Ignore the Crazy Talk
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- Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024
- The plaintiff dated the defendant for 13 years and they have two kids together. She says the defendant dealt drugs on and off during their relationship and went to jail. The plaintiff loaned him money to buy a car on two separate occasions, but she hasn’t been paid back. She’s suing for the balance due on two cars and car repairs. The defendant admits he said he would pay the plaintiff back, but he lost his job.
Girl! He don't give a damn about yo kids, cause if he did NO WAY he would keep asking you for money when your the only 1 taking care of those kids.
well said! but there is something wrong with that girl. After 13 yrs and then prison!
Dear Ladies,
Please let this be a cautionary tale for you all. Once you are done with a guy, leave HIM alone. Do not go back! You are free.
Or maybe not have children with a drug dealer lol
FACTS💪🏾
@@badboyinjordanz that too🤷🏾♀️
Dear Ladies,
Stop squandering your youth fulfilling your bad boy fantasies then complaining when they aren't reliable fathers when you know they weren't reliable before you abused your womb and freely gave your pathetic vagina up. Stop the foolishness and use your youth to settle down with a respectable, hard working man and get your thrills from stability. Don't wait until your used up and a struggling single mother to seek the stability because you realize you need it then.
Right? I never understood when people keep going back to their ex… it’s so weird too me. Nobody is that important. If you’re that lonely … just go pick one of the other 8 billion people in the world, lol.
She was really helping him out, and he took advantage of her. Never take a kind hearted, understanding person for granted and expect your life to be all good.
She could have done better than that he ain't nothing plus he unattractive. She had better options I know
She should’ve chose better 😂
@@kaylee3867 Evidently he was attractive in her eyes. I hope her options are not limited to someone's looks.
@@sereneamani1713 his character wasn't shi that's what Kay was getting at he not shi and he's not anything much to look at either
@@kaylee3867 When you balling you don't have to be physically attractive to gold diggers... when he had his drug money coming in she was cool with it... She put up with him for like 10 or 12 years so he must have been doing something right to get her.... She ain't no damn victim...... You date bad boys, and thugs that's what you get........
Dang Judge, everybody don't know what you're talking about when you ask "do you have some paperwork"
Right! I was confused too! I’m like freedom papers? He should have said certifications.
@@AHeart2022 😂😂😂😂 not freedom paper 🤣🤣🤣
@@AHeart2022 Right!
@@AHeart2022 omg not freedom papers 😂😂😂😂
I thought it meant a criminal record.
Buddy looks so pitiful and sorry. Stand up, stand up!
I THANK GOD THAT MY MIND IS NOT THIS WEAK & I ESPECIALLY THANK HIM FOR ALLOWING ME TO KNOW MY WORTH 🔑
Yeah right. It's always the ones who call others weak who are the weakest but we can't see your story
Hey everyone stay blessed 🙌 😇 🙏🏿
Imagine a mother working, parenting, spending her money/savings on a man rather than...hell ANYTHING ELSE! She mis-spoke, she got 2 children and 1 grown ass kid.
Her man, her problem. She knew he was dealing crack and allowed him around her children. I don't feel bad for her one bit. She can't play victim when she stayed for 13 years.
This is the epitome of wasting 13 years of your life…..with a known drug dealer. Ladies smarten up.
What's good JM fam showing nothing but love hope everyone enjoying and or enjoy your day. Let's jump in the case
Lol @ "lets jump in the case" we all be so involved #mathisfans
Hey cuz.
@@wildfiregirl1556 hello hope you doing well
@@Rellz33 All well cuz. Hope you are as well.
@@wildfiregirl1556 that's awesome. I'm pretty good can't complain at all
You can only feel so bad for someone bc she’s the one that kept dishing out money like a paymaster 🥴🙄🤧
Basically, Dollar Tree Britney wanted to rebel with Millennial Re-Run. Next case, please...
she got the same black man lol..wonder where her parents are..she cant possible have any
@@helena3631 It does not seem that she had anyone in her corner to give good advice
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This made me sad, I don't know what is worse? her decisions or his actions!
Women build civilizations by the Men they select to have children with or by
Her Decision is worse...
Both! The kids
This is a good example of co-dependent behavior.
Hid actions lol
Easy…her decisions
Let me get this straight! Cheating, broke drug dealer, jailbird, dead beat dad of a boyfriend! Ok, got it in 5 minutes, what took her so long!!🤑
I MISSED SOMETHING. WHEN DID SHE SAY THAT HE WAS DEADBEAT?
@@valeedadavidson678 I don't have time for these types of questions. You can watch the episode again and pay attention this time! 🤣
@@Mafia1977 😂 You literally explained it all and people still want to find something redeeming in this man. Smh
The fast money stopped.
@@valeedadavidson678 it’s implied if you are in jail you can’t properly parent or be there for your kids.
"I thought he was getting real money" Judge Mathis is savage 🤣 "everyone got a poor man story"
Why the heck would you give all this money for someone not even helping as he should with the kids? I understand helping once for reliable
transportation to work… but A Lexus with rims….🙄
Exactly!! I didn't get why she kept giving him large sums of money and he never repaid...smh!
This was too painful to watch. Sis was bleeding money and for what? To maintain a false narrative of having the kids father in the picture? 3 cars? C’mon now!
She seems like a sweetheart and very laid back. Men really don’t know what they want.
Don't generalize beautiful queen some men do know what they want.
no she doesn't. She laid with a crack dealer. That's a red flag to me. SHe might sound all prim and proper but prim and proper don't run with drug dealers and crack wheelers.
They really don't.
Men do. Boys dont
@@fundifferent1 I agree SHE doesn’t know what she knew he was a crack dealer how did she expect things to go
I hate when women complain about their drug dealer former mates lifestyle. While he was taking penitentiary chances, I’m sure you benefitted, but now when things go bad or he goes to prison, it’s a problem.
Not true, I complained before prison and even tried to help him find a legal job. He made the decision to make better choices and is now on the straight and narrow!
@Jason R. Don't hate the female player. Hate the game.
It sounds like they were never living the high life
@@wordplay6665 Good for you. You sound like someone who would have made the proper decision if he had not decided to make better choices.
Exactly. She is the typical one feigning shock and awe after staying with a criminal for over a decade.
She knew who he was before she laid down with him. he was her badge of honor until she couldn't keep him with those children. Sick of these women getting off scott free with no accountibility for their choices or actions
She's got accountability in the form of two children with him. Children do not ask to be born.
@@penelopylee6025 that's not what accountability is. The children are the reality of her situation it doesn't mean she's taken accountability for her actions
Badge of honor???? No honey. A woman like her never sees a man like him as a badge of honor. She has a past, and her preferred men don't want her. The creases around her mouth gives it away.
I thought this was me until I looked at the profile name because I just changed the same tribe of Judah pic to this one I have now. Lol I was like wait a minute is that me . lol
She’s not accountable for HIS actions. He may not have been in the streets when she met him or he could have LIED like a lot of men do! If she’s been with him 13 years she was probably very young so at the end of the day his choice to be a loser is still his CHOICE
The defendant was a great sport!! JM was roasting him and he just took it and even laughed at it 🤣
It is amazing how people get on national TV and tell illegal things people do.. That's why I trust nobody self don't tell on self.
Plaintiff was willing to put up with what she now has an aversion to once the fast money stopped.
Exactly!
Expected of these type of women
Facts! because im sure all that crack money wasnt spent on himself alone.
Unfaithful drug dealer? You didn’t care about that for thirteen years so don’t whine about it now.
Truuue!! You read my mind!!
True
Facts...then even AFTER the 13yrs she loans him money...crying now how she is the single parent taking care of 3 people...then why loan it to someone who was supposedly so bad you couldn't take it anymore 3yrs earlier🤦🏾♀️
Exactly!
This! I don’t like people who make bad choices and want you to be mad with them later on 😭😂
The desperation is real!
I'm saying because she don't look like the typical white girl that likes black guys. Excuse my ignorance but I think people know what I mean.
@@preciousgem84 I feel you. She seems like the type to have a husband who owns his own start up and sells Lululemon as a stay at home mom.
@@preciousgem84 don't be fooled Ratchet and insecure come in all looks, shapes and colors.
@@scottrogue946 lol, I'm like 🤔 you can sell lululemon? Is it like Avon or Mary Kay or Amway?
@@Jussme-l3d oh I've always been aware of ratchetness in other cultures and ethnicities, but there's a look to it. But then again people don't believe I'm from the hood so there you go🤷🏾♀️ And some black women don't have that ratchet look.
She is a sweetheart and I hope she and her kids gets someone that takes care and cherish them.
Only a fool would take care of a another mans child. She kept going back to him so she got what she wanted. Only a fool would take this woman seriously and raise another mans child. Literally no benefit at all to the man he gets the short end of the stick
You shouldn't be with anyone longer than 2 years if there's any uncertainty. Why are you 2 not getting married?
I'm surprised JM didn't rip him a new one about child support
He goes soft on do nothing dudes because they give him a sob story! 😒
@@dennissmith7214 no he doesn't stfu 🤣
So am I.
He picks and chooses who he does that to
@@brittneyb3083 For sure.
He looks pitiful
Yeah he look all sad
he is a player
Wait Becky choose wrong too?! 😱
😂
All these broads silly
Sometimes your “feelings” interfere with what you really should do…I pray things working out for them rather together/separately…
"rather" the word is "whether. Not trying to be offensive, just one of my pet peeves.
@@sereneamani1713 correcting someone when you know what they meant is my pet peeve have a good day…
He was taking advantage of her kindness...
She was spending the crack money. She also benefited from the three car he brought with the drugs money when he was in jail.
He want to turn his life around, so no drugs money running now.
Do hear what she said. She never talk to him while he was in jail. When he came out she rekindled the relationship. When she realized there was a financial stress .she end the relationship. She's just in it for the money " drugs money "
She did too much for a no good man.
Trying keep mandingo
What did she expect?
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@@vanessatheurbantarotgoddes2192
What ?
@@antonyjackson602 lol
So becky did ALL those things for this black man and he still left her a single mother! The problem is BLACK MEN!
I don't get what her initial attraction was to him in the first place ..some women just love a jailbird, I guess.
Sisters looking at this case already know this relationship was doomed from the start. Perfect topic for the 'manosphere'. He was a loser from the start. Never got on his feet good. When he did he blew it. Sisters have finally turned away from these types (who are always asking her to submit). See what that gets you, ladies? Broke as a joke and he still asking for handouts.
Whatever "sisters" you are talking about, it's rather evident you are not one of them. Women and men of every ethnicity are getting played by broke and rich partners.
😂 Well she had the babies by him and was with him for 10 years so he must have been doing something right....lol
Yes stay away sisters
Now you know THEY think they can change black men
@@zulu3274 No, she sticking with him doesn't mean he's doing 'anything' right He's proven to be a loser. Her staying doesn't have anything to do with him 'doing something right or not since many women--especially her 'kind' needs to have a man in their life and her kind tends to hang in a failing relationship 'hell-bent on making it work. But it is a 'no go' on this one. W/men and women have partnership agreements that allow them to stay with one another whether they like one another or not. B/women and men do not have or make such agreements to the measure of w/people. If we do not like one another, we will leave the relationship.
Now she's sending that man back on the streets to pay back this loan.
Wow.
No he needs to grow up after 12 years. Sorry ass nucccaaa
Paperwork?! Then annoyed when he doesn’t know lol
I thought he was talking about legal ppwrk.... like huh? Usually he'll just say do you have a skill
Mathis lying about all that talk about him being in the game.....he really thinks all dealers are supposed to be driving around in Benzes and living in mansions. Newsflash buddy......when you pay rent, bills, food, car insurance, note, reup money, etc........it becomes a job. Drugs dont just fall into your lap for free and dealers dont live rent free or expense free from everyday things.
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I've been saying JM all cap about the streets. He wasn't in the game. He was into snatching purses.
I agree. But also I think he's referring to the guys selling kilos being big timer's. And anything less you were a po hustler
@@johnnyb6151 and if you ask me, he was getting high too
@@TexasBorn_TexasRaised once again his perception is off. Let him tell it......he wasn't a petty thief, he was a gangsta from Detroit
I was thinking the same thing: why not have all loan info on a separate sheet since that’s what you’re suing for. Just saying
Wow he drained her...she seems tired. Hope she finds someone more stable or he's able to get things together
Doesn’t she have kids? Shouldn’t she be raising them? Not worried another mistake.
They both look defeated
Ctfu at Judge saying he a low level dealer 🤣 😂 💀
She knew how he made his money.
She enjoyed the whole ride.
The ones that are bashing this woman are pathetic, regardless she tried multiple times to help him out, she clearly is not holding his kids hostage, and she was very respectful and honest. I wish them both the best. He seems like he means well. At least when he's working he does make an attempt to pay her back. Wish nothing but the best for both.
Perhaps many are bashing her but I see them pointing out the lengths she went to help him. Perhaps putting her children's welfare at risk. He may mean well, but it's just not enough. When you have children to raise, you have to realize that they can't eat and stay warm and clothed on your good intentions.
@@sereneamani1713 sometimes we need a wake up call this may be it for her.. she need to put him on child support he gonna be woke then
WELL JOIN THE CLUB CALLING OTHERS PATHETIC FOR PROVIDING OPINIONS MAKES YOU EVEN MORE PATHETIC IF WE ARE FAMILY AND BINGE WATCH JM OR GET OUR DAILY FIX YOU KNOW DAMN WELL WHAT GOES DOWN IN THE COMMENT SECTION AIN'T NOBODY BASHING HER WE AS FAMILY SHOULD CALL FOLKS OUT ON THEIR BULLSHIT..KEY WORD YOU MENTIONED MULTIPLE TIMES SHE LUCKY THATS ALL SHE GOT WAS A VERBAL BASHING THEN A BASHING UP SIDE HER HEAD FROM TRYING MULTIPLE TIMES TO HELP HIM OUT.. AND I STILL LOVE MY JM FAMILY... HAVE A GOOD DAY!!!!!!!
This woman was a fool and he was doing anything for her . Why do women buy into this BS ??? 13 years of being in a relationship with this LOSER.
I Agree WithYou,So many people are bashing her for for having a kind heart
Attractive and nice young woman with disastrous judgement.
She knew that dude was selling crack...it took her 13 yrs to figure out she was "feed up" please....these women wanna benefit from the hustle then knock it like they won't except the same money
PREACH!
If your selling for 13 years and don’t go legit they’re both losers
I mean he didn't even wanna marry her and she got two of his kids! Lol you can't make this shit up! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
13 years as a pay master I CANNOT & WILL NOT....smdh
WTH do you get with a DRUG dealer and expect HIM to be a stand up guy??? You could pick a better quality of person! But you didn't!! Kind of get exactly what you asked for!! 🖐🏿🤣😄
Exactly
Judge Mathis was also a troubled youngster until he met his now wife. and his wife turned his world around and made him think differently. She fell in love and was hopeful he would love her and his kids enough to change . He lost a good woman.
I'm just curious how they crossed paths and what the hell she saw in him that said family man......her parents must be real proud of her
Good Question
Her last comment stung him. He had nothing to retort. This guy is embarrassing. Black men and all men for that that matter, take care of your children!!! Grow up!!!!!!
Girl you a whole fool!!
Is this yall king??🥴
Either she has a checkered past or she must have been way way head over heels in love.. because 13 years with no ring is veeeeery unusual for some women
She may as well chop this up and count it as a loss.
She is a hell of a woman.... dude aint no one better than her
She was just happy a blk man looked at her no matter what he did
She allowed this to happen to her. Being desperate will get you this. Gotta choose better. He showed you who he was..
Big Unc I been watching this man show practically my whole life lol he basically family! Keep going Unc
Crack? I really didn't think people were still using crack...😒
There's a remnant out here... Though not at popular as many other drugs
Sure are, and they still use / sell cocaine.
The struggle bandit strikes again
Can somebody let Judge Mathis know that it's not that easy
It ain't about easy
If you want easy, don't be a criminal and don't create 2 kids.
@@ddavis8988 Exactly tf?
@@ddavis8988 💯
Um judge Mathis? he’s knows do u not know his background?
@@shanware2 yes i know his background, he not that anymore
He is seriously delayed. She should've been done with him before the children. Stop feeling sorry for men. We women need to be more selective about our investments. There are worthy me out there. We just need to free ourselves from energy vampires in order to be available for a man who reciprocates. A good man won't make you take care of him.
Women ain't going to never make better choices because they love these jailbirds, thugs, drug dealers and Hood dudes.... Lot of decent dudes out here but they just don't want them because they're "lame" and "square"
I don’t invest in No man ,
Now she can move on as a single mom / baby mama and f__k a good man over with two kids that aren't his.,
Unfaithful for 12 years. Foh you in court not counseling. What does this got to do with.......
Bringing up him selling drugs like u ddnt knw tht in the beginning....chile plz. It was ok with u until it wasn't, just state your case, dnt drag wht he was doing now, 13 yrs later.😒
Parents must be so proud of her 😮💨
At least she didn't get with Chris Watts
@@thebighousencaaattendancer478 she needs to avoid black men, that is her only down fall in life.
@@thebighousencaaattendancer478 Darrell Brooks Jr is who she deserves for going to the gutter to find these men.
@@thebighousencaaattendancer478 she might have well got with Chris Watts because she is dead to her family.
She is tried to act like she was against the dealing, but we all know she enjoyed the drug money. 🙄 She like it so much she a 2nd kid with him several years after the 1st kid.
He made a fool of this lady..very pitiful to take from your kid’s mouth smh
No she made a fool of herself.
@@latonyasmith4395 She choose.
It’s so many dudes like that in Appleton it’s a shame.
No she enjoyed every little dime of the money THEY lived off before he was incarcerated so no she’s not innocent no she’s not a sweetheart she’s not a victim she’s quietly sneaky but finally opened her eyes!!!!
tsk tsk tsk. poor becky
How dare he cheat on the most fit, feminine, submissive preference.
Lol 😂
Unh uh 😄 but this is the reality people choose to ignore.
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proven time and time again....
I see the ghost of Kevin Samuels still haunt these chicks till today
Cmon guy!
That's trifling!
U can do better than that!
Tell JM you’re a jailbird and he’ll go soft on you! 😑🤦🏽♂️
He gets on my nerves with that. It’s such a horrible example he is setting
Exactly. So annoying
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He totally dissed the sh!t out of him lol "i thought you were getting real money." five dollar rocks
Black or white has nothing to do with this ,he took advantage of her kindness
that's why she was attracted to him
She allowed it and something tells me She’ll get another “high value” dusty to take care of.
Baby mama # 450,678 !!
The defendant keep making excuses after excuses he need to act like a grown man, and pay that loan off his girlfriend is nice too him He agreed to repay her money most women will not take out a loan to buy him a vehicle on credit.
They get the same bm
was looking for this lol - agreed
The look on his face shows th signs of a hurt broken man...life is funny that way it's built solely on our decisions
13 years is so long to be off and on 😭😭😭. I feel bad for her I tell people stop playing house without the benefits
I don't feel anything for her what so ever, I feel sorry for the simp she's looking for to help her with her kids with a drug dealer. More than likely he's still hitting that ass from time to time. Men don't be a suckered for this type of crap.
Face he made when she said he was selling crack😂
The whitegirl don't know ......he's not a drug dealer. Not having any money ......she don't realize. Her black dude, was a street thug. It's funny, how whitegirl cross over .....and end up a babymomma. She should've got back with "Brad" and left .......... Trayshaun alone.
She loved the ROD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How the hell did she stay ever stay with this guy that long? beats me.
Buddy better get his act together and his priorities straight.
Well honestly that’s on you still. 12 years to figure out he was trash 😂😂
He’s a user damn come out of jail and cause burden to your family smh 🤦🏾♀️
yeah, he was in prison, that's what a lot of them do.
I like her words. All taking no give. Some people do things like that
He could of choose a better word for “paperwork “ lol he thru me off 😂😂
I’ve been waiting for some new videos!!
When a woman’s fed up… (you know the rest)
🎼🎵🎶 There ain't nothin' you can do about it... it's like runnin' outta love... and it's too late to talk about it🎼🎵🎶
(I had to 🤣)
@@keeshabrown7353 thanks 😂
@@keeshabrown7353 la la laaaaah lah ... la la lum
Good afternoon JM Fam!
It’s always some bad luck isn’t it
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The thing BM have to understand is when you date WW and they eventually get tired of you they will tell all your business and play the victim 🤦🏾♂️
I don't think it's a black man white woman thing I think if you're a person that's a piece of s*** taking advantage of a kind hearted person they're going to get tired of it no matter what race you are
Tell them!!! I know a BW, whose now "husband" (🤦🏾♀) was a two-bit "hustler" messing with a WW in PA. When he got caught up w/ the 👮🏼♂ that WW sang like a canary and they hauled his ass off to the big house. Meanwhile, the WW was in on it but didn't get in any trouble.
@@Jo_Schmoe there you go! BM refuse to leave them alone smh
@@Jo_Schmoe I'm a black man who have had white girlfriend ever since kindergarten and I'm nearly 40 now I've had every other race of girlfriend also including black I have never had any trouble with the white ones I've never had any trouble with the Asians I've never had any trouble with the Hispanic girls I've never had any trouble with the mix women all the trouble I've ever had with women were with the black ones and I still don't say that's all black women that's the ones that I had so you can't paint everybody with a broad brush ...every black man that get with a white woman is not going to be a crack dealer just because those are the type of people you know
@@scottrogue946 I've been dealing with white chicks for 35 years I ain't never had any trouble with any of them but maybe that's because I'm not a crack dealer every black man is not a crack dealer so it white woman telling on a drug dealer is not the problem of every black man
Once again it's clear women love these jailbirds, felons, badboys, drug dealers, thugs and other low lives. Then have babies with them and all. Plus have nerve to sue in court after full well knowing how they are from the beginning. It's insulting as a man having to see and live through these times.
It’s nothing new my man, women always seem to flock to bad boys
I can't do nothing with her 😭
SOME women like these men. For every one woman who chases a drug-dealing doofus, there are 10 of us who run the other way.
I am ashamed for all those men who are jailbirds, felons, badboys, drug dealers, thugs and other low lives. Maybe their mom's and sisters still love them and maybe SOME damaged women who don't know any better either. Yes, these are troubling times.
You're absolutely right Adrian most women especially black women love these Hood dudes and they turn down averages whether that be because they're ugly they don't have "swag" they're short, they don't join gangs, sell drugs etc... My own sister is proof of this
After the judgement he was stunned lol
He trippin for lettin her go she gorgeous and smart
She seems very patient.
She looks so young to have been with someone for 13 years
Judge roasting him 🤣
She chose him and he allowed himself to be chosen! If it wasn’t him, she would’ve loaned this money to another because that’s obviously her m.o. Same for him, he would’ve had someone else’s daughter paying for him because that’s his style! As for me…ima sip water and mind my business 😂
Finally an intelligent comment not mentioning or feeling sorry for a woman of poor choices. It’s 2022 common sense is in movies school commercials books social media. Get some people
Bruh she LOVES you! She just had enough of your selfishness and immaturity. She's real wifey material. Dang! give your kids THEIR money back!! Get it together, clean up and be the man, father and husband you suppose to be!
I agree with you however she's an idiot for laying down with this dude.. a lot of decent dudes out here but these chicks just don't want them