I'm getting married (next year) what's the best advice you can give me?
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Getting married this year🎉🎉🎉🎉 by the grace of Allah
Mabrook in advance
May Allah SWT bless you and make it easy for you, Ameen.
Simple wedding is the most blessed one and paves the way for happy Marriage !!!
Allahumabarik
Our parents won't let us
I got married 6 months ago Alhumdullilah ❤ it took 15 minutes with my family in our living room lol
Lol what 15 minutes? U convinced them in 15 mins?
@@ayeshazulfi1536 no the nikah ceremony took 15 minutes. We met and married within 6 weeks
@@hijabibeautiful MashaAllah! Can u guide people like us😂? What were the questions u asked? And how is your marital life going now. I want it to happen just this way but my parents doesn't know the "quick process". 😂
@@ayeshazulfi1536 Alhumdullilah my parents weren’t too picky lol they just really wanted me to get married because I was 26 and living on my own. Whoever I chose they accepted as long as he was religious and had a job. We actually met on Salaams marriage app and I sent him my father’s number, they met and spoke then we met each other and we planned the nikah which we had in our living room with all our family. No huge expenses or anything fancy for the wedding outside of the food.
May Allah make it easy for you to find the right man that’ll provide respect, ease, companionship, and help you please Allah ❤️ ameen!
@@ayeshazulfi1536 oh and the questions I asked were if he wanted to have kids (I didn’t and it’s actually really hard to find a man who doesn’t want to have as many kids as possible lol), his religious commitment, how much Quran he knows, how well manage our finances, where he wanted to live (I want to make Hijra to Turkey insha’Allah), his relationship with his family, and his goals for the next five years amongst some smaller things about compatibility but religion and character and sense of humor were major for me, all the other things are negotiable really.
Pray for me my dear brothers, I want to get married. Ya Allah grant me a servant of yours whom you dearly love
May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala help you and accept your duas
Always make proper dua by praising Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala first and then sending salawat upon the prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alayhi wa sallam and then asking for what you need
This is proper way of making dua
May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala help us all
Have sabr
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May Allah bless our marriages Aameen JazakAllahukhair for the advice Shaykh beneficial for married ones also ❤
- [01:28] 🤵 Getting married sooner rather than later is encouraged in Islam for its benefits and to avoid temptation.
- [03:15] ⏳ Marriage in Islam is straightforward; it involves consent, witnesses, and minimal ceremony.
- [04:25] ⚰ Islamic burial practices are simple and efficient, emphasizing humility and avoiding extravagance.
- [05:49] 👰 Understanding obligations and responsibilities towards one's spouse is crucial in Islam, prioritizing respect and care.
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BarakAllah feek
Im no bot but every muslim should be in terms of dhikr,adhkar, and quran! May allah bless y'al
no. you can be a bot
I appreciate the will-power of the young talented and responsible youth , who understands the social responsibilities and how to live a dignified life together. Education is the key. We cannot live like an Island .
Here are some motivating tips from Allahﷻ
and the Prophet (ﷺ) to help you raise your degrees in Jannah as well as increase your property in Shaa Allah.
I) Raise your degrees
1) Memorising the Quran
Abd-Allah lbn 'Amr narrated that the
Prophet (ﷺ) said : "It will be said to the
companion of the Quran : Recite and rise in status, recite as you used to recite in the world, for your status will be at the last verse that you recite." [Tirmidhi and Abu Dawood]
I am your brother from Yemen, please ignore my sister as she is very greedy 😂
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@@myempirechannelthank you for coming 😂😂
I am your brother from islam and this comment is copied 😂
@@CFAR921 always she comes and puts message" iam ur sister from Yemen". It's a scam . 😂
@@samiulsdeenofficial i am the one who started the trend xD
Asalamu Alaykum Sheikh, in our country here they charge too much and I'm not financially stable . please make dua for me and may Allah bless you...
Jazzakumullah Kheir Sheikh Assim
One should make it quick not wait
I agree 💯
You are best,,
And you are blessing from Allah.
Loads of respect for you Seikh,
MashAllaah Sheikh Alhamdolillah
Ma shaa Allah, Alhamdulillah
Jazakhallah khayran sheikh may Allaah grant blessings in this world and the next Aamnne and may Allaah make it easy for those who are not marriage to marriage Subhian'Allah and am among them 😊 sheikh al Hakeem please don't forget us in your Dua. We really want to get marriage but sometimes is not easy may Allaah help us Aamnne.
❤ Aaaaaaaammiiiiiínn ya rUb elAlamin masHaaAllAH ❤
3:01 Halal band ft Shiekh assim
If I were your son, I would have gotten married.
We dont say « if » in Islam, it’s all by your destiny, say Alhamdulilah even when everything is bad brother, may Allah help us, Amin
@@agelbo2884 Where is your source?
@@FarmanullahKhan1509are you dumb lmao?
He has 13 daughters!!
@@MonstarAsher yeah so what lmao, as long as people can provide for their kids they can have as many as they like
I love him😂
Do it for the sake of Allah.
I will marry a hafidha
Pls make dua for me
To Allah swt make it easy for me and also all young Muslims and Muslima’s
May Allah make it easy for you ameen❤
Are you a Hafiz? Will you raise your kids to Hafiz as well? Because people think something and act differently. If we have so many weak women its ne ause we have so many weak men. They talk islam, but they don't act upon the religion.
@@Musafeer360 assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu brother make dua In Sha Allah
@@abibane6514
Jazak allah
@@Musafeer360
Yeah الحمدالله
Now i have memorized 6 juzz
And also i am a freshman in engineering faculty
And i will inshallah complete my hifdh
Absolutely!
Am 21 years old now from Nigeria 🇳🇬, i have intention to marry but this no means and fitnah is too much am tired. I need small source of income to marry
3:00 😂😂😂😂How did he do this ??
Desi's need to learnnnnn
I love you allah ❤❤
Many matters Allah give large amount of money to everybody and everyone so that they can do four nikah ameen summa ameen
I wish i had someone by my side to marry, but id ont have, there is only one who is far away from me, i dont know how to bring her
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته.
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Asalam aleiykum
Am Suleiman from Kenya .
If I come to masjid 5 mins to fajr prayer, should I combine the Nia for tahayatul masjid and the two rakaats before fajr?
Because the time is not enough to fulfil both.
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Which times are prohibited for bury janazah
4:28 this comment is really uncalled for.
What did he say? Go to? I did get it
Its the truth. He didnt say anything wrong
yeah syeikh, but with who? XD T-T
We can't ask about their past... they cant/shouldn't tell us about it either. In this case what does due diligence look like in islam? Private investigator?
Exchange lists of dealbreakers with your potential spouse
If you think she is religious and seems good then go ahead if you have doubts don't. It's that simple. Don't go to people daughters and ask about stupid b5
The only relationship that Allah has made for one partner to have the right to know another partners past is when it comes to marriage. You have the right to know about the other persons past on both sides. This is the wisdom of Allah SWT.
@bakhtiaruddin1582 Cite your sources please 🙏
@bakhtiaruddin1582 if you want to know ask other don't ask the person directly. Otherwise no point you getting married. If you don't trust her don't marry her.
Rsspect.
Brother please must give mujhy question answer I have OCD on urine I always feel my urine is passing but I always check my shalwar there is no urine but some time I do istinja my shalwar is wet then I feel this is urine what can I do sir
Dear brother I know about this problem it is called PVD (post matriculation dribble). this next part is my opinion. To my knowledge it is caused by damage to the urethra . Your penis might be bent to the left a little bit. This is a symptom you can
deal with this by doing what is called a *urethral milking (It like massaging the pipe to get the urine out)* **You can search on google for the procedure** .
To solve this issue just pee like an hour before going to prayer. Then go on with business as usual. Then when it comes time for prayer wash the garment (Your shalwar ) do wudu and then pray the rest of the prayers. Remember that now you have done your best and ask Allah to accept your prayer. and do not pay attention to further waswas.*. And to my knowledge it is caused by masturbation. If done very hardly it can damage the urethra and it is a sin. One should avoid this sin and ask Allah for strength to avoid it because there is no power to do anything without him.
Remember that if the urine keeps coming out and you know the prayer time is going to end then just pray after doing wudu . Do not skip the prayer. That would be the best you can do and Remember to ask Allah for forgiveness and to give ease and to accept your prayers.
Dear brother This problem is called PVD (Post-void dribbling). To my knowledge it is cause by damage to the urethra. Which is caused by masturbation. The symptom is penis might be bent to the left. *To solve this just do urethral milking.* *Your can look at the procedure online*. and urinate like and hour just before praying and then when the time for prayer comes wash your private part, surrounding area and the shalwar where you think the urine would be. Do wudu and pray.* After that do not pay attention to waswas because you have done your best and ask Allah to accept. May Allah make it easy for you and give to firmness on Islam.
Also another tip wear *An underwear if you can*. You can easily wash it. and it will prevent urine from getting on your shalwar or garmet.
Sister please search it on with Sheikh Assim Ap hakeem's name and you will get the answers to every ocd related question and InshaAllah it will solve your porblem. It's tried and tested
He needs to get rid of his first wife first !😂😂😂😂
Like the narc am divorcing.
My son love kaafir gir, what I can do Hazrat. Reply me or give contact number
Here are some motivating tips from Allahﷻ
and the Prophet (ﷺ) to help you raise your degrees in Jannah as well as increase your property in Shaa Allah.
I) Raise your degrees
1) Memorising the Quran
Abd-Allah lbn 'Amr narrated that the
Prophet (ﷺ) said : "It will be said to the
companion of the Quran : Recite and rise in status, recite as you used to recite in the world, for your status will be at the last verse that you recite." [Tirmidhi and Abu Dawood]
Here are some motivating tips from Allahﷻ
and the Prophet (ﷺ) to help you raise your degrees in Jannah as well as increase your property in Shaa Allah.
I) Raise your degrees
1) Memorising the Quran
Abd-Allah lbn 'Amr narrated that the
Prophet (ﷺ) said : "It will be said to the
companion of the Quran : Recite and rise in status, recite as you used to recite in the world, for your status will be at the last verse that you recite." [Tirmidhi and Abu Dawood]