Yes the key is mutual respect and communication. This starts in the interview process. I'm a host mom and an engineering intern mom (I've had 100s of college age young adults in my home over the last 20 years), and I do a lot of communication and over communication of what my family is like and what our expectations are. I then ask the same of them. The fit is key, it's like dating or interviewing a roommate. If the fit is good, it's a great set up and then just continue the communication and empathy from there.
Yes you’re right but as an au pair mostly we have it difficult because of the family .the way of how the family approach you is very important because if I get treated as a family member I would really love what I’m doing
@@joy9367 yes being family is the spirit of the program and not every family does this. Id encourage au pairs to ask if you will be treated as a family member, ask them to describe what this is like. What's dinner like, how r vacations handled. Grocery shopping. Asking lots of questions on both sides is key.
You are so nice and this wast so helpfull unfortunetly there a lot of family that use aupairs as XXI century slavery to exploit people in need of a better live 😪
there is no such thing as poor table manners as a foreigner, just different customs. I remember being shocked in France that we had to put our elbows on the table because that's completely rude in Australia!
Hi I'm interested to be come aupair in Canada as a senior caregiver or housekeeper , I'm from Zambia so how do I apply? And 3weeks from now I will apply for work permit visa for Canada, please help?
It costs a host family between $25,000 - $30,000 American dollars a year. About $9,000 in agency fees. A little over $10,000 in weekly stipend to the au pair. $500 for education. And $5,000 - $10,000 a year in food, utilities, gifts, adding them to car insurance, gas, gym memberships, taking an extra adult on vacations, etc. Many host parents don't like the term "cheap childcare" because for most Americans this is very expensive. It's reasonably priced compared to a live-in nanny, but most au pairs don't have the experience of a professional nanny and there is a far bigger emotional and mental cost to hosting.
Depends on the country. In USA is around 10,000 dollars pocket money the year plus the acommodation in your house. You can find the aupair in aupairworld so you won’t need an agency. You pay a subscription I think is 100 dollars and you can find a lot of aupairs from different countries without an agency. An aupair is not expensive because she/he will work in us I think the maximun is 45h/week for less than 1000 dollars. If you have to contract a nanny she you will have to pay per hour.
Hello i just matched with a family i realy like them and they like me too so we did 3 video calls and chated on whatsup by messaging .but after that they do not answer to my messages often they send me a message like "we were vising our familly this weekend we will get back to you soon " after that we did not talk kz they work as doctors the familly has an au pair already but she is going this November . The thing iam worried about are they really going to get back to me kz they have already made a grp in Wstsup to talk with me and give me the whatsup number of their au pair i talk to here often. I understand they are very busy and i say to myself just wait they maybe are not ready to start the process since their au pair is not going yet until November but iam worried that they will not going to get back to me please help is it worth to wait since they said that they are going to get back to me thank you .
Well, you are in luck! Because this "slightly older" 😉 woman is definitely interested in being an Au Pair or Nanny!😎 I however do not have any kind of application or anything along those lines, on any of the websites or Apps that exist on the internet that is meant for those looking to work in this field of work. I do mean it when I say I am in fact interested in looking for a host to emlloy me. I would like to say that if you, or if you know anyone interested in discussing this more, by all means do hmu and feel free to maybe DM me through either email ( pandorawalker78@gmail.com ), maybe if you're curious about I spose seeing a bit better who you are talking to by checking out my Instagram and DM me (@pandorazsheneniganz6978) to talk more easily & privately. (I do wish to add that if you or anyone messages me, to bare with me if its a couple days before I reply, but I will definitely keep an eye out for any messages sent 😊)
Hi am Eve!, i have that great passion in taking care of kids too bad have exceed age limit for au pair but anyone intrested is free to notify me. Thanx.
Lady this is work not a vacation. Do you go to your full time job expecting to be bought a car and a cell phone and to go on vacation? I don’t want another child to take care of, i need someone to take care of a child. Nobody wants to work anymore, this generation thinks work is a fun place you go to, i got news for you.
Hello, am ethan..an au pair. I love taking good care of kids,taking them to school,I love playing with kids.. Interested host family looking for au pair should notify me.. Thanks
This should be mandatory viewing. You have the kindest, most honest advice.
Yes the key is mutual respect and communication. This starts in the interview process. I'm a host mom and an engineering intern mom (I've had 100s of college age young adults in my home over the last 20 years), and I do a lot of communication and over communication of what my family is like and what our expectations are. I then ask the same of them. The fit is key, it's like dating or interviewing a roommate. If the fit is good, it's a great set up and then just continue the communication and empathy from there.
Yes you’re right but as an au pair mostly we have it difficult because of the family .the way of how the family approach you is very important because if I get treated as a family member I would really love what I’m doing
@@joy9367 yes being family is the spirit of the program and not every family does this. Id encourage au pairs to ask if you will be treated as a family member, ask them to describe what this is like. What's dinner like, how r vacations handled. Grocery shopping. Asking lots of questions on both sides is key.
@@AmericanAupairHostMom yes thank you , I will be looking in June for a family in Germany so I’m very thankful about the infos 🤍
@@joy9367 check out some au pair you tube channels like au pair oh paris and for a host mom perspective check out mine
@@AmericanAupairHostMom yeah I have done that for a while now and let me tell you ,they help a lot
I am only two minutes in and you are already providing so many great insights. Thank you so much!
You are so nice I hope I find someone as understanding as you :)
I would say pay every week on Friday and give money for food..
You are so nice and this wast so helpfull unfortunetly there a lot of family that use aupairs as XXI century slavery to exploit people in need of a better live 😪
I love how assertive and honest you were….
I hope that my future host family will see this video :3
Do you also search for families right now?
haha you're the best :3
I hope find someone like you 🥺
This is the video that really clears the air
Hello Mam, thank you for sharing, you are a very kind person. Thank you for sharing the importance of mutual respect
U have a great n wonderful experience, great advice, n sensitive, how many hours they paid, any tips any week off etc,
This makes me want to become an Au Pair now!
Too bad I can't because of age and health :(
There is not age for aupair theres people that want old experience nannys you can contact them in facebook groups with out using a brand
@@elfrank333 really. Could you link me up kindly
@@elfrank333Aupair and a Nanny is differnt. Most countries have an age limit form about 18-26 years old for being an Aupair
Thank you for making this video.
I want to be your au pair! I love it
Your tipes are really good, thank you a lot
there is no such thing as poor table manners as a foreigner, just different customs. I remember being shocked in France that we had to put our elbows on the table because that's completely rude in Australia!
Hi I just wanna ask how to process my papers for work in USA and I’m from Philippines. Hope you can give me some info. Thanks in advance
Hello thanks for your excellent advice. And the egent they asked 250$ to pay for my registration fee is it true????
I wanted to be an au pair. I am a Filipino
thank you!!
That's the key 🔑
Awesome video!
Hi do we require A1 certificate for applying visa for an au pair?
Hi I'm interested to be come aupair in Canada as a senior caregiver or housekeeper , I'm from Zambia so how do I apply? And 3weeks from now I will apply for work permit visa for Canada, please help?
Hi am Zambian and I have been thinking about it for sometime.. how is it going?
Hi, how much does a host family pay to get an aupair?
It costs a host family between $25,000 - $30,000 American dollars a year. About $9,000 in agency fees. A little over $10,000 in weekly stipend to the au pair. $500 for education. And $5,000 - $10,000 a year in food, utilities, gifts, adding them to car insurance, gas, gym memberships, taking an extra adult on vacations, etc. Many host parents don't like the term "cheap childcare" because for most Americans this is very expensive. It's reasonably priced compared to a live-in nanny, but most au pairs don't have the experience of a professional nanny and there is a far bigger emotional and mental cost to hosting.
Depends on the country. In USA is around 10,000 dollars pocket money the year plus the acommodation in your house. You can find the aupair in aupairworld so you won’t need an agency. You pay a subscription I think is 100 dollars and you can find a lot of aupairs from different countries without an agency. An aupair is not expensive because she/he will work in us I think the maximun is 45h/week for less than 1000 dollars. If you have to contract a nanny she you will have to pay per hour.
@@melinakhoury4947 Do you work for AuPair world? Can you help me to become a AuPair
Where is the link to find a host family?
Hi. I am looking for a host family 🥰
Hello i just matched with a family i realy like them and they like me too so we did 3 video calls and chated on whatsup by messaging .but after that they do not answer to my messages often they send me a message like "we were vising our familly this weekend we will get back to you soon " after that we did not talk kz they work as doctors the familly has an au pair already but she is going this November . The thing iam worried about are they really going to get back to me kz they have already made a grp in Wstsup to talk with me and give me the whatsup number of their au pair i talk to here often.
I understand they are very busy and i say to myself just wait they maybe are not ready to start the process since their au pair is not going yet until November but iam worried that they will not going to get back to me please help is it worth to wait since they said that they are going to get back to me thank you .
im scared if i get an au pair shell hurt me
Hi, what about au pair that has a family of her own? Will that work?
Ok. So as a 41 yo woman looking into this as a job-Im definitely not 18! Oops! *still researches this job field anyways😁
I would be interested in an older au pair
Well, you are in luck! Because this "slightly older" 😉 woman is definitely interested in being an Au Pair or Nanny!😎 I however do not have any kind of application or anything along those lines, on any of the websites or Apps that exist on the internet that is meant for those looking to work in this field of work. I do mean it when I say I am in fact interested in looking for a host to emlloy me. I would like to say that if you, or if you know anyone interested in discussing this more, by all means do hmu and feel free to maybe DM me through either email ( pandorawalker78@gmail.com ), maybe if you're curious about I spose seeing a bit better who you are talking to by checking out my Instagram and DM me (@pandorazsheneniganz6978) to talk more easily & privately.
(I do wish to add that if you or anyone messages me, to bare with me if its a couple days before I reply, but I will definitely keep an eye out for any messages sent 😊)
Hi am Eve!, i have that great passion in taking care of kids too bad have exceed age limit for au pair but anyone intrested is free to notify me. Thanx.
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@@SafeWorkouts thanx linda
Lady this is work not a vacation. Do you go to your full time job expecting to be bought a car and a cell phone and to go on vacation? I don’t want another child to take care of, i need someone to take care of a child. Nobody wants to work anymore, this generation thinks work is a fun place you go to, i got news for you.
Hello, am ethan..an au pair.
I love taking good care of kids,taking them to school,I love playing with kids..
Interested host family looking for au pair should notify me..
Thanks