Rickey Smiley on Finding Out 1st Child His After 6 Years, Other Man Didn't Know (Part 6)
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- Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
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In this clip, Rickey Smiley talked about his children, stating that he has 2 biological kids but has raised around 15 kids in total. Rickey broke down how he found out about his first son six years after his birth. He said that the situation worked out with the mother and he was able to build a relationship with his son who eventually came to live with him.
Later on, Vlad questioned Rickey Smiley about disciplining kids. Rickey detailed why he believes in physical discipline pointing to structure, respectability, and clearly demarcating the line of authority from parent to child.
Do I hold some resentfulness towards whoppings I got as a child? Yes. Did the help put me in line and got me to where I am today? HELL YES! That's why kids are so messed up today; NO DISCIPLINE!
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There's a difference between abuse and discipline. Not to throw in the race card, but I think it needs to be brought up due to different people being raised differently.
I know as a black man, a lot of people from my past grew up with fear of consequences because if your parent didn't whoop you then another family member would. I was never hit unless I was out of line or did something I shouldn't have been. I did knew some people who NEVER received disciple and most of them are not doing so hot right now; jail, multiple kids, no job, etc.
I'm not saying it is IMPOSSIBLE to be a generally good and successful person as you grow up without physical disciple, but that was just how I was raised. I just turned 27 last month and I have no kids or a wife. I do sometimes think about how I'll raise kids (if I ever have any). Will I do what my parents did? Not entirely because there are some things I wish were different. Overall, I was taught that certain actions had certain consequences.
@Fidel chavez No, the military would just run you until you threw up. Literally break you mentally with drills as discipline. A football coach would run you or put you thru drills and if that does not work both of those institutions have the ability to let you go. Surely we aren't suggesting kids be let go by parents? There certainly are other means of discipline parents can instill but I would rather a parent whoop their child than allow the judicial system to.
Fidel chavez Yeah you white people have your kids on leashes and your kid will tell you what to do. This one lady tried to bargained with her kid that’s white people shyt.
I'm white and I got my ass beat as a kid. It definitely makes you think twice about doing some stupid shit, it works.
R.I.P. Brandon 💞 Prayers up for Ricky and Brandon’s mother, stepfather, and siblings.
Rickey is SO humble. I met him numerous times when he was working for 97.9 in Dallas. He speaks and doesn't act like he's better than anyone. He made me feel like I was family. Very respectful man. 🙏
I can actually believe that.
Kids need discipline. To many people are trying to be friends with their kids instead of being their PARENTS!
Because they in the same age bracket. Lol
@Sinuramous a lot of white people too. They're the main ones on these teen mom shows
Thats exactly why mi separated..... Watch who choose to have kids with
And Kids want a concerned parent
we must teach our child respect n disicpline
Ironic how people will have a problem with parents laying hands on a child but have no problem with a cop beating the shit out of a child.
And I mean beating the unholy crap outta of em...
Exactly!
Or killing 'em...
Or shooting them. But you better not hit a dog! 😒😏
RL M good point
Thanks Rickey, that's how I was raised also. Nothing is wrong when you discipline your child when you love them
Divine discipline
Old school parenting at its finest
Exactly
Don't forget that it's linked back to slavery.
Noumen Omness exactly
Will Power Prosperity um sooo you don’t think that children weren’t being whipped in biblical times. Or africans weren’t whippin their children before the slave ships showed up? You think whippin just showed up during slavery?
Absolutely!!! A good azz whooping never hurt nobody. 😀
Title confused the shit out of me
Cain k Carter 😂kay...Me Too!!!
😂😂😂word me too
I'm so high I read that shit 4 times 😂
Facts bro 😂
Hell yeah
Thank you Ricky Smiley for speaking out on this because parents these days have lost their way because of the same shit Vlad is defending poor society
@@Nappy2theRoot wtf you talking about??? Damn go get yourself an education before you type another word out here please!!!!!
I am 52 yrs. old and I totally agree with Rickey 100%...I truly think this age we live in now is lost & it has alot to do with "people doing away with old school discipline." It seems like nowadays respect is a thing of the past and that is so sad & unfortunate. Granted-Time out works but its not for everyone. And people don't seem to understand that what may work for your kids may Never Work for my kids. If we don't discipline our children (as we see fit) its a strong possibility the penal system will handle them for you! Bottom line...We can discipline our kids or we can wait and let the police knock em around...and trust me they dont mind doing it for you...JMO
Did he say he didn't know his son was his for six years?
@@intensepassion3382 yes...i caught that & thats wild to me because that boy actually looked like Ricky spit him out all by himself..they only differ in complexion.
Rest in peace to Rickeys son!💗 he shows so much respect to his childs mother and stepdad
It's not violence.. It's called discipline what these kids need. A kid that gets spanked is a happy kid. Maybe not in the moment but it gets them to go in the right direction..A undisciplined kid ends up in jail or dead...Real talk!
Exactly so many kids in prison/ jail right now.. wishing they had parents/ someone to teach / telling them when they doing wrong.. No son/ daughter don't do that you going to get in trouble.. but following the wrong crowd.. Be a leader young children...
I worked in a prison for over 6 years I guarantee you 90% of them got their ass beat 😂 You can’t just hit kids, you actually have to TEACH them right from wrong.
@@FabFergie
Those you have encountered may have been beaten. As Rickey clarified, there is a difference between spanking when angry and spanking in love. Therefore, there is a difference between beating a child and disciplining a child.
Amen!
RIckey Smiley doesn't owe anyone an explanation on how he disciplines his children.
Yes. One answer. Move on. Interviewer is trying to drag him.
No one
@@anissacook4345 8
Except the kids
@@anissacook4345 Yes, because it's fashionable to turn people into 'abusers' for disciplining and giving loving & righteous guidance to their kids.
Then people wonder why so many people these days lack any sense of accountability, morals and walk around entitled with no respect whatsoever for elders. Money & fame are their Gods.
This is heartbreaking. For years he didn't even know that Brandon was his son and they went through so much. He jumped right into parenting and did it the best way that he knew how.
I agree. I told my daughter at 15 , anytime she wanted to test my skills, bring it on. I bet she thought twice. She is now a Nurse Practitioner, and 35 years old. She has a 13 year old son, and if he gets unruly, she should handle it right away. So, that she will not visit him in jail or prison.
LMAO: ain't nobody plotting revenge after dey mama or daddy gives dem Whoopin'......
dey gon' sit down & STFU like told to do.
After that good ass nap..lol
Thats right
Yeah white kids Do and they cuss in front of there parents,Adults,Elders, Etc. They are some Strange people...!
@@supadave3210 AMEN, I had to whoop my 10 year old yesterday for ACT up at school and throwing the homework packet in the garbage can in front of the teacher "talking about he didn't want to do it, it looked hard" but he has an 80% in math ,he was being lazy,not to mention disrespectful. We don't allow that type of behavior . Later on in life that behavior will lead to lying,stealing, cheating =JAIL...IF THE POLICE DON'T KILL THEM FIRST. Children need to learn how to have self control now, and want to be positive, do positive and keep faith/God. This world is no joke. FYI and my son is on punishment for a week during school break so he is reading and practicing writing narratives and
informatives, no T.V, toys,tablets etc.
I know that's right ✌🏾✌🏾
Vlad tried it. Yes some of us believe in discipline. My parents PARENTED me! When I got out of line, my parents tore me up, talked to me, and still grounded me. I am the woman I am today because I got my butt whipped. My mama used to say I'm gonna deal with you so the system won't have to. And honey she and my dad did that. I wasn't abused but i was raised! And I couldn't be more thankful!
That is the stupidest brainwashing mentality I've ever heard
+nanabugg22. I like your thinking.
@@Nappy2theRoot Say what you will but I turned out just fine! 😉
well the world is violent and some gave never had an was whooping are cruel violent murderers
+IVEY 96 bullsht spare the rod spoil the child
I agree 100% with Ricky. I was raised with discipline and turned out pretty good.
RS is abusive and irresponsible
@@MiloandNala Since you want to act like you know what's best for kids, you take um then.
@@MiloandNala lol 😂
So… it’s ok when the cops do it.. right?
Got it!
@@Commonsenseiscommonsense 1-800 (C.P.S) 😆
Amen
Discipline and structure is very important
You right Ricky, discipline with love is a blessing not a curse.
There is a difference when We have been raised by elders. My grandmother's, granparents were emancipated from slavery. I was raised by my grandma who did not whip me but she would grab me and shake me, as Ricky described. That worked for my oldest son, he is 28 very responsible, no trouble at all. That did not work for my youngest son. He is 18 now. I waited too late for him. He's had problems since 3rd grade and is now facing felony murder. Spare the rod Spoil the child. Younger parents TAKE HEED!!!
👊🏾 Right on, Rickey. It's about love, respect, and discipline.
If a kid is lucky enough to have two dads, that’s a good thing
Or two mothers
Smh
Theo Critus, what a wonderful statement, Ricky made.....and very nice of you to reiterate those wise words....
How in the hell can you have 2 mom's and 2 dad's!! 😭😭😭
You must hold your kids accountable for their actions, or inactions, because if not. They'll grow up not respecting authorities, who will hold them accountable, and it could cost more than what they're willing to pay . It's enforcing what we teach them, so that they'll adopt our principles in what is right, and what's wrong. I tell my 15 year old son all the time, that I have the physical advantage on him right now. I also let him know I'd rather talk to him to get my point across, but he knows I will put my hands on him, and at his age he doesn't get ass whoopings, he gets ass kickings. Better you hold em accountable, before some trigger happy racist cop does. Just my 2 pennies....
I agree. If you do not discipline your kids because you love them, the system will and the system don't care a thing about them. I am still alive and I got whippings from family and neighbors because they loved me. It takes a positive village.😍
I got dese hands 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
"They ass stay toe'd up"😂😂😂😂
Right. He "toe'd they a$$ up". I remember hearing that as a child growing up in GA. and always thought that was incorrect grammar, but I got the meaning. My Carlton Banks side was kickin' in.
Black parenting 😃
@@yoshikitakaya7871 he's a good dude. did you know he got shot with a shot gun, and almost died, a few years ago.
The bible says don't spare the Rod
But it didn't say hit your kid. Stop misunderstanding the word
@@Nappy2theRoot well no you don't hit them but when they get out of hand they can get a time out if they still act up then can get a spanking on the behind
@Salome B Proverbs 13:24
It doesn’t say “ ‘don’t’ spare the rod” lol 😆. That means don’t whip that ass. It’s “spare the rod”.
spare the rod spoil the child
This was my least favorite interview. I didn't like the tone that Vlad had when asking about the way Ricky Smiley discipline his kids smh
Them beautiful lips of yours
@@MrBlade-nl4et thank you
Right aint nothing wrong with whoppin ya kids. They are YOUR kids. not hitting them to hurt them. But to teach and help them understand that there are consequences in life to unwanted behavior
@@darwinLee81283 how is that teaching them.
@@Nappy2theRoot the same way u go to jail if u break the law. Or fail a class if u dont study or wreck ur car if u drive drunk. These are consequences of unwanted behavior. They are not relative consequences to childrens behavior untill they manifest into issues as an adult which can effect their life. So u creat negative consequences for them when they are young, so they can corrolate a negative response to unwanted behavior
You are absolutely correct, Rickey! If we don't discipline our kids then the society will do it for us. There is a difference between abuse and discipline.
Absolutely agree
Violence???? Wtf Vlad it's called discipline.
In a form of violence
Does Vlad know that his so-called Jewish ancestors help kill and enslave others, but he doesn't believe in someone putting hands on another human, cut the bullshit Vladimier.
I was super lost when he said violence begets violence I'm like 🤦🏽♂️
Peace God it's violent
Norf EAST I know you were lost...
Not only did he whoop ass he was also there and I think it’s good that he has positive things to say about his son mother and other father
I love Rickey Smiley! He's a cool dude and I respect him for being a real man and raising all those kids and sending them to college!
He matching with the pillow and art on the wall he had to planned this 😂😂
Nawl it was just his day that day that's ALL lol
I respect Ricky.
You don't know him.
blacksuite1 You cant respect a man who you dont know?
Vlad make it sound so bad, "you actually believe in hitting your children"
No punching them in the throat
Vlad know he needed his ass whooped!
Vlad try to low key get niggas caught up.
Had vlad got hit as a child he probably woulda had technique to dodge dat Ross slap
Brittany Jacqueline hi how are you doing today
Rickey Smiley rocks with the #beatyourkids movement
That's stupid
I feel Rick on this. My momma used to whoop my ass. I still had some fuck ups when I got older, but I still appreciate my mother for it.
That title is so dumb, fire whoever type that B.S.. What does "Rickey Smiley on Finding Out 1st Child His After 6 Years, Other Man Didn't Know" even means?
MFSGamePlay 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sounded like some suss activities
😂
MFSGamePlay Dingbat, it means he found out he got a child from another woman after six years and the woman is already with another man but she never told the man she’s with that that’s not his child!!! You understand now??
It wasn’t that hard to get. I see y’all can’t sum up a story or skim read huh? 😂
People confuse spankings and child abuse. There's nothing wrong with spankings, child abuse is horrible tho.
They are 1 in the same!!
😂😂😂😂 set a basketball court on fire. Those were Bebe's kids.
I agree with you wholeheartedly Rickey. You know your kids better than anyone else. These kids definitely needs to be disciplined.
I agree with you Ricky that's why these kids are the way they are now because they don't get any discipline
Why are you trying so hard to make Rickey look bad?....epic fail. He handled that so well! Zero fukks given. .kudos to Rickey!
Seems like a good man
He is a good man just strick. and I bet his kids has go carts 4 wheelers, dirt bikes.
"I got these hands" a true Atlanta parent😂
He from Birmingham but thats definitely a southern thang
Treyvon Jenkins you meant Alabama parent 😂😂
Was this a CPS interview? Why not talk about his upbringing, what made him famous, what advice would he give to people trying to make it in the business? Vlad need to get it together.
Rickey is 100% correct. Spare the rod, spoil the child. ❤
I totally agree with Rickey Smiley some children's has to be discipline in some form or another, if you don't when they become early teenagers they start to run the house and some parents are so afraid of their kids children. It got to that point due to the fact how they was raised if there were in a abusive home environment they say I don't want to beat my children because I got beat, yes there is a way to discipline your kids without physically hurting them and sometimes you have to put a little physical threat in them to let them know who has Authority in the house especially with today's society and social media raising Children's today has to come with a deeply thought-out plan.
Y’all do know people respond to different things right? We are not a monolith. While some people may not like whoopings, some kids respond to it and need it. Others learn lessons from taking the cell phone away. Doesn’t make one wrong and the other right.
Right on point!
Somebody had to say it. Thank you
Definitely agree parents need to know their kids as a person and learn what discipline works best for their child. Also they need to analyze what type of parents they are. Some parents have the respect of their kids to the point where even if they make a mistake by do something wrong, a serious talk with their child will set them straight not a whooping.
Beating, whopping kids, hitting kids is all wrong
Exactly
Sorry to learn his son Brandon just died. Rest In Power.
Brandon's mother eventually had to come clean considering he is literally Ricky's twin. Rest in Peace Brandon Smiley 💔
@@Zuwante1996 Amen. His Homegoing is underway right now.
@@MissRooti Is it being livestreamed? I so want to watch it
@@Zuwante1996 I heard it was but am unsure of the particulars.
@@Zuwante1996 the full service was placed on RUclips by Rickey Smiley if you didn't catch it.
Rickey is so right, I whipped my kids ass...they as adults make me so proud.
I think Brother Rickey is an amazing father and mentor period! Drop the Mike🎤
There is a difference between abuse and a properly administered ass whipping for a deserving recipient Vlad.
Know your child and know what method of correction works, then apply as needed.
I got my butt torn up and I am still here telling the story.
That's right Rickey! Good old fashioned discipline!
I agree with you Rickey. 👍
Rickey!! I’ve never you followed as much as I have since Brandon passed…..
It is amazing how God can bring knowledge and wisdom to you…thru someone else’s pain….
You are absolutely remarkable! “Glooooray to God”! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Bcuz it has nothing to do with youuuu….God “chose” you! ❤️
You’re guided by God! Wow! The beautiful thing is! Youuuu are not COCKY! You are so “real”! I feel like I know you! And I don’t know you! But GOD introduced you to the MASSEs! I’m just one of them! 🙋🏾♀️
God Bless you Beloved! 💜
I love anything Rickey Smiley does. Such a great man and has me dying laughing in the morning.
Beautifully said, Rickey
That was perfectly explained!
Amen Rickey! Structure and discipline kids need this. I don’t tolerate no back talk. Kids need to learn respect period.
It starts at home. Ain’t nobody gona tell me how to raise my kids.
Rickey is old school ain’t nothing wrong with this.
If you have to get your ass tore up regularly then something ain’t right and they need to be popped. Set the tone!!! Amen.
Dude interviewing Rickey is not on the same page with Rickey. He’s probably a young buck 🙄
When Rickey said, "Huh?" it instantly reminded me of Little Darryl. Lol.
Good, interview, Mr. Smiley! You did well.
Real man... Real talk...LOVE IT!!
He is Right , All the one I heard are so manner able, speak so respectable , and humble. You are Right Right Kids need that ole school discipline right with Love 💯
So glad Rickey pulled him together! Sounds like he was going after Rickey, smh.....
Discipline and Structure, spare the rod, you will spoil the child. So many parents are afraid of their kids, the kids talk back, the kids feel entitled. How a child can lie on a parent, do all kinds of things and nothing is done, but If the parent discipline them out of love to correct the behavior then the parent gets in trouble. This system is so backwards. Yep I was disciplined and all my siblings and noon are in jail, on drugs or dead and my mom raised all of us on her own (6) kids. Thank u Rickey.
I know that's right Rickey knock their ass out😹
You are so right, my kids are great 100%percent
S/O to Ricky strait up, I'm with u 💯 percent on discipline and structure in the household and i don't apologize for it either real spill.
What kinda title is this is??
Discipline helped my bad ass!
You’re definitely trying to shame Rickey for his parenting skills. Rickey has put many of his kids through college, which as a parent myself, is truly commendable work. Do you even understand how extremely hard it is to raise kids these days? I appreciate your interviews though. Keep up the good work.
Y'all put your children in day cares as young as six weeks old, and then spend less than one hour per day around them. This is not raising your children. 😂
I agree with Ricky about disciplining. Some people get upset about physical disciplining but don't say anything when the police do it,those same people will say the child deserved it when it's done by the police
I totally agree with Rickey. And, it does make a difference. Sometimes you do have to let your hands do the talking. I thank my parents, my village, for EVERY ounce of discipline delivered to me. Be it verbal or physical!! And I think my brother and I turned out A alright. I give them verbal thanks(their flowers) all the time for being REAL parents.
I deserved every ass whoopin with the belt I got.
My parents tore my butt up and I did the same thing and my young adults are happy well balanced people!!!
I agree with u 100%
I totally agree with Rickey. I'm 68yrs. old and I got my ass tore up. That is why I say if spanking a child to discipline them is considered child abuse then I was abused a many days.But it made a better person out of me.
This interviewer irritated the hell out of me.
Rickey, you did right, don't let person get in your head.
You’re an awesome father
He is full of it RIP Brandon 🖤😢
Vlad took those beating and is mad now
JohnnyKool lmao you’re not wrong though
I love RS parenting skills..he did it the right way in his style of raising kids
I love Rickey!!!!!
And you kept a Positive Attitude Rickey!!!
This guy tried to make a negative interview
Violence is not getting your ass whooped. It's called parenting and whooping their Behind is Great. Kids need to be taught respect.
4:25 Rickey Smiley almost made Vlad snitch on himself and catch a murder charge! lol
Exactly Rickey! There's a ddifference between chastising your kids bcoz you love and care about what COULD happen to them as oppose to beating & abusing them due to awful parenting!!
Oh, my gosh! He talks like my best friend. He would tell me punch my son in the throat, lol. I will tell my son, Mr. Hands, will come over here to get him. I miss my friend loving spirit, R.I.P., Mr. James Mathis. Love you always, got the ✋ 9-6-2018
I totally agree with everything Rickey said.
“...huh? Hitting them?!.. punching them in the throat....” 😂😂😂😂😩😩😩😩😩😩
Chastisement is not violence.
Old school parenting works!!!
Disciplining a child IS NOT AN ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR! Time Out really does not work on ALL children! Discipline & Structure or key to raising children to be functioning adults in society.
On fire FIRE....🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Amen. The world don't treat all children the same and time out does not work for all children.
this interviewer is insinuating and pushy. I dont like his line of questioning nor his interview questions
He sounds "privileged"🤨
He is like this with all black celebs I dont know why they keep going on the show
He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.(Proverbs 13:24)