned very much !🌸🙏🏼 all love for you and every one who’s reading it
Thank you for talking about the toxic positivity mentality 🙏✨️ I have been taking your advice & putting into practice & I've had really great results. I did actually intentionally Manifest a relationship, but I didn't have a specific person in mind -- I just felt really called, like my man was waiting for me & sure enough he found me the 1st day I went looking. 😌🙌 we've been together since Dec 2023 & very happy. I also manifested a new living situation & new lifestyle by using gratitude & letting go of resistance like you're always saying Aaron. Thank you so much for all your videos, I find them so helpful. 😁
Aaron, thank you for boldly mentioning Reality Transurfing along with the picture of the cover. It is evident you let go of the pressure to not speak on it. The freedom to speak from your heart shrines through, brother.
hello, may i know why people are pressuring others to not speak on this book? i am completely ignorant about this topic and your comment was the only one i found mentioning the book. Thank you in advance.
Hi, so Aaron has mentioned this book in only a few videos. However, he also mentioned that he was contacted and asked not to speak about it. He never went into detail, but from what he alludes to it was the author or their team. Aaron did mention that he was told by them that he is not an “authority” on the material and thus not “allowed” to speak about the book. This being the author’s demand or request. Frankly, it’s a bit ridiculous. Because it’s like, wouldn’t you want your book promoted for the large audience Aaron has? Besides, it’s not like the information Reality Transurfing explains is secret knowledge anymore. If you’ve been on a spiritual path for 5-10 years+, it just makes sense. So, with all that said, I’m glad Aaron decided to just boldly speak about it in this video. Author is coming from a paradigm of ego, and it’s corny.
@@madisonp73 How weird! Maybe the author only wants people to recommend their book but stop right there and leave an aura of mistery... or maybe they only allow a certain "summary" to be told about the book"... who knows. thank you for answering!
You bring it to fruition so much more faster, and easier - plus it feels so much better to not push, force, or feel stress about it! Thanks for the reminder, friend. God bless ❤
Loving your letting go content. Detangling myself from many old ways of being, thinking, feeling, etc. and opening up to the new, different, unknown space of being enough! I am ready for life’s surprises 🦋💕
When the scary unknown is what you allow yourself to be naturally worthy of... and what you naturally are worthy of is the scary unknown... then anything is possible.
Every time I watch a new video I can't wait to hear Aaron's story about his abusive stepmom, job at the womens shoe store and emotionally abusive store manager 🤪🤗😚 p.s. and his controlling ex girlfriend...
I like to give money on impulse to people who look down and out and are living on the streets. Not as a flex, I don't tell people. And not lots of money, just here n there, if I have cash and I have the impulse. Recently found a rare book at an antique store thats worth 30 grand, its on consignment with Christie's auction house, now. Truth in this.
Aaron. I've spent 5 years working on myself, and I have seen a lot of growth in that time. I've built beliefs, to have them shattered, I've learnt so much, and unlearnt so much. To say I have been dedicated is an understatement. I'm in a lot of pain right now, trying to heal from what I believe to be my deepest wound. The physical pain that the emotional pain causes is almost unbearable. Sometimes it seems easier to just turn back, and avoid it, but once you see there are ways out....how can you? I just wanted to say thank you. It's been such a long road, and sometimes when it feels like the work doesn't quite yield adequate enough results to continue, your videos have provided me with new hope.
I'm not always good at meditating in the normal way but I do get lost on purpose sometimes. It brings the metaphorical find your way home to a more tangible feeling. You can't rush when you get lost because you'll only get more lost. It makes me take my time to calm down and I think I'm basically doing walking meditation at that point. By the time I finally find my way back, I've already met new people, find hole in the wall treasures, and find peace/acceptance. I find home by finding myself. The journey can be scary at times but so is life.
Recently i had a rare item get lost in the mail, i sat down in front of ebay thinking its gone i`ll never see it, i have to find a similar replacement. The moment i found a listing that was comparable and felt relief, I heard a knock on the front door and a man from the end of my street was holding my parcel that was lost. Fair example of what your saying i reckon mate.
Woooow Powerful,im definitely taking the advice,i feel awesome now.Iam that person who alows myself to be in my feelings in order for me to feel better,i acknowledge my feelings and deal with it 👏👏🙌😍😎🙏🙏
I stopped looking for love 10 years ago. A year ago a casual acquaintance came forward and professed his love for me. We were together for a year and his actions did not match his words of love. Disrespect was the main theme. I dropped him. Now I'm back on square one not looking.
I needed this video 🙏🏻 even tho I’ve seen so many of these videos by Aaron around the same topic there’s always something new that just clicks in my head. A new metaphor or perspective on letting go. I love this channel it has really transformed my life
I think I would say the things thinking I’d believe it and would do a 180 from another RUclipsr She never talked about going within or feeling your feelings and I’m finally understanding ♥️
You can find LOVE in Church... but you gotta be there First for Jesus. Lots of ppl are shopping for a spouse at church but they are doing it out of a means to an end. So it wont work if your Heart isnt in the right place.
I started not caring and letting go while doing that breath work thing, and for the first time in a long time i was able to talk to my family with confidence, i must say this have just changed my life forever
Aaron thanks this is great and Soo much knowledge, attachment and reflection ✨✨ allow and resistant finding connection to self, I am my own medicine! I am enough ❤✨🌈👽. Freedom
This video is 💎🔥. Definitely resonate with what you are saying. We have some things in common. I worked in Bloomingdale’s with women’s shoes and then leveled up throughout 9 years. I started understanding these concepts back then and have manifested being on TMZ with Celebrities with my Artwork. Celebrities like Cara Delevingne, Rihanna, Dj Khaled and more. Watching your content and other related content gives me the confidence to touch on these subjects of Quantum Physics and Subconscious Mind and Laws of the Universe. Learned about manifesting money through becoming the value and the being in alignment of that frequency and giving value to others. Born on 222 (Master Number) 💪🏽 🔥🔥🔥 Happy Manifesting! - Andrew Gonzalez aka Perspektiv
This is true but it has to be genuine… I became sick of wanting someone I told her I want her to be happy and I hope she finds love… this made her question herself. If she comes around great if not so what
Correct me if I'm wrong: A secret is something that means it is never said, but hey secrets get told... occasionally, so if you do so endulge in this little word remember that language was made before you knew how to use it, so imagine if u had a life without any thing but just you and the stars, eternal peace... Love, hey is not a secret recipe, it is the answer man it is the key, so when you wonder stray lie to the stars; remember that we are all just like a guitar and can be played... So hey, remember you exist. You are... Simple, you are that which you are in, so if you can simply remove any word that has come into your life, because a word is the same as a secret as any word is the same as any of its other words, "in any language". You will fully come to be in the binary code of love, star dust, and eternity, which has no bounds and is eternal with colorful changes, and respect. Because, Remember that; you are a light in all in all like the stars that shine bright, there is no difference between you and a star as you are a star that is the same as any other star, feeling, loving, emotional and free. Always... We Are... Told to... Be at Peace...
When you were saying where is love where is love where is love I was on our screened in porch at a very odd time (normally I would not be home) and my partner of 15 years drove by the driveway in a truck I’d never seen before (he was home at a very odd time) picking up something from home for his work in a vehicle from his workplace. The odds I’d see him at the exact moment you said those words would normally be super low. 😂
Am 32 a year a go I started feeling some people are really interesting every move I make and people around me are very careful and notice my movements my neighbors especially I think someone paid to special people to keep eye one me now I am wondering how special they feel about me and important to I am for them
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Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe
Hi Aaron, I just joined your High Vibe Tribe, but the photo didn’t update. It says to skip for now. Hmmm. I’ll add a photo after you accept me into your group. Thank you.
By the way, I’ve watched your posts on RUclips since you started. Love how you made it happen. You’ve always motivated me and you’re so inspiring!! Thank you for everything you do. Also, I have shared with friends/family. Keep up the Super vibes! I’m gonna really apply more of it this year and unfold my life to be in a better space than where it’s been. With your essence and applicationsz I’m sending hugs of vibes, with positive energy your way… ✨✨🪷🧘♀️📿☀️
Where did you do your spiritual training?
Yeah when I focus on t he feeling state that is representative of the things I want that’s when shit happens, takes commitment, trust, and letting go of everything else that isn’t that, which can bring up fear and guilt as it also mean alerting go of what I thought was right and safe
Also I have comedy skits on my channel about my law of attraction mistake that you might like too
💪🔥😈💥🏋️♀️
Hey Aaron! Can you make a video around love topic? For example why we catch people that dont choose us, why we dont attract what we want, etc?
I know its a hard topic to talk, because about love, its not only about letting go. Theres other things we cant control. Like spiritual awakenings, lessons that you need to learn before the relationship you want, destiny, our actions, people actions, karma... Infinity things
Something a lot of people don’t realize is you can’t just force yourself to let go. You have to do the inner work to get to actual acceptance. The universe knows if you’ve really let go or you’re faking and still desperately want something
this is what I struggle with 😔
Sometimes, in the beginning, it looks like forcing letting go. Just don't lie to yourself by trying to convince yourself that you're not attached. Be aware and observe your feelings while simultaneously working on yourself and finding productive things to distract your mind from the attachment. Eventually letting go comes naturally.
The more you try to force something, the more resistance you’ll meet. This is universal. That’s why the inside route works best and also why if you depend on the external, you think you’ll need to use force. But if you perfect self-concept, there is no external validation needed, it’s all inside, just like dreams at night.
Force only works in the form of repetition or robotic affirmations as it’s commonly called. You override your rational mind by programming new thoughts habitually.
The best approach i’ve found is getting clear on what you DO want to experience and what you DON’T. Then once you know that, do breathwork to make things 200% easier, and know that you only have to focus on what you DO want completely (besides ensuring your own survival).
You need to breach your rational mind in the beginning but once the floodgates are open, i.e when you get used to the new percetion and your mind gets used to these concepts, it gets easier and easier.
For me, it’s essentially like learning to see the world like a kid again, total freedom and complete internal agency through brazen impudence and quiet command. Stay in the magic.
Really cause I've heard the opposite from people. Even though they didn't really believe it intellectually. If they were able to at least feel like it happened it would eventually happen regardless of "belief" almost described to me as fake it till you make it mentality but with feelings of what you want to happen. It's more about the "feelings" then the beliefs from what I heard 🤷
@@apocalypze83 We’re talking about the same fundamental thing but it can get convoluted when breaking it down. I mentioned robotic affirmations for instance, they do work and they work really well. It is said that if you repeat something 10,000 times; this is when you build a new neural pathway. Which is one of the most major things about manifestation and most people are not going to outright accept such a radically different way of going about life. So they need the repetition, which is basically also how you learn anything new. Conscious to subconscious. Because it is very much a lifestyle. It has been the most transformational journey for me personally.
But techniques don’t manifest, but they all have the same goal; to saturate your mind, to reprogram it using repetition.
Eventually you create something that’s best described as a ”future memory”. It becomes so familliar that you feel like it’s already occured.
It’s trippy. This is also where feeling comes in.
So for me, i’d rather transform my sense of self/self-concept which then automates the feelings associated to that new belief about myself. I reach levels of bliss that make me feel high at this point daily, it’s pretty unbelievable but.. it works lol.
So, while some people can consistently stay in the wish fulfilled, for me i need a practical disciplined system in place that overrides my old ways of thinking consistently.
And also think about it, a belief is way more profound than a feeling, the belief is what creates the framework which the feeling arises in.
So i don’t force myself to chase the feeling, i work with myself by freeing myself, giving myself peace and operating in my own favor. By focusing on my self-concept, the feeling then arises out of that. Sometimes though, the entry point is a specific feeling of freedom or bliss or whatever too. But the focus isn’t just ”feeling”. It’s the belief system behind it for me.
So by repeating something like an affirmation which speaks of the fulfillment of a desire mindlessly, eventually it HAS to become habitual which in itself may bring the feelings or it may not, for me it’s automatic. If i hold a new belief about myself/self-concept, the belief automates the feelings because now it’s ingrained. Which is exactly what happens.
So it just becomes a question of approach, i’ve manifested stuff using visualizations too but they are a lot of effort for me as mentioned. I’d rather just go ”nope i know what i want and what i don’t, so i’ll only give meaning and energy to what i want”.
”Those who stop feeling like prisoners are the one’s that leave the prison” - Edward Art
the law of detachment is the answer for getting everything. it never failed me.
How to do it?
@@pravitt4852focus on self love, put yourself on the pedestal, stay present, enjoy and go about your day to reduce the desperation for that thing you desire. Once we drop the stress and trying and desperation, we automatically put ourselves out of the lack mentality and attract what we want.
easier said than done
I've still never seen a balding man manifest a new hair line. Could you help me with that since it's never failed you?
@@syouknow4175 if you don’t change your mindset, then yeah, that’s how it’ll manifest into your reality.
I remember when I was borderline obsessed with finding a girlfriend and I craved a woman’s attention. But after countless heartbreaks and no traction I finally “gave up” in the sense where I just said screw it im over it. I started focusing on myself and God and shortly after, my middle school crush came back into my life. Fast forward to today, we’re married with one kid so far. I just need to work on this for money and my business now
How did you just “give up”. Even when I tell myself I give up. The feeling still exists in the back of my mind. It’s why I drink and take other substances. So I can not think about it. How do I stop wanting things I want without external vices?
@@senorfrog5605 Ya that's a valid feeling and question because I struggle with that now with my business. Because I'm a commission based salesman who has to kind of grind in order to make money so like in Aarons videos about detachment, I'm trying to consciously detach myself from money and the outcome but its hard because its like where do I draw the line between grinding it out and detaching myself from it? Because if I completely detach myself from it, obviously I'm not going to make any money. But going back to relationships, I think it was almost like I hit a breaking point where mentally and emotionally I couldn't take it anymore. Also, at that stage of my life I wasn't happy with who I was and I was in a pretty bad place and I think I used the attention from girls as my coping mechanism to feel better about myself. But all of that was a quick fix like putting a bandage over a bullet hole. It wasn't sustainable and I needed to get to the root cause of it. So I started reading more personal development books, listening to all these different podcasts and videos, surrounding myself with the right people and going to church more. So I think the sayings of you have to love yourself first before you can love others and you can't pour out of an empty cup, as overused and corny as they may sound, does hold a lot of truth to it. Because once I started doing that, it was within a year that we got back together. So if I had to answer your question, I think for me it's just constantly reminding myself and having it in the front of my mind that everything will work out/has worked out in my favor so just be patient and control what I can control without forcing things. And also just knowing that whatever happens is meant to happen and it all happens for you not to you. Let the chips fall where they may and have that mental, emotional and I'd even say spiritual clarity and awareness that everything will be alright. I know I was kind of all over the place with that response but hopefully that helps in some way🤝
My marriage sucks and my wife is an avoidant. And now I have to live with it. Maybe I should let it go. But at the same time it's very hard because if I let it go I have this feeling like I'm not being true to myself, I'm not taking responsibility to create something better, and I feel powerless
@@smokingcrab2290if it’s shitty marriage what stops u from making it a good one, you have just as much of a say as she does
I mean she came back because there was nobody else left to marry, at least be honest with yourself.
Actually giving up causes some kind of relief and therefore a high vibrational energy. It's like a dog. When you chase it runs. When you stand still it comes to you eventually.
or even boomerang maybe...?
I won't call it giving up, it would call it reaching a point where the outcome does not matter to you. And you feel happy and content in every way already.
@@duskysapient I agree, but from a personal experience: When I looked for a relationship, nothing seemed to work out, no matter how hard I tried. Once I focused on other areas of my life and stoped thinking about getting into a relationship, I met my current girlfriend. Suddenly other girls seemed to chase me as well. It's really an energy game.
My cat does that haha I always want to cuddle with her so I chase her. But when I’m least expecting, she would come to me!!
@@duskysapientive recently went through that phase in my journey. Currently working on a business however I am aware that i have certain negative beliefs to overcome as they’re getting in my way, but I’ve been so focused on the goals over the years, I kept working like a maniac chasing the goals, until one day I realized, the peace I’ve lost in this journey could never be worth any of those goals. The peace along with other stuff but I finally hit that point of being completely fine with the outcome. Letting go. Going with the flow, with some sort of direction of course…
Everything was failing up to that point, each move I made turned out to be a mistake 😂 and the very next day after having my realization, there it was
Positive outcomes, productive moves, money, work flow etc…
You have saved me thousands of dollars in therapy with videos like these. Can’t thank you enough. 🙏🏻
me too....this is just enough!! Aaron is so great!!🙂
Let go is really important, forget about the how and leave everything in the loving hands of the All
Letting go is really the killer technique of manifestation. I've tried it and it works.🌟🌟 Thanks Aaron for reminding this🙏🏻
How did you let go I want to learn how to do it without forcing myself to detach
@@SouhaAbid acceptance. complete acceptance
Yeah when I focus on t he feeling state that is representative of the things I want that’s when shit happens, takes commitment, trust, and letting go of everything else that isn’t that, which can bring up fear and guilt as it also mean alerting go of what I thought was right and safe
Also I have comedy skits on my channel about my law of attraction mistake that you might like too
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@@SouhaAbidme just being OVER IT forced me to let go and work on the next chapter . Me holding on is hindering it. But I’m never gonna forget that desire because it’s what I want TF
1000% right. I gave up on finding the right one and decided to work on myself. Not a yr or 2 later I met my wife
So happy to hear that sir ❤❤❤❤
Really i gave up on finding the right one 12 years ago and been single ever since. Why do you get a wife and I dont? Thats not fair!!!!!!
Letting Go Works…. Starting letting go of a SP, it was a 5 month process of training my brain to accept and let go of all emotions and attachment to her… and the week I felt completely detached is when love entered… it works… for love… now I’m coming for that abundance 😊 Thanks Aaron from a longtime subscriber’s first of many comments ❤
Can you teach me bro all I want is to find my passion and make a living and find the one
I know this is true- because I’ve experimented with it. It’s so true. Get busy enjoying your life, pouring into yourself- and let the universe take care of the rest. Simple, but not always easy lol.
True. When I stopped desperately wanting a house of our own, we managed to build it.
This made me think about this guy I used to like 5 years ago. He never showed me that he liked me back. I kept pushing and pushing to the point where he went to HR on me.
Stay with me, trust me. 😂
When I let him go and not worry about him liking me, I ended up not only him wanting me, but I ended up with a better man. ❤
Haha! Excellent! Thanks for sharing and being so honest. It was probably a good thing you didn't end up with that guy if he was the kind of person to go to HR on you 😅. It just goes to show doesn't it? The minute you let go people do feel it. Glad you ended up with a good man
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Ayyyy! She nailed it
Happy for you 🧡
Same happened with me 😅
I had a narcissist in my life while my mom was transitioning into the afterlife. He abandoned me and blamed me for it. I have had to reflect on the whole relationship. I learned that they are demons sent here to destroy the empaths. We all have trauma and don't mistreat people! He has helped me grow in ways I never thought possible. I have had to go within, most of my friends left when I needed them most forcing me to rely solely on myself. I am a Scorpio and am always there for people in need bc that is who I am. I learned that I cannot expect people to react as I do bc they are not me!
How have things gone since…the demons? I felt my mom’s husband (S-F) was demonic, took fatal possession of her and then pushed her into the transition to next world. My biggest encounter with Devil. I am guessing she passed the test and angels were there collecting her, on the other side, and hopefully not wrong about that. Best wishes
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I love the language of the universe ✨️ it feels so pure, loving and supportive.
Its 222 oclock here in canada lol
@@nicolesousa8864read this with 2 likes on your comment...😂
I saw this comment and it said it was posted 22 hours ago. Also there were 2 comments on your post at the time. 😊
And now you have 22 likes
Its just numbers big deal? So what? I see numbers everyday and my life sucks.
Aaron nailed it! Do what you can and move your focus onto the next thing. Don’t look back and wait for the original thing to come back. If it doesn’t come back - you’ll already be working on other things. Abundance at its best.
I feel like a wise friend was talking to me. Thank you
To everyone watching Aaron's video, you are right where you need to be in the universe. Embrace it, and be present. Blessings...
People need love when they don’t have it. People who don’t need love actually have an abundance of it.
I've learned the power of giving myself permission to fall apart but I give myself a time limit. I become an emotional wreck feeling the feels before pulling myself up by the bootstraps. Then I can make a game plan which instills more confidence and purpose.
Same!
So true! Absolutely so true 💯
I let go of the energy of wanting an exclusive relationship with someone, and felt really good afterwards. He came back around a month later and wanted an exclusive relationship with me and by then, I liked my freedom of being relationship free. We flip flopped, lol. We both negotiated somewhere in the middle and things are going great. So much better when I let go of the energy of wanting to control what I wanted it to be.
It wont last. If you were so great and he was so in love with you, he never would've left in the first place or you wouldnt have pushed him away to begin with.
@rigormortis3532 so far so good. I needed to learn, understand, and respect his boundaries too. I showed him I wasn't clingy in my absence and he realized what he lost. We were in a better space overall, felt less pressure and more comfortable. Will it last forever? Doesn't matter to me. It will last as long as it will, whatever that it may be, and I'm okay with that. Which is what this video is all about. ☺️
I’ve found that instead of resisting negative thoughts, be present with and acknowledge them… they are sometimes a misguided effort at protection or something similar…
Then it’s easier to let them go…
Not an effort but acknowledge them and they eventually just leave :)😊
“They are sometimes misguided effort at protection to something similar…”
Wow. You said a whole word.
God bliss you Aaron. I watched this video for 2 days, 3x’s & it’s the 1st time in 2 years that I was able to stop thinking about what I didn’t want to think about. My brain hasn’t felt completely in its own frame, in 2 yrs, if ever at all. THANK YOU!
Everytime I think I understand this stuff fully this man makes me look at it in a new way. I've had a hard time allowing myself to feel the bad feelings. But it's the only way to let go fully. I appreciate this channel so much!❤❤❤
I dont chase i attract wt belongs to me will simply find me ❤💫🌟
Realizing who I thought was my twin flame was only a "faux flame" actually helped me chill my butt out and now I can heal better. That's part of why I'm here after all.❤❤❤❤❤❤
When i did your breath work class, in high vibe tribe, my 2 grandmas showed in spirit each one holding my hand they told me to have more fun in life. And that's all i have been hearing you say in your videos. needless to say, i have been following that advice. And life has been way more fun 😅. Thank you for the great experience and great advice 😃 ❤🎉 magical ✨️
The more you feel it, the more you heal it ✨👌✨
Exactly what I heard in a channeling. It is also my gut feeling to detach from my dreams. With respect.
The insight on detachment as a means to manifest desires powerfully highlights how letting go can actually bring us closer to our goals. This approach not only reduces resistance but also aligns us more naturally with our aspirations. 🌟
This is brought up in the process of making New Moon wishes (manifesting) letting go is an important step.
Feel it to heal it, I love this!
How did you do this Process? I mean.. how did you manifest.
Aaron you are on fire honestly you living your purpose inspires us all to live our purpose ❤️
So I have been actively practicing this as I’ve been watching your videos in this chapter of my life. I’m realizing as the feelings come to the surface and I worked through them, I feel so much better and more confident instead of looking for external validation.
I wouldn't think negative thoughts ever since I suffered with psychosis I developed a fear or stress anxiety anything that would make me feel negative things .... Now I'm coming down of anti depressants because I'm 5 years free of depression . These videos are helping unbelievable amounts
Almost 2 mill?!? The last time I watched you were almost at a million. Came to check in and was so proud of you that you’re almost at 2 mill now!!
So exciting for you!
Congrats
“It happens when you are not looking for it” because you align with the vibration of having it!
This means you are not constantly looking for it (for the numbers to increase etc..) you already have a community which you are engaging with.
I don’t listen to many people, but I totally resonate with this particular video, that’s exactly how it is…
That’s the most accurate someone ever talked about my actual state of mind - thank you a lot Aaron ! I’ve learned very much !🌸🙏🏼 all love for you and every one who’s reading it
I think the comments on all your videos consistently lack mentions if just how good the humor you sprinkle in is. You’re secretly hilarious
Thank you for talking about the toxic positivity mentality 🙏✨️ I have been taking your advice & putting into practice & I've had really great results. I did actually intentionally Manifest a relationship, but I didn't have a specific person in mind -- I just felt really called, like my man was waiting for me & sure enough he found me the 1st day I went looking. 😌🙌 we've been together since Dec 2023 & very happy. I also manifested a new living situation & new lifestyle by using gratitude & letting go of resistance like you're always saying Aaron. Thank you so much for all your videos, I find them so helpful. 😁
Literally been part of community on twitch called "high vibes" and this video is 👍👍👍🔥🔥🔥
Aaron, thank you for boldly mentioning Reality Transurfing along with the picture of the cover. It is evident you let go of the pressure to not speak on it. The freedom to speak from your heart shrines through, brother.
hello, may i know why people are pressuring others to not speak on this book? i am completely ignorant about this topic and your comment was the only one i found mentioning the book. Thank you in advance.
Hi, so Aaron has mentioned this book in only a few videos. However, he also mentioned that he was contacted and asked not to speak about it. He never went into detail, but from what he alludes to it was the author or their team. Aaron did mention that he was told by them that he is not an “authority” on the material and thus not “allowed” to speak about the book. This being the author’s demand or request. Frankly, it’s a bit ridiculous. Because it’s like, wouldn’t you want your book promoted for the large audience Aaron has? Besides, it’s not like the information Reality Transurfing explains is secret knowledge anymore. If you’ve been on a spiritual path for 5-10 years+, it just makes sense. So, with all that said, I’m glad Aaron decided to just boldly speak about it in this video. Author is coming from a paradigm of ego, and it’s corny.
@@madisonp73 How weird! Maybe the author only wants people to recommend their book but stop right there and leave an aura of mistery... or maybe they only allow a certain "summary" to be told about the book"... who knows. thank you for answering!
I love that young people still believe
You bring it to fruition so much more faster, and easier - plus it feels so much better to not push, force, or feel stress about it!
Thanks for the reminder, friend. God bless ❤
Whoever is reading this I hope that you get your dreams and wish you love and happiness .. ❤Aaron .. thank you for what you do
Loving your letting go content. Detangling myself from many old ways of being, thinking, feeling, etc. and opening up to the new, different, unknown space of being enough! I am ready for life’s surprises 🦋💕
When the scary unknown is what you allow yourself to be naturally worthy of... and what you naturally are worthy of is the scary unknown... then anything is possible.
I really appreciate you sharing this, thank you Aaron❤️
Every time I watch a new video I can't wait to hear Aaron's story about his abusive stepmom, job at the womens shoe store and emotionally abusive store manager 🤪🤗😚 p.s. and his controlling ex girlfriend...
🤣 🙌🏻 yes it’s so true ! These details make me laugh but they really help 😅
it's always sneaked in there somewhere. he never forgets to add it into every video. its now boring to listen to. sounds like a broken record to me.
I can't thank you enough brother Aaron for your help 🙌
I like to give money on impulse to people who look down and out and are living on the streets. Not as a flex, I don't tell people. And not lots of money, just here n there, if I have cash and I have the impulse. Recently found a rare book at an antique store thats worth 30 grand, its on consignment with Christie's auction house, now. Truth in this.
do a white board of this going deeper! great video! love your channel
Aaron. I've spent 5 years working on myself, and I have seen a lot of growth in that time. I've built beliefs, to have them shattered, I've learnt so much, and unlearnt so much. To say I have been dedicated is an understatement. I'm in a lot of pain right now, trying to heal from what I believe to be my deepest wound. The physical pain that the emotional pain causes is almost unbearable. Sometimes it seems easier to just turn back, and avoid it, but once you see there are ways out....how can you?
I just wanted to say thank you. It's been such a long road, and sometimes when it feels like the work doesn't quite yield adequate enough results to continue, your videos have provided me with new hope.
Let it go but when it comes accept it! with gratitude.
I'm not always good at meditating in the normal way but I do get lost on purpose sometimes. It brings the metaphorical find your way home to a more tangible feeling. You can't rush when you get lost because you'll only get more lost. It makes me take my time to calm down and I think I'm basically doing walking meditation at that point. By the time I finally find my way back, I've already met new people, find hole in the wall treasures, and find peace/acceptance. I find home by finding myself. The journey can be scary at times but so is life.
Facts! That’s exactly how I feel🙂 thank you☮️💟✝️
Recently i had a rare item get lost in the mail, i sat down in front of ebay thinking its gone i`ll never see it, i have to find a similar replacement. The moment i found a listing that was comparable and felt relief, I heard a knock on the front door and a man from the end of my street was holding my parcel that was lost. Fair example of what your saying i reckon mate.
This had nothing to do with it. The package was there anyway.
Yes of course!!!! I want you to do the whiteboard drawing. Everything stems from childhood and family
I love Ur positive energy ❤❤from Malta
Woooow Powerful,im definitely taking the advice,i feel awesome now.Iam that person who alows myself to be in my feelings in order for me to feel better,i acknowledge my feelings and deal with it 👏👏🙌😍😎🙏🙏
feel it to heal it. dont suppress it. the body remembers
A wonderful session Aaron. I absolutely love how the exact right things get conveyed through your delivery. Thank you.
I stopped looking for love 10 years ago. A year ago a casual acquaintance came forward and professed his love for me. We were together for a year and his actions did not match his words of love. Disrespect was the main theme. I dropped him. Now I'm back on square one not looking.
Reality Transurfing is a 🔥 book
My spirit kept rising out of my body and going back in
Breathwork so powerful let it make to be released resistence storage!!👍🙏😮
Yes, please, to the whiteboard!
I needed this video 🙏🏻 even tho I’ve seen so many of these videos by Aaron around the same topic there’s always something new that just clicks in my head. A new metaphor or perspective on letting go. I love this channel it has really transformed my life
I love lightworkers like you,I had Stuart McKay,he's now called peaceatwork,he's still a practioner in Perth now,Australia
This video comes at the right time for me! In my personal life. Thanks!
I think I would say the things thinking I’d believe it and would do a 180 from another RUclipsr
She never talked about going within or feeling your feelings and I’m finally understanding ♥️
You can find LOVE in Church... but you gotta be there First for Jesus. Lots of ppl are shopping for a spouse at church but they are doing it out of a means to an end. So it wont work if your Heart isnt in the right place.
Yes please do a video using the whiteboard!! ❤
Lol
I started not caring and letting go while doing that breath work thing, and for the first time in a long time i was able to talk to my family with confidence, i must say this have just changed my life forever
I needed this today. 😇 thank you ❤
Gentle approach=abundance
Aaron thanks this is great and Soo much knowledge, attachment and reflection ✨✨ allow and resistant finding connection to self, I am my own medicine! I am enough ❤✨🌈👽.
Freedom
This video was so awesome thank you ❤️😍🙏🏽
This video is 💎🔥. Definitely resonate with what you are saying. We have some things in common. I worked in Bloomingdale’s with women’s shoes and then leveled up throughout 9 years. I started understanding these concepts back then and have manifested being on TMZ with Celebrities with my Artwork. Celebrities like Cara Delevingne, Rihanna, Dj Khaled and more.
Watching your content and other related content gives me the confidence to touch on these subjects of Quantum Physics and Subconscious Mind and Laws of the Universe.
Learned about manifesting money through becoming the value and the being in alignment of that frequency and giving value to others.
Born on 222 (Master Number)
💪🏽 🔥🔥🔥
Happy Manifesting!
- Andrew Gonzalez aka Perspektiv
Its where we get the term, "out of nowhere"... 🙏
That looking for keys analogy !
This is true but it has to be genuine… I became sick of wanting someone I told her I want her to be happy and I hope she finds love… this made her question herself. If she comes around great if not so what
Always awesome. I've been doing this and it works.. it's crazy
thank you. share more of this please. thank you and love
I am just learning this. Thank you for your help . ✨💖✨
Excellent video, great presentation Aaron.
Correct me if I'm wrong:
A secret is something that means it is never said, but hey secrets get told... occasionally, so if you do so endulge in this little word remember that language was made before you knew how to use it, so imagine if u had a life without any thing but just you and the stars, eternal peace... Love, hey is not a secret recipe, it is the answer man it is the key, so when you wonder stray lie to the stars; remember that we are all just like a guitar and can be played... So hey, remember you exist. You are... Simple, you are that which you are in, so if you can simply remove any word that has come into your life, because a word is the same as a secret as any word is the same as any of its other words, "in any language". You will fully come to be in the binary code of love, star dust, and eternity, which has no bounds and is eternal with colorful changes, and respect. Because, Remember that; you are a light in all in all like the stars that shine bright, there is no difference between you and a star as you are a star that is the same as any other star, feeling, loving, emotional and free. Always...
We Are... Told to... Be at Peace...
I always believed this too,it's true,spontenaety❤
Aaron thank You . I love your Videos , Big hug and Sending love from Germany.❤️
This is absolutely TRUE!
Amazing video, one of your best! 🙏✨💛
I appreciate your teachings!
Yo, thanks for the video Aaron.
I love your videos. You make me come back into myself even more than I do. Thanks for all you do!!!👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨
I fear detachment out of fear I will no longer want it when it arrives and fear it may disturb what I have chosen to embrace instead
Yes draw it in another video, Aaron!
I needed this
When you were saying where is love where is love where is love I was on our screened in porch at a very odd time (normally I would not be home) and my partner of 15 years drove by the driveway in a truck I’d never seen before (he was home at a very odd time) picking up something from home for his work in a vehicle from his workplace. The odds I’d see him at the exact moment you said those words would normally be super low. 😂
Thank you for your videos and advice. 😊
Thanks. It’s something I searched last night. 🙏🏻💙
Let’s go awaken Aaron
Am 32 a year a go I started feeling some people are really interesting every move I make and people around me are very careful and notice my movements my neighbors especially I think someone paid to special people to keep eye one me now I am wondering how special they feel about me and important to I am for them