Moses said he didn’t want to marry a Pastor, and that is in keeping with scripture since women aren’t supposed to be pastors. He did say, “No offense, ladies,” so whether it’s his personal stand that women should not be pastors, I don’t know.
A true Christian that has a relationship with Christ will uphold the biblical tenets of marriage and will not want to dominate a partner in a marriage.
God did not create marriage to be a business transaction oh. Follow God's lead and marry the man or woman that He points to you and at the right time. The person that God created and prepared for you so you can support each other in fulfilling your purposes on earth. A God-given spouse is a gift from God and every gift of God is good and perfect! Only He knows the right partner for each of us. Trust in God and lean not on your own understanding in the decision of a life partner. Money, power, connection, influence and other worldly things cannot guarantee a happy and successful marriage or life. Neither can they guarantee future prosperity. Only God can guarantee happiness, success and prosperity if we follow His will for our lives.
Funny enough that is what I thought when I learned that the women have US and UK citizenship. The couples love each other and I am happy they still benefit from the union.
This discussion brings proverbs 31 to mind. King Lemuel's mom asked him to marry a virtuous and respectful woman, an entrepreneur, a wise woman, a powerful homemaker and a prayerful woman ohh... King Lemuel's mom understood the assignment a long time ago... He brought wealth, excellent character and status to the table... interesting topic though Thank you Asy mouahh Modesty aka quiet luxury😂😂 if you know you know
To me, Moses has made it clear what she’s bringing to the table, that is, she is someone he will serve the Lord with. Two cannot walk together unless they agree.
😅😅 well, I wish them well. For me, follow God's leading when it comes to marriage matters and life generally. The future only God can see the end from the beginning. All the best to them all.
Love is never enough for the sustainability of marriage. You need to use both your heart (love) and your head/brain to make a decision of who to spend forever with. Meanwhile, Tiwi is Otedola’s niece not daughter, there’s a big difference there.
Nice angel. You are so right.As a guy I will choose a woman who that has value. If we are being honest with ourself all relationships are transactional. As men we also have standards and we are not going to settle.
My daughter is 21 doung a double major, father is a CEO of a bank. Her shareholding portfolio is glibal from age of one year. Poease bring your son to screen. She is a tall dark beauty. She had contracts with a few international companies...she is well travelling and is a believer.
It didn't start today. But i want to point out that most guys who married for money End up divorcing or miserable especially when the girl fibds out their motive.
Same can be said for women. However these people don’t marry for money per se, they marry secure women(education, finance, beauty, background) the whole package. I think love marriages only last as long as the selfish party is still broke. Once they get money, power or influence… they change. Eg Yul scattered his 17years love marriage, Kasim scattered his 20years love marriage.
I totally agree. No man wants a liability these days. We have watched too many Nollywood videos where the oga marries his maid. It looks believable but doesn’t really happen a lot in real life. I’m an avid Nollywood viewer by the way 😂
Hello ma, I only started watching ur video, I mean this but ur understand struck me n I subscribed because u are just saying the exact thing I was telling people.... I told pple as Christians there's a way we do things, we don't just do things like every other person. Moses bliss is a believer n u don't expect him to play with the purpose of God for his life, he can't just marry just anybody. There's a difference when you're a believer.
I don't agree with her. I don't think Moses Bliss is going to apply for a British or US citizenship because that would require relocating and as a successful musician, I don't see him doing that. The girl is a decent girl and that's why he proposed to her. Should girls from rich homes not marry?
You're funny bro 😂 What happened to vacationing, schooling for kids, skipping vis applications, all the benefits these passports attract include easy entry into several other countries sans visa
Dey play😅.. If you know the way men's brains calculate, you won't have this fairytale lala land mindset. Men are no longer seeing vision of pepper seller as wife when they're praying for God's will..
@@Ngozin1 It does not work that way, you have to live in the UK with your spouse for a minimum of 5 years before you can even apply to get citizenship. (If he travels for a month, it will be deducted from the time he has stayed in the UK and this guy has performances weekly) . Google it, I'm a lawyer, no country dishes out citizenship by marriage to people living abroad. This guy is already visiting the UK and other countries and being hosted like royalty. I saw a video of him being picked up from the airport in the UK with a Rolls Royce and bouquets. I'm a lawyer, I live in the US and I know the level he operates globally, she will never get there on her own. Moses doesn't need her citizenship, he's already above her level
@@chia4031 There is absolutely no benefit to Moses by marrying a UK citizen unless he obtains UK residence permit by living with her in the UK for 5 uninterrupted years. Moses already visits the UK and other countries where he is received like a king. Let's be realistic, there's absolutely nothing Marie can add to him in material terms except love and respect.
She is right though. It has been in existence for long. One thing to note is marriage benefits men more. Men marry women significantly younger to have a care giver in the marriage, free domestic help, free cook, free se#x, child bearing to carryon their name etc.
A godly man should want a woman with a gentle and quiet spirit, one who dresses modestly (as in well covered up and not extravagant.). He doesn’t want to end up with one of those Proverbs contentious women. But according to Proverbs 31, a woman should also be industrious, hard-working and the like. The Bible says a woman is to be a keeper at home, therefore she will want to marry a man with enough resources to support her and the children. I do realize most people don’t live by these standards anymore, but these are the things the Bible put forth as what we should be looking for in a spouse. If a man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church, she should be looking for someone who lays his life down for her. Also, she is supposed to honor, respect and obey him, so he should be looking for a woman who builds him up, complements him and has a submissive spirit. Most people don’t live by these principles now, but this is Bible, and these are the things we should be bringing to the table. The number one thing that we should bring to the table is a life sold out to Jesus Christ, life of one who has made Jesus their First Love, one who is baptized with the Holy Spirit, and one who lives their life with their eyes on eternity, not on temporal things. A man and woman should be coming together for what they can accomplish for the Lord, not for what their mate can do for them.
I agree with that lady - a lot of men marry for transactions- se they should not prosper ni? Women do the same ke? As long as they don't mess up. Me sef, when I married, I made sure my husband's head was correct o, ne sef, i dey kampe by God's grace. I can't come and suffer. Everyone BETTER bring something to the table, oha!
That lady's claim is misleading to women. Women are already hypergamous and telling them to be more transactional in love is telling them to be even more hypergamous which will leave a lot of successful women unmarried like Dj Cuppy and Linda Ikeji. The basis of marriage should Always be love. Women should also be easy to get along with, cooperative with their man and respect his leadership no matter how rich she is
Luke 23:34 - May The Lord have mercy. Please people do not be deceived, to those that live by flesh and are carnal minded this may be true. However for those that live by The Spirit it is a false tactic from the pit of hell. A God fearing marriage is not one that is concerned about carnal affairs but rather matters from above. This is why The Bible warns us in Matthew 6:33 to set our minds on the things from above because the truth of the matter is once you decide to unapologetically set your focus on Jesus Christ, the author and finisher of our Faith He will direct your steps and the true goal is to stay on the narrow path to make it into Heaven if He is to call you home first or when He appears for the rapture.
There’s no rules to marriage/ relationship but please understand that none of us control/write our love stories. You may be wanting your own love story to go a certain way but that’s not the way fate has ordained it. Please learn and understand all of the rules, terms and conditions of what OUR men want and are looking for. Be wise and play accordingly. When you now find a guy that you are sure has fallen for your hand waka, that’s when you can begin to dictate what you want in life. Just my two cents…
I don't see what's transactional in Moses Bliss marriage from Moses point of view. Transactional means he's getting money or citizenship and he's not getting any of those here. Moses simply chose a good, decent woman but materialistic women are reading their own intentions into his choice. Moses is not going to benefit from her being a UK citizen because he is not going to get a passport for marrying her. Asy, you live in Canada and should know better, a man can only get a passport by marriage if her relocates to the UK. Moses is not going to do that because he has a thriving music career, Nigerian artists always relocate to Nigeria if they want to blow, not the UK. Fact is, most men marry for love. It is women that mostly marry a man because of the resources he can provide and his status. Let's not pin this on men
@@carryme4393 That's not enough motivation for a successful young man to marry any woman. Men don't usually marry who can provide for them or their kids
Transactional doesn't mean money oo. It simply means there is value you are getting from being the relationship. The value can be monetary or otherwise. Men are very logical beings they don't do things that do not benefit them. Its women that many times let emotions cloud their own decisions. Nobody is Jesus, that does things selflessly. When it comes to marriage, it has always been transactional for many men and women. If its not for you, why you no marry instagram baddie with bad character make you see shege inside the marriage. Whether you are marrying someone because of their family ties, their great character, their educational background as long as what they have would benefit the kind of future you see for yourself and your future family, you have choosen based on what is valuable to you and that is what is transactional. In the end, open eyes, select well, that's what Asy is saying 😊
Yes people should use wisdom but my problem is when they holy ghostrise it.say is the holy please Isaiah 11 talks about jesus not judging by the sight.
If you go to Banana Island to search for a spouse., you’d find a good fearing Christian. If you go to Ajegunle to find a spouse, you’d find a good fearing Christian as well. Same if you come to Canada. Where you cast your net, determines your harvest. Even Naomi told Ruth to lie at Boaz’s feet not the feet of other servants. 😁😁
Moss Bliss's engagement was out this world. Makes me wanna marry. And his fiancee seems perfect for him. The girl is beautiful, gorgeous and classy.
Moses said he didn’t want to marry a Pastor, and that is in keeping with scripture since women aren’t supposed to be pastors. He did say, “No offense, ladies,” so whether it’s his personal stand that women should not be pastors, I don’t know.
Marriage has always been transactional since 18th century
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Why the 18th century
@@AmadiSophia-bd6tu lol,whenever marriage came into existence
A true Christian that has a relationship with Christ will uphold the biblical tenets of marriage and will not want to dominate a partner in a marriage.
God did not create marriage to be a business transaction oh. Follow God's lead and marry the man or woman that He points to you and at the right time. The person that God created and prepared for you so you can support each other in fulfilling your purposes on earth. A God-given spouse is a gift from God and every gift of God is good and perfect! Only He knows the right partner for each of us. Trust in God and lean not on your own understanding in the decision of a life partner. Money, power, connection, influence and other worldly things cannot guarantee a happy and successful marriage or life. Neither can they guarantee future prosperity. Only God can guarantee happiness, success and prosperity if we follow His will for our lives.
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Well said 👏
God bless you.
God bless you. The foundation of the Lord stands sure....
Absolutely 💯
Funny enough that is what I thought when I learned that the women have US and UK citizenship. The couples love each other and I am happy they still benefit from the union.
This discussion brings proverbs 31 to mind. King Lemuel's mom asked him to marry a virtuous and respectful woman, an entrepreneur, a wise woman, a powerful homemaker and a prayerful woman ohh...
King Lemuel's mom understood the assignment a long time ago... He brought wealth, excellent character and status to the table... interesting topic though
Thank you Asy mouahh
Modesty aka quiet luxury😂😂 if you know you know
Exactly ppl forget that even in the bible marriage is transactional
To me, Moses has made it clear what she’s bringing to the table, that is, she is someone he will serve the Lord with. Two cannot walk together unless they agree.
If we look closely,we all marry because of what we tend to accomplish if we are together.
I agree with your angle of this explanation. 👍
That lady hit every nail on the head about men
Asy. Being spiritual minded is also something very important on the table. Clean spirit draws favour on the table
😅😅 well, I wish them well. For me, follow God's leading when it comes to marriage matters and life generally.
The future only God can see the end from the beginning. All the best to them all.
Love is never enough for the sustainability of marriage. You need to use both your heart (love) and your head/brain to make a decision of who to spend forever with. Meanwhile, Tiwi is Otedola’s niece not daughter, there’s a big difference there.
Nice angel. You are so right.As a guy I will choose a woman who that has value. If we are being honest with ourself all relationships are transactional. As men we also have standards and we are not going to settle.
Once a woman is valuable she will attract all types of men because she has what men naturally need in a wife and future mother to their kids.
Modesty is expensive.....natural hair girly here I can relate😭😩
Not here in ghana.
Natural is really appreciated here.
Most women here keep their dark skin, no perm and very simple.
The lady's idea of love and relationship is warped!
Really missed you Asy, marriage has been transaction from rhe days of our fore fathers. Well said Asy
My daughter is 21 doung a double major, father is a CEO of a bank.
Her shareholding portfolio is glibal from age of one year.
Poease bring your son to screen.
She is a tall dark beauty.
She had contracts with a few international companies...she is well travelling and is a believer.
It didn't start today. But i want to point out that most guys who married for money End up divorcing or miserable especially when the girl fibds out their motive.
Same can be said for women.
However these people don’t marry for money per se, they marry secure women(education, finance, beauty, background) the whole package.
I think love marriages only last as long as the selfish party is still broke. Once they get money, power or influence… they change. Eg Yul scattered his 17years love marriage, Kasim scattered his 20years love marriage.
I am blown away!!! Thanks for the bluntness!!!
You’re welcome!! I truly appreciate 😁
She is correct, it's an unspoken truth.
I totally agree. No man wants a liability these days. We have watched too many Nollywood videos where the oga marries his maid. It looks believable but doesn’t really happen a lot in real life. I’m an avid Nollywood viewer by the way 😂
Exactly!! Instead of them to focus on personal development so they too can have an edge. Nollywood and Hollywood keep selling fake dreams🤣🤣🤣
Fake dreams. They played us 😅
@@thecurioustravel 🤣🤣
Love this!! This was my train of thought even before watching the video. Not just love.
Hello ma, I only started watching ur video, I mean this but ur understand struck me n I subscribed because u are just saying the exact thing I was telling people.... I told pple as Christians there's a way we do things, we don't just do things like every other person. Moses bliss is a believer n u don't expect him to play with the purpose of God for his life, he can't just marry just anybody. There's a difference when you're a believer.
Many are the PLANS in a man's heart, but only the Lord's purpose prevails... Proverbs 19
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I don't agree with her. I don't think Moses Bliss is going to apply for a British or US citizenship because that would require relocating and as a successful musician, I don't see him doing that. The girl is a decent girl and that's why he proposed to her. Should girls from rich homes not marry?
You're funny bro 😂
What happened to vacationing, schooling for kids, skipping vis applications, all the benefits these passports attract include easy entry into several other countries sans visa
Dey play😅.. If you know the way men's brains calculate, you won't have this fairytale lala land mindset. Men are no longer seeing vision of pepper seller as wife when they're praying for God's will..
He may not live in UK permanently but lets be real he will get UK passport.
@@Ngozin1 It does not work that way, you have to live in the UK with your spouse for a minimum of 5 years before you can even apply to get citizenship. (If he travels for a month, it will be deducted from the time he has stayed in the UK and this guy has performances weekly) . Google it, I'm a lawyer, no country dishes out citizenship by marriage to people living abroad.
This guy is already visiting the UK and other countries and being hosted like royalty. I saw a video of him being picked up from the airport in the UK with a Rolls Royce and bouquets. I'm a lawyer, I live in the US and I know the level he operates globally, she will never get there on her own. Moses doesn't need her citizenship, he's already above her level
@@chia4031 There is absolutely no benefit to Moses by marrying a UK citizen unless he obtains UK residence permit by living with her in the UK for 5 uninterrupted years. Moses already visits the UK and other countries where he is received like a king. Let's be realistic, there's absolutely nothing Marie can add to him in material terms except love and respect.
Nice video. I also noticed that Alhaji Indimi is very strategic.
Well said Asy
I strongly agree with your points of view...
She is right though. It has been in existence for long. One thing to note is marriage benefits men more. Men marry women significantly younger to have a care giver in the marriage, free domestic help, free cook, free se#x, child bearing to carryon their name etc.
It is transactional
Period!!
In fact transactional sustains love
Yes !!!
A godly man should want a woman with a gentle and quiet spirit, one who dresses modestly (as in well covered up and not extravagant.). He doesn’t want to end up with one of those Proverbs contentious women. But according to Proverbs 31, a woman should also be industrious, hard-working and the like. The Bible says a woman is to be a keeper at home, therefore she will want to marry a man with enough resources to support her and the children. I do realize most people don’t live by these standards anymore, but these are the things the Bible put forth as what we should be looking for in a spouse. If a man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church, she should be looking for someone who lays his life down for her. Also, she is supposed to honor, respect and obey him, so he should be looking for a woman who builds him up, complements him and has a submissive spirit. Most people don’t live by these principles now, but this is Bible, and these are the things we should be bringing to the table. The number one thing that we should bring to the table is a life sold out to Jesus Christ, life of one who has made Jesus their First Love, one who is baptized with the Holy Spirit, and one who lives their life with their eyes on eternity, not on temporal things. A man and woman should be coming together for what they can accomplish for the Lord, not for what their mate can do for them.
Well spoken
New subscriber. Thanks for this thought provoking piece
Thanks for the sub!! I appreciate
I agree with that lady - a lot of men marry for transactions- se they should not prosper ni? Women do the same ke? As long as they don't mess up. Me sef, when I married, I made sure my husband's head was correct o, ne sef, i dey kampe by God's grace. I can't come and suffer.
Everyone BETTER bring something to the table, oha!
Well said. Marriage is not a social experiment.
Asy, you have said it all. Thanks for your bluntness. You must bring something to the table period 😂
There is fact in what she is saying. She said alot but some are true.
🤣🤣🤣Asy you won't kill me
Yes, the Spirit leads.... the Bible says it is they that are led by the spirit that are sons of God and if you know Moses Bliss you will know .
Asyyyyyy, happened 2 me I swear. Married a looser and he tried to knock me down
Thus guy would call me fat and ugly, he would tell me no one else was willing to give me a ring, I should count myself lucky he did
That lady's claim is misleading to women. Women are already hypergamous and telling them to be more transactional in love is telling them to be even more hypergamous which will leave a lot of successful women unmarried like Dj Cuppy and Linda Ikeji. The basis of marriage should Always be love. Women should also be easy to get along with, cooperative with their man and respect his leadership no matter how rich she is
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Luke 23:34 - May The Lord have mercy. Please people do not be deceived, to those that live by flesh and are carnal
minded this may be true. However for those that live by The Spirit it is a false tactic from the pit of hell. A God fearing marriage is not one that is concerned about carnal affairs but rather matters from above. This is why The Bible warns us in Matthew 6:33 to set our minds on the things from above because the truth of the matter is once you decide to unapologetically set your focus on Jesus Christ, the author and finisher of our Faith He will direct your steps and the true goal is to stay on the narrow path to make it into Heaven if He is to call you home first or when He appears for the rapture.
On point! 💯💯💯❤️❤️
Happy for Moses Bliss🎉🎉🎉
Very happy for him
Bless you Moses ❤
set yourself up 💞 well said dear
The key!!!
Assy ure too funny,l was jst rolling with laughter,u say the truth humorously
Even Bible said Encourage yourself in the lord. Thank you Asy
Asy you simply spilled factssssss
Even the Hausas marry on social standards too.
No space on the bench again,but we will manage ❤
There’s no rules to marriage/ relationship but please understand that none of us control/write our love stories. You may be wanting your own love story to go a certain way but that’s not the way fate has ordained it. Please learn and understand all of the rules, terms and conditions of what OUR men want and are looking for. Be wise and play accordingly. When you now find a guy that you are sure has fallen for your hand waka, that’s when you can begin to dictate what you want in life. Just my two cents…
Kindly share the app you spoke about concerning courses at reasonable price . Thanks
she spilled facts
You're a gossip Asy Darlyn and you're proud. You can still advise without insulting people. Apply modesty in your contents.
She didn't insult anyone. Everyone is imperfect. You are too. Nobody knows your weaknesses
Men...rarely marry without their calculator!!! They check well.......
😅😂😂😂
Asy darling full of wisdom
Thanks a lot dear
God bless you dear
Thank you o my dear , you can not go and marry intelligent girl and start commanding her anyhow, you talk very well
Bench set, we go we go
I don't see what's transactional in Moses Bliss marriage from Moses point of view. Transactional means he's getting money or citizenship and he's not getting any of those here.
Moses simply chose a good, decent woman but materialistic women are reading their own intentions into his choice. Moses is not going to benefit from her being a UK citizen because he is not going to get a passport for marrying her.
Asy, you live in Canada and should know better, a man can only get a passport by marriage if her relocates to the UK. Moses is not going to do that because he has a thriving music career, Nigerian artists always relocate to Nigeria if they want to blow, not the UK.
Fact is, most men marry for love. It is women that mostly marry a man because of the resources he can provide and his status. Let's not pin this on men
But if their kids are born in the UK, they’ll become citizens without having to live there.
@@carryme4393 That's not enough motivation for a successful young man to marry any woman. Men don't usually marry who can provide for them or their kids
Transactional doesn't mean money oo. It simply means there is value you are getting from being the relationship. The value can be monetary or otherwise. Men are very logical beings they don't do things that do not benefit them. Its women that many times let emotions cloud their own decisions. Nobody is Jesus, that does things selflessly. When it comes to marriage, it has always been transactional for many men and women. If its not for you, why you no marry instagram baddie with bad character make you see shege inside the marriage. Whether you are marrying someone because of their family ties, their great character, their educational background as long as what they have would benefit the kind of future you see for yourself and your future family, you have choosen based on what is valuable to you and that is what is transactional. In the end, open eyes, select well, that's what Asy is saying 😊
@obiflex Not True...I married one like that-from Ikun Ekiti....
My sista, she has a point oh
I believe in self improvement
100%!! Self improvement cannot be overemphasized
Asy, that profile pic on Facebook is hot! Love it!
Encourage yourself 👏🏾
Say, tell them what they need to hear. Tell them not to play 😊
Long time oh 😅😅😅 hope you are doing well
I’m fine😁😁 I’ve been posting consistently on my other channel (AsyDarlyn vlogs)
@AsyDarlyn thank GOD u are fine. I will check it now. Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪
ASY OF CANADA.This gist eeeeeee
You are very pretty and i Love your makeup.
Thank you so much!!
Love in the junction 😅😅
I’m confused what’s she doing about? Can someone explain in a nutshell?
Every women n3ed to give them self value
Yes people should use wisdom but my problem is when they holy ghostrise it.say is the holy please
Isaiah 11 talks about jesus not judging by the sight.
If you go to Banana Island to search for a spouse., you’d find a good fearing Christian. If you go to Ajegunle to find a spouse, you’d find a good fearing Christian as well. Same if you come to Canada.
Where you cast your net, determines your harvest. Even Naomi told Ruth to lie at Boaz’s feet not the feet of other servants. 😁😁
I disagree with her. That's not true. That's her mindset.
Agreed
Exactly! She has a very corrupt mindset that is guaranteed to lead to a failed marriage
Thanks
There is sense in all you've articulated,the video clip inserted though is a minus..
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🙏 amen
Fact 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Na true o
I love you!
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