From my experience, an extremely high body count in a woman correlates to past trauma and mental instability. I've never come across a woman with a high body count who didn't have serious unresolved issues.
I'm 30 and my body count is only 1. My wife's also 1. I'll make sure to never divorce. Everyone around us is fckdup, with a lot of issues. I don't think it's a coincidence. But I can understand the lifestyle, sex is amazing. The temptation is brutal, but everything you do has consequences. I choose to remain in my "you haven't experience anything" world.
@@tilabryant5591 Ofcourse you think it's cap. Just like some people think that everyone cheats, because that's all they have experienced. Not everyone is living that sad reality. Some of us ain't about that low, distructive life style. 😉
@@S91761 Much respect to you, Shamir. Respect to you and your lady. I am a Christian dude and my Christian ex-wife divorced me last year. I don't wish divorce on anyone. So, I hope that you and your lady are able to be together until death.
10 bodies is not a lot???? Imagine working super hard all of your life. Sleepless nights, sacrificing, earning every ounce of success you got only to marry a woman who requires you to provide the world for her but cracked her legs open for 10 different dudes who probably didn’t even do half of what you did for her. That’s a wife?? Brothas need to have more standards.
10 bodies by the age of 30 starting at the age of 17-18 is two a year and even 1 a year in a few of those years. Don't be going around trying to smash as many women as possible then get angry when a woman of the same age has been with 10+ men. Stuff like this breeds insecurity.
Unfortunately that's reality. If you didn't wife a girl while you were with her in high school best believe by the time she's 30 she's going to have 10 MINIMUM. They're being unrealistic with 10, because a lot of these girls catch 10 bodies in college.
As if men are honest.. during my dating stage, one dude told me he'd been with over 100. I would never knowingly date anyone with those numbers or anywhere near, let alone marry them. Eeew
For what? To marry a man that doesn't satisfy you? But he will smash on the side? And you end your life w just one partner and never an orgasm? Women need experience
@@lifestraight why do you think all women fall in this category. Sexuality comes in different packages. Some women cherish it some give it away easily. You guys are odd.
@@lifestraight You said if they above 30, implying women in general above 30. He's saying why you act like that is the general rule (applying to all). You might as well say "some women above 30" if you didn't mean it like that.
Body count does matter cause it's an indication on what types of standards she has and how much she respects her body. Letting too many dudes conquer her like that is not a good thing. Like why are you letting all of these dudes smash?
People mature. I’m a man and at 21 I was out here. Probably ran down 20 chicks just that year. I’m 34 now and I might hit 2 chicks in a year now. It’s not worth it to me. Women not allowed that same growth?
@@sbrooks904 it’s not the same my man. we have to try to get pussy, like you gotta put in effort and have a level of game to obtain bodies. women don’t have to do shit but open their legs. they have all the power from the jump and some of them have zero control over it
The fact you view sex as an act of men conquering women, rather than an act of mutual pleasure, respect, etc. between the two of them says a lot about you.
@KanyeSlaysUrFav Yeah, the difference being is that most men view sex as taking something from a woman (kinda rapey but okay), while us women usually view it as sharing a moment together, whether it be without strings or in a committed relationship.
The number is kinda critical but the quality of her choices I think is heavier. If her quality/standards are high, the number will not be. She aint just letting anyone smash..
A woman could have high standards & still have a high number because she might be attractive & ambitious enough to go after higher quality men. It’s not as if high quality men are going to turn down really attractive women. Social media allows beautiful women to have access to all kinds of high status men. The mentality of the woman is critical.
I've been close with a few strippers in my life. The idea that they're playing it close to the vest is wild crazy talk. Even if they're the one that don't tap clients, that doesn't mean they're not open for business away from the business.
OMG!!!! this dialogue is so special! They are breaking down sexism, gender roles, cultural beliefs, how sex is defined amongst men, its just so many layers! Real authentic conversation! Keep it going!
How many of us had a father growing up? 🤔 A stable home environment, positive reinforcement? Men, were you allowed to show emotion, or were you told to man up? Women, how soon were you kicked out for "acting like you grown" when that wasn't even the case?
@@msgapeachHow many women are going to turn down a proposal from the 6foot5 millionair because he has 100 bodies so that she can be with the 5foot5 man making 45k a year who's a virgin? Women dont value purity the same way that men do, and if you dont see and understand this than your delusional. Ya'll be sounding crazy with the "same goes for men" shit. Men and women don't live by the same set of biological rules ma'am. Double standards are natural.
It's a myth that women don't care about a man's number by the way. If you have hundreds of bodies I know that you have chaotic energy tied to you in some way. It's impossible not to if you're laying with that many random people. Not to mention the amount of men that don't take being tested/regular doctor visits seriously. That's even more concerning than the number.
Worry about your number. If it’s high, you ain’t getting no high value man to marry you! He may “date” you for 4 years, but his conscience will never let him marry you!
@luxury,Exactly. I told my husband this. We just aren't as judgemental, and forgiving. These dudes act like God's and take no responsibility of their actions. I think it's quite atrocious and appalling to hear how men are too carefree about their bodies. Promiscuity speaks volumes about men and women alike. Double standards are used to excuse their wayward behavior. End of the day, get std checks and physicals is what's most important. You can be with 1 person who had aids, and be messed up healthwise for life.
@6:04 -- that's the reason why a 10 body count limit sounds unreasonable, because these dudes looking at it from the perspective of how many women THEY HAVE been with in a year's time. The flip-coin to that, is those dudes who've been with hella-women are the ones partly responsible for those girls having a high body count. The machismo is cool and all, and great for their own personal confidence; but they're f-cking up the market and putting a lot of girls in the "f-ck zone" (female equivalent to the friend zone), where these girls may get a lot of sex; but no one will marry them.
Exactly we definitely need to make better choices with our D discipline- I definitely know I have had an affect on some of the women I have been with and not in a positive manner - good comment
You made a valid point didn't even think about it like that lmao we definitely have to take some accountability for creating a problem that we complain about lol🤦♂️😂🤣
Appreciate this comment. My thought is of I think about cheating I put myself on said chick’s shoes. I’m older now but when I was young I had fun🤷🏽♂️😂
I agree bro, but at the same time it's not the dudes fault, it's not like they're forcing the chicks to bang them, it's women's fault for letting anyone hit, they're humans too and make their own decisions, u should also tell females to be more picky.
These guys are like some wild stallions lol. I was with the same woman from the 8th grade up until 2014 we had 3 children together and we just decided it was better to split up. We never married and just left mutually in agreement . I'm 44 yrs old now and being with one woman I can't say I regret it at all . Being single sucks though so if you do find a man or woman who does love you for you stay with them and do all you can to keep them within your means (except gold diggers, toss them to the curb )
So you never tried no other "flavors" up until y'all broke up? I need to test drive my cars before I make my decision to purchase lol don't nobody want a car with high milage🤷♂️😂
Men need to hear this. I was single for years and decided to have a child with my now wife. Appreciate your honesty bro. Finding someone who loves you for all your faults is rare. None of us are perfect at all but when you find that one, keep her/him. Shoutout to all humans who see their hang ups🤘🏽🤘🏽💫💫
@@Bo55edup having sex with the woman as a test drive is an excuse to take advantage of emotions on her part and at the same time disrespects your own body. If you cannot be with a woman just for her without having sex before marriage is a sign of the mans immaturity and insecurity in himself. This also shows that the man has no real respect for the woman because she's an easy throw away if she's not to your liking bed wise. If this is the case you're better off being single and not contributing to the massive numbers of fatherless children who are a result of "test driving" before buying! As for different flavors, I have dated all colors of women but once I found the one who wanted me for me and not for what I could give monetarily that's when I chose. Unfortunately our arguing got to a point to where we decided we should separate before it causes mental harm to our children was a correct move.
Anything over 3 past lovers for a 26-30 yo woman is a deal breaker for a serious relationship, but I’m old fashioned, from a time when women were not all feminism inspired,
@@nana12559. Those men tend to ignore that because they’re sexists who wish for only women to follow roles that require suppression of desires and identity.
Crazy how as a man you can go into a war, a shoot out, get jumped, face danger head on but a woman with a high body count is forever in our top 3 biggest fears. Although the simps are the exception to the rule y’all not included in this theory y’all got more heart than you get credit for 🤷🏾♂️
@@vadelleharris7378 its not even competition its just that the woman's percieved value is lower the more bodies she gets. This possibly might be an instinct of ours where before modern technology there was no test to see if a child was yours or not. If she's loose it increased the odds a child wouldn't belong to you.
I’d argue most simps just lack the knowledge or have a lack of self worth. If you value yourself, you should be looking to date women who value themselves. Women with high body counts obviously do not.
I think I’ll never find someone. I’m a girl with 3 bodies. I recently told my now ex boyfriend the truth that I had 2 bodies before him and I know he will look at me different so I decided to just leave. I think I’m gonna get depressed but I believe in God so I’ll just stay alone forever
@@jasminehernandez4914 I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. So turn from sin, surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. Pray to God. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a Godly man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you ❤
@@jasminehernandez4914 I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. So turn from sin, surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. Pray to God. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a Godly man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you ❤
@@jasminehernandez4914 I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. So turn from sin, surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. Pray to God. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a Godly man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you ❤
@@jasminehernandez4914 I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. Surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you.
I'm saying this, I've asked a couple of dudes I've been with and they said over 300! In their 30s...so don't ever as a nigga get upset with my over 10! lol and I'm 36
You better believe that 300+ included men that they were sleeping with, not just women. My thought is this. Women shouldn't give two fks about what a man wants or what he thinks, especially when it comes to body count. You're a fool if you allow a man to judge you by your body count. Keep doing WHATEVER you want to do. If a man doesn't like it, then f'k him.
As a woman, I don’t have a high body count, but I am curious about some things. If body count is so important to men, why do men sleep with so many women and then talk about women having a high body count? The problem with having a high body count starts with men just wanting to sleep with women and not commit/ date that one woman. Trust me; no woman wants a man with a high body count either; in my mind, that means he’s for the streets, and he has unresolved childhood trauma, too. Remember, we are all human, so anyone can have unresolved issues they don't address and do other things to numb their pain. I know a woman who sold it to the highest bidder (letting a guy blow her back out) every other night, and some guy married her, so a high body count must not matter that much. Trust me, she showed signs of unresolved childhood trauma, which made her act mean and angry as hell toward people.
only men sleepiing with so many women are chads. You are expecting chads to be loyal to you. 80% of the men around you are not even considered worth pursuing to you and it shows when all the potential men you see around you are racking up numbers.
@Skreetz Iz Back I feel You bro, but I ain't stressing no bitch or wifey because if she's not a virgin....shorty has been fucked b4. That's Life but She has only 1 time to betray Me n she's done. Case closed
@Skreetz Iz Back You would laugh at a man who's in a relationship with a woman you had sex with before??? Huh??? What's so funny about that? Dude how old are you? SMH
26 and still virgin . How about that 🤣 there is definitely category of women that fit into your description butNOT all are the same. I have 2 other friends,they are almost 28,only had 2 partners each. We exist,but y all spend too much time complaining about and focusing on the other ones.
Don't ask if you Can t handle the truth. Instead ask her about past MEANINGFUL relationships and the pros and cons she learned about herself from them.
When I was in HS and I graduated in 02 but 15 and 16 was already on they 3rd and 4th abortion so 10 bodies at 30+y/o ain't happening realistically especially in 2021!
@@lilphife01 Facts! Especially with social media and dating apps that only made it that much easier for chicks to get even more bodies than before b/c they were only banging dudes locally now they're getting flown out 🛫("flewed out") lol crazy times. Plus with this generation it's even worse with OF chicks monetizing their nudes that we used to get sent to us for free lol I think that's worse than the bodies 🤦♂️🤷♂️
Y'all are hella naive if you think the chick only got 10. The only ones who are that low, you gotta steal em from their husband they married from high school.
I feel like whether or not a condom was used should be a factor in this conversation. Something about skin on skin that just hits different and bonds people more.
I think that's why people shouldn't even bother asking. You basically putting in your mind real and/or made up scenarios with other guys that will haunt you.
@@bmoreravensjr5937 yea I am a old head. Been in the game long enough to experience some things to gain wisdom from it. Your ignorance of what I'm saying comes from a lack of experience. However, you not being intelligent enough to know when to listen is another story. Side note: stop being a key board gangsta. Reminds one of a cell gangsta.
@@bmoreravensjr5937 I mentioned key board gangsta because you talking about a simp. You talk that in the internet but you wouldn't come at me like that in person. I live in Baltimore. How about we have this conversation in person see if you got the same energy.
I love seeing this as a woman but they are so unrealistic. They can bang into infinity but a woman must have a limit. Men, the thought of someone else entering the body of their woman is mind blowning.
I come from a very unstable family with a lot of trauma. When I was young I was looking for attention and acceptance. I saw love as sex so every men(mostly way to old for my little age) that gave me attention, I gave it up too. Now that I am an adult I realise that many of these men prey on young woman in the same situation as me. I would never make the same choices again as an adult because I have grown from my trauma. Seeing so many people judging woman for making bad decisions when they were younger still breaks my heart. I sometimes still feel like I am worthless because of my mistakes and feel like I don’t deserve love because I am bad and dirty. but I have a man that loves me and treats me like a queen now just as I deserve. And I know I’ve learned from my trauma and all I can do is hug the little girl that I once was and tell her everything will be okay. I wish people would be less ignorant and judgemental. Not everybody has great examples or had a nice youth. I was busy surviving. Emphasise before you judge someone.
Ok so? I didn't have an easy youth either and was busy surviving too, but even as a man I never came up with any excuses and am still a virgin waiting for marriage. I wish women would stop coming up with excuses and calling men ignorant, especially when men like me just want what we are ourselves. Sorry, but no self respecting man would ever marry a highly promiscuous women. How could he, when he knows how mentally devastating this could be to his son if he ever learns of his mothers past? No man with a mother like that could ever have a sense of honor.
Mindblowing! I got married a virgin at 35. It was on Tyra Banks’ show. Had been a nike/reebok model & Miss Black Ca. I spent my time traveling missions & being a CEO. It helped, however, to have 4 very large older brothers. I never felt I missed out. It’s about the circles you run in, I married a CEO as well.
It's one thing if I don't know any of the dudes. But I can't wife up a girl that been wit mad dudes around me. But men and women are two diff creatures.
People who don't keep count of how many people they've slept with are the ones you need to watch out for the most, because to them sex is nothing more than a thing they do to get rid of their excitement, it's not really that important. And people who dont care about body count usually have a lot as well, just like a guy who has sucked dick before will try to convince you that it doesn't make you gay to do so, its perfectly normal from time to time.
Past behavior is a good predictor of future behavior. Any man that plans to have a long term monogamous relationship should make an effort to gauge body count. Part of being grown is taking precaution and not being reckless with whoever you decide to wife up. I would also recommend women do the same for their potential LTR.
15 max...one for every 2 years since she was 14 They be wilding in their high school days😂😂 either way we will never know the truth so it's not even worth asking.
After watching these videos, I see why women don’t want to tell - 7 bodies, when these men are in their 40s, is INSANE 😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣. That’s like finding someone who’s never driven above the speed limit, never farted, and never missed a day of school - all in one
10 is tooo high these guys are buggin!! It all depends on the age you met the chick! If I meet a chick 21 and she tells me 10 that’s a problem! At 30 I think 3 is a decent number
Who cares how many bodies? I’m different than any other dude. If she comes into it with respect that’s all it is. All you are doing is giving benchmark numbers for women to use to run game FOH. I see a lot of fragile egos in the room.
10? Yall wildin'! Math right. Every one of those dudes is gonna be single for life. It's not about the number of bodies, as much as where they're buried. Chicks lie about their bodies any way.
The numbers argument is always a childish one. I want a woman who possesses wifey qualities. Qualities that if I had a kid I know my kid is in great hands if we were to separate. How many “bodies” she has? Don’t care. I want a woman who is sexually experienced and can please me. Think about marriages. These the same dudes who want a woman with low bodies but also want them to be whores in bed. Good luck finding that because they are NOT in abundance. Highest chance u get with a chick who has a low body count and is average in bed. Now you stepping out on the relationship to fulfill your sexual fantasies. 🤷🏽♂️ Speaking from experience I had a woman who had wifey qualities. Amazing woman. Hustler. But she was average in bed. Wasn’t open to oral sex. Her head game was weak. I ended up cheating on her with a chick who I know had bodies (3 kids 2 different husbands). Never asked but she was open to any and everything. Us men don’t know what we want. Just like woman don’t. No excuse for me cheating but I’m being realistic to why I did and why this whole body count shit dumb. Even if you’re not roxxy Reynolds in bed I want to enjoy the sex. Low body count woman the odds not in their favors. And the exception to the rules don’t count
I think it’s generational tbh. As a 26 year old I’m becoming a man in a sexually liberated era. So when I get with a woman I don’t even think nor concern myself with her past. I mean that doesn’t mean I want something ran through it honestly don’t care long as it ain’t crazy. At 26 if she got 26 bodies I wouldn’t be mad. But over her age personally no I couldn’t. 26 sounds like a lot but when you consider woman at that age been teenagers, college, and adult life it’s not much at all
I believe body counts have a correlation with the environment you're in as well. It's unlikely that you'll come across a chick from the hood, mid twenties, with a body count under 10. Now say you go to a small town in the midwest. It's not guaranteed, but the odds are in your favor. Just sayin.
I know a woman with 26 bodies ..I feel man don't want a woman with alot of bodies.. Because they don't want to deal with the competition..26 bodies means you would be 27 now where do you fall in line compared to the others?
I can tell the fellas on the episode have been running around a lot, especially the homie Math. Hynaken is burnt out. He’s been with too many strippers to care. Anything over 5 is too many for my taste. A monogamous relationship is traditional, so I’d only want to be with more of a traditional woman. Women who sleep around usually have mental, emotional, & spiritual issues. They don’t go to therapy & develop bad habits to cope with it. Those type of women struggle to pair bond & build a long term relationship. For all that trouble, I mine as well be single & continue to grow as an individual.
Thats not right considering alot of women regret their choices and are doing what they can to be better and deal with their problems differently and are trying to be more godly. Its not fair to act like women cant try and do better too.
@@skizlemcnizle a lot of women are not trying to be more Godly. I’m not acting like women can’t do better. I’m saying I’m not dealing with that type of woman. Choices have consequences & I’m not taking on that baggage.
@@Skywalker721 personally I feel like 2 is the limit for me I just see it as woman are inherently valuable and if you’re foolish enough to undermine that for your own self greed and decrease that value by letting unqualified men have a piece there’s no worth, a man doesn’t care about a woman’s job, money, car, status, we just want a few simple things, virgin or low body count, submissiveness, attractive, respectful
@@khandibaugh23 huh come on now.....they don't tell you about the hoe phase but they only got 5 to 10 SMH. Yeah guys really don't want to know the truth.
@@khandibaugh23 I think that's a choice tbh. If you as a man have options more then likely you will exercise them at your discretion. The flipside is if you get good at getting women you realize the grass ain't always greener and your faced with a different dilemma. Some men I know become so emotionally detached, it bleeds into affecting other areas of your life because the hunt for new puss never ends. Affects family and even your good male friend relationships. You choose to be monogamous based on certain tradeoffs that work for you in the long run. Most men ime pair up and willing to sacrifice for a compatible women at the time. If you don't have options you may typically settle or go at it a alone.
If the chick is wild, and she likes you, she would never tell the truth. There’s no real way to know what the chick’s been doing! I guess the body count doesn’t really matter unless she has children. But, I ain’t even dealing with a chick with kids, so… 🤷🏿♂️
I think it depends on the age you catch her. Because if u been with a chick since she was 21 its a possibility its only a 1-3 count. But a 35-40 yr old woman can possibly have a 20-30 count. I mean some woman get lied to by other men because they are hot and the man wld say and give a lot just to hit, and in a year a woman can have 4-5 of those not including the ones who they chose to hit on gp. So 10 is more than likely very low for a single older woman.
If that happens to her 4-5 times it’s not her fault but that makes her a fool and incapable of being able to weed her way through legit one of the most obvious things in existence.
Did anyone ever see the highly-underrated film "Chasing Amy" starring Ben Affleck and Joey Lauren Adams? You know, Adams plays Alyssa, a lesbian woman who intrigues Holden played by Ben Affleck. This dude has the balls to think he can actually score with a lesbian! (He's the future Batman. What do you expect?) Anyway, Holden goes after Alyssa and eventually wins her love and trust, although it is clear from jump that she wants nothing to do with men. Alyssa falls in love with Holden and actually switches teams for him. Later on, Holdon discovers Alyssa had a scandelous threesome with two other men while she was in college, so he dumps her. He thought he was the only man to ever rock her world. Well, I guess that means she's actually bi. Holden is mad as hell that he wasn't the first man to pop her cherry. That is how crazy we men think! If the woman is loyaly riding with you, and everybody's health checks out, her past is her past. Sorry for the spoiler!
Most of the discoveries and technological advances that we enjoy are because it's in a mans nature and biology to be the first or best to do something. Men risk their lives to be the first to climb to the talles mountain, shot into space, go miles and miles under water, take something that exists and level it up.
A woman’s body count will never matter because she’s never gonna tell you the real number anyway 😂😂😂 so why even ask plus that’s lil boy immature/insecure shit if you’re feeling her just roll wit it & stop trying to find ways/reasons to cut her off b/c you’re looking for a escape cus you’re catching feelings lol
@slimm7848 I think u insecure if u want a many that’s stronger than u , taller than u and get more money than u , sounds stupid? Men and women are different
@@LoverboyB_Pookie You’ll never get what you want only what you know & see & there’s no woman in the world whose going to actually tell you the truth about herself only what she thinks will make her look better in your eyes & the eyes of others lol
If she went to college….. if she’s in a sorority….. if she bad… you really looking at a +10 body count! Fellas we walking around with 50+ bodies and we want the ladies to have 10? Naw lol
Those are unrealistic numbers. You gotta think years , weeks , months . For a man it's going to be high numbers more than 10+ and same for a women 10 +. Any bet probably 20 & better.
Ok my number is way more than these guys are saying but there are reasons and circumstances as to why. First, none of my dudes ever crossed paths. The deed was never made public. Some of it happened before 21 when I was figuring me out. Some happened in my 20s when I thought I was grown. A bit happened in my 30s when I grew up and now in my 40s it only been one. One of the reasons was my environment tried to dictate that I should play a mans game. Well I failed miserably. I am a relationship woman for sure.
I can respect and if i was told that and it was the truth thats solid its the ones who lie or just dont want cop to it it’s definitely a double standard but alot of things are we all know it goes both ways
@@patchauto I agree with you. I don’t care about a guys number on the flip side. I love experience, analysis, decision making and growth. I’d RATHER a man (with high numbers) that chooses to be monogamous because he respects our situation vs someone that just wants to knock down everything. I don’t fault a dude for being in the triple digits either. As long as that’s not you now.
Exactly, like not all women get around like that 😂. But then again it may be social pressures to do so , plus some people are not as good as controlling their hormones .
Y'all mad insecure why do y'all care how many bodies she have if it's just sex to you? Personally I'm waiting till marriage I don't deserve someone and they don't deserve me unless we're fully committed.
From my experience, an extremely high body count in a woman correlates to past trauma and mental instability. I've never come across a woman with a high body count who didn't have serious unresolved issues.
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I'm 30 and my body count is only 1. My wife's also 1. I'll make sure to never divorce. Everyone around us is fckdup, with a lot of issues. I don't think it's a coincidence. But I can understand the lifestyle, sex is amazing. The temptation is brutal, but everything you do has consequences. I choose to remain in my "you haven't experience anything" world.
Cap 🤣
@@tilabryant5591 Ofcourse you think it's cap. Just like some people think that everyone cheats, because that's all they have experienced. Not everyone is living that sad reality. Some of us ain't about that low, distructive life style. 😉
@@S91761 true
@@S91761 Much respect to you, Shamir. Respect to you and your lady. I am a Christian dude and my Christian ex-wife divorced me last year. I don't wish divorce on anyone. So, I hope that you and your lady are able to be together until death.
@@S91761 I like it. Thats dope.
10 bodies is not a lot???? Imagine working super hard all of your life. Sleepless nights, sacrificing, earning every ounce of success you got only to marry a woman who requires you to provide the world for her but cracked her legs open for 10 different dudes who probably didn’t even do half of what you did for her. That’s a wife?? Brothas need to have more standards.
10 bodies by the age of 30 starting at the age of 17-18 is two a year and even 1 a year in a few of those years. Don't be going around trying to smash as many women as possible then get angry when a woman of the same age has been with 10+ men. Stuff like this breeds insecurity.
Unfortunately that's reality. If you didn't wife a girl while you were with her in high school best believe by the time she's 30 she's going to have 10 MINIMUM.
They're being unrealistic with 10, because a lot of these girls catch 10 bodies in college.
@@GamingCentralTV1 Yes as the men do too
Super facts
@@kevthegoat8774 nahhhh bro 10 is wild if we talking wifeying her how she got a new nigga basically every year till u 😩
This is a VERY touchy topic for many of us men...lol. Best thing to do is STOP asking her, because she might hit you with a Powerball number😅😅
😂😂😂😂 word to mutha lmao
Not the Powerball 😆😂
My nigga you got my stomach hurting not powerball numbers😳😳😳😳😳🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Bro my ex told me she slept with 100+ dudes and I thought I was gonna marry her no funny ish. I’m in therapy now because of this
If you want to be lied to or disappointed then ask a woman how many men she has been with- Malcom X
Dawg, Malcolm said that?? Where can I find this shit at?
@@masemboross4996 its in his Autobiography
@@chiefkc2002 Wooooooooow🔥 That’s Wild. Predicate you brother ✊🏾
As if men are honest.. during my dating stage, one dude told me he'd been with over 100. I would never knowingly date anyone with those numbers or anywhere near, let alone marry them. Eeew
Nobody gives af what he said. A woman definitely shouldn't care about what he said.
Encourage the youth (Female AND Males)to treasure and respect their virginity.
Yep. Don't be just ready to give it up to anyone
For what? To marry a man that doesn't satisfy you? But he will smash on the side? And you end your life w just one partner and never an orgasm? Women need experience
Yes agreed
Virginity? man they look at that like its cvoid, they dont want it
The only comment in this section worth reading. I agree wholeheartedly.
youd be lucky to find a chic that has less than 15-25 bodys especially if she BAD
FORREAL SMFH
Facts
Sad reality
Realistic !!!
I love seeing black men in safe spaces being free. A blessing.
Where are you from? Where im from racism isnt really that big and all colors are free. Im from canada.
Or rather what time period are you from..?
@alexander harvey how?
@@prototype8137 why are you asking? Don't tell me you think everywhere american blk men go they are free to be themselves in the USA.
@@prototype8137 Well racism is big here in the US especially in NYC where this is filmed.
Black men don’t need “safe spaces”
0-5 the great range
6-10 can get a pass
10+ is a negative
How will you know the truth???
The older you are the more likely the woman's number is gonna be 10+. If they above 30 is highly likely they number is 15 or more.
@@lifestraight why do you think all women fall in this category. Sexuality comes in different packages. Some women cherish it some give it away easily.
You guys are odd.
@@prototype8137 When did I say all women? 🤔
@@lifestraight You said if they above 30, implying women in general above 30. He's saying why you act like that is the general rule (applying to all). You might as well say "some women above 30" if you didn't mean it like that.
10 is definitely too much
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂na for a regular girl yes that's different lmao
theres actually a study that says if she has had more than 3 partners chances are if you marry her there is 75% she divorces you
@@majorflacko835 link?
No it’s not lol
My wife and I were both virgins
Thank God for that security that my wife only has eyes for me and will honour me
That's how it should be.
Body count does matter cause it's an indication on what types of standards she has and how much she respects her body. Letting too many dudes conquer her like that is not a good thing. Like why are you letting all of these dudes smash?
People mature. I’m a man and at 21 I was out here. Probably ran down 20 chicks just that year. I’m 34 now and I might hit 2 chicks in a year now. It’s not worth it to me. Women not allowed that same growth?
@@sbrooks904 it’s not the same my man. we have to try to get pussy, like you gotta put in effort and have a level of game to obtain bodies. women don’t have to do shit but open their legs. they have all the power from the jump and some of them have zero control over it
The fact you view sex as an act of men conquering women, rather than an act of mutual pleasure, respect, etc. between the two of them says a lot about you.
@KanyeSlaysUrFav Yeah, the difference being is that most men view sex as taking something from a woman (kinda rapey but okay), while us women usually view it as sharing a moment together, whether it be without strings or in a committed relationship.
@@sbrooks904 women don't have the same sexual urge we do. Their libido is a fraction of ours. So it's very different in a woman's case.
The number is kinda critical but the quality of her choices I think is heavier. If her quality/standards are high, the number will not be. She aint just letting anyone smash..
Bingo!!
Good point
This the one💯💯💯💯
THIS RIGHT HERE!!!🎯
A woman could have high standards & still have a high number because she might be attractive & ambitious enough to go after higher quality men. It’s not as if high quality men are going to turn down really attractive women. Social media allows beautiful women to have access to all kinds of high status men. The mentality of the woman is critical.
The reality is...... she'll never be honest on how many bodies she caught if she was out there Wildlin
a nigga like me go already know tho, imma investigate... cause aint no way in hell we going to be going out in public and everybody seen you naked
I've been close with a few strippers in my life. The idea that they're playing it close to the vest is wild crazy talk. Even if they're the one that don't tap clients, that doesn't mean they're not open for business away from the business.
OMG!!!! this dialogue is so special! They are breaking down sexism, gender roles, cultural beliefs, how sex is defined amongst men, its just so many layers! Real authentic conversation! Keep it going!
How many of us had a father growing up? 🤔 A stable home environment, positive reinforcement? Men, were you allowed to show emotion, or were you told to man up? Women, how soon were you kicked out for "acting like you grown" when that wasn't even the case?
I give you dat but hay dats life
Excuses! If you slept around, nobody in their right mind should make you their wife! It shows lack of self control.
@@joskeyo4877same for men. A woman should decline a proposal from a dude who has bodied 100 ladies. Tf...kill that double standard.
@@msgapeachHow many women are going to turn down a proposal from the 6foot5 millionair because he has 100 bodies so that she can be with the 5foot5 man making 45k a year who's a virgin? Women dont value purity the same way that men do, and if you dont see and understand this than your delusional.
Ya'll be sounding crazy with the "same goes for men" shit. Men and women don't live by the same set of biological rules ma'am. Double standards are natural.
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It's a myth that women don't care about a man's number by the way. If you have hundreds of bodies I know that you have chaotic energy tied to you in some way. It's impossible not to if you're laying with that many random people. Not to mention the amount of men that don't take being tested/regular doctor visits seriously. That's even more concerning than the number.
🧢 😂….bitches don’t vet niggas they’re attracted to about things like that
You're right. Women are actually fascinated by men with sexual experience. If your number is low as a man women will wonder what's wrong with you.
Worry about your number. If it’s high, you ain’t getting no high value man to marry you! He may “date” you for 4 years, but his conscience will never let him marry you!
true
@luxury,Exactly. I told my husband this. We just aren't as judgemental, and forgiving. These dudes act like God's and take no responsibility of their actions. I think it's quite atrocious and appalling to hear how men are too carefree about their bodies. Promiscuity speaks volumes about men and women alike. Double standards are used to excuse their wayward behavior. End of the day, get std checks and physicals is what's most important. You can be with 1 person who had aids, and be messed up healthwise for life.
@6:04 -- that's the reason why a 10 body count limit sounds unreasonable, because these dudes looking at it from the perspective of how many women THEY HAVE been with in a year's time. The flip-coin to that, is those dudes who've been with hella-women are the ones partly responsible for those girls having a high body count.
The machismo is cool and all, and great for their own personal confidence; but they're f-cking up the market and putting a lot of girls in the "f-ck zone" (female equivalent to the friend zone), where these girls may get a lot of sex; but no one will marry them.
Exactly we definitely need to make better choices with our D discipline- I definitely know I have had an affect on some of the women I have been with and not in a positive manner - good comment
You made a valid point didn't even think about it like that lmao we definitely have to take some accountability for creating a problem that we complain about lol🤦♂️😂🤣
Appreciate this comment. My thought is of I think about cheating I put myself on said chick’s shoes. I’m older now but when I was young I had fun🤷🏽♂️😂
There is a lot of truth to this statement
I agree bro, but at the same time it's not the dudes fault, it's not like they're forcing the chicks to bang them, it's women's fault for letting anyone hit, they're humans too and make their own decisions, u should also tell females to be more picky.
Shorties with odee bodies be saying asking the amount of bodies is immature 😂😂😂
it dont really matter unless you believe her best moments were with other men
And old....no man does corny shit like that
@@d.biancaklinglesmith6932 fr…I’m a grown ass man pushing 40 I’m not asking no female how many bodies she got. But that’s just me 🤷🏽♂️
@@d.biancaklinglesmith6932 *high body count alert 🚨 🚨🚨
@@justq5505 That’s G💯💯
These guys are like some wild stallions lol. I was with the same woman from the 8th grade up until 2014 we had 3 children together and we just decided it was better to split up. We never married and just left mutually in agreement . I'm 44 yrs old now and being with one woman I can't say I regret it at all . Being single sucks though so if you do find a man or woman who does love you for you stay with them and do all you can to keep them within your means (except gold diggers, toss them to the curb )
So you never tried no other "flavors" up until y'all broke up? I need to test drive my cars before I make my decision to purchase lol don't nobody want a car with high milage🤷♂️😂
Men need to hear this. I was single for years and decided to have a child with my now wife. Appreciate your honesty bro. Finding someone who loves you for all your faults is rare. None of us are perfect at all but when you find that one, keep her/him. Shoutout to all humans who see their hang ups🤘🏽🤘🏽💫💫
@@Bo55edup that’s the beauty about being single fam!😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@@Bo55edup having sex with the woman as a test drive is an excuse to take advantage of emotions on her part and at the same time disrespects your own body. If you cannot be with a woman just for her without having sex before marriage is a sign of the mans immaturity and insecurity in himself. This also shows that the man has no real respect for the woman because she's an easy throw away if she's not to your liking bed wise. If this is the case you're better off being single and not contributing to the massive numbers of fatherless children who are a result of "test driving" before buying! As for different flavors, I have dated all colors of women but once I found the one who wanted me for me and not for what I could give monetarily that's when I chose. Unfortunately our arguing got to a point to where we decided we should separate before it causes mental harm to our children was a correct move.
More men need to be like you, and I believe some are they just frontin..,
This was well done. As a woman, I can appreciate this discussion and the perspective.
I can guarantee multiple men in that room have less then 30 bodies nfs
Based on their answers definitely
Anything over 3 past lovers for a 26-30 yo woman is a deal breaker for a serious relationship, but I’m old fashioned, from a time when women were not all feminism inspired,
These women are for the streets. Most of em have been with 100+ dudes.
Facts
You dont even know 100 ppl bruh @@SleepG-fd2ew
BODYYY COUNTS MATTER FOR BOTH. If you’re a Christian, the rule is for both. This is a worldly view on sex. God honors purity FROM BOTH MEN AND WOMEN.
Yesssss!!! Christian men need to understand this! God wants men and women to respect themselves
@@nana12559. Those men tend to ignore that because they’re sexists who wish for only women to follow roles that require suppression of desires and identity.
If you're not a christian you think we are pieces of meat. I'm so tired of religious people thinking they are above others...
Crazy how as a man you can go into a war, a shoot out, get jumped, face danger head on but a woman with a high body count is forever in our top 3 biggest fears. Although the simps are the exception to the rule y’all not included in this theory y’all got more heart than you get credit for 🤷🏾♂️
I think it correlates to fear of comparison. Like bro she been with x amount of dudes, how can I compete?
@@vadelleharris7378 I believe you have hit the nail on the head.
@@vadelleharris7378 its not even competition its just that the woman's percieved value is lower the more bodies she gets. This possibly might be an instinct of ours where before modern technology there was no test to see if a child was yours or not. If she's loose it increased the odds a child wouldn't belong to you.
I’d argue most simps just lack the knowledge or have a lack of self worth. If you value yourself, you should be looking to date women who value themselves. Women with high body counts obviously do not.
I don’t think it’s a fear it’s just I don’t wanna be Shaking hands with a guy that bent my wife over laughing in my face
The correct answer is don’t even ask this question, or you will always be suspicious or hurt and become a simp. Either that or never find somebody.
I think I’ll never find someone. I’m a girl with 3 bodies. I recently told my now ex boyfriend the truth that I had 2 bodies before him and I know he will look at me different so I decided to just leave. I think I’m gonna get depressed but I believe in God so I’ll just stay alone forever
@@jasminehernandez4914 I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. So turn from sin, surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. Pray to God. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a Godly man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you ❤
@@jasminehernandez4914 I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. So turn from sin, surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. Pray to God. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a Godly man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you ❤
@@jasminehernandez4914
I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. So turn from sin, surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. Pray to God. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a Godly man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you ❤
@@jasminehernandez4914
I don’t know what God you believe in but if you believe in the Christian God, know that in Jesus Christ you are a new creation. If you have repented from your sins, which means asking God for forgiveness of your sin(s) AND turning away from doing those sins. He will forgive you. Surrender your entire life to Jesus. Trust in Jesus and rely on Him. I highly encourage you to seek after/desire a man who has a genuine relationship with Jesus. Someone who loves Jesus and lives by His word. You are made new, and loved so much by God and a relationship with Jesus is the best thing. God bless you.
I'm saying this, I've asked a couple of dudes I've been with and they said over 300! In their 30s...so don't ever as a nigga get upset with my over 10! lol and I'm 36
It's...not the same...
You better believe that 300+ included men that they were sleeping with, not just women.
My thought is this. Women shouldn't give two fks about what a man wants or what he thinks, especially when it comes to body count. You're a fool if you allow a man to judge you by your body count. Keep doing WHATEVER you want to do. If a man doesn't like it, then f'k him.
As a woman, I don’t have a high body count, but I am curious about some things. If body count is so important to men, why do men sleep with so many women and then talk about women having a high body count? The problem with having a high body count starts with men just wanting to sleep with women and not commit/ date that one woman.
Trust me; no woman wants a man with a high body count either; in my mind, that means he’s for the streets, and he has unresolved childhood trauma, too. Remember, we are all human, so anyone can have unresolved issues they don't address and do other things to numb their pain.
I know a woman who sold it to the highest bidder (letting a guy blow her back out) every other night, and some guy married her, so a high body count must not matter that much. Trust me, she showed signs of unresolved childhood trauma, which made her act mean and angry as hell toward people.
only men sleepiing with so many women are chads. You are expecting chads to be loyal to you. 80% of the men around you are not even considered worth pursuing to you and it shows when all the potential men you see around you are racking up numbers.
I don't have a high body count neither
Are you dumb? Do you think we are equal? Answer me that:
Do you think women like virgin men??
Do you think man like virgin women??
We'll never kno anyway fellas💯 As long as the Respect, Loyalty and Nurturing side is there....why stress about the unknown?
That's the truth bcuz we can all lie..
@Skreetz Iz Back facts
@Skreetz Iz Back Everybodys girl has been hit before
@Skreetz Iz Back I feel You bro, but I ain't stressing no bitch or wifey because if she's not a virgin....shorty has been fucked b4. That's Life but She has only 1 time to betray Me n she's done. Case closed
@Skreetz Iz Back You would laugh at a man who's in a relationship with a woman you had sex with before??? Huh??? What's so funny about that? Dude how old are you? SMH
No man really wants to know the answer to this question from they girl/wife.
i love her sm but just turned 19 with 21 is killing me inside
Leave her bro trust me
Leave her bro I kno from experience you not gon get past it
That number is definitely higher bro, you gotta get out.
no disrespect but bro she's for the streets a hoe that's way to much I understand if she was 40 jut 19 wtf
if her count higher than her age get out asap. some girl i’m talking to has 5 at 17 (including me) and i feel sick sometimes
Depends on age.
18-22 = 10 bodies
22- 30 = 20 bodies
Over 30?? Dont ask that girl cos you wont like the answer
Real Talk 😅😅
Over 30 and single? Around 50
26 and still virgin . How about that 🤣 there is definitely category of women that fit into your description butNOT all are the same. I have 2 other friends,they are almost 28,only had 2 partners each. We exist,but y all spend too much time complaining about and focusing on the other ones.
@@ely0335 exactly
@@ely0335 exactly ! 27 & still a virgin. Fine too 😂 but men think we’re too inexperienced so they continually fall back on their words
Too many bodies.. When you meet her exes everytime you go out...
For me 3 is the max body count for a woman. Women with more tend to have more emotional baggage and trust issues.
What's the max body count for a man?
@@Thagomizer unlimited
I hope you think this applies to men too!
@@jjjk2048Yuck. Anything above 10 is just 🤢
Homie you must be some incel virgin who has never been with a woman
Don't ask if you Can t handle the truth. Instead ask her about past MEANINGFUL relationships and the pros and cons she learned about herself from them.
Agreed!
Oh yea? Well dont ever get blood work at the doctor... Because if something is wrong its better to not know.
When I was in HS and I graduated in 02 but 15 and 16 was already on they 3rd and 4th abortion so 10 bodies at 30+y/o ain't happening realistically especially in 2021!
IM SAYINGGGG! 😭😭😹😹 I was at 2 by my senior year! Who gives a fuck?! Lmaoooo.
@@d.biancaklinglesmith6932 was just making a point not attacking you directly. Be easy!
@@d.biancaklinglesmith6932 🕵️♂️🔎You committed a double homicide by senior year?📝Noted..anything else you'd like to disclose ma'am? Lol😂
@@lilphife01 Facts! Especially with social media and dating apps that only made it that much easier for chicks to get even more bodies than before b/c they were only banging dudes locally now they're getting flown out 🛫("flewed out") lol crazy times. Plus with this generation it's even worse with OF chicks monetizing their nudes that we used to get sent to us for free lol I think that's worse than the bodies 🤦♂️🤷♂️
To me not really. It's really not that hard, even in 2021🤷🏽♀️ Maybe I'm just different😂
Y'all are hella naive if you think the chick only got 10. The only ones who are that low, you gotta steal em from their husband they married from high school.
Numbers DONT MATTER BECAUSE She’s NOT GOING TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH anyway 😂
10 and 7 smh…these dudes trying to protect their egos smh
If a female is with 2 guys a year for 10 years that's 20 guys so do the math
I feel like whether or not a condom was used should be a factor in this conversation. Something about skin on skin that just hits different and bonds people more.
The other question is...how much do only BJs or HJs count as "bodies"? Not at all, the same as intercourse or 1/3? LOL!
I think that's why people shouldn't even bother asking. You basically putting in your mind real and/or made up scenarios with other guys that will haunt you.
That number where it gets to be too many to hide, or where she no longer cares, or where she caught "a little something" 🤣 Then it's game over.
I dont want to know and I don't care. Sometimes ppl with a messed up pass has the best character because of the work they put in to change.
Thank you, needed to hear this 🙏
You must be a old head saying some simp crap like that
@@bmoreravensjr5937 yea I am a old head. Been in the game long enough to experience some things to gain wisdom from it. Your ignorance of what I'm saying comes from a lack of experience. However, you not being intelligent enough to know when to listen is another story.
Side note: stop being a key board gangsta. Reminds one of a cell gangsta.
@@Zone15Media first of all i.never type know keyboard gangsta stuff second your knowledge is simpology caused you old and out the dating market.
@@bmoreravensjr5937 I mentioned key board gangsta because you talking about a simp. You talk that in the internet but you wouldn't come at me like that in person. I live in Baltimore. How about we have this conversation in person see if you got the same energy.
I love seeing this as a woman but they are so unrealistic. They can bang into infinity but a woman must have a limit. Men, the thought of someone else entering the body of their woman is mind blowning.
I come from a very unstable family with a lot of trauma. When I was young I was looking for attention and acceptance. I saw love as sex so every men(mostly way to old for my little age) that gave me attention, I gave it up too. Now that I am an adult I realise that many of these men prey on young woman in the same situation as me. I would never make the same choices again as an adult because I have grown from my trauma. Seeing so many people judging woman for making bad decisions when they were younger still breaks my heart. I sometimes still feel like I am worthless because of my mistakes and feel like I don’t deserve love because I am bad and dirty. but I have a man that loves me and treats me like a queen now just as I deserve. And I know I’ve learned from my trauma and all I can do is hug the little girl that I once was and tell her everything will be okay. I wish people would be less ignorant and judgemental. Not everybody has great examples or had a nice youth. I was busy surviving. Emphasise before you judge someone.
Totally agree with you.
Been in a similar situation.
🙏🌷🩵🌷🙏
😢I feel you
Ok so? I didn't have an easy youth either and was busy surviving too, but even as a man I never came up with any excuses and am still a virgin waiting for marriage. I wish women would stop coming up with excuses and calling men ignorant, especially when men like me just want what we are ourselves. Sorry, but no self respecting man would ever marry a highly promiscuous women. How could he, when he knows how mentally devastating this could be to his son if he ever learns of his mothers past? No man with a mother like that could ever have a sense of honor.
Men worry about there past
While women worry about there future
imagine being in your 30s and thinking women your age is only gonna have 10 bodies LMAOOOOO
All women aren’t whores
@@joedon-hb4nl Shiiiii
@@joedon-hb4nl exactly
Y’all some thots
All these niggas don’t live in reality
Mindblowing! I got married a virgin at 35. It was on Tyra Banks’ show. Had been a nike/reebok model & Miss Black Ca. I spent my time traveling missions & being a CEO. It helped, however, to have 4 very large older brothers. I never felt I missed out. It’s about the circles you run in, I married a CEO as well.
It's one thing if I don't know any of
the dudes. But I can't wife up a girl that been wit mad dudes around me. But men and women are two diff creatures.
Let's not even mention the shorties that got trains ran on em!!!!😟👀
Ain’t it mane 🤦🏾♂️
Why men so touchy bout this, like some are screaming for 10? Knowing they done did 10 by the age of 22 easy?
"If women & men had there body count marked on there foreheads. Life would be easier for society."
Let’s be honest a female not finna tell you her actual body count and let’s be honest it’s part of being grown who keeps track of that
I know mine and my dude knows my body count the honest number
@@lee-lee1596 love that honesty
People who don't keep count of how many people they've slept with are the ones you need to watch out for the most, because to them sex is nothing more than a thing they do to get rid of their excitement, it's not really that important. And people who dont care about body count usually have a lot as well, just like a guy who has sucked dick before will try to convince you that it doesn't make you gay to do so, its perfectly normal from time to time.
Past behavior is a good predictor of future behavior. Any man that plans to have a long term monogamous relationship should make an effort to gauge body count. Part of being grown is taking precaution and not being reckless with whoever you decide to wife up. I would also recommend women do the same for their potential LTR.
15 max...one for every 2 years since she was 14 They be wilding in their high school days😂😂 either way we will never know the truth so it's not even worth asking.
Y'all have GOTTA stop equating weird stats like "bodies" with genuine maturity and growth. Fuck sake bruh. It's not seeing the forest for the trees.
🤣🤣🤣 look maaan everybody got a past, Yall just want women to lie
idk man if a girl loses her v card at 16? 2 guys a year by the time she 30 is 18 bodies
U mean 28
@@larrybrown9180 exactly 28 bodies
@@larrybrown9180 mybad b i was trippen
Not all women get around like that !
After watching these videos, I see why women don’t want to tell - 7 bodies, when these men are in their 40s, is INSANE 😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣. That’s like finding someone who’s never driven above the speed limit, never farted, and never missed a day of school - all in one
If she went to an hbcu, she’ll do 10 freshman year.
😭😂😂😂😂😂
lmao
Not how many bodies it’s how many of those bodies you know. That’s what men really care about
I know a chick that just turn 26 w/ 50 bodies . No lie . I asked her yesterday @ work smh
LMAOOOOO wtf
@@WatchYourMouth97 I swear to Allah
Stop asking. It is childish. Also none of your business. Funny to debate, but in reality should never even be brought up.
Foh fam
Exactly!!
Plain n simple if you don't catch her by time she's 25 at the latest she's going to have a high body count period.
10 is tooo high these guys are buggin!! It all depends on the age you met the chick! If I meet a chick 21 and she tells me 10 that’s a problem! At 30 I think 3 is a decent number
10 bodies is crazy Lmaoo I can’t get over the wifey over 5
That’s a fact. We gotta think of how many bodies we had too. But it still bothers us if a shorty has 40 to 50 bodies
Nobody has that many unless they are sex workers
40-50? Whole MF football team oh naw lol
@@tera4603 🤣🤣
Who has that many bodies😮
Depends on age
What if she’s 30?
@@kojooppong3660 I would expect no more than 13 but realistically it probably be 20 or more 😑
5 the definitive number period
@@loucain5299 I feel you. 20 is high, but reasonable.
Who cares how many bodies? I’m different than any other dude. If she comes into it with respect that’s all it is. All you are doing is giving benchmark numbers for women to use to run game FOH. I see a lot of fragile egos in the room.
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Men gotta earn their bodies woman get it thrown at them, i can accept anything 20 or less
10? Yall wildin'! Math right. Every one of those dudes is gonna be single for life. It's not about the number of bodies, as much as where they're buried. Chicks lie about their bodies any way.
Facts.. the be playing subtracting like shyt.
The numbers argument is always a childish one. I want a woman who possesses wifey qualities. Qualities that if I had a kid I know my kid is in great hands if we were to separate. How many “bodies” she has? Don’t care. I want a woman who is sexually experienced and can please me.
Think about marriages. These the same dudes who want a woman with low bodies but also want them to be whores in bed. Good luck finding that because they are NOT in abundance. Highest chance u get with a chick who has a low body count and is average in bed. Now you stepping out on the relationship to fulfill your sexual fantasies. 🤷🏽♂️
Speaking from experience I had a woman who had wifey qualities. Amazing woman. Hustler. But she was average in bed. Wasn’t open to oral sex. Her head game was weak. I ended up cheating on her with a chick who I know had bodies (3 kids 2 different husbands). Never asked but she was open to any and everything.
Us men don’t know what we want. Just like woman don’t. No excuse for me cheating but I’m being realistic to why I did and why this whole body count shit dumb. Even if you’re not roxxy Reynolds in bed I want to enjoy the sex. Low body count woman the odds not in their favors. And the exception to the rules don’t count
Not all of us. All of us don't lie about our body count. Hoes life about their body count. That's facts and real life.
Nah they ain’t wilding. They want a respectable woman.
Alot of females is just gonna lie.
How sad it is when we think 10 is high. How far we've gon from the Lord
Touchy Topic homie, salute and Respect
I think it’s generational tbh. As a 26 year old I’m becoming a man in a sexually liberated era. So when I get with a woman I don’t even think nor concern myself with her past. I mean that doesn’t mean I want something ran through it honestly don’t care long as it ain’t crazy. At 26 if she got 26 bodies I wouldn’t be mad. But over her age personally no I couldn’t. 26 sounds like a lot but when you consider woman at that age been teenagers, college, and adult life it’s not much at all
Yeah ur mistaking then. A disaster waiting to happen. You don’t even care if your future wife was promiscuous before u sad asf
Corny
You already starting off on the wrong foot
I believe body counts have a correlation with the environment you're in as well. It's unlikely that you'll come across a chick from the hood, mid twenties, with a body count under 10. Now say you go to a small town in the midwest. It's not guaranteed, but the odds are in your favor. Just sayin.
So basically you advocating interracial relations to even the odds 😄😄
hate to break the bad news to y’all fellas.. but none of these females got less than 10.. NONE
I do
Math said “who in here got less than 30 bodies?” His mans said “yo what we doin here?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Crickets lol 😂
7:45 Some of them brothas got less than 30 bodies they just don't wanna say 😂😂
I'll say most American Women have a high body count during high school years and then after that including college.
I know a woman with 26 bodies ..I feel man don't want a woman with alot of bodies.. Because they don't want to deal with the competition..26 bodies means you would be 27 now where do you fall in line compared to the others?
I can tell the fellas on the episode have been running around a lot, especially the homie Math. Hynaken is burnt out. He’s been with too many strippers to care. Anything over 5 is too many for my taste. A monogamous relationship is traditional, so I’d only want to be with more of a traditional woman. Women who sleep around usually have mental, emotional, & spiritual issues. They don’t go to therapy & develop bad habits to cope with it. Those type of women struggle to pair bond & build a long term relationship. For all that trouble, I mine as well be single & continue to grow as an individual.
Thats not right considering alot of women regret their choices and are doing what they can to be better and deal with their problems differently and are trying to be more godly. Its not fair to act like women cant try and do better too.
@@skizlemcnizle a lot of women are not trying to be more Godly. I’m not acting like women can’t do better. I’m saying I’m not dealing with that type of woman. Choices have consequences & I’m not taking on that baggage.
@@Skywalker721 personally I feel like 2 is the limit for me I just see it as woman are inherently valuable and if you’re foolish enough to undermine that for your own self greed and decrease that value by letting unqualified men have a piece there’s no worth, a man doesn’t care about a woman’s job, money, car, status, we just want a few simple things, virgin or low body count, submissiveness, attractive, respectful
@@Mr.Harris. I can’t knock you. Good luck to finding women with 2 or less in today’s society. If you do find her, let me know where to look. 😂
@@skizlemcnizle shut up
Proverbs 31 woman, the rare gem.
Listen this ain't popular but 30+ partners is crazy. Explains a lot
depends on the era you grew up in.. I'm a 80s baby so imma say 5-10
Agreed! 80’s 90’s women might have 5-10
@@khandibaugh23 huh come on now.....they don't tell you about the hoe phase but they only got 5 to 10 SMH. Yeah guys really don't want to know the truth.
@jman1562001 I can only speak for myself and some of my friends. Not saying all.
@jman1562001 Question, when do men get tired of messing with so many women?
@@khandibaugh23 I think that's a choice tbh. If you as a man have options more then likely you will exercise them at your discretion. The flipside is if you get good at getting women you realize the grass ain't always greener and your faced with a different dilemma. Some men I know become so emotionally detached, it bleeds into affecting other areas of your life because the hunt for new puss never ends. Affects family and even your good male friend relationships. You choose to be monogamous based on certain tradeoffs that work for you in the long run. Most men ime pair up and willing to sacrifice for a compatible women at the time. If you don't have options you may typically settle or go at it a alone.
If the chick is wild, and she likes you, she would never tell the truth. There’s no real way to know what the chick’s been doing! I guess the body count doesn’t really matter unless she has children. But, I ain’t even dealing with a chick with kids, so… 🤷🏿♂️
The number don't matter, because she's NOT going to give you the truth if it's something crazy anyway...
I am
@@Jayne-Ninel lol
I think it depends on the age you catch her. Because if u been with a chick since she was 21 its a possibility its only a 1-3 count. But a 35-40 yr old woman can possibly have a 20-30 count. I mean some woman get lied to by other men because they are hot and the man wld say and give a lot just to hit, and in a year a woman can have 4-5 of those not including the ones who they chose to hit on gp. So 10 is more than likely very low for a single older woman.
30 and 3 body count.
If that happens to her 4-5 times it’s not her fault but that makes her a fool and incapable of being able to weed her way through legit one of the most obvious things in existence.
It depends on timing, age, etc... YOU OUT HERE 19 WITH 10 BODIES GAH DAMN....
My girlfriend 19 and she just told me she has 13 I literally cried
@@448fundz my girl was 22 with 7 bodies I still think that's pushing it but I know I have had more bodies then that in one year so I can't complain fr
@@upfront864 22 with 7 ain’t bad but 19 with 13 is crazy jus giving that mf away
@@upfront864 how so many ? 😭
1min 30sec, buddy said 32 and 10 like it was points and rebounds 🤣
Did anyone ever see the highly-underrated film "Chasing Amy" starring Ben Affleck and Joey Lauren Adams? You know, Adams plays Alyssa, a lesbian woman who intrigues Holden played by Ben Affleck. This dude has the balls to think he can actually score with a lesbian! (He's the future Batman. What do you expect?) Anyway, Holden goes after Alyssa and eventually wins her love and trust, although it is clear from jump that she wants nothing to do with men. Alyssa falls in love with Holden and actually switches teams for him. Later on, Holdon discovers Alyssa had a scandelous threesome with two other men while she was in college, so he dumps her. He thought he was the only man to ever rock her world. Well, I guess that means she's actually bi. Holden is mad as hell that he wasn't the first man to pop her cherry. That is how crazy we men think! If the woman is loyaly riding with you, and everybody's health checks out, her past is her past. Sorry for the spoiler!
Going to have to check this movie out.
In another one of Hoffa’s videos, its brought up that men either want to be the first or the best. This right here plays right into it🤷🏽♀️
Also, that Clerks scene about 37 Dicks
getting a train ran is definitely a deal breaker, i know WHORES who dont even do trains
Most of the discoveries and technological advances that we enjoy are because it's in a mans nature and biology to be the first or best to do something. Men risk their lives to be the first to climb to the talles mountain, shot into space, go miles and miles under water, take something that exists and level it up.
A woman’s body count will never matter because she’s never gonna tell you the real number anyway 😂😂😂 so why even ask plus that’s lil boy immature/insecure shit if you’re feeling her just roll wit it & stop trying to find ways/reasons to cut her off b/c you’re looking for a escape cus you’re catching feelings lol
This how u end up divorced with all yo assets gone lol. Don’t settle bruh. Go get what u want
@slimm7848 I think u insecure if u want a many that’s stronger than u , taller than u and get more money than u , sounds stupid? Men and women are different
@@LoverboyB_Pookie You’ll never get what you want only what you know & see & there’s no woman in the world whose going to actually tell you the truth about herself only what she thinks will make her look better in your eyes & the eyes of others lol
@@LoverboyB_Pookiethat’s a female bruh😂
@@slimmthagawd i disagree, there are some women who dont give a fuck and will tell you things
And that depends on the culture of the person. Not all men are the same & not all women are the same.
If she went to college….. if she’s in a sorority….. if she bad… you really looking at a +10 body count! Fellas we walking around with 50+ bodies and we want the ladies to have 10? Naw lol
Yes nigga
50? That's Playa Playa numbers
Those are unrealistic numbers. You gotta think years , weeks , months . For a man it's going to be high numbers more than 10+ and same for a women 10 +. Any bet probably 20 & better.
Ok my number is way more than these guys are saying but there are reasons and circumstances as to why. First, none of my dudes ever crossed paths. The deed was never made public. Some of it happened before 21 when I was figuring me out. Some happened in my 20s when I thought I was grown. A bit happened in my 30s when I grew up and now in my 40s it only been one. One of the reasons was my environment tried to dictate that I should play a mans game. Well I failed miserably. I am a relationship woman for sure.
Go ahead player😄😄😄
I can respect and if i was told that and it was the truth thats solid its the ones who lie or just dont want cop to it it’s definitely a double standard but alot of things are we all know it goes both ways
@@patchauto I agree with you. I don’t care about a guys number on the flip side. I love experience, analysis, decision making and growth. I’d RATHER a man (with high numbers) that chooses to be monogamous because he respects our situation vs someone that just wants to knock down everything. I don’t fault a dude for being in the triple digits either. As long as that’s not you now.
Not at all
Y'all think majority of women out here sleeping around like that? I must be a rare case then. LOL🤣 #Zero
Exactly, like not all women get around like that 😂. But then again it may be social pressures to do so , plus some people are not as good as controlling their hormones .
Y'all mad insecure why do y'all care how many bodies she have if it's just sex to you? Personally I'm waiting till marriage I don't deserve someone and they don't deserve me unless we're fully committed.
Sadly, Most people male or female weren't talked to about their bodies.