During my wedding my father was scared of society and kept repeating ki "Rishtedaar kya kahenge?" My simple reply was "Why are Rishtedaar even asking this question? If they are family, they will understand. If they are not family then it should hardly matter." This gave my father some strength and my wedding was done in mere 3 lakhs in 2018 in New Delhi. Food was one of our priority though, to be adequate, delicious, hygienic and vegetarian. At that time, minimum amount required for a average wedding was 10 lakhs.
Hats of u set a good example for Sindhi community(presume seeing ur surname) which is known to spent hard earned money just to please rishtedaar and show off.
This amazing pre wedding event proved #Ambanis are Billionaires by Heart too ♥️ despite #Asia's richest family, #Ambanis are grown up by rich culture, traditions & values 👏 top of it they follow Santana Dharma's path 🚩 they put country on global map and provided employment to millions but they are more grounded than their employees, rare thing in corporate world 👏 #Ambanis always come for help when country needs, either during COVID wave, Reliance providing liquid oxygen in whole world, they stopped production in used oxygen for people of country and that without a single rupee charge 🙏 they built many hospitals, schools, skill centres, etc. and providing free services for betterment of common people so they are doing more for country than many political parties 🤐 country is blessed to have such a Big Heart Billionaire family, respect 🙏 most people don't know who is #AnantAmbani because he isn't in business, his elder brother is in business and handling #Jio so people saw Aakash speeches and interviews but this man is come with a big surprise, he is unbelievable orator 💥 nobody thought that Anant is such a down to earth person and superb speaker 👍 his love for animals is pure, unconditional and amazing, this quality makes #anantambani a pure Gem of person ♥️ and his language commands in Hindi, English and Gujarati is best in ambani family 👍why Ambani family hide this gem of person from social media till now, he is doing great work for animals till 2008, #Vantara is a superb noble cause but we don't know about it, how? if any celebrity doing these type of noble causes, he should get attention because he or his family or his friend or relative promoted in media or social media but #Ambani refrained from this and this makes #Ambani family different from others 👏that they are doing so nuch social work, running many NGOs for girl education, women empowerment, tribal empowerment, underprivileged people and for poor people under Reliance foundation by Nita Ambani and Anant also doing great work for animals too and created biggest private animal sevalay called #Vantara in Jamnagar from 2008 but they never highlighted or promoted on media or social media despite they are billionaires and Asia's richest family but they are never doing paid promotion, when celebrities & media all over world came to Jamnagar, Gujarat for his pre wedding then people knew that this type of great work doing by #Anant and Ambani family, this is worth to be applauded 👏👏👏 this Great work proved #Ambani is billionaires by heart too ♥️
Neither Rata Tata merried not he have any family to arrange any merriage No disrespect but har baar tata tata karna jaruri nahi Aj unke bache hote to vo bache thodi na simple rahna pasand karte
Recently in our neighborhood a girl had a simple temple marriage without inviting anyone except her family members. I am really impressed by her move and it also conveyed a good message to our society. Thanks Deshbhakt for making this video and pointing out all the flaws in today's world. I pray for you and your well being. 🌱
I feel proud to say that I opted for court marriage which costed only Rs. 5000. I would suggest people to spend maximum money on education of their children rather than wedding.
Hahaha..maximum money on education...lol...baccha layak war hoga toh scholarship leke he padd lega..maximum money waste karke RAHUL GANDHI jesa he hoga...maximum money on education sirf PVT Schools ..pvt coaching mafia ko he faida dega ..jab shadi me kharcha hota hai toh kya lagta hai..insaan khud pe kharcha karta hai kya...kitne logo ko rojgaar milta hai ...
@@mrandroplayingBhai tu kehra hai ki education se jyada show off important hai. Bhai tu deshbhakt ki audience nahi lagra merko. Aur scholarship k liye bhi bacha ko basics aana chahiye. Aur wese bhi agar tere extra pesa pada hua hai, to ek do gareeb jese apni maid, driver wagera k ek do bache padhwa de. Education can never be held below showoff.
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Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand. ruclips.net/video/eHyyPfitg64/видео.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm
bhai media ya ye jo paparaji hain unpe aaakthu hai sale log bhikmango ki tarah inke darwajo pe ak photo ki bheekh mangte khade the ..magar yahi kutte desh me andar ki mahngai gareebi school ki fees andruninihabro ke peeche nhi bagte harami sale aaak thhiuinpe
My mentor, college chaplain, showed me how he and his wife organized their wedding. His wife wore not a single piece of gold, no make up, simple low key hospitality. The wife is a gold medalist physician with no dirth of money. He showed me his wedding album to present it as an example for me to follow. This is what I respected, held in high regard and so found it quite sad how people look at how much gold is on display etc etc. But people are people, difficult to change, easy to get judgemental. I am so blessed to have had a mentor like Rev. Ninan Chacko.
If people like you emphasis on freedom of choice to a fundamental level, so why can't any individuals wedding to as grandeur as they wish it to be, as long as they can afford it 🤷🏻♂️ Where's the issue for other people. They are successful, they spent money, they boost this economy If materialistic lifestyle is what you detest... Then that's also a personal choice in the end 🤷🏻♂️
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Azim Premji is i guess the most underrated and private industrialist of India, its only in such lists that i have ever seen his name, just read up on him now that his dad was invited by Jinnah to come to Pakistan during partition but they stated back in India, and now they are giving back to India.
@@niranjanchavan8513 Reinforcement of feudalism and encouragement to debauched people....insult to poor hardworking people of India such as farmers...and drdo scientist, and a painful reminder that Indian rich are corrupt and uncivilized and toxic, compared to American self made entrepreneurs. Also fully explains why India remains an economic laggard....
So, because of them, nobody should enjoy their wealth ..how rubbish? Try to work hard to achieve that feat instead of being jealous. Idiot .. @srbasha74
I've my wedding this year and I so agree with everything you said. The problem is that we have stopped respecting people with high social and moral grounds. It's still tough to explain my parents why we need to stop burning money, but use it wisely to enrich our experience and also the lives of at least some people, we can.
unka paisa unki marji ese toh is deshbhakt ko bhi bas 1 room ka bas chota sa ghar lena chiaye aur baki bachaye jitna bchana hai paisa jiske pass jitna hota hai wo utna khacrch karta hai isliye please ap log unhe gyan na de tohi sahi hai kyuki app uss paise ko bchakar akele amiri ka dhomg karogi but unke pass utna alredy hai jitna app log achieve karne ka sapna rakhte ho
My wedding was just simple total expenditure 10,000 rupees. And happily married so far. Blessed with two children. We must get away from this "ki log kya kahenge?" Trust me they will talk anyway, even if u spend lakhs and crores on marriage. Simple marriage is the must blessed marriage.
Much needed topic of discussion. I fought with my parents and in-laws for almost a year. Still, I failed. Both families spent a lot on marriage (~20L) instead of my push to invest in a house/flat as I do not work in my hometown. Its 5 years now, and I am still on rent and couldn't save for a down payment. Now, it's much harder and more expensive because of the unrealistic property inflation in the Tricity. The same property that was available in 40L is going for 1cr nowadays. People realize this much later, and my family, including my wife, also realize this now.
Same situation sir. It was a fight in vain at our end too. My husband and I were against lavish weddings and we wanted it to be as simple as possible. Our parents and in laws were not in talking terms with us due to this fight.
Bhai kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
Kyu Bhai yami Gautam me simple shaadi ki uska to koi impact nhi aaya society pr to koi Asia ka richest person apne Ghar ki aakhiri shadi me apni marji ka Paisa jo ki legal h kharch kr rha h to kya usse poori society Ambani bnne nikal padegi, kya bakwas hai
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Much needed topic. It’s high time for the Indian families to reflect on these big fat Indian weddings. Indian family and friends’ circle is always big compared to western society. So one may invite a large number of guests, but cost can be curtailed on other extravaganza like variety and opulence of food, costumes, jewelleries, venue, useless return gifts etc.
I did my wedding in the most modest way possible, then too found the expenses too high. I am happy that we (me and my wife) saved money for our future together.
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i have my opinion that middle class see wedding as social status but rich people like ambani see wedding as form of publicity and building good relations with others
Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand. ruclips.net/video/eHyyPfitg64/видео.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm
Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand. ruclips.net/video/eHyyPfitg64/видео.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm
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The main Question lies why we spend too much, there can be two answers 1- to celebrate 2- to show off As far as it is too celebrate, it is okay because we earn to fulfill our emotional satisfaction along with basic needs
I was stunned after seeing the first 5 minutes of the video, my whole perspective about celeb weddings changed after listening to that 0.1% statement. Thanks for making me aware . I will definitely share your message to as many people as I can, first would be my mom who is busy watching videos of Anant from the past 2 days🤣🤣
Brought a smile to my face about your Mum "who......past 2 days". Am Indian born and educated but chose to live in the UK. A Bulgarian friend of mine was invited by her friend to a Wedding in The Punjab. Her friend gave the brides parents her professional title Dr. I flipped and was solely responsible for her turning the invite down. I told my friend going to a Wedding in Punjab is free PR to all the Agents who are people traffickers and smugglers.
@@agnescraig2912Can you elaborate on this. How does her professional title connect with trafficking and smuggling. Also why are Punjab wedding attract these "agents"? I am curious as I am naive about these things. Thanks
Amazing episode! Hats off! A low-cost wedding is exactly what we did. 4 years ago, me and my husband love-married intercaste in court (with parent's blessings). No pre-wedding ceremony other than an at-home mehendi gathering and went to honeymoon within India. Threw a reception later, but it was nowhere near a grand wedding. Saved money on firecrackers, ghodi, DJ, prewedding shoot, Mehendi ceremony, Haldi ceremony and overseas honeymoon, to say the least. We chose to do that because for us only being together was enough, not how costly the celebration party is. Occasionally and especially while attending other grand weddings, I do wonder what it would be like to have a grand wedding but definitely no regrets. Our networth is very thankful for our decision.
This is a genuine problem in India. Thank you for making video on this topic. Your videos always have a huge impact on social media as you have a large number of followers. Therefore good to see you are bringing up such topics.
What a unique way of looking at Ambani wedding. Congratulations, Deshbhakt team. You created an episode covering so many relevant issues related to wasteful spending on weddings.
I guess for poor's and middle class it's wasteful spending on wedding, but Ambani worked hard/smart to make money, and his most loved thing is his wife and kids and joy seeing and give them every thing and he might have spent about less than below 1/4% of his wealth for others it's big, how many % of your wealth you spend on your wedding or sibling/kids
Me and my wife ditched gifts by asking our guests for eye donation pledge. We set out tent with volunteers at our wedding venue to fill out forms on the spot. The amount of response we got was phenomenal. It was beautiful affair
Am just 19 , But this made huge impact on the pressure that I thought I was going to face , i knew i had to grow rich to make family more special , paise kharch nhi honge shaadi mai to sahi nhi lagega , ye wala stereotype Tod Diya Maine aaj ❤❤ , Jitna budget allow krega utne mai hi Khushi Khushi krenege ❤
Wholeheartedly appreciate this video. Trust younger generation will try to understand, follow and start rational social trends. Would request Mr Banerjee to collect and share more such data and make interesting videos on these wasteful expenditures on different social occasions. Its more purposeful than making videos on party-based politcs.
This video is not about spenging too much, Its about setting up trend. Remember in india, majority of people are BPL and middle class. They tend to look up to privileg people. In india rich and poor both are suffering from a BIMARI called Show Off. Paisa he to show off banta he. Hat off to Mark for not wearing expensive watch and hats off to Nadar and Premji family for hand some donations. Love and Peace 🙏🏼
Show off generates more jobs and employment than Tata and Railway combined , if middle class and rich people start becoming simple then no one can stop recession in this country . And Every big brands Start leaving this country like BMW , AUDI , Mercedes etc .
This is the most matured video on this topic. Hats off to the one who thought about it. Literally what the society needs today. You guys should celebrate the success of pulling this off. 🎉
Your advocacy for a simple wedding truly resonates with me. In a world often defined by excess, your message of embracing simplicity is refreshing and meaningful. By prioritizing the essence of love and commitment over extravagance, you're inspiring many to focus on what truly matters. Thank you for reminding us that the beauty of a wedding lies not in its grandeur, but in the sincerity of the vows exchanged and the love shared. Your wisdom is a beacon of authenticity in a world often clouded by materialism. Here's to celebrating love, connection, and the joy of simplicity! Stay Blessed
Why dont you stop wearing shoes, shirts and trousers...wear a khadi dhothi and rubber sandals....donate 80% your income to the poor....stop preaching and see if you can practice first...hypocrite...
kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
@@Rash1987nus there are also these cases when both bride and groom opt for simple wedding but the bride is later harassed by the in laws for not providing them with lavish weddings or so called gifts to the groom, i have seen it around me a lot
Akash brings a different perspective on things that are commonly observed but in a wrong way. What a great work. The social status desease is not only limited to Shadis, it has penetrated almost every aspect of many people. I know some of my close people who opted for buying a car rather than renovating their homes. They are living the same life inside their home with many inconveniences but they think that they are upper class people because they have a car. I mean what kind of pathetic situation is it.
A few days back two of my relatives got married (separately, jic) and i was talking with my mom about the lehengas and dresses from other functions of the brides and I questioned about this lavish expenditure and all other celebrations that take place before the wedding like haldhath etc. My mom said people(relatives and invitees) want to have that "shadi ka khana", click pretty pictures and enjoy. To which i said why to stretch it to 4-5 days then? Have a simple court marriage or a phera wala marriage and throw one day party to the people you want to invite. Take pictures dil kholke. It will be cost effective (depending upon how much one wants to spend of course) also will not require much of expenditure from the guests side on their dresses and orher stuff, also will not take up so many days. This party can be thrown after a few days as well.
The irony is that at such weddings people fall over themselves in giving lavish gifts to the bride & groom but wouldn't give a dime in a wedding where the families are financially challenged.
Much needed episode.. Also i would like add that the importance of simple yet meaningful wedding was realised by kannada poet kuvempu way back in 1960.. And thaf why he has introduced a simle marriage ritual called "mantramangalya" which is a tradition that rejects any discrimination based on caste, religion, gender, location, or economic status. It emphasizes the freedom and equality of the bride and groom.
Simplicity is the key to finding solutions to age old malpractices in the garb of showing off one's social status and flaunting unnecessary hyped up activities. Marriages are one area where people go all out( without realising the social and economic bad effect it creates) to out do others before them. Your social awareness videos as usual are crisp and to the point. Hats off Sir for yet another smashing video castigating the ill- effects of a simple ceremony where Two persons come together to celebrate their union of body and soul.
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Yes, many social thinkers have made it clear that marriage is between 2 people and not an occasion to waste years of hard earned money. Kuvempu was way ahead of his time, by a century atleast
Yes. And it also rejects a convention where one has to follow certain gods, prayers, inviting all extended family members. It emphasises that marriage is a beautiful bond between the bride and a groom, which can be done in a very closed ceremony with handful of members which is apt.
@@suparnamaity284 I am sure there are better and more necessary jobs in this world than just cleaning a plate, lifting chairs, changing lights, bowing down to rich people etc, dancing in background etc.
आज आपने एक बड़ी सोशल इशू पर आज जो वीडियो बनाई है वो बहुत ही ज़रूरी है, सराहनीय है 👏 लोगो मे awareness होनी चाहिए, unnecessary expenditure को कम करने के लिए । मुझे लगा ही था कि आकाश भाई की वीडियो आएगी इस टॉपिक पर।
I got married years ago but now wish I had had a more eco friendly wedding.. There was no point having lot of plastic bottles and guests who I dont know at the wedding. You live and learn :)
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Alhamdulilah ,,, my wedding was too much simple,,,, only Barat,,, we Invited only 2 persons from eache family,,, Alhamdulilah,,, the reason of behind it me and my husband,,, after nikah ,,, I discussed to him about simplicity of marriage ,,no dowry no Bari,,,, And all guest had gone to their home on the same day of barat ,, all were happy bcz by this procedure,,,, there was no pressure on families.... Alhamdulilah today I'm living in UK with my husband,,, the next day of my barat,,,, My laws made food and divide it among poor....❤❤❤❤
we all love ratan tata but that doesn't mean we dont love ambani both are providing employement and increasing soft power of india(Due to this wedding Trumps and Clintons were on same stage along with bill, mark , rihanna Its shows India's wealth power) . For your kind information both are donating to charity. Although Ratan Tata ji donates more that's a fact.
I feel that's why industrialists like the house of tatas, infosys, wipro and birlas should be more respected as they go for wealth creation of the whole community.
An indian economist once said that as long as the marriage and festival celebrations continue, there can be no recession in India. The 75 billion dollar marriage industry gives a huge push to the economy. As long as the rich people organize grand marriage ceremonies within India, it's great news for Indian economy.
True . Problem marriage & festivals me spend karna nahi he balki but amount jitne kharch kar rahe ho use dekhke apne hisab se karna chahiye. Same goes for vehicle buying too. Ham indians Social status ke naam pe Kuch jyada hi Kharch kar dete he.
@@7vj7ik "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
Brilliant !!!!a discussion that certainly needs to happen .... 1)The main emphasis should be on "celebration" because you are happy when such an occasion is there rather than pleasing people who will join you in your celebration but won't help when you will face finanacial burden afterwards ...
It's once's wish how much to spend, 3rd part not have right to judge it. kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
HI, It is unrelated to the video, but sir I got actually inspired by you to take up arts and I showed my father your video on failures and he also supported my decision on taking up arts. I can't say much but, thanks for motivating this 16yr old kid. Hope I can be like you one day!
happy for you - now prove it to your father that your call was right i did not motivate you - i just shared with you - what is possible you will still need to make it happen
Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand. ruclips.net/video/eHyyPfitg64/видео.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm
Love your channel 😍 keep giving us unbiased news. Just a small thing I noticed that in the philanthropist list you have not mentioned the Tata family and them being the largest doners😊😅. Overall I agree that excessive money shouldn't be spent on wedding and maybe a little too much people have focused ( that too with interest, even tho they themselves are still poor and doesn't add to their knowledge or money) on this particular event.
It is a great pain in my life that my father in law had to spend more than 50% (About 13 lakh rupees 14-15 years ago) of his retirement money on my wedding. Additionally, being an extreme introvert, all that dramebazi was a big discomfort for me. I had to give in to the pressure as my primary goal was to marry this smart, lively girl who according to society had a "defect" in her body. Her father was happy to see his daughter being married at all. Seeing his joy for such a wrong reason was breaking my heart even more 💔💔🤦♂️ I have sufficient money now but giving them money back would feel more like an insult to the elders now. I try to do little things for them whenever I can.
Atleast aap samjh rhe hai ye hi bhaut badi baat hai .. u wife is very lucky..... Aajkl toh ladke samjhte hi ni hai .. aur vo bhi alag dahej maangte hai ki car toh de hi sakte hai itna cash toh bnta hi hai... Hatsofff to you.. all the best dear ❤🎉
In a survey of more than 3,000 people, Francis and Mialon found that - across all incomes - the more couples spent on their wedding, the shorter the marriage. Alternatively, spending less than $1,000 on the big day was significantly associated with a decrease in divorce rates.
The cost of nice quality cotton Tshirt at my local Dmart store is flat 99 and 129 rupees only, why spent 599 rupees (6 times higher cost) on buying Deshbhakt Tshirt. Hum kare toh chnga si tum kare toh danga si.
@@Yash--2.0 He is saying it's ok for Ambani's to spent 0.01% of their wealth for a celebration, but, it's not logical for a common man to spent all their savings on a celebration. That's what I understood. You watching the same video and commenting? 😂😂😂
I gotta say Aakash is different individual...i thought i only grew up mentally as i had chance to go out of india and learn to change my ideology...but hat's off to Aakash while staying in india you got the REAL admirable ideology...
Right broo ,,lekin jab kuch jhantu aa jate hai comment krne neeche jalne baly log bo hote hai jinki gaand me dam ni hota kuch karne ka bc bo bhonkte hai dusru ki taraki pe
@@yoyotarun their money their choice. Khud kamao aur kharcha karo kaun mana kiya hai. Btw most Sc St in IITs are rich, they use Iphones and study for free. Criticism to banta hai. Garib ko free me padhao koi dikkat nhi. Ameer ko kiu?
@@yoyotarun so what even if they spent more, they are billionaires even if they spend just 2% of they total money, it is going to be huge... but again they can afford it so they do it.
Such a amazing vlog. Nobody realize how it will impact poor people and specially middle class households. Giving fame to such function will increase gaps between dfrnt classes of india
In Islam, it's told to keep marriage as simple as possible, 4 witness & Khajoor after Nikaah , No dowry from girls side, in fact the Boy needs to give Mehar to his newly wed wife. But sadly due to wrong influence from society even Muslim weddings are extravagant these days with dowry in & Mehar at side. No point in wasting your hard earned money on Strangers for one or two events.
Great work brother! Marriage is seen as a way of spirituality in all religions but the people made it a stage to show off and ended up in loans and life long labourers for financial institutions. Proud of your work brother.
Abe Andhnamazi,arabpati hi desh ko aage badhate hai Factory 🏭 Business me hi na noukri karega , ki toilet saf karega ajob pagal hai , achhi noukri chahiye to businessman jaruri hai har Desh businessman hi aage badhate hai
This amazing pre wedding event proved #Ambanis are Billionaires by Heart too ♥️ despite #Asia's richest family, #Ambanis are grown up by rich culture, traditions & values 👏 top of it they follow Santana Dharma's path 🚩 they put country on global map and provided employment to millions but they are more grounded than their employees, rare thing in corporate world 👏 #Ambanis always come for help when country needs, either during COVID wave, Reliance providing liquid oxygen in whole world, they stopped production in used oxygen for people of country and that without a single rupee charge 🙏 they built many hospitals, schools, skill centres, etc. and providing free services for betterment of common people so they are doing more for country than many political parties 🤐 country is blessed to have such a Big Heart Billionaire family, respect 🙏 most people don't know who is #AnantAmbani because he isn't in business, his elder brother is in business and handling #Jio so people saw Aakash speeches and interviews but this man is come with a big surprise, he is unbelievable orator 💥 nobody thought that Anant is such a down to earth person and superb speaker 👍 his love for animals is pure, unconditional and amazing, this quality makes #anantambani a pure Gem of person ♥️ and his language commands in Hindi, English and Gujarati is best in ambani family 👍why Ambani family hide this gem of person from social media till now, he is doing great work for animals till 2008, #Vantara is a superb noble cause but we don't know about it, how? if any celebrity doing these type of noble causes, he should get attention because he or his family or his friend or relative promoted in media or social media but #Ambani refrained from this and this makes #Ambani family different from others 👏that they are doing so nuch social work, running many NGOs for girl education, women empowerment, tribal empowerment, underprivileged people and for poor people under Reliance foundation by Nita Ambani and Anant also doing great work for animals too and created biggest private animal sevalay called #Vantara in Jamnagar from 2008 but they never highlighted or promoted on media or social media despite they are billionaires and Asia's richest family but they are never doing paid promotion, when celebrities & media all over world came to Jamnagar, Gujarat for his pre wedding then people knew that this type of great work doing by #Anant and Ambani family, this is worth to be applauded 👏👏👏 this Great work proved #Ambani is billionaires by heart too ♥️
Ambanis spent very little, considering their networth, on Pre Wedding Bash of Anant. It created a lot of temporary employment for people. Expense of one becomes income of others.
Great 👍 to you sir... people always see the millionaires life...but not saw dark side truth ..tnx to you sir.. for people are like you who spread reality n information..
How much of your own / your parents wealth would you want to spend in a wedding ??
Not a lot especially if I know how hard they worked for it
Still waiting for druv rathee Farmer's protest video 😢
कोर्ट मैरिज 😂 सस्ता सुंदर टिकाऊ 😂😂
Less than 10 lac Pakistani rupees
Not more than a lakh.. and for that I don't care about society or relatives.
Biggest lesson learnt from this recent Ambani wedding
We should spend not more than 0.1% of our asset in wedding.
Bhai uske 0.1% Mey zamin aur aasman ka bhi nhi , blke, zamin or space ka farak h, basic maths. 😂😂😅
Bhai uski 0.1% main tera 7 janme aaram se kha ke shaadi bhi kar lega...😂
0.1 wtf bro its 10k for me.😭😭😭
@@bopon4090bhai mandir me shadi kr liyo..wha hi bhog lga dena 😂👍
@@findingmytruestself hahahaba
During my wedding my father was scared of society and kept repeating ki "Rishtedaar kya kahenge?" My simple reply was "Why are Rishtedaar even asking this question? If they are family, they will understand. If they are not family then it should hardly matter." This gave my father some strength and my wedding was done in mere 3 lakhs in 2018 in New Delhi. Food was one of our priority though, to be adequate, delicious, hygienic and vegetarian. At that time, minimum amount required for a average wedding was 10 lakhs.
That's a wonderful statement 💯
How? Ornaments themselves would cost around 3lakhs.
Hats of u set a good example for Sindhi community(presume seeing ur surname) which is known to spent hard earned money just to please rishtedaar and show off.
Very good! Proud of you for not getting carried away like the rest and wasting money
Mere 3 lakhs????
Elite RUclips public.
That’s the reason I like TATA. SIMPLE, HUMBLE and CHARITABLE.
This amazing pre wedding event proved #Ambanis are Billionaires by Heart too ♥️ despite #Asia's richest family, #Ambanis are grown up by rich culture, traditions & values 👏 top of it they follow Santana Dharma's path 🚩 they put country on global map and provided employment to millions but they are more grounded than their employees, rare thing in corporate world 👏 #Ambanis always come for help when country needs, either during COVID wave, Reliance providing liquid oxygen in whole world, they stopped production in used oxygen for people of country and that without a single rupee charge 🙏 they built many hospitals, schools, skill centres, etc. and providing free services for betterment of common people so they are doing more for country than many political parties 🤐 country is blessed to have such a Big Heart Billionaire family, respect 🙏
most people don't know who is #AnantAmbani because he isn't in business, his elder brother is in business and handling #Jio so people saw Aakash speeches and interviews but this man is come with a big surprise, he is unbelievable orator 💥 nobody thought that Anant is such a down to earth person and superb speaker 👍 his love for animals is pure, unconditional and amazing, this quality makes #anantambani a pure Gem of person ♥️ and his language commands in Hindi, English and Gujarati is best in ambani family 👍why Ambani family hide this gem of person from social media till now, he is doing great work for animals till 2008, #Vantara is a superb noble cause but we don't know about it, how? if any celebrity doing these type of noble causes, he should get attention because he or his family or his friend or relative promoted in media or social media but #Ambani refrained from this and this makes #Ambani family different from others 👏that they are doing so nuch social work, running many NGOs for girl education, women empowerment, tribal empowerment, underprivileged people and for poor people under Reliance foundation by Nita Ambani and Anant also doing great work for animals too and created biggest private animal sevalay called #Vantara in Jamnagar from 2008 but they never highlighted or promoted on media or social media despite they are billionaires and Asia's richest family but they are never doing paid promotion, when celebrities & media all over world came to Jamnagar, Gujarat for his pre wedding then people knew that this type of great work doing by #Anant and Ambani family, this is worth to be applauded 👏👏👏 this Great work proved #Ambani is billionaires by heart too ♥️
Yeh to sach hey pmcare fund bi bohot ache se handle kar rahe rey👍👍👍👍
Ambanis are businessmen and the Tatas are industrialists.
Neither Rata Tata merried not he have any family to arrange any merriage
No disrespect but har baar tata tata karna jaruri nahi
Aj unke bache hote to vo bache thodi na simple rahna pasand karte
This is exactly what I was thinking while watching all this shit on social media 😊
Recently in our neighborhood a girl had a simple temple marriage without inviting anyone except her family members. I am really impressed by her move and it also conveyed a good message to our society.
Thanks Deshbhakt for making this video and pointing out all the flaws in today's world.
I pray for you and your well being. 🌱
She's a smart girl
Big wedding cost and social pressure is social in our society. Government and NGOs should take step for awareness in this field...
I feel proud to say that I opted for court marriage which costed only Rs. 5000. I would suggest people to spend maximum money on education of their children rather than wedding.
Hahaha..maximum money on education...lol...baccha layak war hoga toh scholarship leke he padd lega..maximum money waste karke RAHUL GANDHI jesa he hoga...maximum money on education sirf PVT Schools ..pvt coaching mafia ko he faida dega ..jab shadi me kharcha hota hai toh kya lagta hai..insaan khud pe kharcha karta hai kya...kitne logo ko rojgaar milta hai ...
@@mrandroplayingBhai tu kehra hai ki education se jyada show off important hai. Bhai tu deshbhakt ki audience nahi lagra merko. Aur scholarship k liye bhi bacha ko basics aana chahiye. Aur wese bhi agar tere extra pesa pada hua hai, to ek do gareeb jese apni maid, driver wagera k ek do bache padhwa de. Education can never be held below showoff.
Excellent❤❤🎉
@@mrandroplaying bhai, shaadi me bas 2 logo ko maza nahi aata, pati aur patni. Baaki sab moj maza karte he
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Indian media has enough time to telecast wedding ceremony of Ambani but they don't have time to telecast the protest of students, farmers and women
Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
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+Wrestlers' protest.
BJP media
bhai media ya ye jo paparaji hain unpe aaakthu hai sale log bhikmango ki tarah inke darwajo pe ak photo ki bheekh mangte khade the ..magar yahi kutte desh me andar ki mahngai gareebi school ki fees andruninihabro ke peeche nhi bagte harami sale aaak thhiuinpe
My mentor, college chaplain, showed me how he and his wife organized their wedding. His wife wore not a single piece of gold, no make up, simple low key hospitality. The wife is a gold medalist physician with no dirth of money. He showed me his wedding album to present it as an example for me to follow. This is what I respected, held in high regard and so found it quite sad how people look at how much gold is on display etc etc. But people are people, difficult to change, easy to get judgemental. I am so blessed to have had a mentor like Rev. Ninan Chacko.
Gaand kyun jal rahi hai ....
Indira aur Rajiv ki shaadi bhool gaye 😓
If people like you emphasis on freedom of choice to a fundamental level, so why can't any individuals wedding to as grandeur as they wish it to be, as long as they can afford it 🤷🏻♂️
Where's the issue for other people. They are successful, they spent money, they boost this economy
If materialistic lifestyle is what you detest... Then that's also a personal choice in the end 🤷🏻♂️
@@suparnamaity284 definitely
Also, we are now living in a capitalist society
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Hum 4, 5 lakh me shaadi nipta rahe hein bhai ki wo udhaar le kar 😂😅😢
Covid lockdown time was the best. No wasteful weddings.😂
This is what the discussion should be instead of the fanfare the media is doing today. People should look at their own worth and spend accordingly
Why do you expect mmai stream media to discuss such things in first place...they all r bikau to the core...left right centre all r same.
Unforunetly, these people own the media and the people believe everything that they see on social media
Azim Premji is i guess the most underrated and private industrialist of India, its only in such lists that i have ever seen his name, just read up on him now that his dad was invited by Jinnah to come to Pakistan during partition but they stated back in India, and now they are giving back to India.
whats wrong in showing your health?
@@niranjanchavan8513because it hurts those who can't afford it. Humility is a virtue in our culture
Bc ye itna donation jata kaha hai???
@@niranjanchavan8513 Reinforcement of feudalism and encouragement to debauched people....insult to poor hardworking people of India such as farmers...and drdo scientist, and a painful reminder that Indian rich are corrupt and uncivilized and toxic, compared to American self made entrepreneurs. Also fully explains why India remains an economic laggard....
So, because of them, nobody should enjoy their wealth ..how rubbish? Try to work hard to achieve that feat instead of being jealous. Idiot .. @srbasha74
I've my wedding this year and I so agree with everything you said. The problem is that we have stopped respecting people with high social and moral grounds. It's still tough to explain my parents why we need to stop burning money, but use it wisely to enrich our experience and also the lives of at least some people, we can.
unka paisa unki marji ese toh is deshbhakt ko bhi bas 1 room ka bas chota sa ghar lena chiaye aur baki bachaye jitna bchana hai paisa jiske pass jitna hota hai wo utna khacrch karta hai isliye please ap log unhe gyan na de tohi sahi hai kyuki app uss paise ko bchakar akele amiri ka dhomg karogi but unke pass utna alredy hai jitna app log achieve karne ka sapna rakhte ho
@@anandthakur4616chup kar ja😂
My wedding was just simple total expenditure 10,000 rupees. And happily married so far. Blessed with two children. We must get away from this "ki log kya kahenge?" Trust me they will talk anyway, even if u spend lakhs and crores on marriage. Simple marriage is the must blessed marriage.
Bilkul sahe kaha ...zada lavish shaadi mein nazar bhi lag jaati hai...aur jaldi toot bhi jaati hai...
How in 10k?
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@@luffyy8194 arey bhai logic ko nahi emotion ko samajh.😂😂
@@luffyy8194 May bhi yahi soch raha hun 10k main kese ho sakta hai.😮😮
Much needed topic of discussion. I fought with my parents and in-laws for almost a year. Still, I failed. Both families spent a lot on marriage (~20L) instead of my push to invest in a house/flat as I do not work in my hometown. Its 5 years now, and I am still on rent and couldn't save for a down payment. Now, it's much harder and more expensive because of the unrealistic property inflation in the Tricity. The same property that was available in 40L is going for 1cr nowadays. People realize this much later, and my family, including my wife, also realize this now.
Same situation sir. It was a fight in vain at our end too. My husband and I were against lavish weddings and we wanted it to be as simple as possible. Our parents and in laws were not in talking terms with us due to this fight.
Wow! What do u mean u failed? It is your wedding. How can they force u? Emotional blackmail? But you could’ve stood your ground
Bhai kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
That's why I will never marry 💀
One should pledge to spend only 0.1% of parents worth.
Excellent analysis 👏
"Moderation is the key everywhere"
kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
Apart from Celebrities and Industrialists, media has a large impact on people to increase wedding expenditure!
Kyu Bhai yami Gautam me simple shaadi ki uska to koi impact nhi aaya society pr to koi Asia ka richest person apne Ghar ki aakhiri shadi me apni marji ka Paisa jo ki legal h kharch kr rha h to kya usse poori society Ambani bnne nikal padegi, kya bakwas hai
@@worldfrommyeyes16 yes you are right
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@@worldfrommyeyes16 Bro, Boori cheezein jaldi attract karti hai insanon ko aaj ki date mein
No, tv serials made a large impact on increasing wedding expenditure.
Much needed topic. It’s high time for the Indian families to reflect on these big fat Indian weddings. Indian family and friends’ circle is always big compared to western society. So one may invite a large number of guests, but cost can be curtailed on other extravaganza like variety and opulence of food, costumes, jewelleries, venue, useless return gifts etc.
I did my wedding in the most modest way possible, then too found the expenses too high. I am happy that we (me and my wife) saved money for our future together.
Most of the sensible things your family has done.
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😂😂😂 very funny
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aur karo modi modi modi. ab bhugto
One of the best videos I have ever seen...... A topic that should have been covered by other media companies years back.....
Butt why would they discuss..
i have my opinion that middle class see wedding as social status but rich people like ambani see wedding as form of publicity and building good relations with others
Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
ruclips.net/video/eHyyPfitg64/видео.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm
Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
ruclips.net/video/eHyyPfitg64/видео.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm
TRUE.
Rich people sell dreams of big fat weeding to middle class so that middle class spend lots of money on one day show off and stay poor.
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The main Question lies why we spend too much, there can be two answers
1- to celebrate
2- to show off
As far as it is too celebrate, it is okay because we earn to fulfill our emotional satisfaction along with basic needs
They want to bamboozle indians and indian politicians.
I was stunned after seeing the first 5 minutes of the video, my whole perspective about celeb weddings changed after listening to that 0.1% statement. Thanks for making me aware . I will definitely share your message to as many people as I can, first would be my mom who is busy watching videos of Anant from the past 2 days🤣🤣
Brought a smile to my face about your Mum "who......past 2 days". Am Indian born and educated but chose to live in the UK. A Bulgarian friend of mine was invited by her friend to a Wedding in The Punjab. Her friend gave the brides parents her professional title Dr. I flipped and was solely responsible for her turning the invite down. I told my friend going to a Wedding in Punjab is free PR to all the Agents who are people traffickers and smugglers.
@@agnescraig2912Can you elaborate on this. How does her professional title connect with trafficking and smuggling. Also why are Punjab wedding attract these "agents"?
I am curious as I am naive about these things. Thanks
ab ki baar 550 paar
You are a responsible citizen. Appreciate your concern towards society. Great video.
And we are responsible citizen, that's why we came to watch his video.
And we should be responsible citizen by less budget wedding
we dont need NEET. We need Modi and Satsang
Amazing episode! Hats off! A low-cost wedding is exactly what we did.
4 years ago, me and my husband love-married intercaste in court (with parent's blessings). No pre-wedding ceremony other than an at-home mehendi gathering and went to honeymoon within India. Threw a reception later, but it was nowhere near a grand wedding. Saved money on firecrackers, ghodi, DJ, prewedding shoot, Mehendi ceremony, Haldi ceremony and overseas honeymoon, to say the least. We chose to do that because for us only being together was enough, not how costly the celebration party is.
Occasionally and especially while attending other grand weddings, I do wonder what it would be like to have a grand wedding but definitely no regrets. Our networth is very thankful for our decision.
This is a genuine problem in India. Thank you for making video on this topic. Your videos always have a huge impact on social media as you have a large number of followers. Therefore good to see you are bringing up such topics.
What a unique way of looking at Ambani wedding. Congratulations, Deshbhakt team. You created an episode covering so many relevant issues related to wasteful spending on weddings.
I guess for poor's and middle class it's wasteful spending on wedding, but Ambani worked hard/smart to make money, and his most loved thing is his wife and kids and joy seeing and give them every thing and he might have spent about less than below 1/4% of his wealth for others it's big, how many % of your wealth
you spend on your wedding or sibling/kids
Haa Tera Paisa tha na 😂
Kya yar
Me and my wife ditched gifts by asking our guests for eye donation pledge. We set out tent with volunteers at our wedding venue to fill out forms on the spot. The amount of response we got was phenomenal. It was beautiful affair
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Wow, what a noble idea. Loved it.
Bakloli band Kar.
@@sattwikmohanty3272exactly 😂😂 ,
Saadi kr rhe ho ki moral policing , itna hi tha to pati patni bhi saadi se pahle apna apna kidney daan de dete 😂😂😂
Ye zada ho gaya. Eye camp to dispensary Wale lagaate hi hain.
Am just 19 , But this made huge impact on the pressure that I thought I was going to face , i knew i had to grow rich to make family more special , paise kharch nhi honge shaadi mai to sahi nhi lagega , ye wala stereotype Tod Diya Maine aaj ❤❤ , Jitna budget allow krega utne mai hi Khushi Khushi krenege ❤
Han to bete unka budget ye allow krta h
5 minute ki fuddi Marne ke liye Aadmi 40 lakh ka kharcha karta hai ye uski zindagi ki sabse kharab deal hai.
😮Tu abhi s shadi k sapne dekhne lga!
@@Dontbebad321 ha bhai , 🏆
Good for you
Wholeheartedly appreciate this video. Trust younger generation will try to understand, follow and start rational social trends. Would request Mr Banerjee to collect and share more such data and make interesting videos on these wasteful expenditures on different social occasions. Its more purposeful than making videos on party-based politcs.
This video is not about spenging too much, Its about setting up trend. Remember in india, majority of people are BPL and middle class. They tend to look up to privileg people. In india rich and poor both are suffering from a BIMARI called Show Off. Paisa he to show off banta he. Hat off to Mark for not wearing expensive watch and hats off to Nadar and Premji family for hand some donations. Love and Peace 🙏🏼
who said 80 crore people are gareeb 😂. My neighbour have BPL card though having car and own house
Show off generates more jobs and employment than Tata and Railway combined , if middle class and rich people start becoming simple then no one can stop recession in this country . And Every big brands Start leaving this country like BMW , AUDI , Mercedes etc .
My neighbour owns a bungalow and a honda city which he bought last year and yet he is a BPL person.
Most of the gareebs are only on paper
@@v-rex3206 True
@@awaken3d India is a land of scammers where politicians and people both are scammers 🤣
This is the most matured video on this topic. Hats off to the one who thought about it. Literally what the society needs today. You guys should celebrate the success of pulling this off. 🎉
Exactly
But one mistake from Akash Da in this video
I think no one have authority to burn money 😁😁(Don't take seriously,I am also your big fan)
Best wedding must be conducted in front of God... In temples, Mosques, chruchs and Gurudwaras... Simple
Sadly Indians can flaunt their wealth even in temples...
As per reports money charged by top celebs to attend anant Ambani pre wedding-
Rihanna- 72 crores (1 day)
SRK - 15 crore
Salman - 15 crore
M Dhoni- 15 crore
Sachin- 10 crore
Amitabh- 10 crore (1 day)
Rohit - 5 crore (1 day)
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7:56❤❤❤
Great social message❤❤❤
Aur mark ko kitna Mila bhai
aur karo modi modi modi. ab bhugto
Your advocacy for a simple wedding truly resonates with me. In a world often defined by excess, your message of embracing simplicity is refreshing and meaningful. By prioritizing the essence of love and commitment over extravagance, you're inspiring many to focus on what truly matters. Thank you for reminding us that the beauty of a wedding lies not in its grandeur, but in the sincerity of the vows exchanged and the love shared. Your wisdom is a beacon of authenticity in a world often clouded by materialism. Here's to celebrating love, connection, and the joy of simplicity!
Stay Blessed
Good English 👍
Why dont you stop wearing shoes, shirts and trousers...wear a khadi dhothi and rubber sandals....donate 80% your income to the poor....stop preaching and see if you can practice first...hypocrite...
chatgpt bhai
Good analysis done on Marriage expenses..,.
If marriages are made simple, it will wipe the tears of many parents.....
kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
In most cases, it is the very parents who refuse to listen to reason and spend less money because they think ki naak kategi
ab ki baar 550 paar
@@Rash1987nus there are also these cases when both bride and groom opt for simple wedding but the bride is later harassed by the in laws for not providing them with lavish weddings or so called gifts to the groom, i have seen it around me a lot
Dear Aakash, Thank You.. for a Brilliant Episode on a highly burning issue in our country once again.
Akash brings a different perspective on things that are commonly observed but in a wrong way. What a great work. The social status desease is not only limited to Shadis, it has penetrated almost every aspect of many people. I know some of my close people who opted for buying a car rather than renovating their homes. They are living the same life inside their home with many inconveniences but they think that they are upper class people because they have a car. I mean what kind of pathetic situation is it.
A few days back two of my relatives got married (separately, jic) and i was talking with my mom about the lehengas and dresses from other functions of the brides and I questioned about this lavish expenditure and all other celebrations that take place before the wedding like haldhath etc.
My mom said people(relatives and invitees) want to have that "shadi ka khana", click pretty pictures and enjoy. To which i said why to stretch it to 4-5 days then? Have a simple court marriage or a phera wala marriage and throw one day party to the people you want to invite. Take pictures dil kholke. It will be cost effective (depending upon how much one wants to spend of course) also will not require much of expenditure from the guests side on their dresses and orher stuff, also will not take up so many days. This party can be thrown after a few days as well.
I am happy to decide that I am only doing registry marriage best for my mental health and pocket.
Great perception...right way to look at the issue...!!
Brother you are a gem.
By the way veer das predicated it very early.
Two India.
Such a great social message thank you for addressing it ❤
The irony is that at such weddings people fall over themselves in giving lavish gifts to the bride & groom but wouldn't give a dime in a wedding where the families are financially challenged.
Absolutely great topic to look upon in the present time. Hats off to you that you took up this matter and made a beautiful episode on this.
Really appreciate your perspective
Good you are teaching ppl how they should approach
Basically I watch very rare your videos but after this video I’ll subscribe & watch your all videos…
Thanks for giving true vibes to india…
Much needed episode.. Also i would like add that the importance of simple yet meaningful wedding was realised by kannada poet kuvempu way back in 1960.. And thaf why he has introduced a simle marriage ritual called "mantramangalya" which is a tradition that rejects any discrimination based on caste, religion, gender, location, or economic status. It emphasizes the freedom and equality of the bride and groom.
Simplicity is the key to finding solutions to age old malpractices in the garb of showing off one's social status and flaunting unnecessary hyped up activities. Marriages are one area where people go all out( without realising the social and economic bad effect it creates) to out do others before them.
Your social awareness videos as usual are crisp and to the point. Hats off Sir for yet another smashing video castigating the ill- effects of a simple ceremony where Two persons come together to celebrate their union of body and soul.
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Yes, many social thinkers have made it clear that marriage is between 2 people and not an occasion to waste years of hard earned money. Kuvempu was way ahead of his time, by a century atleast
Yes. And it also rejects a convention where one has to follow certain gods, prayers, inviting all extended family members. It emphasises that marriage is a beautiful bond between the bride and a groom, which can be done in a very closed ceremony with handful of members which is apt.
@@suparnamaity284 I am sure there are better and more necessary jobs in this world than just cleaning a plate, lifting chairs, changing lights, bowing down to rich people etc, dancing in background etc.
आज आपने एक बड़ी सोशल इशू पर आज जो वीडियो बनाई है वो बहुत ही ज़रूरी है, सराहनीय है 👏
लोगो मे awareness होनी चाहिए, unnecessary expenditure को कम करने के लिए । मुझे लगा ही था कि आकाश भाई की वीडियो आएगी इस टॉपिक पर।
That is why India has the lowest divorce rate , because you to pay that much money again😂
Fr😂
Alimony left the chat
@@Aryan-xm5kx Alimony is pennies compared to dowry and stridhan .
Alimony is big business. Best way to get rich for spolied yet bechaari Aurat
@@aanchalsx Most of the richest women on Earth are rich due to Alimony from rich husbands. Marriage these days is mostly a scam. True love is rare!
Very very good video bhai, ankhen aur dimag dono kholne wala video hai really very informative, soch badalne ki jarurat hai, hats off to you..👍🏻
I got married years ago but now wish I had had a more eco friendly wedding.. There was no point having lot of plastic bottles and guests who I dont know at the wedding. You live and learn :)
Harshad mehta ka daughter ho kya ?
Taking notes 😊
jinke pass paise nhi hai wahi log eco friendly aur ajeeb bate krte hai. dont be jealous
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Alhamdulilah ,,, my wedding was too much simple,,,, only Barat,,, we Invited only 2 persons from eache family,,, Alhamdulilah,,, the reason of behind it me and my husband,,, after nikah ,,, I discussed to him about simplicity of marriage ,,no dowry no Bari,,,,
And all guest had gone to their home on the same day of barat ,, all were happy bcz by this procedure,,,, there was no pressure on families.... Alhamdulilah today I'm living in UK with my husband,,, the next day of my barat,,,, My laws made food and divide it among poor....❤❤❤❤
Akash Bhai.. Thanks for sharing such an important message.. Keep going... We all love you...
That's why we love Ratan Tata Sir jee😊😊😊
kyu bhai ?
unhone esa kya kar diya ?
Na shadi ki na koi family hai :)
Andhbhakt mat bano
we all love ratan tata but that doesn't mean we dont love ambani both are providing employement and increasing soft power of india(Due to this wedding Trumps and Clintons were on same stage along with bill, mark , rihanna Its shows India's wealth power) . For your kind information both are donating to charity. Although Ratan Tata ji donates more that's a fact.
If you have money you will also spend. Ok whatever money you have spend and PLEASE ALSO DONATE TO CHARITY ALSO as you Admire tata ji more than others
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Very very nice message. I always love simple weddings with good food good dance good music good gentry.
I feel that's why industrialists like the house of tatas, infosys, wipro and birlas should be more respected as they go for wealth creation of the whole community.
An indian economist once said that as long as the marriage and festival celebrations continue, there can be no recession in India. The 75 billion dollar marriage industry gives a huge push to the economy. As long as the rich people organize grand marriage ceremonies within India, it's great news for Indian economy.
True . Problem marriage & festivals me spend karna nahi he balki but amount jitne kharch kar rahe ho use dekhke apne hisab se karna chahiye.
Same goes for vehicle buying too.
Ham indians Social status ke naam pe Kuch jyada hi Kharch kar dete he.
Modi ka jub ashirwad hai toh Ambani ko kika durr 😂
@@7vj7ik Kavi kavar sensational bate vi kar diya karo. Har jagah modi modi chilana band karo. Video Dusre topic pe he .
There will also be a dad & brother(s) of the bride who would be debt ridden their entire life. Worst impact is on the middle class families.
@@7vj7ik "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
Brilliant !!!!a discussion that certainly needs to happen ....
1)The main emphasis should be on "celebration" because you are happy when such an occasion is there rather than pleasing people who will join you in your celebration but won't help when you will face finanacial burden afterwards ...
It's once's wish how much to spend, 3rd part not have right to judge it. kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.
HI, It is unrelated to the video, but sir I got actually inspired by you to take up arts and I showed my father your video on failures and he also supported my decision on taking up arts. I can't say much but, thanks for motivating this 16yr old kid. Hope I can be like you one day!
happy for you - now prove it to your father that your call was right
i did not motivate you - i just shared with you - what is possible
you will still need to make it happen
@@thedeshbhaktsir kahi toh credit lelo, ye ldka kal ko apka competitor bngya toh?? 😂😂
Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
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A Golden Heart is rare to find, but once discovered, it brightens up the world.
You have Golden heart Sir ❤
There should be a bill to put cap on educational institutions how much they can charge
Maan ki baat bol diya apne. ❤❤
Love your channel 😍 keep giving us unbiased news. Just a small thing I noticed that in the philanthropist list you have not mentioned the Tata family and them being the largest doners😊😅. Overall I agree that excessive money shouldn't be spent on wedding and maybe a little too much people have focused ( that too with interest, even tho they themselves are still poor and doesn't add to their knowledge or money) on this particular event.
Ratan TATA sir , Ambani sir bestfraind 🤝
Jaise hindu ko jati me batate ho vaise hi enko bhi bat rahe ho
that is because the list does not take into account company trusts - but tatas would be giving away much more.
@@thedeshbhakt woah can't believe you replied
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Mash Allah
You have given the right message
Islam teaches us how to do a simple wedding on one date
Hahaha here also religion...one track mind...
I do not watch this channel often but this is such an important topic! Maximum people should realize there's actually no need of extravagant showoff!
It is a great pain in my life that my father in law had to spend more than 50% (About 13 lakh rupees 14-15 years ago) of his retirement money on my wedding.
Additionally, being an extreme introvert, all that dramebazi was a big discomfort for me.
I had to give in to the pressure as my primary goal was to marry this smart, lively girl who according to society had a "defect" in her body. Her father was happy to see his daughter being married at all.
Seeing his joy for such a wrong reason was breaking my heart even more 💔💔🤦♂️
I have sufficient money now but giving them money back would feel more like an insult to the elders now. I try to do little things for them whenever I can.
Atleast aap samjh rhe hai ye hi bhaut badi baat hai .. u wife is very lucky..... Aajkl toh ladke samjhte hi ni hai .. aur vo bhi alag dahej maangte hai ki car toh de hi sakte hai itna cash toh bnta hi hai... Hatsofff to you.. all the best dear ❤🎉
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In a survey of more than 3,000 people, Francis and Mialon found that - across all incomes - the more couples spent on their wedding, the shorter the marriage. Alternatively, spending less than $1,000 on the big day was significantly associated with a decrease in divorce rates.
The cost of nice quality cotton Tshirt at my local Dmart store is flat 99 and 129 rupees only, why spent 599 rupees (6 times higher cost) on buying Deshbhakt Tshirt. Hum kare toh chnga si tum kare toh danga si.
Don't buy.... If you spent 599 once to buy T shirt, your life is done.
He isn't forcing u to buy
Then why giving lecture to others.
@@Yash--2.0 He is saying it's ok for Ambani's to spent 0.01% of their wealth for a celebration, but, it's not logical for a common man to spent all their savings on a celebration. That's what I understood. You watching the same video and commenting? 😂😂😂
U r so poor dat u wear a 99 rs shirt. Den u shudnt worry. U can't afford deshbhakt shirt
Now this video is an instance of what counts under the responsibilities of an Influencer. An impactful video. Thank you Sir!
I gotta say Aakash is different individual...i thought i only grew up mentally as i had chance to go out of india and learn to change my ideology...but hat's off to Aakash while staying in india you got the REAL admirable ideology...
10:52 very truely said sir
ग्रामीण एरिया में कार्य के तीन कारण है, शादी,बीमारी, श्राद्ध, यह बात एकदम सही है,
Kharcha karna galat nahi hai.. Is se inspire hona galat hai! Sabka apna budget, apna style hai!
Never criticise rich for his enjoyments!!
Right broo ,,lekin jab kuch jhantu aa jate hai comment krne neeche jalne baly log bo hote hai jinki gaand me dam ni hota kuch karne ka bc bo bhonkte hai dusru ki taraki pe
@sryuhgfcvsdggv4071 baniye army m jao
Anybody in limelight shoukd be open for criticsism. They could have spent much more but could have kept it low key in media.
@@yoyotarun their money their choice. Khud kamao aur kharcha karo kaun mana kiya hai. Btw most Sc St in IITs are rich, they use Iphones and study for free. Criticism to banta hai. Garib ko free me padhao koi dikkat nhi. Ameer ko kiu?
@@yoyotarun so what even if they spent more, they are billionaires even if they spend just 2% of they total money, it is going to be huge... but again they can afford it so they do it.
Such a amazing vlog. Nobody realize how it will impact poor people and specially middle class households. Giving fame to such function will increase gaps between dfrnt classes of india
In Islam, it's told to keep marriage as simple as possible, 4 witness & Khajoor after Nikaah , No dowry from girls side, in fact the Boy needs to give Mehar to his newly wed wife. But sadly due to wrong influence from society even Muslim weddings are extravagant these days with dowry in & Mehar at side.
No point in wasting your hard earned money on Strangers for one or two events.
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Absolutely true!
Talak talak talak
@@bandhuroyniqah halala 😂
Tumlogo ko 4 bar karna hota to har baar lavish kaise karoge hmara ek baar hi hota hai !!!!
आपणे एकदम सही✅️ दिशा निर्देशों के साथ अपनी बात बतायी है👍🏽
Great work brother! Marriage is seen as a way of spirituality in all religions but the people made it a stage to show off and ended up in loans and life long labourers for financial institutions. Proud of your work brother.
It is indeed a spiritual bond! Thanks for saying that. We marry to enrich our lives not to satisfy societal expectations
Meaningful episode...... appreciate ❤
Nice Akash, really heart touching issue u raised....
Moral of story
If u poor have poor wedding
If u rich have real wedding
Well it is what it is
Never be jealous of rich people
If you do
You will not become rich
Even if we don't become jealous we will be still poor
@@nimfall Hahaaaaaa....u r fire
Vohi tumari aukat hai@@nimfall
Never Jealous is ok, but never copy them before becoming one of them 😂
What is rich u am also rich soo😂😂
Finally I got one more video to save in my playlist.
Bhaiya thanku for opening eye of person who just living fake lifes
I am so glad you addressed this issue. This has always been one of the recurrent issues in my mind..I agree with you completely.
Your video will change the mind set of many parents. Best video really appreciating
“फकीर की भूख सिर्फ उसका जान खाती है मगर अरबपतियों की भूख पूरा मुल्क खा जाती है!” : कार्ल मार्क्स
Abe Andhnamazi,arabpati hi desh ko aage badhate hai
Factory 🏭 Business me hi na noukri karega , ki toilet saf karega ajob pagal hai , achhi noukri chahiye to businessman jaruri hai har Desh businessman hi aage badhate hai
Karl Marx ke Gyan ne to mulk ke mulk tabaah kar diye🤬
Ajit bharti ko delho please bhohat accha pelaa hai 😂😂vampanthi agenda wale piddhi ko
This amazing pre wedding event proved #Ambanis are Billionaires by Heart too ♥️ despite #Asia's richest family, #Ambanis are grown up by rich culture, traditions & values 👏 top of it they follow Santana Dharma's path 🚩 they put country on global map and provided employment to millions but they are more grounded than their employees, rare thing in corporate world 👏 #Ambanis always come for help when country needs, either during COVID wave, Reliance providing liquid oxygen in whole world, they stopped production in used oxygen for people of country and that without a single rupee charge 🙏 they built many hospitals, schools, skill centres, etc. and providing free services for betterment of common people so they are doing more for country than many political parties 🤐 country is blessed to have such a Big Heart Billionaire family, respect 🙏
most people don't know who is #AnantAmbani because he isn't in business, his elder brother is in business and handling #Jio so people saw Aakash speeches and interviews but this man is come with a big surprise, he is unbelievable orator 💥 nobody thought that Anant is such a down to earth person and superb speaker 👍 his love for animals is pure, unconditional and amazing, this quality makes #anantambani a pure Gem of person ♥️ and his language commands in Hindi, English and Gujarati is best in ambani family 👍why Ambani family hide this gem of person from social media till now, he is doing great work for animals till 2008, #Vantara is a superb noble cause but we don't know about it, how? if any celebrity doing these type of noble causes, he should get attention because he or his family or his friend or relative promoted in media or social media but #Ambani refrained from this and this makes #Ambani family different from others 👏that they are doing so nuch social work, running many NGOs for girl education, women empowerment, tribal empowerment, underprivileged people and for poor people under Reliance foundation by Nita Ambani and Anant also doing great work for animals too and created biggest private animal sevalay called #Vantara in Jamnagar from 2008 but they never highlighted or promoted on media or social media despite they are billionaires and Asia's richest family but they are never doing paid promotion, when celebrities & media all over world came to Jamnagar, Gujarat for his pre wedding then people knew that this type of great work doing by #Anant and Ambani family, this is worth to be applauded 👏👏👏 this Great work proved #Ambani is billionaires by heart too ♥️
Jhant ke baal 😂😂
First time I saw a good analysis / advice.
Bhai ji , your video is an eye opener for all the family members in our nation. 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽
Ambanis spent very little, considering their networth, on Pre Wedding Bash of Anant. It created a lot of temporary employment for people. Expense of one becomes income of others.
Very well explained... And this is sad truth of society 👍🏻❤️
💯💯💯 Hats off to you sir!
Hope our nation understands it and brings out a revolution & be the trend setter of simple marriage.
Wedding is an individual thing between two persons❤
Dada!! Best video!!🎉❤ thank you so much! Kudos to u😊🎉
Thanks for the video.....!!
Very well said!!! We as individuals need to think logically, to make judgement wisdom fully, and act meaningfully.
Great 👍 to you sir... people always see the millionaires life...but not saw dark side truth ..tnx to you sir.. for people are like you who spread reality n information..
Aaj ke samay ki sacchai ko bayan karta hai ye video. Logo ko jagruk krne ke liye hme aise videos ki bahut jarurt hau
Do spending on your weeding according to your budget
That's it....
Islam me yahi bat batate hain ki shadi ko asaan banao lekin bohot kam log mante hain ye bat😢
Ambani be like- bhakt banarjee ko bhi bula hi lena tha
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Andhnamazi hai ye AAP, khangress ka chamcha
Aur Andhnamazi aur pappu bhakt koo bhi😂😂
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BILKUL..
Inhe chull mch pri h pichhe😅😅
Akash truly respect and love you ❤❤you explain in the best way❤❤