@Violet 1998 i did that too! My friend and I would sit at this dumbass event and we didn't like the people, so we'd make references and laugh when saying little. Like he could follow my mental pathway and I could his!
En Igma Mmm I don’t think so. There are 16 personality types: an even number. INTJ-ESFP INTP-ESFJ INFJ-ESTP INFP-ESTJ ISTJ-ENFP ISTP-ENFJ ISFJ-ENTP ISFP-ENTJ
Ikr 😂 Things like this always happen to me just because they find me too quiet. I mean, I can't help it, what interests me doesn't interest most of the people around me and I am not strong enough to pretend to like what they like most of the time because I just can't and it gets tiring to do so. What I find value in is so different from other people and it really gets to me. Its sad. I have an extroverted acquaintance who always asks me why I am so quiet and tells me to talk more (because being too quiet supposedly spoils your saliva) and she would often make me be on the spotlight whenever she finds me staring at her or just staring into space being in my own world which I find so not good. Even though I know and understand that its just jokes sometimes it still bothers me. Just for the record, just like anybody else, I am talkative when it comes to the things I am interested in, and towards people I feel comfortable with I try to keep the converation going even though I am not good at it. What I hate about myself though is I find it hard to say my complaints or express my distress because if I do, I won't be able to hold back. For me (I am not sure if its an INFJ-T thing), I find it hard to have this middle ground. Its either I do it or not at all. And the challenge for quiet poeple is if you try to just speak a bit loudly or try to just stand your ground a bit, you are labeled as angry or the likes all the time which I am not at all. So to not get into that akward situation, I just decide to keep to myself even more... Sometimes I question why some people can't have the same amount of sensitivity I feel. It really hurts. Its really a struggle.
@@soundless_fellow_3327 You know what's my favourite thing about us? We never express our thoughts and feelings cause nobody understands them and gets bored but when we feel safe to do it, we grab the opportunity and it excites us when someone has the same situation, interests and wants to hear completely what we have to say and relates, it feels like paradise because it doesn't often happen. And whatever we don't say in a whole year, we say it there and our eyes and our whole self is shining like we just woke up! But the worst thing about us is that it's difficult to open up, whoever the person that we talk to might be. As hard it is for someone to get to know us even harder it is for us to express ourselves. And it's so painful!
@@fbiopenup5345 everything you said is so true for me T_T Sometimes, I really wish that people could heighten their ability to understand other people even without using any words to communicate. Even if its just by a bit, that would definitely decrease a lot of challenges in my life T~T
@@soundless_fellow_3327 omg thanks for answering so fast, i wasn't expecting that 🤣! Also, i can agree here. It would be amazing if people actually understood some things but unfortunately they don't go that deep. As you said they prefer to see the shallows and if you're shy or quiet you're like a shadow to them .They don't appreciate us at all in my opinion. I just wish people like us could find a group of two or three people that would actually understand each other. We don't need to make a lot of friends, we just need deep connections, so that would make us the happiest we could ever be.
As an INFJ, I’d say this is what makes the INFJ so spiritually conflicted, is weighing their realism up against their ideals for themselves as well as for the world around them.
kbg12ila I KNOW! As an INFJ, I hate when my sensitivity to my emotions gets in the way of acting normal. Like, when someone says some small talk and I don’t hear very well I instantly panic because I have to think quickly of how to react rationally and “appear” normal.
Actually calling somebody "boring" is very superficial. Like you said, those who call others boring just look at the shallow outside and not for deeper (quieter) sights. (INTJ here)
@Natalie 1234 I agree. I'm INFJ too. We do smile. If I was on the elevator with ESTP. I would have smiled and looked more friendly. We are not always Eeyorish.
I’m an ESTP and my best friend is an INFJ so this was exactly how our conversations would be when we first met. It’s so funny to me because now she’s way more comfortable insulting me and joking with me I love it.
If I was there I'll blurt excuses like "I happened to have some business on this floor" or "I want to try the stairs suddenly" eventhough people don't ask me 😂
I think the reason I like these so much is because it's like it's own "mbti cinematic universe" or just a television series where the types are specific characters with specific relationships with one another. I'm excited to see how things develop with and between the characters, and just how this series progresses in general.
@@Lostsage01 I once went for the elevator but didn't call for it, then wondered what's taking it so long, someone behind me realised and was like you haven't called for the elevator what are you doing 😂 I did that many times, including getting off at the wrong floor lol
INFJ, wants to end the conversation asap, accurate. lol Edit: Thanks for the likes! I didn't expect this whatsoever 😂 we sure do dislike small talks don't we -INFJ
@@soundless_fellow_3327 I am little bit confused because I feel like fitting in both infj and enfp personality,it accurately fits me , how to know my mbti
@@pakirthanp5611 for me I just took a couple of tests from different sites available and 2/3 of the result was INFJ. The most reliable site for me though is the 16personalities one. It was the first one I took couple of years ago (recommended by an INTJ friend) and when I took it there again last month, I got the same outcome being an INFJ-T. But even with the first test I took, INFJ was definitely the one that fitted my way of thinking and personality in total. I searched and watched different Vids and I just really resonated with it. Have you taken a couple of tests yet?
Pretty accurate. I freaking hate elevator conversations lol. They're not long enough to say anything meaningful, but it's awkward if no one says ANYTHING. So there's just forced small talk that makes me want to get off early and take the stairs. Still, if someone does talk to me, I'll put on a smile and indulge them. Albeit, awkwardly. - INFJ
Good thing people almost never do small talk In Russia. One of the only times somebody spoke to me in an elevator was when it was cold outside and some old man asked me and my brother why our noses were so red. I answered that it's because it's cold outside. He said that we haven't experienced the real cold yet. How's he supposed to know?
yeah but no one’s asking you to enjoy them, it’s about half a minute of your life talking to someone who you’ll probably never see again so I don’t know why you’re so bothered -estp
Yes! Bogdan reenacts MBTI more accurately than others. Others are just stereotyping personality types and not digging deep into situational approaches.
This was hit or miss from an INTJ perspective. I know many INFJs very well and they act more like the more talkative guy than the quiet one. I've actually seen and heard these exact things from INFJs in one on one conversations, especially in uncomfortable social scenarios like this.
James-Henry Philpott I agree 100%. I am an ENFJ sometimes INFJ, and I can't relate to the INFJ character at all. The Other character, however, sounds just like me
We're better at talking with other introverts because they're not as intimidating to us like extroverts who tend to lead the conversation, also because we usually have a lot more in common with introverts than extroverts. I legit met an istp once and in one conversation we found out we listened to the same music, watched almost the youtubers(or at least were familiar), equally interested in mbti and really just understand each other, I also get along very well with isfjs, istjs, intjs and even intps
Not really, one of the things we hate the most are small talks, ofc we can be very talkative sometimes but it's only when we're interested or feel comfortable around someone,,,talking with strangers can make us feel extremly awkward so we often avoid it
Im an estp. Just ONE thing... We'd try harder to convince the infj to do crazy shit because..... Yeah. And the infj would consider it deep down because they are secretly thrill seekers Or i just might want other types to be considered crazy lol
Wait... are you trying to manipulate INFJs to do your bidding? Hmm. For both our sakes, just invite us. Without half a dozen or more other people along. Please?
@@karkosgiehex i dont know about others but speaking for myself, i move in packs of 2-4 I can charm anybody but too many "friends" gets too crowded lol
ESTP here and I can confirm we're mostly found wandering around the whole building doing random bullshits that often gets ourselves or other people into troubles 😂
As an INFJ I would never ask any questions back in small talk 😂 I only hear what they want to say because I tend to explain things to the root and people always cut me in the middle :/
As an ESTP I can confirm this is me on an elevator ride up with an acquaintance. Also the part of just going to a high floor just to take pics. Just yesterday I was dwelling on the idea of going to the beach/fair at night just for the fun of taking pics. And boredom is my silent killer.
I really like ESTPs!! I do notice that I have to tone down the perpetual INFJ soul-stare a lot around them though because they get very uncomfortable/unnerved with it lol. The INFJ in this skit is uncannily accurate!!
😂 Nice!! As an INFJ I'd be quite uncomfortable in that situation, but i think I would smile/nod/change my expression a lot more, trying to look as reactive as possibile and to make sure the other person doesn't think I'm annoyed.
Yup same.. Since we are really sensitive beings, we hate hurting or being rude to other people. So we just tend to keep all this complaints and annoyances inside 😂
Exact same elevator convos happen to me too, it feels like I'm a magnet to all extraverted types of people, and they always come with those weird questions I have no idea how to respond to. I feel so out of place just like the INFJ you portrayed, well done! I imagine it must have been to portray an INFJ but good job imo :D
Nah you guys are different, I spot entps cause they're comfortable to be around and usually they have a lot of funny stories to tell, but estps? God please save me from them(jk)
Insfires man!! Ha ha. I’m def an ENTP but I relate to ESTPs on being hands on and disliking anything boring. And my percentages are very close on intuitive/sensing. Brutal honesty is my defining ENTP trait tho✌️
You should name the video *ESTP and INFJ in an elevator* Btw this INFJ seems so depressed I am an Infj and I thought the right one representing me .lol
I am an INFJ too and i need advice how to get my feelings to a person ( as a friend) get away from my head cause I get obsessrd and always check chats Altho nothing is there help pls
@@sugaryoxin3121 INFJ going through a very similar situation. You want to remove the feelings, right? If I'm reading your comment correctly, that is. I do exactly the same thing and well... hmm... I'm actually getting help from one of my friends (who is also an INFJ) and honestly, there's not much you can do besides use them and address them. Letting them sit makes it worse, distracting yourself is only temporary... so you'd have to really just be upfront with it and don't do the INFJ classic of just hiding them or putting on a fake show (believe me it's reactionary and unconscious). Talk to those who really care about you if it's really eating at you. Just find help, resist the urge to just let it sit in you and consume you. It'll be okay as long as you fight through the negative emotions and sort out a proper solution.
@@LendinSwiftbolt Its been there for 6 months and I just wanna cry all my friends are XNTP and only two INFP and ISFP understand me but can't help so I talked to the person ( who I keep thinkinf about and he is an ESTJ) and he gave me skme logical advice it worked then got ruined again... I just can't handle it anymore and I can't distract my self I am just in my room all day doing nothing
@@sugaryoxin3121 you met someone and you want to be a friend with him/her?? If that so, just start to talk to him often. If he/she share the same feelings that will be great if not it is ok too at least you came out of your thoughts shell .
Ouch. Careful with the thoughtless comments like that to an iNFJ guys! We are incredibly sensitive to criticism, and could interpret that in a way (right after saying "I never thought about it like that" > "I don't like to be boring" (as in not doing things for the sake of doing them is boring, thus the INFJ who does exactly that is boring) that says we are boring people (believe me, we are not. You just have to get to the Se stage and we can have a blast). Remember, our NI recognizes patters. That means saying comments like that IN an order like this could be bad. We will read the patterns and order of the comments and come to a conclusion (which is usually incredibly accurate)
You're right but from a typical ESTP perspective they might seem slow and dull at first compared to their own pace. ESTP can throw around thoughtless remarks that they only mean superficially. Also, it's typical for an INFJ not to fight back in the moment but brood about it later.
@@Murgatroydian That is actually half wrong. INFJ's do fight in the moment, most of the time we do actually. We just do it through our FE. Sadly most fail to recognize this. Yes we attempt to discuss the issue at a later time, but we almost always let others know what we are trying to say in the heat of the moment through our non-verbal communication, the same way we read people. Interesting to know. Thanks for the lesson on an EStp.
@@EricMaffettone In my experience the Fe tendency can be to keep a peaceful rapport over putting forward Ti criticisms and defenses. This is usually just in "off guard" situations like an elevator and I appreciate it is probably expressed differently per individual. Wasn't meaning to teach about anything. Just sharing one perspective on how I thought the skit was apt overall.
@@Murgatroydian i am uploading a response video now. I have a lot of INFJ's who watch my channel. Take it from several INFJ's: the world does not read us like we read them. You're missing the mark a bit. You only see the surface of us INFJ's. That's why we feel so misunderstood. Watch my videos. You'll be thankful you did later on. And feel free to read all the comments. See for yourself as every single INFJ agrees with all I say.
That was incredibly accurate! I actually had some of the exact responses and actions, while watching the video, like one second before the example INFJ did them also. My sister was laughing at me the whole time because of how accurate the portrayal was. Only thing is I definitely do a lot of things just for the fun of it...or at least think about doing that thing lol.
You look so different with and without glasses, and with an outfit change. It’s like two different people in the elevator. Pretty good acting, as well.
Honestly it’s different for me as an INFJ It’s as if I would try to match the ESTP’s energy and wait until he leaves. Of course, it’d be a bit awkward for me because I kind of dislike small talk and find it unpredictable. I also do believe in doing things just for the fun of it, but definitely in a much different way the ESTP sees it as.
As an INFJ , I personally like watching humans more than I like interacting with them. I think they are beautiful creatures to be admired from a distance
I’m an INFJ and tbh I don’t really identify that much with this portrayal. To communicate initially I would probably be a bit quiet though silently engaged by using my body language, a smile, eye contact, and a few words mixed with space. If I detected openness/friendliness in the other party with him/her seeming interested in conversing or going to the 22nd floor, my Fe would probably prompt me to mirror the persons enthusiasm and it would inspire my Se inferior to go see the view with the ESTP in this situation and have fun. Though perhaps I resembled the INFJ characterization in this video back when I was in the depths of depression. edit: depends on the situation though, sometimes my ENFP unconscious will come out and I may actually be a lot more upbeat
As an INFJ i find accurate the phrase "I don't really approach life that way, i can't get you in a lot of trouble", for me is hard to do things just for the sake of doing them. Also, when i met someone new that i like i tend to say "You are a nice guy/girl" its like i want them to notice that i want to expend time with them.
"Yeah, it can get you in a lot of trouble if you're an idiot and don't know what you're doing." I have an INFJ and ESTP in my household, and this sounds just like a conversation they would have.
As an ENFP, I think INFJ are among the rare bunch of people I find exciting because you don't know what they're hidin behind that shy personality and it always makes me wanna hug them. You should totally do a ENFP and ISTP in an elevator. Basically my dad and me, me babbling nonstop and my dad just rolling his eyes 😂
I was wondering. Have you thought about making a Q&A video? I'm sure lots of people have questions besides me. Like what inspired you to make these videos, and things like that. Anyway nice job!
This is a really cool & enjoyable series. Looking forward to the rest. :) When you're done with it, can you make sth featuring an infj-intp (the 'golden pair') interaction? Thanks and best of luck.
INFJs can be "cool" as well. An INFJ I knew was a hiphop and metalhead and always sagged his XL pants while sligning his backpack loose on his forearms.
The infj one was spot on lmao. I usually avoid small talk, especially with strangers, but if they try to engage on a conversation, I’d just respond without hesitation and would actually appreciate the person in the end.
I am INFJ and my friend's brother is ESTP. And this perfectly describes my conversations with him. The only times I feel comfortable around him is when we play minecraft. But I kinda respect him, honestly I'd like to be so bold and present as him
@@manager-nim2623 the ones ive met have not ended well lol. Or urs are the exceptions that prove the rule. Istps usually dont get along with those that use feelings to guide actions.
@@ISIIN15 hmm I guess, because I never understood why people call istps cold and stuff, the istp I know has a nice balance of feelings and logic in her, she's like a library and has a lot of information and loves to know how stuff work, she's very talented in drawing and singing, and absolutely obsessed with cats that I just call her kitten sometimes. Cats are probably the reason she's sweet, but yeah she's a really nice person in general but has her cold moments
"You could get in a lot of trouble if you're an idiot and don't know what you're doing" *Me, thinking about an ESTP I know, looking like an idiot after doing something totally uncalled for* 😂
STOP this so accurate im the awkward infj. Had an estp friend that was talking so loud on the bus, everyone could hear the drama she was on about and then I told her ‘maybe we should speak quieter, everyone can hear us on the bus’ because I was never used to it but I never ‘approached life that way’ and she was like ‘eh whatever let them hear’. Most funny person I’ve ever met but I kinda want to be like that especially since I’ve never ‘approached life that way before’, but it makes sense. why care what others think on the bus, even if it is disturbing. I get scared of talking to people without having lengthy conversations but I think even as an infj it’s more logical to just enjoy the conversation without feeling awkward. You’ve captured this so incredibly well
BAHAHAHA!! INFJ was spot on! I'm not observant AT ALL since I constantly go into LaLa Land entertaining myself in my own head to a point that I don't pay attention to my surroundings or become real forgetful often. So even if my eye contact is directed at someone and they initiate conversation with me, I have to snap back into the external world and go "Hah?" Or I'd always lose things by forgetting where I put things at. I'm also like an anti-gregarious person that socializing is like poison to me. I always hole up in my room to play with my hobbies until I get forced into the living room by my parents to socialize with the humans. Or like if a stranger comes up to talk to me, I'd have a friendly chatter but internally wish I could run away to a place where I don't have to see any human beings within a 10 meter radius. ( .__.)
Damn situations like this can be the most draining for me sometimes, especially after a long day. You want to have a genuine meaningful conversation but know that there’s probably not enough time to do so and you’d risk giving the impression of being weird and/or being misunderstood by the other person anyway. So you suppress yourself just enough to give the standard small talk deemed socially appropriate because even though it’s shallow and makes you boring it’s the safest option to not making the other person uncomfortable. The interaction only lasts maybe 30 seconds to a 1 minute max but later on you’ll still be mulling over it and analyzing anything you might’ve said or done during that interaction that could’ve been off putting. After judging how well you performed that small talk you’re just happy when you get home and don’t have to worry about interacting with other humans for a while
I am an INFJ, and you have perfectly captured how small talk makes me feel. As in, “I love humanity but get these humans away from me RIGHT NOW.”
IKR! haha.
I'm an INFJ to. Small talk is annoying in my opinion.
Yes. I really hate small talks. That's why I prefer to be alone most of the time & get lost in my head 😂
Omg same
So many INFJs in one place. Truly an amazing sight
You gotta do INFJ and INTJ in an elevator going nigh-telepathic and speaking in symbolisms xD
En Igma i think they’re just doing opposites but that is a fantastic idea
@@1classikai Yeah, I noticed, but he'll run out of opposites eventually :P
@Violet 1998 i did that too! My friend and I would sit at this dumbass event and we didn't like the people, so we'd make references and laugh when saying little. Like he could follow my mental pathway and I could his!
Future oriented conversation LOL
En Igma Mmm I don’t think so. There are 16 personality types: an even number.
INTJ-ESFP
INTP-ESFJ
INFJ-ESTP
INFP-ESTJ
ISTJ-ENFP
ISTP-ENFJ
ISFJ-ENTP
ISFP-ENTJ
estp: "i just dont like to be boring"
infj: *ouch
oof*
Ikr 😂 Things like this always happen to me just because they find me too quiet. I mean, I can't help it, what interests me doesn't interest most of the people around me and I am not strong enough to pretend to like what they like most of the time because I just can't and it gets tiring to do so. What I find value in is so different from other people and it really gets to me. Its sad. I have an extroverted acquaintance who always asks me why I am so quiet and tells me to talk more (because being too quiet supposedly spoils your saliva) and she would often make me be on the spotlight whenever she finds me staring at her or just staring into space being in my own world which I find so not good. Even though I know and understand that its just jokes sometimes it still bothers me. Just for the record, just like anybody else, I am talkative when it comes to the things I am interested in, and towards people I feel comfortable with I try to keep the converation going even though I am not good at it. What I hate about myself though is I find it hard to say my complaints or express my distress because if I do, I won't be able to hold back. For me (I am not sure if its an INFJ-T thing), I find it hard to have this middle ground. Its either I do it or not at all. And the challenge for quiet poeple is if you try to just speak a bit loudly or try to just stand your ground a bit, you are labeled as angry or the likes all the time which I am not at all. So to not get into that akward situation, I just decide to keep to myself even more... Sometimes I question why some people can't have the same amount of sensitivity I feel. It really hurts. Its really a struggle.
@@soundless_fellow_3327 You know what's my favourite thing about us? We never express our thoughts and feelings cause nobody understands them and gets bored but when we feel safe to do it, we grab the opportunity and it excites us when someone has the same situation, interests and wants to hear completely what we have to say and relates, it feels like paradise because it doesn't often happen. And whatever we don't say in a whole year, we say it there and our eyes and our whole self is shining like we just woke up!
But the worst thing about us is that it's difficult to open up, whoever the person that we talk to might be. As hard it is for someone to get to know us even harder it is for us to express ourselves. And it's so painful!
@@fbiopenup5345 everything you said is so true for me T_T Sometimes, I really wish that people could heighten their ability to understand other people even without using any words to communicate. Even if its just by a bit, that would definitely decrease a lot of challenges in my life T~T
@@soundless_fellow_3327 omg thanks for answering so fast, i wasn't expecting that 🤣!
Also, i can agree here. It would be amazing if people actually understood some things but unfortunately they don't go that deep. As you said they prefer to see the shallows and if you're shy or quiet you're like a shadow to them .They don't appreciate us at all in my opinion. I just wish people like us could find a group of two or three people that would actually understand each other. We don't need to make a lot of friends, we just need deep connections, so that would make us the happiest we could ever be.
The infj character is brutally realistic
Lol, he nailed INFJ, I swear it was like listening to myself talk
Yup
As an INFJ, I’d say this is what makes the INFJ so spiritually conflicted, is weighing their realism up against their ideals for themselves as well as for the world around them.
MAHAHA i have an infj bestie and the way that dude portrayed it is 👏👏
@@jacobandersen6075 I know I am trying to do numbers for a business plan.
The fact the INFJ misheard the ESTP and it got so awkward is such a beautiful and realistic little detail. You're a genius Bogdan!
kbg12ila I KNOW! As an INFJ, I hate when my sensitivity to my emotions gets in the way of acting normal. Like, when someone says some small talk and I don’t hear very well I instantly panic because I have to think quickly of how to react rationally and “appear” normal.
That's exactly what happened to me when I was watching the video lol
You know why INFJs "misheard"? They got bored at the first syllable, they just proceeded to ignoring.
*I wonder how long it took the INFJ to realize (& accept) that they got off on the same floor though*
OMG! I was looking at the comments after I watched this and I didn't even realize this. I'm an INFJ, so it took longer then the video ig
@Noelle: Haha! Yeah, after watching it, I was like:
"Man, this dude's good-- *WAIT..."*
😂
Ohh hahaha! I didn't even realize that!!
As an INFJ, I would have just probably said "oop" and turned around after a few feet. 😂
Now you mentioned it I just realized 😂
People who say INFJs are boring haven't even tried getting to know them. INFJs have many layers and they're interesting and actually super fun!
Actually calling somebody "boring" is very superficial. Like you said, those who call others boring just look at the shallow outside and not for deeper (quieter) sights. (INTJ here)
@@David-zl4wf exactly! Oh I love INTJs *-* (ENFP here)
They aren't!! I have many INFJ friends almost 4, and they're super interesting and fun. I'm an INFP lol
@Natalie 1234 I agree. I'm INFJ too. We do smile. If I was on the elevator with ESTP. I would have smiled and looked more friendly. We are not always Eeyorish.
I guess an INFJ would try their best even tho they can be awkward
INFJs are awkward af.
I know. Because I’m awkward af
Same 🤣
HEY. JUST CUZ YOU'RE AN INFJ DOESN'T MEAN YOU CAN SPEAK FOR ALL OF US.
With that said, as an INFJ, I'm also awkward af.
same
Your comment has been verified. -Another infj full of the awks.
Fan Of Most Stuff true. My brother is also awkward af. Not that I can complain lol (INFP).
I’m an ESTP and my best friend is an INFJ so this was exactly how our conversations would be when we first met. It’s so funny to me because now she’s way more comfortable insulting me and joking with me I love it.
Estp are known to be sarcastic but u never know
If you give INFJs a total free rein for insulting and joking about others, be prepared for being the one who will feel uncomfortable at some point.
INFJ. Omg small talk kills me ughhhhh. T.T that is why I wear my headphones.
Strawberry Aster yeah I hate small talk. Say something meaningful dammit
Yeah..unless you're going to talk about something big or interesting (universe, weird conspiracies, imagination, etc) please leave me alone.
I do too to avoid people from talking to me. And I don't always put the music on hahaha
@@bexiah exactly! hahaha. no music on 🤣
And if you're listening to music in a public space, then you got to turn it down to the lowest volume
Why is this elevator music so nice
Big Laundry it reminds me of curious George lol
True lol
lmao knew someone would notice the music lol reading comments lol
So, INFJ going to 22nd floor.....
But gets off with ESTP.....
Damn inferior Se. Getting off on the wrong floor.
He was going to take the stairs ( just for fun) haha,
I was going to brush it off as a minor production oversight, but now we have a story for it.
If I was there I'll blurt excuses like "I happened to have some business on this floor" or "I want to try the stairs suddenly" eventhough people don't ask me 😂
I died when I realized this
Because we caught on the moment. Not realizing the present time. So, we often distracted from the things we supposed to do.
It would be funny to make a video about 16 personalities in the comment section or something.. :)
Emily Marques enfp: let’s do it then
INFP: Sounds fun! Um, anything anyone would like to talk about?
@@celestialflights meaninglessness of life maybe
Yes!
How?
"Oh, thank you, thank you" - That's exactly how the ESTP I recently met replied to compliments. With the _exact_ same tone 😂
Someone Random I’m a ESTP, and what you just said is exactly how I take compliments 😂
@@momokomoo7726 right? Like not just compliments, I have a tendency to say a lot of different words twice with that tone😂 (female estp here)
I think the reason I like these so much is because it's like it's own "mbti cinematic universe" or just a television series where the types are specific characters with specific relationships with one another. I'm excited to see how things develop with and between the characters, and just how this series progresses in general.
isn't that real life anyway, because everyone could be categorized as an mbti type so any social interation would be an interaction between the types
Nice Pertwee pic...
Holy shit, dude. Even the part of ESTP being shorter is accurate for me, haha.
Yuppppp short ESTP gang represent!!
Joe Rogan vibes.
I didn't notice that! Nice little detail.
I'm sorry but can anyone explain why the ESTP tend to be shorter?
And me as a taller INFJ 100% accurate
+mikkillaine
Diet, maybe? Not sure...
“I’ll see you some time on the 22nd floor”
“Yeah”
I guess that time is now, since they’re getting off at the same time😂
Minor plot hole, lol.
@@peregrination3643 not really the ESTP might just have decided to go on the 22nd now and take his pictures on his new phone tight away
Or the INFJ got off on the wrong floor (done that too many times to count) 🤦♂️
@@Lostsage01 I once went for the elevator but didn't call for it, then wondered what's taking it so long, someone behind me realised and was like you haven't called for the elevator what are you doing 😂 I did that many times, including getting off at the wrong floor lol
INFJ, wants to end the conversation asap, accurate. lol
Edit: Thanks for the likes! I didn't expect this whatsoever 😂 we sure do dislike small talks don't we
-INFJ
Probably thinking 'please stop talking to me.' I know because I am an INFJ
haha yep
YuP
Crazy accurate.
We may be awkward and not conversation starters but we're nice and polite who like to smile
Which mbti
@@pakirthanp5611 INFJ
So true
@@soundless_fellow_3327 I am little bit confused because I feel like fitting in both infj and enfp personality,it accurately fits me , how to know my mbti
@@pakirthanp5611 for me I just took a couple of tests from different sites available and 2/3 of the result was INFJ. The most reliable site for me though is the 16personalities one. It was the first one I took couple of years ago (recommended by an INTJ friend) and when I took it there again last month, I got the same outcome being an INFJ-T. But even with the first test I took, INFJ was definitely the one that fitted my way of thinking and personality in total. I searched and watched different Vids and I just really resonated with it. Have you taken a couple of tests yet?
Pretty accurate. I freaking hate elevator conversations lol. They're not long enough to say anything meaningful, but it's awkward if no one says ANYTHING. So there's just forced small talk that makes me want to get off early and take the stairs. Still, if someone does talk to me, I'll put on a smile and indulge them. Albeit, awkwardly. - INFJ
i don't talk at all ,i don't see the point of talking in an elevator ?
Good thing people almost never do small talk In Russia. One of the only times somebody spoke to me in an elevator was when it was cold outside and some old man asked me and my brother why our noses were so red. I answered that it's because it's cold outside. He said that we haven't experienced the real cold yet. How's he supposed to know?
Yes. I don't want to talk but my people pleaser tendency wants me to indulge them eventhough I scream on the inside.
yeah but no one’s asking you to enjoy them, it’s about half a minute of your life talking to someone who you’ll probably never see again so I don’t know why you’re so bothered
-estp
@@whysaac848 INFJs keep thinking about it even after it happens.
I love these elevators episodes 😍👌💖
Yes!!! Please do this!!!
**patiently waits for an INFP episode**
(You’re doing great, Bogdan!)
Yes! Bogdan reenacts MBTI more accurately than others. Others are just stereotyping personality types and not digging deep into situational approaches.
I'm an INFJ with an ESTP brother. This is our whole childhood. 😂
Same :D
Wow Same!
TELL US MOREE
Me tooo!
This was hit or miss from an INTJ perspective. I know many INFJs very well and they act more like the more talkative guy than the quiet one. I've actually seen and heard these exact things from INFJs in one on one conversations, especially in uncomfortable social scenarios like this.
James-Henry Philpott I agree 100%. I am an ENFJ sometimes INFJ, and I can't relate to the INFJ character at all. The Other character, however, sounds just like me
We're better at talking with other introverts because they're not as intimidating to us like extroverts who tend to lead the conversation, also because we usually have a lot more in common with introverts than extroverts. I legit met an istp once and in one conversation we found out we listened to the same music, watched almost the youtubers(or at least were familiar), equally interested in mbti and really just understand each other, I also get along very well with isfjs, istjs, intjs and even intps
Not really, one of the things we hate the most are small talks, ofc we can be very talkative sometimes but it's only when we're interested or feel comfortable around someone,,,talking with strangers can make us feel extremly awkward so we often avoid it
Came here to say this. INFJ here and I seriously watched the video all the way through wondering which was which.
I was confused until the second half. But INFJ was pretty accurate for me. --INFJ
0:13 Dude, you're such a good actor. Just the facial expression, your ESTP is spot on!
I think he swallowed gum.
This is how Fight Club 2 starts...
Nice pic. ;)
ESTP seems so upfront
my nightmare
Infj seems have a lot of nightmares
My son is an ESTP and he is upfront...sometimes brutal.
I think im worst to you infj im entp
@@GoogleUser-wy2vv i love estp haha we should hang up sometimes
@@yonathanrakau1783 I know an entp and I love her. Estps like drama for the sake of it.
Im an estp. Just ONE thing...
We'd try harder to convince the infj to do crazy shit because..... Yeah. And the infj would consider it deep down because they are secretly thrill seekers
Or i just might want other types to be considered crazy lol
Wait... are you trying to manipulate INFJs to do your bidding? Hmm. For both our sakes, just invite us. Without half a dozen or more other people along. Please?
yess
bruhhhh that's exactly the extp I need, I am an infj who loves chaos but I need someone to help me come out of my shell lol
@@karkosgiehex i dont know about others but speaking for myself, i move in packs of 2-4
I can charm anybody but too many "friends" gets too crowded lol
@@spaghetti5914 im right here
insecure but still what ur looking for xd-
ESTP here and I can confirm we're mostly found wandering around the whole building doing random bullshits that often gets ourselves or other people into troubles 😂
LMAO same here dude I love messing around just to do so, I can't sit around doing nothing.
Small talking with people in an elevator what a nightmare, we can't escape (INFJ) 🤯
As an INFJ I would never ask any questions back in small talk 😂 I only hear what they want to say because I tend to explain things to the root and people always cut me in the middle :/
As an ESTP I can confirm this is me on an elevator ride up with an acquaintance. Also the part of just going to a high floor just to take pics. Just yesterday I was dwelling on the idea of going to the beach/fair at night just for the fun of taking pics. And boredom is my silent killer.
Yess😂😂 same
When INFJ said: "...that's not the only reason you should go up there ಠ◡ಠ" I was sure he was hitting on ESTP.
i don't know what infj and thar crap means but i know what is gay haha.
You do ESTP so well. Always seems the most 'normal' one to me.
I really like ESTPs!! I do notice that I have to tone down the perpetual INFJ soul-stare a lot around them though because they get very uncomfortable/unnerved with it lol. The INFJ in this skit is uncannily accurate!!
😂 Nice!! As an INFJ I'd be quite uncomfortable in that situation, but i think I would smile/nod/change my expression a lot more, trying to look as reactive as possibile and to make sure the other person doesn't think I'm annoyed.
Yup same.. Since we are really sensitive beings, we hate hurting or being rude to other people. So we just tend to keep all this complaints and annoyances inside 😂
Exact same elevator convos happen to me too, it feels like I'm a magnet to all extraverted types of people, and they always come with those weird questions I have no idea how to respond to. I feel so out of place just like the INFJ you portrayed, well done! I imagine it must have been to portray an INFJ but good job imo :D
"You can get into a lot of trouble if you're an idiot and you don't know what you're doing" is accurate 😂😂😂
INFJ: “I don’t think that’s the only reason you should go up there”
**insert Lenny face**
I’m an ENTP who has their ESTP moments. So relatable. I’m starting to see why I probably annoy my very introverted brothers😂 (one of them being INFJ)
Nah you guys are different, I spot entps cause they're comfortable to be around and usually they have a lot of funny stories to tell, but estps? God please save me from them(jk)
Insfires man!! Ha ha. I’m def an ENTP but I relate to ESTPs on being hands on and disliking anything boring. And my percentages are very close on intuitive/sensing. Brutal honesty is my defining ENTP trait tho✌️
an INFP and ESTJ in an elevator would be a very entertaining video
-INFP
Sounds like a nightmare
-fellow INFP
Was waiting on this one!
This was painful to watch
- infj
I cringed the entire time. T.T -infj
The whole time internally I'd be like "Please stop talking". But I'd still engage as if I'm enjoying the convo.
You should name the video
*ESTP and INFJ in an elevator*
Btw this INFJ seems so depressed
I am an Infj and I thought the right one representing me .lol
I am an INFJ too and i need advice how to get my feelings to a person ( as a friend) get away from my head cause I get obsessrd and always check chats Altho nothing is there help pls
@@sugaryoxin3121 INFJ going through a very similar situation. You want to remove the feelings, right? If I'm reading your comment correctly, that is. I do exactly the same thing and well... hmm... I'm actually getting help from one of my friends (who is also an INFJ) and honestly, there's not much you can do besides use them and address them. Letting them sit makes it worse, distracting yourself is only temporary... so you'd have to really just be upfront with it and don't do the INFJ classic of just hiding them or putting on a fake show (believe me it's reactionary and unconscious). Talk to those who really care about you if it's really eating at you. Just find help, resist the urge to just let it sit in you and consume you. It'll be okay as long as you fight through the negative emotions and sort out a proper solution.
@@LendinSwiftbolt Its been there for 6 months and I just wanna cry all my friends are XNTP and only two INFP and ISFP understand me but can't help so I talked to the person ( who I keep thinkinf about and he is an ESTJ) and he gave me skme logical advice it worked then got ruined again... I just can't handle it anymore and I can't distract my self I am just in my room all day doing nothing
@@sugaryoxin3121 you met someone and you want to be a friend with him/her??
If that so, just start to talk to him often. If he/she share the same feelings that will be great if not it is ok too at least you came out of your thoughts shell .
@@niceday5751 nah he already loves me from all his heart and we have a good friendship but I am obsessed and can't stop thinking ;(
Please do INFJ and ENTJ, I love this episodes!
Yessss
Ouch. Careful with the thoughtless comments like that to an iNFJ guys! We are incredibly sensitive to criticism, and could interpret that in a way (right after saying "I never thought about it like that" > "I don't like to be boring" (as in not doing things for the sake of doing them is boring, thus the INFJ who does exactly that is boring) that says we are boring people (believe me, we are not. You just have to get to the Se stage and we can have a blast). Remember, our NI recognizes patters. That means saying comments like that IN an order like this could be bad. We will read the patterns and order of the comments and come to a conclusion (which is usually incredibly accurate)
You're right but from a typical ESTP perspective they might seem slow and dull at first compared to their own pace. ESTP can throw around thoughtless remarks that they only mean superficially. Also, it's typical for an INFJ not to fight back in the moment but brood about it later.
@@Murgatroydian That is actually half wrong. INFJ's do fight in the moment, most of the time we do actually. We just do it through our FE. Sadly most fail to recognize this. Yes we attempt to discuss the issue at a later time, but we almost always let others know what we are trying to say in the heat of the moment through our non-verbal communication, the same way we read people. Interesting to know. Thanks for the lesson on an EStp.
@@EricMaffettone In my experience the Fe tendency can be to keep a peaceful rapport over putting forward Ti criticisms and defenses. This is usually just in "off guard" situations like an elevator and I appreciate it is probably expressed differently per individual.
Wasn't meaning to teach about anything. Just sharing one perspective on how I thought the skit was apt overall.
@@Murgatroydian i am uploading a response video now. I have a lot of INFJ's who watch my channel. Take it from several INFJ's: the world does not read us like we read them. You're missing the mark a bit. You only see the surface of us INFJ's. That's why we feel so misunderstood. Watch my videos. You'll be thankful you did later on. And feel free to read all the comments. See for yourself as every single INFJ agrees with all I say.
I don’t know any INFJ who would be offended by that.
That was incredibly accurate! I actually had some of the exact responses and actions, while watching the video, like one second before the example INFJ did them also. My sister was laughing at me the whole time because of how accurate the portrayal was. Only thing is I definitely do a lot of things just for the fun of it...or at least think about doing that thing lol.
i'm an infj, and my twin sister is an estp
oh, the accuracy!
no way, that's awesome XD
Very good depiction of an ESTP not being an asshole...
I would be very interesting to see INTP vs. ESFJ in a similar situation.
There is no INFJ here, sorry!
Yes, the awkwardness is real but I'd be way way nicer and try to get into character and have the conversation.
and I would thank the ESTP for helping me press the button after we got in!
@@topaznico3414 Right?! Lol
It’s the difference between INFJ male and INFJ female.
You look so different with and without glasses, and with an outfit change. It’s like two different people in the elevator. Pretty good acting, as well.
Honestly it’s different for me as an INFJ
It’s as if I would try to match the ESTP’s energy and wait until he leaves. Of course, it’d be a bit awkward for me because I kind of dislike small talk and find it unpredictable. I also do believe in doing things just for the fun of it, but definitely in a much different way the ESTP sees it as.
as an infj you hit the spot! I get zoned out a few times before I realize someone's talking to me.
As an INFJ , I personally like watching humans more than I like interacting with them. I think they are beautiful creatures to be admired from a distance
But y'all exhausting 🤣 let us dip in and dip out - Infj
THANK YOU!!!! For your time and willingness.
I’m an INFJ and tbh I don’t really identify that much with this portrayal. To communicate initially I would probably be a bit quiet though silently engaged by using my body language, a smile, eye contact, and a few words mixed with space. If I detected openness/friendliness in the other party with him/her seeming interested in conversing or going to the 22nd floor, my Fe would probably prompt me to mirror the persons enthusiasm and it would inspire my Se inferior to go see the view with the ESTP in this situation and have fun. Though perhaps I resembled the INFJ characterization in this video back when I was in the depths of depression.
edit: depends on the situation though, sometimes my ENFP unconscious will come out and I may actually be a lot more upbeat
Yeah ...matured infjs would be more extraverted...
INFJ the whole time on the elevator: * internal screams *
Do a INTJ and ESTP one, someday.
We all know they'll get into a fight.
Hahaha I'm an ESTP --and my father and twin brother are both INTJ. Can confirm that my "circumventing" of the rules wasn't always appreciated!
That's my hubby INTJ and me ESTP. You are so spot on! Always squabbling about something 😂👏🔥
If you're boring, you're snoring...LOVE IT!!! 😂😂😂
😂 Interesting. As an INFJ my shadow self is amused
Watching this reminds me of the awkward moment I had yesterday. I am cringing myself now
PLEASE DO INTP AND INTP
As an INFJ i find accurate the phrase "I don't really approach life that way, i can't get you in a lot of trouble", for me is hard to do things just for the sake of doing them.
Also, when i met someone new that i like i tend to say "You are a nice guy/girl" its like i want them to notice that i want to expend time with them.
Love these elevator episodes. Thanks for all the work!
It feels like the videos keep getting better by the week!
"Yeah, it can get you in a lot of trouble if you're an idiot and don't know what you're doing."
I have an INFJ and ESTP in my household, and this sounds just like a conversation they would have.
Oha, I want to see ESTJ and INTJ in an elevator, it would be like a war in there
one of my best friends is an INFJ and I know some ESTPs...this is SO accurate. love this series!
As an ENFP, I think INFJ are among the rare bunch of people I find exciting because you don't know what they're hidin behind that shy personality and it always makes me wanna hug them.
You should totally do a ENFP and ISTP in an elevator. Basically my dad and me, me babbling nonstop and my dad just rolling his eyes 😂
Estp's scares me but amused me also at the same time HAHA
I was wondering. Have you thought about making a Q&A video? I'm sure lots of people have questions besides me. Like what inspired you to make these videos, and things like that. Anyway nice job!
INFJ here : MY GOD THIS IS ACCURATE LOL!!!
YES IT IS-ESTP
Why are the Introverts always the ones wearing glasses?? 🤔🤔🤔
because they are spending all their free time with books and netflix, and that is not healthy for eyes :P
It's the intuitives that wear glasses if you haven't recognized the pattern. (you're not an intuitive)
Besides, it's just stereotyping lol, and makes it easier to identify which is which
Cause we harm our eyes looking for the perfect world, I think he's just trying to make the character look XXXJ
It’s to shield us from the outside world.
I LOVE this series! Its super accurate!
This was the most peaceful/casual of the interactions thus far...
"thats not the only reason to go up there" sounded like the dude was hinting the other to come up and like netflic and chill..............
Damn, I'm a ESTP and that is ACCURATE
Hhhhhh specially 0:51
Finally I found one sup brother
So many people commenting are infjs
I'm e/intp by the way.
Somebody who wants to talk that much is a bless to an INFJ.
This is a really cool & enjoyable series. Looking forward to the rest. :) When you're done with it, can you make sth featuring an infj-intp (the 'golden pair') interaction? Thanks and best of luck.
INFJs can be "cool" as well. An INFJ I knew was a hiphop and metalhead and always sagged his XL pants while sligning his backpack loose on his forearms.
The infj one was spot on lmao. I usually avoid small talk, especially with strangers, but if they try to engage on a conversation, I’d just respond without hesitation and would actually appreciate the person in the end.
0:13 INFJ’s eye turned purple JHSHSSHHAAHHAH
I am INFJ and my friend's brother is ESTP. And this perfectly describes my conversations with him. The only times I feel comfortable around him is when we play minecraft. But I kinda respect him, honestly I'd like to be so bold and present as him
ISTP and ENFP. I wanna see the bloodbath when two clashing personalities meet!
Oh no, the real clash is ENFP and ESTJ! That’s really something to witness. 😂
@@awakeinthedream1111 istps dont give a shit tho and really good at pissing people off, i would know ;)
I have a close enfp and istp who are also good friends with each other
@@manager-nim2623 the ones ive met have not ended well lol. Or urs are the exceptions that prove the rule. Istps usually dont get along with those that use feelings to guide actions.
@@ISIIN15 hmm I guess, because I never understood why people call istps cold and stuff, the istp I know has a nice balance of feelings and logic in her, she's like a library and has a lot of information and loves to know how stuff work, she's very talented in drawing and singing, and absolutely obsessed with cats that I just call her kitten sometimes. Cats are probably the reason she's sweet, but yeah she's a really nice person in general but has her cold moments
"see you sometime in the 22nd floor"
*gets off at the same floor which I assume is the 22nd floor*
LMAO
"You could get in a lot of trouble if you're an idiot and don't know what you're doing"
*Me, thinking about an ESTP I know, looking like an idiot after doing something totally uncalled for* 😂
STOP this so accurate im the awkward infj. Had an estp friend that was talking so loud on the bus, everyone could hear the drama she was on about and then I told her ‘maybe we should speak quieter, everyone can hear us on the bus’ because I was never used to it but I never ‘approached life that way’ and she was like ‘eh whatever let them hear’. Most funny person I’ve ever met but I kinda want to be like that especially since I’ve never ‘approached life that way before’, but it makes sense. why care what others think on the bus, even if it is disturbing. I get scared of talking to people without having lengthy conversations but I think even as an infj it’s more logical to just enjoy the conversation without feeling awkward. You’ve captured this so incredibly well
I like the subtlety of these. They're so realistic.
“The views any good up there?”
In my head: _Boi are you making fun of my height_ ?!
“The views? ...On the 22nd floor?”
Me: “...Oh” 😅
BAHAHAHA!! INFJ was spot on! I'm not observant AT ALL since I constantly go into LaLa Land entertaining myself in my own head to a point that I don't pay attention to my surroundings or become real forgetful often. So even if my eye contact is directed at someone and they initiate conversation with me, I have to snap back into the external world and go "Hah?" Or I'd always lose things by forgetting where I put things at. I'm also like an anti-gregarious person that socializing is like poison to me. I always hole up in my room to play with my hobbies until I get forced into the living room by my parents to socialize with the humans. Or like if a stranger comes up to talk to me, I'd have a friendly chatter but internally wish I could run away to a place where I don't have to see any human beings within a 10 meter radius. ( .__.)
Boi as an estp this is literally like a friendship I got w an infj its so fkn awkard but lowkey nice
That's me, the INFJ
The "excuse me" and "I guess" were shockingly accurate
Awesome! Haha! Love the music, too, and the height difference!
Can't decide if I'm an INFJ or INTJ yet so I'm just going to watch your videos and somehow decide.
Idea: infp and isfp stuck in an elevator. They get into subjective Fi disagreement but can't go anywhere 😐😕🙄
Will there any conversation? .-.
@@uauauau4056 haha not sure, but could be a thought bubble conversation.
@@melbeth79 haha right! (´ヮ`)
Plot twist: The guy on the left is INFJ.
Damn situations like this can be the most draining for me sometimes, especially after a long day. You want to have a genuine meaningful conversation but know that there’s probably not enough time to do so and you’d risk giving the impression of being weird and/or being misunderstood by the other person anyway. So you suppress yourself just enough to give the standard small talk deemed socially appropriate because even though it’s shallow and makes you boring it’s the safest option to not making the other person uncomfortable. The interaction only lasts maybe 30 seconds to a 1 minute max but later on you’ll still be mulling over it and analyzing anything you might’ve said or done during that interaction that could’ve been off putting. After judging how well you performed that small talk you’re just happy when you get home and don’t have to worry about interacting with other humans for a while
That ESTP delivery needs to ramp up like 100%.