Getting OLDER... Single With NO KIDS...
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59 single no kids live alone peace and quiet and the freedom to do what i want no drama
I am 64 years old and I have never been married nor I do have any children, and I don't regret it at all. The single life for me is the best life, and I would like to tell all single men, " don't let the world try to shame you for being single, especially the so-called church ". Great video Nomad.
The Bowtie Professor!
good one, good session.
I remember when I was in my 20 I was crying when my relationships failed...now, when I see those middle aged women whit their kids I say "Thank GOD" it failed. Love you Sam.
Now I just avoid women with kids and baby mama baggage I'm 36 no kids
I need to be a billionaire to have a family prices are going up on everything 😂
Couldnt even imagine having kids in this crazy world. The joy they might bring ,IMO, isnt worth the freedom you lose. Truth be told, I always admire a young family. If they can make it work best of luck to them all!!!
100%.
Not saying I wouldn't have a relationship with the right woman.
The point is that the relationship with the wrong person is SO BAD that it's to be avoided in all scenarios...
@taketheredpill1452 Same here, all counts!
46 single with no kids. I saw what happened to 98% of all my friends and even though they love their children they have all told me I made the right choice being single and free .
36 single no kids live alone I get questioned all the time about why u don’t want kids who gonna take care of u when u get old I just tell people I can’t picture me bringing a child into this crazy cold world we living in plus kids are expensive everything is going up in price I can take care of me with the income I make I have no regrets on not having kids and I’m blessed with my life and how it’s going I just gotta take care of me
"gonna, gotta, wanna." Stop speaking like low IQ trash.
Mid 40s here and glad I didn't have them. I no longer get sad about it. Those feelings you describe have gone away with time. Raising a kid requires other family to be present and I don't have it. It's just not for me.
I agree with you, people that don’t want children shouldn’t have them.
I always wanted to get married and children. I’m glad I had my daughter. Never regretted that decision.
Like you say, the idea vs reality 😅
I am a childfree man at 42. 😎
47 yrs old man divorced after 12 years lived in my car for a yr and had to move back home. Guys, I wasted 14 yrs of my life in relationship/marriage. Im so enjoying being alone the peace of mind is out of this world
Better late than never!
You have made the wiset Descision of all to stay Single.
Never ever get married if it's just lust not love. Definitely never bring kids into this corrupt system
I have wrestled with loneliness a couple of times after I decided to go through life by myself, but have gotten over that years ago, and now I see what a true gift being single as a male. To me, there is a sense of peace that pays you dividends, compounded daily! I feel sorry for all those men in relation in today's family dynamics, where they are considered, and treated like the enemy or bad person. I often wonder how they can stand living with people that hate who he is, and are waiting for the slight discretion to ruin his life. Me too-I feel the same way, I dodge a 50 cal bullet!
Grateful to be single with no kids!
Childless at 62 but totally happy with long term spouse. Great TED talk.
BTW, I had my tubes tied at 19 and in the early 80's, it was hard finding a doctor that would honor my request. Believe me or not, my spouse had to sign permission for procedure before doctor would do procedure.
As I get older, now in my 40s, I find mating up and having kids is just the natural part of life. I know I don’t want to be alone and lonely in the future in old age so I still have time to find a spouse and have a kid someday.
@@travelingdude1621 It's later than you think.
I see couples in life they might seem happy on the outside but on the inside they going through it. Bills and stress, But as a single man you don't have to through that stress.
I am both single and childfree by choice. I don’t want a relationship let alone marriage, romantic partnership is expensive because of having to pay for dinners, parties and gifts to make the other party feel special and happy. I don’t want children because either because they are a lot more expensive from diapers, clothes, through school supplies, leisure activities and to a college/university education. Getting married truly is selfish to me because people just want companionship, sexual satisfaction and financial security through someone else. Having children way more selfish because they don’t ask to come into this world filled with disgustingness. I am damn well proud of my singleness and childlessness because I get to have a quiet, peaceful, drama free and stress free life and that I get to do what I want when I want.
So true , I’ve said for a long time it’s cruel to bring a new baby in this world. Also the sad thing is got kids having kids now then leaving grandparents to raise them. I’m single and no kids in my 40’s and I get lonely at times. But I don’t want kids and definitely don’t want to get married just because everyone says I should.
40 single no kids live alone
My future😂 but i live then with my twin brother (no homo)
Damn it’s crazy. There’s so many of us. lol
Me 2 .
We are so many coz we are the ones free.
Hallelujah!
I’m 37 yrs old no husband or kids. I’m not against marriage and children but I’m not desperate for that either. I’m totally open to companionship but ultimately I truly want to be happy in life period. I enjoy having alone time to recharge my battery it’s necessary 😊
I'm in my 60's and have seen a change that may resonate with you. IMHO, pre 70's, when a man and woman married, both of their mindsets were, "having children was part of their union." In other words, children were important, but they, husband and wife. were always at the center of the family unit, because the woman knew she needed the man for primary support. Now, it seems when children enter the relationship, the woman's minset (despite what she says it is) is "our marriage is part of having children." Therefore, she pulls the children to the center with her and pushes the man to the fringe, because in her eyes, he's not seen as necessary to survival as in the past. She begins withholding sex, affection and intimacy with the husband. This leaves the husband feeling unloved, unwanted and unappreciated, which he is. Sad times.
I'm in my seventies with no kids. Smartest thing I ever did as a young man was have a vasectomy.
No side effect from it?
Every young man in his 20s should play this video every morning before he starts his day.
I was engaged and I wanted 5 kids… oof, let’s just say I was 22 and dumb. Something snapped in me and ended things.. dogged a missle 😂
I was able to retire early because I don't have a family, but I struggle with loneliness and sense of purpose sometimes. Robots will not save us, how could they?
You just spent time watching & replying to a robot 🤖 machine.. which is your laptop or phone..typing your reply to interact, at this point I am the human connection but eventually there may be a better connection with you sharing your life & thoughts with a fully-featured robot 🤖 that can assist you & provide a higher level of companionship
Volunteer, foster some kids, rent-a-woman, travel, do something new. Go "serve" in some capacity.
@@glidkomer Yes, community and fellowship is most important in life. Please go volunteer and hook up with their crowd, serving those in need. It is such an improvement in your well-being.
robots can only be an extension of man they cant replace
@GTAWildestPolicechases I would have never got your comment if it wasn't for your phone/laptop you typed this message on, plus you could be a bot/robot.. the future is already here.. u are living in the past
Interesting. I cant wait to have a wife and kids.
My girlfriend in college was everything to me and it broke me when she dumped my ass. Now look at her... yikes... an angry Karen? It's crazy. She went from a 9 to a solid 1. And it only took 20 years. Good lord, it's crazy how things work out for the better. MAGA!
Are you exaggeration? From a 9 to a 1? I could see if you'd said from a 9 to a 5 but damn a 1 ? Lol
@@TheeeMYSTERY😂😂😂
@@ShutterSpeedGaming shiddddd I'm just saying 🤷🏽♂️🤣
@ShutterSpeedGaming Ole Angry Karen must've got hit by a BBQ food truck or sum
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I believe this advice is good for women too, not just men. I'm a woman and the thing that bothers me most about men is they are always hitting on me. I'm so glad I don't have to put up with them in a close setting and can do whatever I want to do anytime I want to do it. I have no stirings and I'm loving life. I'm much older now and it gets better and better without a "partner" in life.
I agree I never wanted a family of my own for various reasons. Also it’s better to actually want kids then to have them because it’s what your “supposed to do”. It’s not fair to yourself, your significant other or the children.
I think folks love to pile on unnecessary and hard to ditch responsibilities into their lives 👶🧒🧑🐕🐱🏠🏠🚗🛻🚗.
How old r you ?....im gna be 33 in 4 months ....i agree with you on alot of things
i'm a 19 year old girl and i feel the same lol
I made the right decision not having kids even when I started my relationship when I was a teenager I dodge a big bullet, living the free agent life style 😎
I used to be open to the idea of kids. As time has passed, staying childless was the best decision for me. 39, making close to 200,000. I’m going to be renting my home out soon and downsizing to a 1 bedroom duplex
66. married for 29 yrs. even living with some one you can be lonely.
we never wanted kids. when she died 6 years ago, lousy day, liberating day.
love living alone...
Im 65 single love it after two marriages date and lovefree meals and movies ect.
My two older bros have kids and are happy I always wanted to be a father but it wasn’t in the cards.
If your missing the touch and that joy hire is a great option.
It's Singleness for the Win in these harsh times folks.. We all have to leave everyone, thing when called.
When time goes on the newness wears off. I see so many wearied, unhappy, codependent, coupled folks staying together for the kids, pets and other 🙄 excuses.
42 single man, but I have 18 children through sperm donations.
Wtf.....you got 18 kids!! Do you ever see them? 😳
Great and the most crucial, life pivotal topic thank you Sir.
I'm glad to be single rather than signing that contract to look after her linage which so unfair.
When single you don't have that nagging wife poke at you ever day, I also remember your decade principle, where the old girl changes physically and mentally and turns into this boring disinteresting being where death is the only way out.
Never sign your life away 😉
Your ability to self asses your situation is a gift. I think everyone needs to be able to do this and it is not easy. I am single and I have thought at times this is the best time in history to be single because of the internet. T.v. was great when I was young but the internet provides a certain level of on demand interaction not found anywhere else. Good video!
Thank you 🙏✌️
hahahaahaahh you said hold out for whoooo robots
Robots!
Kids are gross
Sex is a sin
Stay single
Be strong find god
Sex is not a sin. Sex outside of marriage is the sin. Sex itself is just an act.
How silly IT is!
Robots iz the future? I think sexx dollz are the reel future.
Amen 🙏
I agree although I’m in the butt ugly category
Lol 😆.. You're Awesome. Stay Positive.. Thanks for the laugh and comment. 👍
Thanks for sharing Sam. Nice to see ya!
Thank you 🙏✌️
My dad told me one day. Hey son, Do you know what "the best thing about having kids" is? I said no Dad, what? And he said, "Making them".
Lust can definitely be a down fall.. that's why I am an advocate of masturbation, to clear the pipes & mind. Thanks for sharing 😉✌️
@@inspirationalnomad He has always been a funny guy. But there is always a little truth in good jokes.
This is why I have zero sympathy for single parents. It's a life choice and you fucked up, oh well
empathy is important, i dont want children or a spouse but thats mean
Mean and 100% valid !
If you were a billionaire would you want a relationship?
No, because even with money there is still a level of suffering & despair in life that is not fair for a child to be forced into. Same with a relationship, money does not solve all relationship problems, its good to experience love & relationships but it is also very taxing on the soul. At some point being single is a blessing to finish your time in this world.
I agree. Money CAN not solve relationship problems.
#antinatalism 🙌🏼
Children grow up and have their own children, then your on your own.
Once you have children, you are always on the hook.. even if it's just emotionally.. IT NEVER ENDS!
@@inspirationalnomadNow that's the whole truth. Likely there will be grandkids too 😧.
You have to be a sympathetic person to understand what he exactly mean to say.
What's your opinion on Benatar's asymmetry argument?
I believe you should need to take out a permit to have a child (Mental Health Check, Physical Health Check and Financial Health Check).. if we need to take out a permit to install a pool surely creating a new life in this world requires some level of validation to support the overall well-being of everyone involved
@@inspirationalnomad bro I think u didn't really read my question. But thanks for answering anyways 👍❤️
@lovethyneibor22736 I did read your question and from my research it answers the basic Benatars asymmetry argument.. which is should you procreate (have kids)...
@@inspirationalnomad it's related to procreation but it's more a question about life. But I think you probably agree with it so, was just curious to see what you would say
@lovethyneibor22736 I wouldn't say I agree with it, I would say if you are already here make the most of life in a Healthy & Positive way, and before you bring another life into this world have a serious evaluation.
What's good my brother. Meeting woman now, all these woman have kids, I have no kids at 39, is that a red flag
😃 That's a Blessing.. you're killin it.. Focus on you & Keep Pushing Forward in life.. you've been thru enough.. Self-Care will keep you busy & fulfilled all the days of your life. Love & Respect to you brother 🙏🌴💰🔥✌️
Im also torn on this topic. Had good relationships and now been single for a while. I feel the loneliness but it does become harder to meet people as we get older. Girls have more baggage and it makes you think about dying in a nursing home with no one
If you love God and take care of yourself you will not die in a nursing home. Nursing homes are for the God less