This story is touching. Is a combination of greed, adultery and selfishness. Children in that age group are vulnerable. They need at least a parent or an adult to direct them during the formative/ molding age of their lives. In as much as what the husband did was wrong, the wife would have stayed or took the children with her to Africa. Mothers are the bedrock of the society.
Oh! What a sad sad one... Oh! She has lost her Children. Kai! 💔😢💔 May God give us wisdom to know what to prioritize in our lives. Chai!!! Children should always come first.
The sister knows everything going on 🧐 the parents are not satisfied with what they had, envy and greed set in 🧐 of their friend then they decided to sell their 🏡 🏠 😱 This is a big lesson to be learnt 🤔 Do not envy others 😇 be satisfied with whatever you have 🤷🏽♀️ life is too short 🤔 enjoy yourself 🥰 Frank 🥰 thanks a million 👍🩷💚🧡❤️💜💙🩵🤎💛💖
Sacrifice your marriage, because of your children. That's a terrible mistake you will regret in life later. When your children are of age that's will leave alone and relocate to make matter worst of them won't bother to check on you again. Than you will realised your mistake
@@ibyabu they respond like this when a woman puts her wellbeing or childrens wellbeingfirst..these creatures are selfish and they can get rid of you in a split seconds.he reallly thinks he is smart in 2025 with this mentality..they can't handle abandonement but they will threaten to replace a woma who serves them no deep purpose ..all they need to do is brainwash a good woman to stay with their bad market
I really pity this family, crying 😭 , scattered family, all because of money, material things, no time for the children. 35 years, their parents will never forgive themselves 😢, labouring for nothing
Once again, we see how people take decision to make money to follow their success compete with the neighbour then the children come last 😮 in my experience. I have seen how these people who have no time for their children. They become so miserable when it all goes wrong.
It's not easy paying debt in the UK, while her husband is squandering the money on another woman. It's quite unfortunate what happened to their children.
Well said my sister God bless you for your comments...am a single parent and my son comes first I have sacrificed a lot but all I can say that God has been so good to us...am so proud of myself 🙏🙏🙏
@nanaakoto232 Being single is better than being in a marriage, with a man that his children are not his priority. The earlier African women especially, start prioritising their children over a man that is already giving red signals, the better.
How was it possible for the under aged children to be left alone in this country?I don't believe that social services would allow these under aged children to operate in this country?
The children's mother should have taken the Children back to Africa when she left. Never leave your children with friends or acquaintance, because the children will not receive adequate supervision as the children would under their Parents. The children's father created the problem deviating from what seem a very perfect family plan to build wealth for the family. The man is saying his wife is selfish? He is the selfish one.
As someone who has worked....with diverse families I can tell you with absolute certainty that this type of abandonment/ neglect among.... is more common than you think. Parents disappear for significant periods of time; months/ years leaving their children to fend for themselves while the gangs/ predators take their chance. Is it that they are clueless/ misguided or is it that their love of money and status is given greater priority over their children? So sad for these children.
You people and blaming women at every given chance. It takes two parents to guide and groom a child. Blame should be accorded to both parent and not just single one parent to lay the blame on…
Very heartbreaking for any parent to lose a beloved child in such manner. It seems everyone in the family (including the kids) was chasing after money; all I hear is money, money. Of what use are we if we gained the whole world and lose our souls? This could happen to any one of us. However, it will be very wrong for me to blame the parents or the children. Sometimes a child could live in a two-parent household with all values and morals intact but could end up toxic right under the parent’s nose if God is not part of the equation. On the other hand, the kids were too young to be without parental guidance; no one can take care of my children better than me or their father. Those children were at impressionable ages. I pray the parents realize this is not the time to apportion blames but to think deep, fast, and pray in togetherness. The harm is already done, but nothing is impossible to the Almighty.
Your children come first, not the hotel, some men are wicked, selfish, you are not suppose to copy anybody who moved to. Africa and the woman who left her children and went after a man has made a stupid decision of her life because their your tomorrow.
It is hard when you have to choose between your marriage and your children. I have been there. It was very hard for me but I chose my three children. I lost my marriage till today.
What dies she expect. Men are like that when money started going into their account . Some women still trust them. If you do you are on your own OYO gbabeee!
Concerning the children, the mom was the caused. Since she decided to spend time in Africa, she would have taken the children along with her to Africa. They can continue schooling over there in Africa. We still have alot of good schools in Africa, provided you have the money which she and her husband have. Moreover the children were still teenagers then 15 and 13 years, which makes it more easier for her to takes them to Africa. The power of gifts was what caused the imprisonment of the young girl. Because at a time, she knew that her brother was into dirty job, but because of alot of gifts was involved in her life, she tensed to pretends and played along.
Being a single mother is better than remain in an unstable marriage. The earlier African women especially, start prioritising their children over a troubled marriage, the better. . Your children's welfare is more important to what people, culture or religious leaders would say.
What I’m thinking they lost their children to fix what you can’t fix my question is are the still going to stay together I don’t think so hatred only they destroy children’s future because of selfish what is money
As a mother, your children are your priority. Her husband marrying another wife is not a news. If even they live together either in UK or Africa, what will be will be. Men that are not determined in life,will always fall for nonsense. It's not news at all. This is a great lesson for all women out there. Take your choice. Your children or your husband at a certain stage in life.
The man and woman agreed for her to stay with the children ? The lady simply neglected her part of the agreement and is now blaming the man to cover up her shortcomings.
This thing called money ordinary paper have ruined the entire family. Madu ka Aku is an Igbo adage (meaning that those children are bigger than wealth they are pursuing 😂😂😂
Because of greed, envy and a life of competition for the love of material things they have lost the most precious gifts God gave them … their children. & the man was too selfish too . Mum should just have left the man , he is not worthy fighting for if he disrespects his wife’s hard work by sleeping around and wasting their combined wealth. I have been there, done that , but I chose my children, left him everything abroad ( somewhere in Africa) & now he lives in a shack after selling off everything because of poor management & womanising. I brought up my children to be responsible , University graduates & we are happy & thriving. Material wealth is nothing, your children are more important . So sorry for the children who were let down by parents
Absolutely. She can not claim ignorance at all She loved collecting gifts. Children need structure and guidance. Other people can not be responsible for raising your kids..
Why is it that immediately some men make something out of life first thing that comes to their mind is multiple women ???? Cheating here and there and disrespect?
Did not the man and woman agreed for her to stay with the children ? The lady simply neglected her part of the agreement and is now blaming the man to cover up her shortcomings.
@@CCC-jl7qk did you not hear the part where he was womanising and being disloyal? Or was that part of their agreement. If the man had been disciplined and loyal the woman would have stayed put. The woman was wrong to leave her children because of the yeye man. She should have put her children first but the man's behaviour caused all this.
Little will I blame the parents, very little! The mother missed just one second 🥈 thought, that is, will these children be able to take care of themselves? This ought to be her question to herself. The parents did not take a foolish decision it was the Son who had belonged to something else even when the parents were around with them but from your report you didn't give the time line of this event so that I can figure out how long the young man may have involved in the street activities. The blame is on the children, after all 18+ years in Europe is an adult who can live by themselves, period. Not now when the going is rough then the 18 year would want to say ohhh "I am a child I don't know what I was doing". No, I disagreed 18 years old person in Europe can send both the parents to prison as well. My conclusion, the blame is upon the system, if you know what I mean. I wish the parents were even around they wouldn't have be abe to stop a 18 years old boy or a girl from doing what they wants.
Why is it always easy for us to blame ourselves for every iniquity executed by us or by another. On this matter, I do not blame the parents but the irresponsible government in U.K that have failed to prevent the widespread of illicit drugs in U.K. Yes, some poor kids are in jail as we speak, but trust me, many other young kids are out there right now under the custody of their parents but are still selling and consuming drugs while the U.K govt continues to be irresponsive. Thumbs down to U.K govt.
Very sad! I will not judge the woman. Any woman has a right to fight for what she labored for but shouldn’t have been at the expense of these children. I spoof mum had seen some traits of bad behavior she woulohave left them. I feel bad for the mum especially. The unfaithful man will have children with the other woman. Men where is your conscience?
@@yemisie8677 I hear you Yemisi but most Nigerian marriages occur when there is a level plane field, and separation occurs when a partner now suddenly get wealthy and becomes “married” to that success( wealth). Some Nigerian women in diaspora are guilty of the same behavior.
35 years in prison,that’s impossible.Watch and see they won’t get that long,I did 2 years and I originally got 4 years for laundering £500,000 with my English husband. I hid a lot of it and when I got out am enjoying my life now.If those kids are smart they will be okay 💯
Please a nanny is needed for the children when ever you travel out for work. God continue to bless and guide you Amen.
15 and 13 years is the worst age in the UK to abandon children. What a big mistake
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This story is touching. Is a combination of greed,
adultery and selfishness. Children in that age group are vulnerable. They need at least a parent or an adult to direct them during the formative/ molding age of their lives. In as much as what the husband did was wrong, the wife would have stayed or took the children with her to Africa. Mothers are the bedrock of the society.
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Thank you so much Frank for everything you are doing for the community !
You are very welcome
Greetings mi Bredren Francis, greed is a powerful blinker to righteousness. Keep up de good work bredren. A Luta Continua
Oh! What a sad sad one... Oh! She has lost her Children. Kai! 💔😢💔 May God give us wisdom to know what to prioritize in our lives. Chai!!! Children should always come first.
Very sad story money is not everything. The parents preferred to chase money instead of raising their children.
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The sister knows everything going on 🧐 the parents are not satisfied with what they had, envy and greed set in 🧐 of their friend then they decided to sell their 🏡 🏠 😱 This is a big lesson to be learnt 🤔 Do not envy others 😇 be satisfied with whatever you have 🤷🏽♀️ life is too short 🤔 enjoy yourself 🥰
Frank 🥰 thanks a million 👍🩷💚🧡❤️💜💙🩵🤎💛💖
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God bless you Frank for the good job you are doing for the community.
May God give us patience and wisdom when raising our children in this country even as we are sacrificing our lives in the process. 😢
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This is a lesson both parents let materials things take away their joy. The mother could have stay behind and look after the children.
I better leave my marriage, Instead of leaving my children alone.
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Sacrifice your marriage, because of your children. That's a terrible mistake you will regret in life later. When your children are of age that's will leave alone and relocate to make matter worst of them won't bother to check on you again. Than you will realised your mistake
😂😂😂😂@@josilia96 Chairman, Husbands come and Go Children are for LIFE! 😂😂😂
@@ibyabu they respond like this when a woman puts her wellbeing or childrens wellbeingfirst..these creatures are selfish and they can get rid of you in a split seconds.he reallly thinks he is smart in 2025 with this mentality..they can't handle abandonement but they will threaten to replace a woma who serves them no deep purpose ..all they need to do is brainwash a good woman to stay with their bad market
@@josilia96 what is marraige to you? is it not for the hapiness of men and endurance of woman..nonsense!don respond to me! so irritating
I really pity this family, crying 😭 , scattered family, all because of money, material things, no time for the children. 35 years, their parents will never forgive themselves 😢, labouring for nothing
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Once again, we see how people take decision to make money to follow their success compete with the neighbour then the children come last 😮 in my experience. I have seen how these people who have no time for their children. They become so miserable when it all goes wrong.
As a mother your children become your husband and your responsibility
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It's not easy paying debt in the UK, while her husband is squandering the money on another woman. It's quite unfortunate what happened to their children.
Well said my sister God bless you for your comments...am a single parent and my son comes first I have sacrificed a lot but all I can say that God has been so good to us...am so proud of myself 🙏🙏🙏
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Being single is better than being in a marriage, with a man that his children are not his priority.
The earlier African women especially, start prioritising their children over a man that is already giving red signals, the better.
Money and greed and pleasure. Very sad.
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How was it possible for the under aged children to be left alone in this country?I don't believe that social services would allow these under aged children to operate in this country?
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How would they know about it unless someone informed them? 🤷🏾♂️
The children's mother should have taken the Children back to Africa when she left. Never leave your children with friends or acquaintance, because the children will not receive adequate supervision as the children would under their Parents. The children's father created the problem deviating from what seem a very perfect family plan to build wealth for the family. The man is saying his wife is selfish? He is the selfish one.
As someone who has worked....with diverse families I can tell you with absolute certainty that this type of abandonment/ neglect among.... is more common than you think. Parents disappear for significant periods of time; months/ years leaving their children to fend for themselves while the gangs/ predators take their chance. Is it that they are clueless/ misguided or is it that their love of money and status is given greater priority over their children? So sad for these children.
😮 When is parenting misguided. It when both parents are chasing money in different ways. She forgot she had responsibility of her children. 😢😢
Is the man not also responsible for the children or only the women are responsible for raising kids ?
What do you mean she forgot she have responsibility at home???
Did she give birth to the children alone?? Mtcheeeew 😞😞.
@@ndidionyebuchi7117 have you ever witness a man giving birth point it out to me...
You people and blaming women at every given chance. It takes two parents to guide and groom a child. Blame should be accorded to both parent and not just single one parent to lay the blame on…
Thank you for this eye opener so Nigerians over there should be careful God bless you.
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Here we go again ..!!! Its Madness.
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Very heartbreaking for any parent to lose a beloved child in such manner. It seems everyone in the family (including the kids) was chasing after money; all I hear is money, money. Of what use are we if we gained the whole world and lose our souls? This could happen to any one of us.
However, it will be very wrong for me to blame the parents or the children. Sometimes a child could live in a two-parent household with all values and morals intact but could end up toxic right under the parent’s nose if God is not part of the equation.
On the other hand, the kids were too young to be without parental guidance; no one can take care of my children better than me or their father. Those children were at impressionable ages.
I pray the parents realize this is not the time to apportion blames but to think deep, fast, and pray in togetherness. The harm is already done, but nothing is impossible to the Almighty.
They should have traveled with their kids. What a risk of life
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Your children come first, not the hotel, some men are wicked, selfish, you are not suppose to copy anybody who moved to. Africa and the woman who left her children and went after a man has made a stupid decision of her life because their your tomorrow.
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It’s dangerous to leave children under 25 on their own in this country. The parents made a big mistake
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It is hard when you have to choose between your marriage and your children.
I have been there. It was very hard for me but I chose my three children. I lost my marriage till today.
I believe the sister knew exactly what she was into
They were boulth into it and making an enjoying the large lifestyle
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I put the blame on the parents; mostly, it is the mother.
Oh i feel so sorry for their mum.
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What dies she expect. Men are like that when money started going into their account . Some women still trust them. If you do you are on your own OYO gbabeee!
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Concerning the children, the mom was the caused. Since she decided to spend time in Africa, she would have taken the children along with her to Africa. They can continue schooling over there in Africa. We still have alot of good schools in Africa, provided you have the money which she and her husband have. Moreover the children were still teenagers then 15 and 13 years, which makes it more easier for her to takes them to Africa. The power of gifts was what caused the imprisonment of the young girl. Because at a time, she knew that her brother was into dirty job, but because of alot of gifts was involved in her life, she tensed to pretends and played along.
Being a single mother is better than remain in an unstable marriage.
The earlier African women especially, start prioritising their children over a troubled marriage, the better. .
Your children's welfare is more important to what people, culture or religious leaders would say.
Good for the parents, now they have all the time to look for more money.
And I won't be surprised if the parents happen to be Nigeria politicians 😂
This is so unfortunate, please can you give us a link to the story, interested to know more about the case, Thank you.
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What I’m thinking they lost their children to fix what you can’t fix my question is are the still going to stay together I don’t think so hatred only they destroy children’s future because of selfish what is money
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For me, The father is the cause of the misfortunes of their two children period.😢
As a mother, your children are your priority.
Her husband marrying another wife is not a news.
If even they live together either in UK or Africa, what will be will be. Men that are not determined in life,will always fall for nonsense. It's not news at all.
This is a great lesson for all women out there.
Take your choice.
Your children or your husband at a certain stage in life.
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The man and woman agreed for her to stay with the children ? The lady simply neglected her part of the agreement and is now blaming the man to cover up her shortcomings.
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The man is to be blame
I heard you saying they sold the council house they were renting....is it possible?? to sell a rented property???
They bought the council house and later sold it. It's possible after 3 years of buying council house. Not before.
This thing called money ordinary paper have ruined the entire family. Madu ka Aku is an Igbo adage (meaning that those children are bigger than wealth they are pursuing 😂😂😂
The parents want to eat their madu akure now .
The parents are greedy so that's what they been teaching to their children. It's very sad.
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Oh God. What a sad case
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Because of greed, envy and a life of competition for the love of material things they have lost the most precious gifts God gave them … their children. & the man was too selfish too . Mum should just have left the man , he is not worthy fighting for if he disrespects his wife’s hard work by sleeping around and wasting their combined wealth. I have been there, done that , but I chose my children, left him everything abroad ( somewhere in Africa) & now he lives in a shack after selling off everything because of poor management & womanising. I brought up my children to be responsible , University graduates & we are happy & thriving. Material wealth is nothing, your children are more important . So sorry for the children who were let down by parents
Eish my heart broke 😢
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Both parents responsible .
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In life you cannot eat your cake and have it back. The parents made a big mistake. They would have carried the children with 😊them
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Their investment was their children not building a hotel. 🤦♀️
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Absolutely. She can not claim ignorance at all
She loved collecting gifts. Children need structure and guidance. Other people can not be responsible for raising your kids..
'One of' followed by plural. Eg.
'One of the houseS'
'One of the challengesS'
Why is it that immediately some men make something out of life first thing that comes to their mind is multiple women ???? Cheating here and there and disrespect?
Did not the man and woman agreed for her to stay with the children ? The lady simply neglected her part of the agreement and is now blaming the man to cover up her shortcomings.
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@@CCC-jl7qk the woman should stay with the children why the man frolics with other women right? Clap 👏🏾👏🏾 for yourself.
It's mostly african men!!!!
@@CCC-jl7qk did you not hear the part where he was womanising and being disloyal? Or was that part of their agreement. If the man had been disciplined and loyal the woman would have stayed put. The woman was wrong to leave her children because of the yeye man. She should have put her children first but the man's behaviour caused all this.
Sad. Really sad.
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In life, the priority investment of parents is their children. Any other materialistic investments worth nil if family unit in disarray.
Trust men at your own risk, I pity for the woman. How can you leave your children alone because of a man.
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Verygood
Little will I blame the parents, very little! The mother missed just one second 🥈 thought, that is, will these children be able to take care of themselves? This ought to be her question to herself. The parents did not take a foolish decision it was the Son who had belonged to something else even when the parents were around with them but from your report you didn't give the time line of this event so that I can figure out how long the young man may have involved in the street activities. The blame is on the children, after all 18+ years in Europe is an adult who can live by themselves, period. Not now when the going is rough then the 18 year would want to say ohhh "I am a child I don't know what I was doing". No, I disagreed 18 years old person in Europe can send both the parents to prison as well.
My conclusion, the blame is upon the system, if you know what I mean. I wish the parents were even around they wouldn't have be abe to stop a 18 years old boy or a girl from doing what they wants.
Very sad story. Family 👪 should be the main priority
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So many of these related families issues.
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Aaaw so sad 😢😢😢
Sad!
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Hwo can,normal parents sale there properties and move back home,open hotel and allowed husband to stay there in African, she lost her kids and money.
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Greed Greed. Quality of life not quantity.
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Why do africans keep doing this leave there children akon parents did the same thing
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Take your children home with you
Hmmmm men you can not trust most of them. The man just destroy his family too bad. God for the sake of this wife save the children.
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Hmmmm
Very sad
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Lack of guidance caused all of this. Why are these people so greedy? Which is the greediest west African tribe> Igbo, Yoruba? Which one?
The fatheris a cheat and a betrayal.
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Why is it always easy for us to blame ourselves for every iniquity executed by us or by another. On this matter, I do not blame the parents but the irresponsible government in U.K that have failed to prevent the widespread of illicit drugs in U.K. Yes, some poor kids are in jail as we speak, but trust me, many other young kids are out there right now under the custody of their parents but are still selling and consuming drugs while the U.K govt continues to be irresponsive. Thumbs down to U.K govt.
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Very sad story .
Very sad! I will not judge the woman. Any woman has a right to fight for what she labored for but shouldn’t have been at the expense of these children. I spoof mum had seen some traits of bad behavior she woulohave left them. I feel bad for the mum especially. The unfaithful man will have children with the other woman. Men where is your conscience?
@@yemisie8677 I hear you Yemisi but most Nigerian marriages occur when there is a level plane field, and separation occurs when a partner now suddenly get wealthy and becomes “married” to that success( wealth). Some Nigerian women in diaspora are guilty of the same behavior.
35 years in prison,that’s impossible.Watch and see they won’t get that long,I did 2 years and I originally got 4 years for laundering £500,000 with my English husband. I hid a lot of it and when I got out am enjoying my life now.If those kids are smart they will be okay 💯
Bro this your story, sounds very made up.
No be ordinary. They were targeted.
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