Much needed video for me. I lost my dad in 2020 due to Covid. Since then I am managing studies and job together. Also seeing the real faces of relatives make me feel alone. But, I am trying to adjust to solitude and be more productive and reach my goals. Thank you Sir.
Great video, deep topic & very true that when we live solitude life then only we can realise about ourselves & then only creative thoughts comes in our mind. Great topic 👍👍
Hello, Chetan Sir. I'm not sure if you'll see this comment or not, but I'm posting it anyhow in the hope that you will. Your videos actually push me out of my comfort zone and encourage me to accomplish and strive for more in life. And every time I hear you, it's as if you're scolding me and telling me that I'm losing my way and that I need to get back on course. I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart for making such videos, and I look forward to seeing more of them.
Sir, I am preparing for UPSC CIVIL SERVICES and I have enjoyed my past 6 months of solitude for the same and have experienced a lot of mental states throughout. I believe everything which I (or we) perceive of the world is somehow based on current mental state of happiness or sadness. If I am happy, everything seems right and if I am sad, its the otherwise. And I believe anything can be achieved if you are self-disciplined or honest with yourself, accompanied by consistency. By the way I am also IIT Delhi passout and have experienced these same feelings during my JEE prep in Kota too.
During prepration of my competative exam i always being Alone . After watched this you made me confident to being more alone and its beneficial for me. Thanks Chetan sir . Keep Motivating 🖖
@@vickysharma3752 break up hurts.but it is necessary to move on .just accept the truth and smile.put a goal and achive it who knows better girl may come in to your life.learn something useful for your life.
Muje to bhot accha lgta h akele rehna, akele rehne me jo sukun h na wo or khi nhi h, Blki bina mobile k to bahut sukun milta h Mera bs chle to mobile b na chlau me bs thodi si majboori h k accounts wagaireh mobile se hi handle hote to mobile rkhna pdta h
I really inspired by you sir एक बात दिल से बताऊं यूट्यूब पर आप ही एकमात्र ऐसे मोटिवेशनल स्पीकर हो जो वास्तव में सच बोलते हो और आज की कंडीशन से रिलेट करते हो ।
अकेले वाले termकी लोग अहमियत कम समझते है सर उन्हे पता ही नही अकेलि survive कर जाना बहुत बड़ी जिंदगी का ज़रूरी phase है बिना phonr के एक मने नही रह सकते। बहुत बढ़िया टॉपिक लिया आपने। Thnx फॉर comng on youtube। Lots of wishes एंड respect sir।
Hey sir ,i am a 21 yro girl ..and after watching this i can totally relate these because i was a child who grown up with so many dreams and also i was very much focused on that and i published my first book at the age of 16 ..but eventually i started thinking that being alone and being an introvert is something not normal..so i tried to socialise more i focused on among with people ..but that was pulling me back from my works and studies ..but now I can understand what ii really wanted and i am not regretting for those transition period ..beacuse now i can be in a full croud and also i can be with myself also..but i was confused as well..after watching this vedio i think i got some clarity..thank you keep going sir...
Sir few months Back ...Due to some reasons I did brain MRA where in they take you alone in one machin and some ultra magnetic sounds comes to capture brain pattern and cells....That process was so painful and scary and it ran for 30 mins....I understood we have to suffer alone.....No matter whether it is pain or Joy ...I am enjoying my own company since then and I have been more productive due to self talking and staying alone....It has helped me to awaken my conscious mind and made me more clearer in my thought process... Thank you for this uncommon but very relevant video.
Whenever you make such videos, your affinity towards the society is reflected. your suggestion for me is like a guardian.🙏🙏🙏 This is Aneesh Jain(2nd year BHU)🙂
Sir, you are just mind-blowing!! Today is international mother language day and my mother tounge is Bengali!! I just want to say..."guru, fata fati!!"you nailed it..
Exactly sir I experienced this thing where earlier I used to be very social and loved to be with many friends and always spending time with friends all the time but when time is moving forward now I am experiencing a lot of good things which is like self discovery,talking to self, good thoughts, purposeful activities,etc and many more things. Thanks to you for sharing such a beautiful message :)
Sir ab mai apne apko oro se kam nahi samajta or 11 baje raat ko so jata hu neeind aye ya na aye per mobile sab kuch side se kar deta hu m apni life apne control m la raha hu or apni life m badal raha hu sir apne mujhe jeena shikha diya h respect your self first is channel ko india ka no 1 channel hona chahiye
sir one of my friend suggested me this video to watch ... he was like dude you should watch it , it's worth it... n i was like nah i m busy managing time between bcom studies and ca studies where both exams are in may ... still he forced me so i was like ki i will watch it for a minute n if not find it wort watching then will skip but when i start the video it completed like in a minute... i mean i didn't realise i i finished watching it n yes its worth it ... n now i think i needed this thing the most in my life currently to give my mind some peace n time to adjust with the fact that i can clear both the exams with flying colours... lastly sir thanks a lot for explaining such a simple yet important thing because i guess 90% people are stuck just because of this thing... lots of love n respect... may god bless you with lots of happiness and prosperity ❤️🙏✨
Being alone give you the power to know your self in more better way then ever... And by knowing yourself you can gain confidence in yourself and confidence can make you to achieve anything in this world.... Thank you so much sir..... You are great..... Love your videos a lot thnku so.... Much.... Greatful 😇😊
Hi Chetan Sir. Hope you are well. I absolutely agree with you. I have been living in London alone. This is Very true when person alone can bring creative ideas, thinking and ability to learn. You are amazing person. I wish to see you in real life ❤️ God bless you
Hi Sir, hope you are well. I am very fortunate enough to get this video at the perfect time of my life. I am the type of person who fears staying alone. I always wanted to stay alone but again due to fear of I don't know what(may be because I am introvert, but again I also don't want to be an introvert) I couldn't stay alone. But now I am getting an opportunity to stay alone and I am very excited for it even after I will be spending a considerable chunk of my salary for the rent. I can arrange easily a new roommate but I am choosing to stay alone for my career. Thanks a lot for this video at a PERFECT TIME of my life. ❤️
Being Alone is a Powerful Thing , Its like you are getting closer to yourself , discovering yourself . What you like / dislike and what you have done right/wrong and what you should not do from now on . All the self analysis which is the most important thing for a human happens in alone time .
My board exam are going on and I have to study alone which was giving me the trauma and I was feeling stuck but now I realize that this is something which I need to face to become more stronger thank you for making this video specially in this period of time I really needed this video
Mujhe to akele etna sukun milta h k bgl m sadi b hoti to jane ka ek dm mnn n krta aur sbko lgta h m akele kaise rh leti😊log khte h thoda sbse mila kro hme lgta h puri duniya khud k andr h baki wkt wkt pe sb shi h😊
'life is journey from loneliness to solitude' a great monk once said. Loneliness is the feeling of being left out, it births due to dependency of individual on external sources for emotional stability. Solitude is a state when one enjoys his own company irrespective of time and space. As long as the external stimuli are in charge of our moods we can never be truly happy. Happiness is an internal stable state of mind and mastry of solitude catalyses transformation of 'unstable unhappy' sate to' stable happy'.
Sir If i get to talk to you everyday, my whole life will turn out so great. ♥️ I find so many answers from these videos. 🌸 Learning and growing. Thank you☺️
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Yes it's better to be alone rather than be with fake artificial toxic people👍
High five 🖐️
ryt bola 👍🏻👍🏻
Actually no people are not artificial or toxic the relationship two people share might be fake or toxic .
@@unforgettxxle boss can u believe in my college days a boy try to kill me but earlier he told me as a best friend
True and you will see why fake people have so many friends and the real ones have very few
Very few realise the power of solitude. It makes us courageous.
The purpose of life is to convert your loneliness to Solitude
Exactly Bro❤
Much needed video for me. I lost my dad in 2020 due to Covid. Since then I am managing studies and job together.
Also seeing the real faces of relatives make me feel alone. But, I am trying to adjust to solitude and be more productive and reach my goals.
Thank you Sir.
Sorry for your loss. You're stronger than you think you are!
@@ChetanBhagat1 ladki ko kaise dil se nikaalein sir bahut jyada emotionally attach hone ke baad
@@anildausa419 bahi same happened with me
❤️
Very sad bro... May ishwar bless you
If you have a meaningful and great purpose in your life You never being Alone🙌🙌
"Better to be alone than being in a bad company" 🙌
Great video, deep topic & very true that when we live solitude life then only we can realise about ourselves & then only creative thoughts comes in our mind. Great topic 👍👍
Thank you!
Being alone is the super power. To win against that super power you have to be a superhero. 👊
Hello, Chetan Sir. I'm not sure if you'll see this comment or not, but I'm posting it anyhow in the hope that you will. Your videos actually push me out of my comfort zone and encourage me to accomplish and strive for more in life. And every time I hear you, it's as if you're scolding me and telling me that I'm losing my way and that I need to get back on course. I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart for making such videos, and I look forward to seeing more of them.
Hey, thank you so much!
Sir,
I am preparing for UPSC CIVIL SERVICES and I have enjoyed my past 6 months of solitude for the same and have experienced a lot of mental states throughout.
I believe everything which I (or we) perceive of the world is somehow based on current mental state of happiness or sadness.
If I am happy, everything seems right and if I am sad, its the otherwise.
And I believe anything can be achieved if you are self-disciplined or honest with yourself, accompanied by consistency.
By the way I am also IIT Delhi passout and have experienced these same feelings during my JEE prep in Kota too.
Hii, I am also preparing for upsc but not able to manage being alone
गुरूजी Thumbnail में थोड़ा गड़बड़ है 🙏 🚩 जय श्री राम 🚩
Being alone is better than being with people who doesn't match the level we are.
🤣
During prepration of my competative exam i always being Alone . After watched this you made me confident to being more alone and its beneficial for me. Thanks Chetan sir . Keep Motivating 🖖
You got this!
@@ChetanBhagat1 sir u cannot feel the pain u get when ditched from your true love as well as friends
@@vickysharma3752 break up hurts.but it is necessary to move on .just accept the truth and smile.put a goal and achive it who knows better girl may come in to your life.learn something useful for your life.
@@jayalakshmisingaraju7623 this pain kills a person from inside ...he who feels only knows it ☹️☹️
@@ChetanBhagat1sir love u a lot ...apne sach bola I'm not attractive so girls do not like me
This is such an imp thing in life.. Its true power u become unstoabble in so many ways...
Muje to bhot accha lgta h akele rehna, akele rehne me jo sukun h na wo or khi nhi h,
Blki bina mobile k to bahut sukun milta h
Mera bs chle to mobile b na chlau me bs thodi si majboori h k accounts wagaireh mobile se hi handle hote to mobile rkhna pdta h
Its You vs You always
Chetan Bhagat justified this gem of a statement today
Thank you so sir for such life lessons
Respect🙂
I can feel every single word of this video , cuz I spend my most of time alone 👍 " thank you sir"
SIR YOU ARE THE BEST MOTIVATOR IN RUclips.
Many many thanks!
Ye baat to he ki jab ham akele hote hena to mental piece bana rehta h aur creative ideas bhi aate hai... Much needed session ✨✨ thank you sir
Yeah I agree with you sir...most of the people really scared of being alone...but I feel immense happiness when I am alone...❤️
I really inspired by you sir एक बात दिल से बताऊं यूट्यूब पर आप ही एकमात्र ऐसे मोटिवेशनल स्पीकर हो जो वास्तव में सच बोलते हो और आज की कंडीशन से रिलेट करते हो ।
Thank you so much!
This man deserve 5 million subscriber 💯💯
Thanks a ton!
5 million subscribers can't even justify his efforts
Yes if d young generation follow even half of what he says it would be good for all
He is very motivating
Januine gyan by chetan sir!!
No one talk about these topics...
Thank u sirr..
It's my pleasure!
अकेले वाले termकी लोग अहमियत कम समझते है सर उन्हे पता ही नही अकेलि survive कर जाना बहुत बड़ी जिंदगी का ज़रूरी phase है बिना phonr के एक मने नही रह सकते। बहुत बढ़िया टॉपिक लिया आपने। Thnx फॉर comng on youtube।
Lots of wishes एंड respect sir।
So True sir, people ridicule introverts , but as you said best of the ideas come when you learn to be alone. Thank you sir for your constant guidance
You're most welcome!
Hey sir ,i am a 21 yro girl ..and after watching this i can totally relate these because i was a child who grown up with so many dreams and also i was very much focused on that and i published my first book at the age of 16 ..but eventually i started thinking that being alone and being an introvert is something not normal..so i tried to socialise more i focused on among with people ..but that was pulling me back from my works and studies ..but now I can understand what ii really wanted and i am not regretting for those transition period ..beacuse now i can be in a full croud and also i can be with myself also..but i was confused as well..after watching this vedio i think i got some clarity..thank you keep going sir...
why confused as well
Couldn't have come at a better time.
Just processing a break up.
We've got this.
Thank you Sir.
You got this!
Everytime i am in a problem Chetan sir comes up with a solution
Always happy to help!
Following ur idea, becoming the hero of my life.
Pranam guruji.🙏
Keep it up!
Har jagah positivity lag rhi h post watching this video!!
this is so true.. i feel v anxious n depressed being alone and i go with anyone and everyone wasting my time and energy.
Yes. Practising the same of being alone. It's most valuable time of self life.
Thank u so much sir 🙏❤️.Much needed advice,to fulfill our goals it's better to be alone sometimes.It's rightly said 'solitude is sacred'.
Always welcome!
Sir few months Back ...Due to some reasons I did brain MRA where in they take you alone in one machin and some ultra magnetic sounds comes to capture brain pattern and cells....That process was so painful and scary and it ran for 30 mins....I understood we have to suffer alone.....No matter whether it is pain or Joy ...I am enjoying my own company since then and I have been more productive due to self talking and staying alone....It has helped me to awaken my conscious mind and made me more clearer in my thought process... Thank you for this uncommon but very relevant video.
Whenever you make such videos, your affinity towards the society is reflected. your suggestion for me is like a guardian.🙏🙏🙏
This is Aneesh Jain(2nd year BHU)🙂
So nice of you. Thank you!
@R A N G E R BA
Very worthy words to lead a great life.
Sir Mai akela feel nhi karta🤗🥺🥺 jab se aapki company mili hai muje...apki videos dekh Kar aisa lagta hai,dost ke sath baitha hu💓💓❤️💞
tum kya mast kaam krta hai maqsood bhai!!
Your advices are straightforward, that's what I like the most.
One day I will be with you and have a deeptalk. Thank you Chetan Bhagat.
When my friend purchase your books then I follow you and I learn everything thanku so much sir 🤗💯💪♥️
Self development is a kind of self love.....it is only possible when we are alone working for ourselves.....
Sir, you are just mind-blowing!! Today is international mother language day and my mother tounge is Bengali!! I just want to say..."guru, fata fati!!"you nailed it..
sir aapne mujhe bahut hat tk sudhara h, aapko sunne ki aadat ho gai h ab bahut bahut shukriya sir ❤
Exactly sir I experienced this thing where earlier I used to be very social and loved to be with many friends and always spending time with friends all the time but when time is moving forward now I am experiencing a lot of good things which is like self discovery,talking to self, good thoughts, purposeful activities,etc and many more things. Thanks to you for sharing such a beautiful message :)
It's a great session sir ❣️ very important in human life 👍
This is the right I got this video otherwise I was just wasting my time
Thanks sir 🙏🏻
bahot sahi baat kahi Sirji............mai isi topic pe padna chahta tha or aapne video bna di.THANK YOU SO MUCH👌👌👌👌❤❤
aap aaj ke life ke real messenger of God ho 🙏🙏
Thank you Chetan, you are awesome 👍 much needed advice from you
My pleasure!
Bahut hi achha baat bola hai sir aleke pan se hi. khud ke pyar kiya ja sakta hai... Good...
आज के दौर में अपने में अपनापन ढूंढना पड़ता है,
तो बेहतर यही है कि अकेला रहना सीख लिया जाए
यह भी एक तरीका हो सकता है खुश रहने के लिए
Yes I'm alone Sir.I'm happy too
Very much informative 👍
watching the video when i needed the most. Thanks sir
Glad it helped!
Video dekhne se pehele comment kr raha hun sir thank you so much 💕 aapne video upload Kiya hai to jorur kuch sikhne ko milega ☺️
Love from Himachal Pradesh
Dharamshala... 😍😍😍
Sir ab mai apne apko oro se kam nahi samajta or 11 baje raat ko so jata hu neeind aye ya na aye per mobile sab kuch side se kar deta hu m apni life apne control m la raha hu or apni life m badal raha hu sir apne mujhe jeena shikha diya h respect your self first is channel ko india ka no 1 channel hona chahiye
Thanks a lot!
I think this is called emotional maturity sir..
Thanks 👍🙏
Fun fact - Best book that promotes and guides more on solitude is - Stillness is the key by Ryan Holiday
Here to heal from breakup... Really insightful and practical videos
Happy to help!
Success is about mastering the monotonous ❤️
Yeah!literally true
It's unique and tremendous. Thanks sir keep it up sir.
Sir you are great.... You are my inspiration.. Love you sir ❤️..i'm from Tripura
Hllo nameste sir 🙏
Jay shree Ram
sir one of my friend suggested me this video to watch ... he was like dude you should watch it , it's worth it... n i was like nah i m busy managing time between bcom studies and ca studies where both exams are in may ... still he forced me so i was like ki i will watch it for a minute n if not find it wort watching then will skip but when i start the video it completed like in a minute... i mean i didn't realise i i finished watching it n yes its worth it ... n now i think i needed this thing the most in my life currently to give my mind some peace n time to adjust with the fact that i can clear both the exams with flying colours... lastly sir thanks a lot for explaining such a simple yet important thing because i guess 90% people are stuck just because of this thing... lots of love n respect... may god bless you with lots of happiness and prosperity ❤️🙏✨
Thanks! Glad you liked it!
Best of luck for your exams! Do well!
@@ChetanBhagat1 tysm sir
U r my idol..sir..💕💕
Dhanyawad Chetan sir ❤️💕💖
Your Video is one of the best video and this video is to learn many things and improving life day by day
Thank you so much! 😀
Being alone give you the power to know your self in more better way then ever... And by knowing yourself you can gain confidence in yourself and confidence can make you to achieve anything in this world.... Thank you so much sir..... You are great..... Love your videos a lot thnku so.... Much.... Greatful 😇😊
It's my pleasure!
Eye opener as always
True sir. Solitude is a blessing in disguise!!
Being alone is really worth rather than staying in a relationship where in you are not respected and taken for granted every single time.
Thanks sirji, love you .
Important tip to all to improve even though living bad till now are - a) Start where you stand b) Better late than never. 👍🏻
Thank you Chetan Sir for elaborating it in easy way🙏🙏👍👍😊
I'm gonna try it
Hi Chetan Sir. Hope you are well. I absolutely agree with you. I have been living in London alone. This is Very true when person alone can bring creative ideas, thinking and ability to learn. You are amazing person. I wish to see you in real life ❤️ God bless you
Thanks for watching!
Hi Sir, hope you are well. I am very fortunate enough to get this video at the perfect time of my life. I am the type of person who fears staying alone. I always wanted to stay alone but again due to fear of I don't know what(may be because I am introvert, but again I also don't want to be an introvert) I couldn't stay alone. But now I am getting an opportunity to stay alone and I am very excited for it even after I will be spending a considerable chunk of my salary for the rent. I can arrange easily a new roommate but I am choosing to stay alone for my career. Thanks a lot for this video at a PERFECT TIME of my life. ❤️
Being Alone is a Powerful Thing , Its like you are getting closer to yourself , discovering yourself . What you like / dislike and what you have done right/wrong and what you should not do from now on . All the self analysis which is the most important thing for a human happens in alone time .
I suffered alone time for 4 years solitude is best feeling
Walk alone in life beacause if you depend someone you are slave 💯
Beneficial video, that's great time for me 🙏
Very very good video. There is a difference between a loner and being lonely.
My board exam are going on and I have to study alone which was giving me the trauma and I was feeling stuck but now I realize that this is something which I need to face to become more stronger thank you for making this video specially in this period of time I really needed this video
Good luck for your exams! You got this!
Love the way you explain sir ♥️💯
Thank you sir for giving reality check🙏
You r amazing motivator and self made man.salute ❤️ you sir.I know you struggled so much.keep motivating us .Genius mind and Genius writer.
Thanks a ton!
Mujhe to akele etna sukun milta h k bgl m sadi b hoti to jane ka ek dm mnn n krta aur sbko lgta h m akele kaise rh leti😊log khte h thoda sbse mila kro hme lgta h puri duniya khud k andr h baki wkt wkt pe sb shi h😊
You discover yourself and capabilities in alone phase
Thank you sir for changing my life with a new zeal.....
I don't know how should i say but actually i needed this video at this time.
Thanks a lot!!
My pleasure!
'life is journey from loneliness to solitude' a great monk once said. Loneliness is the feeling of being left out, it births due to dependency of individual on external sources for emotional stability.
Solitude is a state when one enjoys his own company irrespective of time and space.
As long as the external stimuli are in charge of our moods we can never be truly happy. Happiness is an internal stable state of mind and mastry of solitude catalyses transformation of 'unstable unhappy' sate to' stable happy'.
It is also true about love.We often fall in love with toxic person and try to maintain that relationship because we have fear to be alone.
Sir, your video's helps me a lot to think and do something new so thank you so much sir. ♥️♥️
Glad to hear that!
Thank you sir ❤it can also beneficial for getting away from distraction.
Chetan bhaiya..this is something i need.... Thanks again for having my back
My pleasure!
Sir If i get to talk to you everyday, my whole life will turn out so great. ♥️ I find so many answers from these videos. 🌸 Learning and growing. Thank you☺️
Always welcome!
Being alone is thousand times better than having a company of loser, needy people who drains your energy & waste the precious time.
Tonnes of blessings to you
*And the problem is people can't differentiate solitude and loneliness*