Why setting boundaries makes you attractive (life changing)

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44  6 месяцев назад +20

    Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe

    • @lizielita
      @lizielita 6 месяцев назад

      Please read my comment below

  • @ZenitOrión
    @ZenitOrión 6 месяцев назад +28

    The most important thing is your dignity. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not agreeing to do something you don't want to do. You have every right in the world to set boundaries and defend your own space. Anyone who is unable to accept it does not deserve to be in your life.🖤

  • @AlexMoraru25
    @AlexMoraru25 6 месяцев назад +52

    You have to prove yourself as worthy of the abundance by adopting it mentally, before experiencing it physically

  • @magueysunset
    @magueysunset 6 месяцев назад +26

    I used to feel incredibly guilty for setting boundaries, like I was doing something to hurt the other person. This was my nice person syndrome. But as I started to set them more and more, slowly, then my confidence became a lot better. That book called 30 Days to Overcome Guilt by Harper Daniels also helped, and the Tao Te Ching. Everyone is self centered, so it's important to set boundaries, it's ok.

  • @reciprocalhealing
    @reciprocalhealing 4 месяца назад +2

    This content is helping me heal so much. Settling into my frame… keep drawing my energy back inward. I am worthy of a sense of self, of a personal borderline. Thank you 💕

  • @taniluna3469
    @taniluna3469 6 месяцев назад +4

    When I started to set boundaries with a guy I started dating who I really liked, he started little by little to walk away from me. I’m so glad he did, he was not in tune with my energy so I’m grateful that I didn’t let another narcissist into my life again, he sometimes said little things about me to about me as in criticizing my actions and way of being and felt like he wanted me to feel ashamed of myself so I’m definitely grateful that I’m not seeing him anymore. Since I started watching your videos literally every single day I feel my energy shifting little by little and I started to attract people who have similar energy. I’ve got two exciting job offers in less than 3 weeks which I thought was amazing. Energy is magnetic, I started to believe 💖 Thank you Aaron, honestly you are a gift 🎁

  • @ZhiyingHarp
    @ZhiyingHarp 6 месяцев назад +13

    ooh this may explain why when i consciously told myself, that i'm not responsible for my parents' pain, nor their life, the relationship dynamic changed.

  • @alisonfriedman5288
    @alisonfriedman5288 6 месяцев назад +3

    This was beyond helpful as always! My internal boundary is letting go of everybody else’s anxiety. It’s not mine, yet I’ve been carrying it for so many friends, family members, a few acquaintances, and even my therapist (who I just ditched for being insanely unhelpful). I adopted this mentally and suddenly opportunities started coming my way!

  • @PeachyKins
    @PeachyKins 6 месяцев назад +4

    External boundaries are like a signal to "Energy Vampires" 🙏👁✨ This video is insanely true & brilliantly describes *you don't need external boundaries, when you operate the way this concept is presented by Aaron Doughty.*

  • @Nelly3.0
    @Nelly3.0 Месяц назад

    knowing, feeling and behaving as if you are the version of you you choose to be and holding the frame!!!

  • @JeremyBec
    @JeremyBec 6 месяцев назад +1

    Totally unrelated to this video topic, but I just wanted to share that I deeply respect you for staying true to yourself.
    A lot of content creators based in spirituality tend to change and let success get to their head. They trade their integrity for views and forsake who they are.
    You've grown so much as a person and yet you remain humble, charismatic and give relevant advice instead of merely repeating what you've read or watch somewhere else.
    I sincerely hope you'll keep growing ! Thank you for being you :)

  • @FuchsiaFire444
    @FuchsiaFire444 6 месяцев назад +29

    Attractive is internal first. You cant perceive what you arent the vibration of. Knowing who you really are, beautiful wise talented powerful in the energies of love and light which carries beneficial and exciting information, you flow with high frequencies and become a boundary which unwanted can't cross. Knowing who you really are frees you from all programming. Embody what you affirm. Feel it. Become it. New person new world.

  • @GoingSane
    @GoingSane 6 месяцев назад +4

    I always struggle with what boundaries are reasonable to set and what ones aren’t. Doing it internally by working out your personal vibe makes a lot more sense.

  • @INDOMINION
    @INDOMINION 5 месяцев назад +2

    Man this is some deep psychology. You are bright my friend 💪

  • @adriananeri3288
    @adriananeri3288 6 месяцев назад +5

    The reality is that I don't give a penny for people who respect me but not the others. I don't want this kind of person in my life. There's plenty of people like this in the world, but I like good and loving hearts.

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 6 месяцев назад +2

    Intriguing perspective on the power of internal boundaries! 🌟 Strengthening our energetic boundaries not only enhances personal resilience but also transforms how we interact with the world, influencing our external experiences profoundly.

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 5 месяцев назад +1

    Dude i was walking around yesterday doing my job (retail vendor) visiting all kinds of stores. And I was keeping my perspective and consciousness elevated and as high as I possibly could. And everyone around me was just miserable. All the employees, all the customers, everyone. Just nothing positive there. Everyone's vibe was so low and I felt it. I could see nothing but a ton of people who hate their loves and aren't living their purpose. And it made me think of how I need to start living mine. But I don't know how.

  • @gagga77
    @gagga77 6 месяцев назад

    Ok... I watched this, and I am thinking how complex and complete is everything on this channel and from you, Aaron... My God... From dealing with inner child, through relationships, traumas, core beliefs, personal frame and dealing with inner feelings, inner energy to the human soul... You literally speak about everything...
    And... That situation in your life with your step mom woke you spiritually and you woke me through your videos and lot of people. Thanks man, this channel is treasure.

  • @laurabahena1175
    @laurabahena1175 6 месяцев назад +5

    I am doing this. Only picking the people on my life I want

  • @DumbowiddaDream
    @DumbowiddaDream 6 месяцев назад

    Yes 🙏🏽💚✨ No need to fear or struggle with putting up real boundaries as your assured and lovingly detached presence will naturally do that. Thank you this is what I need to practice. This is similar with dealing with familiar spirits

  • @FGTL247
    @FGTL247 6 месяцев назад

    Totally blessed to have seen with my own eyes all the planatary movements & beauty in the sky to pass time away from all the noise.this past year has been a trip.

  • @Yellow-oc4sl
    @Yellow-oc4sl 6 месяцев назад +1

    Having health boundaries for yourself is healthy and it takes time to get it together while you heal from tocic behaviors

  • @SwallowedByTheThicket
    @SwallowedByTheThicket 6 месяцев назад +13

    “Pop spiritual” or not…this is such helpful content ❤

  • @angelinaesposito3058
    @angelinaesposito3058 6 месяцев назад +1

    I wish you were my son. You are a very intelligent & kind young man. Thankyou for Everything You do for people All over the World 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅⚔👼👑

  • @2024olivia
    @2024olivia 6 месяцев назад +5

    This is such valuable info. I love learning about how energy works ❤

  • @dysaffiliate
    @dysaffiliate 6 месяцев назад +2

    Yes. The inner wellspring can be self-sustaining, and if it is or is becoming self-sustaining, it is also rather infinite in its quality.
    To be dependent upon the validation of others is distinct from respecting another's validation of oneself and one's living; to be dependent on the validation of others is also, and this is very true, capable of guiding behavior without one being aware of it. The wellspring is extrinsic, catapulted into outer space where it can be caught and manipulated (for better or worse) by others on a whim. So basically, yes :)

  • @mindtomuscle1105
    @mindtomuscle1105 6 месяцев назад +3

    I am always attracting the narcissist (female) in an authoriative position from me all the time. Now she is my boss whom is under investigation from 30 prior employees for being toxic to work for. I have chosen to NOT see her in this light and she does not behave in a dominate way with me...but it has taken alot of meditation and energetic boundaries up before I head into work

  • @baldwinhillsspacemen8229
    @baldwinhillsspacemen8229 6 месяцев назад +6

    This video really resonated with me, everything in it was so obvious yet so profound. Ever since I came upon your videos I've gotten a good genuine feeling from you and the quality and value of your content but when you dropped the Mac Dre reference in this one I realized this this dude really is my tribe lol. Keep on doing what you do because it truly does have a positive effect on peoples lives. 🙏

  • @petrovskyaj
    @petrovskyaj 6 месяцев назад +1

    I am so thankful for finding videos like yours. They help me so much when I feel like I am stuck in old patterns.

  • @snakedagr2377
    @snakedagr2377 6 месяцев назад +14

    Once I understood boundaries I became even more powerful!!!

  • @badichigo
    @badichigo 6 месяцев назад +3

    Wow! You really posted this at the exact moment I needed to hear it! Thank you!

  • @susiedalon8263
    @susiedalon8263 6 месяцев назад +1

    Aaron l can't express enough how much l appreciate you and your teachings on this subject!! You have helped me more than l can express! Sending oceans of love and gratitude ❣❣❤❤❤❤

  • @ael6707
    @ael6707 6 месяцев назад +15

    Funny before I saw the title I thought he looks so handsome :)

    • @sarahckuhnen
      @sarahckuhnen 6 месяцев назад

      That’s cos he is lol

    • @sayisfying26
      @sayisfying26 6 месяцев назад +2

      It's because he sets boundaries

  • @theophila214
    @theophila214 6 месяцев назад

    18:09 - 19:29 - the certainty, holding the vision, confident in your own frame, ...
    "knowing, feeling, and behaving ... [and] holding the frame"

  • @tatinson8712
    @tatinson8712 5 месяцев назад

    This video is Essential, thank you from the bottom of my heart Aaron .
    With gratitude,
    Tati

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 6 месяцев назад

    Very interesting to view this self vs others,Super talk A4,!!💜🌹👍🎈🎈🎈🎈🌄

  • @DumbowiddaDream
    @DumbowiddaDream 6 месяцев назад

    Yes that’s it I have to let go even if I feel guilty it’s been a hard practice that must be continued and resisting need for reassurance from authority figures🙏🏽

  • @veronicamahonv745
    @veronicamahonv745 6 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you Aaron 💜🙌🏻💫✨️

  • @ZAHRAAZUHAIR-i5n
    @ZAHRAAZUHAIR-i5n 6 месяцев назад +5

    Firssssstttt
    I hope you have the best life ever Aaron

  • @jeveuxetrelibre
    @jeveuxetrelibre 5 месяцев назад

    You are changing my life. Thank you Aaron ❤

  • @isabellatufaro9234
    @isabellatufaro9234 5 месяцев назад

    I would like to thank you 🙏 because you're helping me more than my therapist! You're great! 🤗

  • @ahbyahdmohammed7694
    @ahbyahdmohammed7694 5 месяцев назад +1

    The problem with healers and energy givers or motivation givers is that they know exactly who they are and have their egos in check. It's the other person who doesn't understand what is going on. When you constantly give someone praise and energy it gets to their head and they begin to feel like they are in 7th heaven. They get a wrong kinda ego boost. I feel people like us need to learn subtle ways to give an ego death to them everytime they start acting God. All in all. I loved my baby gurl, she brought out the best in me and never felt soo abundantly loved. I witnessed her downfall right in front of my eyes. I lost my self respect and mind in the process. And most important, I lost the love I had for myself. I wish her all the best and the other jealous haters who are giving me the evil eye atm. Everyone deserves to be happy. I deserve to be happy as well without you if it must be

  • @tammymurphy1268
    @tammymurphy1268 2 месяца назад

    Another awesome vid!!! So many great points..for sure a replay once a day to pull more out ..wow

  • @lakritzz2397
    @lakritzz2397 6 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you so much for your work!!!

  • @noorhina9899
    @noorhina9899 6 месяцев назад +5

    Much needed😇Thnx Mr happy Soul💓

  • @Daisiess1122
    @Daisiess1122 6 месяцев назад

    Amazing video!!! Great teaching! Makes it harder as a parent and having these boundaries but yet parenting.. it’s a dynamic where you are involved in their feelings and their choices. But yet still need boundaries Thanks Aaron🤩✨✨✨✨

  • @michellehayer7616
    @michellehayer7616 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you Aaron ❤

  • @christinehart8018
    @christinehart8018 6 месяцев назад

    You speak to me
    No one else does
    Thank you
    I ♥️U

  • @askfirestarter
    @askfirestarter 6 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for this! Hope you are having a great day - this is am amazing topic 💯💯💯💯

  • @FGTL247
    @FGTL247 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks again Aaron for your time making these videos! hope your doing well!

  • @mlffe5lettres
    @mlffe5lettres 6 месяцев назад +1

    Watching it for the 4th time, guessing it's the video I need now, the most. Since I discovered your channel your are in my "INNER PEACE" case in favorites bar

  • @kirstendrews8619
    @kirstendrews8619 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this great explanation of setting boundaries! Didn't hear this before so clear and real! Greetings from Germany 😊

  • @MagnificentMartha
    @MagnificentMartha 5 месяцев назад

    This is helping me refine myself. ❤

  • @matthewbisso8852
    @matthewbisso8852 5 месяцев назад

    I thought this was very interesting. Thank you for posting!

  • @AngelaCasselman
    @AngelaCasselman 6 месяцев назад

    I’ve been listening to your videos for about an hour and I just make the decision to let go and said that making daily pay with my program is normal and guess what 🎉 I got a payment ❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @amyrobinson1749
    @amyrobinson1749 6 месяцев назад

    Listening to this a third time so it sticks!

  • @Ish-c1h9v
    @Ish-c1h9v Месяц назад

    I watch your videos all day ❤ really helped me in my life

  • @HazelGuestOfficial888
    @HazelGuestOfficial888 6 месяцев назад

    Most powerful video of all! Thank you! This is my favourite ❤️
    Most helpful video of all time so far. This is WHAT I need to embody and this is what I need to practice doing.
    This will be my next breakthrough.
    Thank you so much 🦢

  • @Strongernurse
    @Strongernurse 6 месяцев назад

    Wow. You’re freeing!!!

  • @pattis25
    @pattis25 5 месяцев назад

    Wie schön wäre es, all die wunderbaren Erklärungen auf deutsch zu hören! Es würde sicherlich viele Menschen interessieren.

  • @nikolasovilj6169
    @nikolasovilj6169 6 месяцев назад +2

    thanks for all of those videos

  • @judymahudy
    @judymahudy 6 месяцев назад

    Top G of Energy

  • @AprilVanderHeyden
    @AprilVanderHeyden 6 месяцев назад

    So fantastic Aaron!! This is exactly what I've been practicing. ❤❤

  • @kmenikdiwela
    @kmenikdiwela 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you Aaron ..❤

  • @laurabahena1175
    @laurabahena1175 6 месяцев назад

    Very bueno Aaton! Me love this video! Thanks ! 🙏🎉

  • @TornadoOfSouls777
    @TornadoOfSouls777 6 месяцев назад +7

    I am sorry
    Please forgive me
    Thank you
    I love you ❤

  • @brightlinebetty1258
    @brightlinebetty1258 6 месяцев назад +4

    Not my circus, not my monkeys ❤😄

  • @txmvz
    @txmvz 6 месяцев назад +3

    Totally.

  • @SandhyaYadav-pn9jt
    @SandhyaYadav-pn9jt Месяц назад

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @vanessaoliveira9165
    @vanessaoliveira9165 6 месяцев назад +2

    Agora eu entendi! Thank you!

  • @annab3062
    @annab3062 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this wisdom

  • @miriamroche671
    @miriamroche671 2 дня назад

    I see this all the time where people treat other people very differently depending on who they are. I often wonder why some people automatically command respect (as if not consciously trying or probably unaware - or are they. Usually extroverts.) and other people have to work really hard at it (almost beg for it! Usually introverts).. Why do some people automatically have it and others don't is my question.. Maybe you could do a video on that concept Aaron. Love your work by the way - you've helped me more than you'll ever know. Thank You.

  • @andrelopez4134
    @andrelopez4134 6 месяцев назад

    This is value !

  • @flying_like_a_heroine
    @flying_like_a_heroine 6 месяцев назад

    Brilliant! You nailed it 🎉

  • @ReikiRosie
    @ReikiRosie 6 месяцев назад

    To give love to give love

  • @KristinKStar
    @KristinKStar 6 месяцев назад +3

    I was the first to like❤❤❤❤

  • @flyandshy00
    @flyandshy00 6 месяцев назад

    Narcissist ghosted me after I didn;t let him to step on my boundaries early on.

  • @practice_Chinese_yoga
    @practice_Chinese_yoga 6 месяцев назад

    Fabulous message!

  • @felicialohnes7836
    @felicialohnes7836 6 месяцев назад

    Aaron, love your lessons😊 That's not my job🥰🙏🕉💃💜💖✨️💖 Resonate and most Def going to share your meditation 😊 In gratitude and harmony💜💜💜

  • @bigboyzden
    @bigboyzden 6 месяцев назад +3

    I love this, on a deeper spiritual level can you talk about being attracted to a narcissist before birth (like having a mom or dad who is a narcissist ). I hope that makes sense.

  • @ifty369
    @ifty369 6 месяцев назад +3

    Great video brother!!

  • @alyzachangco
    @alyzachangco 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this 🤍

  • @seanmiller598
    @seanmiller598 6 месяцев назад

    Youv'e gotta let go of the ego mind, The wants of. Control, Approval and security. .

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you. Very good 👍🏻

  • @ReikiMasterCarlie
    @ReikiMasterCarlie 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you Aaron for always addressing many important issues that we often encounter in everyday life. 🙏🏻🌟

  • @Mindfuljourneywithme111
    @Mindfuljourneywithme111 6 месяцев назад

    Really enjoyed this one, thanks Aaron

  • @wannaspeakbyveroniq
    @wannaspeakbyveroniq 6 месяцев назад

    This is genius

  • @tresaS58
    @tresaS58 6 месяцев назад

    That's a great perspective tysm

  • @LaciJaimes
    @LaciJaimes 6 месяцев назад

    So good!

  • @dolphet
    @dolphet 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks 🙏

  • @GoldenPearl58
    @GoldenPearl58 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much Aaron. Can you please also develop some meditations for kids? In order to unlock their inner child’s issues. First developing their self confidence

  • @Geekprinzessin
    @Geekprinzessin 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your content is getting better and better… or i am just resonating more with it :) thank you 🌈🩷

  • @laurabahena1175
    @laurabahena1175 6 месяцев назад

    I like this now! Thanks

  • @thesabrinarice
    @thesabrinarice 6 месяцев назад

    Loved this!! Soo good.

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 2 месяца назад

    Heyyy,so good jacket JJ,thanksss❤😮

    • @mayhtoo3576
      @mayhtoo3576 2 месяца назад

      This topic is very interesting😅

    • @mayhtoo3576
      @mayhtoo3576 2 месяца назад

      Self vs others😅❤

  • @marylouholden7275
    @marylouholden7275 6 месяцев назад

    Great video ✨👏🏻♥️

  • @DistortedIlusion
    @DistortedIlusion 6 месяцев назад +2

    I just wanna drink Ayuasca for like five months..........

  • @3catfriends
    @3catfriends 6 месяцев назад

    My bf gets so mad when I visit my family and want to sleepover, says he can’t sleep without me, but I say he’s welcome to come but he doesn’t want to. Is this a me boundary problem or a him problem?

  • @prabjotkaur4770
    @prabjotkaur4770 6 месяцев назад

    I love your channel. But the constant commercials are very distracting. Love you Aaron 😊

  • @papayagirl777
    @papayagirl777 6 месяцев назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤