Maybe they just were not compatible. It’s not your job or business to judge two people you never met before or spoken to. People CAN DATE! Even teenagers Date. So don’t walk around saying adults can’t. You sound dumb.
Her face is def natural but she's also naturally off a bit! Something ain't right with her just by choosing that man and loosing her mind 4 a weak man like that
@ Nah. It’s real simple. Sis was ready to end it all over a great value Mr.clean that’s a mommas boy who can’t seem to grow up and be a man at his big age! Wayyyy bigger fish 🎣 She is very pretty and she had a weak moment, but he isn’t worth all that!
I commend her for going to the hospital for help when she was overwhelmed. That took so much courage. I pray she’s in a better place and with better company. This guy said he moved back home bc he missed his mom & his cat. Like, dude. 🤦🏾♀️
You commend people with broken arms or legs for going to the hospital also? Lmfao, if your sick then your sick. Why commend them for needing help? She didn’t go get help until she was already cutting herself and lying about pregnancy dum dum.
It breaks my heart that NO ONE validated her!! Yes, she's beautiful but that doesn't matter when your heart and mind tell you otherwise. She needs that. Not to be told that she is strong. FYI- Check on your strong friends. Stop always depending on them, be there for them.
They both are unstable mentally like you said and co dependent as hell. She was weak for this mama boy and engaged in attention seeking behavior to win him back, that much is very clear. That’s psychotic af and she doesn’t have a case. She dragged him to court to make him pay. He is a loser and she is beautiful. You live and you learn, get over him.
Plaintiff’s outer beauty is surpassed by whatever broke her internally. This young lady needs help mentally and spiritually. I hope she gets the help she needs. You need to know your worth so everyone else around you knows how to treat you. 🙏🏽💖
Let me tell you something. You are never a burden to your mother. She will find the strength of Samson to help her child. It takes strength to ask for help.
Although he’s a grown man he’s not ready to live as a man. At least he was responsible enough to continue to pay rent. The plaintiff needs therapy, she’s not as strong as her mom thinks.
Dang.. I didn’t get a phone call or a text🤷🏼♂️ but yeah either way it’s still cruel to break up that way. It’s like people forget how to be emotionally mature and civil during a breakup.
She's gorgeous, intelligent, well-spoken, has a good job, and SELF AWARE, knowing when, where, and how to seek help... Girl, you got it going on... don't let anyone, let alone a man, bring you down!!! 💕💕💕
Intelligent she moved in with a guy after a couple months of dating, she and that man then moved in to an apartment together, she let him leave and got stuck with the bill, she then did not get a new roommate nor did she talk to the landlord, and then to cap it off, she lied and told buddy she was pregnant............
The Judge got this right on the money. She could have done any number of things to find another room mate and the hospital visit, nothing but emotional blackmail.
This is the only real comment here. Her manipulation was completely glazed over. Falsely baby trapping someone is messed up. That plays with a lot of emotions
I think she needed that test of her heart now than later. Hopefully she knows that it’s not how we fall but always how we get up and keep moving forward ⏩⏩.
@merdynes I've been doing the same today, and I keep finding myself basically putting myself down over my procrastination... this just validated my decision to veg out today. Lol. Thank you. 😊 Enjoy your off day!
Eh, can't say that for all mothers, or fathers in that case. Some parents are unfortunately super abusive and use kids for clout, status symbols, or servants. If you've ever seen the book "A Child Called It" (or something like that), it'll tell you a most horrible story that one would think was made up, but I don't think even great horror/thriller authors like Steven King could come up with something that horrible (as in, tragic to the person who had to suffer through it). I should say that I did not have this kind of relationship with my parents, thank goodness. But not every mother is a caring or loving woman - nor deserves to have a child, like no child should ever have a "parent" like that.
Goodness, my heart breaks for her. She just looks so sad. I've been there after a breakup and I hope she's in a better mentally. Seems her mom is a loving support.
Stay single you will be better off in the long run and don’t move in with people you have only known for less than 3 months both of them are too immature to be in any relationship.
"Strong" people go through a lot without sharing it with anybody. Check on your "strong" friends and family members. He broke the lease, keep on paying, was the least he could have done after leaving her stuck financially. She still needs a lot of help, the way she reacted when the judge issued the verdict...
Oh shut up every woman deserves to be told she’s pretty has a good job and intelligent she was just fragile and this bozo couldn’t lead her did he even visit her in the hospital? She’s deserves the best
Omg, it is said that she is strong (which she is trying to be). She is also fragile and seems to be an empathy and/or an highly sensitive person. She is strong, but constant struggles without support can be overwhelming. I know her pain too well.
When you have to turn to others for support honey you aren't strong you are a leaner someone who needs to be told what to do and how to act. She needs to grow up with her almost 30 years old self and realize that life is ups and downs and everyone has to move on. Her problem is she just had to stop and cry about it and check herself in to the hospital claiming some BS about wanting to kill herself and had to let him know and told him to call her mommy. I mean really people that try to kill themselves that really want to kill themselves succeed. Lets be honest.
*She keeps saying “he thought it was a good idea”, as if she had no part in the DECISIONS she made to move in with him and to get an apartment. Accountability goes BOTH ways*
JM sounds super judgy for something she says she not judging. The Defendant convinced the Plaintiff to enter a situation she couldn't afford by herself, then he ducked out of the "adult" experiment. You sign a lease, you're on the hook for the lease. Being on the precipice of homelessness is extremely stressful and depressing. Nothing wrong about her communicating the results of his actions to him. Learning your pregnant after a breakup isn't a conspiracy. There's tons of single parents out there with that exact same story. That dude was a sorry excuse for a mommy's boy. Period.
But here are you saying he's a mommy's boy when you don't know what HIS life is like. He could have barriers that prevent him from living without a caretaker, or maybe he's the caretaker of his mother. Maybe he just didn't want to leave a home that gave him comfort. No one really asked about his life before meeting this woman or what he does for his mother. We just know that he missed the comforts of home, his mother, and his cat. Everyone made impulse decisions here and it came to bite them in the butt. We don't even know if the two had a sexual relationship. Moving in with each other doesn't equal getting in bed and getting it on every time. I could see this being seen as a lie as well just so she could have him back - especially if some women in breakups suddenly have a baby inside of them. HMMM WHERE DID THAT COME FROM? You'd think she would've said "I'm pregnant" at another time, especially if they did have a sexual relationship. I probably sound rather judgemental here as well, but you can't really judge a book by its cover.
@OverlordZeroULTIMA Did you read back your comment out loud before you posted? Did you hear the part where he said his mom wrote his rent checks after he gave her the money to. He was absolutely trying on his big boy pants but then ran back home to his mom and their cat. I can understand cultural differences but I'm pretty sure his mom didn't approve. You've seriously got to be kidding me if you think they weren't shagging like rabbits. That's why they had to get their own apartment.
Yikes when she said she was 28 my jaw dropped. She’s way too old for this kind of behavior to be excused. If it was a man we’d all be scared of what he’s capable of.
She’s “too old” to have weak moments where she feels hopeless and fears that she could possibly harm herself? Are you aware that the demographic of people least likely to die by suicide are those under the age of 25, and the most likely are people over 85, not to even mention the scores of people who falls within that spectrum. We don’t know what kind of challenges she may be dealing with, e.g., anxiety, depression, etc., so it isn’t fair to dismiss her emotions and actions as being those of someone who is “old enough to know better”.
@ Nice strawman. She’s TOO OLD to be LYING about being pregnant. To be SUING for being broken up with. To be MOVING in with a random guy after 3 months and then acting shocked when it didn’t work out. To be TEXTING him asking him to find her another guy like him. Or did you miss all that?
SC girl outside saying 4 months is enough time to get to know a person and move in with them. Girl - that good schooling you're paying incredibly high tuition for is doing you No good. Sad.
My momma told me that if I don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything. I don't have anything nice to say about these 2. And why do people think that just because you are beautiful, that you're automatically immune to human problems? Two, 21+ year old kids. That dude let her off easy. He didn't want to REALLY want to say why he broke up and moved. He had to get away!!!!
My ultimate heartbreak happened around 28/29 and I was in shambles but there is life on the other side of heartbreak. I get really sad when I hear heartbreak stories.
Everyone handles breakups differently. The Plaintiff had strong feelings for the defendant and the way he left was devastating leaving her to pay the rest of the lease alone. I know the Plaintiff was hurt, but maybe the defendant leaving was a good thing. This is a huge red flag, if he left you high and dry with an apartment then he'll do the same with everything else that gets tough. THANK GOODNESS YOU DIDN'T HAVE ANY CHILDREN!!!! You would of been left alone raising children! Consider yourself lucky! You are gorgeous you won't have any problem finding a good responsible man!! Don't give up, your life matters!!!!!!!!
The landlord has to try to mitigate their damages. I broke a lease and someone moved in by the first. The landlord tried to sue for the remaining months on the lease. He lost the case because he didn't miss out on any money.
The landlord doesn't have to do anything but collect rent. He doesn't have to help find a new roommate or anything like that. But the landlord has final say on the new leasee, if they don't pass the background check, the landlord doesn't have to accept them. The people on the lease are responsible for paying rent. Period. If she placed ads for rent & showed the place, she did what she's supposed to do.
@@dec1slh Let's be clear. You're responsible for paying the rent for the length of the lease, unless the the place is uninhabitable. You were LUCKY the landlord got someone in & didn't lose anymore, otherwise, you would've been on the hook, voluntarily or through civil action. I'm sure the landlord told you they had someone waiting otherwise you would've been responsible for your lease.
@panamafernandez4641 I may have been lucky, but I moved out because I was robbed by the people in the unit next to me who happen to be related to the landlord. Had he not found someone, he could have sued for the remainder of the lease. But he had an obligation to try to mitigate his damages, if he did nothing to try to find a tenant, he would have only gotten 2 - 3 months worth of rent. Most people don't go to court when sued so they get a default judgement against them for the amount of the original lawsuit. In hindsight, I think that is what previously happened with other tenants, but I showed up to court and pled my case. FYI - the landlord didn't tell me anything, we weren't on speaking terms, but I wasn't risking my life and possessions by staying there. Even if I would have had to pay, some things are not worth the risk
This case hurts me. You really don't know ppl until you know ppl. She's book smart but not street smart. And I would have never moved in with him and his mother, sorry
There is more to her issues its not all on him, he did more than what other people would do. Im not blaming him nor her sometimes we make choices plain and simple
Met my husband online and moved in the first day together at age 25; we have been married 18 years now. I always say it’s crazy, but we both just knew. It’s been wonderful too.
Some of these comments regarding the plaintiff are deplorable. Anyways I hope she’s now in a much better place - sometimes it takes longer to get over the loss of a relationship. I wish her peace and good health.
The defendant is so immature it hurts... It wouldn't surprise me if his mom was in his ear and encouraged him to break up with plaintiff (mid lease) and come home 👀
The wrong partner can set you back for years..Pick up yourself girl! Dont geel bad you gave someone beneath you in every way a chance...NEver drpp your standards EVER!
I had a Ex that wanted me to sell my house and move in her house. We were dating for a while but had our issues during the relationship and eventually broke up. Good thing I did not sell my house.
I had a roommate in the late 80s. One day he walked out of his room smoking a joint. I told him, "PUT THAT SHIT OUT." Then I told him, "one of my rules of you living here was you cannot do any drugs here." I told him he now had 5 days to pack up all his stuff and get out. He said he would sue me, which he never did. After he was gone I told the other roommate "good riddance to bad rubbish"
![[SFM] Risky Recital](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/RzNkY1_Nk3o/mqdefault.jpg)
They both need to avoid dating until they are mental and emotionally all together.
@@teairathomas663Whatever happened to getting married first?
she's 28 she's already programmed
Exactly.
Maybe they just were not compatible. It’s not your job or business to judge two people you never met before or spoken to. People CAN DATE! Even teenagers Date. So don’t walk around saying adults can’t. You sound dumb.
@@tmmalone1986 "It's not your job to judge."
"You sound dumb."
See if you can guess the discrepancy.
Just because someone is silent doesn't mean that they're strong... especially in the moment. Check on your "strong" friends folks.
Thank you!
I came to say the same! Check on the strong ones!!! 😢
Exactly the same thing I always say.
This woman isn't strong she's a mess
Oh she's definitely not strong she's desperate and needs to grow up
She is 🔥. Has a natural, beautiful sophistication about her.
Just terrible decision making acting like a child. So being pretty really means nothing
So you know her personality?
Her face is def natural but she's also naturally off a bit! Something ain't right with her just by choosing that man and loosing her mind 4 a weak man like that
🙃🤣
Girl you NEVER lose yourself like this over a man! NEVER! 👎🏽
The skin tone
Then she found out😂
My mom taught me to NEVER love a man more then he loves you and it's always done me well over the years.
Sometimes easier said then done
Uh, watch the video. She is the problem.
@ Nah. It’s real simple. Sis was ready to end it all over a great value Mr.clean that’s a mommas boy who can’t seem to grow up and be a man at his big age! Wayyyy bigger fish 🎣 She is very pretty and she had a weak moment, but he isn’t worth all that!
She is so adorable, but I can see her pain…wishing her some healing. Him too.
Healing from what? Her own decisions?
Love her hair❤❤❤
💯🥰
His heir u mean??
I commend her for going to the hospital for help when she was overwhelmed. That took so much courage. I pray she’s in a better place and with better company. This guy said he moved back home bc he missed his mom & his cat. Like, dude. 🤦🏾♀️
Lol. Really.
You commend people with broken arms or legs for going to the hospital also? Lmfao, if your sick then your sick. Why commend them for needing help? She didn’t go get help until she was already cutting herself and lying about pregnancy dum dum.
@@tmmalone1986She never cut herself. I commend her for getting help also. Many suffer in silence.
She broke down after the ruling. She’s still hurt. Hope she’s better cause he seems to be.
I saw that look on her face as well but she pulled it together for the exit interview.
Can we just take a second to acknowledge how beautiful the plaintiff is. I mean come on..
Mom is beautiful to.
The Defendent is cute too. I mean...come on now.
Meh... she looks like Link from a lost episode of Mod Squad
Absolutely
Who tf cares
It breaks my heart that NO ONE validated her!! Yes, she's beautiful but that doesn't matter when your heart and mind tell you otherwise. She needs that. Not to be told that she is strong. FYI- Check on your strong friends. Stop always depending on them, be there for them.
🙏🏾🙌🏾
What do you mean by “validate”?
Wym? JM and her mom stated she’s a strong individual.
I don’t get what you mean by validate
Exactly 💯💯💯💯
Why would anyone want to move in with a grown man and his mother?
Because she's missing that mother bond. Her mother seems very cold
A lot of people. I guess you’re the type who drops their mother off at a nursing home and won’t take care of your FAMILY. That’s so sad and pathetic.
Girl he did you a favor!!!
Moving in with someone is not for the weak. Make sure you move in with someone who is responsible, mentally emotionally and financially stable!!
Ya that poor man I'm so glad he moved away from that psycho
To know me an live me are two different things . praying they are both in a better place n space🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
@rubylimey7614 if you can't love me at my worst you can't love me at my best 💯
Two clingy people but not clingy to each other, her to him and him to his mother.
He was so put off with her he had to run all the way home 😂😂😂 at least his mom isn't a psycho 😂😂
@pixiechick92 Oh please..he's probably still single til this day bc he's a Mama's boy
@@pixiechick92psycho how?🤔
They both are unstable mentally like you said and co dependent as hell. She was weak for this mama boy and engaged in attention seeking behavior to win him back, that much is very clear. That’s psychotic af and she doesn’t have a case. She dragged him to court to make him pay. He is a loser and she is beautiful. You live and you learn, get over him.
Her eyes are so 😔 wish she is in a better place
She was pissed she didn't win 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 she's a vindictive psycho
Plaintiff’s outer beauty is surpassed by whatever broke her internally. This young lady needs help mentally and spiritually. I hope she gets the help she needs. You need to know your worth so everyone else around you knows how to treat you. 🙏🏽💖
Let me tell you something. You are never a burden to your mother. She will find the strength of Samson to help her child. It takes strength to ask for help.
I Love your comment. It truly does take strength to ask for help. Absolutely. It's an admirable thing to do 🫶🏽
Should be this way, unfortunately not every mother is what their children need.
I thought the person breaking the lease is responsible for finding the replacement.
the comment section is giving me hope for the world.....stay strong sis
My QUEEN, you can do sooooo much better! Keep your head up ❤️
Although he’s a grown man he’s not ready to live as a man. At least he was responsible enough to continue to pay rent. The plaintiff needs therapy, she’s not as strong as her mom thinks.
She's not as strong as she thinks either.
"Over the phone. " That's what my husband did when he told me he has a girlfriend while I was out of state. I agree 👍 That's low 😢
It is so cruel to call someone at work and break up with them.
Or by text smh
Dang.. I didn’t get a phone call or a text🤷🏼♂️ but yeah either way it’s still cruel to break up that way. It’s like people forget how to be emotionally mature and civil during a breakup.
@brainy1977 You didn't get anything??😪
She's gorgeous, intelligent, well-spoken, has a good job, and SELF AWARE, knowing when, where, and how to seek help...
Girl, you got it going on... don't let anyone, let alone a man, bring you down!!! 💕💕💕
Intelligent she moved in with a guy after a couple months of dating, she and that man then moved in to an apartment together, she let him leave and got stuck with the bill, she then did not get a new roommate nor did she talk to the landlord, and then to cap it off, she lied and told buddy she was pregnant............
Be careful who you meet and date.
Absolutely
Chasing the skin tone 😂
Preach on that nie
I got the same vibe.
The plaintiff is beautiful ❗️❤❤❤❤
I think something wrong with her mentally she just can't see herself over a soft man 😂😂😂
And a nut case.
It's called SELF-esteem for a reason.
For sure! She can do much better than this guy!!!
@@righttoouropinionthanks4710 For sure! He can do much better than this gal !!!
I just want to hug her !
Heartbreak is the WORST! Turns you into a totally different person.
They both got serious issues
What’s his issue, he didn’t like her anymore so he bailed?
The Judge got this right on the money. She could have done any number of things to find another room mate and the hospital visit, nothing but emotional blackmail.
right she was being manipulative imo
Thanks , one honest comment now I can go to bed 😂
But why was it only on her to find another roommate when he was the one that left. He should have also helped to find someone new also.
@@sisilyte7He mentioned that they did try to find a roommate but she was distrusting of them.
This is the only real comment here. Her manipulation was completely glazed over. Falsely baby trapping someone is messed up. That plays with a lot of emotions
I think she needed that test of her heart now than later. Hopefully she knows that it’s not how we fall but always how we get up and keep moving forward ⏩⏩.
Happy Wednesday everyone! Hope everyone is having a decent day
It’s raining. I’m lying around eating fast food and chocolate watching the Peoples Court. It’s my day off 😊
Happy Wednesday! 🤗 Have a good day!!!
You too! Cold day here.
Happy Wednesday people all the way from Jamaica 🇯🇲 Ocean Corals Resort in Falmouth 🎉❤
@merdynes I've been doing the same today, and I keep finding myself basically putting myself down over my procrastination... this just validated my decision to veg out today. Lol. Thank you. 😊 Enjoy your off day!
I'm surprised Doug didn't ask him if he still lives with his mommy😂😂
She made very good decisions about protecting herself and her mental state. But there is definitely unexplored trauma for this to plague her at 28.
A mother is the only woman in life that would never stop loving you
Eh, can't say that for all mothers, or fathers in that case. Some parents are unfortunately super abusive and use kids for clout, status symbols, or servants.
If you've ever seen the book "A Child Called It" (or something like that), it'll tell you a most horrible story that one would think was made up, but I don't think even great horror/thriller authors like Steven King could come up with something that horrible (as in, tragic to the person who had to suffer through it).
I should say that I did not have this kind of relationship with my parents, thank goodness. But not every mother is a caring or loving woman - nor deserves to have a child, like no child should ever have a "parent" like that.
Depends on the mothers. Some are terrible.
Your mother loves you, but she doesn’t lurveeeeeeeeee you, if you know what I mean.
@@OverlordZeroULTIMAI read that book , that was a very sad memoir !😢
This unfortunately is not true.
Goodness, my heart breaks for her. She just looks so sad. I've been there after a breakup and I hope she's in a better mentally. Seems her mom is a loving support.
She needs to grow up
K.
She’s so pretty, and very smart as it seems. She can get anyone better.
She's a liar and a pity party thrower. She needs to grow up
She is average and her mind is what drives away men 😂😂😂😂😂
She's desperate and needs to grow up
@ i just believe people become dumb when it comes to love.
What’s her @
Unfortunately depression doesn't care how beautiful you are. Chemical imbalances are a thing too. Prayers for her mental health.
Stay single you will be better off in the long run and don’t move in with people you have only known for less than 3 months both of them are too immature to be in any relationship.
There’s no single set of solution that applies to everyone. Some people do well moving in together while some don’t.
I think you should ask the millions of happily married people if it better to stay single…
"Strong" people go through a lot without sharing it with anybody. Check on your "strong" friends and family members. He broke the lease, keep on paying, was the least he could have done after leaving her stuck financially. She still needs a lot of help, the way she reacted when the judge issued the verdict...
This whole thing went right, left, right, up, down-psyche, left left
More so up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A ....start
Who cares if she's pretty or he's handsome? They managed to bring out the ugly in each other and it caused the breakup. Pretty is as pretty does.
Oh shut up every woman deserves to be told she’s pretty has a good job and intelligent she was just fragile and this bozo couldn’t lead her did he even visit her in the hospital? She’s deserves the best
Her hair is 🔥🔥🔥
Beautiful advice judge
When you sign a contract it’s a contract let that Momas boy pay
Can't help but appreciate that beard.
I appreciate those eyebrows.....lol
I appreciate her 'Fro
I agree that all these hair comments are justified. ❤
I said the same thing. That beard was beautiful lol
hey as a beard guy myself that beard do look pretty good man
Omg, it is said that she is strong (which she is trying to be). She is also fragile and seems to be an empathy and/or an highly sensitive person. She is strong, but constant struggles without support can be overwhelming. I know her pain too well.
When you have to turn to others for support honey you aren't strong you are a leaner someone who needs to be told what to do and how to act. She needs to grow up with her almost 30 years old self and realize that life is ups and downs and everyone has to move on. Her problem is she just had to stop and cry about it and check herself in to the hospital claiming some BS about wanting to kill herself and had to let him know and told him to call her mommy. I mean really people that try to kill themselves that really want to kill themselves succeed. Lets be honest.
She's just a crazy mess she's fake and you're buying the bs😂😂😂😂
@@pixiechick92 IKR
I never recommend that ppl break up face to face. It's dangerous AF.
*She keeps saying “he thought it was a good idea”, as if she had no part in the DECISIONS she made to move in with him and to get an apartment. Accountability goes BOTH ways*
My husband and I both knew it was the real thing after a week. We've been together a little over 24 years now. When you know, you know.
Unfortunately this isnt always the case
I met your husband He's a pretty good guy
Your husband has a Brokeback Mountain friendship with me.
That's just conformation bias..... every man receiving a blow jobs feels that way...until he doesn't.
They both are stunted at maybe 11 yo and yet they’re out in the world with important jobs ..kind of unsettling to witness
Exactly and all these people kissing her ass are just as stunted
JM sounds super judgy for something she says she not judging. The Defendant convinced the Plaintiff to enter a situation she couldn't afford by herself, then he ducked out of the "adult" experiment. You sign a lease, you're on the hook for the lease. Being on the precipice of homelessness is extremely stressful and depressing. Nothing wrong about her communicating the results of his actions to him. Learning your pregnant after a breakup isn't a conspiracy. There's tons of single parents out there with that exact same story. That dude was a sorry excuse for a mommy's boy. Period.
She wasn’t pregnant be real…
@James-134 she most likely was. Thank goodness she was legally able to opt out of that responsibility
But here are you saying he's a mommy's boy when you don't know what HIS life is like. He could have barriers that prevent him from living without a caretaker, or maybe he's the caretaker of his mother. Maybe he just didn't want to leave a home that gave him comfort. No one really asked about his life before meeting this woman or what he does for his mother. We just know that he missed the comforts of home, his mother, and his cat. Everyone made impulse decisions here and it came to bite them in the butt.
We don't even know if the two had a sexual relationship. Moving in with each other doesn't equal getting in bed and getting it on every time. I could see this being seen as a lie as well just so she could have him back - especially if some women in breakups suddenly have a baby inside of them. HMMM WHERE DID THAT COME FROM? You'd think she would've said "I'm pregnant" at another time, especially if they did have a sexual relationship.
I probably sound rather judgemental here as well, but you can't really judge a book by its cover.
@OverlordZeroULTIMA Did you read back your comment out loud before you posted? Did you hear the part where he said his mom wrote his rent checks after he gave her the money to. He was absolutely trying on his big boy pants but then ran back home to his mom and their cat. I can understand cultural differences but I'm pretty sure his mom didn't approve. You've seriously got to be kidding me if you think they weren't shagging like rabbits. That's why they had to get their own apartment.
@@OverlordZeroULTIMA Did you read that back to yourself out loud? That dude left a catch because he missed his cat!? Be for real.
Yikes when she said she was 28 my jaw dropped. She’s way too old for this kind of behavior to be excused. If it was a man we’d all be scared of what he’s capable of.
She’s “too old” to have weak moments where she feels hopeless and fears that she could possibly harm herself? Are you aware that the demographic of people least likely to die by suicide are those under the age of 25, and the most likely are people over 85, not to even mention the scores of people who falls within that spectrum. We don’t know what kind of challenges she may be dealing with, e.g., anxiety, depression, etc., so it isn’t fair to dismiss her emotions and actions as being those of someone who is “old enough to know better”.
@ Nice strawman.
She’s TOO OLD to be LYING about being pregnant.
To be SUING for being broken up with.
To be MOVING in with a random guy after 3 months and then acting shocked when it didn’t work out.
To be TEXTING him asking him to find her another guy like him.
Or did you miss all that?
^^^^^^^THIS
He didn't give his mother ish.
Easier said than done. When you like who you like, it's hard to move on. I'm just saying. It happens to the best of us. Even when we are strong.
So true!
She's beautiful 😍
But makes bad choices 😮
Like.....really bad choices
He didn't want to pay bills and keep job... etc. Dodged a bullet girl
He did she is the one that didn't get a roommate he dodged the bullet
He paid four months of rent after he moved out
She is not a strong person. She tried to manipulate that dude, lied about a pregnancy, hospital stay, she NEEDS HELP.
SC girl outside saying 4 months is enough time to get to know a person and move in with them. Girl - that good schooling you're paying incredibly high tuition for is doing you No good. Sad.
These people have to grown up!
Plaintiff needs the unfailing Love of Christ first and foremost 🙏🏾- If Jesus accepts me, who can reject me? NOBODY!✝
Amen!
Get out of the Middle Ages.
@MindSetReset So True! I am praying that she finds that unfailing Love of Christ!
Beauty doesn't matter. good grief. you are beautiful so you should be happy and not have any problems. wow
Right Beauty does nothing for a broken heart
Strong people dont think about ending their life over a short relationship. Strong people also don’t lie about being pregnant.
You have no idea if she lied or not. She never responded to what the defendant stated. You’re assuming.
@@greatsweetniceexactly.
Agreed. She seems extremely fragile.
Why would anyone move in with a stranger??😮
Obviously cuz they can't afford to live alone 🤷🏽♀️
Calm down, you're born into a family of strangers.
If the plaintiff didn’t really wanna live in the apartment, she would’ve moved out and back in with her 7 people, and subleased the entire apartment.
"He didn't provide a solution for ME". She likes to play victim.
Definitely.
Exactly. He tried and she didn't accept it
Why did this make me tear up?
I know why. She doesn't value herself enough and worries what others may think of her. I think she had self-esteem issues as well.
Clearly this lady don’t see how beautiful she is, how he even got a conversation from her I don’t even wanna know. Know your worth
Why did he say process server like that!?!? Did he think Judge Milian didn't know what it was 😂
Sounds like he hesitated because he's currently out of work
Both of them need to grow TF up before they start dating! We have a generation of children walking in adult bodies 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
She is beautiful and her mom says she’s strong BUT you never know ppl mental. Most ppl that are strong are hurting the most. 😢
Beauty does nothing for a broken heart
My momma told me that if I don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything. I don't have anything nice to say about these 2. And why do people think that just because you are beautiful, that you're automatically immune to human problems? Two, 21+ year old kids. That dude let her off easy. He didn't want to REALLY want to say why he broke up and moved. He had to get away!!!!
I would think she would make enough as a paralegal where she wouldn’t need a roommate.
We don’t know her debt load. I’m thinking repayment of student loans.
And they live in L.A.🤷🏽
Plaintiff dodged a bullet!! He's a mommas boy, who missed her and his cat!!
I kind of feel the opposite. I think the plaintiff has some issues. I hope she gets help and find peace
Plaintiff has more issues than Time Magazine
She just wants to be loved.. purely… she deserves a love that gives her security ❤
Dude, stay with your mom. That girl is bad news
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She right away tries to make it sound like she had nothing to do with anything and everything was "he thought it would be a good idea if.....".
My ultimate heartbreak happened around 28/29 and I was in shambles but there is life on the other side of heartbreak. I get really sad when I hear heartbreak stories.
No one cares, momma.
Sounds like you're still not over him.... why do girls want a dbag that doesn't want them or even care about them.
Everyone handles breakups differently. The Plaintiff had strong feelings for the defendant and the way he left was devastating leaving her to pay the rest of the lease alone. I know the Plaintiff was hurt, but maybe the defendant leaving was a good thing. This is a huge red flag, if he left you high and dry with an apartment then he'll do the same with everything else that gets tough. THANK GOODNESS YOU DIDN'T HAVE ANY CHILDREN!!!! You would of been left alone raising children! Consider yourself lucky! You are gorgeous you won't have any problem finding a good responsible man!! Don't give up, your life matters!!!!!!!!
This judge takes nice to people then flies off the handle
Plaintiff definitely dodged a bullet by getting out of that relationship when he did.
This was a Dr Phil episode 😮
So a person can break a lease & only have to pay 3 months after breaking the lease. That's good to know.
The landlord has to try to mitigate their damages. I broke a lease and someone moved in by the first. The landlord tried to sue for the remaining months on the lease. He lost the case because he didn't miss out on any money.
The landlord doesn't have to do anything but collect rent. He doesn't have to help find a new roommate or anything like that. But the landlord has final say on the new leasee, if they don't pass the background check, the landlord doesn't have to accept them. The people on the lease are responsible for paying rent. Period. If she placed ads for rent & showed the place, she did what she's supposed to do.
@panamafernandez4641 the landlord has to try mitigate damages once someone breaks the lease. If they don't they only get 2 - 3 months worth of rent.
@@dec1slh Let's be clear. You're responsible for paying the rent for the length of the lease, unless the the place is uninhabitable. You were LUCKY the landlord got someone in & didn't lose anymore, otherwise, you would've been on the hook, voluntarily or through civil action. I'm sure the landlord told you they had someone waiting otherwise you would've been responsible for your lease.
@panamafernandez4641 I may have been lucky, but I moved out because I was robbed by the people in the unit next to me who happen to be related to the landlord. Had he not found someone, he could have sued for the remainder of the lease. But he had an obligation to try to mitigate his damages, if he did nothing to try to find a tenant, he would have only gotten 2 - 3 months worth of rent. Most people don't go to court when sued so they get a default judgement against them for the amount of the original lawsuit. In hindsight, I think that is what previously happened with other tenants, but I showed up to court and pled my case.
FYI - the landlord didn't tell me anything, we weren't on speaking terms, but I wasn't risking my life and possessions by staying there. Even if I would have had to pay, some things are not worth the risk
The fact that she LIED about being pregnant tells you all you need to know about this problem chick!! She LOVES and WANTS ATTENTION
Wow Judge Milan really?!😢 I can’t believe she responded that way. What a terrible thing to say to someone who has suffered suicidal depression
This case hurts me. You really don't know ppl until you know ppl. She's book smart but not street smart. And I would have never moved in with him and his mother, sorry
If she even looked for roommates, which I’m doubting, they probably ran in the opposite direction. She is CRAZY
There is more to her issues its not all on him, he did more than what other people would do. Im not blaming him nor her sometimes we make choices plain and simple
This beautiful woman fell in love with a mamas boy. No one will be good enough for him. I wish nothing but the best for her.
she wrong as hell... a one bedroom
These Gen Z'ers need to toughen up, they are made out of paper mache
That’s not nice. However, you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!😂
These tales are as old as the hills, so believe me…even your generation, whatever it may be, has at times fallen victim to this type of behavior.
You hit that nail on the head! Now if someone would just do that to them and let them know to grow up!
This case is from 2016 and the plaintiff was 28. These are millenials.
@@brianmcfadden4063 Even worse
Met my husband online and moved in the first day together at age 25; we have been married 18 years now. I always say it’s crazy, but we both just knew. It’s been wonderful too.
Some of these comments regarding the plaintiff are deplorable. Anyways I hope she’s now in a much better place - sometimes it takes longer to get over the loss of a relationship. I wish her peace and good health.
They are both gorgeous people (skin is absolutely flawless on both of them !!) and I hope they get emotionally and mentally stronger and more stable.
The defendant is so immature it hurts... It wouldn't surprise me if his mom was in his ear and encouraged him to break up with plaintiff (mid lease) and come home 👀
The wrong partner can set you back for years..Pick up yourself girl! Dont geel bad you gave someone beneath you in every way a chance...NEver drpp your standards EVER!
I had a Ex that wanted me to sell my house and move in her house. We were dating for a while but had our issues during the relationship and eventually broke up. Good thing I did not sell my house.
This case broke my heart
I had a roommate in the late 80s. One day he walked out of his room smoking a joint. I told him, "PUT THAT SHIT OUT." Then I told him, "one of my rules of you living here was you cannot do any drugs here." I told him he now had 5 days to pack up all his stuff and get out. He said he would sue me, which he never did. After he was gone I told the other roommate "good riddance to bad rubbish"
This is a trend. Letting your adult children live at home may feel comfortable, but it does not help them develop as independent individuals.