How long is a reasonable amount of time to wait and see if things are really changing? I feel like I will struggle with trusting her for the rest of my life no matter how much work is done.
Hi, there are two articles that come to my mind www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/how-to-recover-from-an-affair-how-long and www.affairrecovery.com/survivors/samuel/you-dont-need-trust-to-move-forward - It is about finding safety and boundaries while seeing the changes that the person makes to keep and protect that safety. I hope this helps.
How long is a reasonable amount of time to wait and see if things are really changing? I feel like I will struggle with trusting her for the rest of my life no matter how much work is done.
You are not alone.
Hi, there are two articles that come to my mind www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/how-to-recover-from-an-affair-how-long and www.affairrecovery.com/survivors/samuel/you-dont-need-trust-to-move-forward - It is about finding safety and boundaries while seeing the changes that the person makes to keep and protect that safety. I hope this helps.
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