Aww I feel bad for the guy, I was doing squats the wrong way at the gym one day and this guy came and showed me how to do them properly and after I did them his way I didn’t feel any back pain at all and I thank him and he did not bother me after that I thought that was very nice of him, ladies every guy that tries to help is not trying to get with you. 🤦🏽♀️
not every lady in the gym needs help, it just respectful to ask first. That's all. we can't blame everything on someone trying talk to u, she knew what she was doing from the looks of it, the mat was not going to help her form on a padded floor.
Bet if it was a Brad the story would be about how this nice zaddy walked up and was so kind to the black woman and this would be posted under divester stories. It is a lose lose situation with them you try to do something nice and it's a problem and videos like this have to be posted calling you out as some weirdo to shame you like you were caught screwing little kids or something.
I don't see nothing wrong in the video from either side. Only issue is her putting him on blast on the internet for trying to help. Like hey look everybody this dude tried to help me but I didn't like the manner he did it. Which in the end made her the rude person of the situation. The other day I seen the same type video with a woman getting upset bc a man opened a door for her. She was complaining about she's a strong independent woman and don't need no man to open the door for her. Making men not want to be nice anymore. Messing it up for women who respect a gentleman.
@@jtinit lol...I've never heard of a woman complaining about men opening doors for them. It's usually the other way around. if a woman did that to me, I would slam the door in her face.
That was crazy. When I'm at the gym from time to time I see women doing some wrong stuff that going to mess their stuff up, but I keep my mouth shut, and keep moving.
@The Almighty Lord Of Honesty He just seems eccentric and awkward, it appears he was just trying to be helpful in his own way. She overreacted and then placed it on social media. What about the question, what kind of weird pleasure she's getting from humiliating a guy that was just trying to help?
Lol bro, y’all need to learn how to act in a gym. Yeah we see a lot of fine women in there but it’s rare they want guys walking up to them and trying to shoot their shot. A little advice, find what girls are into you before you approach them. Outside the gym you could be as free to approach as you want but for some reason girls don’t even want to know guys exist in the gym.
Then don't look at us then! Look at your own tiny weiner for all we care. There's a way to approach people if you see them struggling at the gym. I met my husband at the gym and when we met I thought I was using the weights right because I saw my dad and brother using them in a way and he nicely showed me how to lift them without causing injury to my arms, shoulders and back and it worked. I showed my dad and brother how to use them and they liked it and thanked my husband for teaching me that. Been married to him for 17 years now, still workout together.
@@natashathomas7759 obviously you're a weirdo. So based off of what she posted that guy automatically had to be in the wrong? You're probably into other women anyway. Hopefully not a transgender. People can look at what and who they want. I just wouldn't stare but most women are looking for the attention in the first place. Otherwise you would just work out without noticing every guy that comes anywhere near you. Smdh. You know what your outfit looks like when you put it on. Men are gonna notice. Its human nature. Even other women are gonna notice certain outfits
@@cipherP9 who is yall bro? You're probably gay or something. Dont condone the bs. Women will prop their asses up in a chair in the mens dressing room in a department store with a little boy and men won't have a clue that they are even in there. Yet no one is supposed to say anything. If a child is that small you need to have your azzes in the womens dressing room with him. As soon as you come out the stall accidentally with your fly open then what? There's just as many women perverts as men. Beta men like you that go along with this foolishness and push the narrative that most men are dirty minded is what's wrong with the world now.
Personal space?? Lol..Y’all scary af..U guys act like he came into the bathroom while she was taking a dump and told her she should use baby wipes lol..She could have said thank u and when he walked away just not use it.
I agree. It really wasn't that serious. This matter should have been done as soon as the guy walked away. But of course she had to run to social media with it ..
And you see why so many women these days are single, crying about a man who doesn't won't them! Boy Im glad I got gold with a sister who wasn't with that bullshit and genuinely wanted a nice man!
@@Sidewalk_Talk I hear you, but he did not shove the mat up under her. He shoved it under the other part of the bench. Take a look at the video again. We both know if he had done that, it would have played out a lot differently and these comments would have been far worse.
@@standupbcounted2420 Exactly. It's almost like we watched 2 different videos. But we didn't, some ppl read her text and didn't even pay attention to he didn't shove no mat under her. All while the video was right in their face. That's why the world is nuts ppl will believe what most women say. Even if they have the evidence of it being false.
@@itsruffoutchea6636 I did watch the video and to me it looked like he shoved the Mat under her so it was my mistake for seeing it wrong but at the same time some people just don’t want others invading their space period rather he shoved it under her or not he still got up on her without asking
Bet if another women went up to her it would've been ok to do that. But half these women out here are gay and have the same intentions that a guy would. Now if a guy is in a corner by himself working out it's ok for women to come over and go out of the way to interrupt your workout by talking and bending over in front of you.
Okay, in this situation she doesn’t need any immediate help, so his best approach would have been to ask her does she need any help. Now if she was about to cause herself an injury or harm someone or something, he could have used this approach and let her know why he gave his hand.
That part😆😆😆. Don't let a stuck up woman make you bitter, most women of this generation have sold ass at one point or another to get ahead. I would bet my bottom dollar this chick has. I'd bet the house.
I came and I do my thing and then I bounce, I don't even look at them. I'd try something like that only if she was making a lot of noise, otherwise I don't give a shiit
Being a trainer and training for over 40 years, I thought it was kind of weird for him to offer just a mat. I get those weird suggestions from time to time but it goes with the territory. I just simply say thank you but no thanks. I always try to be polite. Lol..What truly bugs me is while I'm in the middle of my set and someone walks up and start talking or asking questions. Some simply, just dont know better. However, I just simply ignore until I'm done, tell them that's a no no and simply ask "how can I help you". In this case, my opinion, it was extra and unnecessary for that situation to be posted on SM. Chivalry is never dead for me, I've taught my son the same and he still does requardless, as a man. Perhaps one day, these ladies will wish they weren't so quick to snap back when a man is only being a gentleman. Everyone won't say thank you or allow you to be a gentle person. Just be you and not let someone who may be just having a bad day change who you are and then miss your blessings.
First off! It’s how you go about doing anything 💯💯. If he would have asked before attempting to do that he would have been told no thanks. Save yourself some time next time lol! Just politely ask 😂🤣
Too fucking sensitive. Some people are just like that. I've been a personal trainer an fitness coach for or 30yrs .... And I've learned that to help only the people that pay you for advice. Otherwise don't because they think they know everything from reading a magazine 😂
I think it’s more about how he did it, he didn’t ask her if she would like it he just walked up and started preparing it and they’re complete strangers lol I wouldn’t want someone just walking up to me and start doing something I didn’t ask for especially if we don’t know each other
These broads are ungrateful and don't want to be saved. Next time when you see a chick at the gym struggling, let her struggle. DO NOT SAVE THEM AT ALL WHAT SO EVER!!!
@@BooHefner it was obvious. he made a move that didn't work. Such is life. Its not the end of the world. He was obviously trying to hit on her. No harm, no foul
Smh.. it’s about personal space and respect. He should have just opened his mouth and politely asked her if she would like a mat. People need to stop just invading peoples space.. dam smh just ask🙄
The way she rejected his help wasn’t bad, she let him down easy. Not a good idea to just start moving stuff around for somebody who didn’t ask for it, they would be more weirded out than thankful. For me, I’ve approached 2 girls at the gym before, neither worked out. But the 4 girls who gave me signals that they were into me, we were able to get to know each other on a more personal level. Girls guards are up at the gym, one idiot I know consistently approaches every single girl in the building until they stop coming to the gym.
Thats really being Kinda really considerate after drawing all that attention... Last time I checked there are women gyms..That means he's not gay... I'm sure he was the only one trying to chat GTFOH
Trying to figure out, how she's the bad guy in this? She was nice to him even though he invited himself into her space. If he wanted to talk to her he should have done that.
Nah bro. She put the vid on social media. That right there tells me she was just low down and dirty. No need for all that when dude was just being nice but clumsy at his approach.
As a man, you don't go up to anyone in the gym and offer advice, if you see someone struggling with weight you spot. That's it. Dude needs better way to get females 🤨🤨😔🤷🏿♂️
"invading her personal space?" So, if dude had walked up and started to do push ups or pull ups 6 feet away from her, would that still be her personal space if her camera was rolling and capturing the vid? Does she own part of the gym? i'm confused.
In this day and time, when approaching people, you need to orally state your intentions. Women already feel weird and uncomfortable in a gym.(for obvious reasons)
rule women like that make it hard for siesta's because dudes afraid dealing with nasty attitudes like that .a simple I'm good thanks i think would have been ok. and than she posted the video to go the extra mile to diss him.
She did not put him on front Street she just let him know that she was not happy with what he did and she was nice about it I don’t know what’s wrong with people these days. You don’t just impose your beliefs your thoughts and your actions on another that is inappropriate.
At least she wasn't rude, but you got men out here that even if a woman reject the guys either advances or help the guy will still have a temper tantrum and calling her our of her names, I'm glad this guy didn't do that.
directly not rude to him but indirectly super rude by putting him on blast on social media. She was trying to shame him to the masses. Just despicable.
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This is why I don't offer to help anyone. It doesn't pay to be nice.
Facts.
Aww I feel bad for the guy, I was doing squats the wrong way at the gym one day and this guy came and showed me how to do them properly and after I did them his way I didn’t feel any back pain at all and I thank him and he did not bother me after that I thought that was very nice of him, ladies every guy that tries to help is not trying to get with you. 🤦🏽♀️
not every lady in the gym needs help, it just respectful to ask first.
That's all.
we can't blame everything on someone trying talk to u, she knew what she was doing from the looks of it, the mat was not going to help her form on a padded floor.
not everyone at the gym needs help.
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Those types of women are mainly for show and usually beautiful but have jacked-up attitudes. I wouldn't be surprised if she's a single lady.
Bet if it was a Brad the story would be about how this nice zaddy walked up and was so kind to the black woman and this would be posted under divester stories. It is a lose lose situation with them you try to do something nice and it's a problem and videos like this have to be posted calling you out as some weirdo to shame you like you were caught screwing little kids or something.
Factual
He wasn't trying to be nice, he was trying to be slick. Next just ask her out
She wasn't rude, she just said she didn't need it, then she said "Thank you love." No harm, no foul.
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It's the way she put him on show on twitter
I don't see nothing wrong in the video from either side. Only issue is her putting him on blast on the internet for trying to help. Like hey look everybody this dude tried to help me but I didn't like the manner he did it. Which in the end made her the rude person of the situation. The other day I seen the same type video with a woman getting upset bc a man opened a door for her. She was complaining about she's a strong independent woman and don't need no man to open the door for her. Making men not want to be nice anymore. Messing it up for women who respect a gentleman.
She wasn't rude until she posted this nothing ass situation on social media for attention.
@@jtinit lol...I've never heard of a woman complaining about men opening doors for them. It's usually the other way around. if a woman did that to me, I would slam the door in her face.
That was crazy. When I'm at the gym from time to time I see women doing some wrong stuff that going to mess their stuff up, but I keep my mouth shut, and keep moving.
nowadays that's probably the best thing to do bro. never know what kind of reaction you gone get.
She came there looking for attention. If it was someone she was attracted to it probably would not have been a problem
FACTS
She could be a Lesbian
No, it DEFINITELY would not have been a problem..smh
Black folks, both men and women need to re learn how to communicate with each other. Period.
@The Almighty Lord Of Honesty .....
@The Almighty Lord Of Honesty He just seems eccentric and awkward, it appears he was just trying to be helpful in his own way. She overreacted and then placed it on social media. What about the question, what kind of weird pleasure she's getting from humiliating a guy that was just trying to help?
Great example of opperating in that masculine energy and not knowing how to operate in the feminine. Very Sad. No grace whatsoever. Smh.
That's why I don't say crap to these fools and weirdos in the gym. Some women have gotten way too weird. You can't even look at them anymore
Lol bro, y’all need to learn how to act in a gym. Yeah we see a lot of fine women in there but it’s rare they want guys walking up to them and trying to shoot their shot. A little advice, find what girls are into you before you approach them. Outside the gym you could be as free to approach as you want but for some reason girls don’t even want to know guys exist in the gym.
Then don't look at us then! Look at your own tiny weiner for all we care. There's a way to approach people if you see them struggling at the gym. I met my husband at the gym and when we met I thought I was using the weights right because I saw my dad and brother using them in a way and he nicely showed me how to lift them without causing injury to my arms, shoulders and back and it worked. I showed my dad and brother how to use them and they liked it and thanked my husband for teaching me that. Been married to him for 17 years now, still workout together.
@@natashathomas7759 obviously you're a weirdo. So based off of what she posted that guy automatically had to be in the wrong? You're probably into other women anyway. Hopefully not a transgender. People can look at what and who they want. I just wouldn't stare but most women are looking for the attention in the first place. Otherwise you would just work out without noticing every guy that comes anywhere near you. Smdh. You know what your outfit looks like when you put it on. Men are gonna notice. Its human nature. Even other women are gonna notice certain outfits
@@cipherP9 You're fight o totally agee. The woman has aher riht to refuse and she did. The dude should have approached and asked, simple.
@@cipherP9 who is yall bro? You're probably gay or something. Dont condone the bs. Women will prop their asses up in a chair in the mens dressing room in a department store with a little boy and men won't have a clue that they are even in there. Yet no one is supposed to say anything. If a child is that small you need to have your azzes in the womens dressing room with him. As soon as you come out the stall accidentally with your fly open then what? There's just as many women perverts as men. Beta men like you that go along with this foolishness and push the narrative that most men are dirty minded is what's wrong with the world now.
Personal space?? Lol..Y’all scary af..U guys act like he came into the bathroom while she was taking a dump and told her she should use baby wipes lol..She could have said thank u and when he walked away just not use it.
I agree. It really wasn't that serious. This matter should have been done as soon as the guy walked away. But of course she had to run to social media with it ..
yep
And you see why so many women these days are single, crying about a man who doesn't won't them! Boy Im glad I got gold with a sister who wasn't with that bullshit and genuinely wanted a nice man!
he was just trying too be nice...some ladies are too uptight and mean for no reason
And she rejected him in a nice way. He could have asked if she needed help first, not coming up to her invading her personal space.
yeah he was just being nice and showing interest. she was more interested in the workout to care, which is fine too🤣
Just ask first bro
Nothing wrong with what he did.
Yeah it is lol you just don’t walk up on a complete stranger and start shoving a mat under her without asking if she wants or needs it first
@@Sidewalk_Talk I hear you, but he did not shove the mat up under her. He shoved it under the other part of the bench. Take a look at the video again. We both know if he had done that, it would have played out a lot differently and these comments would have been far worse.
@@standupbcounted2420 Exactly. It's almost like we watched 2 different videos. But we didn't, some ppl read her text and didn't even pay attention to he didn't shove no mat under her. All while the video was right in their face. That's why the world is nuts ppl will believe what most women say. Even if they have the evidence of it being false.
@@standupbcounted2420 true
@@itsruffoutchea6636 I did watch the video and to me it looked like he shoved the Mat under her so it was my mistake for seeing it wrong but at the same time some people just don’t want others invading their space period rather he shoved it under her or not he still got up on her without asking
What’s weird about trying to help a woman
Bet if another women went up to her it would've been ok to do that. But half these women out here are gay and have the same intentions that a guy would. Now if a guy is in a corner by himself working out it's ok for women to come over and go out of the way to interrupt your workout by talking and bending over in front of you.
Okay, in this situation she doesn’t need any immediate help, so his best approach would have been to ask her does she need any help. Now if she was about to cause herself an injury or harm someone or something, he could have used this approach and let her know why he gave his hand.
@@cipherP9 Um no... not buying it lol
If he was white she would have smiled and said thank you.
or Michael B Jordan.
That part😆😆😆. Don't let a stuck up woman make you bitter, most women of this generation have sold ass at one point or another to get ahead. I would bet my bottom dollar this chick has. I'd bet the house.
EXACTLY
And this is why you see so many brothers with women of different races.
That's why you can't be nice to theses sistas you have to ignore them. And act like they don't exist and seev aint even that fine no way.
I came and I do my thing and then I bounce, I don't even look at them. I'd try something like that only if she was making a lot of noise, otherwise I don't give a shiit
The twist was that dude was gay
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Being a trainer and training for over 40 years, I thought it was kind of weird for him to offer just a mat. I get those weird suggestions from time to time but it goes with the territory. I just simply say thank you but no thanks.
I always try to be polite. Lol..What truly bugs me is while I'm in the middle of my set and someone walks up and start talking or asking questions. Some simply, just dont know better. However, I just simply ignore until I'm done, tell them that's a no no and simply ask "how can I help you".
In this case, my opinion, it was extra and unnecessary for that situation to be posted on SM.
Chivalry is never dead for me, I've taught my son the same and he still does requardless, as a man.
Perhaps one day, these ladies will wish they weren't so quick to snap back when a man is only being a gentleman. Everyone won't say thank you or allow you to be a gentle person. Just be you and not let someone who may be just having a bad day change who you are and then miss your blessings.
First off! It’s how you go about doing anything 💯💯. If he would have asked before attempting to do that he would have been told no thanks. Save yourself some time next time lol! Just politely ask 😂🤣
stephiscold finna have a field day with this one 😂😂
Too fucking sensitive. Some people are just like that. I've been a personal trainer an fitness coach for or 30yrs .... And I've learned that to help only the people that pay you for advice. Otherwise don't because they think they know everything from reading a magazine 😂
Just tacky, wow when trying to help.
I think it’s more about how he did it, he didn’t ask her if she would like it he just walked up and started preparing it and they’re complete strangers lol I wouldn’t want someone just walking up to me and start doing something I didn’t ask for especially if we don’t know each other
Its his fault for trying to help when she didn't ask for his help!
These broads are ungrateful and don't want to be saved. Next time when you see a chick at the gym struggling, let her struggle. DO NOT SAVE THEM AT ALL WHAT SO EVER!!!
When doing too much gets you embarrassed.
he made a play and it failed. it happens. a lot of women love this approach when they like you.
So he told you he was trying to make a play? Of course he didn't so stop making shit up
@@BooHefner it was obvious. he made a move that didn't work. Such is life. Its not the end of the world. He was obviously trying to hit on her. No harm, no foul
Smh.. it’s about personal space and respect. He should have just opened his mouth and politely asked her if she would like a mat. People need to stop just invading peoples space.. dam smh just ask🙄
Look like he use an excuse to get a close up of her. That was weird.
The way she rejected his help wasn’t bad, she let him down easy. Not a good idea to just start moving stuff around for somebody who didn’t ask for it, they would be more weirded out than thankful. For me, I’ve approached 2 girls at the gym before, neither worked out. But the 4 girls who gave me signals that they were into me, we were able to get to know each other on a more personal level. Girls guards are up at the gym, one idiot I know consistently approaches every single girl in the building until they stop coming to the gym.
Ask FIRST.
This shit looks fake as hell, putting a small yoga mat under someone mid workout would only create potential accidents.
Thats really being Kinda really considerate after drawing all that attention... Last time I checked there are women gyms..That means he's not gay... I'm sure he was the only one trying to chat GTFOH
Conveniently post video of guy trying to help, turns into omg he us in my space lmao. Definitely not for social media 🙄. The nerve of that guy lol
She ain’t do nothing wrong she just said she was cool. Dudes gotta stop being so emotional when they get rejected lol
I didn’t see him act emotionally. I just seen walked away so what is you talking about?
@@H2ThaP I wasn’t talking about him I’m talking about the dudes that were in her comments talking bad about her.
@@RevolutionaryNews314 oh gotcha
Trying to figure out, how she's the bad guy in this? She was nice to him even though he invited himself into her space. If he wanted to talk to her he should have done that.
Nah bro. She put the vid on social media. That right there tells me she was just low down and dirty. No need for all that when dude was just being nice but clumsy at his approach.
As a man, you don't go up to anyone in the gym and offer advice, if you see someone struggling with weight you spot. That's it. Dude needs better way to get females 🤨🤨😔🤷🏿♂️
"invading her personal space?" So, if dude had walked up and started to do push ups or pull ups 6 feet away from her, would that still be her personal space if her camera was rolling and capturing the vid? Does she own part of the gym? i'm confused.
She's most likely in the private membership room where you could have a private spot to exercise. If she's there then she doesn't want nobody near her
@@daughterofisrael671 Possibly but since we don't know that all we can do is assume...either way.
She owns her own ass and he was pushing the mat under it.
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In this day and time, when approaching people, you need to orally state your intentions. Women already feel weird and uncomfortable in a gym.(for obvious reasons)
In this day and age you let them get hurt
@@craiggattereau2884 I'm not letting anyone get hurt, if I can help it. 😶
rule women like that make it hard for siesta's because dudes afraid dealing with nasty attitudes like that .a simple I'm good thanks i think would have been ok. and than she posted the video to go the extra mile to diss him.
Get your own gym to record in and stop wasting other people's work out time. Let someone who knows how to use those handlebars get a turn. Share
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She did not put him on front Street she just let him know that she was not happy with what he did and she was nice about it I don’t know what’s wrong with people these days. You don’t just impose your beliefs your thoughts and your actions on another that is inappropriate.
Why post then lol move on clout 🤳
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Cause she can that’s why
@@Kiki-jx6by andddd...that's why she was being low down and dirty.
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He just wanted attention
At least she wasn't rude, but you got men out here that even if a woman reject the guys either advances or help the guy will still have a temper tantrum and calling her our of her names, I'm glad this guy didn't do that.
directly not rude to him but indirectly super rude by putting him on blast on social media. She was trying to shame him to the masses. Just despicable.