You’re an EMPATH for sure!!! Which is not a bad thing. You have to be careful who is around you. People, especially narcissists, are attracted to empaths!
I am very empathic, and energy drain is real. These emotional vampires will drain you or throw their moods on you. It is extra important that you and people like us to be very careful with whom we interact with.
I had one made me sick by walking past me…She was trying to be my friend for months and always asked me why was I so mean,but something about her wasn’t registering with me…so, I just couldn’t fake it…She walked past me one day as I was sitting on the stairwell entrance to our apartment entrance and my stomach pit literally danced and dropped and that did it‼️I’m a Pisces and have great discernment and I’m with all due respect ain’t even into the horoscope thing!However,folks can make you or break you,it’s totally up to us to pay attention and stop forcing together friendships and this goes for family as well unfortunately…We’re in control of our own peace‼️
This is a perfect explanation of a spiritual vampire. They suck the life out of you by the time they done with you, you have no energy you feel depressed and sad. They refuel themselves with your energy.
Yes I watched that prior story. I cut a lot of previous friends off because I couldn’t support poor behavioral choices. No need to apologize to her, you’ve outgrown her. 🤷🏾♀️
I was once told the only “DD” we need is a Designated Driver NOT a Debbie Downer…Life is too short to be draining people’s Energy and Joy. #PRACTICESELFLOVE #LIVE #LAUGH #LOVE❤️💐
Facts! I used to be the listening ear until I caught on too😂! Now I do not accept trauma dumping or energy transference with low vibrational entities. those people refuse to take accountability, do the inner work, in order to heal. I'm convinced that they want to be miserable ,and I respect their decision to sit in that space. I just make my exit quietly and mind my business 🚶🏽♀️ 🤣
What you're saying is very wise about triggers that take you back to a negative time in your life. I've experienced that myself and it does take a minute to realize that's what's going on!
Your my own therapist that I sit and eat with Zin, when I watch I need something to eat so I can connect in a way with you. All you do is preach, eat and stay true❤❤
Girl, you gotta give us the menu selections of the day, because most of us are sitting here staring at the screen, drooling, wondering what you eatin’ on! So we need a breakdown of the big back blow by blow in every video! That rhymed right on time!!👍🏾🤣
I am loving the food therapy! Everything you said is absolutely true and alot of people are not self aware or too much of a people pleaser to know went to walk away. I am a natural fixer and I had to learn to let that go. It was making me stay in relationships longer than I should. I am an empath as well and I have a few friends that I cant be around for too long because they are draining. I appreciate your platform. You're funny while opening peoples eyes 💚
Good points Zin, I love the POUR analogy, and I also agree that the energy that someone can pour into our realms, can drain your life or give you life, so we have to be careful of whom we allow into our friendship circles. Protect your energy at all costs. 🙂
I heard the message don't you take everybody to be your friend. Because a friend is loyal A friend is loving a friend is kind. I appreciate this message😊❤🙏God bless you Zinwithin
Yeah being an empath is hard, went through this kind of scenario plenty of times with family, friends, & love interest. Protecting your energy is a necessity. I’m only 26.
This whole video hit home for me 1000%! I really hate dealing with people because I am a major empathy! I also have a friend like the one you are describing that drains your energy through conversations! My friend circle is at three because of this, and the three are me, myself, and I. No cap, it's sad but it's true 💯!
I love your talk's ,you are a true chosen one and your outgrowing the things that's not of your vibe and I feel that on all levels of life keep going your on the right path ✨🌌🌠🪐
Zin.. you are changing the world and making a difference. Thank you for being courageous enough to get online and help people through you life experience. I really appreciate you and please keep bringing us on your amazing journey.
Each of us knows when and if we need to distance ourselves from someone. It is just getting rid of the guilt, the memories of past happiness, and finding the courage to just do it. At this point in my life, I don't have anyone that I consider a friend. That is not a good or bad thing. This is currently where I am in life.
We all have to learn and grow, and realize that we can sometimes Lean way too Hard on people. If one is blessed enough to have a friend that will say just that, one should listen, implement self awareness, and learn. And when you do just that, it is an Enormous Blessing, and you then learn to create boundaries for yourself. You seem like a genuine person with experienced insight to give, but if they don't take it, it can't be your burden, and they have to learn on their own.
Ooo this video was so valuable. I love the POUR method too. I would tell her I need some more time and space just to see if she would respect that boundary and if she continues to push or be impatient to your needs then she is telling you everything you need to know. I truly admire your perspectives on life Zin. ❤
This is on point. I has a female, associate do this exact same thing. When she left me that evening, i hadca massive headache, and could barely see. I was completely drained. She was and is completely negative. 😊
I'm also an empath, Zin. You have to avoid toxic people and those who drain your energy. It's kind of hard because those kinds of people are drawn to us.
I love your videos when your playing and being funny but I appreciate you having a honest and real conversation too. You’re right certain people and conversations are so draining. We have to protect our energy.
I don’t even know where to start!!! What you gave out was definitely POURed into me💯 This has covered relationships all across the board. Zin, you don’t know what a blessing you are to so many on this platform 😍 along with your delicious food and big drinks…you are absolutely dropping gems and I’m here for it 🥰 Love it and you! Bless up 🙏🏽😇💕
Majority of ppl are not growing and flourishing mentally, emotionally, nor spiritually...so, lets handle them with grace by understanding that they know not what they do and also by protecting our peace and not entertaining foolishness. Always speak the truth and never take on what they're dumping on you, thats them, not you... remember, we control what we allow in.
Hey Zin!!!!! Thank you for the enlightening conversation, i have a friend who i love but she drains,complains,and does not communicate well,i love her from a distance.This was very helpful
I’m glad therapy is working for you. You seem to be mastering your emotions and recognizing boundaries. You have a high EQ level and that is powerful. I came to visit this channel for the laughs, but I’m staying subscribed for the insightful conversations✨✨✨✨
I like her more and more I watch her. That’s some true wisdom. Preach it!!!!
Everybody wanna be an adult until it’s time for a conversation FACTS
This is on point. Us empaths have a hard time setting boundaries at times
Introspection and self-awareness is so important in life. Stay away from those energy vampires
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You’re an EMPATH for sure!!! Which is not a bad thing. You have to be careful who is around you. People, especially narcissists, are attracted to empaths!
THAT IS CALLED A NARCISSISTIC PERSON. WE MUST BE AWARE OF THOSE PEOPLE.
@lorethapursley7033 sure is that's all the characteristics of one also huge manipulators
They HATE being called out on their bs. Biggest trigger.
They’ll blame the water, sky, God himself before they admit to being wrong !!!
@@JuliaMoonray facts this right here
@JuliaMoonray so true they definitely can't stand that they get angry with you some even wanna fight
Those vampires can be in your own family
Preach 😊
I'm accused of acting funny when I distance myself from toxic situations 🙌🏾 💯💪🏾
This is why people like us need a lot of alone time.
Don’t go ma. When people show you who they are, believe them. She just see you a good person and want to drain you ❤
And suggesting brunch proves she didn't listen to a word she said... Because if she heard her she would work on the rebuilding not brunch
There’s alot of those out there. Just a mess smh
Besides, who has brunch on Wednesdays? I thought that was a Sunday thing. Sketchy vibes
I am very empathic, and energy drain is real. These emotional vampires will drain you or throw their moods on you. It is extra important that you and people like us to be very careful with whom we interact with.
People drain your energy
1. By texting
2. By phone
3. By thinking of them
4. By arguing
5. Manipulation
5. By hugging
6. Shaking hands
Etc.........
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I had one made me sick by walking past me…She was trying to be my friend for months and always asked me why was I so mean,but something about her wasn’t registering with me…so, I just couldn’t fake it…She walked past me one day as I was sitting on the stairwell entrance to our apartment entrance and my stomach pit literally danced and dropped and that did it‼️I’m a Pisces and have great discernment and I’m with all due respect ain’t even into the horoscope thing!However,folks can make you or break you,it’s totally up to us to pay attention and stop forcing together friendships and this goes for family as well unfortunately…We’re in control of our own peace‼️
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I be saying, why do evil people always want to touch you? They don't mean you any good, the O'jays song Backstabbers be playing in my head
That is true when people trying to trama bond with you and would always want advice but can’t do it in return
Absolutely!
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This is a perfect explanation of a spiritual vampire. They suck the life out of you by the time they done with you, you have no energy you feel depressed and sad. They refuel themselves with your energy.
I had a guy I was talking to and everytime I got finished talking to him, I felt drained. I had to distance myself.
@@TamaraGarrettAlpha thats exactly how it be afterwards
Its the song and the food for me!!!!!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🥰💯😋
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This beautiful lady is speaking realness always i love it
Zin give that knowledge... drop it👏🏾
When you are empathetic it's soo easy to get drain by other's 😩 be careful folks and protect your energy at all times
You truly would make an excellent therapist!
Yes I watched that prior story. I cut a lot of previous friends off because I couldn’t support poor behavioral choices. No need to apologize to her, you’ve outgrown her. 🤷🏾♀️
This!
Exactly.
I was once told the only “DD” we need is a Designated Driver NOT a Debbie Downer…Life is too short to be draining people’s Energy and Joy. #PRACTICESELFLOVE #LIVE #LAUGH #LOVE❤️💐
Girl, yes you are so right people can be very toxic and sometimes it is hard to let go, but in the long run, it’s worth it.
You are an empath, my dear...and transference of energy IS REAL🔮💯🔮
that big ass drink is TAKING ME OUTTTTT
Girl always trust your instincts you don’t owe anyone anything but yourself if it doesn’t feel right don’t try to force it 🤷🏾♀️
Fertilizer to grow up 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right 😂😂😂😂😂
HILARIOUS!!! 🤣
Love it !!!😊
That part sent me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I am growing a garden this summer and am going to use this one 😂😂😂❤
Zin spoke the truth in this one the breakdown of the word POUR had me wit my🙌🏾 🙌🏾 and 👏🏾👏🏾 like I was in church 🤣
Real facts 💯 real talk. Yes other people bad energy can bring you down..
Talk that wise talk sister, you stay blessed. don't let those draining sprits drain you dry.
Thank you, Zin! You’re on point‼️❤😂🌟🙏🏽
Plot twist: the big cup is the lady 😂
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Lmao not the cup called her😂😂😂😂
😅😅
Lol i love her she funny as hell and real with it
She's hilarious 😂😂😂
Damn girl, thank you so much for this!!!❤
Facts! I used to be the listening ear until I caught on too😂! Now I do not accept trauma dumping or energy transference with low vibrational entities. those people refuse to take accountability, do the inner work, in order to heal. I'm convinced that they want to be miserable ,and I respect their decision to sit in that space. I just make my exit quietly and mind my business 🚶🏽♀️ 🤣
This!
Some people just drain our energy DRY!!! Sometimes I feel my brain shrinking being around certain people.
Powerful!!!! Speak Life Into Each Other🙌🙌🔥🔥💯💯
What you're saying is very wise about triggers that take you back to a negative time in your life. I've experienced that myself and it does take a minute to realize that's what's going on!
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The world take take take, but never offer.. you have givers and takers. In a relationship,each should give and take alike
Those people are call "Energy Vampires"🤷
That makes you an empath, you’re sensitive to everyone’s energy and emotions luv.
Your my own therapist that I sit and eat with Zin, when I watch I need something to eat so I can connect in a way with you. All you do is preach, eat and stay true❤❤
So true that other things people do can affect you just by being around them and seeing things that are done to others wrongfully and intentionally .
Thank you Zin! I need those words. May God continue blessing you so you can touch more people while your channel continue growing.❤
Truer words have never been spoken.
You are absolutely right 👍
Girl, you gotta give us the menu selections of the day, because most of us are sitting here staring at the screen, drooling, wondering what you eatin’ on! So we need a breakdown of the big back blow by blow in every video! That rhymed right on time!!👍🏾🤣
Seriously! I want whatever that red thing is! 😂
They look like Korean corndogs🤔
@@mom.left.me.at.michaels9951 I think it’s a hot Cheetos corn dog. She had one b4.👀😋
I am loving the food therapy! Everything you said is absolutely true and alot of people are not self aware or too much of a people pleaser to know went to walk away. I am a natural fixer and I had to learn to let that go. It was making me stay in relationships longer than I should. I am an empath as well and I have a few friends that I cant be around for too long because they are draining. I appreciate your platform. You're funny while opening peoples eyes 💚
Good points Zin, I love the POUR analogy, and I also agree that the energy that someone can pour into our realms, can drain your life or give you life, so we have to be careful of whom we allow into our friendship circles. Protect your energy at all costs. 🙂
Girl this story is everything 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amen it goes for parents too they stay wanting to blame others but not hold accountability for themselves. 😂😂😂
I heard the message don't you take everybody to be your friend. Because a friend is loyal A friend is loving a friend is kind. I appreciate this message😊❤🙏God bless you Zinwithin
Zin I came to a conclusion that I set boundaries when it comes to ppl who try to suck up my energy.. they energy suckers.. love Yu Zin
Second you are on the right path of inner engineering 🧘🏿♂️
Keep working on you, everything meant for you will fall in line.
Thank u I appreciate u 😊
Yeah being an empath is hard, went through this kind of scenario plenty of times with family, friends, & love interest. Protecting your energy is a necessity. I’m only 26.
You are so on point with people. I would feel the same way, she would be ghosted again if she keeps mistreating people around me.
This whole video hit home for me 1000%! I really hate dealing with people because I am a major empathy! I also have a friend like the one you are describing that drains your energy through conversations! My friend circle is at three because of this, and the three are me, myself, and I. No cap, it's sad but it's true 💯!
I love your talk's ,you are a true chosen one and your outgrowing the things that's not of your vibe and I feel that on all levels of life keep going your on the right path ✨🌌🌠🪐
*talks *you're
@@Poeticfloetic I didn't ask for you to be a Google auto correct service but thank you have a great day!
I'm going to start saying, "running me hot." Lol
You're not wrong, Zin.
Zin.. you are changing the world and making a difference. Thank you for being courageous enough to get online and help people through you life experience. I really appreciate you and please keep bringing us on your amazing journey.
Thank you so much! 😊 🫶🏾
You Are So RIGHT.Dont Allow the Low Energy too triple your Strengths in a Negative Way..
Each of us knows when and if we need to distance ourselves from someone. It is just getting rid of the guilt, the memories of past happiness, and finding the courage to just do it. At this point in my life, I don't have anyone that I consider a friend. That is not a good or bad thing. This is currently where I am in life.
Going through same thing...feel u sis...thku❤❤❤❤❤
So true! You have to balance and be grounded. I ghost ppl too for things like that. Especially if its not right or godly.
Great video ❤
It's called a energy vampire...run ! They will drain your energy, it's true they feed on your energy always protect your self spiritually ♾️🐥😇🌺
Zin, guard your energy. Also, connect with those who can meet you intellectually and emotionally. Everyone else, bye Felicia!
That captain save her made me laugh 😂
I love you girl I can watch you talk for hours you funny and truthful ❤❤❤😂
Wow!!!! Great video!!! Yesssss this is so true!!! Very important what energy we allow in and near our spirits!!!!🙌💯🙏🔥🔥🔥
Absolutely!!
We all have to learn and grow, and realize that we can sometimes Lean way too Hard on people. If one is blessed enough to have a friend that will say just that, one should listen, implement self awareness, and learn. And when you do just that, it is an Enormous Blessing, and you then learn to create boundaries for yourself. You seem like a genuine person with experienced insight to give, but if they don't take it, it can't be your burden, and they have to learn on their own.
You better preach!!! I felt that Zin. Thank you for sharing
You are so welcome
@@Zinwithinn you are so funny and wise at the same time. Stay who you are and don't let people drain your energy. Protect your peace.
I be loving our therapy sessions 😁😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Energy Vampires
Girl. I'm really feeling you on this one!!! Facts 👍💯
YES ZIN I CAN RELATE TO YOUR STORY. I LEARN TO LET THEM TALK AND THEN I WOULD CHANGE THE SUBJECT TO SOMETHING POSITIVE TO TALK ABOUT.
Ooo this video was so valuable. I love the POUR method too. I would tell her I need some more time and space just to see if she would respect that boundary and if she continues to push or be impatient to your needs then she is telling you everything you need to know. I truly admire your perspectives on life Zin. ❤
This is on point. I has a female, associate do this exact same thing. When she left me that evening, i hadca massive headache, and could barely see. I was completely drained. She was and is completely negative. 😊
Yes you do have to sit back and listen because they will try to manipulate you! I like the fact that you're honest about how you feel!
I'm also an empath, Zin. You have to avoid toxic people and those who drain your energy. It's kind of hard because those kinds of people are drawn to us.
Keep it moving. You’re on point with your humor, comedy & food critics. You’re hilariously funny.
Zin you know what your talking about because you explain yourself so clearly... That's right do what works for you.😊💯✌
U r really right about that
I love your videos when your playing and being funny but I appreciate you having a honest and real conversation too. You’re right certain people and conversations are so draining. We have to protect our energy.
Wow Zin you are my psychologist. Thankyou for the free therapy. Love you girl blessings 🤍🤍🤍
You're empathetic. That's why I'm so intentional with being extremely cautious on who I let in my space. My peace is everything!!!
Thanks Zin. Really needed to hear your words of wisdom ❤
I don’t even know where to start!!! What you gave out was definitely POURed into me💯 This has covered relationships all across the board. Zin, you don’t know what a blessing you are to so many on this platform 😍 along with your delicious food and big drinks…you are absolutely dropping gems and I’m here for it 🥰 Love it and you! Bless up 🙏🏽😇💕
Thank you so much I appreciate u 😊🫶🏾 Blessings to you as well
I felt everything, you just said!! Make sense!!❤
Majority of ppl are not growing and flourishing mentally, emotionally, nor spiritually...so, lets handle them with grace by understanding that they know not what they do and also by protecting our peace and not entertaining foolishness. Always speak the truth and never take on what they're dumping on you, thats them, not you... remember, we control what we allow in.
Absolutely love your videos and newly subscribed! The relatability is so refreshing.
Definetely needed that message I appreciate
Droppin jewels I see. Salute miss
You are on point on so many levels luv listening👍👍
Your story definitely opened my eyes to a lot of things thank you for sharing ❤
Lol, that explosion scared the crap out of me.😂😂😂
Hey Zin!!!!! Thank you for the enlightening conversation, i have a friend who i love but she drains,complains,and does not communicate well,i love her from a distance.This was very helpful
I’m glad therapy is working for you. You seem to be mastering your emotions and recognizing boundaries. You have a high EQ level and that is powerful. I came to visit this channel for the laughs, but I’m staying subscribed for the insightful conversations✨✨✨✨
You are hilarious. I love your story time...
My girl stopped big backing to give us a word amen 💯
I freaking love it here!! I knew I lovedddd you ! It’s the authenticity for me ❤ this just happened to me and my new so called friend. I’m done