Questions to Ask Before You Marry

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  • Опубликовано: 24 сен 2012
  • Jim Cantelon speaks with Clayton and Charie King about the questions we need to ask before we get married.
    Clayton and Charie King
    Founder & President of Crossroads Worldwide, NC
    www.claytonking.com
    Book: "12 Questions to Ask Before You Marry"
    To Get Your Copy:
    secure.crossroads.ca/store

Комментарии • 89

  • @shantegriffin-christian8985
    @shantegriffin-christian8985 6 лет назад +81

    Marriage💍 is about walking in love 💗

  • @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
    @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge 9 лет назад +107

    This is why marriage should be between mature educated people who are able to honestly communicate important topics with each other such as goals, challenges, money, morals, etc. In fact, these questions should be asked when the relationship gets serious, not before deciding to get married because then you're too in love, too optimistic and addicted to one another to pull away even though you know better.

    • @marleyjanim5033
      @marleyjanim5033 3 года назад +3

      Why educated?
      And how do you define it

    • @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
      @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge 3 года назад

      @Another Day In Space Oh no, did I offend you, low class bully? People who get offended by the truth are people who have to face the harsh reality that can burst their imaginary lies to keep them from having to improve themselves. "It's not my fault, the world is against me." No self-reflection at all, no wonder the average person is unhappy and poor.

  • @see_the_journey
    @see_the_journey 7 лет назад +44

    great:) love when people celebrate Marriage .... These types of videos deserve more views on youtube

  • @jdouce6074
    @jdouce6074 6 лет назад +26

    I'm 35 unmarried. This is good so good

  • @the_light_writer
    @the_light_writer 7 лет назад +47

    Starts at 2:04.

  • @rowsdower12
    @rowsdower12 7 лет назад +29

    personally I don't think I'll get married but this is spot on and good. there's so many lies and idealization of marriage. Especially in church

  • @marciajhn
    @marciajhn 11 лет назад +49

    i have been blessed by reading that book, and i've recommended it to many of my friends and family members. Without Jesus, relationships will not work. Only God can teach us to love our loved ones.

    • @GLORYBOUND
      @GLORYBOUND 3 года назад

      What's the title again And the address to the estore please.

  • @lexijanke48
    @lexijanke48 10 лет назад +12

    I love Clayton King and his wife they are the best.I love when Clayton comes to speak at NewSpring Church, he is funny but yet very encouraging.

  • @mgtow6683
    @mgtow6683 5 лет назад +10

    Education before marriage.

  • @jaytownsend4021
    @jaytownsend4021 7 лет назад +21

    I have been saying the same thing for YEARS,,I am delighted to know that I am correct.

    • @nerdysuzcategui3811
      @nerdysuzcategui3811 4 года назад

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  • @billion86
    @billion86 9 лет назад +18

    Love the interviewer!

  • @nforntanikevin2289
    @nforntanikevin2289 4 года назад +5

    I enjoy this couple, getting married in Africa is all about the family.

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  • @sheambitious29lachelle17
    @sheambitious29lachelle17 5 лет назад +10

    This was a great great interview!

  • @shodapad07
    @shodapad07 2 года назад +2

    Great Interviewer!

  • @pastorpricilalizardo
    @pastorpricilalizardo 8 лет назад +4

    Amazing!!!

  • @Happey67
    @Happey67 8 лет назад +4

    Toronto, I have been six times. Love it many immigrants like New York. It is cold in the winter.

  • @acharich
    @acharich 5 лет назад +7

    8:18 - Her response.. *HOLY GHOST..!* 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 - @Acharich

    • @Yahashuaskid
      @Yahashuaskid 4 года назад

      @acharich here you are again....I keep finding you

  • @noemipuguon9161
    @noemipuguon9161 5 лет назад +1

    This is great

  • @roshunepp
    @roshunepp 5 лет назад +17

    I think it's important to understand maturity is not age dependent. The west is just immature at ages that we should be mature.

  • @acharich
    @acharich 5 лет назад +9

    4:50 - *This line alone should be repeated 10000x..!* 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊 - @Acharich

  • @thedeekabides
    @thedeekabides 2 года назад +1

    Expectations only breed disappointment. My only expectation for marriage is that God keeps His word that the covenant He has prescribed is sufficient.

  • @ilai7893
    @ilai7893 5 месяцев назад

    Hello from the largest island in the world lmao, first time hearing Canada is an island 😂

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham89 8 лет назад +36

    I am nowhere near ready for marriage, too selfish.

  • @ed000
    @ed000 6 лет назад +3

    Very true!

  • @brianmwita8946
    @brianmwita8946 2 года назад

    It's about falling in love. Can I get this book in pdf ?

  • @annebooyse1112
    @annebooyse1112 2 года назад

    This would help married people?☺

  • @codyolson3200
    @codyolson3200 3 года назад +3

    So if a person comes from a home not bearing much fruit or a rough situation that automatically disqualifies them? Idk how much I agree with that

    • @zonkebellamkhomazi2977
      @zonkebellamkhomazi2977 3 года назад

      Exactly 💯. Whats the solution

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 3 года назад

      I don't recall them saying that...

    • @maryrankin9869
      @maryrankin9869 Год назад +2

      @@zonkebellamkhomazi2977 Just be prepared. Get some wisdom and counseling.

  • @dalewinegarden5979
    @dalewinegarden5979 2 года назад +1

    I think it’s interesting, do you realize that Adam and Eve never got to interview each other before marriage, yet were wed for hundreds of years? How did that marriage work, in relation to the subject of this book?

    • @ilai7893
      @ilai7893 5 месяцев назад +1

      They're probably a unique case -- literally tuned in to God as He was with them and so I bet He spoke into different situations, plus they lived in literal perfection in Eden and were sinless. Outside of the garden they likely did struggle due to sin but there was nobody else in the world so they stuck together?

  • @grafxgrl8030
    @grafxgrl8030 6 лет назад +4

    Did you two live together before marriage?

    • @Klassyhk
      @Klassyhk 5 лет назад

      @Grafxgrl. Sounds like they did.

    • @ifeomaabiandu7496
      @ifeomaabiandu7496 5 лет назад +5

      No they didn't. He said so that she came over to "visit" in his home. So, meaning the home wasnt hers too

  • @catmenot7143
    @catmenot7143 5 лет назад +4

    Bear hunting? The heck...

  • @ashleyandmicahenglish5587
    @ashleyandmicahenglish5587 4 года назад +3

    Talking about "islands", that tuff of hair you got there on the top seems to be an island unto itself...

  • @gitengeorge2424
    @gitengeorge2424 5 лет назад +1

    One of the questions is 'Do you have N iPhone?'

    • @dorettenguelefacktchiadze403
      @dorettenguelefacktchiadze403 5 лет назад

      Giten George 🤣🤣🤣

    • @acharich
      @acharich 5 лет назад

      🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️

  • @TimWesley
    @TimWesley 5 лет назад +1

    What if you been dating and living with your gf for 10 years??

    • @Protactiny
      @Protactiny 5 лет назад +18

      You marry her bro.

    • @TimWesley
      @TimWesley 5 лет назад +6

      Thank you so much for the advice. Thats my plan.

    • @lilianmukisa3291
      @lilianmukisa3291 5 лет назад +4

      Dating for 10 years, that's not realistic

    • @aura5944
      @aura5944 4 года назад +4

      Maybe they met when they were 15 years young.

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 4 года назад +6

      Dating and living together since 15? Not likely. More than likely dating and living together later than that.
      My question sir (and no disrespect at all) why exactly would you all of a sudden to be moved to marry someone you’ve dated and cohabitaed with for a decade? What has she done as of recent that makes her so worthy of marriage that wasn’t done over the past ten years?
      If for NO other reason, you should marry her for staying with you for ten years because there is no WAY I would give a man that type of time without being his wife. She is a keeper! And I pray the two of you have a blessed union! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @codearabawy
    @codearabawy 2 года назад

    Are they still married though?

    • @keishakiger8541
      @keishakiger8541 Год назад

      Are they ?

    • @codearabawy
      @codearabawy Год назад

      @@keishakiger8541 you're asking me after 11 months? I don't remember why I asked this question in the first place 😂. Will let you know if I found out.

  • @miraclgal58
    @miraclgal58 8 лет назад +12

    Who wants a selfish person anyway. I have been a widow since 1984. Most men are too self centered.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 5 лет назад +6

      *some men & women

    • @thedeekabides
      @thedeekabides 2 года назад +2

      Truthfully, you have not met most men.

    • @KishawnReed
      @KishawnReed 11 месяцев назад

      Hey yo....am here

  • @JenniferRose-_-
    @JenniferRose-_- 4 года назад +2

    Why does the interviewer keep cutting her off?? Ew.

  • @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505
    @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505 5 лет назад +4

    Or just go MGTOW guys.

    • @abm672
      @abm672 2 года назад +2

      Because it's easier to blame women rather than deal with your own issues..

  • @AlSilbs
    @AlSilbs 5 лет назад +1

    WHOOF. You give Americans a bad name.

  • @susanbuchser-lochocki20
    @susanbuchser-lochocki20 3 года назад

    People are living longer.. life long marriage was created when we had a shorter life span ...having 3- 5 long term relationships is normal today..

    • @baileyjohn5010
      @baileyjohn5010 Год назад +3

      That literally makes no sense when there are ppl who are still alive in 40 year marriages

  • @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505
    @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505 5 лет назад +1

    With marriage comes divorce. About 50% do you feel lucky. Flip a coin, no thanks.

  • @aowales3316
    @aowales3316 4 года назад +2

    IF HE REALLY WAS A CHRISTIAN HE SHOULD HAD SHARE THE 12 QUESTIONS , THIS LIERS JUST USE "THE NAME JESUS TO MAKE BUSINESS" HE WANTS TO SELL HIS BOOK.

    • @ReasonAboveEverything
      @ReasonAboveEverything 4 года назад

      Yeah, you got to make living. He ain't selling salvation prayer but his discoveries about marriage from biblical perspective.

  • @Clickybux
    @Clickybux 2 года назад

    If he came from a divorced family they would most likely be divorced by now...

  • @satulubinda5193
    @satulubinda5193 7 лет назад +2

    the are only happy together cos there making money. ..lol

  • @esclarmonde1156
    @esclarmonde1156 6 лет назад +3

    Marriage is not hard work !

    • @Bitachon
      @Bitachon 5 лет назад +17

      Are you married?