spend the week with me - turning my anxiety into productivity

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @nupurd6335
    @nupurd6335 7 месяцев назад +478

    anxiety is such a bitch, because it makes you fear the things you love. anxiety makes me not want to study, (finance girlies where you at???) not want you to be happy, not want you to hang out friends. i love how you pull through it and share your progress with us. it is comforting and makes me wanna pull through which i do. and i go on beach walks (best thing ever) because of you!!!! love you steph and thank you for everything you do, for making us feel normal

    • @nityas28
      @nityas28 7 месяцев назад +3

      Same girl same 🥲

    • @sienna13
      @sienna13 7 месяцев назад +1

      felt this!! x

    • @humannature-nm6xq
      @humannature-nm6xq 7 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly. ❤

    • @user-rq8bi5yh5z
      @user-rq8bi5yh5z 7 месяцев назад +2

      okay i think i just have anxiety then..

    • @mariaolivero634
      @mariaolivero634 7 месяцев назад +1

      so true, life feels scary is just a super hard feeling

  • @windmillfarm_
    @windmillfarm_ 7 месяцев назад +622

    "Because... we're not going to starbucks". An absolute legend.

    • @syarifahaeesyahsyedshikh6722
      @syarifahaeesyahsyedshikh6722 7 месяцев назад +17

      IM SO HAPPY WHEN I HEARD THAT. NOW I WILL SUPPORT HER CHANNEL EVEN MORE. LOVING HER EVEN MORE!

    • @khadija5885
      @khadija5885 6 месяцев назад +2

      made me smileeee :)

    • @Nkh21777
      @Nkh21777 5 месяцев назад +1

      Sameeeee

  • @bibble335
    @bibble335 7 месяцев назад +113

    when the part of the video where you show your perfectly organised closet came up i immediately thought oh no bc i saw your instagram story of it falling apart

    • @StephBohrer
      @StephBohrer  7 месяцев назад +53

      it’s tragic really

    • @bonniemae1397
      @bonniemae1397 7 месяцев назад +2

      Me too😭😭

    • @dogusatoru
      @dogusatoru 7 месяцев назад +2

      What happened I don't use ig?

    • @bibble335
      @bibble335 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@dogusatoru she went out and then came back to her entire closet collapsed and on the floor. like the railings had come off the walls i think bc of the amount of clothes on them

  • @awestapopalzai95
    @awestapopalzai95 7 месяцев назад +708

    “because we’re not going to starbucks” UGH ILY

    • @bashirahtahreema2617
      @bashirahtahreema2617 7 месяцев назад

      she supports SKIMS bro, that kim kardashian company that is funding the genocide. this is so twofaced lol

    • @nedaaka4421
      @nedaaka4421 7 месяцев назад

      can you tag where she says that I can’t find it😭😭

    • @heeeee6747
      @heeeee6747 7 месяцев назад

      @@nedaaka44211:06

    • @ishaalkhan90
      @ishaalkhan90 7 месяцев назад

      @@nedaaka4421 1:06

    • @jadajemmott
      @jadajemmott 7 месяцев назад

      @@nedaaka44211:00 timestamp! 💖

  • @graciousintentions
    @graciousintentions 7 месяцев назад +82

    Me, a 30 yr old mom finding comfort in your adorable videos. You’re such a doll!!!

  • @mariahh.04
    @mariahh.04 7 месяцев назад +454

    seeing your closet all nice and organized rn after seeing your insta story the day before is heartbreaking

    • @scarlettmonroe427
      @scarlettmonroe427 7 месяцев назад +2

      wait why is it heartbreaking

    • @malloryyt
      @malloryyt 7 месяцев назад

      @@scarlettmonroe427her closet collapsed 😢

    • @bhargaviigohil
      @bhargaviigohil 7 месяцев назад +27

      @@scarlettmonroe427 she organised her closet but literally everything fell off. like the shelves and handles and all the clothes.

    • @spacebar9733
      @spacebar9733 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@bhargaviigohil oh that would send me 😭

    • @lighty1895
      @lighty1895 7 месяцев назад +1

      Trueee!

  • @aria19191
    @aria19191 7 месяцев назад +156

    steph's videos always feel like a warm hug 💓 you don't know how much we love you, steph

  • @lilyraymond573
    @lilyraymond573 7 месяцев назад +35

    Isn’t it so interesting how anxiety isn’t tied to anything real?? When I’m anxious I can start to spiral and think “I need more friendships”, “maybe my job is the problem”, “I need new hobbies” etc but even when you’re in a good place it can sneak up on you. Anyone with anxiety, you’re not alone!! Keep living life and it will pass. Try not to dwell on anything existential💗

    • @Day-dw2cs
      @Day-dw2cs 6 месяцев назад +1

      omg why did this comment literally made me cry? thanks for this, hope ur ok 🫶🏻

  • @morgan-jq6tr
    @morgan-jq6tr 7 месяцев назад +82

    you’re literally my comfort person, I always get so excited when you post!!!! your videos are literally therapeutic 🤍🤍😭

  • @bellaspark3657
    @bellaspark3657 7 месяцев назад +53

    Steph is really the definition of “just a girl” 🥺
    I feel like this alllll the time and it always feels so good when get everything you need to do DONE lol☺️ lovely video!!

  • @Aria_1111
    @Aria_1111 7 месяцев назад +55

    Ugh your videos are so freaking comforting they're always so fun and cozy even if you're just doing the simplest task : )

  • @berfin9454
    @berfin9454 7 месяцев назад +189

    I Never clicked so fast I love love love your vlogs! Waited all day for this since your story yesterday
    “ we’re not going to Starbucks” yes girl

    • @fatimajahanzeb3880
      @fatimajahanzeb3880 7 месяцев назад +2

      She literally promotes Stanley cups on her insta which is a collaboration with Starbucks so no I don't think she's genuine in her "boycotting"

    • @Yolozohra
      @Yolozohra 7 месяцев назад +23

      ​@@fatimajahanzeb3880girl u need to chill atleast she is trying.

    • @vadaabbey
      @vadaabbey 7 месяцев назад

      @@YolozohraI actually would agree with you, but I saw on her TikTok yesterday that she has a partnership with skims.

  • @nothudanasir
    @nothudanasir 7 месяцев назад +32

    My anxiety is awful too right now 🥲 your videos always make me feel less alone though so perfect timing ❤️

  • @deborahslz
    @deborahslz 7 месяцев назад +16

    This is literally coming at the best time. I've felt SO much anxiety this past week. I've not been productive at all because of everything and most of all I haven't slept well. Also it's not helping that time of the month just happens to come now. As if it's not the worst time ever.
    So happy you've uploaded today.

  • @pastacoffeeandbooks
    @pastacoffeeandbooks 7 месяцев назад +133

    WAKE UP EVERYONE STEPH POSTED

  • @sadiebaby3
    @sadiebaby3 7 месяцев назад +7

    i genuinely look up to steph so much, ive been watching her since she was a sophmore in college, shes literally the older sister i never had, i wanna be just like her when i grow up

  • @Talkingg
    @Talkingg 7 месяцев назад +4

    I feel that whole clean house clean mind thing so hard, I was feeling like shit all of last week and so yesterday I woke up, did all my dishes, vacuumed and mopped my entire apartment and changed my sheets then meal prepped. It's scary how much better I felt. So glad you're feeling more yourself!

  • @olivia2405
    @olivia2405 7 месяцев назад +11

    Your smile could light up a room Steph ❤ thank you for all the content and I hope you take care of yourself 🫶

  • @suzy5008
    @suzy5008 7 месяцев назад +10

    Just reading the title makes it certain that you're a mind reader, Steph! I have been feeling so anxious lately, and you dropped this at the perfect time! 💖💖

  • @NadaAlawadhi
    @NadaAlawadhi 7 месяцев назад +9

    Perfect timing, cleaning and reset vlogs are my favorite 😂 I clean on the weekends and I need some clean with me content all the time.

  • @minahilali835
    @minahilali835 7 месяцев назад +6

    I can't explain to you how much I needed this. The way you were anxious and needed to film to help you feel better, I've been feeling anxious and weird and needed a Steph vlog. I don't know whats going on with me but your videos are just so comforting 💗

  • @FarahElHeni
    @FarahElHeni 7 месяцев назад +1407

    The queen boycotting Starbucks❤

    • @salwak004
      @salwak004 7 месяцев назад +236

      @@fatimajahanzeb3880 there are hundreds of brands that have links to Isra*l, putting down people with clearly good intentions for having an association with one of them won't get the cause anywhere, boycotting doesn't work like that. Degrading people because they're not perfect when they're just trying their best will just turn more people away, so you should have a bit more compassion if you really care about the cause.

    • @Yolozohra
      @Yolozohra 7 месяцев назад +221

      ​@@fatimajahanzeb3880 As a Muslim and pro Palestinian I think it's better to do something instead of nothing I'm pretty she se is trying her best.

    • @asmam.5801
      @asmam.5801 7 месяцев назад +6

      queeen

    • @TeaFortheClowns
      @TeaFortheClowns 7 месяцев назад +8

      I LOVED THAT

    • @Andaleeb529
      @Andaleeb529 7 месяцев назад +83

      @@fatimajahanzeb3880we don’t live in an “all or nothing” world. She’s boycotting Starbucks how about we give her a little bit of praise instead of bringing her down?

  • @shelbyyoung4945
    @shelbyyoung4945 7 месяцев назад +14

    NEW STEPH VLOG = AN AMAZING DAY

  • @astrougelic
    @astrougelic 7 месяцев назад +2

    this is so refreshing to see on youtube. i love that you're being so vulnerable. i am sending you good energy and peace, i hope everything improves for you. thank you for making me feel seen today

  • @mackenziebooksandbeauty
    @mackenziebooksandbeauty 3 месяца назад

    it’s so nice getting to live life through you. Having friends, getting able to just randomly go to the beach, you are an inspiration.

  • @ozatanvi
    @ozatanvi 7 месяцев назад +1

    Your videos are like a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day ☀ Been through a rough patch lately, but your content never fails to lift my spirits. You're the realest creator out there, and I appreciate how relatable your videos are. Keep doing what you do best! 💗✨

  • @sarahshobaki
    @sarahshobaki 7 месяцев назад +120

    i almost cried when i heard you're boycotting starbucks I love you sm u never disappoint

    • @unknowndes1re
      @unknowndes1re 7 месяцев назад +11

      Touch grass

    • @mypradasatthecleaners
      @mypradasatthecleaners 7 месяцев назад +9

      i’m almost crying at the sheer amount of stupidity in this comment section

    • @arushahslightingbolt
      @arushahslightingbolt 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@unknowndes1re you first

    • @arushahslightingbolt
      @arushahslightingbolt 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@mypradasatthecleaners stupidity over what, sweetheart?

    • @mypradasatthecleaners
      @mypradasatthecleaners 7 месяцев назад

      Stupidity in regard to people blindly following something they have done no actual research on. Also don't attempt to patronise with the 'sweetheart', it doesn't have the affect you think it does. @@arushahslightingbolt

  • @rachbooks-ju1hr
    @rachbooks-ju1hr 7 месяцев назад +2

    i just love how open you're anxious and not feeling at your best. It makes the rest of us who go through the same thing not feel so alone 🥰
    Awesome vlog as usual - and hi Kylie!! 👋♥

  • @RuqaiyaKhalid19
    @RuqaiyaKhalid19 6 месяцев назад +3

    I love you sooo much and you deserved to be loved for having humanity in your heart literally, the world has gone heartless today ,,,, you made me love you even more when u said " because we dont go to starbucks " 1:05 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 love you sooooo much for that 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @simonedavis7445
    @simonedavis7445 3 месяца назад

    I absolutely loved this video. I've been trying to get motivation from other productivity yt videos, but I feel like so many of them are unrealistic and stress me out more. This video was so relatable and made me feel seen. My anxiety also prevents me from doing the most basic tasks, but now I feel like I can do anything. Thanks Steph

  • @7marissa166
    @7marissa166 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love how real this is.

  • @xofatima.x
    @xofatima.x 7 месяцев назад +5

    ANOTHER LONG VLOG! omg this just made my entire day! 😭💕

  • @noellenelson2335
    @noellenelson2335 7 месяцев назад +5

    Ok but like Girl Abroad was everything I needed after studying abroad. I literally finished it in one sitting. If you don't choose Jack, like what are you doing. Also, if anyone is looking for sign of what to read next- read it!!! Also, steph as a pianist, I can read sheet music but I can't play by sound so it's impressive if you can pick up on the chords.

  • @thuongha7368
    @thuongha7368 7 месяцев назад +1

    it’s always so healing watching Steph’s vlogs

  • @manishasalunke7349
    @manishasalunke7349 6 месяцев назад

    Steph s videos feel like a warm hug you don t know how much we love you steph ❤😅

  • @tasniahakter2787
    @tasniahakter2787 7 месяцев назад +2

    Love seeing whenever you’ve posted a new video 😩 we need weekly vlogs!! Perfect way to wind down :)

  • @annasprata
    @annasprata 7 месяцев назад +1

    the starbucks line?? so happy to hear it. love you steph!

  • @pastacoffeeandbooks
    @pastacoffeeandbooks 7 месяцев назад +2

    when i tell you I've never watched vlogs in my life and Steph's vlogmas was the first time i ever watched it and literally started looking forward to the next vlog each day and now i binge them like everyday 💕

  • @Atomichabits5
    @Atomichabits5 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve had HORRIBLE anxiety last few weeks and I came here for your videos I always feels so much better ❤

  • @Jess-zu1ny
    @Jess-zu1ny 7 месяцев назад +2

    Commenting to flex that i was at the concert in Sydney when she performed Peace & New Years Day.... incredible

  • @mxxnne6348
    @mxxnne6348 7 месяцев назад +2

    LOVE U STEPH❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank u for using ur platform

  • @lyla-faith
    @lyla-faith 7 месяцев назад +1

    just finished all my mock exams and stephs video just makes this stressful week so much better

  • @lisaslobodianski8223
    @lisaslobodianski8223 7 месяцев назад

    i literally had a week in february where i was feeling anxious for five days straight and i legitmately couldnt eat, i basically had to force myself because I would get even more nauseous, so I feel you, you are not alone

  • @bruh3290
    @bruh3290 7 месяцев назад +2

    thank you for this video, Steph. this strangely motivated me to study for my exam tomorrow lol. and better news is i actually cleaned my room with you. it cleared my mind and made me want to study so that i can live the type of life you do. love you❤

  • @malorietshis
    @malorietshis 7 месяцев назад +3

    “im talking so much.. it’s okay it’s my RUclips channel” 😂😂

  • @Sissi-s.version
    @Sissi-s.version 7 месяцев назад +2

    The rush of joy I got when I saw that you posted OMG LOVE YOU SO MUCH

  • @michellexbeauty9832
    @michellexbeauty9832 7 месяцев назад +3

    Oh girl I sat on my glasses once at like 7am before work and they snapped in way I didn’t know was possible

  • @beck13xs
    @beck13xs 7 месяцев назад

    watching your vlogs is my therapy

  • @pragyaya7041
    @pragyaya7041 7 месяцев назад

    I have been feeling so anxious too,I have decided I am gonna do my work stick to what i need to

  • @gjslife_
    @gjslife_ 7 месяцев назад +1

    love ur videos😭❤️‍🩹 i still miss the vlogmas everyday posting, it was like a reward for completing my work 😭 pls pls vlog ur trip- if you can even a day would work- love love💓💓

  • @sydoverson6499
    @sydoverson6499 7 месяцев назад

    I just got prescribed anxiety meds because lately I have been going insane with the anxious thoughts. I will not lie though, something about hearing the waves and seeing your videos was so relaxing and calming for me. You are the best and this truly feels like a friend chat.

  • @dinashehadeh6729
    @dinashehadeh6729 7 месяцев назад +1

    Your vlogs make life better

  • @rimshakhalid777
    @rimshakhalid777 7 месяцев назад

    I hope and pray to be as successful and financially stable as you Steph ILYSM this vlogs/videos are everything 2 me

  • @Milkstrology
    @Milkstrology 7 месяцев назад

    steph, ur having ur mars return which usually happens once a year and often makes ppl restless/anxious. it'll ease up 3/22! 💘

  • @wellsyswift
    @wellsyswift 7 месяцев назад

    steph’s videos are always so comforting

  • @sophiemachesky
    @sophiemachesky 7 месяцев назад

    I’m a new watcher but I still feel like we’re great friends. I love you, Steph!!!

  • @Grace-ck2uv
    @Grace-ck2uv 7 месяцев назад

    learning how to play a song just from listening/without sheet music is SO IMPRESSIVE to ME. I can only read sheet music. Sheila E, a famous percussionist, was raised without sheet music, and talks about the same thing.

  • @gabrielamaza3217
    @gabrielamaza3217 7 месяцев назад

    I just love how real you are with us 💛

  • @H3arts4sophie
    @H3arts4sophie 7 месяцев назад +4

    The way I screamed when I saw you post

  • @shilohrowe3180
    @shilohrowe3180 7 месяцев назад

    literally my comfort youtuber, I love your videos so much! they keep me motivated. 💗💗

  • @laralopezcolangelo2609
    @laralopezcolangelo2609 7 месяцев назад

    I swear I want to have your life in the future, it’s the type of calm but amazing lifestyle that I need to be happy. It would make me feel like I’m the main character of a book!! ILY Steph! You’re my comfort RUclipsr 💗🫶🏼

  • @humannature-nm6xq
    @humannature-nm6xq 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love your vlogs! They ease my anxiety. ❤

  • @marlenelippold9127
    @marlenelippold9127 7 месяцев назад

    You are so beautiful omg and we love a queen taking care of herself

  • @clairelolyeah
    @clairelolyeah 7 месяцев назад +1

    Something to ease my anxiety because I am also kind of cluttered is to have one day a week as your reset day where you clean your entire space. It helps ease my anxiety starting every week.

  • @samara5856
    @samara5856 7 месяцев назад +1

    every time steph posts my day gets 100x better

  • @martynasofia209
    @martynasofia209 7 месяцев назад

    Literally every single one of your vlogs are sooo peaceful ☺️

  • @chachamaatcha
    @chachamaatcha 7 месяцев назад

    THIS IS VERY MUCH NEEDED! Felt like catching up with my bestie 🫶🏻

  • @Kinzahasan_
    @Kinzahasan_ 7 месяцев назад

    I WFH and I was having suuuuch a slow day, literally wanted to crawl in bed and stay there forever… then I picked up my phone and exact that second this notif popped on and istg the joy this vlog gave me 🥲🥲🥲💖 watched it while working and it made my day 10x better

  • @isabelll8845
    @isabelll8845 7 месяцев назад +2

    OMG NEW VLOG, I swear they are the best things in my life❤😁

  • @elliewielatz44
    @elliewielatz44 7 месяцев назад

    Steph your videos make me feel so peaceful and help my anxiety :)

  • @samantha.m.yy.
    @samantha.m.yy. 7 месяцев назад

    stepth this inspired me to also take out my giant pile of recycling that's been sitting in the corner for like a month :)

  • @kaylahuchko
    @kaylahuchko 7 месяцев назад +1

    Steph, your vlogs are my favorite. I love you girlie 🫶🏼

  • @caraelisia2929
    @caraelisia2929 7 месяцев назад

    i was at the show that taylor played new year’s day x peace!!! i almost passed out 😭💕 also so impressive that you’re learning to play it on piano at all let alone just based off of sound

  • @Yolozohra
    @Yolozohra 7 месяцев назад

    Her videos are like the only thing keeping me going.

  • @lornatw
    @lornatw 7 месяцев назад

    I would say learning via sound anyone with in tune hearing can do it just takes a while like you said it took you 3 hrs. However there are some people who literally hear the note and find it either straight away or after a few and they can also hear a chord and find it within 5 mins which is insane to me! Both my Mum and brother do this with just anything they hear and it always blows my mind! I would encourage learning basic sheet music it’s actually quite fun once you know the symbols and makes learning by ear faster! ❤

  • @nerelydelgado7167
    @nerelydelgado7167 7 месяцев назад

    steph please do a plan/prep with me for spring break !!!!!

  • @MonserratTS13
    @MonserratTS13 7 месяцев назад +13

    steph’s videos make so productive and a better person

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 7 месяцев назад +1

    i have been feeling anxious recently so this did ease my anxiety 😭

  • @sarasweet3578
    @sarasweet3578 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve done full Brazilian laser!! I HIGHLY recommend. All you need to do is have them give you an ice pack for 5 minutes before and it is virtually painless. Even without the ice packs it’s tolerable and I’m a BABY. If I can do it so can you, but the ice packs are a game changer!!

  • @jancarlson2165
    @jancarlson2165 7 месяцев назад

    Hi Steph! You're such a doll! Great job on the apartment cleaning. I read The Maid by Nina Prose and The Housemaid, my Frieda McFadden last month. Both really good. Love ya!!

  • @chloemcclure6159
    @chloemcclure6159 7 месяцев назад +2

    yesss plz make a new playlist video! 🫶🏼😁

  • @nathisamurugan3001
    @nathisamurugan3001 7 месяцев назад +11

    Steph's vlogs are my comfort videos to watch 🌻💞⭐

  • @WellsyGraham
    @WellsyGraham 7 месяцев назад

    Literally when you posted on instagram that you were posting today it literally made my day!! I always look forward to watching your videos!! Like it honestly feels like i am on a FT call with you 😂 LITERALLY LUV YOU ❤

  • @k8dom
    @k8dom 7 месяцев назад

    I put this on my tv and did a ton of chores I was avoiding too ❤

  • @Nina-sp5nk
    @Nina-sp5nk 7 месяцев назад

    I randomly defrosted my freezer so yes, it totally motivated me 😂
    And thank you so much! I really needed to do that

  • @ayushikhatry7449
    @ayushikhatry7449 7 месяцев назад +1

    Currently workin to be like my idol -Steph in my 20s 🥰U R MY INSPIRATION

  • @101wenna
    @101wenna 7 месяцев назад

    Steph, I honestly get get barely any pain with laser hair removal! Like on a scale of 1 to waxing, it’s a 2. Definitely worth it

  • @nikkistachurski8183
    @nikkistachurski8183 7 месяцев назад

    Try using a Bobby pin in the hole of the chain so you can hold it and clasp the bracelet together!! Lifesaver!

  • @Harshi7a
    @Harshi7a 7 месяцев назад

    Love your authentic honest comforting videos bestie ❤

  • @ambertaryn
    @ambertaryn 7 месяцев назад

    I also needed to do some cleaning and budgeting today so this motivated me to do some self-care and get after it!

  • @amelieeckert3996
    @amelieeckert3996 7 месяцев назад

    Can I always wake up to a video from you? This is going to be a good day I can tell♡

  • @annapcnce
    @annapcnce 7 месяцев назад

    i had the worst week and this video helped me a lot ❤️ this is girlhood

  • @nereerey
    @nereerey 7 месяцев назад

    i love your videos, they are my comfort place love u so much

  •  7 месяцев назад +1

    The perfect way to start off the weekend ❤❤❤

  • @bookedbycourt
    @bookedbycourt 7 месяцев назад +1

    steph the whole time you were dealing with the recycling I was screaming at you to break all the boxes down and put them in the one big box😫😫😫

  • @zoe-hd1si
    @zoe-hd1si 7 месяцев назад

    this week just keeps getting better, first I FINALLY got to go to the eras tour and had the best night of my life) IM GETTING A RAGDOLL KITTEN TMRW WHICH IM NAMING AUGUSTINE (folklore girls iykyk) and now Steph posted a vlogg

  • @taylorhayes1751
    @taylorhayes1751 7 месяцев назад

    I've been studying all day, I needed a break and saw you posted, such great timing!! we love you Steph 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @keeponsmilin5626
    @keeponsmilin5626 7 месяцев назад

    Finally! 🎉 Please post a video more often even if you think you don't do anything worth posting! Your videos are like my favorite comfort food to me ❤ Greetings from Europe

  • @hail4712
    @hail4712 7 месяцев назад

    1:06 YESS and we love you for it ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lilianamariatomaz
    @lilianamariatomaz 7 месяцев назад

    I HAVE MISSED YOUUUUU. I hope you’re okay ❤ we’re always here if you need us