How to overcome a sex addiction? #1 Real cause revealed here!
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- Overcoming Sex Addiction - The root cause revealed so we can heal the root instead of endlessly fighting the symptoms.
Only when we know the real cause, we can heal the root and therefor automatically liberate ourselves from every other ADDICTION-symptom too, like not being able to stop WITH ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION, SEX cravings, moodiness, bad temper, loneliness, relational problems etc. You don’t have to feel ashamed for the fact that you are addicted to something. Because without any exception, most people are first addicted to something or someone, before the real root of the problem arises.
The only difference might be that some people are better in hiding their addictions behind a mask than others. Until their mask cracks obviously.
Only if we know what the real root of the problem is, we will know how we can STOP OUR SEX ADDICTION completely and for once and for all.
A SEX ADDICTION comes down to FEAR, fear for feeling what we would feel, without any distraction from SEX.
To end the root of the problem together with all it’s symptoms for once and for all, and therefor to shine the light onto our ‘dark’ addictions or fears, I came up with a drawing to show you.
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I'll see you in the video's 💎🍀🙏🏼
THIS VIDEO NEEDS MORE VIEWS! It's truly opened up my mind
Thanks Reema.
God your profile pic didn’t help me ... 😛😛😛😛😛😛😛
Damn you're sexy
Beedi aneek teezek ya
Reema p
I noticed when i with other people my emotions disappear but when I'm alone they go crazy
What do you mean disappear...
@@ahmedsendagire331 I think he means, he's able to put them in the back of his head
I'm the same way. Sometimes when I show my emotions with some people I feel rejected by them and I shut down again. I'm working on not caring what others think about me as much.
That's because it's not socially acceptable
@@SsSs-dc4ys No. They just have a limiting belief that it's not socially acceptable. Others don't react like that because they don't have the same mental block.
The only time I don't think of sex is when I'm having sex.
Stig Lauren really that’s weird I can’t stop thinking about sex even more so whilst having sex......
Same
I think about how I’m going to get my next sex
Hi Stig, you can watch the 4 free theoretical videos at: www.alive-academy.com, enjoy your liberation process!
Alexa Mccoy Me too. It has been pretty bad. With me it started after a really bad break-up. I have always had a high libido but after the heartbreak I just wanted distraction and started to look for sex everywhere. It spiraled out of control. I think I am a bit authistic as well because I can’t break the vicious cycle.
The eyes have a way to manipulate our hearts. The very moment we see a person we desire, we are in trouble.
I can't make eye contact with anyone without this happening... becoming a real problem actually
Easier said than done. But I know it's up to me to cure myself. Thank You so much, now I know how to deal with it.✌️
hi, did u make it?
Facts cause im over here like i still don't get. How to fix myself
Hutikali GlassHalfFull yes same gete
Just fix ur self, duh 😭
@Diana G Hey i don't mind fricking a demon 😳😳😳
(For legal reasons that's a joke)
be authentic don't compare self with any other people.
know what you want , be single minded and focus on what really make you happy.
Change behaviours and habits that are stopping from being who you really are
be assertive stay true to yourself.
You nailed it! But sometimes the cycles of the past can repeat itself. It takes a huge effort
I see his lips moving but not hearing a word of what he is saying. I'm going to watch this again because the comments seems like everyone else understands this.
I swear
Same lol
this is what I was looking for....i'm a big fan of digging to the root of problems and solving them...we are never born to have everything so running after everything is just exhausting
I am addicted to all of those he mentioned. Loneliness, behaviour change, moodiness, problems
I remember as a child, I took it really hard when my mom and dad got a divorce. It was like how is this possible. I believe a lot of emotions to work on about this in my recovery today.
What does this mean
I’m going to cry he literally just told me what it is why I am dealing with this...now that I know I will work harder to fix this!!
Aww help me too bestie
Bro me too. My masturbation led me to getting a blinking TIC disorder but luckily, this video helped me so much on curing myself...this guy made me cry...
I also want to kill my sex drive😭😭😭.please give me some tips
@@proudexmuslim2354 Check Samson Society or Pure Desire. You alone cannot heal yourself. You need to understand all the picture
Wow! "Pain feels like restlessness" that was an awesome line!
Yea what if you live with sex addict? Im codependent... have no idea how it all happened but it did.. it is hell
Hi Sacha. Every relationship that we have, teaches exactly something about ourselves. Being codependent means that the 'hell' that you are living in as you describe is your preferred distraction, rather than feeling your own unsolved pain and fears when you are alone without distraction. If you solve the root of your own fear and pain, than your live is going to change from 'hell' to 'heaven'. If you haven' t subscribed to my more in depth videos: www.alive-academy.com
Sasha Zova nothing wrong in it
People who are sexually addicted need to watch this
I am a sex addict...i tried to stop...i will try find the cause of this. To prevent those symptomps..
If you need any help with making it even more clear & visible, don't hesitate to watch the 3 free videos on my website: www.alive-academy.com
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At 58 , I have one hour sexual intercourse with my 20 years younger woman, daily.
Am I addicted ?
Ok now I understand more of the WHY....I just don't know how to get to the HOW to change the cycle...
Iyanna Smith same
Here you go .. www.alive-academy.com
This should help
Idk if its really free or not i just saw him tag this link
Settingcaptivesfree.com
Iyanna Smith Are you a woman ?
From now I will never watch porn and will Never indulge in sexual things, I will change every thing ,enough is enough, I've tried and failed, tried and failed but this time I will not fail whatever happens I will reach my goal
So, how’s it hangn?
Simple and an excellent video. Wishing you most and more
This has made me to realise that i was in the dark😭😭😭😭
I need help
Hi Brandon, check my 3 free videos that will give you clarity and help you to overcome the root of the problem together with all its symptoms: www.alive-academy.com
Me too
Me too
Feeling lonely without a guy
@@maryjones293why do you feel lonely without a guy?learn to enjoy being alone instead of feeling lonely?
Why tf was i crying while listenning to him
The inner voice knows what you have to let go, but you don't want to. Perhaps it's too precious
Because he speaks the true and you feel it .
Can you share that stuff with a therapist and not in comments thanks
This is very compassionate and very intelligent. Bipolar gave me periods when indeed I had to have sex and more sex, and it was harrowing. On the other hand, now at 62, something in me regrets these excesses and the temporary high that they gave me. I guess the human being is never satisfied, lol, and finding the right middle is certainly not simple
I have Bipolar too are you married ok
U opend my eyes to one thing, in always jn search of something to reduce my pain 💔💔💔💔
It is harder, however, when the root lies in your childhood. My friend has been raped by their father at a young age. Once they started discovering masturbation they used it as a way to relive stress and escape reality. So their brain learned that sex is a way to deal with stress and this learning process can't be undone that easily. They're almost 31 now and their sex addiction once got so worse they didn't want to live anymore. They have been living with this addiction for over 20 years now. I asked them if they wanted to go to therapy but they said they don't have any time atm. They're in 7 chat groups with other sex addicts but it doesn't work for them. They don't want to feel pain, they said that they just have to "deal with it" but I can clearly see them struggling because they get horny whenever they're stressed or for no reason at all. Any ideas?
I think they say deal with it means that they will just continue until it get worse so they didnt feel the pain
Because if they stop they will just feel the ultimate pain
I just stop and feel the pain for about 4 months
@@TypeKK then therapy is the way?
Maybe force them into therapy kicking and screaming idk
U opend my eyes to one thing, in always jn search of something to reduce my pain 💔💔💔💔the problem is I dont know why i feel so painful.
Thanks so much!! The guy i like has this problem and i really want him to see the way i do so i looked up sex addiction for possible help
The eyes make a person lust for Another person
It’s the fucking eyes
Am not addicted and i didnt done those kind of things in my life but still i don't want the feeling. I dont want to see a girl in my life.. help me..
You can watch the 4 free theoretical videos at: www.alive-academy.com, enjoy your liberation process!
Sex
Brother you have to read more about Bible
How lucky u r
I can't have ONE day with my bf watching Netflix or whatever because of sex. I believe we both have a sex addiction and everytime after we do it I feel terrible and ashamed
Thanks for you radical honesty Sophie. To get more insight into the root cause, I have created 4 free videos that build upon this video at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process!
You have that problem I have another problem
@@jashwanthreddy7f490 what
My husband is the opposite 😩
This is called lust
Treat it like everything else, too much of one thing can have a negative effect. Too much alcohol, drugs fatty foods etc. At least we have had that experience that no one talks about but you'd be surprised how many men have tried it. It's better than being a lonely virgin or sexual predator! Also think of the girls, I'm sure it's not the job they really wanted once they left school and they don't brag about it to their friends and family! Try and filter it, knowing you can go anytime you like and before you know it you have not been for six months or so? It's the oldest job in the world and boys and girls just want to help each other out in this thing we call life!. I live close to a city where it's easy to access the service but if I lived 200 miles away I'd be stuffed! Control and discipline is what you need and don't see it as a problem after all as men were just helping those girls going through their degree course and they are helping us destress! lol!
Your not supporting their education your supporting their pimps and possibly supporting a drug addiction
@Diana G shaming people with your religion doesn’t help
Its gotten bad I found myself online looking for prostitutes
I appreciate this video ... there is a lot of gold in here ...but I do not believe that addressing and facing childhood fears is enough or it will result in a diminishing of the symptoms and manifestations of addictive behaviour. The formula is too simple. Addiction is much more comlplex than that. In my experience recovery is a lifelong journey requiring a revolution in mind, body, spirit.
Thanks for your appreciation. When we inject our body constantly with fight and flight biochemicals like cortisol, adrenaline,...out of fear, our body gets also out of balance physically (biochemically, hormonally, ...)Our brain gets in incoherence and will send incoherent messages to our organs, which is the actual root cause of diseases. It might be a lifelong journey, when we don't truly know how to flush out the physical, mental and spiritual root cause and restore the imbalance therefore I invite you to watch the 4 free videos that build upon this video at: www.alive-academy.com
The Bible says to RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU. Resist is a choice. You choose it. Then you choose it again - and again. The alternative is to hang a millstone around your neck and throw yourself into the sea because you are offending "little ones". Do you realize porn promotes sex trafficking which means the abduction of little girls all over the world. Your contribution causes these girls to become sex slaves in an industry that destroys them. If you had empathy - it would be easy for you to RESIST!
This single video helped me, i will watch the other videos. Thank you.
This has made me to overcome my fears
I need this 😢
god please I'm dying to lose my virginity and those people want to quit having sex wtf
S.O.S! Save us!! Save our souls!!! Thanks a lot.... It's Great!!!!!
Thanks for sharing your appreciation. When you need more help and clarity along your liberation process, make sure to check my 4 free videos @ www.alive-academy.com
How could I be addicted to somthing I’ve never had
@@ShiroUsagiArt k there bud you do didnt have to agree
But no idea to stop sex urge
has anyone problems with prostitutes addiction?? I need some help, I'm a very introvert guy so that my relantionships with women are not quite good specially with the ones I'm attracted to, that's the main reason I'm dealing with depression, being rejected by girls constantly led me to resort to prostitutes and since 4 years ago I pay for sex at least four times a year and I want to stop now !! I feel pathetic. I want to keep my money in my pocket and to stop thinking about sex all the time. I want to feel confident enough to cope better with female rejection.
Really sexual addiction is one of the things that roll up my mind
Omg same 😣
Part of the problem is true addiction is often thought of as a disease so I think just about every addict wants to ends the addiction but very few do. Why is this? To keep it simple our brain changes how it processes creating impulses and that feeling of “I need” I believe once the brain makes this change we need external help. A controlled environment without triggers is our best bet but our society is very misunderstood and often has a negative stigma to addiction.
please dont make fun of my english cuz this not my first language,well i accept the fact im sex addict cuz i dont have gf i dont have family i can talk too im all alone in this country ,but i make good momey undertable cuz im illegal other side i feel alone..soo alone i tried crstal meth with my friends i liked the erotic feelings.since i dont have no money issues i spent $$$$$ on cam girls n they satisfied my needs but i know meth is not good for ur health,my question is when u soo lonely no body loves u how come u vcan get rid of addiction can any one help me please ty
I’ve spent years pre occupied with trying to aquire sex. I’ve wasted money, sacrificed my finances and my integrity to fill the void. I’m 35 still no healthy relationships with women but tons of impulsive and sometimes unsafe sexual encounters . Also addicted to my phone, the internet, social media. I’m constantly distracted and when I’m not I’m constantly thinking living in fantasy land where I have the perfect life scenario . It’s brutal and it’s driving me to want to kill myself. The overwhelming urges for pleasure . The dopamine. I can’t take it. I feel so alone and so lost. Thank god I don’t have any substance vices. I don’t drink or do drugs but the dating apps the constant prowl for compulsive sexual encounters, the hours each day wasted on scrolling Facebook , the compulsive shopping it’s so bad
You aren't alone, I have been dealing with the same for so long and I am so tired of it. Just know you aren't alone in this and we can beat it.
@@JaeDaeDae thanks man I appreciate it !
I would like to speak to you …😩pls
What if your root is a chronic illness you cant change?
Then the manifestations are actually realistic responses to stimuli which is painful.
Nice convoluted ramblings though
If the root cause is a chronic illness, I suggest you watch this video: ruclips.net/video/rWOVtTbLHpo/видео.html
This is pretty hard to understand.
I want to get rid of this!
I struggle so much, everyday..... its really hard. Feels like an uncontrollable urge to f***. Its an addiction like no other... you are addicted to the human body. Not like a drug where you take it out of your world.... people are everywhere. Very upsetting tbh. :/
I understand Louis, but once you solve the root cause of the urge for distraction, the addiction will be flushed out together with it. Check my 4 free additional videos that build upon this video to get more insight in the actual root cause at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation of struggle!
@M B thank you. I do call out to God. He helps me when I'm struggling. Thank you for your kind words. I am stronger than this evil.
Chop them balls off bro
Your Not Alone. I Feel It From Time To Time
The Bible says to RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU. Resist is a choice. You choose it. Then you choose it again - and again. The alternative is to hang a millstone around your neck and throw yourself into the sea because you are offending "little ones". Do you realize porn promotes sex trafficking which means the abduction of little girls all over the world. Your contribution causes these girls to become sex slaves in an industry that destroys them. If you had empathy - it would be easy for you to RESIST!
Yeah ..im too hurt..maybe this can stop me for a while..im a very good hearted hero except this thing.👍
Once we solve the root cause it doesn't stop for a while, but once and for all, because there won't be any 'need' anymore to look for relieve in distractions like sex. Check out the 4 free theoretical videos at: www.alive-academy.com if you are interested in solving the very root of the symptom.
You are so handsome!! x
Can u tell me how can I?
Dutch Accent. 🙂
All the people that suffers from that evil sickness pray a lot to God and Jesuschrist so they can give you the strength to overcome that evil sickness, stay away from porn, don't watch or read porn, ask for help with a psychiatrist that's very important, because that's a mental health problem, I hope all the people who suffers from that sickness they heal completely and find peace, light and good mental health that everybody deserves. And sorry if you don't understand me, english is not my first language. Have a good day.
🙏👋🙏👋
So THIS is what Meditation is unravelling! - In addition to other wonders. Thanks for explaining!
How to solve the root pain and fear .wht kind of the pain is it
Man, why the hell did you draw the brain like that?
Oops that sounds like a sex addict speaking
Anyway, good stuff! Thanks for the video!
The biggest misleading and misguiding video on sex addiction, fear this fear that. Sex addiction has to do with how your brain is wired from childhood trauma and the urges that it causes, it has nothing to do with fear or lack of abundance.
Ok, I will overcome sex addiction by repressing myself and masturbate. Porn, here I come. Damn, whatever I do, someone else will judge it as "bad", and I was doing fine enjoying being myself, but Im bad, I get it.
I love this man. Thank you
hey this isn't roast but i just kinda found it funny
you look like Spock from star trek if he became Russian
Woah! That diagram was so insightful. It helped me to genuinely understand the plight of a sex addict. Thank you so much!
Mae galfriend left me without a reason I really got hrtbroken nd was unable to take it I started watching lesbian relationship just to get maeslf distracted so tat I won't think abt her nd am really addicted please help me
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Exactly what started it for me
also add in working out, sleeping well, eating well
I bet this guy is a s** addict before✌😁
thanks for sharing sexual immorality is ruining my life but still praying that I can overcome the challenge. May God bless you.
Same here! He is faithful and just to forgive us
Brilliant and straight to the point, pretty surprised to find the correct direction. How can I correlate this video with the scriptures of the Bible
You are truly blessed. Going through some hard times in my life and I've actually got back to journaling and I'm seeing how one thing I did correlates to the next compensation... It's scary and it's dark. I'm excited to see those 4 videos. Thanks for standing up and helping us when 'we' are too weak to stand for ourselves.
Thanks! Just follow the steps and experience for yourself your unharmed untouched light, that might be buried underneath a layer of darkness.
Yes thedude has really put words in my mouth too. Tom, I salute your efforts and professionalism besides the elegance with which you put the most important essence of life itself into a logical awareness for one and all to rid themselves from fear, anxiety and dis-ease of all kinds and experience an abundance of inner joy and liberation
You just nailed it !
Funny lol
Dude got the perfect jawline
Now,i know to cure my self.
Well I search this up.
I wonder why i am doing so many things art skate music and many thing always going back and forth and i wonder why but now i know i was limiting myself cause i am scared thank a lot brother... God bless you...
You are welcome!
I've been addicted to sex for so many years. I married my ex teacher because of the amount of sex we was having. I've tried to get help and other ways but it's too hard. My wife makes me more addicted every time. I got easily seduced by curvy women. I even had kids with my wife just because the moment was too good. Now we have four kids within three years.
You are really great you changed my mind. Thanks a lot
I believe that mine stemmed from child sexual trauma. I was triggered as an adult after I felt betrayed by my husband (nothing to do w cheating). Its been a big problem for almost 20 yrs now. Im going for total abstinence from anything sexual. My thoughts keep going to sex but I talk myself down. It hasn't even been a week since I decided. I heard something about not being able to FEEL due to a sex addiction as in not being able to really connect to others.
I feel that to be true for myself.
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I totally need mental help i hope God forgives me when I get my mind off it forever
Same 😔 but God won't forgive?.. I think-😭😭
@unVivo ohhh okay ! Thank you so much!
@unVivo aww yes tysmmm!!! 🥺💖
@@iimx4270 god will forgive over and over. At least if you believe in Jesus
Never give up...God bless you
what if my fear is a traumatic experience that i am scared of occurring again?
thank you so much.
this video is on point
How will i resolve the pain that was due to past bad thing that happenned?..how?how to resolve it without going thru it?😭
There is actually a way to flush out all unsolved trauma once and for all without having to re-live it. I suggest you to watch my 4 free video, among which proof you can too @ www.alive-academy.com 😊❤️💎🙏🍀 Enjoy your complete liberation process of the untouched and unharmed blank slate you actually are.
My band and I professionally produced a brand new song in Chicago that we posted today on RUclips that sheds light on betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. Please click on the sleeping tiger to the left and it will take you right to the song. Thank you for listening, if you do.
I have a sex addiction I’m getting to the point of want to see hookers and I notice it’s affecting me mentally
Thank you this video helped me a lot
I want to stop this behavior but I don't know exactly what my fears are
Hi Emily, I have 4 more videos that build upon this video that will give you the insight in the root cause of your fears at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process!
At 58 and lonely , sex with the same young woman one hour daily is the best recreation as well as exercise. I don't think its addiction.
Observe your sexual fantasies...
This documentary hits the nail on the head for me
I don't know what my hurt is
Tom I have an insight
I saw this white circle ⚪️ and I said “Oh yeaaah compassion is spiritual” the circle represented a feeling which was covered up , do u recognize this
One word: antidepressants. Nothing is better at taking away your mojo.
That cycle sounds like the way the addiction progresses through time..
Hi I m from India I can't understand this
But u r too good
Jaybharti your probleme is genune and the way of you speak it tells that you are a good soul ....i wanna help you understand what he wanna say. you can wapp me on 8840321540... i really really love to help people out.
@@shivanayak5939 what did he meant
Idk man seems very good idea to me to buy a cabriolet and enjoy night rides alone while I am single, might be a distraction of whatever you are describing but an enjoyment along the path
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I like sex it's not taboo why do people always treat like it's taboo lol
because sex makes babies who are helpless and need a committed set of parents as a couple to raise them well
Nah it becomes a problem when you get addicted it caused confusion between love and lust ... And it's Damm annoying when you start to lust over your friend friend girl unconsciously it's really really a problem
Very informative
Thanks Jay, I'm glad you receive it that way!
Hello fellow mgtow brother ✊
I cannot relate....but I can empathize with people....who are trying to recover and/or heal themselves.
I'm trying not to judge....but this whole issue TRIGGERS ME!
I'm dealing with my own problems....no one is perfect.....so people must fix themselves.
Money, 💰 , Power 🔋, fleshly desires and,/ or an Man -nor a Woman.....will heal you.
Use this diagram.....to help heal yourself
I'll be 🙏praying for you.
Stay Encouraged, TV
HOW?
40 years of pain and trauma , and irritable discontent all my life, 12 step work done , 3 years of inner work , and still it gets me !!
Have you been to therapy and/or would you be willing to share your experiences?
Maybe the pain is too enormous. Bless
We are Social beings! Spiritual beings that are misguided children!
Main problem. Is attraction towards other guys 👫👬👭
so you're gay? or bi?
@@SuperLucylola I don't know good thing is that i dont trust anyone easily people are usually double faced
@@sharad7340 yup wolf in sheeps clothing. most people only care about what they get out of you
god please I'm dying to lose my virginity and those people want to quit having sex wtf
Wow! Thank you… the way u explained it blew my mind!! It makes so much sense not just about sex but everything that someone could be addicted to
Holly fuck dude. This hits more than just sex addiction.
I know what the origination was. Nearly destroyed my soul.
FEAR |---------------------------------------------------| LOVE
Donnie Darko💙
are you dutch ime confused
I am from Belgium.
Im dutch
Can people used sex to forget a little a bout stress and worrying?