Can we talk about how Chris's dad, worked 2 jobs, came home, left to find his son, and still had the energy to talk him into coming home without losing his cool?
I think a lot of people are missing Chris’ point. Chris isn’t complaining about the dishes,it’s the unfairness of the situation. Why is he the ONLY one cleaning???
As a kid l was always blamed when there's a mess even thou I'm the one who takes responsibility about everything. I'm on chris side a simple "thank you" or "your sister is right" when i tell my sisters they're as much responsibil in this house as I would be ENOUGH
Tanya and Drew are right. Rochelle took it too far with Chris. Drew and Tanya are capable of doing chores around the house including dishes. Their hands are not broken.
Wrong place and wrong person to go and talk to. I wouldn’t know how Mr Omar or Doc would respond but you already know Vanessa and Rochelle are tight so of course she be on her side. Plus as Rochelle would say “it’s the principle”. It starts off as dishes next it’s gonna be moping the floor or cleaning the toilet and yet Drew and Tanya still get to set around and do nothing! Plus remember the episode when Drew was going to skip school to meet Gretzky and in the opening it was a montage of Drew and Tanya breaking stuff or hurting themselves and Rochelle blames Chris for not preventing it.
I literally went through the exact same thing with my mom. I had proof that I was right showed proof that I was right but unfortunately in the eyes of the black family that don't mean anything. Respect is everything and it's not earned. It's taken
Chris gets up extra early everyday to catch 3 busses. Gets bullied. Gets racist remarks from his classmates and teachers. Takes his busses home. Works a part time job. Does his homework. Goes to bed. Chris is right. Respect for parental authority doesn't mean jack shit when parental authority doesn't respect you.
yeah me too my mother never asked me to clean anyone else's dishes but my own. Making someone slave over someone who's just as capable as you are is wrong.
@@sweetchilledgames7887 That’s what I hated about this episode, Drew and Tonya didn’t even volunteer to help and even when Chris got kicked outta the house they STILL didn’t volunteer to help, they were no better than Rochelle in this episode
This episode was so much deeper than it showed. So many parents are so toxic by pushing all responsibilities on the oldest. Thinking it's okay because they're just parents. Pushing parents responsibilities to the oldest is not right. Plus thinking they're always right because they provide. No you have kids so you HAVE to provide. Was not their choice. The fact chris did it all these years with NO complaints and have the nerve to be mad because she knew she was wrong.
This is why having two parents in the house is so important, especially fathers. Stress and anger can cause any parent to make drastic decisions, without another adult in the house to bring back order imagine the end result.
Both parents are so essential in child's development, It's just ashame that a fair amount of woman under some sense of pride and independence think they can do a better job at raising their kids than the two of them because she has some issue with the man. I mean at least when men do it they walk out of the relationship all together but they know they are in the wrong and their stupid, when a woman makes such decisions they voluntarily doom their children to a lacking and unfair upbringing while thinking everything's good and believing their a great example for mother's and woman power cause they dumped the man. Of course this is when it's voluntarily, obviously no one has a problem with single mothers when it's out of their power and they doing everything they can to make ends meet.
That's life. I'm currently disabled, still waiting for my disability. My mother, who I moved in with because I can't support myself right now, had the audacity to tell me to get a job a month after moving in because $100 dollars a week is too much. I'm starting to realize most people 50+ right now have never had to take accountability in their life, mind you I had to give her most of my paychecks growing up along with my fathers "child support", which came to well over $200 a week over 10 years ago, for most of my life.
I don't blame Chris, Parents, they are children, not slaves, just cuz you pay bills doesn't mean anything. Get up and clean up your own stuff, work as a team/ Family.
The parents team work is I working and feeding and providing now while there are other siblings and it should be shared between kids I feel those are things to make a kid more responsibile keep shit clean
Carlton Jay the thing is in the episode situation it wasn’t even Chris’ job to clean the fishies it was supposed to be his younger sibling and since they didn’t do their responsibility Chris got in trouble
You could tell Chris was still pissed about this situation. Out of all the stories of his childhood, this one seems to still tot water for him. And his colorful commentary seems more pointed at his mom then usual.
@@RhyperiorRanger not gonna tell people how to feel, but never getting over it sounds pathetic. I’m sure he gives pointed commentary, I guarantee you he isn’t still mad.
@@gunslinger0074trust me not everyone has the same moral high ground as you do mister "gunslinger", for someone trying to say they're not trying to tell people how they feel, you look like a hypocrite.
She don't any other way to be. This is how black women got through hard times and they hold onto it even when things are going well. My mother is the exact same. She doesn't know how to respect me as a person nor does she understand why she should even take the effort.
I love the personalities between Tonya and Drew. Tonya, although she loves Chris, she's still in the immature stage of her childhood; wanting to selfishly take one of Chris' belongings: his radio. Although Tonya protests against Chris leaving, as loving sister would, she still doesn't seem too concerned. Whereas Drew is more mature, and decides to give some of his money to Chris. Whether it be only $1 or $5, it's clearly an act of selflessness, and he seems genuinely worried about his brother.
I couldn’t help but notice that Rochelle didn’t even react when Tonya openly expressed the fact that she hates Chris for no reason other than being her brother, the brother who does everything for her and gets in trouble because of her.
"Chris, you are a child. Parents don't negotiate with children." This is the problem with black parenting/family culture, period. The number of blown out of proportion arguments I've had with family because they have this backwards mentality where they view you having a difference of opinion (as a human being with your own views, value, and principles) as disrespecting them, challenging them and "talking back to an adult." Reality check for these "don't disrespect your elders", "it's my house, my rules" people: 1. Let go of your ego. It's not about me being a child, in any capacity. This is simply an interaction between two humans. My age or the fact that I'm a younger branch in the family tree should never invalidate or mean that my point of view and feelings should be dismissed. 2. Holding that "I'm your parent/your my child" nonsense over my head is BS. You chose to have a child. The child didn't choose to be born. So stop acting entitled like I'm meant to be eternally indebted to you for a decision that you made that, in reality, was made by you to solely suite your own interest when you made the decision. 3. If you want to use the "this is my house" crap as leverage, then don't be surprised if either, you and your child become distant, or, if when that child grows up and throws that same crap in your face when they're then the ones in the position of leverage. This episode was important.
Yep. If you never negotiate with your kids they're going to take away from that that they shouldn't try and change people's minds and they're going to struggle to negotiate with employers, business partners, tradesmen etc.
Thing is if you pay attention in all the series, Chris(the narrator) explains in no uncertain terms that these are a few reasons why Chris and his mother are distant...
The fact that Rochelle couldn’t even say that she kicked him out says it all, I swear it’s like parents (especially mothers) can’t ever admit when they’re wrong just because “I’m the parent!”, like you kicked him out and there’s NO WAY around it
Rochelle would hate me and we would fight every day if she were my mom. Chris didn't sign up to be a third parent to HER children! Chris was totally right! It's not fair for him to be cleaning up all the time when he works, goes to school, and looks after his younger siblings. I hate when parents do this. Make the eldest child automatically become another parent. That ain't right. "It's just dishes". If it's just dishes, Drew and Tonya could do them. It's not about dishes. It's the principle of them not having to do shit while Chris does everything!
Rochelle was so wrong in this and I have so much respect for the dad for coming back home after working 2 jobs and still kept his cool and was understanding for poor Chris. I feel so bad for chris though
i have a daughter, and i learned mutual respect: she listens to me, and if she feels like she is being not listened to, i will calmly sit and hear her out. alot of the times she gives me good insight from her perspective. when i was a kid i was told: be seen and not heard. but with my daughter i learned: take a moment and listen, she may surprise you and be right.
What’s crazy is even though it’s unfair, Tanya nor Drew even offered to help Chris. They clearly see it’s wrong, but instead just let him take the heat for sure laziness.
@@theowllands3705 No shes not. Shes only defending Rochelle because her personality is similar to hers. And she would treat her children (if she has any) probably the same as Rochelle.
To think the producers of this show didn't even want Ticina Arnold to play the mother on this show, Chris Rock had to fight to get her and she turned out to be the perfect mom for the show!.
Yeah I heard the studio (producers) wanted to hire a white woman to play the mom like what the fuck no wonder why Chris rock was pissed that’s messed up and pretty sus. Rochelle was the best actress
@@kanyesnonexistentjacuzzi1799 I have no idea, maybe they didn’t like an all black cast and wanted to add a white woman in there. You know how it is 🤦🏽♂️
I was on Chris’s side on this one. I’m the older sibling and the daughter of immigrants. I had to do everybody’s work while I had a brother who was coddled and did nothing. I did my work, his, had to play interpreter, and got all sorts of things dumped on me. He was able to have a childhood and I was stuck cleaning up after everybody. That’s not fair.
That has it advantages. I grew up organized, responsible and educated, while my sister with "someone will do" attitude. Reality shocked her and she is more hard-working now
@@mikemiller789 That's because you're stupid and that you like thinking that way.. We get it. Good night, sleep well, so that stupidity doesn't cause alzheimers and memory loss to your mind!
@@Trazyn_the_Infinite_40K She is a bitch, but she is also more naive. She did care about Chris when she said that she wants him to go home, and not go out to get stabbed, or hooked on drugs.
I love how Rochelle somewhat backs off when Julius (STRICTLY, MIGHT I ADD) just said “what do you mean, you threw him out?” because she knew Julius would lose his shit at her for the first time. She even gulped a bit of saliva before speaking. Bruh, Julius scared Rochelle... FINALLY!
Totally relate to this. I remember my mother yelling at me because I was watching TV with the rest of the family when she wanted me to help her cook. As a boarding school pupil home for the holidays, TV was a rare privilege because it wasn't allowed in the dorms. Meanwhile my younger sister who still couldn't cook at age 13 wasn't reprimanded, and I'd started when I was 11. Unfair.
well technically the dad told him and I guess that makes all the difference........more like Chris just finally decided to call it quits and did take his dad's advice of just being sorry
At 0:13, Chris's line just nailed it. At 1:31, even though I understood what he meant, I still didn't know why Julius brought it up. At 3:09, Drew was so bright he corrected the way to parent the children in a healthy way.
I like many been in chris’ shoes just temporarily I ended up working things out with my parents. You feel a sense of self respect for a while but there’s also this overwhelming feeling of uncertainty
Vanessa: 'It's dishes, you're actin like she told you to bring down the mob' Chris (Narrative): 'Actually the mob was slightly less vindictive than my mother' #😂😂😂😂😂
now normally children should do what their parents tell them there should be no that talk but I had to side with Chris on this one why aren't his bother and sister ever made to chores . favoritism among siblings really does exist
So you shouldn't take the time to listen and understand your kids and wher they are coming from? Maybe when they re real young but once they get a little bit older and start becoming their own people with their own opinions you should understand where they are coming from and talk to your kids. That shit is what messes up kids and makes them turn out shit or what makes people not be able to think for themselves.
Parents need to listen to their kids. That’s why kids grow up to resent their parents because their parents think that since they’re the authority figure they can treat their kids any sort of way and expect their kids to sit back and take it.
This is just proof to kids that parents don't _really_ know what they're doing.They try but they screw up most of the time. I love how they had to break down the expression "Cutting his arm off for putting his finger in the fan". Not _just_ because she didn't understand the metaphor, but because she didn't understand how kicking Chris out was too heavy of a punishment for not doing the dishes until they explained it.
It's dishes! You're acting like she told you to bring down the mob!..."actually the mob was slightly less vindictive than my mom" Why do they keep describing my mom so accurately...
Kirbae Honour your Father and Mother. This is what Jesus said we should do, so we do it. Family meetings can sort unfair situations out, but don’t go hating on your parents. It’s never the way
@@Danqz97 In the Bible it also says that you should not anger your child, lest it becomes rebellious. Honoring your parents despite them destroying your soul is not the way to go. Go to relatives or friends that are more parents than your own.
I've seen this happen and it's sad. I had a friend growing up his mom piled up a lot of responsibility on him and I saw that his mom always seemed to be harder on him than his other siblings so much so that even their other family members started to tell the mom about her behavior. I also noticed that she seemed to have some kind of unspoken resentment towards him and I later found out that the he and his siblings had different fathers and then it started to make sense. I think his mom probably was hurt more by his father than the others and took it out on him. I know after high school we lost touch, but after watching this, I remember the embarrassing moments he had to endure. Wherever you are my friend, I hope you're in a better place in life.
I had to watch the actual episode and the ending made me angry AF: Julius tells Drew and Tonya to watch TV and tells Chris to do the dishes. Nobody learned anything.
THIS!!! Parents need to learn not to dump all the responsibilities on the first born child/girl/whatever ever. It is not a child’s responsibility to clean/take care of the children YOU and YOUR PARTNER decided to bring into this world. Have some common sense, a child can’t take care of a child. It’s okay to ask a child to clean after themselves and maybe their sibs every ONCE IN A WHILE, but when it gets to a point where a child feels stressed about always being the only one doing it, YOU as the parent have taken it too far. And honestly this point can’t be stressed about enough.
And that's the biggest issue with this episode. I am for obeying your parents and back talking against them should not be encouraged but if chris has been the only one who has done the dishes and drew and tonya are old enough to do them, I wouldn't blame him for back talking. Why should he be the only one. Rochelle is wrong. Period.
This comment aint nothing but the truth! I am the older sibling and when our father left our Mother I became a parent in a sense. It was really stressful. Your comment speaks volumes!!!
I wish they still make shows like this, where the dad is really the man of the house and the mom admits to being wrong. Nowadays, in TV, dads are always made into chumps.
@@aidelle5648an adult hitting a child in response to getting called out means they have no actual defense for their actions and proves the child right for questioning their authority.
@0:21 I don't think people caught what Tanya said here. Even though she knew darn well that Chris was leaving because of doing THEIR chores, she still implies that Chris is being stupid and should be doing their chores. Why didn't she offer to start doing her own chores from now on? She even asked for his radio, as if he was going to be gone forever. It's perplexing at how Rochelle instilled herself into Tanya.
She is being selfish in this scene, but she does stand up for Chris saying something like,"I don't like the fact that Chris isn't living here and I want him back!"
Chris was definitely in the right here - he’s the only person ever doing the dishes and he really shouldn’t have to be. He has two sibling that could easily help him and get the whole ordeal done faster - there is zero reason for him to be doing it by himself
It's weird that Drew is only one year younger than him and Tonya about 4 years younger. It would have been a completely different story if Drew were like 7 and Tonya like 4.
"You kicked him out because he didnt do the dishes?" The same exact fucking thing my mom said to my dad. Im the oldest out of the 7 children that live in the house, two of them are 16 and 15, they are capable of doing basic chores and cleaning up after themselves. The others are literal children still, from 1-5 but I always have to clean up after all of them, because "you're the oldest you should just listen." Uhhh im a high school senior with multiple college courses and a part time job. I go to school, go to work, do my hw, and HAVE to babysit after all of that. But because the two other kids didnt want to do their dishes, I HAVE to. All I said was "it's not my day to do dishes." And he lost his shit on me, so all I said was "Can you just please leave me alone? Im tired." Then he went on some tirade, so I just locked my door, but that set him off, we got into a shouting match and he got physical and said some really not so cool things. He said that he hated having me as a son, that I was an ungrateful lazy kid, and that as soon as I turned 18 I was out of the house. All that because all I said was "it's not my day to do dishes" I left, but my mom begged me not to, but being at home hurt too much.
This is why your village is so important when you're raising children. He left his mother's house, but you best believe they knew exactly where he went.
A lot of people these days can relate to Chris’s point not about the dishes but the unfair treatment of having to be the only one cleaning up after everyone else .
This is so relatable not just family wise but also relationship having to spend time with someone that you cannot talk to and when you try to they shut you off gaslight play victim or tell you to talk to them in a different way and when you try a different way, it’s still not enough
this somethin my mom would do. i remember she caused a whole war in the house cause the last bowl of cereal got ate. idk why she got that mad i mean the cereal had been in the kitchen untouched for almost 2 months
Jermain Ross lol My mom goes crazy if I open 2 boxes of cereal at once. I don't understand why. It's not like I'm not going to eat them both. And she doesn't even eat cereal.
My mom is the same too, she worries bout me wasting food despite she DON'T eat her food in the Refrigerator and waits like 2 weela and took my 20 dollars for eating her 4 small spicy chicken when she could've had 6 bigger pieces of chicken, why do mothers gotta be hypersensitive or temperamental I mean my isn't strict and doesn't tell me to do much, but can be very insecure, stubborn, patiently angry, materialistic, possessive, pushy, and cares too much which can get her too stressed out and overwhelmed and overreactive, but she'll never kick me out, she'll be rational and reasonable when she apologizes but the truth is she always says I'm a blessing and she's black.
I felt Chris 💯 percent on this when I was his age. I’m the oldest of 5 siblings and I had not only go to school and work but clean up after them even when they were of age to clean up after themselves! People tend to forget that teenagers have stressful lives as well! Now they could have talked it out! But I understand where he’s coming From!
Jeremy Jackson That's the thing; Chris wasn't being disrespectful. He was fed up with having to do all the chores for the past few years. When he saw that Drew and Tonya were sitting in the living room watching TV and Rochelle told only Chris to clean the table and do the dishes, that's when he got fed up and said no. And I don't blame him. If he has siblings, then they should be doing some of the workload too
She kicked him out because she already stopped doing things for him since he’s all “grown up,” and when he started doing things for himself, he was winning, so she had to kick things up a notch.
It's also about the lack of respect. Like she had no reason to put the chores on him He did nothing wrong. His siblings caused the mess He asked why he had to do it and she went mad for no reason at al His mother valued her own pride more than his value and wish for respect.
Keep in mind, they're still just kids that are in the process of growing up. Rochelle was also a great mom, delivering proper discipline. She just didn't like the thought of one of her children disrespecting her authority. I can see Chris's point, but he should have approached it with more respect. She's still his mother, after all.
AutumnEmerald 101 she was an awful mom and the way she treated her kids impacted the way they lived their lives and grew up as the show went on, She made Tanya into a mini version of herself- she treated Drew like he was God and he achieved everything he wanted to and was basically universally worshiped, while she was downtrodden on Chris-
Drew was a real bro by given him some money in the end, also his dad is such a good dad for getting mad at his wife for kicking Chris out for something so dumb and unfair.
Had this with my home life. I was the only one who paid rent and regularly worked but I was the one who got all the shit and threatened with being kicked out when the bins weren't out the night before.
Same I work for three different temp agencies only one in my house who pays rent and buys groceries for the house aside from my dad every now and again
Can we talk about how Chris's dad, worked 2 jobs, came home, left to find his son, and still had the energy to talk him into coming home without losing his cool?
That's a REAL parent right there!!💯
That's how us blacks are 💪🏽💪🏽
@@GreezyG74G invente roman invente
@@GreezyG74G but most of y'all don't have dads..... I keed, I keed, twas a joke
I love his dad
I think a lot of people are missing Chris’ point. Chris isn’t complaining about the dishes,it’s the unfairness of the situation. Why is he the ONLY one cleaning???
It's his turn
Xi DIAMOND but it’s only his turn. Never Drew’s or Tanya’s
Blackninja93 always*
@@Blackninja93 Tanya & Drew Should be helping Chris not watch Tv
As a kid l was always blamed when there's a mess even thou I'm the one who takes responsibility about everything. I'm on chris side a simple "thank you" or "your sister is right" when i tell my sisters they're as much responsibil in this house as I would be ENOUGH
Tanya and Drew are right. Rochelle took it too far with Chris. Drew and Tanya are capable of doing chores around the house including dishes. Their hands are not broken.
Lol if you grew up in a black home you`ll understand. The only way to make it stop is to risk it all and say no haha
@@outlaw8066 that's just plain dumb
Wonder Woman That’s what I never understood.
@@outlaw8066 lmao
@@outlaw8066 That's basically signing your own death warrant.
Those ladies at the salon were straight gaslighting Chris it really pissed me off that everyone expected Chris to apologize when he did nothing wrong.
Wrong place and wrong person to go and talk to. I wouldn’t know how Mr Omar or Doc would respond but you already know Vanessa and Rochelle are tight so of course she be on her side. Plus as Rochelle would say “it’s the principle”. It starts off as dishes next it’s gonna be moping the floor or cleaning the toilet and yet Drew and Tanya still get to set around and do nothing! Plus remember the episode when Drew was going to skip school to meet Gretzky and in the opening it was a montage of Drew and Tanya breaking stuff or hurting themselves and Rochelle blames Chris for not preventing it.
Yeah, why didn’t he go to Doc? He’s older than both Chris and Rochelle, so he’d probably give Chris a good talk on how to deal with it
It seems like whatever Chris do is never going to be enough
That's the black parenting culture.
I literally went through the exact same thing with my mom. I had proof that I was right showed proof that I was right but unfortunately in the eyes of the black family that don't mean anything. Respect is everything and it's not earned. It's taken
I like how Drew gives him money in a I support you way. That's real brotherly love right there.
Edit: Typo
Thats y i always wanted a brother.
George Varughese that’s not a good enough reason to want a brother 😂
Its a script dude
Facts. Thats called a real Brother relationship
Ans the script is based of Chris's childhood so yeah it is a brotherly act
Chris gets up extra early everyday to catch 3 busses. Gets bullied. Gets racist remarks from his classmates and teachers. Takes his busses home. Works a part time job. Does his homework. Goes to bed.
Chris is right.
Respect for parental authority doesn't mean jack shit when parental authority doesn't respect you.
One of the best fucking comments ever
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I agree🔥🔥🔥
This one right here
I love this comment it should be pinned
I’m on Chris’s side on this one.
yeah me too my mother never asked me to clean anyone else's dishes but my own. Making someone slave over someone who's just as capable as you are is wrong.
@@shadowboy2818 Gotta disagree. For example I had no problem washing my parents plates.
Y’all trippin rather be homeless then to wash some dishes
@@andrewisnotdead I'm sure it could be annoying. But not to the point where I'd flat out say no to their face twice.
Me too.
“If you want it clean so bad how about you go do it” it was quiet after that🤣
He ain't wrong. They can help around the house and clean
@@sweetchilledgames7887 That’s what I hated about this episode, Drew and Tonya didn’t even volunteer to help and even when Chris got kicked outta the house they STILL didn’t volunteer to help, they were no better than Rochelle in this episode
@@phillyeaglesforlife5127 yeah if you got 3 kids you shouldn't make one of them clean the table after dinner they can all clean the table
@@sweetchilledgames7887 Yep, or take turns doing the dishes
It would’ve made more sense if Drew and Tonya helped. Chris doesn’t have to be in charge of everything.
You know Rochelle was wrong when Julius wasn’t backin down.
hey
I agree i thought that Chris was in the right
she wasn't wrong, but she wasn't right either. as, a parent you can enforce your child to do chores, but the way she executed the issue was wrong.
@@PacMan755 Force ?!?! LOOOL. Good luck with that.
@@boosteddaily1294 Epic said enforce and not the word FORCE.
This episode was so much deeper than it showed. So many parents are so toxic by pushing all responsibilities on the oldest. Thinking it's okay because they're just parents. Pushing parents responsibilities to the oldest is not right. Plus thinking they're always right because they provide. No you have kids so you HAVE to provide. Was not their choice. The fact chris did it all these years with NO complaints and have the nerve to be mad because she knew she was wrong.
Exactly!
I am the oldest i was fine with it because i got more pocket money due to the other kids not wanting to do their chores.
@@natstar7864 however, Chris doesn't get paid!
I knew a guy who's middle child who acts older and got booted i see him time to time
@@blueraccoon1088 poor kid
This is why having two parents in the house is so important, especially fathers. Stress and anger can cause any parent to make drastic decisions, without another adult in the house to bring back order imagine the end result.
Fathers can prevent mothers from trying to dominate and emasculate their sons too.
Both parents are so essential in child's development, It's just ashame that a fair amount of woman under some sense of pride and independence think they can do a better job at raising their kids than the two of them because she has some issue with the man. I mean at least when men do it they walk out of the relationship all together but they know they are in the wrong and their stupid, when a woman makes such decisions they voluntarily doom their children to a lacking and unfair upbringing while thinking everything's good and believing their a great example for mother's and woman power cause they dumped the man. Of course this is when it's voluntarily, obviously no one has a problem with single mothers when it's out of their power and they doing everything they can to make ends meet.
I had a grandmother and Mother. I guess effectively 2 mom's really.
•Nikkiii• i grew yo with my nana and mom too. Ima male. Its been 1 year since high school and im teaching myself a lot
Alberto Garcia can’t relate
That lady who was “talking sense” into chris really pissed me off. She missed the whole point of him leaving in the first place
And didn’t even take Chris’s side into consideration at all. All she seen was Rochelle’s side of the story and immediately just disregarded Chris
Yea women and men like that are very dangerous stay away
Because their friends and nobody backs a bad parents side like their social circle@@yukisanscorner3582
That's life. I'm currently disabled, still waiting for my disability. My mother, who I moved in with because I can't support myself right now, had the audacity to tell me to get a job a month after moving in because $100 dollars a week is too much. I'm starting to realize most people 50+ right now have never had to take accountability in their life, mind you I had to give her most of my paychecks growing up along with my fathers "child support", which came to well over $200 a week over 10 years ago, for most of my life.
“Parents don’t negotiate with children”
True, but he’s very nearly a legal adult, almost 18 and has a job paying the bills.
Rochelle: "I didn't kick him out Drew he left"Chris: "After you kicked him out"
+4everanarsenalfan if he want respect,, he should not go back at leat for a month
Rochelle: Watch it boy before I kick you out with broken teeth!!!
she kicked him out
LMAO😂😂😂😂
Riley Powell day david bcruce god
bro got kicked out and still nobody was doing them dishes 😂😂
This episode slapped
I hate rochelle, she is so narcisist. What a annoying woman and mom. Parents dont say it but the truth is: parents have a favorite son
Because the mom said to them Don't do that 😁
That's the crazy part... This happens a lot in the black community
@@majorhellrazor4054 yep. Glad she's alright but me and mom don't talk anymore.
Chris's life sucks. Honestly, I can relate.....
true that
He can never get a break. He has school, a job, and he has to clean up after everybody. It's too much for him.
As the oldest of 4 siblings i can really relate
Shivneel Singh same here too but I wasn't the oldest
Yup
I'll never forget Rose's(Chris Rock's real mom) reaction to Rochelle. "I knew that I was a strict mother but I didn't think I was that bad." XD
it's because they never realize they are, many to death think they are great parents being cruel to their children
You realize Chris Rock was exaggerating about his mother in the show
Nah, Chris told her that it was an exaggeration
U from??..💓💓💓
I’m not gonna lie if I was Chris’s real mom I’d be horrified lol this is one of the most terrible characters in tv history
I don't blame Chris,
Parents, they are children, not slaves, just cuz you pay bills doesn't mean anything. Get up and clean up your own stuff, work as a team/ Family.
Yeah I don't think that conversation would go well in alot of houses lol
I mean you learn how to do this stuff when you’re young so that you can do it when you’re older but yeah doing it together is better.
But i do agree with his comment 💯 percent
The parents team work is I working and feeding and providing now while there are other siblings and it should be shared between kids I feel those are things to make a kid more responsibile keep shit clean
Carlton Jay the thing is in the episode situation it wasn’t even Chris’ job to clean the fishies it was supposed to be his younger sibling and since they didn’t do their responsibility Chris got in trouble
You could tell Chris was still pissed about this situation. Out of all the stories of his childhood, this one seems to still tot water for him. And his colorful commentary seems more pointed at his mom then usual.
As he should, Chris was totally in the right here.
As someone going through the same thing, Chris has every right to still be mad. He should never let it go
@@RhyperiorRanger not gonna tell people how to feel, but never getting over it sounds pathetic. I’m sure he gives pointed commentary, I guarantee you he isn’t still mad.
@@gunslinger0074trust me not everyone has the same moral high ground as you do mister "gunslinger", for someone trying to say they're not trying to tell people how they feel, you look like a hypocrite.
@@tazkannon7403 oh you can feel how you want, facts don’t care about your feelings.
he's daddy cares more then his mother does
His
No he don't. He's just more understanding
She don't any other way to be. This is how black women got through hard times and they hold onto it even when things are going well. My mother is the exact same. She doesn't know how to respect me as a person nor does she understand why she should even take the effort.
shihoblade I guess that makes us brothers haha.
Kalina Simmons welcome to my world
I love the personalities between Tonya and Drew. Tonya, although she loves Chris, she's still in the immature stage of her childhood; wanting to selfishly take one of Chris' belongings: his radio. Although Tonya protests against Chris leaving, as loving sister would, she still doesn't seem too concerned.
Whereas Drew is more mature, and decides to give some of his money to Chris. Whether it be only $1 or $5, it's clearly an act of selflessness, and he seems genuinely worried about his brother.
They needs to help out with the cleaning l
I couldn’t help but notice that Rochelle didn’t even react when Tonya openly expressed the fact that she hates Chris for no reason other than being her brother, the brother who does everything for her and gets in trouble because of her.
Shut up Tonya a brat telling him to do the dishes
I wanted Julius to flip out so hard this episode, but he didn't. He was actually real calm. Spoke his mind and then went to get his son. Respect.
"Chris, you are a child. Parents don't negotiate with children."
This is the problem with black parenting/family culture, period. The number of blown out of proportion arguments I've had with family because they have this backwards mentality where they view you having a difference of opinion (as a human being with your own views, value, and principles) as disrespecting them, challenging them and "talking back to an adult."
Reality check for these "don't disrespect your elders", "it's my house, my rules" people:
1. Let go of your ego. It's not about me being a child, in any capacity. This is simply an interaction between two humans. My age or the fact that I'm a younger branch in the family tree should never invalidate or mean that my point of view and feelings should be dismissed.
2. Holding that "I'm your parent/your my child" nonsense over my head is BS. You chose to have a child. The child didn't choose to be born. So stop acting entitled like I'm meant to be eternally indebted to you for a decision that you made that, in reality, was made by you to solely suite your own interest when you made the decision.
3. If you want to use the "this is my house" crap as leverage, then don't be surprised if either, you and your child become distant, or, if when that child grows up and throws that same crap in your face when they're then the ones in the position of leverage.
This episode was important.
This indeed
Yep. If you never negotiate with your kids they're going to take away from that that they shouldn't try and change people's minds and they're going to struggle to negotiate with employers, business partners, tradesmen etc.
Yep.
Thing is if you pay attention in all the series, Chris(the narrator) explains in no uncertain terms that these are a few reasons why Chris and his mother are distant...
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“ i left the house before my mother ask for her suitcase back “ 😂😂💀
The fact that Rochelle couldn’t even say that she kicked him out says it all, I swear it’s like parents (especially mothers) can’t ever admit when they’re wrong just because “I’m the parent!”, like you kicked him out and there’s NO WAY around it
Sounds like my first foster mom Jessica and to make it worse she brings up every past mistakes too
@@jacobfreeman8198 Dang, I’m sorry you have to deal with that
Rochelle would hate me and we would fight every day if she were my mom. Chris didn't sign up to be a third parent to HER children! Chris was totally right! It's not fair for him to be cleaning up all the time when he works, goes to school, and looks after his younger siblings. I hate when parents do this. Make the eldest child automatically become another parent. That ain't right. "It's just dishes". If it's just dishes, Drew and Tonya could do them. It's not about dishes. It's the principle of them not having to do shit while Chris does everything!
You right cause my mom the same and my mom pisses me off all she does is yell hit people when she mad i be wanting to hit her back but i can't
@@jordanjordan1391 RT
Amen
Jade Raé mind you it’s only three kids. 2 if you don’t count Chris.
🔥
I'm not gonna lie, I said "ahhhhhhhhhh" too when they explained what Julius said.
Joseph Vanorsby I had to rewind that shit back coz I didn't understand it at first.
Idioms lol
EatTheBootyLikeIchirakuRamen same here
I still dont understand....
@@josephdowner346 he said no (sticking his finger in the fan) she threw him out (cutting off his arm)
drew: so, are you going to kick us out if we say no?
Chris: yes
Rochelle: no
Me: liar!
sik
😂😂
Rochelle: "No."
Me: 🧢
😂😂😂
Man has Chris's mom ever heard of karma?
Rochelle was so wrong in this and I have so much respect for the dad for coming back home after working 2 jobs and still kept his cool and was understanding for poor Chris. I feel so bad for chris though
My question is did she ever apologize.
I hope she did...
@@Tsukinotakunah, Chris said "I'm Sorry", she said "I'm sorry" and they made Chris do the dishes anyways
am I the only one who thought that drew was the older brother at first?
Emo Music Junkie
No- everyone in the show did
Emo Music Junkie me too
Nope. At times he does look a little older than Chris 😊
Chris is oldest drew is tall it doesn't mean he's.oldest
Emo Music Junkie I thought he was the oldest too.
“Drugs and alcohol provide a sedative to the trauma and isolation” 😂
But so true, I forgot how good this show was
😂😂😂😂😂
I believe that Drew might be the smartest member of the family
Drew always with the bad scenarios and the harsh truth 😂
@@jeffreygardner8783 but also really naive
drew has the most sense... look for his son and tell his wife she was wrong
Chris Thompson You mean Julius, Drew is the younger bother.
Chris Thompson is got those stupid episodes
His show look regular and a stupid in the stone is is a stupid show because used to make stupid episodes on time
@@jalisaepps6300 I have no idea what you said
Some people need to go back to school...
i have a daughter, and i learned mutual respect: she listens to me, and if she feels like she is being not listened to, i will calmly sit and hear her out. alot of the times she gives me good insight from her perspective. when i was a kid i was told: be seen and not heard. but with my daughter i learned: take a moment and listen, she may surprise you and be right.
What’s crazy is even though it’s unfair, Tanya nor Drew even offered to help Chris. They clearly see it’s wrong, but instead just let him take the heat for sure laziness.
A Poster said that Tonya and Drew tried to wash dishes, but Rochelle told them not to do it....🤨
At least Drew gave Chris some money
Usually the golden child/ren are complicit in the home terror a lot of the time.
Personal experience is a hard reminder
when I left, my sister started to complain that our mother is unreasonable and force her do to so much stuff
I only replied "welcome to the club" 😂
They are kids.
Vanessa need to shut up. Chris is right. Chris should relax and have Drew and Tonya do the dishes.
Facts
@@theowllands3705 Vanessa is wrong. Chris is not the only one in the house. That mess is unjust and unfair to Chris. Drew and Tanya can also help too.
@@theowllands3705 No shes not. Shes only defending Rochelle because her personality is similar to hers. And she would treat her children (if she has any) probably the same as Rochelle.
Roçhelle said no one was going to do the dishes but Chris. She was clearly trying to show Chris she was in control and had the power over him.
@@xman9190 because she does
To think the producers of this show didn't even want Ticina Arnold to play the mother on this show, Chris Rock had to fight to get her and she turned out to be the perfect mom for the show!.
Really ?
Yeah I heard the studio (producers) wanted to hire a white woman to play the mom like what the fuck no wonder why Chris rock was pissed that’s messed up and pretty sus. Rochelle was the best actress
@@astronautkid9982 why? Chris rock ain’t mixed
@@kanyesnonexistentjacuzzi1799 I have no idea, maybe they didn’t like an all black cast and wanted to add a white woman in there. You know how it is 🤦🏽♂️
@@astronautkid9982 maybe that’s why Greg was white?
I was on Chris’s side on this one. I’m the older sibling and the daughter of immigrants. I had to do everybody’s work while I had a brother who was coddled and did nothing. I did my work, his, had to play interpreter, and got all sorts of things dumped on me. He was able to have a childhood and I was stuck cleaning up after everybody. That’s not fair.
That has it advantages. I grew up organized, responsible and educated, while my sister with "someone will do" attitude.
Reality shocked her and she is more hard-working now
My mom did the same to me, pulled me and my sister out of school and suddenly I went from nanny, and part time maid to maid, cook, tutor and mother
Sometimes I understand how chris feels.
Reo Rose Same
She's not going to marry you, Captain Hamsters.
@@Michael-gs8og Oh, he is going to, or else RUclips will be nothing but dust, thanks to COPPA.
@@mikemiller789 That's because you're stupid and that you like thinking that way.. We get it. Good night, sleep well, so that stupidity doesn't cause alzheimers and memory loss to your mind!
@@mikemiller789 Plus, she's not going to marry him. Case closed.
Drew gave him money Tonya asked for his radio what the heck
Ed Holmes Tonya was a bitch most of the time.
Cause Tanya is a bitch
@@Trazyn_the_Infinite_40K She is a bitch, but she is also more naive. She did care about Chris when she said that she wants him to go home, and not go out to get stabbed, or hooked on drugs.
Drew had no job. Where he get money from lol
August Gadsina allowance
I love how Rochelle somewhat backs off when Julius (STRICTLY, MIGHT I ADD) just said “what do you mean, you threw him out?” because she knew Julius would lose his shit at her for the first time. She even gulped a bit of saliva before speaking. Bruh, Julius scared Rochelle... FINALLY!
Lol she knew she was wrong, its not like she was scared of Julius
@@sayiemasterkupsagowe8271 she knew he wasn’t going to take her side.
Good!
Totally relate to this. I remember my mother yelling at me because I was watching TV with the rest of the family when she wanted me to help her cook. As a boarding school pupil home for the holidays, TV was a rare privilege because it wasn't allowed in the dorms. Meanwhile my younger sister who still couldn't cook at age 13 wasn't reprimanded, and I'd started when I was 11. Unfair.
So she kicks him out for not doing the dishes, and yet, he brings him back and tells him to do the dishes? WHAT SENSE DOES THAT MAKE?!
kmayo05 mom's sense
Rochelle logic
+kmayo05 ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE!
well technically the dad told him and I guess that makes all the difference........more like Chris just finally decided to call it quits and did take his dad's advice of just being sorry
what a mom
At 0:13, Chris's line just nailed it.
At 1:31, even though I understood what he meant, I still didn't know why Julius brought it up.
At 3:09, Drew was so bright he corrected the way to parent the children in a healthy way.
That’s why Drew’s a W
@@JosiahtheMessiah-11809 What do you mean by that? Can you be specific please?
its slang that the new generation created for saying something is a ''win'' basically its good or drew in this situation is right@@JesseNinja321
Drew is so logically reasonable. I love it 😂
I like many been in chris’ shoes just temporarily I ended up working things out with my parents. You feel a sense of self respect for a while but there’s also this overwhelming feeling of uncertainty
Vanessa: 'It's dishes, you're actin like she told you to bring down the mob'
Chris (Narrative): 'Actually the mob was slightly less vindictive than my mother'
#😂😂😂😂😂
Y'know, he ain't exactly wrong.
@@oceanberserker sounds like his mom was very Vindictive
now normally children should do what their parents tell them there should be no that talk but I had to side with Chris on this one why aren't his bother and sister ever made to chores . favoritism among siblings really does exist
So you shouldn't take the time to listen and understand your kids and wher they are coming from? Maybe when they re real young but once they get a little bit older and start becoming their own people with their own opinions you should understand where they are coming from and talk to your kids. That shit is what messes up kids and makes them turn out shit or what makes people not be able to think for themselves.
Parents need to listen to their kids. That’s why kids grow up to resent their parents because their parents think that since they’re the authority figure they can treat their kids any sort of way and expect their kids to sit back and take it.
@pathetic2399 I agree 👍💯
This show was my childhood lmao
Allen is not me night house press conference me night of 7th room to baby girl Mom happy birthday party is working
Same
Same
Same
I am sorry
I like how when she had kicked chris out, she began looking for him to get him to clean the dishes. that woman petty.
This is just proof to kids that parents don't _really_ know what they're doing.They try but they screw up most of the time.
I love how they had to break down the expression "Cutting his arm off for putting his finger in the fan". Not _just_ because she didn't understand the metaphor, but because she didn't understand how kicking Chris out was too heavy of a punishment for not doing the dishes until they explained it.
jafeir that’s what parenting is though. You hope to god you’re doing all the right thing.
@@blindpeopledostuff3587 Yes and many are terrible at that. Even Good parents have horrible streaks. 😊
When Chris stood up to Rochelle, I was so happy for him. 😎
I know what you mean!!
It's dishes! You're acting like she told you to bring down the mob!..."actually the mob was slightly less vindictive than my mom"
Why do they keep describing my mom so accurately...
Kirbae I literally read this right it was playing😂😭
No
Yes
Kirbae Honour your Father and Mother. This is what Jesus said we should do, so we do it. Family meetings can sort unfair situations out, but don’t go hating on your parents. It’s never the way
@@Danqz97 In the Bible it also says that you should not anger your child, lest it becomes rebellious. Honoring your parents despite them destroying your soul is not the way to go. Go to relatives or friends that are more parents than your own.
Julius was the only adult on this show that wasn't absolutely insane and awful.
Love it when drew starts speaking scientific facts to his mother
Drew and Julius are the most wholesome characters of the show
I've seen this happen and it's sad.
I had a friend growing up his mom piled up a lot of responsibility on him and I saw that his mom always seemed to be harder on him than his other siblings so much so that even their other family members started to tell the mom about her behavior.
I also noticed that she seemed to have some kind of unspoken resentment towards him and I later found out that the he and his siblings had different fathers and then it started to make sense.
I think his mom probably was hurt more by his father than the others and took it out on him.
I know after high school we lost touch, but after watching this, I remember the embarrassing moments he had to endure. Wherever you are my friend, I hope you're in a better place in life.
In short, the b!t©# couldn't be bothered to keep her legs crossed and closed and now she's taking it out on him. Got it. P.S., hope your friend is doing way better now as well.
Well, I hope he watches everybody hates Chris to find you here.
I had to watch the actual episode and the ending made me angry AF: Julius tells Drew and Tonya to watch TV and tells Chris to do the dishes. Nobody learned anything.
I really appreciate the fact that Julius wasn't portrayed as an idiot like so many dads on television are these days.
THIS!!! Parents need to learn not to dump all the responsibilities on the first born child/girl/whatever ever. It is not a child’s responsibility to clean/take care of the children YOU and YOUR PARTNER decided to bring into this world. Have some common sense, a child can’t take care of a child. It’s okay to ask a child to clean after themselves and maybe their sibs every ONCE IN A WHILE, but when it gets to a point where a child feels stressed about always being the only one doing it, YOU as the parent have taken it too far. And honestly this point can’t be stressed about enough.
And that's the biggest issue with this episode. I am for obeying your parents and back talking against them should not be encouraged but if chris has been the only one who has done the dishes and drew and tonya are old enough to do them, I wouldn't blame him for back talking. Why should he be the only one. Rochelle is wrong. Period.
Thank you both. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This comment aint nothing but the truth! I am the older sibling and when our father left our Mother I became a parent in a sense. It was really stressful. Your comment speaks volumes!!!
Rochelle, Drew and Tonya could've apologized to Chris and do the dishes but no, they have to go and exacerbate the whole thing.
Being the eldest, the scene is so relatable!
Same
Julius : why's this table such a mess?
Chris rock : somebody fired the maid
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chris Rock's narration was always halirious😂😂
"Somebody fired the maid"
its Rochelle fault
The mom was wrong .drew and Tonya are old enough to do chores.
I wish they still make shows like this, where the dad is really the man of the house and the mom admits to being wrong.
Nowadays, in TV, dads are always made into chumps.
I like the way his brother gave him money like that mad respect bruh
No cap
I hated how his siblings didn't at least help to clean up because Chris did everything (I know it's only a show) 😂😂😂
CSCW 2707 but this happens everyday in real life. Especially those that grew up with multiple siblings.
@Saida Ali yes it does sometimes
@@2000firegirlnah Chris is the oldest Drew the second
No the hell its not just a show. Lots of us live like this.
Yk this show is based off of Chris rocks real life...right?
Cutting the boy's arm off and sticking his finger in the fan is the funniest quote.
You should always challenge your parents authority when they are objectively wrong
That until they hit you
@@aidelle5648 at a point they cant hit you anymore.
@@aidelle5648an adult hitting a child in response to getting called out means they have no actual defense for their actions and proves the child right for questioning their authority.
@@aidelle5648 At a certain point, that can get you put in the hospital.
Or the morgue.
@@Spidercake54that’s easy to say when you’re not taking the beating 💀
@0:21 I don't think people caught what Tanya said here. Even though she knew darn well that Chris was leaving because of doing THEIR chores, she still implies that Chris is being stupid and should be doing their chores. Why didn't she offer to start doing her own chores from now on? She even asked for his radio, as if he was going to be gone forever. It's perplexing at how Rochelle instilled herself into Tanya.
She is being selfish in this scene, but she does stand up for Chris saying something like,"I don't like the fact that Chris isn't living here and I want him back!"
@@karen-vw1jq Because there was nobody to do the dishes.
@@edwalgino1😂
Chris was definitely in the right here - he’s the only person ever doing the dishes and he really shouldn’t have to be. He has two sibling that could easily help him and get the whole ordeal done faster - there is zero reason for him to be doing it by himself
It's weird that Drew is only one year younger than him and Tonya about 4 years younger. It would have been a completely different story if Drew were like 7 and Tonya like 4.
The mom thinks the world evolves around her
Well it doesn't seem fair that Chris has to clean up their mess when it's not his responsibility.
OH
+Michael Ballantyne You mean revolves not evolves.
Right
And the mom can just counter for what she does daily with no help when they're a poor family and it's a cope out cause he's a kid
I would be pissed if I found out my wife kicked out my son for something so trivial.
It seems divorce worthy
She doesn't have a job tho. Chris has a job AND he goes to school. Rochelle's job is to clean the house. Bitches be crazy.
Austin Page Bruh she works at a hair salon
Austin Page still she has a lot more than that
whatttttt
Austin Page preach
Didn't she quit her job because she said "my man got two jobs, I don't need this"
Drew hella smart
Boriqua Chick true he was making laugh 😹😹😹
I kind of agree with Chris because Drew and Tonya just sitting watching tv and Chris do all the work
And he already has a part time job
"You kicked him out because he didnt do the dishes?" The same exact fucking thing my mom said to my dad. Im the oldest out of the 7 children that live in the house, two of them are 16 and 15, they are capable of doing basic chores and cleaning up after themselves. The others are literal children still, from 1-5 but I always have to clean up after all of them, because "you're the oldest you should just listen." Uhhh im a high school senior with multiple college courses and a part time job. I go to school, go to work, do my hw, and HAVE to babysit after all of that. But because the two other kids didnt want to do their dishes, I HAVE to. All I said was "it's not my day to do dishes." And he lost his shit on me, so all I said was "Can you just please leave me alone? Im tired." Then he went on some tirade, so I just locked my door, but that set him off, we got into a shouting match and he got physical and said some really not so cool things. He said that he hated having me as a son, that I was an ungrateful lazy kid, and that as soon as I turned 18 I was out of the house. All that because all I said was "it's not my day to do dishes" I left, but my mom begged me not to, but being at home hurt too much.
Damn bro. Hope things ended up working out for you 🙏
Sorry gotta go through that brudda, hopefully your Mom ended leaving him and taking your siblings from him. Head up high King
0:39 See thats what i call broterly love.
Sorry i spelled "brotherly" wrong.
Its ok man. The important thing is the message
bro he made that comment 6 years ago
6 years ago feels like 2 years ago...
This is why your village is so important when you're raising children. He left his mother's house, but you best believe they knew exactly where he went.
A lot of people these days can relate to Chris’s point not about the dishes but the unfair treatment of having to be the only one cleaning up after everyone else .
This is so relatable not just family wise but also relationship having to spend time with someone that you cannot talk to and when you try to they shut you off gaslight play victim or tell you to talk to them in a different way and when you try a different way, it’s still not enough
“Actually the mob were slightly less vindictive than my mother” this bit never fails to kill me
He was right !! 😂😂
This episode made me love Chris so much damn.
this somethin my mom would do. i remember she caused a whole war in the house cause the last bowl of cereal got ate. idk why she got that mad i mean the cereal had been in the kitchen untouched for almost 2 months
Jermain Ross lol My mom goes crazy if I open 2 boxes of cereal at once. I don't understand why. It's not like I'm not going to eat them both. And she doesn't even eat cereal.
Luigi my mom is the same way when I was younger but now I get it. Food goes bad and The cereal becomes stale if you don't eat both fast enough.
Yep when we don't eat what's cooked it's problem but when we eat what's cooked then we eating up all the food I be like wtf 😂😂😂
@@Jdp_1597 lose lose situation
My mom is the same too, she worries bout me wasting food despite she DON'T eat her food in the Refrigerator and waits like 2 weela and took my 20 dollars for eating her 4 small spicy chicken when she could've had 6 bigger pieces of chicken, why do mothers gotta be hypersensitive or temperamental I mean my isn't strict and doesn't tell me to do much, but can be very insecure, stubborn, patiently angry, materialistic, possessive, pushy, and cares too much which can get her too stressed out and overwhelmed and overreactive, but she'll never kick me out, she'll be rational and reasonable when she apologizes but the truth is she always says I'm a blessing and she's black.
This is the show that every older sibling resonates with on a spiritual level.
The black household man...
Sh!t needs to be handled differently.
Sorcery Shazmah exactly...
Sorcery Shazmah ikr since slavery we been taught abuse of any form is normal everyday life physical emotional verbal abuse etc....
@@abrahampalmer1153 amen
@@abrahampalmer1153 you are soooooo right
Right because we should base this show on every modern day household in America!
Drew is such a good brother, givin his older brother money before he left
Shows he actually cares about him
Drew is a real brother, man Gave him some money. Tanya took his radio, women sheesh.
is this comment a joke
All of them are capable of cleaning up. Chris shouldn’t be the the only one with chores.
I felt Chris 💯 percent on this when I was his age. I’m the oldest of 5 siblings and I had not only go to school and work but clean up after them even when they were of age to clean up after themselves! People tend to forget that teenagers have stressful lives as well! Now they could have talked it out! But I understand where he’s coming From!
She kicked him out for the disrespect. Being the oldest child, I once felt the same way as Chris.
Jeremy Jackson That's the thing; Chris wasn't being disrespectful. He was fed up with having to do all the chores for the past few years. When he saw that Drew and Tonya were sitting in the living room watching TV and Rochelle told only Chris to clean the table and do the dishes, that's when he got fed up and said no. And I don't blame him. If he has siblings, then they should be doing some of the workload too
She kicked him out because she already stopped doing things for him since he’s all “grown up,” and when he started doing things for himself, he was winning, so she had to kick things up a notch.
King Gemini thank you
@Jeremy Jackson Chris is right. Rochelle went too far. Taking Chris for granted.
@@wonderwoman5732 exactly
When Julius came in, said "Chris, let's go" 😆😆😆😭 we've all felt that one before. 💀
It's also about the lack of respect.
Like she had no reason to put the chores on him
He did nothing wrong. His siblings caused the mess
He asked why he had to do it and she went mad for no reason at al
His mother valued her own pride more than his value and wish for respect.
After all this drama, Tanya only cares about herself. Some great kids Rochelle is raising there
Keep in mind, they're still just kids that are in the process of growing up. Rochelle was also a great mom, delivering proper discipline. She just didn't like the thought of one of her children disrespecting her authority.
I can see Chris's point, but he should have approached it with more respect. She's still his mother, after all.
AutumnEmerald 101 she was an awful mom and the way she treated her kids impacted the way they lived their lives and grew up as the show went on, She made Tanya into a mini version of herself- she treated Drew like he was God and he achieved everything he wanted to and was basically universally worshiped, while she was downtrodden on Chris-
Might as well make Drew and Tonya suffer painful traction as payback for not taking the Heat for Chris.
I love how Chris’s dad had to walk the entire family through that analogy.
This scene hits home. Me and my mom use to go around like this all the time.
The music in the background soothes the moment
Drew is the perfect example of a middle child
Drew was a real bro by given him some money in the end, also his dad is such a good dad for getting mad at his wife for kicking Chris out for something so dumb and unfair.
Imagine if the mom was spanish Drew and Tanya would've been helping out as well
How much did drew give him $9
Adrian Alonso I can survive an entire month with that
Hugo Henrique How would you do that?
Adrian Alonso well remember, it was the 70s/80s
Hugo Henrique "An entire month"?? I don't believe that...Probably 2/3 weeks with $9 dollars, but not an entire month lmao.
His brother gave him like a cool 50$ or 100$ on g shit
Had this with my home life. I was the only one who paid rent and regularly worked but I was the one who got all the shit and threatened with being kicked out when the bins weren't out the night before.
Same I work for three different temp agencies only one in my house who pays rent and buys groceries for the house aside from my dad every now and again