Kaisi Indian families mein guilt use hota hai | Emotional manipulation
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- Опубликовано: 22 апр 2021
- बेड़ियों को गहना समझ लेने से कैद की घुटन कम नही हो जाती। बल्कि यह ज़रूर होता है कि घुटन बहुत बढ़ जाने पर भी यह समझ नही आता कि हम घुटा हुआ क्यों महसूस कर रहे हैं। और उस समय, हम ज़िंदगी का क्या करते हैं?
Invisible chains are the hardest to break. If we don't even realize we are unfree, we will never know that our unhappiness is stemming from that. And then sadly, more people choose to end their miserable lives instead of ending their misery, especially in India where parents put a lot of pressure and make kids feel guilty.
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What happened to yr sister@ Robin bhai
Absolutely true!And this guilt is very draining. Thanks .
आप ग्रूप बनाने की बात कर रहे थे उसकी लिंक भी शेयर कीजीए हम जूड़ना चाहते हमारे यहां बिशनोई जिन गावो मे रहते है वहा हर तीन गांवो के बिच एक गौसाला है जिन मे आवारा पशूओं को रखने की वयवस्ता है और हम भी बोहोत योगदान करते है लेकिन हमारे यहां जानवरों का डाक्टर नहीं है जिससे की हम जानवरो का ईलाज करवा सकें
Bahut sahi aur badia baat ki aapne.
Main To jina chahta hoo mere Ghar wale bus paisa ke sath hai
Elon Musk said in an interview “My children didn’t choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”
Indian Parents are just opposite.....
Unfortunately!
@@vishalrathour2673 Ye log toh bolte hei. Ke Hum Bhagwaan se Khud poochke aaye hei ke aise family mei janam lenge. Matlab kuch bhi.
@@arushisharma32 Huh! APJ Abdul Kalam in his Wings of Fire said, "Your children come through you but not from you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts"
They can never understand this!
@@vishalrathour2673 It was taken from a Poem on Children written by a Lebanese Writer. You should read the Whole Poem. Its really Good
@@arushisharma32 Haa. I surely will.
When I quoted these lines to my mom.....Phir acche se gaaliya mili khane ko. Loose Motions ho gye ek dm 😶
She was like baap na bno hmare chaar kitabein pdh ke.
I was like..... It's hopeless. Jhelte rho bs!
Heal before having children so your children don’t have to heal from having you as parents
सही है मैडम
माँ बाप अगर सुलझे हुए नही होंगे तो बच्चों को उनका अज्ञान झेलना पड़ता है और जब तक बच्चे खुद सुलझते नही है तब तक बहोत वक्त निकल चुका होता है।
Wow... great thought devushka
Hi
Well said!
@my opinion hi
he is so courageous to talk about imperfections in his life. other RUclipsrs fake happiness n create a so called perfect life
And it's fine.....he doing it a great thing ... doesn't make everyone obligated to speak up. People have their own way to deal with grief and shame its subjective...... kindly don't compare
@@BalaBalarewell said dear. A good reminder for me. Thanks
A bad childhood is like a cage which never sets you free, even if you fly like a bird in sky
Exactly
Sorry not true. All the wise people like Buddha, Guru Nanak Dev ji, Jesus and so many more went through a lot of pain to but they forgave and decided to leave the past in the past and lived in the moment. We must do this to. Carrying this baggage is like you will never be able to run away because the weight is so heavy. But if you keep looking behind you, you miss what's happening in front. Drop that bag and before you forgive others forgive yourself. No human is perfect so mistakes happen and if God is giving us another morning for a new chance we should accept it. I send this message in love, I to have been hurt and talk from experience.
I pray all my extended family on this chat can drop the weight they carry and spread their wings and fly because every second we have is another chance to live🙏
@@satvinderkaur983but unless we get correct guidance
@@satvinderkaur983Rightly said, It is all about awareness and willingness to overcome the beaten path. It is a life long practice that can really help you to an extent, but will it heal your inner self, that is a matter of personal experience
Children are brought up trained to be exploited, especially, girls. Life has been so painful to share. No relief anywhere
Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child.
Kya baat boli hai bhai!!
क्या बात, क्या बात ! Original है ? या कहिं से lift ?
True 100%
True
So true
ये वो ही बोल सकता हैं जिनसे वास्तविकता में जीना सीख लिया हो।
सही कहा. पर वास्तविकता मे हम ज्यादातर इंडियन्स को आता काहा हे. बस झूट की चादर ओढे जी रहे हे खोकले संस्कार, आदर्श, जात , धर्म की चपेट मे.
Ya shayad jise zindagi ne puri tarah se tod dia ho
या वही बोल सकता है जिसमें ये गहराई से सहा हो। लाइफ कॉम्प्रोमाइज और सैक्रीफाइस का नाम है। जब तक लोग इस थियोरी पे चलते रहेंगे, जीवन बर्बाद होते रहेंगे। मै शादी करना नहीं चाहता या चाहती लेकिन में अपने पैरेंट्स की खुशी के लिए कर रहा हूं या रही हूं। जब आप ऐसा या सिमिलर कोई स्टेप लेते हो तब आप अपने लिए क्राइम करते हो और उस क्राइम में अपने पैरेंट्स को भी शामिल करते हो।
@@kuls43 👍👍👍
@@harshadk3240 Bhai Mai aapki bat se sehmaht Hun par Puri bat se Nahi agar aap smaj Mai raho ge to nastik ko expect sirf sanatan karta hai or mahjab Nahi jab unki population yada ho Jaye gi ya to unka mahjab sabikar karna pade GA ya Marna or dharm par chalta kon hai Jo tum dharm ko jimedar dehra rhe ho kuritya smaj Mai hai dharm Mai Nahi .
Emotional blackmail, manipulation, humiliation, Gaslighting, aggressive behaviour and the list goes on....😭
Narcissism in one word
Nobody talks about female narcissism in family.
@@bullseye6969 narcissism is not related to one gender, both of my parents are narcissist
Mother is a overt narcissist and father is a covert narcissist
Although you are right
Narcissism is more likely developed in females than males
@@piku8700 again I said nobody talks about "female" narcissism. That does not mean it's gender specific in fact male narcissist are more prevalent also its been talked about openly specifically about male quite frequently and also its been linked to males.
But there are also female narcissists.
@@bullseye6969 I agree with you
I think Mostly it's because we all glorify females and society always considers female as a victim without knowing the reality
Indian parents should be taught before our generation born, if they would have given 1 year classes , it would have saved 100 years of future
Exactly
We can still make sure to be better parents. And save our future generations.
Yes you are right
This is the dark reality of our parents and parenting
बहूत दिनों बाद किसी सुलझे हुए इंसान को सुन रहा हु ऐसा लगा। 👍
Thank you Omkar ji🙏🏽
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne
@@peepalfarm sayad m apko hi dundh rha tha.
बहुत सुलझे हुए 👍👍
@@raveenduhan4866 ऐसे लोग पूरी दुनिया में हो तो कितना अच्छा होगा 🙏 🙏 🙏
I wish all the 90's kids heal and live a guilt free life
3:11 _"ऐसी मुसीबतें हर किसी के साथ किसी-न-किसी रँग रूप में होती ही हैं; पर हम फिर भी परदे डालते रहते हैं"_
आपका बहुत-२ धन्यवाद यह साँझा करने के लिए!
Finally.. Someone talked about this.. Its so deep that almost everyone is suffering from this. Parents logic is that children are there to fulfill their dreams or carry their emotional baggage. And this goes on generation by generation.
Are you kashmiri ?
Really
Yrue
All parents do this for us good life
@@vikassharma7520 not all are lyk this
This happens with good children mostly. We always think that it is our responsibility to keep parents happy always and forget about ourself but when we realise parents don't even care what we have done for them then things start getting messed up.
I know exactly how this feels 😭😭😭😭
100% true🥺
Rt
Yes .... U r right... Fir bhi log kahte he ki bachhe ma bap ki dekhbal nahi krte... Jb ki ma bap itne jiddi ho jate he ki kuch samajhna hi nahi chahte. . Sach kahu to mujhe to nafrat he in dono shabdo se bhi or riste se bhi
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आसान नहीं होता अपने घर की निजी बातों को सार्वजनिक करना पर आपने किया, सिर्फ दूसरों की भलाई के लिए ...🙏👏👏👏
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@@peepalfarm real himmatwala havent seen another 1 like u in my lifetime!
Jo bachpan se aise mahoul me pale badhe hote hain, unke saath poori life sirf aur sirf emotional chaos aur challenges rehte hain, maan sakte hain aise bachche aisi hi kismat lekar aate Hain
Thanks, Robin Sir! And, Well, most of the 90s kids are still facing the same thing... "Age ho gayi hai, Shadi karo, Tum jo kar rahe ho apne career me, usse tumhara kuch nahi hoga, self employed jaisi koi cheej ni hoti, 9-5 job karo, Govt job ki preparation karo, Jo hum keh rahe hain wo karo, and in the end kehte hain ki humne tumhe kabhi kuch karne se roka ni hai."... We need to understand that parents bhi insan hain and galti kar sakte hain, So even if it's hard to convince them, but don't wait for their approval... mann me aaye wo karo, sun lo unki but karo apni... Because nobody knows you better than yourself.
Exactly!
Yes 🙏
I agreee u said absolutely correct thing👍
Bahut shi baat kahi bhai 🙌🏻
Yes ... very true
He is honest with his feelings. It take guts
"Mothers are not always right"
Not every human should be a parent. Maine bhi decide kiya hai ki agar main apne ko andar se heal nahi kr paaya, agar main apne andar ki desparations ko khaatam nahi kar paaya to apne pichhli generation ki taarah apne complexes ko aage nahi bhejunga. Kyun kisi se shaadi krke uski zindagi khraaab karni aaur kyun aage bacchhon ki bhi zindagi kharaab karni.
Sbko lgta hai maa baap ki kbhi galti nhi hoti lekin kaise wo apne baccho ko irritate hurt or negative krte rehte hai ye wo hi smjh skte he jo ise salo saal sehte rehte hai.....har baar bacche galat nhi hote.....kbhi kbhi wo bahar walo ko apna alag bhagwan jaisa roop dikhate hai or hote rakshas hai
Sahi bole ap ...bacho ko inse niklna hoga
U r absolutely right. Mere parents b insaan k besh me rehne waale rakshas hai. Ghar k andar rakshas aur ghar k bahar sadhu santh jaise behave karte hai. Jaise k kisi ko bura karne k baare me pata hi na ho. Saakshath Bhagwan.
Sahi kaha mere maa baap bhi aise hi hai or abhi bhi mis behave karte hai
Same here
My parents are narcissist both parents
Wow .... Unhone Jo Kiya so kiya agar aap bade ho gaye ho to aapna rasta chun lo... Aur achey parents ban jao
Seriously yaar, this is so true. Mothers are not always right.
And family is not always there to protect you ..
Be good and find good people, and you'll have your real family
And for this reason I just want to cut off all the relationship with my toxic family.
Sorry to hear that
but assa hota nhi hai specially for girls
@@bhartisatyaias4512she should not cut off completely, just keep some distance
Don’t do this. Just try to avoid
I can see the pain he suffered, seems like he still has hope to find his sister... I hope so as well...
This is the story of most of middle class families in India.... Salute to u brother u dare u tell urs.
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@@peepalfarm mera dil kehta hai apki didi ne suicide nhi kiya vo abhi bhi Zinda hongi aur kahi na kahi hongi
@@studyclub4854 mujhe nahi lagata, agar mai bhi aisa kuch karu to mai aisi jagah (I've it in my mind😉) aur aise tarike se karunga ke unko meri body bhi na mile
@@thehuman2861 bhai mujhe bhi shoot karwa do kisi se. Choti moti keemat bhi de dunga is kaam ke liye
@@amanverma8881 kya????
My bf always tried to make me realize this, that I should think about myself too, but everytime I would brush it off, but now I understand what he was trying to tell from the past so many days
He is real love
Never let him go
@@raghavdixit6832 what do you mean , run away from home?
@@abhinavpandey840 there are many things apar from this my friend...... focusing on career which we want to choose but not choosing because of family or anything there are so many things like this
Girl are you in just 3 rd std ? And have a bf?
Very deep line "खुश रहना तो ईमानदारी से देखिए कितने लोगों को आता है?"
Very courageous of you to talk about your experience and bring out the ugly truth of Indian families. I also didn't have a happy childhood. Amidst too much dominance of father, helplessness of mother and brothers, a lonely, silent childhood was what I spent. No picnic, no visiting anyone, no sharing emotions with anyone. I have grown up to be a loner and don't trust people easily although in college, I got my first bunch of 'friends' and have evolved since
Oh yaar!
Same here, but i am still friendless and too numb to care about things like that now.
You had a tough childhood,but you have brought happiness and comfort in the life of many living beings, and gave them a new life.
:) thank you! I try and now it's good to have a whole family at peepal farm dedicated to the same cause.
Reading comments I can see I had a great childhood.... I studied science because I liked it and I was interested in computers.... family did all to support me... my brother enjoyed commerce and he did that... we married when we wanted and were ready and to girls we wanted to... Same with kids we had them when we were ready.... Parents supported us..... now we support them
my dear sir this confirmity as displayed in ur words is the cancer of Indian families which in turn has brought our nation to its knees.....kab tak apne aap se jhooth bolte rahoge, at least appreciate this peepal farm guy unequivocally for not pushing the problems under the capret and pretend to be happy......sorry 4 being harsh but we need to learn how 2 be honest with ourselves......
@@123rocker0071987 par achhi baat h na ki unki zindagi achhi chal rhi hh...kuch logo ki sach me hoti h achhi ...air kuch logo ki bachpan se kharab....environment bhot matter karta h
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@@123rocker0071987 Or you could be wrong
बड़े भाई बहुत हिम्मत चाहिए ये सब बोलने के लिए और तुमने ये सब बोलकर ना जाने कितने लोगों को हिम्मत दी अपनी परेशानियों को साझा करने की एक दूसरे को ताकि किसी के दुख को कुछ हद तक तो कम कर ही सकते है सबकी जिंदगी में कोई ना कोई मजबूरी या किसी ना किसी तरह की परेशानी जुड़ी हुई है और दुख बांटे भी किस से कोई सुनने और समझने वाला ही नहीं है 😢
दुनिया में कितना गम है मेरा दुख कितना कम है
:(
एक साधु महात्मा की लिखी बातें बताने से अच्छी मुझे आपकी वास्तविक जीवन से जुडी़ बाते लगींं जिससे लगभग सभी लोग कभी ना कभी गुजरते जरूर हैं 🙏
Damn true, I cutted out from my family, neighbors and everyone to find out my happiness.
It takes a lot of courage to stand up to your family. It took me 26 years to be free. I hope whoever reads this it doesn't take u that long.
It's taking long. Due to this pandemic
@@soaringraven1199 I'll pray it goes well for you. Be brave and be free. It's the only way to live.
Btw love ur username.
@@Akashkr008 thanks
Be emotionally detached. Be more patient with yourself. In this pandemic situation these cases are increasing. Just keep yourself sane. Don't be too much emotionally invested that it leaves you empty and Hollow.
This pandemic has made things worse, you can't do anything but be together and have more clashes and bear stress
काफी कम उम्र में आपने इतना कुछ झेला है। तभी आप बेजुनबानो की त तकलीफ़ समझते हो❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This has to be the most enlightened words ever spoken 🙏🏼. Thank you Robin. I am usually a person who expresses well but at the moment i am choking because how true are these words 🙏🏼 I hope if at all your sister is anywhere she is living the happiest life on behalf of all those people who are in similar situation & god forbid if she is in god's feet then may she be at peace.
God bless you Robin. I happened to stumble on this video by algorithm but I am sure it's god sent for me.
Exactly what I'm feeling right now,
I'm studying so hard to get a job so I can move out from this house. 🙁 I might probably never return that's the level of suffocation I feel here.
Same
@@pallavisinha1004 you will get rid of the day you get married
@@rvn7218 it will become worse , you have to face same thing in some other unknown house .
@@pallavisinha1004 it's better to Get a job and move out ASAP and marry the person who understands you. Life would be much easier then I guess 🤔
Are you preparing for govt job
If you are then i can you man
Sir I almost cried after listening this. Mai vo didi hu jo apni iss "normal" life ko badalne mae lagi hu. Aasha hai badal lungi jaldi he!
Realising that change is needed itself is the start of change.Good luck.
@@simaraman05 thank you so much!
Allah aapki madad kare. AAMIN
@@afsarshaikh7086 Shukriya
I m male so I can't understand what u think.
But I am very much supportor of "Survival of the Fittest".
Choose it or loss it.
अब समझ में आया भैया आप इतने इमोशनल हो इतने दयावान क्यों है you are a such a nice person😊
It takes so much strength to open up in front of strangers... you're brave.
This man was telling story while he was crying.
I can feel that ❤️
Guilt ki dor se humein katputliyon ki tarah nachaya jaata hai
That line is so powerful and true
Once shri shri Ravi shankar ji said... Happiness will definitely makes your life beautiful, but sorrow and pain will make you more compassionate and empathetic about others. Which i found is so apt in Robin's case. Very less people get the courage to talk about emotional burden, neglectance of their parents or just understand that it is very common in our society. We all have childhood phases where such things happened that our own parents treat us like a property and not a sensitive human being. And yes, if we get successful and settled now, we too behave as if wr had the best childhood and parents. But, our parents live a bigger lie that the they are the sole reason of our success and our parenting has been the great.
Aapka message dil ko chu gaya dost. Bhagwaan aapko khushiyan aur peace of mind de.
आपकी अभी तक कि जिंदगी बहुत संघर्ष पूर्ण रहा
शुक्रिया हमसे साझा करने के लिए, बहुत कुछ सिखने को मिला आपसे।
Hi
Thanks for opening my eyes I was emotionally totally dependent on my daughter who is just a minor . We need to provide every support to the kids so that can respect themselves first and live a dignified life 🙏
रॉबिन जी आप सही मायने में लोगो का भला चाहते हैं। आपके ये बोल मेरे मन में गहरी छाप छोड़ते है हमेशा। धन्यवाद एक अच्छे मानव का उदाहरण प्रस्तुत करने के लिए।
Bahut himmat chaiye ye sab sabke samne kahne ki, isi bahane apna dil bhi halka hua, or kisi ka bhala bhi jarror hoga, aap khush rahen, sab khush rahen, yahi Prarthana hai meri, mere Ram Ji se, Jai Siya Ram bhai. 🙏
Im so sorry for your loss. I lost my own sister to suicide. Its something i could never get over completely. Perhaps your sister was a victim of severe depression as well. My therapist told me recently, no one thinks or plans for suicide unless there is depression or other mental illness. Its sociological factors that affect us psychologically... But the decision to end her life must have happened because she couldn't see a way out.. This is what depression does to us. You are an inspiration for all of us, bhai.
I've been through it and there's a WAY OUT
@Jehangir Hussain
Yes
Same
That "unknown" sent chills down my spine.
Strength to you and your family, Robinji.
😔 thank you🙏🏽
hats off to you man...the way you talk and share your feelings and in a way motivate us is really commendable...lots of love and respect
Sir you are a strong man no one can say by looking at your eyes that you have gone through so much, i respect what you are doing for innocent animals🙏🏻
yes its sad truth of our society....most family play this guilt and blame game.....and by the time we understand its too late...you are brave enough to share it.
Living life on our terms is difficult in our country. These social pressures like marriage, children, career kill people's aspirations. Getting married at right age, children at right age....but what is that right time? When we feel like and not when it expected out of us. Thank you for putting this across.
This is the right time.....
True
Middle Class HATE
And Make THEM
Look Stupid Who
Actually lives without such
Pressure of society.
Bhai yaar, You are good person, reality ko ita khul ke accept karna or publicly logo ke liye bolna, har kisi ke bas ki baat nahi 🙏 thanks a lot bro
It’s good that you shared…. Kehte hain na dukh bata dene se dil halka ho jaata hai. We love you for your helping nature. You are really doing a lot of good work and your sister is blessing you from heaven.
Bhut badi baat bhi aap bhut saral aur sidhe sabdo m samhja dete ho ..robin sir 🙏.. thanks for giving us a life lesson...
Ek video mein Robin ji ne kaha tha, ki loog unhe Robin sir bolte hain jo unhe bilkul acha nahi lagta.
Agar koi unhe guruji ya kuch aur shabd se bulaye toh acha lagega.
Toh aap Robin ya Robin guruji, ya Robin ji ya kuch aur bol sakte ho toh acha rahega 🙏🙏
Bahut badi baat kehdi aapne
It takes courage to share such personal things ....you earned my respect 👍
🙏🏽
Nothing is personal . If every body accepts every one with love nothing becomes personal.
Bahut Sahi initiative h
Aur logo ko bhi aisi bate share karnı chahiye
Emotionally itna manipulate ho jata h ki Sahi galat ka faisla bhi nahi kar paya Vo insan
Samaj ka kaala sach, jo samaj mai kala mana he nahi gaya hai 🖤
आज के बाद आपकी छवि मेरे लिए और बेहतर हो गई है । आप करोड़ों में एक हो , कोई तुलना नही आपकी किसी से ।
धन्यवाद नवीन जी🙏🏽
I wish ur didi is alive and watching you doing amazing work. Keep doing what you are doing and make her proud.
Thank you for coming out and letting it all out 🙏 huge respect 👍👏
Thank you for sharing something so personal. It takes a lot of courage to share this aspect of your life. Parents guilt children into being available for them financially and emotionally. This has to stop. Children in India are brought into this world as financial security for old age.
Nothing wrong with taking care of parents. Just don’t allow them to control you.
*Deeply touched by this message and himmat chahiye to convey it publicly, I think it is very much essential to bring out this guilt factor to be discussed as it eats up many people from inside and they end up sacrificing their life, And it is more common than we may think...yet it shouldn't be a norm*
Thank you. That's the reason I talked about it. A lot of us have similar experiences and we all stuff then down. I think a few of us have to initiate sharing deeply personal experiences so normalize having a dialog about these problems.
@@peepalfarm certainly! And also as few people take the lead as you have taken other people would get the confidence who are on the borderline of thought process wondering whether to talk about it or not...
I agree with you completely
@@peepalfarm It's miracle that I gave up idea of ending my life. My mother and brother always make me feel guilty for what I am. I am a reputed foreign law school 🎓 but still has no right gave a look into full mirror. I was not allowed to keep the door of my room closed (unlatched). My brother used to barge the room anytime. Woman has no right to have privacy. I belong to progressive Hindu family who are double faced people. I ran away from home after brother beat me up when I took a stand after crossing 40 yrs. Police helped me in this. Still family members call me and trying make me feel guilty. How a brother and a mother kill the personality of a woman to utilize her!
Bhut vishsl dil h aapka
It was so courageous of you to share this. We all suffer from some sort of pangs in life, which is so deep shit and can’t be resolved but still have to put a fake smiling face and carry on with life.
Haan Yaar, and that takes a toll on us...and I find it ridiculous that we all do it to pretend to be "normal" ... but asal normal to bahar hi nahi aata as everyone pretends to be okay!
@@peepalfarm true😭
Robin Singh aap jitni sacchai se har baat kehte hai, vo sidha Dil ku chu jati hai.. ye jo baatein hai itni critical hai, Thank you for doing so 🌻🌻🌻...
Thank you, @ROBHIN Sir, for opening up about your journey. It's heartwarming to see your resilience and positivity even in tough times.
इतिहास साक्षी है जिन्होंने इस दुनिया में कुछ बड़ा किया, आसान नहीं थीं उनकी राहें, ये दर्द ही धकेल रहा था आपको मंजिल की ओर इसलिए आज आप लाखों का दर्द समझ पा रहे हैं,और उनके लिए कुछ कर पा रहे हैं 🙏 मैं मिलूंगी आपसे कभी , मैं भी आप की तरह दूसरों के लिए करना चाहतीं हूं। अपना ध्यान रखना भाई। God bless u
मैं पहले आपके द्वारा किए गए प्रयासों का प्रशंसक था लेकिन अब आज के बाद आपके लिए एक आदर भाव भी मेरे मन में होगा। यह अब तक मेरे द्वारा यूट्यूब पर किया गया पहला कमेंट है।
महेंद्र जी, धन्यवाद 🙏🏽 अच्छा लगा की आज तक आप सिर्फ सुनते आए थे, पर आज आप ने सुन कर बोलने पर मजबूर महसूस किया।
Heads off to u sir ke aap is bare me publicly baat krre ho bcz bht rare hota h log aisi btein krte h....
India me sab log aise hi jeere h kahi na kahi.... So true story sir
Hats of to you, Indian parents or in foreign country when people called as brown skin that includes Indian and Pakistani,we really have this issue of blackmailing the children. What you are saying is so true. Good job to open this issue.
You should read more about narcissistic parents and parents with Cluster B disorders.
It is the responsibility of parents to raise kids. It is not the responsibility of children to raise their parents.
Wish you a healthy and happy future!
Thanks Nitya! That's a great line and I will look those up.
What is cluster B disorder?
My mother too suffers from cluster b personality disorder which destroyed my life, still is. My brother committed suicide because of it. My father deserted when we were too young when he could not take her abuse any more. I didn't her disorder until recently, but I have stuck with her for life as she manipulated me financially, emotionally, and socially that now even my husband and children are facing the consequences of it. Let this be a lesson. If your parent is not behaving normally, find out the reason and if it is cluster b, get out ASAP. Save yourself. They'll never change. Don't worry about society. If you're stuck noone will ever help you. Get out!!!
True
So damne true,
I'm loving with Narcissist father and yeah my life is ruined cause of him
But I'm trying and hopefully will get much better
And that line.... I feel it
मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना करता हूँ कि आपकी दीदी ये वीडियो देख कर आपसे मिलने आ जाये।
She died how can she come back.
@@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj no body knows...
She's gone
@@jafree95 but she wrote like ki meri maut ka zimmedar koi nahi hai baki pata nhi jo gaya sach use hi pata hoga...
@@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj hope one day she will be back... I keep always hope
You have told the story of the human being. It exists in all of us in different forms, whether he is a coolie or a millionaire. Beautiful. Thanks.
My god...this is such a meaningful story. Thank you for sharing.
I had the same story😔 but now everything alright from when I left home.Sad reality of this world.
:| i hope things worked out Pratha.
Are you okay ...?
Respect sir. I have never seen anything like this on RUclips. Everyone wants to show that they lead a very normal life but in the hindsight these issues happening at home hammer everyone
You are absolutely right sir. Also you as a child faced situations bravely. And today also you are brave to confess and understand the truth.
Deeply moved. Heart wrenching. I think all of us have gone through this stage at one or the other point in life. It's only our positive attitude that keeps us going. I consider myself blessed that the divine power stopped me from taking disastrous steps to end life. Keep motivating the younger generations they really need loads of good advice
Never seen a video with around 700 likes and 0 dislikes, it leaves very less to say anything.
Robin sir u are a real inspiration, hope to see u soon.
जज्बातों की गहराइयों में छिपे अपने डर का सामना बड़ी सहजता से कर लिया । शायद हम सभी ना अपने उस डर को छुपाये बैठे है । आपको धन्यवाद की आपने साहस शब्द को परिभाषित कर दिया
How's he so strong.. hat's off to him yaar
I probably can relate to this so closely, this guilt tripping in Indian society sometimes does take lives, destroys homes, breaks relationships.
Parents aise hi krte h
But no one acknowledges it..
Not media
Not films
And never our parents
Sabke Ma baap bhagwaan nhi hote h
Exactly! Hamari society mei parents k liye kuch bhi bolna bohot bada jurm hai! Voh log bhi insaan hain...galat ho sakte hain...
Sach to ye hai ki bahut kam maa bap hi bahgwan hote hai
@@nehab4988 true....
Exactly not every parents are good..
@@thehuman2861 💯 True
Most needed platform. We lose most of the happiness and peace in life in this race of looking 'normal'. Thanks bro for sharing 🙏
It takes a lot of courage to talk with honesty, many have to lead such lives ……. Sad that some adults do more harm because for their imperfections ! Kudos to you !!!
Aap ke wazas se society me bhaut positive change aaya hai..... logo kaa soch animals ko leke badla hai.... mai unme se ek hu
Hey. It was heartbreaking to hear about her sister. If I had known her we could have related to each other. It almost felt like I was hearing my story when you were talking about her. My mother too treats me like her punching bag. And both my parents have since my childhood put this pressure on me to be an engineer whereas I hate my job entirely now. In indian society they treat parents as god but people who have gone through abuse from parents and grew up in a toxic household know that this is a lifelong pain. And that it takes a lot to keep finding reasons to go on. I wish our society was more open where we could speak up about these kind of abuses openly too. But there will never be campaigns for this, nobody will ever raise their voice for this. Heck, nobody will even believe you when you say these things about your parents because they led a privileged life. So maybe we do have to fight our battle on our own. All I want to say is I understand what your sister felt through and she was strong to have fought till that point. And I wish I had known her. At least there would be somebody who could relate to me.
The most painful thing is that society always thinks that you are bad.....
आपने पारिवारिक संबंधों व जीवन की परिस्थितियों का बहुत सटीक आकलन प्रस्तुत किया और उसको बोलने की हिम्मत जुटाई इसके लिए आपका धन्यवाद🙏👍
Gosh,what a tragic situation. It takes a lot for sharing this publicly and shaping up so well inspite if the circumstances. Thank you for inspiring us.
Thanks for sharing this vulnerable incident. It takes a lot of strength❤ May God watch over you 🙏🏻
Maine bhi apne bachpan me yah sab dekha h apne ghar me apne sath. But khud ko emotionally bahut badla aur un sab yado se nikal rahi hu jo taklef deti thi. Aur sach kahu to mai bhi kisi ko apni baat share nahi kar sakti hu siway kisi kagaj me likh kar usse jalane ke. But aap bahut himmat wale hain jo etni saralta se bola apne❤️❤️
World needs this kind of honesty ..
Thanks brother, you have poured truth of most of the house. Bless you
Seriously ! Robin Bro,, mere sth bhi kuch aisa hi huaa h... Family ki vajah se ... Aur ab mujhe kisi per trust nhi h... Akele raha na thk h lifetime. Thanks bro❤👍..
आपकी कहानी सुन के बहोत दुःख हुआ 🥺😣🙏🏻📿
बहोत सारा प्यार भाई आपके ओर आपकी बहन के लिए ❤️🥺
आप एकमहान पर्सनाल्टी के मालिक हैं जिसने जीवन की वास्तविकता जिया और समझा ।आपने अपने जीवन को पारदर्शी बना कर उस बोझ को उतार फेंका जिसे आज भी बहुत से बच्चे सामना कर रहे हैं।आपने ऐसे बच्चो को जीने की राह दिखाई इसके लिए आपको बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद।ईश्वर आपके लक्ष्य को पूरा करे आपकी राह में कभी कोई बाधा न आए।
आशा जी धन्यवाद। मैं भी चाहूंगा कि ईश्वर आप की बात सुनें और हमे शक्ति दे की हम ज्यादा से ज्यादा लोगो की चेतन होने के सफर का भाग बन सकें!
Very courageous of you to speak of this man. Many of us need to hear this. More power to you. Thank you dost.