Also about coercive control, the abusers are "smart". They may usually stay on the phone since there is no proof of what is being said, rather than use text messages. When that happens, please documents the occurrences! My ex always talked to me on the phone and we rarely exchanged any while conversations via messages. And now I understand why.
Ouch, the "I am going to leave you and take the kid(s) and go to Russia" reminded me of something my ex wrote in his statements stating I told him this about our child. Which is absurd, I came here from Russia, why would I ever go back to a place that didn't have a great future for me. All I have to say, document, document, document. Take photos, print out messages and store everything for the "big day".
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Also about coercive control, the abusers are "smart". They may usually stay on the phone since there is no proof of what is being said, rather than use text messages. When that happens, please documents the occurrences! My ex always talked to me on the phone and we rarely exchanged any while conversations via messages. And now I understand why.
Ouch, the "I am going to leave you and take the kid(s) and go to Russia" reminded me of something my ex wrote in his statements stating I told him this about our child. Which is absurd, I came here from Russia, why would I ever go back to a place that didn't have a great future for me.
All I have to say, document, document, document. Take photos, print out messages and store everything for the "big day".