Exposing My Secret Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
- (Video podcast available on Spotify & RUclips)
Hello little sausages! Harry re-introduces himself and asks you not to judge him based on his reality TV beginnings because he’s BOYFRIEND MATERIAL now! In this premiere episode, Harry discusses the question on everyone’s mind: Is he really dating his ‘Dancing with the Stars’ partner Rylee Arnold? Harry finally discusses his secret relationship and takes us through his absolute spiral during the breakup that resulted in him almost proposing?! In honor of the first episode, Harry tells us about the embarrassingly horrific first time he had sex, how to handle when your boyfriend confronts you for being shady, whether or not to pay for a guy you are seeing, and more.
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Newsflash: married men go on dwts and can keep their relationship. It’s not Rylees fault, dwts fault, the shippers fault, you’re the reason your relationship ended.
Yes! Harry was the flirt and creating a love story for the show. But no Harry you didn’t lean into it. Your ex was jealous and doesn’t trust you. Most significant others of celebrities are secure in their relationship. Harry is a red flag. He is not ready to be a husband. He wants to idea but he doesn’t know how to be. The way you treat your friends says a lot. Work on yourself harry and makes things right in your life. Rylee and Jess are better off with men who have their shit together.
Jess is 29 years old and Harry is 26. But Harry’s mentality is 20 years old. Jess dodged a bullet and Harry needs to not date the same type of woman
I can’t believe he let me believe he was a changed man and a good man all to only use Rylee for views until his next project came and then disrespected her. You’ll never deserve someone as beautiful and kind and sincere as Rylee. I hope she’s okay
Why is he talking about Rylee like she’s the little girl who has a crush on the jock in high school… get a grip- she is way out of YOUR LEAGUE.
RIGHT!!!!!
You know what...I like this podcast! I can show it to my sisters as an example of the men they should never date! Thank you Jowsey!
I’m afraid rylee got used for views and promoting this podcast. I’m so sorry Rylee. You deserve better.
This message is for Rylee…you’re a unicorn…truly deserving of all good things in life. Harry doesn’t deserve your kindness, friendship, etc. He’ll never change.
If this guy played with the minds of millions of people on the internet, I don't want to imagine how it went with someone who was 18, she probably fell in love with and must feel horrible after hearing that he was going to propose to another girl
THIS!!!!
Rylee knew about the secret gf and how he felt. I’m more upset about the blame, minimize rylee and disrespected her professional career with his break up. Lots of celebrities spend time with their partners but no it’s rylee and DWTS for your break up Harry
The way he literally used Rylee as clickbait for this episode only to totally disrespect her. Annoying. Hopefully your “secret relationship” knows better than to take you back. Wont be listening to this podcast again.
how is he disrespecting her? 😂 by being self aware enough that an 18 and 25 relationship would be wrong 😂😂😂
@@ann4762he made her sound like a lovesick little girl who had to be told no, which is very disrespectful to her professionally. Also he made sure to talk about how disappointed he was that he got her as a pro, I’m sure that’s pretty hurtful to Rylee. He just showed a huge lack of respect for her.
To say your preference was Emma but you got the “cute little blonde girl” do you not see how condescending that is. Like wtf has happened have you lost your mind, you don’t have to date her but if you are friends at least don’t be rude!
Wow I am wondering how all the DWTS cast is taking all of this in. They were all together after this podcast aired
Stopped half way through. I can't believe this guy is 26 years old. He talks like he's a teenager. He has no respect for women. Jess was smart running for the hills. And the level of disrespect to Rylee and their so-called friendship.
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She is an embarrassing mom who constantly goes on reality shows and abandons her daughter. I dont care what anyone says, its selfish and clout chasing. If she was serious, reality shows like Perfect match are the last places to find an actual serious partner. This who "great mother" branding is weird to me. I'd be creeped out watching my mom on reality tv like this, they gave her many warnings. I just watched till 9th episode of perfect match while sick in bed and Im unsure if he wasnt lying. I dont believe it. He lied 45335 times. What makes people think he stopped now for Jess? Women have a fantasy of turning bad guys and making them committed, pretty delusional.
@@thegalhorowitz Oh my gosh, FINALLY someone sees her for what she really is. THANK YOU!!
This guy totally played all the fans of him and Rylee & now is trying to act like the victim of the “shipping”. Lol
He totally played into it all the way. I’m team Rylee she deserves the best and I sure hope she knew he was gonna talk about her and isn’t hurt by this.
Talking about her is one thing this is another.
Yes agree. In her snaps she is crying about this. You can tell it’s not only about her new house. Then she told her fans she sees us and she is happy to have a supportive community and says we are her best friends. Rylee is sad and hurt by Harry. He handled this terribly. Women will come and go but your friends stay. Harry just ruined rylee
Wait so you clearly saw the issue about her being 18 and you 26 but waited this long to bring it up AND still made weird Tik Toks implying you guys had something going on, and liked comments and other peoples posts that also did?
Something did happened. Why do you have conversations about boundaries and I’m not good for you to date with someone who is just your friend.
Do you know how media works? Its press for the show and 18 and 26 is not illegal. I’m assuming they flirted but I can see him taking care and looking out for her. Relax
@@chels430no. He continued this after the show and after tour
Rylee is literally the dream girl. Harry definitely fumbled big time.
shes a kid 😂
@@ann4762 she’s 18 and doesn’t change what I said.
Thank God he fumbled, Rylee deserves a man not a boy!
Harry is not good enough for rylee. He is 26 but mentally he is 20. He is chasing a woman who ghosted him and doesn’t trust him. Harry is totally ready for marriage! Jk This podcast is about money and advancing his career not about his self growth. Go to therapy Harry.
@@ann4762 she is a woman and an adult. He is a child after watching this podcast.
You were lucky you got Rylee as a partner. We were gonna support her and get her far with whoever she got. Sorry you were so disappointed in the “cute little blonde girl” 🙄 so disrespectful.
Dude…this is really a bad look. At what point do you stop using other people for clout and fame. Jess you were a smart woman to ghost. This is not boyfriend material, it’s actually the complete opposite. For me, ladies this is the definition of a red flag. Rylee is a beautiful human and he completely disrespected her and he should be ashamed. You owed Rylee so much more than this, even as your friend.
This
Ya know as cute as they looked together at times, I’m so glad they aren’t a thing. Rylee may be younger than him, but she’s cracked the code on life. She’s sweet, a woman of faith, successful, she just bought a dang house. He’s an immature 26 year old who gained popularity on a sexual tv show. She would have had to make him into a man if they dated and I’m so glad that’s not her responsibility. She deserves someone who’s 100% and can match her pure heart.
Who is jess
Wow this was a disappointment. Not that him and Rylee has to be a thing but acting like it’s this love story with him and another girl when he literally encouraged fans along the whole time is so annoying.
He blamed edits for his secret relationship breakup. He never took responsibility for his relationship ending or his ex was jealous and didn’t trust him but yeah she held on for so long 👏🏽 I cannot believe he disrespected rylee who is in his life and support him and loved him and his past to be disregarded as in important person to him. Hope he gets the ex back after all this.
The way he literally baited people that he would talk about Rylee and the talking about another girl is soo 🙄🙄🙄. Like HE posted photoshopped wedding pics of them???
You said it best you “aren’t the smartest tool in the shed”. Ryle is a God fearing, absolutely gorgeous, most sweet and kind human being. We saw the way you looked at her so disappointed Harry 🥺
Harry’s really let himself down here. Declaring that you’re not “good enough” for Rylee is a cop out- Just say that you aren’t in a relationship / just friends and move on. Looks like she’s dodged a bullet anyways. Harry comes across as immature and extremely out of touch. Big disappointment.. will not be listening to this absolute shite
I was so excited but this was not the content I was expecting… it’s more than okay if Rylee and you are just friends but this feels slimy…. I feel like it could have been done in a more respectful way. It’s like you totally disregarded her and played the ‘relationship’ you guys had down to just, my DWTS partner. It feels like people were played.
So he basically used Rylee 😢to get views on his first Ever episode and then proceeded to tell us that he basically lead her on and broke her heart without actually telling us to lead her on and broke her heart. It’s very clear that they like each other, but I guess to him age matters. In this world that’s been so phased out. Rylee is too good for him anyway
10 minutes in and I'm out. He throws Rylee under the bus right out of the gate. A real pos.
Isn’t rylee laughing in the background at the beginning?
@@alkimich14 no that's his friend alex cooper. rylee was really upset by what he said and posted a snap kind of crying
You remind me of my narcissistic ex. Talking down on others, doing the most when they’ve set a clear boundary, AND giving advice like you’re a therapist. Will not be watching.
Bc he is the same
You do the same thing to every woman and I bet Rylee won’t speak out like Georgia and Francesca but I bet you did lead her on.
This
i swear he can't resist leading girls on. considering some of the stuff he said to her/the way he would look at her ON camera, i cant even imagine how flirty he was when they were alone. not to mention she's literally 18 so of course she's gonna be easily lead on. he's an asshole
The way he thought he had the upper hand by mentioning her age, like he’s such a hero for not dating her hahaa you knew her age from day ONE and you still fed into it and posted all that weird stuff on Snapchat you know everyone sees right through you, no one’s “heartbroken” that you’re not with rylee, we’re mad that you used her for clout! We all saw it unfortunately Rylee is a sweetheart and chose to see the good in you, you saw what a sweet person she was and used that to your advantage.
you’re 26 and she’s 18 but mentally it’s the other way around😅😮💨
I will not be a fan of Harry or support this podcast. I really thought Harry wanting to change.
He has really shown his true colours in this. I’ve met men like this before . Rylee is the sweetest and men like that take advantage.
He’s talking as if he didn’t lead the entire internet on with the reposts, the tik toks, the instagram posts… WE SAW WHAT WE SAW.
This was so disrespectful towards rylee
Blaming “ Fan edits” on the reason your relationship with Jess failed lol same ones you liked and reposted. That's a weird flex
literally!!’
So confused by everything like I don’t believe the just friends narrative something definitely went down once that Coachella video came out of him dancing with another girl. Rylee was clearly upset and why unrepost those Tik Tok edits if they were really just friends there would have been no reason to. I’m not saying they were officially dating but I do think maybe they were moving towards that direction. His story honestly makes no sense and I’m so confused by it. Oh well though from watching that podcast and him talking about still being in love with Jess and wanting to propose to her well still making that flirty content with Rylee, she deserves way better then that and I know he said they set boundaries in his podcast episode but I still think he still lead her on. Would love to hear Rylees side all though I don’t think we ever will.
He definitely lead her on. He may not think so but he did. No way all of the un reposting of those edits right after that Noah video came out was all just a coincidence.
So Rylee deserves better (100%!), but Jess who has a daughter doesn’t deserve better? Does he even listen to what he says?! And I wouldn’t be surprised if he was the one who leaked the pictures of them on the beach. They came out at the peak of her popularity on the show.
Yo you kinda ate with this comment 😂 it looks like he convinced himself he liked rylee when he saw how popular she was getting/the shipping, then convinced himself he liked Jess again when he saw she got popular after LIB…I think he goes along with whatever the narrative of the moment is and right now it’s back to jess because of perfect match 😅
Well he lost my interest the first show. He wasn’t thinking of his “secret relationship” when he was with Coachella with other girls
😂😂😂 good luck Jess if you give him other chance because he will jump ship for whoever the newest “it girl” is
Jess ended it and ghosted him. He hasn’t moved on and blames time with rylee and DWTS for his breakup. He should take responsibility and say his ex is jealous insecure woman who didn’t trust me.
@@beyoncepadthai254You don’t want him to blame it on Rylee (which is fair and reasonable) but are commenting here wanting to blame Jess? Saying she was just jealous????? Stranger - he is a walking red flag man child. He is the one to blame. Stop blaming the women for his actions.
Sad - he’s ready to be boyfriend material with himself.
Rylee is the kindest, sweetest soul. I hope we're all wrong, and Rylee wasn't hurt through the process of all of this. If I could wear that expensive of jewelry and not get it broken by children, by all means - send it this way. Harry, stop chasing the girl with all the expensive things. Give someone your full love, not shared with the world. Perhaps you're right, maybe chase after God (maybe he's chasing you). ❤
So disrespectful to Rylee. And if I recall you talked about her family bringing you in for Thanksgiving in a interview and you speak like this. You need to think!
Don’t you dare blame the failing of your relationship on Rylee and the show. Everyone knows it’s your fault🥰
I hope Rylee knew about the whole marriage thing that girl looked in love with this idiot
Wait this is a good point, did he think Jess would say yes whilst he was playing it all up with Rylee on tik tok, this can’t be a real story 😂😭
@@LucindaJackson-d8vsounds extremely fabricated
Him and Rylee not actually being a couple is totally fine..but why is he making it seem like his relationship ending is RYLEES fault?? Other couples…INCLUDING people who went on to win the mirror ball have been in other relationships and they didn’t have to make “relationship” tik toks to do so.
Because his word means nothing. He has lied in every relationship and he got exposed on perfect match this time
I’m done!!! I’ll never watch Harry again! Riley was clearly in love with Harry!!!! My heart breaks for her. But guess what, she dodged a bullet!!!!! We love and support you Riley!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think he totally just fumbled his friendship w Rylee
My parents were actually the same ages when they met. My mom 18 and my dad 26. They got pregnant with me and married within that same year. My mom had me at 19 and then they had 3 more kids after me. They were married for 31 years until my mom passed away from covid. So that age gap isn't really as crazy or impossible as some may think to create a lasting relationship. Only those in the relationship know what's best for them, not anyone else. Life is so short, the most important part is that you find someone who makes life truly meaningful for you. ❤
Rylee deserved better
I would have respected you so much more if you were just honest about “not leaning into it”. Just be honest and say “yeah. We did it for votes.”
No he did have great chemistry with her but he just exploited that relationship.
There isn’t even anything wrong with playing it up on dwts for the votes that’s all part of the game. the problem is he then continued to do that for like 6 months after and then waits until his podcast to set the record straight when he could have done that months before? It’s giving using Rylee for click bait and views…if he wanted to set the record straight why didn’t him and rylee do it together so it wasn’t a one sided view point, it’s slimy he’s trying to control the narrative.
You keep begging for a gf but look at how you act
Dude, he cannot keep a relationship to save his life
total pos. The disrespect towards Rylee is disgusting and such a shame.
Only 13k views in a whole 24 hours on your DEBUT episode…in the words of JoJo karmas a bitch
Can’t even watch the whole thing bc it’s so hard to listen to his bs.
😭 lol “I love animals look at my exs” 💀
“I’m gonna tell her everything she wants to hear” god you’re feral
He is such a player...
He minimized his relationship with rylee to a cute little blonde girl who he set boundaries with cause you’re not good for her but your good enough for the ex. He blames the time he spent with Ry and DWTS for his breakup. Umm the edits showed how close and organic ry and you were. But No it’s not you Harry or that your gf didn’t trust you but let’s praise how long she held on. Rylee who you call your “friend” shouldn’t have been the breakup problem, she is woman, who shouldn’t have wasted her time with and find a man who has his shit together to date. Harry you disrespected Rylee by making her professional career a joke by implying it ruined your relationship. Harry this woman supports you, loves you for you and has your back but you care more about the ex than your friend whose been their for you.
He’s very messy himself, why is he even giving advice
I love Alex cooper but this was a flop it was so weird and felt so awkward.
Wow Harry, way to bring down the girl that had your back
Can someone timestamp the shenanigans with Rylee not listening to all of that. Also lmao he used Rylee as clickbait😂 Embarrassing look
6:24
I feel like you are desperately searching for the love you needed from your parents in every woman you meet. There’s a common denominator in all of the catastrophic breakups you’ve had online.. all of the women have been great. I really hope you sit with that information
Self loathing perhaps?
You didn’t break hearts here for not getting with Rylee. I just think it’s shallow to think that you think you did. To hell no one cares! You have always chose who you want to date with. It’s just how the act projected on social media that maybe, or maybe you guys end up being together or more than friends. You are responsible for that. Not your fans neither Rylee’s… it’s you who projected that. This Boyfriend Material isn’t inspiring or motivating to watch. Listening to what? About you, your shallow thoughts, again pretentious ideas to get people to watch. I thought there is something here but really staring at nothing. Change the dynamic of your show. Redirect your audience attention to something real & authentic. Something deeper than making comments about you. It’s about you really & even if you’re talking about you, it’s still not genuine. You are playing a role. So it’s better to just audition for a character in a show or movie, that will make you become better at your craft. Acting would be better for you I think. You sound like you’re just acting, Harry.
Feedback: talk more details about the juicy stuff man!!! It felt like that part was rushed. You kinda advertised this as more Rylee-focused but barely touched on her, you should market the episode about the main topic (in this case, secret relationship with Jess) so listeners aren’t disappointed. All the best xox
thats actually disgusting when you think about it rylee turned 18 in june of that year and dwts started in september she was barely 18 just graduated high school and he was 26 knew it was weird and still did it. gross
Don’t get me wrong I think Harry is a POS but nothing like that would have happened, Rylee has certain religious beliefs she wouldn’t have done that.
This was absolutely disgusting and disgraceful. Gross behavior. This podcast is laughable (not in a good way!!!)
bros such a mess
Seriously, getting advice from a 26 year old? He is a BABY himself!!
His V card story I could of done without
Changing the narrative because Perfect Match is dropping soon. Harry is an entertainer (or wants to be) he will change his narrative where the clout goes. Rylee role is over now and now its time to for "Jess" or whoever else to be in the forefront of his narrative/story. MAN LEANEDDD into it for votes and he knows it. His exes have all had similar perspectives , he's manipulative, a cheater and a clout chaser. Man is trying to make money and be popular/reality star. He was buddy buddy with the sway boys/tik tok boys for a bit, Tana, now its Alex from call her daddy. I don't know why girls (unless they also want clout like Jess tbh-nice girl though) continue to date this man. He was smart/charming enough to make money after too hot too handle when most casts haven't done anything. He's funny but this podcast might have not been a good idea, his real personality is gonna come out without co host/interviewees and he's annoying.
Hm, using someone til you get to the top and then dropping them like it’s nothing. Sound familiar? Like, the ceo of his podcast network unwell? Apple doesn’t fall far.
You really were leaning into it for views though Harry😭
Wow, I wasn’t expecting all these hate comments. It was hilarious😂 Harry… we obviously want to be called your girlfriends😂💘
We should be LITTLE CHICKENS or SILLY SAUSAGES
He will never change
I don't understand why everyone is bashing him. He didn't say anything wrong
you’re such a weirdo for this.
💎 also these comments are not it, i was dying at this episode. it screams harry’s personality & seemed genuine from him
Didn’t u gift Rylee that bracelet 🤨
Harry is being Harry. If he is just like everyone else, he will not be successful in reality TV. His personality has nothing to do with maturity. I think he genuinely wanted to change his way when he met Jessica but he failed to control his impulse, it doesn't mean that he was intentionally wanting to hurt anyone. Harry needs to understand himself a bit more and others need to forgive themselves for falling for someone who they knew is not going to be faithful. The story of the scorpion and the frog.
6:24 you’re welcome
The I was hoping for Emma bc she was a pro has won a mirrorball but got this cute little blonde girl and I was gonna walk out and call my manager- is crazy!!!!!!
Literally. Rylee deserves so much better. Rylee was a hugeeee part of why he lasted as long as he did.
Its Jess hes talking about the “secret girlfriend”
I’m here for the dangly gifts haha 😂
Proud of you Harry, it’s not always easy especially when you’ve actually fallen in love. My pregnant gf deserves these diamonds 💎💎💎 she’s a beautiful women and is still working full time.
Sending our love from New Zealand.
throwing the van cleef on the floor pains me
Ah yes, the whole world is finally being introduced to the real side of Australian men…. Welcome
This is awful. Poor Rylee what is this???
harry you’re a joke
Jess was worth way more than that. When you’re truly in love you do crazy shit like that specially if you want to win their trust back after all the immature shit you have done. Jess is the complete package for someone that is ready for real commitment, so it was a normal reaction when you truly care, maybe she was bringing a good side of you
She’s so out of your league
There for awhile a little ways back he acted like he had grown up/matured /evolved 😮since we met him on thth but he currently acts even more like a child than he even did then. I’ve always loved him so it’s disappointing to see him throw away progress.
why are y'all surprised ‼️‼️
Everyone worried about Rylee what about his ex’s he referred to as animals , he is the toxic one everyone needs to stop feeding his ego
You should realise how hurtful it is to throw or give gifts away when they were bought with the intention for a specific person. Jess is your match,she is such an amazing woman. It seems like you fumbled a whole wife. Sorry for your loss.
I’m so confused. The tiktoks and ship edits ruined your relationship with Jess yet BOTH you and Rylee continued to make them and repost all those flirty edits? Damn. She was really done dirty by the both of you😭
Rylee didn’t do anything. She was doing her job and promoting her partnership. She had no obligation to anyone doubt she crossed any lines. Shes a queen
I’m not saying it’s rylee’s fault but Harry says that he set boundaries from the start and told rylee they’d never work. If I was her and knew Harry was in this “secret” relationship with Jess and not interested then I’d definitely keep a distance and not encourage all of the shipping from fans by posting all those flirty TikTok’s or even all of those lift videos that Rylee STARTED posting. Imagine Jess seeing that. That was super childish of Rylee to do. Not sure if you know this but when the season started ppl were questioning rylee’s casting since she’s not an experienced or accomplished dancer like the other pros and was basically a nepotism hire. She kind of proved the haters right here. Didn’t care to help Harry improve in his dancing and instead wasted time making all those flirty TikTok’s and leading her fans on. She’s a beautiful and sweet girl but her age and inexperience is definitely showing here🤷♀️
@@alicetso8878ewww this is super rude and not true to say. Rylee did a great job and brought so much to the show. It’s a pros job to make their partnership likeable and promote it. She didn’t prove anyone”right”. If anything she proved people wrong. She’s amazing
@@alicetso8878literally leave Rylee alone. She wasn’t “childish” with anything. She did an incredible job and deserves to keep being on the show for many seasons. Harry has always been messy in relationships. That’s on him, not Rylee
@@alicetso8878you know part of being a pro is promoting the partnership right? Stop trying to go after Rylee. She’s literally amazing.
I actually thought you and Rylee had a genuine connection. For you to talk about her like this is messed up.
I dont get where he said anything negative about Rylee. He was kind, considerate and protective of her.
Unpopular opinion but Harry is so genuine
Who got the jewelries?
Harry goes for 10s that means really great women. He is young he isn’t going to settle he is having fun even if he says otherwise. I believe he really wants those things and fall and love but he wants it a million times.
The only thing he had be genuine about is Rylee. They both gained attention and it helped them both without screwing up anything
“darth vader is in there again” im dying 🤣
This podcast just made you use your bestfriend for clout and you damaged your relationship with her. I hope it was worth it. Our girl ry is heartbroken 💔 and crying for a guy who can careless about her. Yeah rylee is the best but I’m not good for her. Blah blah. Have you watched the movie, He’s just not that into you. All those excuses of why you didn’t start anything with ry is an example from that movie. Rylee needs to find a better friend who protects her and A man who says he cares and means it. Wow really Harry for what?
😭🤣 stop your so funny I can’t breathe 😭🙈💀