Just make a plan, take money out of checking accounts put in a safe somewhere hidden in house, check his phone at night when he sleeps gets evidence, and then leave him
I married right out of high school to an older man. I learned soon after we married that he liked looking at women and his motto was, "Men will be men." We kept up a ficade of a marriage for almost a decade until I grew up and left him. He remarried but I vowed I would NEVER marry again. I have been single half of my life and I am happy and content. Marriage is overated these days but after the honeymoon is over, everything goes down hill fast. The magic fades away and divorce and remarriage for some is a never ending cycle. We live and should learn from the mistakes that we make and I have.
@@starrjohnson1327 I don’t think she’s saying that all marriages are doomed & that there aren’t good people out there, just that after being hurt she simply isn’t game to try again. I’m in the same situation. I’ve been in my own over 20 yrs bc I simply don’t trust myself or a partner I may meet. I’m happy & I hope you are too. Everyone chooses their own path & has to live with the decisions that they have made ❤ 🙏
My dad left us for a woman who at the last 5 years of her life treated my dad like garbage . My mom never treated my dad in such away. You always reap what you sow in this life.
Real eye opener. Such a secure family shattered. Hats off to the wife, who, though devastated,struggled past her emotions and determined to go on in life.
Attention all you women who willingly date, have sex with, chase or have an affair with someone else's husband: If he will do this to a woman he loved and married, had children with, he will always end up doing it to you.
That is what I always say. If they do it with you they will do it to you. A doctor Philism also is if you see one rat be sure there are many more you did not see. I wonder if my ex cheated all through the marriage. Probably did. He got married again also to a younger woman, got her pregnant and cheated on her too. They do not appreciate anyone nor are they capable of being honorable in any form.
It's possible but not always true. Depends on the dynamic between the one who is cheating and their mate. Maybe the love they had is no longer there and they later meet their true love... I've seen that happen. There are sexual flings and there are real heart and soul relationships.
"To find one that is honest and loving and strong is so rare now". I agree with you, but I had two loving parents that lasted for 68 years together, they got marry when she was 18 years old, and my dad was 40. It wasn't easy but they manage to stay together. They are now buried together sides by side.
I think that relationships were bad in the old days and women were unable to leave so I think its a good thing that they can leave now with financial independance, less taboo to divorce, women's rights etc so stop thinking it was better in the past.
Patricia Kalember gave a great performance as Tess, was very convincing, and Tom Irwin was particularly loathsome, also very convincing. Great movie, loved it.
I thought that my husband was my best friend and he turned out to be the biggest betrayer, ever. I was married for 50 years. My children side with him because he is happy. I am lost and in shock. What a waste. I never had a clue. He just walked out without a word to chase a 30 year old. It was and is horrible. I will never trust anyone again.
I was married for 20 years when he walked out on me for another woman. She taught him what betrayel is. He was devastated. His health took a downturn. I guess we're on earth to learn lessons.
Most men, not all, but most are liars and users and you can't trust them or believe anything they say. Long story, but if you have to play detective, then it's time to move on.
Mary, sometimes we are stronger than we think. Trust me when I say this too shall pass. Just put one foot in front of the other and most importantly...be kind to yourself
Hold on to your right way of thinking you did not cause your husband to cheat he did it selfish but these women who know that these men are married enable these men that is why karma goes back to them I wish you well it's happened ti me three times my first husband did it three times then I left him my second husband hus lover got him murdered and my last baby father he when back to his first baby mother was planning to get married to her they was having a second baby together only for his lover to get him killed so cheating is a very serious game you will reap what you sow ..thus time if my new man of 5 years ever cheat and I get to find put he won't know what my right hand is doing all I know I won't waste no words and just leave him but make sure I take everything with me and move far from him no speed nit words ...can't change a cheat ....
When cheating happens that phrase "Till death do us part" takes on a whole different meaning. The saddest part is that the cheater devastates families and children. They go on in their selfish fantasy. The "death" is of their honor, moral compass and respect. Things they will never regain. In effect, they have killed off a part of themselves that they will never have again. How anyone can be happy after destroying another is pure evil.
This is so true. One of my older sisters was engaged to the greatest guy, ever. He was loved by every single one of us. He was our brother, my parents looked at him like a son, everybody loved Ken. After 10 yrs, she cheated on him. It devastated every single one of us. I remember crying so hard, I grieved over that relationship ending, we all did. I feel bad saying this, however, my sister got her karma for that one. She was a beauty Queen, all the guys wanted her. She did that to him 30yrs ago, she hasn’t had a real relationship since, only guys that used her. She gained lots of weight & has been completely alone for the last 20yrs. I feel sorry for her, I do, she’s my sister & I love her. However, she shattered his heart. He found happiness, got married, and this was a little bit more karma that was rubbed in her face every single day, she ended up working with his wife without even knowing it for a couple of years, she found out at a Xmas party & they were “work friends”. They continued working together a few years after she found out. She got to see how happy they were. Him & his wife both passed away, a couple months apart from covid. I’m for certain he’s in Heaven! My sister still sits at home, alone & depressed. I was 20 when that happened, Their relationship taught me a lot of lessons.
In some cases there is forgiving and letting go …. It takes courage . Sex for men means sex and very often they feel sorry and guilty afterwards So if it happens only once and can be a “ hard lesson “ , how love can overcome this crisis … then one can maybe forgive , let it go and go a more mature level of marriage . But it’s also normal it’s hard to forgive , trust and overcome such a betrayal
Thou shalt not commit adultery is next to thou shatl not kill for a reason. God knows very well the consequences of such actions and don't want his children to suffer. Committing adultery is like killing a good part of yourself.
So true. I thought about this myself, once you cross that threshold, you cannot put the toothpaste back in the tube. And even if one could "get away with it", it will always be on the conscience. I believe there is a judgment after death, and I want to cross over knowing I was faithful to my wife with no shame or regrets. The Bible calls it the "pleasure of sin", but it's only for a "season". It's a dead end road, physically and spiritually. 1 Corinthians 6 KJV 18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
From the very beginning he belittled her about her abilities to work. This man disrespected his wife and yet in the end still dared saying ‘ I didn’t think you had it on you’ and expected her to lower her standards 🤦🏾♀️
Her "guilty as sin" husband is doing all he can to discourage his wife from continuing her new-found surveillance career because he fears discovery of his infidelity. I bet it's coming.
Every person's spouse who is a cheater should take notes. Protect your money and dignity and let the trash be thrown out. On the side note: What a fabulous actress!
"Wife says I love you"...Husband replies I hope you never stop... meaning no matter how many times I cheat continue to do so!😂😂 nail biter edgy the whole time for me well done.
I’m so happy she finally found out of her husband’s infidelity for all those years she devoted herself to him, their marriage and children and DID NOT REMAIN WITH THAT BETRAYER!!!! More women must do that AS SOON AS YOU FIND OUT THE TRUTH OF BETRAYAL!!! Once a cheater, always a cheater!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Agree knowing the truth good or bad is best otherwise you are doubting your intuition gut & all the little signs you picked up on which is very destabilizing ! Gaslighting 💯 %. After you are sure you can relax or set up the departure plan in a calm collected manor … or you may decide to stay if that suits you better but at least you’re not deceived you’re sure and you know who you are dealing with and behave appropriately protect yourself.
Tragic price to pay for him not being able to keep his pants up!! But a great teaching story about reclaiming and maintaining independence in a very powerful way. Her story is very inspirational!!
I wish I was as smart, I mean I was smart, actually I was smarter because I didn’t have any children with the bastards (ex-husbands). I really liked how well she carried herself in spite of everything.
Exactly. My so called man cheats on me and I know, confronts him about it and he Denies it and when he touches me I want to vomit until I told him it's over because the feeling I had for him is gone and it's not the same and he still acts as if he wasn't cheating.
It's because you think you know us bt you don't and scums have respect and they listen to our feelings cos you treat us like your brother and our last born😢
Something that caught my brain...Here it goes - when you give someone an "innocent hug" and your spouse catches that, please give them a quick, little detail of why the hug took place. In one particular scene, a guy (friend) was happy that marriage counseling was helping him and his wife...so, hence, a hug from both friends was used to show how great it is when things work out. Don't leave your spouse hanging in concern. Just sayin' 😊
@@daliairenellamosasparedes4215 Yes, true. And in the end (when she put her foot down - and showed she is the victor), he said he didn't realize she had it in her! And she said "I know". All those years he saw her as a sitting duck, naive, and a 'take care of everyone else kind of person (woman). These "affairs" for him were easy to come by. This is why in the end she said it was her, too...not just him. I think some women play the unsuspecting wife because they don't want to be called paranoid and such. But, if some women are going to conclude that all me have the "philandering chip" built in, then...cut out the cutesy persona right from the moment you meet a guy. Be yourself.
@@daliairenellamosasparedes4215that's how it always goes. Heard that men bunn is hotter than female bunn 😂😂 so I don't know why they still cheats and expect not to get cheated on 😊
I will quote Paul Newman when he told someone, "why would I go out for a hamburger when I have steak at home". If you don't think you can love and respect your partner, then don't get married. Don't destroy a family along with yourself. Stupid people always win stupid prizes.
Thats a classic old boys line to comfort the women. Also “ even though I eat well at home sometimes I want to go out to a restaurant, fine dining or fast food”.
What a disgusting creep the husband was. These dopes also put their partner's health in danger with possible STDs. Imagine your husband is swapping spit with every Trixie, Roxy and FeFe on the block and so are you. Twenty years he did this to her. She was way too nice to him. I understand adults in these movies are always thinking of the kids, but for my generation, our parents never thought of us, it was always all about them, so its hard for me to swallow her Miss Nice Routine with the lousy bum.
Absolutely ❤ I thought the same! 💯 % Evidence…. Video 🎥 with Sound ! 🎶 = ! No doubting or denying . The husband’s reaction was good and I think realistic he went through several tactics to win her over shifting as he realize the depth of evidence that she had I think she mentioned the little black book the references names so he couldn’t say it was just this one time it’ll never happen again but he was caught red-handed serial cheater and a serial liar. If only we all had that much evidence & certainty - whether we decided to confront them with it or not at least we have peace of mind & know who we are dealing with. Rather than falling into destabilizing uncertainty.
1:29:10 “what happened wasn’t just you, it was me too.” What a load of crap! I’m a guy and even I know he was the complete cause. Sure, maybe she could’ve been more responsive in some ways, but it doesn’t justify the cheating.
I have been in that situation with my first husband,but the funny thing was I told his second wife to be careful,but she thought because he left me for her she was special,nope she ended catching him with her best friend 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Im sorry but the daughter was disrespectful for having sex in the laundry room but gets mad at the mom for getting upset? Maybe im old school but have some respect
I would have reacted the same way initially as the mother by telling the guy to leave. I would not have tolerated the insolence from my daughter. The daughter, in respect to that scene, was totally in the wrong. It seems that the mother was always accommodating her family's needs at the expense of her self-respect. If I had talked to my mother like that, I'd have been picking myself up from the floor. I'm not exaggerating.
The guy is an idiot. He has a wife who is a PI and as you must never trust anybody 100% it is a question of time that she will get suspicious and find out.
I went through this and I was do relieved when it happened. He is still not martied to that and he is ashamed of what he did. When things go bad he always come and cry by me. He cant gorgive himself although I have gorgiven him.
Its a movie but i don't know why this man always plays these kinds of roles in movies. He reminds me a bit of Rob Lowe 😊 Its either they cheats in the movie, kill in the movie or does something bad in the movie 😂.
I can imagine how painful that was actually witnessing her husband in the act of an affair, Tess was a smart lady, probably a better detective than her husband, with no skills, her sister was so wrong to have kept that secret about the husband for 5 long years, but he's getting payback, great movie, 😊.
The pain of the betrayal had to be excruciating. It totally destroyed any love she had for him. When she told her sister she was done, it was fully understood that she meant it.
The saddest thing about that gut feeling is when you don't recognize it as that, and you think it's all in your head, only to later learn it's not all in your head after all! When too many things you kept getting feelings about start coming true over and over, you repeatedly discover it's NOT all in your head after all! Taking the first step to start listening is the hardest, with each step getting easier and easier This won't come overnight, it takes time
I just think they all do, given the opportunity ! I've been alone 21 years, and it stinks: but I'm never gonna trust another. And no, I never made it good, but I manage.
I'd hope that most don't cheat...just the kind that need therapy. That's like saying most people that go to hospice die. As a therapist, I should hope you are educated enough to know the difference between 'there' and 'their'...we learn that in second grade
If you’re going to leave your husband because he’s cheating, don’t confront him. He doesn’t deserve your energy. Make your plans and leave.
Yes… it could also get dangerous…. If you don’t know this person like you thought you did what else don’t you know?
Just make a plan, take money out of checking accounts put in a safe somewhere hidden in house, check his phone at night when he sleeps gets evidence, and then leave him
Exactly
That’s what I did. No closure. They always lie anyway.
I married right out of high school to an older man. I learned soon after we married that he liked looking at women and his motto was, "Men will be men." We kept up a ficade of a marriage for almost a decade until I grew up and left him. He remarried but I vowed I would NEVER marry again. I have been single half of my life and I am happy and content. Marriage is overated these days but after the honeymoon is over, everything goes down hill fast. The magic fades away and divorce and remarriage for some is a never ending cycle. We live and should learn from the mistakes that we make and I have.
Speak for yourself!
I'm sorry you went through that but not every marriage is like that. There are good men and women out there.
Good for you .u walk away..while me I stay with him for the sake of my children
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I don’t think she’s saying that all marriages are doomed & that there aren’t good people out there, just that after being hurt she simply isn’t game to try again. I’m in the same situation. I’ve been in my own over 20 yrs bc I simply don’t trust myself or a partner I may meet. I’m happy & I hope you are too. Everyone chooses their own path & has to live with the decisions that they have made ❤ 🙏
@Song bird: 💯💯💯💯💯!
My dad left us for a woman who at the last 5 years of her life treated my dad like garbage . My mom never treated my dad in such away. You always reap what you sow in this life.
💯🙏🏻❤️🩹
That sounds like my dad
@ 🙏🏻
Yes
And the next life (you reap what you sow).
Real eye opener. Such a secure family shattered. Hats off to the wife, who, though devastated,struggled past her emotions and determined to go on in life.
Attention all you women who willingly date, have sex with, chase or have an affair with someone else's husband: If he will do this to a woman he loved and married, had children with, he will always end up doing it to you.
Exactly! How you get them is how you lose them.
That is what I always say. If they do it with you they will do it to you. A doctor Philism also is if you see one rat be sure there are many more you did not see. I wonder if my ex cheated all through the marriage. Probably did. He got married again also to a younger woman, got her pregnant and cheated on her too. They do not appreciate anyone nor are they capable of being honorable in any form.
So true!!
It's possible but not always true. Depends on the dynamic between the one who is cheating and their mate. Maybe the love they had is no longer there and they later meet their true love... I've seen that happen. There are sexual flings and there are real heart and soul relationships.
Alot of women simply don't care though about the married men...they're just in it for the thrill of it.
So many relationships just dont make it anymore . To find one that is honest and loving and strong is so rare now
"To find one that is honest and loving and strong is so rare now". I agree with you, but I had two loving parents that lasted for 68 years together, they got marry when she was 18 years old, and my dad was 40. It wasn't easy but they manage to stay together. They are now buried together sides by side.
@@davidvasquez3564wtf would a 40 year old have to talk about with a 18 year old🥴🥴🥴👀👀👀👀
I agree nothing lasts forever anymore. It’s not like back in the day and the social media doesn’t help
I think that relationships were bad in the old days and women were unable to leave so I think its a good thing that they can leave now with financial independance, less taboo to divorce, women's rights etc so stop thinking it was better in the past.
@@davidvasquez3564 That's a massive age gap. Unacceptable now. Glad it worked out.
Great movie. How much betrayal hurts! You have to be strong to be able to forgive and move on with your life.
Nice to see a woman who has been cheated on over and over again have the self esteem and integrity to leave the marriage.
Where are you from
Your right
“The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies.”
So true.
I agree. Have experienced it first hand. The pain it causes is so deep and the scar it leaves is forever!
... and never stops...
@philanna38 but obviously, how could it be from an already enemy?
Sad but allways the case.
I saw this movie for the first time when I was a teenager and I’ve always found her courage to be quite impressive.
Patricia Kalember gave a great performance as Tess, was very convincing, and Tom Irwin was particularly loathsome, also very convincing. Great movie, loved it.
Tom Irwin is a great actor !! Severalyted overated. Would love to see him in more stuff
@@meighenhelmick3697Tom Irwin was great in No Higher Love
I thought that my husband was my best friend and he turned out to be the biggest betrayer, ever. I was married for 50 years. My children side with him because he is happy. I am lost and in shock. What a waste. I never had a clue. He just walked out without a word to chase a 30 year old. It was and is horrible. I will never trust anyone again.
I was married for 20 years when he walked out on me for another woman. She taught him what betrayel is. He was devastated. His health took a downturn. I guess we're on earth to learn lessons.
Most men, not all, but most are liars and users and you can't trust them or believe anything they say. Long story, but if you have to play detective, then it's time to move on.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. And especially the children siding with him. It must have been recent?
Mary, sometimes we are stronger than we think. Trust me when I say this too shall pass. Just put one foot in front of the other and most importantly...be kind to yourself
Hold on to your right way of thinking you did not cause your husband to cheat he did it selfish but these women who know that these men are married enable these men that is why karma goes back to them I wish you well it's happened ti me three times my first husband did it three times then I left him my second husband hus lover got him murdered and my last baby father he when back to his first baby mother was planning to get married to her they was having a second baby together only for his lover to get him killed so cheating is a very serious game you will reap what you sow ..thus time if my new man of 5 years ever cheat and I get to find put he won't know what my right hand is doing all I know I won't waste no words and just leave him but make sure I take everything with me and move far from him no speed nit words ...can't change a cheat ....
When cheating happens that phrase "Till death do us part" takes on a whole different meaning. The saddest part is that the cheater devastates families and children. They go on in their selfish fantasy. The "death" is of their honor, moral compass and respect. Things they will never regain. In effect, they have killed off a part of themselves that they will never have again. How anyone can be happy after destroying another is pure evil.
This is so true. One of my older sisters was engaged to the greatest guy, ever. He was loved by every single one of us. He was our brother, my parents looked at him like a son, everybody loved Ken. After 10 yrs, she cheated on him. It devastated every single one of us. I remember crying so hard, I grieved over that relationship ending, we all did. I feel bad saying this, however, my sister got her karma for that one. She was a beauty Queen, all the guys wanted her. She did that to him 30yrs ago, she hasn’t had a real relationship since, only guys that used her. She gained lots of weight & has been completely alone for the last 20yrs. I feel sorry for her, I do, she’s my sister & I love her. However, she shattered his heart. He found happiness, got married, and this was a little bit more karma that was rubbed in her face every single day, she ended up working with his wife without even knowing it for a couple of years, she found out at a Xmas party & they were “work friends”. They continued working together a few years after she found out. She got to see how happy they were. Him & his wife both passed away, a couple months apart from covid. I’m for certain he’s in Heaven! My sister still sits at home, alone & depressed. I was 20 when that happened, Their relationship taught me a lot of lessons.
In some cases there is forgiving and letting go …. It takes courage .
Sex for men means sex and very often they feel sorry and guilty afterwards
So if it happens only once and can be a “ hard lesson “ , how love can overcome this crisis … then one can maybe forgive , let it go and go a more mature level of marriage . But it’s also normal it’s hard to forgive , trust and overcome such a betrayal
That's so well said it happened to me after 36 years married
Thou shalt not commit adultery is next to thou shatl not kill for a reason. God knows very well the consequences of such actions and don't want his children to suffer. Committing adultery is like killing a good part of yourself.
So true. I thought about this myself, once you cross that threshold, you cannot put the toothpaste back in the tube. And even if one could "get away with it", it will always be on the conscience. I believe there is a judgment after death, and I want to cross over knowing I was faithful to my wife with no shame or regrets. The Bible calls it the "pleasure of sin", but it's only for a "season". It's a dead end road, physically and spiritually.
1 Corinthians 6 KJV 18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
She: I love you
Him: I hope you never stop
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I noticed that too!
I love you too?!
If that wasn’t the most narcissistic answer ever 😂
@GM-ue8xc
Oh yeah, I'm just learning this!!!
I thought I was the only one who caught that answer and thought it weird 😮
Wonderful movie, very sad and funny at the same time. Brilliant cast of characters. Thanks a lot to update this good movie to us.🎉
I haven't seen this movie in a long time and it's really good. Thank for uploading it..😊
Strange how men find it so easy to have affairs. I know men, all married who wants to start a relationship as long as their wives don't know. Sad.
Darling because sex doesn’t mean the same thing for women and men .
and women are worse because men love their wives and women simply use men, including their hubbies!
@@barbarax5179and because of that it’s ok go out there cheating?? If can’t control themselves don’t get compromised ever
@@barbarax5179 Well, there are women who have affairs. To those women it's either a need for intimacy/love/sex or excitement in their boring lives.
Same here
It's nice to see an older movie when people have not had work on their face and work on their teeth done they just seem like more real people
Getting teeth done is a good thing, if the teeth need fixing.
Exactly!!! One of the better lifetime movies!!
Absolutely!
I was noticing the same things,first the lips.
While the teeth have to be replaced due to some cause,the lips don't.
and not covered in tattoos and pumped with steroids and injections
Teeth that look fake!
Where is the heebie Jeebi emoji?
Marriage is not saying yes to me is saying no to everybody els
RuthRogers.you are absolutely right.hadnt thought of that .....♥️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Doesn't matter how perfect you are for them,all you do for them if it's in the to cheat they will.no matter how many years your together. sadly.
,,, it's BOTH !!!!!!
Cheating has the power to destroy a beautiful family 😢
Wow what a clever woman bravo 2 Amen2 nice job❤
Yes2 ❤
@@dinnydee7576 also a good relationship
The relationship was already damaged before the cheating. Cheating is an effect... not a cause.
From the very beginning he belittled her about her abilities to work. This man disrespected his wife and yet in the end still dared saying ‘ I didn’t think you had it on you’ and expected her to lower her standards 🤦🏾♀️
Done
Cheaters are
inconsiderate and
selfish
Exactly what I said!
Love this movie 🎬 thanks for the upload
Her "guilty as sin" husband is doing all he can to discourage his wife from continuing her new-found surveillance career because he fears discovery of his infidelity. I bet it's coming.
Actually he had me fooled. I didn’t believe it until she found his little black book in his locker 🤦🏾♀️
I feel it too. He’s definitely cheating
BINGO! Lol that was my first thought when he kept making her job a big deal. 😂 like dude, you just don't want to get caught playaaa😂😂
Every person's spouse who is a cheater should take notes. Protect your money and dignity and let the trash be thrown out. On the side note: What a fabulous actress!
Her beauty is breathtaking!
❤❤ Have seen this Alot. It is a very good movie Ty for the Upload 😁
"Wife says I love you"...Husband replies I hope you never stop... meaning no matter how many times I cheat continue to do so!😂😂 nail biter edgy the whole time for me well done.
when husband cheats, it's not jealousy as what others say but it's about Respect
Good for her, really enjoyed this movie thanks
I’m so happy she finally found out of her husband’s infidelity for all those years she devoted herself to him, their marriage and children and DID NOT REMAIN WITH THAT BETRAYER!!!!
More women must do that AS SOON AS YOU FIND OUT THE TRUTH OF BETRAYAL!!!
Once a cheater, always a cheater!!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I hate though at the end she said it was part her fault too. NO IT WAS NOT!!!!
These guys don’t realise what they have lost….till it’s gone.
half his net worth - bbye
That happens a lot. Among men and women, in my opinion. Good comment :)
Wonderful inspirational movie. Greatly done.
Thanks for the lovely movie ❤
Lovely? Really? Lovely?😊
oh how I loved this movie, and the ending, as he realized what he lost, and she showed him she has allready moved on!
but he waltzes in like he is still in charge...
@lisawentworth6831 Yes! But he will stop with it in time!
Amen!
Great Movie! Love the Ending. I've been there! And ended up with a Better Life! "Revenge is Sweet". So Sweet!
He seemed very resolved about it also.
It’s better to know the truth and deal with it. Than not knowing the truth and it emotionally keeps terminating your brain.
True
Agree knowing the truth good or bad is best otherwise you are doubting your intuition gut & all the little signs you picked up on which is very destabilizing ! Gaslighting 💯 %. After you are sure you can relax or set up the departure plan in a calm collected manor … or you may decide to stay if that suits you better but at least you’re not deceived you’re sure and you know who you are dealing with and behave appropriately protect yourself.
accepting reality isn't easy but necessary for a happy life
Such a good movie! Def recommend. They don’t make them like this anymore
Love this mother and daughter relationship every respectable.....watching in 2024 great movie
40 year marriage and 5 years dating. I took my vows very seriously (still do) sadly that wasn’t the case for my ex husband.
I learned a lot kot from this movie. Thank you.
Wake up call to all!!!
Loved the movie
Thank you for sharing
If I have to go through this much to make sure my man isn't cheating, I'm GOOD! I'LL leave for the both of us 😂🤣
Tragic price to pay for him not being able to keep his pants up!! But a great teaching story about reclaiming and maintaining independence in a very powerful way. Her story is very inspirational!!
Cheating is scumbag behavior. We need to address it, as a problem with both men and women. Cheating does not have to involve sex.
Ty for the upload ❤
I wish I was as smart, I mean I was smart, actually I was smarter because I didn’t have any children with the bastards (ex-husbands). I really liked how well she carried herself in spite of everything.
Why would you be intimate with a husband you suspect of cheating?
Or a wife for that matter
@ agreed
Exactly. My so called man cheats on me and I know, confronts him about it and he Denies it and when he touches me I want to vomit until I told him it's over because the feeling I had for him is gone and it's not the same and he still acts as if he wasn't cheating.
She did not have sex with him after she knew.
only a movie
He's such a horrible, selfish, unsupportive husband. I was so annoyed whenever he spoke to her about her new job. What a piece of work?!
No mobiles at the time to take the photos 😂
No Social media too find out he is cheating 😂
@@mermaid-y8m very good point!!
Excellent movie! Thanks!
Still baffles me how men can degrade their respectable & classy wives for scum
Because 😊they are scum themselves so they like scum!!!
Totally backwards throw eveything away for a female who doesn't even care about them, but that's men pleasure minded
Maybe they are scum themselves
It's because you think you know us bt you don't and scums have respect and they listen to our feelings cos you treat us like your brother and our last born😢
@sihlemthethwa6978 It's because they are dumb enough to believe your lies let alone Desperate for a man 😂
The husband is doing a good acting job on gaslighting the main character
He is a awesome actor. He was in "my so called life ,as the father and a good actor ! I wish he would pop up more often in movies !!
Something that caught my brain...Here it goes - when you give someone an "innocent hug" and your spouse catches that, please give them a quick, little detail of why the hug took place. In one particular scene, a guy (friend) was happy that marriage counseling was helping him and his wife...so, hence, a hug from both friends was used to show how great it is when things work out. Don't leave your spouse hanging in concern. Just sayin' 😊
It's funny because he got jealous because of a hug even though he himself had been cheating on her for more than five years back
@@daliairenellamosasparedes4215 Yes, true. And in the end (when she put her foot down - and showed she is the victor), he said he didn't realize she had it in her! And she said "I know". All those years he saw her as a sitting duck, naive, and a 'take care of everyone else kind of person (woman). These "affairs" for him were easy to come by. This is why in the end she said it was her, too...not just him. I think some women play the unsuspecting wife because they don't want to be called paranoid and such. But, if some women are going to conclude that all me have the "philandering chip" built in, then...cut out the cutesy persona right from the moment you meet a guy. Be yourself.
@@daliairenellamosasparedes4215that's how it always goes. Heard that men bunn is hotter than female bunn 😂😂 so I don't know why they still cheats and expect not to get cheated on 😊
Enjoyed this movie. Well done to her - and she kept so cool!!
Very good movie, thank you very much
LOL her "husbanddd" didnt want her finding out what HE was up to👀👀👀👀😁😁🤣🤣🤣
Nice drama very real wish all directors did like this
Tess was easily controlled by him, until she started making inroads for herself. She became a threat to him.
This guy Always Play's The Cheater , He's so good at it...
Yep, kinda makes you wonder, LOLOL!!
And very handsome
That's why I can't stand him 😂😂😂
I agree, he does a great job 🎉
😂😂😂😂😂
People should know that when you cheat karma follows you for the rest of your life 🤨🤫
I will quote Paul Newman when he told someone, "why would I go out for a hamburger when I have steak at home". If you don't think you can love and respect your partner, then don't get married. Don't destroy a family along with yourself. Stupid people always win stupid prizes.
Paul Newman cheated on and left his first wife for her and was said to cheat on her too so
Paul Newman was not faithful
Thats a classic old boys line to comfort the women. Also “ even though I eat well at home sometimes I want to go out to a restaurant, fine dining or fast food”.
Thanks for sharing this movie.
It’s hard but like she said life goes on but your heart takes time this came straight home🥲🥲🥲
Excellent Movie! Thank you for Sharing.😊
What a disgusting creep the husband was. These dopes also put their partner's health in danger with possible STDs. Imagine your husband is swapping spit with every Trixie, Roxy and FeFe on the block and so are you. Twenty years he did this to her. She was way too nice to him. I understand adults in these movies are always thinking of the kids, but for my generation, our parents never thought of us, it was always all about them, so its hard for me to swallow her Miss Nice Routine with the lousy bum.
It’s true my parents didn’t have a clue of how much their behavior determined my fate …. Generational gap
@@barbarax5179 Parents are just grown-ups with flaws...
I love the ending of this movie.A self respected dignified woman will never going to sleep with cheater husband again…
Gd 90s TV movie..many of which I've missed..gd humour with reality of what we are...
My second time watching this movie and I loved " Strong Tess" all over again. Thanks ❤❤❤
The biggest betrayal of them all.
The videoing was the sweetest part of evidence for any prosecution witness for a divorce. Easy divorce instead of an early murder for him.
Absolutely ❤ I thought the same! 💯 % Evidence…. Video 🎥 with Sound ! 🎶 = ! No doubting or denying . The husband’s reaction was good and I think realistic he went through several tactics to win her over shifting as he realize the depth of evidence that she had I think she mentioned the little black book the references names so he couldn’t say it was just this one time it’ll never happen again but he was caught red-handed serial cheater and a serial liar. If only we all had that much evidence & certainty - whether we decided to confront them with it or not at least we have peace of mind & know who we are dealing with. Rather than falling into destabilizing uncertainty.
I been cheated on too and now happily divorced and happily with somebody else a lot better 🎉
Only in the movies!!
Loved that and she did it with such class!
20:07
Classless clown pulls in to pick up his girlfriend and honks the car horn. Brilliant!
For a female friend that was okay but when a fella came....daddy wouldn't have allowed us girls to go with them 🤔
1:29:10 “what happened wasn’t just you, it was me too.” What a load of crap! I’m a guy and even I know he was the complete cause. Sure, maybe she could’ve been more responsive in some ways, but it doesn’t justify the cheating.
This is the best movie! Love it
A good movie with a lesson to learn from.
It’s a good movie thank you for posting
I would not keep him.
only a movie
The writing is relatable!
Excellent movie!
I watch this years ago I liked it ❤🏴🇬🇧
Thank you for the great movie.
❤
I have been in that situation with my first husband,but the funny thing was I told his second wife to be careful,but she thought because he left me for her she was special,nope she ended catching him with her best friend 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's the way it goes.
Two adulterers reaping what they sowed.
Im sorry but the daughter was disrespectful for having sex in the laundry room but gets mad at the mom for getting upset? Maybe im old school but have some respect
I would have reacted the same way initially as the mother by telling the guy to leave.
I would not have tolerated the insolence from my daughter. The daughter, in respect to that scene, was totally in the wrong. It seems that the mother was always accommodating her family's needs at the expense of her self-respect. If I had talked to my mother like that, I'd have been picking myself up from the floor. I'm not exaggerating.
Dang he was caught red handed. I’d be so embarrassed 😳
Happy New Years ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow, so many men in the world with a King 👑 complex, believing they deserve a harem of women.
The guy is an idiot. He has a wife who is a PI and as you must never trust anybody 100% it is a question of time that she will get suspicious and find out.
she's a fantastic actress
I went through this and I was do relieved when it happened. He is still not martied to that and he is ashamed of what he did. When things go bad he always come and cry by me. He cant gorgive himself although I have gorgiven him.
HATE the ‘comedic’ background music they use when the situation is so sad and heartbreaking for the victims in the relationship 😢
Is sad because I’m living with guilt everyday and I don’t know how I can’t go on 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Jesus wants to take our guilt, he forgives and you are Free. 🙏
Loved this ❤
Such a good movie love the ending.
Its a movie but i don't know why this man always plays these kinds of roles in movies. He reminds me a bit of Rob Lowe 😊 Its either they cheats in the movie, kill in the movie or does something bad in the movie 😂.
😢😢😢😢 he was a good actor 😅 in my so called life as the main character father. Was not a cheat in that show
I just feel like the way he wasnt supportive at all about it shouldve been a sign to her
I can imagine how painful that was actually witnessing her husband in the act of an affair, Tess was a smart lady, probably a better detective than her husband, with no skills, her sister was so wrong to have kept that secret about the husband for 5 long years, but he's getting payback, great movie, 😊.
No way I could’ve kept a secret like that from my own sister!
The pain of the betrayal had to be excruciating. It totally destroyed any love she had for him. When she told her sister she was done, it was fully understood that she meant it.
The saddest thing about that gut feeling is when you don't recognize it as that, and you think it's all in your head, only to later learn it's not all in your head after all!
When too many things you kept getting feelings about start coming true over and over, you repeatedly discover it's NOT all in your head after all!
Taking the first step to start listening is the hardest, with each step getting easier and easier
This won't come overnight, it takes time
Merci pour le partage! 👍🐞🦋🌹
Most couples cheat1! I am a therapist and many men have double lives. There wives are clueless...Sad
Let's say Narcissist
Their wives aren't always clueless.
So do women ,this time I was the clueless one
I just think they all do, given the opportunity !
I've been alone 21 years, and it stinks: but I'm never gonna trust another. And no, I never made it good, but I manage.
I'd hope that most don't cheat...just the kind that need therapy. That's like saying most people that go to hospice die. As a therapist, I should hope you are educated enough to know the difference between 'there' and 'their'...we learn that in second grade