'His Therapists Are Too Scared To Tell Him The Truth' Psychiatrist analyses Prince Harry's book
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- Опубликовано: 31 янв 2023
- Prince Harry's therapists are 'too scared' to tell him the truth and he is suffering from a feeling of discrimination in his sibling rivalry, says Psychiatrist Dr Raj Persaud .
He says Prince Harry is feeling 'very unfairly treated' by the world in general and that Prince Harry's 'birth order' would be have impacted his personality his whole life.
Dr Persaud says that Prince Harry's major rebellion against the Royal Family could be down to his birth order and that as the younger sibling he is naturally disposed to causing trouble.
In discussing a number of psychological theories, Dr Persaud says Prince Harry could be 'over-therapised' and could also be suffering from the 'comparison theory' where he is always comparing himself to Prince William and his older brother due to become the King.
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Funny this drama never appeared till the narcissist Markle started weaponising Harry’s insecurities and dripping poison in his ear
Back then his Palace handlers knew how to get the best out of him, it seems he's always been a problem but her turning up made things impossible.
It definitely started when she arrived.ugh.
Ain’t that the truth
Yes, once she had the ring on her finger, the drip drip of poison started. They gave the engagement interview, about how helpful William and Catherine had been to then, then it all goes downhill.
In the Cooper interview clip that was shown here at 14:25, Harry himself says “in the last six years” his relationship with William has been strained. Is he so stupid that he doesn’t notice who showed up six years ago? The thing no one has ever told Harry is that siblings fight & squabble in nearly every single family in the world. Older brothers tell younger siblings not to talk to them at school. Harry needs to watch some episodes of “The Middle” and see how family dynamics work in the real world in the US particularly. 😂 He might just learn a little something!
He’s jealous of his brother and his wife is jealous of his brother’s wife. End of !!
Yes and he projecting that on William and says William is jealous of him
Hairless is jealous because William will be King one day and he'll still be a nothing. His other half mugsy is so jealous of our beautiful Catherine it's eating her up inside
Yes, it is obvious and so simple. But what do they intend to do with it?
Well said!
Harold have showed his evil jealousy toward Prince William, he is the one writing a book helping other providing information to write a book about his brother and his brother’s love ones. He is the one who has given several interviews about how much he dislike his brother . The comparison is that he is Cain . Unfortunately he thought that EvilMeg would be as nice as princess Catherine , oh boy , he was so wrong. Be kind to others and stop being vicious.
When Harry says vicious things about Will and then says 'I don't think that's vicious at all', the entire world is overwhelmed with a strong desire to slap Harry hard up the side of the head. The viciousness is one thing, the denial of it, is viciousness at another level.
that is it ....harry changes his key stories to suit.
harry and his changing narritive are suspect.
Why not volun😢teer to go to Mars.
throw him out of the US.
harry is
nothing but trouble wherever he chooses to reside.
Will broke his necklace!
You are so wrong. I'm horrified at how Wills is acting as a grown man. Maybe Harry made some mistakes along the way - so did wills - so do most people. But to turn on family like this is EVIL.
Something is seriously wrong with Wills - like no consciousness about doing mean things or saying horrible things or demanding things. I think he's got a streak of darkness running through him. I think he needs someone to teach him about checking his EGO. This is insufferable.
I don't trust him because of this low vibration he brings with him Something is way off with him.
@@WhaleCommunicators William presents the perfect balance of a duty and a family orientated approach. You are making a strong biased decision based solely on media releases. You know nothing of William's personal views of the true fraternal relationship. William does not appear as low vibration, he is however bound by protocols which would suggest this.
@@WhaleCommunicators They both had the same mother didn't they?
When you look at the background Diana came from what the was wrong with her that she could not handle little Charlie Windsor?
In my estimation William has all the outward appearances of being a King picture perfect much like Diana was picture perfect Princess?
Unfortunately he is just a bit too much like her for comfort.I think he knows how king like he looks especially in that brilliant uniform.I think he also deplores the power of the British Establishment over their lives .
He loathes the way Harry has handled the whole thing and he loathes Megan Markle.(I've seen the rumor that after gaining entry to the Royal household she made a play for William?)
Better the heir than the spare?
What a tangled web we weave.? God help Harry is all I can say.
I feel Harry is being disingenuous here. You cannot embarrass your brother in front of the entire world and then claim to love him deeply. Love doesn't work like that. His jealousy is actually quite scary, imo.
His Jealously is out of control without the palace to help him control it
Pretty sure the jealously goes both ways.
@@cassandratq9301😂😂😂 William would never be jealous of the half wit brother!! Likely very embarrassed for him, sad that his brother is so creepy, jealous snd gross. Married to an old high miler W!
@@cassandratq9301how are you pretty sure given William says nothing and all you think you know is through Harry, Scobie and the tabloids?
@@cassandratq9301I’ve seen no evidence of William being jealous of Harry but I’ve seen TONS of evidence straight out of Harry’s mouth that Harry is jealous of William.
Harry being rude towards William with that smirk on his face.... disgraceful, very cutting....
Yes that was such a nasty vindictive smirk.
While a large amount of people have said Harry is not the smartest person on the planet, he obviously feels like he is highly intelligent and everyone, especially the royal family, should live as he tells them to. He also thinks he is very superior to his brother in every way imaginable.
@@rocketmom60 and that is completely laughable, as Harry could NOT complete his schooling WITHOUT the help of the palace (yes, they cheated to get him through Eton, he should check things BEFORE he speaks)
@@rocketmom60 Some people are so stupid, they don't know how stupid they are. Harry doesn't get it.
@@rocketmom60 and that’s what his wife is telling him, playing on his feelings of entitlement, increasing his resentment to his family and the press who aren’t seeing how important he is
To be honest, if he hadn't complained about his brother, the future king, I wouldn't have known that William was so much better than him in every way.
I always liked Harry till he attacked Will . then realised Will was better by far
I am the youngest of 3 U was never rebellious,I was spoiled.
But if you give credence to The housekeepers diarty. Harry was very badly treated but by Dianna,she cites two incidents. Prince Charles had planned with the housekeeper,that he would be home from playing in a Polo match at 6 pm. and that himself,Dianna and the two boys would eat dinner together,he had planned a dessert that both boys loved. Dianna was aware of this arrangement,despite that she asked the housekeeper to prepare two trays and herself and William would have dinner together in her bed,watching television. When the housekeeper enquired about Harry ,she replied put Harry to bed and bring him his dinner on a tray. The same scenario happened another time, Even if Dianna wanted to break up the foursome,why didn't she make it two twosomes and key Harry have dinner with his father as planned instead of a lonely dinner in his bedroom at 6 pm. I am no admirer of Harry,far from it,but I can see he was not fairly treated by Dianna,this sort of treatment builds up resentment in the sweetest natured person. Come on be fair,Harry was treated badly by Dianna
@@laurielovett8849he was young he went to bed
@@laurielovett8849how old was Harry when these occurrences happened? And might there have been extenuating circumstances which caused Diana to feel a need to punish Harry? …not that I would agree with that kind of punishment, but it seems many details are missing from those examples.
Harry NEVER takes RESPOBSIBILITY
Harry doesn’t listen, too!
Never had to.
Neither does Meghan. They are both delusional.
That's because he never had to take responsibility, this may have happened due to the death of his mum, or the upbringing of the well to do class. Maybe a bit of both.
Coming out last 6 years never had to!
It was traumatic getting one less sausage than your brother.
He also had to sleep in bed from bensons very traumatic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Our oldest brother ALWAYS got more sausages. H is a cry baby!
HA, HA
Oh yea 1 extra sausage was sooo traumatic.😂
And a smaller room in a castle! He’s so neglected‼
Harry says he loves his family and has no intention to hurt his family. Harry, you are totally DELUSIONAL!
He continues to hurt his family.
He’s definitely damaged.
From what he's done & the way he allowed his wife to say & do to his family, obviously not so much?
Too late!! He’s way past hurting them.
Prince Harry speaks with his heart but his brain is wawhed by this devil that is his wife
I am not a specialist but in my humble opinion He is nuts
He is jealous!!!!!!!
Jealous narcissists are evil in their brutal attacks.
Please! I see him as the only healthy one of the nutty bunch. Something is going on that is dark between Kate and William.
@@kerilareau372Harry in my view is sad man, he cannot accept reality.
In my opinion you are very right. He is nuts and so is the wife. Nuts combined with jealousy is a lethal combination.
Harry needs to get away from the crazy woman who needs mental health care
She suits him to a T.
It's hard to imagine that his therapists are any good at their jobs.
The gall of him saying how much he loves his family, and nothing in the book was intended to harm them. It’s amazing that he’s the ONLY member of the family who is well adjusted, well meaning, compassionate, and always right. He absolutely sickens me.
Absolutely!!!!!!!!!!!!!😡
No Harry... your family isn't the one in bed with the Devil! That would be YOU and the Devil is your WIFE! You appeared by all counts and actions prior to being utterly Brainwashed by The Greedy, Woke, Witch, woppingling Joyful, Happy, Adapted, Fun, Witty with Loads of Close friendships! You have lost your Marbles and I pray that you awake from this Samson and Delilah nightmare before She cuts off your .....
It’s also ironic that he wants to have discussions that are “private” but yet he’s the one spreading conversations and private matters all over the planet. I don’t understand how in the world he keeps his “chief impact officer” position at BetterUp when he is obviously unstable. If BetterUp can’t help their own “employee” how do they help others? Harry’s new buzzword is “accountability” but he only wants to hold others accountable. Not himself.
@@elizabethstratton6173 Yes, even Gayle King admitted she got her information from Harry.
Well said. He's completely thick and his horrible character has been hidden from public view by the palace when he was "under their protective wing" Now he's in the open it's clear to all just what a really nasty thick POS he truly is. Bring on the Karma to them both.
I think we all have to be extremely grateful that William was born first.
I think wm has all the makings of a psychopath.
I also wish Diana had used birth control after William’s birth.
Yes!
Absolutely
Yes, as an US citizen, I can’t imagine having an irrelevant Harry over an irrelevant William. God save the king!
Harry Why Write The
Book and Trash The
Royal Family?? If you
claim you love them
and not meaning to Hurt Them.
The reason our grandparents were the greatest generation, they didn’t have therapists, they went to church instead, believed in hard work, didn’t expect freebies, lived with routines , had hobbies, didn’t complain about trivial things and got on with life. 🙌🏻
How right you are: survival versus entitlement. I blame the welfare state!
@@carolekralova9108 The problem is not the safety net for those going through a bad patch. The problem is that society has decided that the easiest way out is the right way - the freebies, the blame, the lack of self-reflection or self-initiative to make ANY positive steps.
Jordan Peterson suggested small steps in self-improvement, like "make your bed" and "clean your room", and he has been thoroughly roasted for it in social media, how DARE HE make such a terrible suggestion. It is, however, exactly what our grandparents were raised to do as part of their daily routines.
Being involved with a decent church adds a great deal to life, as long as there's nothing odd or extreme in the church. I have had decades of experience with churches and have never had what I would call a significant negative situation with any church
Harry is just really spoiled. After reading about his childhood, I think he was a strange child who was not raised well. Maybe inherited some insanity
The biggest drawers of welfare in the country are the Royal Family.
It doesn't take a psychiatrist to know that harry is going bonkers!
Going, going, gone!
Easy to go bonkers living years with narcisstic personality disordered spouse.
Going bonkers or pushed from two directions.
I concur with your diagnosis. 🤣
@@lyndacrosfill6340 No one can make us do anything, or be "pushed" into anything. Unless we're incredibly weak. Harry and Meghan are spoiled brats, self entitled in every way. Perpetual professional victims. The king is making a huge mistake if he in any way bows to their blackmailing demands. In my opinion, the king is already showing signs of great weakness to even consider doing so. Apparently, he is going in the direction of conceding to them. Bullies smell weakness, and it's very clear Harry and Meghan have gotten as destructive as they are by plowing down anyone who dares to disagree with them. and that includes the royal family.
His therapists aren’t scared they just don’t want to lose their lucrative income.
Welp Diana had an accident....
Good point.
Exactly
Money for old rope.
Harry has had years of therapy and years of belly aching. He has such a privileged life and all he can do is lecture and complain. Thank goodness it’s not a few hundred years ago where spares could neutralize the heirs , because given the vitriol exuded by these two…….
He also has a wife who compounds his issues as a means of control. Harry inherited the worst of his Mother's traits.
So true. And William her best imo.
Don’t forget the father hey , nobody now’s what’ s going on after the close doors of this palace….don’t judge …..tragic story 😅.
His behaviour is a very poor reflection on the therapy he has received.
Life coaches is New Age therapy, that doesn’t help deeply disturbed people, with their emotional/mental disorders and behaviors! They have a disease of the brain!
I still think Harry's eyes are too close. 🤯
Also depends on how much therapy he's has too.
Apparently the therapist is in London and they do zoom calls
And everyone should look into the therapist. IMO, she’s very sus.
From the book, it would seem that Harry has always been an ungrateful, ungraceful, spiteful person. Apart from that, he is quite obviously very spoilt, and not at all bright.
@Sarel Ito Correct!
So true. Lady Colin C knew him as a kid and her friends child was at Eton with.Apparently he was always spoiled and a bit nasty. I blame his mum as she ensured the children were all about her. Uncool as when she died, they were so dependent on her for validation. I’m not digging at Di (may she rest in peace) it just makes sense of a lot of Harry’s issues as an adult.
The MD is right, chances would be great you’d lose a patient if you said, “ Maybe your overacting and maybe your sensitive” ! Lol
@Sarel ito Sarel, based on the research that I have done on the Spencer side of Diana's family, and except for Diana''s two older sisters and her maternal grandfather who died before Diana was born, the characteristics that you described Harry as possessing, are same characteristics that he inherited from his mother, Diana and her family which includes both her maternal grandmother and her paternal grandfather, and her mother and father, as well as her younger brother Charles. Diana's paternal grandmother and Diana's father were both the victim of abuse that Diana's paternal grandfather subjected her and Diana's father too.
Diana's brother is just as mean, petty, spiteful, and vengeful as Diana was when she was alive, and Harry is now continuing with Diana's propaganda playbook that is directed against the royal family. The media, royal commentators, and reporter as well as most of the general public put Diana on a pedestal and made excuses for her and all of her faults, because she was beautiful, photogenic. Diana was also very clever and very skilled at gaslighting and using propaganda to convince the media and the public that she was this poor, innocent, helpless victim of Prince Charles and the big bad BRF, when truthfully the faults that she accused the BRF of were actually the dysfunctions of her own family which she projected onto the BRF.
Diana's lies not only destroyed the reputation of King Charles and Queen Camilla, but the RF and the UK government as well, because not only did she herself, create havoc, but her youngest son, Harry is continuing her destructive narrative about the RF.
You àre correct . Well said Sarel
Very good analysis. Makes a lot of sense. Competition. Comparison. Birth order. Complaining to get reassurance. Harry not taking responsibility or accountability?
How nice it would be if we never heard again about Harry and Meghan!!!!
And yet you are reading this?
Harry is in a woke mindset it's shamfull how he has behaved
brainwashed by a gooroo woke wife and co.
Anybody woke has a warped mind.
Woke, schmoke. Tired of people using the term that has no definitive definition.
He never used to be this bad. The interview both he and Megan gave at there engagement, that William and Catherine had been wonderful and helpful, once she got the ring on her finger she made sure his mind was poisoned again William and Catherine. I can imagine her saying to Harry, your just as good as William in fact your even better, you shouldn’t have to walk behind him, your just as good as he is, we know what duty is we don’t need people to tell use how to do our duty, you can just hear Megan saying these things. That’s why they laid a wreath on armistice day, because he could not put one down at the cenotaph, as he’s had to return his awards. Nothing he’s said is been said to harm his family, he’s on cloud cook-coo land.
@@KDSima Me, too! The initial concept of woke ran sort of parallel to the Black Lives Matter movement in that it had to do with the need for a re-evaluation of policing in America as it had become (and remains) brutal and ineffective especially towards people of coloer. It was also a term used to describe a person as being aware of the need for social justice for all. The word 'woke' is now tossed around, usually by right wingers IMO, in response to anything they don't like. Woke is a word rhat has become meaningless.
YOU MISSED HARRY SMIRKING WHEN THE INTERVIEWER READ OUT HIS BROTHERS "ALARMING BALDNESS" - THAT SMIRK SAID SO MUCH MORE THAN HIS WORDS.
Harry will soon get the message and be 'alarmed' himself.
Harry is a jealous crackpot
Have you seen Harry's hair these days? A sad sight.
Just a brother's knowing amusement of his brother 's intimate knowing nothing sinister at all.
Well, recent photos of Harry show him having exactly the same problem...😉
One of the biggest problems with psychotherapy is that the therapists are too often giving the patients what they want to hear (validation, anger, etc) because, sadly, they don’t want to lose that patient. I was very lucky to have one who got to the point where he said, “you’re doing well, you don’t need my help any longer”….a true class act.!
I had 3 therapists over the years. The first one was the best, the second one was also great, and the third one was not good at all. Was it me or them? Both! It’s where I was - what point in my life, and how open I was to therapy.
But it’s how you fit with each other. All I can say is when I got a great one, I was so fortunate.
@@ndines6237 Agree! Thirty years later I still quote his pearls of wisdom. He was wonderful and gave me the tools I needed then and use today when I get frustrated. One of the best responses to me when I was bemoaning the behavior of a certain person causing me grief was “so, what are you going to do about it”. I was indignant. Then he followed up with the fact that you can’t change the other person, all you can do is change how you respond to that person. Then he gave me help on how to change ME! To this day it has been my mental health savior.
God Bless!
i'm afraid what's going on here though is that is that people are saying that Harry is wrong about his feelings/struggles and are bashing therapists and others who aren't participating in the witch hunt. Also, youtubers also say what they think their audience wants to hear because views are money. Who's to say this therapist isn't just trying to reinforce your view on Harry to get your support, especially now that it's becoming highly fashionable in the media to bash Harry and Meghan?
Brilliant. Please do more with this doctor
Dr Raj is brilliant, I love his calm, mellow voice. He speaks sense and has insight. Let's face it if only I was younger...
I agree, analysing celebrities would be interesting.
Nail on the head: Harry is used to being treated with REVERANCE . .. and so cannot deal with anyone who questions him. He becomes aggressive in his body language and speech. Tom Bradby pulled a quizzical face when Harry said that he nor his wife, had ever called any of the Royal Family, 'racist'., and journalist interviewer Tom actually mentioned the conversation which was had with Oprah Winfrey. Harry became a little agitated and jumped in, telling Mr. Bradby, quite forcibly, that Meghan had NEVER mentioned the word 'racist'. Tom Bradby was thinking one thing, but knew he had to change the subject because he could see that Harry would have stood up and stormed out of the interview, had Tom challenged him further.
REVERANCE is exactly the word required here. Harry is too used to being bowed and kowtowed to. He cannot live in a 'normal' world because in a normal, regular world, no one would give him the special treatment HE believes he's still entitled to.
GREAT video Dr. Persaud. Loved every moment of it and learned so much. Thank you! ~ Cobs (uk)
It is only recently that he comes across with distain, entitlement and arrogance. He is narration of his book, he talks about the LA strip pool, that one of the blackjack girls had sold a picture to the press, then we get the bit about his two man security \ the trouble THEY might be, facing the music when his next stop was Balmoral - he mentions in this bit it was a action guys last bite of life before returning to the front line, goes down memory lane about playing Polo \ the life & death of the moment when someone fell off their horse, bla bla ... the tranquility of Botswana .................... yes for some of us a major event in our life will be getting a bargain at the local super market and dishing up the next meal for our family, in front a warm fire and this months salary will pay all the bills. THE MAN HAS NO IDEA. No doubt there will be a King Flight put on for him & his family to attend the Coronation and all will be rosy again in the garden of Mr. & Mrs Spare.
succinctly stated!!!!
Reverence, with an 'e'.
But yes, it's pretty obvious that that's what the problem is, the same problem of all superstars and those high up in society, nobody dare tell them the hard truth, so they continue on a tangent of self destruction. Same with Michael Jackson, Elvis, and many others.
No human being is to be treated with 'reverence'. God ALONE deserves reverence. We are all capable of going wrong, doing wrong, and being wrong. The problem here is that, being narcissists, H & M refuse to face this reality.
She may not have SAID the word racist but any word can be interpreted in
w
hichever way it is to be taken. WE all knew which way she meant it but when it came to facing up to the music Henry quickly turned it round and blamed the Press. The very people he says he hates but now he is 'using' them to hide behind.
his therapist need a therapist
😂
Believe it or not Ripley they do have therapist ( therapists)😂
Prince William also need a therapist,he's acting like a spoil Child with a bad temper.and you people want him for your future King PW is going to be the one to bring down the Monarchy.
@@juliasmith2664 monarchy is on its way out 😂
. Guess you think Harold would be better! julia!
Wow. Dr. Persaud is amazing on point. Harry could use someone like him to get back to reality.
I’d hate to read the book where he did intend to harm them 🥺
He wrote it for one reason and one reason only.....M O N E Y
Im sure this is at the heart of it. I have no intention or interest in the book.
It seems to be so. I think he might be feeling a bit sour about the wealth he left behind. He needs to get over the obsession with wealth. Wealth dun make you better or more accomplished. Many people in the world have made a life for themselves even with NO MONEY!
hello Harry, your current shaming your father and your brother … one day, all your thoughts, your speeches and your written articles and books by YOU and MM, will return in many folds against YOURSELVES!
@sharonlevy Then don't buy it.
@@hhaawkehat wealth? Prince Harry living his best life. Are you talking about The same prince Harry that were wearing holes in his shoe,b orrowing money and suites from his Dad intruding on Williams to get food and Meghan had too buy him a decent sofa with her money.
Has it occurred to anyone that Harry has been “bullying” William all his life? His jealousy from birth - both of Diana’s love for William as well as for William becoming king one day. William has had to tolerate all that jealousy. And jealousy Harry never seemed to dilute with kindness toward William. That’s a terrible constant attack William lived. For instance, there are films showing Harry kicking the Sh__ out of William if Diana hugged William first. There were arguments repeated by various household staff of Harry fighting with William because William was destined to be king. Then there is the burden Harry placed on William of blame for Harry’s bad behavior. Case in point, the Nazi uniform. Harry blames Kate and William. But Kate and William weren’t even together at the time he wore the uniform. Then Harry blames William for his emotional problems. How William did or did not react at various times of Harry’s problems. When does Harry give William a break? He is not Harry’s father, therapist, caretaker, provider, protector. When will Harry become a supporter of William instead of constantly expecting William to provide that support for him? Harry’s eyes are on inside out.
You’re kidding?
I didn’t know Haz is claiming his “Halloween costume” choice was William and Kate’s fault?
According to Haz, how are William and Kate responsible for his Nazi uniform?
How did I miss THAT lol?!?
Best comment.
Well said. It can be incredibly draining to be at the receiving end of someone's jealousy and still have to be kind to them and what not. I really laud William
I have no doubt, this has been and continues to be Harry's behaviours. I'm sure the RF has witnessed many meltdowns and outbursts throughout his childhood. I don't understand Harry's anger towards Prince William. PW didn't choose to be born first, he just was. Harry's just not logical and always sounds like a cranky toddler who needs a nap.
@@amandanegrete1306 he said when he asked William and catherine what costume he should wear nazi uniform or pilot uniform? They replied Nazi uniform while laughing and when he turn up in Nazi uniform they laugh at him.
I am a Psychology mayor. I agree completely with you. I would add that he maybe taking some kind of medication or drops that causes most of his behavior. All this put together will only cause more problem to him and reinforce his negative behavior that is within him and not caused by external elements like family, friends or the lost of his mother. He has an extraordinary manipulative behavior and also is easy to manipulate and he would let others manipulate him to achieve his negative purpose . He is dangerous to himself and others.
He might have complex PTSD, childhood trauma.
Hairy is not introspective at all. He is easily manipulated because he was raised in the lap of luxury. Never had to be accountable for his own actions, didn't even have to pick up his own socks, carry his wallet , be responsible for his own passport. Of course he thinks now everyone is out to get him because reality with Megain is a shock. She tore him away from his family, fed him drugs and now he is An angry, bitter mess. Although he was always angry . Now he is unprotected and reaping consequences and he can't deal😡. He comes across like his namesake King Henry XIII.
He has monetized his perceived misery.
It’s so true, if all your therapist does is agree with you & tell you you have done nothing wrong, of course you will never take accountability and stop blaming everyone else.
That's why Harry and Meghan are the way they are. No one has ever stood up to them and held their ground. And that includes King Charles. They will only get worse.
They should not ignore the influence of a narc partner
@@onedaychangewillcome which one? BOTH are narcissists. They 'play' against each other
A therapist shouldn't be a yeah-sayer but somebody to tell you where the problem lies.
If Harry had any self-reflection he would have realized he was not getting any better & sought a better therapist or tried something different - a support group, religion, self-help books, etc. There are numerous ways to get over pain or at least nominalize it significantly. People who aren't very intelligent, have no self-reflection or are extremely mentally unstable don't look for healthy ways to deal with their pain. They keep blaming their problems on others and consequently never get any better. H & M are helping each other to stay stuck.
Comparison is the thief of joy.
Exactly. It seems the therapy he's had so far is of the variety - "get it all off your chest, keep bleating until you've worked it all out of your system (and I'll keep taking your money for as long as you think I'm doing you some good. So the longer I can encourage you to keep bleating, without helping you find the tools to acknowledge that this entrenched negativity is so very harmful, the better". Feeling deprived, feeling second best, feeling not valued - all these things have become labels. So harry has now found his box, climbed into it, and has labelled .himself as the injured party. And he's allowed that to become his mantra, his way of life. MeMeMeAndMeAgain has enabled that? Sad sad sad.. And yes, perhaps he really isn't a very bright person.
"Get everything off your chest" is very important STEP in therapy; without it one cannot progress to the next level. But if a therapist keeps a patient in that corner then he is hindering the progress of the patient. Rebellion is good to a point, if you stay in it you stay in a wasteland. AFTER rebellion -when one has taken everything off the chest -one must move on.
Well said.
Harry has a major character flaw that his family has probably been aware of and dealing with for years. Once he met Meghan, who brings out and even encourages the worst in him, they lost control and now the whole world knows his character flaw. I know more adult men who are not speaking to their brothers than I know adult men who get along with their brothers. This dynamic seems almost normal but is on steroids with Harry because of his high profile and his ability to make money from his grievances and his lack of character allows him to do it without qualms.
💯 He has been like this his entire life. The Palace’s PR machine did a great job at hiding his true self from your world
Brilliantly said, the curtains are open.
Meghan is destroying him
@@sanaaa7047 I think he's destroying himself, but Meghan just gave him a green light to do it.
Exactly spot on. And I think anyone who has ever followed the Royal Family (whether passively or as a super fan) all knew all his life this was how we was. But it was generally unspoken; he was lovable enough that we brushed it off as “oh that’s just our Harry!” But his antics in his recent life shined a gigantic spotlight for the mainstream to see all of his flaws and ticks and shortcomings and negativity.
In my opinion some people just have a jealous nature. Irrespective of birth order or favour. Jealousy is at the root of it all.
@cherylmoss3632 you are right I think Prince William have a jealous nature. And jealous is at the root of it all. In the end time will tell its all.
@@juliasmith2664 NO. HARRY HAS THE JEALOUS NATURE
Plus obvious lower intelligence.
You are 💯 correct
@@juliasmith2664Harry is jealous, not William
Usually I find psychologists all in their heads, but this man combines theory with deep insight.
This man is a psychiatrist and should know he cannot conduct an analysis of anyone based on the limited information he has about Harry.
The analysis he is attempting to conduct could cause him to lose his license to practice or face a possible lawsuit.
Analysis have to be done in person. The duration of a psychiatric evaluation varies from one person to another. The amount of information needed helps to determine the amount of time the assessment takes. Typically, a psychiatric evaluation lasts for 30 to 90 minutes. At Some can last for approximately 2 hours to ensure a comprehensive and accurate evaluation.
I’m going to take a wild guess and say he has never met Harry.
This man is so OUT OF LINE.
Simona,
Insight also originates
in the head...
Where else !?
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I think the problem with Harry is, he’s very angry, and he doesn’t know where, or how to focus that anger. He blames his father for a lot of it, but I think it goes back to his mother and not his father. He’s emotionally so unstable it’s very concerning.
I've read from a few people that he's actually really cross with his mother and directs it at William. We're all armchair psychiatrists at this point!
Its too bad Harry didn't consider the bright side of his birth order. Being the "spare," he escaped a lot of the responsibilities and commitments that William will have to deal with. When Princess Margaret found out her sister would be queen one day, she said to Elizabeth, "Poor you."
Exactly, its Prince William who deserves more sympathy, he never had a choice, has stepped up, like his Father did, the epitome of duty and service. So proud of our working Royals, and the good work they do.
If only Harry was smarter he would of worked it out that they would be more popular if were working Royals, and get all the respect and attention they so clearly are desperate for.
Obviously not enough money for the greedy gruesome twosome.
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That's very true
Dr. Persuad is RIGHT ON. Harry has many psychological disturbances: paranoia, laziness, quick to anger, envious, no confidence, discontentment. A GOOD therapist will want the patient to overcome their disturbances WITHOUT involving their target. To WORK IT OUT from within. Gain STRENGTH from self awareness and practicing positive new behaviors.
Harry reveals MANY THINGS in his interviews and his book and THEN SAYS the critics ARE MAKING THINGS UP. HAS he NO idea of the words HE WROTE and how they are interpreted? He EMOTIONALLY removes himself FROM ALL HES DONE to cause the problems. His therapists HAVE NOT TREATED HARRY with WISE / PROPER emotional help. ITS SO OBVIOUS.
@@winkieblink7625 You forgot other disturbances, being a total dimwit, being gullible, letting Meghan run his life, and not doing anything about it.
Totally! As well as mis-understanding who his Creator is and what He can help him with.
He would have fired a good therapist.
@@winkieblink7625 What has never been mentioned is High Functioning Autism - is Harry suffering from it?
Half way through & I'm already sick, of Henry!
On their wedding day, it seemed very off that the only person in attendance from MM's family was her mother. Isn't that a red flag? Harry clearly wanted out of the firm and he chose the least appropriate person to bring into it. She wasn't royal material. That's no disgrace, neither am I. But they can't have it both ways. And as regards the racial remarks about the children's coloring, my former husband and I had 3 children. I am Caucasian but dark with dark eyes and he has blue eyes and blond hair. We all, including myself, speculated on what the childrens' colorings would be. None of my children inherited those beautiful blue eyes, but one had green eyes! And now 2 of our grandbabies have those blue eyes! And the 3rd grandbaby favors me! Family genetics is fascinating.
Same here. My son is blond and blue eyed, his wife is from Puerto Rico. She has straight black hair and very large dark brown eyes. Needless to say to say we were excited to see what this baby would look like. No one thought it was racist. Anyway, they had a beautiful baby girl with curly light brown hair, huge brown eyes and slightly tan skin. The cutest part is ,she gets flushed with bright pink cheeks when she gets a little over heated.
And we're supposed to feel sorry for him? Understand his genetic pain? He needs to stop being pampered and stroked by his therapists etc and told to grow up. We're so sick of hearing about his awful awful life simply because he was born second. What a tool.
Agree!
Yes we are supposed to feel sorry for both of them! That is the theme of the book!
Agree. Tired of being told I should need to understand him. As my dad used to say - grow up, apply yourself and be productive. Best advice I ever got.
Excellent Raj 👏🏼 why does he not understand he has already deeply hurt his grandmother & grandfather and the whole royal family. He’s not on this planet. Take some responsibility Harry or maybe you don’t know what that means. Long live the King 💕🇬🇧🏴
He and the mog want an apology, which will give them power over the RF. They will probably reject an apology anyway. Let them stew in their own juices.
@@jeannehunter5344 Agreed. The RF owes him no apology. Even if they did, there is no apology that would be enough.
True! We are also going to stand before the Creator one day and be accountable to what we've done in this life.
Unfortunately the fact that he hurt his grandparents could be a reason why he remains in a state of denial and not accepting of the consequences of his behaviours. Having worked with people who have misused substances I have often heard that that is one reason people will continue to ‘use’ rather than face things they have done
If only the Therapists and professionals could be held accountable for being reverential so that they continued their paid engagements. It’s conflict of duty.
When Harry described, "certain members of the family have decided to get into bed with the devil," he did exactly that by writing that book and going on interviews, all in the sake for his own financial gain. The devil always loses in the end.
I had a emotionally rough upbringing and it gave me a lot of baggage which I brought into adulthood. One day, many years ago, feeling overwhelmed with self pity, I decided to commit to paper how hard I had been done by and write about it. So I started my life story.
It was an amazing experience. 35,000 words later, it has had a cleansing effect to my feelings of hurt and being hard done by. I no longer feel burdened by the unfairness that I suffered and the baggage has been left behind. It will never be offered for publication because that was never the reason for starting it in the first place.
Perhaps the things written about by Prince Harry, truth or lies, may have the same effect and he will leave his anger firmly in the past. Then again, there is a person in his life who will enjoy opening up old wounds and rubbing salt in, so only time will tell.
Its really because his dad is king, then his brother will be king, then it goes to Williams kids. He is not happy that he's not seen as important enough . He is purely jealous and stomping his feet. And his wife is bitter for the same reasons and egging him on to cause trouble
Ozzy the answer is simple the family just have to treat him as an enemy who is no longer part of the family .
He was important on so many levels he had the freedom William never had to chose His own role . Harry could have chose his own path make his own role now he's nothing he holds the titles but titles are nothing without the respect they come with and he's lost all the respect he once had.
Ozzy yes that's exactly what the problem is.
Jealousy and spite.
@@lyndacrosfill6340 totally agree
Do you suppose MM did not understand the hierarchy, or did she think she could demand change and her idea be embraced? I tend to believe the race card was played for that reason, and as so often happens in the states, the demands are met.
A lot of people are missing that he has a very deep anger against his mother, she was not in their life for at least three years, away abroad most of the time with the latest beau instead of looking after the children. Until he accepts that he is taking that resentment out on the wrong people he will never move on from it. The pair of them thrive on anger.
And the major fact that he didn't pick his mother's call a day before she died. I think he hasn't forgiven himself about that.
I have to agree. I don’t think his father was unkind, unloving, or absent, he just wasn’t Diana. His mother made him her world whenever other men weren’t around and then deserted him leaving him bereft when someone more consuming happened along. When she died she wasn’t with Harry she was at a hotel with Dodi. That she left him at that time, or any time, was a big hole for Harry. He was always her Spare.
Prince Charles and Princess Anne were in similar circumstances when their Mother, the late Queen was on official tours in their formative years. They were exceptionally close however, especially in adulthood. Harry is just a snivelling whinger.
I think this is a valid theory. He may have felt abandoned, felt her vulnerability in seeking out another partner so soon and also felt like he needed to look after her. All would have arrested his own feeling of safety and freedom to live his own childhood life. All of this kind of trauma takes time to uncover and heal from. Doing all of this processing in public is sadly not going to be helpful, though it might bring it all to the forefront.
I've thought all along that Harry is immobilized by a love/hate relationship with his mother. She appeared to smother her children with affection, then leave them to chase after men around the world--both a source of embarrassment for a 12 - 13 year old boy. I believe he will never become stable until he is brought to confront the underlying problem.
Harry seems to think he is the only one who lost a parent. Prince William also lost a parent and being older he had to look after Harry as well.
Exactly - Harry needs to be accountable for his own thoughts, feelings, actions!!!! It seems NOBODY is tasking him to explain or give examples, etc.
Harry should know that in life anything could happen.His grandmother became Queen due to circumstances.Greed here plays a greater role on Harry's part.
His wife is pulling the strings!
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Some time ago Lady Colin Campbell told her viewers Meghan was heard to say they were only a plane crash away from the throne.
I also believe that. Meghan like a very lavish lifestyle. Harry leaving means he left the money behind as well. According to Harry in The Oprah interview all he has was the money his mom left him and that mansion took almost all of it to buy. Without a job or skills to make money all he had left was to turn on his family just to keep Meghan in a home with 16 bathrooms.
@@flowerjpotter1629 I heard this too. Bad enough she thought it but to come out & actually say it publicly speaks volumes about her complete lack of self awareness & an incredible ego that couldn't read the room if her life depended on it. She deserves every bit of criticism she's received & more.
@@flowerjpotter1629 one must remember, and few do, that Meaghan was born, raised and educated IN CANADA, a commonwealth country. Hardly makes her an American princess now, does it?
He thinks being assertive with his attitude equates to being blunt, rude and offensive to his so-called enemies be it the press, or family . He's going to spend the rest of his life looking back looking for offence and grievances! Sad lad !
Harry needs someone like you as his therapist. Thank you for this analysis.
What strikes me is what I call the control freak factor. They say hurtful things about others, which everyone can see, and then deny the victims the right to be hurt. They can inflict pain but they are in control of who can or cannot feel pain, which is just themselves.
Another way to look at things is that someone is being honest about the struggles they've experienced and are then re-victimised by people who invalidate them and tell them their feelings are wrong.
The first and only intelligent explanation of the motivation for writing this book that I’ve seen. Harry is living in a parallel universe if he thinks he can ever rebuild his relationship with William, he has completely burned his bridges with him. I don’t know about his father, though given what he has written about Camilla I wouldn’t be surprised if he gets short shrift there too. He’s about as popular as the proverbial turd in a swimming pool, not only with the royal family but with the majority of people here in the U.K.
Exactly! I hope Charles will reject his offer🙏🙏
Charles is a big part of the problem by giving in to him all the time, even now and Harry is a middle aged man.
Not only in the UK is H the turd the swimming pool, but in the Commonwealth as well.
That 💩 made me laugh 😂
And the USA🇺🇸
My dads a famous doctor that has had a lot of celebrity clients. He always says special care doesn’t equal good care. It’s important to focus on the disease not the person.
Totally. Just the same as the Dr has to cut the cancer in total to save the life.
With this explanation I am healing myself as well without going anymore to a Psychotherapist. I have a good job, I can sustain my own needs. I just feel why I can't be like my siblings who are doing better than me economically. Listening this discussion awakes me that what I have right now is good enough. Thank you for this realization Sir! 🙏🙏
I agree with that!
Harry seems appalled that there is a hierarchy in the royal family. I think most people in the world know there is a hierarchy. But there are the same type of things that go on in every family. Harry hurts his family because he thinks he has been hurt but he fails to recognize they all have feelings too. He blames everything on his mother dying but fails to notice it was just as devastating for his brother.
There is hierarchy in any government, business, organization, charity … job. This statement by H is foolishly ridiculous.
This was well worth listening to. Thank you.
There is a hierarchy in EVERY family.
Her brother is violent , hé needs help
@@cynthiawalker5620 This! There is hierarchy no matter where you go or what you do. Ever tried to board an airplane? Either pay more for first class or wait in line until everyone else is on board.
So sad that his therapist and his wife meghan are using harry´s mental status to keep him under their control. harry doesn´t seem to understand that his behavior, his words, his actions causes harm too. harry´s harm towards others is totally acceptable, but no one can question his harm.
Not sure his therapist is using it for control but Meghan sure does.
I also think his ghost writer who is married to the VP of Penguin Random House is playing him for a fool and $$$$$ - In my opinion they are not handling him with due care by allowing the stuff to get onto the printed page
@@lisakeell7343 who can blame them? They've been taken for a very expensive ride from these 2 with no real content
Sweet $$$$$ and unkind, unloving and gruel!
You think Harry doesn't understand his behaviour is hurtful?
How REFRESHING to hear unbiased talk about the brothers. Thank you. ♥️ 🇨🇦 ♥️
SPOT ON!
In fairness it is not a therapist’s job to tell you anything but it is their job to reveal the lies you are telling yourself so you can heal instead of being in denial.
Some wisdom about life could certainly be shared. Finding the positive in life and moving on to improve your situation can absolutely change your mindset.
Challenging you to think from a different perspective.
I really enjoyed listening to this psychiatrist.
A therapist may suggest writing a ' letter you never send' where you write out all your hurts to the person you believe caused them but don't send it. It could be that Harry actually ' sent the letter ' by way of his book.
Right, and as he said, some therapists simply reinforce your hurt feelings.
There needs to be more of the challenging, cognitive behavioural therapy
His therapist is nobody but his own wife and her gang.
Probably some wokey-jokey people who have never ser foot in a university.
Scientology that's who.
Glad I read this before I commented. I think the same as you. I think Nutmeg is his 'therapist'.
Harry is seeing himself as a therapist too! He gives advice on everything as though he is the repository for all things and knowledge under the sun. He is a fool who does not know that he is a fool.
@@teresabelshaw4262 or her mother..
I am one of five children and neither of us compare each other. We are all our parents children and there is no favouring or jealousy at all.
Take a look at all the Queens children. Never heard any of them complaint.
Princess Ann had to take the place after each of her brothers but never said anything as that was the system.
Harry’s jealousy is his problem. I hope that you can help him with that so that he can change his attitude. That maybe would help him.
Harry has only had his brother tryihg to challenge his behaviours and not his dad who doesnt watnt to upset him like everyone else around him! You cant slag people off and then say you love them!
When Anderson reads that section where Harry ridicules Williams looks Harry actually gives a half smirk. That was meant to be hurtful and he is enjoying the reaction to it! I have a brother very similar to Harold. He insults me and then tells me he loves me. It’s passive aggressive behaviour and I distance myself from him because of it. He also always needs to be acknowledged….even at someone’s funerals! He’s got worse as he ages and so will Harold!
Jennifer Bailey I know exactly what you mean and yes they do get worse with age, be very careful who you date… some of us were primed for very high tolerance levels. The sneer I didn’t see early enough, it was concealed until I had “ the ring on my finger” yes, the person I’m speaking about can ooze contempt towards me and very smoothly shut it down, depending on who else may see.
Anderson Cooper is spineless, he didn't ask Harry why they dropped the racist word with Oprah, and now just a few weeks ago is saying he never said that, it was the press. Anderson had the opportunity to finish this delusional Prince, but he opted out
I agree, have one too. Malignant, worse and worse. I have come to the conclusion it is an evil possession. There is no rhyme or reason to his behaviour. I was told to stay as far as I could.
Actually, Harry is in no position to be ridiculing William’s looks. William is and has always been handsome. His personality and demeanor make him a perfect fit for a future king. Harry, not so much. More jealousy.
Hit the nail on the head here Raj, thank you for voicing what we all can see.
The statement that the therapists can't tell him the truth reminds me of something. My English teacher told us that the duty of the king's fool is to tell him the truth that no one else can. (Context King Lear's fool telling him give me an egg and I'll give you two crowns. Then the fool cuts the boiled egg in half, eats the yolk and gives the king the whites. At that time the yolk was considered to be the good part of an egg and the whites were considered worthless. In this way the fool showed the king that he had given the valuable part of his kingship to his daughters and they had returned the worthless bits to him.)
Today, the young and especially the political left have silenced the comedians. It's dangerous to have no feedback.
The young today don't want to grow up. They get taller, but remain willingly stunted in toddlerhood.
@sarahm9723 I'm afraid we of the previous generation failed them too. Participation trophies and sending them to government schools.
@@joanhuffman2166 You're right. I think it affected some more than others because they were the naturally lazy and wanted the easy way out, so when presented with the possibility of a world in which no effort needed to be expended, they signed up immediately.
Ahhhh! I understand now. I counted on my Father to be fair and balanced. My oldest brother really believed he deserved the biggest piece of meat at dinner. My Father payed attention to the fact that when I tried to get a fair portion of steak!!! It had already been devoured. I sadly scooped my crumbs into my pitiful six year old mouth. The following day!!! When I came in for dinner, the biggest!!! T- bone steak was hanging over the edges of my plate!!! I giggled at its proportions. My Father smiled at me. And, my oldest brother apologized and told me to enjoy my meal. Sometimes, the grown up has to be a grown up. Not, always the child...(...maybe, Maybe, MAYBE!!! There are many sides to the evidence of love. I personally believe most people are cracked pots. I learned, in my family, to wait for my Fathers answer. I learned, my Father had eyes. I learned, he always did the checks and balances in the end. And, in that moment. I was always surprised that I was ahead instead, of further behind. I didnt have to argue my points. I didnt have to talk about things...I learned to be patient and tolerant. My Father, was a fair man. I didnt have to relly on others, to be fair to me...all the best to you and your family. May you have all the beautiful things and people in your life that you!!! Require.
Hope you have not reproduced ! What a joke!! Puffing your chest just as Harry does !!
His rather obnoxious and scheming wife has influenced him negatively. Being brain challenged she didn’t have any problems in changing him from an engaging individual to what you see today.
A great shame but I see no way back. The bridges have been burnt.
".....and Cain rose up and slew his brother Able". These were the first siblings. I am the youngest of several children and there is no excuse for Harry. He has has access to the best of everything and all the tools he needed to make a wonderful life. Look at Anne, Edward and even Andrew. Andrew is a spoiled pervert but he never coveted Charles's position to the point of cruelty, hatred and spite. Something is wrong with Harry, not his birth order, not his parents, not his shrinks, etc. Harry chose Meghan, a heartless manipulator and he did it because she validated his worst thoughts. He will pay for that.
Thank you so much for the explanation. As a counselor for several years I was so thankful that you explained why that reaction took place
Harry says he loves his father and brother and had no intension to hurt them . Well he has done just that, so he should be asked " so what are you going to do about it "
Nothing he’s done has been meant to harm the family he loves? Oh well, trashing your family in public isn’t harming your family in his mind.
Exactly ,plus substance abuse and marrying the mutt when he had always made puppy eyes at Catherine.
It is not a question of resolving the relationship but dissolving it.
Thank you for your most enlightened perspective. My take away from reading Harry’s book and observing him in interviews is that he has much work to do to reach a place of understanding about who he is and how he got there. The loss of his mother was so profound and none of the adults in his life were prepared to help him through his grief due to their own inability to process it themselves. Certainly not the only major issue he faced but the greatest. He has a lot of work to do to embrace healing and a sense of peace through understanding leading to peace. Very hard to do in the public eye. I wish him the best. If I were still a practicing therapist I’d be very interested in working with him.
Margaret was quite similar with her sister The Queen from a young age.The spare.
Yet Anne,Andrew & Edward always support their brother the King and have always accepted their place as spares..
This psychiatrist is spot on with his labeling of the book interviews as "reverential". None of the journalists challenged PH in any way. Glaring inconsistencies in what Harry wrote in the book and his explanations to the Interviewer were never called out. As long as PH continues to believe he should be equal to Prince William in the hierarchy of the British Monarchy he will continue to make himself miserable.
You hit the nail on the head! H will continue to make himself miserable.
Just stay in the US Harry with the D list actress.
@@dianneedwards4757 American here, many here wish he would go back to England, but he should at least lose his tittles, and go hide out quietly somewhere.
No one challenges his beliefs in interviews because all questions are pre approved before he agrees to any as what I have heard
Tom Bradby tried but Harry steamrolled him.
He continues to excessively idealize his mother. Has a therapist ever explored his anger about his mother's romantic life , or reckless lifestyle or his rage that she abandoned him ? Is that unacknowledged anger being displaced to other members of the family? Did any therapist ever have the courage to approach this? I think not: they therapist did not want to be the target of the rage from such a "special" client, to do the work that was important.
Exactly. After all, his mother was more taken up with complaining about her broken marriage and chasing after lovers than raising her children. Any sane mother would have postponed her love life by a few years in order to spare her children the scandals.
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Harry has a lot of Diana traits, wrecking Charles' chance on the throne is one of them.
It really pains me to see Diana's memory sullied this way! Diana was an exceptional mother & tried to be a good wife to Charles. Yes, Diana had flaws as do we all but, overall, Diana was a kind & loving person & deserves so much better than some of the comments here. Leave Diana alone!
@@sarelito9202 I always thought so. It seemed to me she didn't really care what her children felt about her having lovers.
@@clairelivefreeordie2551 in what way was she exceptional? Lady Colin Campbell, who knew Diana well and wrote her biography, said she did not discipline the boys when they misbehaved. In fact Diana had told Harry it did not matter what one did, as long as one wasn't caught. Huh!
Dr. Persaud said better and exactly what I have tried to verbalize elsewhere: Harry is used to reverence. The sad thing, in my opinion, is that he is completely unaware of it. This is why I find the "Just call me Harry" business so repellent.
Dr. Persaud's comments about Harry claiming he never meant to hurt anyone, his comments are not cutting, and so on reminded me of something I have read elsewhere: one of his former commanding officers stated that Harry was unable of joined-up thinking. In other words, he can't figure out how A plus B might lead to C.
Generally not being happy with one's place in the family role. Loosing ones identity in the Royal Family.
Great analysis!
Afraid to tell him he is nuts!!!!
Everything you have said is 100% correct!
No professional can or should diagnose a person who did not ask for a consult.
I remember that Prince Philip allegedly said "you step out with an actress, you don't marry them "
I guess PP was tactfully trying to say that Actresses are not normally suited to royal life. He wasn't inferring that Actresses aren't decent people, just generally not suited to royal life that's a life of service and duty, not being the centre of attention like most actors, singers, comedians etc are.
It's not to say that because actors etc are used to being centre of attention, that all actors like to be centre of attention, but they used to it regardless of f whether they enjoy the attention or not, personally for themselves or just enjoying entertaining others.
They are used to being in control of their lives etc. So through no fault of their own, they not really suited to royal life.
Acceptions to the rule is Grace Kelly who married into royalty.
Yacht girl you mean.
@Clare MacFarlane Sane advice!
I think PP knew a few things about MM and was warning H.
99 % of other American actresses would have managed to play their role and do the royal job perfectly and would have had zero problems appearing at official functions with the Royal Family and simply follow protocol. They get all the training they need when marrying into royalty (as e.g. Catherine). However, Migraine is a toxic NARCISSIST so she was mentally completely incapable of adapting to others and follow protocol. She s an i*iot.
His analysis is spot on
I have a sister 7 yrs younger than I am. My sister felt mistreated because I could go to the mall to a movie with a couple of friends and she could not. At the time it did not occur to her it was because I was 17 and she was ten. for several years we avoided each other. When she got to go to the movies at 17 she started to understand. Once I was out of the house and working and she was a teenager at home, we became good friends, and have stayed good friends for over 50 yrs.
The speaker has excellent ideas.
I feel what is being ignored is Harry mentioning that PW no longer resembles Diana. Has Harry harbored resentment towards PW for years because PW looked more like Diana?
good point!
Yes William looks like Diana, I think Harry resents William for many reasons.
He has made many very strange comments. He is so unfiltered and is not becoming. I didn't read his book. No interest. But when you hear little clips it baffles me how it's a memoir.
He seemed quite bitchy saying that William's hair loss was more advanced than his
Exactly carol, & the fact William is very handsome & still looks like his mother, hair or no hair.
This guy is so right about therapists. There is a huge range of competence.
If you get a therapist whose only response is "Hmmm" and doesn't ask for evidence or offer possible insights, run for the hills.
I wasted 10 years on a martial therapist like that. Who never mentioned what is now obvious, my ex was a narcissist and professional liar. The ex was never challenged for lying and being self-absorbed. I was never challenged for being a doormat who thought if I was kind enough everything would be ok.
I got out of it myself, with no help from the therapist, when I realized the ex's words were the opposite of his actions over many years.
Nancy. Yes! You are not alone.
@@melliecrann-gaoth4789 Ditto for me. Found out for myself, then it was all so obvious. Thank god I figured it out before it killed me! Good luck to both of you.
Good on you
Good for you for figuring it out! I have also seen a few therapists who did and said very little in guiding me to truth. I have had only one that I felt was fully intelligent and gently guided me as best he could.
@@GMLGMD I'm glad for you. Now that I know better, I will certainly be more selective in therapists if I need one.
Harry has always been envious of William and his 'status', but the Firm and Family have kept the lid on Harry's misbehaviour and talked him down when he 'rebelled'
Oh go give people some PILLS