Graduation Day | The Minimalists Ep. 437
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- Опубликовано: 3 июн 2024
- The Minimalists talk about the three different kinds of letting go (graduation, divorce, death), several ways to detach from a former spouse, and how to move on when you feel like you can’t let go. Watch the full Maximal episode on The Minimalists Private Podcast: / theminimalists
Discussed in this episode:
Intro (00:00)
How can I detach from my former spouse while actively coparenting and sharing familial responsibilities? (1:58)
How do I move on if I can’t let go of a thing, career, or relationship that used to add value to my life? (14:25)
What graduations are The Minimalists celebrating? (21:11)
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RN looking HANDSOME in his new do... !!!!
I'm real hit and miss in having the time to watch the RUclips episodes. Tonight, I'm playing catch up. I have to say, Ryan, I love you haircut! And I do miss seeing you regularly on the episodes.
I love your minimized hair, Ryan. Your mom is a wise woman.
Love Ryan's hair! Boy does he look different but truthfully, so much more handsome with it styled.
Going to going to miss the video. I like listening and also viewing the body language and facial expressions of the hosts.
TK is the cool uncle i’ve always wanted 😎
100%!
This was one of the few video podcasts I used to watch and listen. Gonna miss seeing your faces, the expressions, the jokes, the insights. Good luck and will listen to the audio for sure ❤
Ryan graduated from his long hair! Love it ❤😁 Great look 👌🏽
He is indeed a handsome man!
Thank you for all the years on RUclips. I quit social media (Facebook) during pandemic lock down...Best decision I ever made! So freeing! My social media anxiety instantly disappeared once I signed off. And you are right...even though I "watch" your RUclips videos...I really listen to them while I am preping food or folding laundry!
Ryan's hair! Looks great! Have a great week Minamilists.
Ryan! I love the haircut! I knew there was a handsome guy hiding under that hair. 😂
I stumbled across you guys while feeling the burden of physical clutter. I learned that getting rid of stuff will give me time, space, & energy to think, be, and get clearer about who I am and what I want. Then came the realization that this is not going to be a magical destination. My problems will be here even clearer for me to face when the physical clutter is gone. You have made me reflect on all the non physical clutter in my life and it is quite overwhelming to realize the scope of the changes I need to consider. You continue to show how you are letting go in your own lives. I will truly miss seeing your faces. Thank you for showing through your continued actions what minimalism is all about and for inspiring me to live it.
Ryan your new haircut looks awesome on you. You look younger and better ☺️👍but the hippy long hair was cool too 😊
Love you guys and will miss seeing your faces but I mostly listen to your podcast and patron app. Thanks for all your shows they have helped me a lot in this time of transition for me. Take care ❤
Awwww...dont quit RUclips...😢...I dont have social media myself...but I do enjoy being on RUclips to listen to great content, inspiring content.. like yours...😢😢
Please don’t leave RUclips this is the only way I can connect with you people
I'm so relieved that you're still going to broadcast from youtube! I will miss seeing your beautiful faces, but I am happy that I still get to listen in to my weekly motivation! (Also, to Ryan, that haircut is the bomb!!!) Best of luck to all the graduates!
Ryan, your new haircut looks cool! I liked your old hair style a lot but sometimes a change is fun! 😊
I am glad yall are making positive changes, I listen to yall while gardening or cleaning, but rarely actually watch. Yall are SO inspiring.
Nooooo why are you guys leaving RUclips? You guys are the few i faithfully watch on youtube.😢😢
Money
They will still put the podcast audio on here, but are just stopping the visual part.
@@Jansenbaker oh I thought they were leaving YT for good. Great bc I got sad although for me it's not the same bc I love seeing podcasts more than just listening but you get to see human interaction but I'll take what I can get.
@@theresaclemons7598 because of the no commercials?
@@theresaclemons7598 there is nothing wrong with “earning money” u know
I’ve been working on our home for about 2 months.. I finally have the health to do it and it just weighed so heavy on me so I got started decluttering and once I started, the motivation slowly kicked in and now I just can’t stop until it’s done!
I found your channel here maybe 2 weeks in.. it’s been so great! I listen to you guys pretty much every day as well as a few others.
Now I am seeing the results and it feels so great! The major work is done now it’s a bunch of annoying little stuff but my goal is to do at least one thing every day- one thing in the trash, one thing to donate, and one thing put away.
I am also determined to change my habits to support living a more minimal, simplified life. I don’t ever want to be in this place again!
I’ve kept a daily journal of everything I do to declutter & organize bcs in the beginning, that first week I know I let go of so much stuff but I couldn’t tell at all by looking at my house.
When I look back at the pages, it’s crazy how much has been done and just how much my house has held, stuffed into corners, bins, boxes.. and how many clothes my closet held too!
Also crazy how filthy the space is under, behind & around all the clutter. 😣 I am cleaning some as I go but I also plan to do a super good deep clean once we are done.
I definitely am feeling lighter and happier and I can’t wait til I feel “done” with all this that has built up mostly over the last 10 years of illness but also a lifetime of not being good at letting go or organizing/ decluttering…
I am transforming once again and it’s pretty exciting!
I love this. Giving things up that aren't inherently bad but don't necessarily bring long-lasting joy. This episode really spoke to me more than I thought. I've been wanting to fully dump my smartphone and I've made every excuse why not to. I need it for work, I need a more reliable maps app, what about my music?! Listening to this, I see the unhealthy and maybe unreal realities of my attachment. So today, I'm ditching my iPhone for my Light phone. Disappearing from the netherworld to be fully present in the real world. Thank you, my friends!
Ryan - so handsome! Love your new haircut! ❤
Loving the new hair, Ryan. Looks great!
So sorry you’re leaving the RUclips podcasts. Guess I’ll have to make do with the newsletters. I only listen to podcasts on RUclips. I’m not an auditory learner. Good luck with everything. I’ve enjoyed it.
"Do fewer things with more passion", love it!
I am one of those who would say I watch the video podcast. I love it but I understand your reason.
Ryan looks fantastic! I’m so bummed about you tube!!! I don’t have any social media anymore either. However, I watch you tube videos so I’m sad but you have to do what good for you guys! ❤
OMG! Ryan’s haircut. WOW!
Thank you minimalists so much for all the knowledge over all the episodes ive watched. You have changed my life! I will miss watching every week❤ i hope all of you fill your new found time with new experiences and maybe come back and share once in a while!! Even if its just a zoom call
Ryan looks so grown up🔥Seriously though, looks great. I will miss those locks though.
Ryan’s hair looks SO good!!
Ryan...I love your new haircut...and the old one as well.lol
I really love how you are always willing to let go of anything or anyone, you have taught me a lot. I will keep listening to you, guys, I rather listen to you on Spotify than watching here, because I can listen everywhere ❤❤.
I'll keep on reading to your stuff to, so keep books and posts coming ❤❤, love from Uruguay!
Always happy to see these happy, healthy, helpfull podcasts. So awesome I love all the advice. Thank you x
Great hair, Nicodemus!
Ryan, I love your haircut
I hate endings, graduation, moving on.. it always gives me a horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach. I'm going to miss your videos. Ryan looks so hott! 😉
Love Ryan's hair 😇 Thank you guys xx and i will keep listening to you here, much love.
I find the minimalists on RUclips …but they become more minimalist and disappear! It makes sense.
I enjoy the reminders for having less though, because there’s so much in the other direction. 💚
Love your haircut Ryan!!
Thank you for giving me a new prospective. About letting go and moving into new and different seasons of life, career, and much more. Best wishes as you graduate into new experiences.😊
Ryan's hair looks awesome! I like it so much better than the longer hair. So bummed that you guys are getting rid of the video :(
Your hair looks great Ryan!!!!!!
I LOVE the hair Ryan!
TK wish I could express myself like you! Wow
Ryan looks fantastic
Interesting. I started on my light phone podcast listening to you. After a year back on a smartphone so started over here recently. 😂
Loving the new do Ryan
Congratulations on your video graduation. It's so good to know what you need, what you don't, the difference between those 2 and the time to let go.
Tnk U for all the time you shared with us on RUclips 🎉❤❤
Congrats, guys! Ahh Ryan’s new hair!!! 😍😍
I loved your video podcast so much
By the way, thank you so much the minimalists
In Australia, we generally don’t tip. There are reasonable wages here in accordance with Federal Govt national award rates.
Your announcement makes me happy 😊. It sounds so exciting!
Great team. ❤ you all. Keap the work. Its neaded
Hair looks great. Never noticed your eyes so much before. Very handsome. I was wondering the other day why guys want long hair because it’s so much more work.
Inspiration...graduation!❤❤❤❤❤
I hope your audio podcasts will be available on YT or Spotify
I see it's already been said many times but Ryan's haircut looks great, even more handsome than before. After listening to the social media episode I may take a break for a few weeks and see how it goes from there. I find it's creating a lot of mental clutter.
Good luck guys in your new endeavours...
NOOOOOOO!!!!! I am absolutely gutted you are dropping RUclips! I found you on here and I really love watching you, I don't "listen" to podcasts, I struggle with just vocals chat, and I love seeing your facial expressions and feel sooo much more connected when I can See you. Your messages land so much harder and goes in better when I can see the person behind the voice.
PLEASE DON'T STOP THE VIDEO VERSION 😢😭
Please don’t leave RUclips this is the only way I connect with you
Wow you guys got Hugh Jackman on the podcast? That's amazing! 😁
Keep on Keepin"On...Video will be back..The new and improved would be the assumption..Since you guys have freakin' grown the whole time..And for myself, I am personally thankful as I grow and learn and continue.
Ooh Ryan below the belt with the mom joke
Are yall gonna post just the audio to RUclips? I only use RUclips I done have a podcast app.
I'll miss your faces but I'll be staying tuned for that audio here on RUclips. Take care, guys, and be hearing you's next week❤. Good hair Ryan and TK looking great with the beard and not forgetting you Joshua good quiff :). Keep enjoying your life all and we'll get use to the change. See you on the flip side 😊
I liked the hair. But you look great! Hair always grows back 😂 is what I tell my daughter
To first caller. You may have to arrange an alternate pickup/dropoff spot to meet. Keep a few sets of child's clothes at your own place. You are responsible to maintain your environment not hers. Only you can say whether she's using flirting, etc. to get you to help with stuff. If you are already paying child support, your side is covered. Of course you can buy things for the child and keep it at your place. You can send stuff 'home' to her place. Some exes don't send clothes, don't send stuff back to you for the child. So what you do will depend on what type of ex you have.
I have never said anything about Ryan's longer hair because, seriously...wouldn't that be the total antithesis to the entire "The Minimalist" message of being true to yourselves? MY opinion on your hair really doesn't matter. You need to do what makes YOU happy. However...in the spirit of positive feedback and affirmation, I will chime in now and say that I have always thought the shorter haircut is way more flattering to Ryan's face! It doesn't change your inner "handsome" one little bit, but the new outside look is truly looking great!
HOLY SMOKES RYAN!!! 😮🥰
i used to watch this podcast, then i took a LONG break- now i’m back and there are three? but they’re usually not together? like what happened to ryan? very confusing- i know it truly doesn’t matter but i’m so curious if anyone knows the answer
Same here
Ryan moved back to Montana- he appears via zoom or phone sometimes and also in person periodically…
They said it was discussed on episode 400
Ryan = 🔥
So bummed you're leaving YT. 😢
Noooo 🥲 i’ll miss you
😘
Life’s complicated enough, I can’t be bothered sleeping with my ex. The other ex maybe.
TK Coleman...Try your work at Dave Ramsey
Worst news ever. Only listen via RUclips. Goodbye moving towards a more minimalist lifestyle. This will cost me all my momentum for certain.
Why is Ryan pretty much gone now?
Oops I spoke to soon. I understand.
They need intimate(ant) fasting😉
I like watching expressions/gestures while listening. I will miss Joshua's pithy answers & "Advertisement Sucks"... Ryan with hair... before going 'minimal' on the hair. Still a Nice looking guy with ideas & pithy insights🩷... T.K. I've really enjoyed your truly wise, heartfelt answers & insights..
I have never listened to a video free podcast.
I have only used (free) YT. I liked your ad free YT channel because 'adverisement sucks' on most channels. I hate the interruption of it.
Well, they say everything happens for a reason...
T.K. suggested breaking from social media to get back to basics. This is one step toward taking my social media break. My unsubscribing from current YT channels will make little difference to individual channels and even less to your (discontinued) "The Minimalist" channel. I've enjoyed it and appreciate what you have shared.
Thankyou. ❤
🙈 Also, thanks for not ghosting us viewers. Best Wishes on your new ventures.✌️