My skin was "too dark" for my profession, so I changed the story | Esie Mensah | TEDxToronto

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

Комментарии • 262

  • @theoriginaltedtok
    @theoriginaltedtok 3 года назад +3

    She approached this in such an open and engaging manner. I have no doubt this is not an easy topic or reality to share with others but she made it accessible. Consider my world view a little wider- Thank you for this, Esie. A unique and necessary talk.

    • @leotencall
      @leotencall 3 года назад +1

      Couldn't have said it better. I've a more understanding now.

    • @theoriginaltedtok
      @theoriginaltedtok 3 года назад

      @@leotencall 👍

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 2 года назад

      I appreciate your words and insight. I'm really happy you gained something from this talk. 🙏🏿

  • @orlageary5104
    @orlageary5104 3 года назад +3

    Working so hard and not thinking it matters. This really matters in uncovering bias.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Absolute facts! Because what we do matters even when it feels it doesn’t make an impact...

    • @sonny-johnson
      @sonny-johnson 3 года назад

      @@EsieAKACraige There are so many grateful to you for doing what you are doing

  • @slavacroates
    @slavacroates 3 года назад +1

    What is so beautiful is that Esie acknowledged that she too had to make space to listen to her dancer’s lived experiences. She didn’t assume that because her experience was hard that she could speak for all. This is true compassion and leadership.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 2 года назад

      Thank you Slava for picking up on that. It is never easy to hold space for someone else when you are in pain. It is an extremely hard thing to do even in today's climate. But I think we all could use that insight in our own lives because I feel we would want someone else to extend that same compassion when we need it.

  • @zacksuchodolska
    @zacksuchodolska 3 года назад +2

    Pure and perfect example of taking adversity and turning into something meaningful. Not only did you take the reins for your life, you too those reins and strapped on a cart to take others with you and support them! Incredible and inspiring, Esie!

    • @sonyakirby
      @sonyakirby 3 года назад

      She's a whole bunch of magic I think.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you so much Zack! I appreciate you seeing the efforts I put into my work/artistry. Wishing you well!

  • @mon6745
    @mon6745 4 года назад +31

    She is amazing!!!! This is an amazing talk, and she is an amazing talent. I am so glad that she has the platform to speak, and chose this topic. Beautiful inside and out. 😍

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      Mo n the time is now to create change and open up the dialogue. So I’m grateful to do my part 🙏🏿

    • @alisonjanicewhite
      @alisonjanicewhite 4 года назад +1

      So agree, she is so lovely, why does this still happen?

    • @laelresands5016
      @laelresands5016 3 года назад

      Wow, she is so elegant and so powerful!

    • @alextwarburton
      @alextwarburton 3 года назад +1

      One of the most beautiful people I have ever seen or heard!

    • @laelresands5016
      @laelresands5016 3 года назад

      🥰

  • @saleisalovic
    @saleisalovic 3 года назад +1

    This is shattering to hear. I can't wrap my head around it but I will do whatever I can so that my fellow human's don't have to feel this same pain.

  • @kogordanuk
    @kogordanuk 4 года назад +4

    I see so many comments that y'all are shocked this happened in Canada? Just like every other first world country... Canada isn't some utopia. Esie, your story is powerful. And so are you. I'm grateful that there are strong voices like yours being heard right now. You are a Queen. Thank you.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Yes Kogor! Thankful to have had you find this talk and help show people that these issues are global and that Canada is no exception. Canada likes to make itself out to be something that its not. When people come here they are thankful that the racism doesn't look like lynching but instead are met with intense micro aggressions that are difficult to manage on a daily. I appreciate your words and your compliment. I appreciate it immensely. :)

    • @danabailey3887
      @danabailey3887 4 года назад +1

      Spot on Kogor! A lot of these comments are frustrating me too.

  • @emmasmythe
    @emmasmythe 3 года назад +5

    she's magnificent! and all that work she's doing to show just how much shadeism exists is so important!!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you Emma!

    • @mylescolton
      @mylescolton 3 года назад +1

      i had no idea, i'm going to read more about this now.

    • @emmasmythe
      @emmasmythe 3 года назад +1

      @@mylescolton good idea

  • @thecurenotthesymptom
    @thecurenotthesymptom 4 года назад +4

    the growth that comes from a shared purpose and shared experiences... this lady is absolutely magic, i had goosebumps watching this. her spirit is beyond wise. what an incredible talk, sharing right away, so much to learn from this.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you so much for your words and for sharing my video. Your words are received with much gratitude. :)

  • @rolandadwyer399
    @rolandadwyer399 4 года назад +29

    Sis, you SLAYED this Ted talk👊🏾🔥💯

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      Rolanda Dwyer thank you so much! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @michellemyers-maxwell7472
      @michellemyers-maxwell7472 4 месяца назад

      One for the history books!! Absolutely BRILLANT!!❤

  • @hollytrichards
    @hollytrichards 3 года назад +2

    I just watched Esie's "Awakenings - A Revolution of Love" and I had goose bumps and tears within the first minute. A Revolution of the mind, of the heart. I know that I have so much work to do to be a better ally and it seriously means the world to me that there are brave hearts like Esie being so up front and honest because I wouldn't have a clue and I need to hear these stories so that I can educate myself and help to put voices like Esie's at the forefront.

    • @artcornish3520
      @artcornish3520 3 года назад +1

      Gonna go watch it now...

    • @suebakernottly
      @suebakernottly 3 года назад +1

      superb!

    • @linuspears
      @linuspears 3 года назад +1

      That's how I found this talk. She's so freaking awesome.

  • @jus-t-s
    @jus-t-s 3 года назад +3

    “Shadism” is a new word for me (I even had to check how to spell it!). I feel pretty ashamed in myself as this made me realise that even though I support movements but I still have a long way to go in shifting social constructs in my mind. Thank you for teaching me today

    • @carstenberns7104
      @carstenberns7104 3 года назад +1

      Shake off that shame, we all just gotta do better and educate yourselves

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 2 года назад

      We all can do better with the things that fall into our periphery. Nobody sees everyone 100%. We need to take time to ensure that who we see goes beyond who we like and who we choose to make space for. That's how we offer a chance to change to spaces we create for ourselves and each other.

  • @kathrynlthomas
    @kathrynlthomas 3 года назад +3

    There are so many places around this world that need to see this show! I can only imagine what it would have been like for these individuals to hear one another's stories as the show was being written... I'm envisioning a Netflix adaptation! Please! This is a topic that people will learn so much from, different perspectives bring us to a much better truth.

    • @levshalazar
      @levshalazar 3 года назад +1

      It would be an incredible show

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад +1

      Kathryn, I've been putting it out in the universe to make that happen. I know it will be on the horizon. It will happen and when it does I hope and know it will have an impact.

    • @jasminelovell
      @jasminelovell 3 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige Is there any way we can be updated about this? Do you use any other social media that we can follow you on?

    • @kathrynlthomas
      @kathrynlthomas 3 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige I will stand with you!

    • @kathrynlthomas
      @kathrynlthomas 3 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige it is, trust in your journey girl..

  • @mylescolton
    @mylescolton 3 года назад +3

    This woman is magic. I had no idea people were using products to lighten their skin. I feel so angry that beauty standards have been so pale, considering that vast amount of beauty that touches our species, we need to be celebrating it all. This woman is clearly doing some hard work that must be done, and probably saving lives while she's at it.

    • @chantalbrovic
      @chantalbrovic 3 года назад

      yeah well she defs showed me some light. i had no idea

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you so much for your comment Myles especially the last sentence. You can only hope people resonate with your words and I'm grateful that people are.

  • @timoguedon
    @timoguedon 3 года назад +5

    I think she is beautiful, by looks, by focus, by character, and yes looks again.

    • @sabahachim
      @sabahachim 3 года назад +1

      She is such a beautiful woman

    • @lollo-lia
      @lollo-lia 3 года назад +1

      She is stunning

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      @@sabahachim Thank you Saba!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      @@lollo-lia Thank you Lollo!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      I appreciate the compliments Timo! ☺️

  • @rachstulen
    @rachstulen 3 года назад +5

    I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like to be so passionate and so talented and to not be celebrated because of the shade of my skin. The fact that such a magical human was made to question herself, to be so hard on herself... It's haunting. When someone like this, someone as intelligent and divine, has been made to feel not enough because of her skin colour. Although I am relieved we can finally speak of these injustices and have very important conversations, it still saddens me that such beautiful humans have to live this experience at all, it makes me question our process of evolution. I thank Esie for being so brave and resilient. I will share her story in hopes that it might open these eyes of someone who does not understand.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you Rach for hearing and sharing my story. It is appreciated deeply.

    • @emkegillis
      @emkegillis 3 года назад

      She is so beautiful!

  • @tinatuvalle
    @tinatuvalle 3 года назад +1

    A dancer and an intellect. The work she has done is just amazing, heartbreaking but amazing. What an absolute gem she is.

    • @therealjuanschmidt
      @therealjuanschmidt 3 года назад +1

      She's incredible!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you so much Tina! I'm grateful to be both of those things and I do so with great honour.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      @@therealjuanschmidt Thank you!

  • @ezekielaliss
    @ezekielaliss 3 года назад +5

    Her passion and determination are incredibly admirable. And this topic, it's one we all need to be aware of and see.

  • @briannestory9750
    @briannestory9750 4 года назад +3

    You just need to look and you can see the inequality - but this gave you amazing strength and an articulation of absolute crazy truths. You cant see discrimination so to speak, you feel it, unspoken yet acted out. This makes me sad.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      My hardships helped to make me who I am today. I know that not everyone has the capacity to get past those realities but I always hope that their resilience will pull them through.

  • @natashafederov
    @natashafederov 4 года назад +3

    What a powerful woman! The way she commands on that stage.... I hope her story travels far and wide, it must be heard.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Thank you Natasha! Anything you can do to help spread the message is appreciated!

    • @natashafederov
      @natashafederov 4 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige I have sent to many friends..

  • @ParisDavisDean
    @ParisDavisDean 4 года назад +8

    I thought you were gorgeous as soon as I saw you. Inspiring and drop dead beautiful to me. I wish I was darker. Many are sick in their own seed, but don’t know it. I needed to hear this talk. The most positive talk I’ve heard in a long time. I was brainwashed as a kid growing up. It took some years to understand how I was groomed to come out of that mentality...of feeling my dark skin was not good enough. 🙏🏾 ☺️ Thank you

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Paris! Thank you for your words and honesty. Sending gratitude and love to you. This journey we have isn't easy and it sure built alot of character in me. I'm happy you gained so much from it and can hear your story reflected in my words. I hope you continue to follow my journey.

  • @lollo-lia
    @lollo-lia 4 года назад +1

    What a powerful human. Her energy is incredible! I so wish she didn't have to go through this though. It's so hard to comprehend. I remember seeing a doco about people with very dark complexions using skin lightener and it absolutely broke my heart. Fair skin does not equal beauty. I am grateful that this conversation is being had and finally (still not enough though) we are seeing people of all different colours and complexions being represented. We still have so much more work to do though.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      There is so much work to do and we can only hope people are willing to roll up their sleeves and do the work. Change can start from one person...

  • @RafaelZCruz
    @RafaelZCruz 3 года назад +2

    Esie, you are radiant and beautiful soul. I can't even begin to imagine how taxing it would be to take on this fight but we are better for it. I see how people are becoming more aware, better at educating themselves. I hope soon you can rest and know that your work is doing amazing things.

    • @artcornish3520
      @artcornish3520 3 года назад +1

      She is beyond incredible

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 2 года назад

      Thank you Rafael. I appreciate your words and thoughts on this piece. Shadeism/colorism is a real issue and it will take a lot of time before people are ready to talk about real change. I can only hope that my contribution can shift people in some way to make our futures better than our past.

  • @justinjjtaylor
    @justinjjtaylor 3 года назад +6

    "No matter where I go, I can't escape my complexion." I don't even know how to respond to this though so worth listening to.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Sometimes a response isn’t needed and it’s enough to know you were heard...

    • @hamlinr
      @hamlinr 3 года назад

      beautiful woman and a beautiful soul.

  • @Me-lolahernandez
    @Me-lolahernandez 3 года назад +1

    Oh wow, I never thought about how a person’s skin color would override their skill and ability in their profession. I always subconsciously believed the rhetoric that ‘If you work hard enough you can do anything’- My privilege just became so apparent. I am so sad that this is the world we live in and I am so grateful for people like you who are speaking out and calling this what it is. Thank you for rising above

    • @moanaoloha
      @moanaoloha 3 года назад +1

      Good on you for realising and admitting.

  • @annielebedeva2747
    @annielebedeva2747 4 года назад +9

    Love this, Esie!!! ✨💜✨
    you’re an inspiration, a voice that needs to be heard by everyone, and a stunning person!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      Thank you sooooo much Annie! Appreciate you!

    • @elaineclouston
      @elaineclouston 4 года назад +1

      Sometimes I see TEDs that say the right thing, this is one of them.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      @@elaineclouston Thank you very much for your words!

  • @cedrickdroui
    @cedrickdroui 4 года назад +5

    Agree, this happened for the reason that your voice needs to stand strong, you need to help lead this fight for equality.

    • @davidhanson8232
      @davidhanson8232 4 года назад +1

      Good link to send Cedrick, thanks

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      I agree Cedrick. This definitely did happen for a reason. Thank you for your words and support!

  • @kamilanotthevip
    @kamilanotthevip 4 года назад +3

    Beautiful, powerful and smart. I don't see her skin color I see her character!!!!

    • @natashafederov
      @natashafederov 4 года назад +1

      I see her skin color and it is absolutely beautiful. We are all different and should be celebrated as such.

    • @kamilanotthevip
      @kamilanotthevip 4 года назад

      @@natashafederov true, same same but different

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Please see my colour!!! My colour can never be eliminated and it shouldn’t be. See my colour in all its beauty and fullness because my colour is what makes my character. 🙏🏿

  • @Richard-lh3te
    @Richard-lh3te 3 года назад +2

    Sad that she’s experienced so much discrimination due to her skin, it’s absolutely gorgeous.

  • @Notthefootykevinrooney
    @Notthefootykevinrooney 3 года назад +3

    When you find your passion, it keeps you moving forward regardless of what barriers arise along the way. When humans find and show compassion, it helps raise you up beyond the barriers and lets you know that you are not alone.

  • @danabailey3887
    @danabailey3887 4 года назад +2

    Powerful message!! I can tell by the comments here many do not realize how deep this discrimination runs. I wish so much that we were past all this and such a resilient woman would not have to use her time fighting for acceptance - but here we are in 2020, still trying to raises awareness, still trying to educate.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Most definitely Dana. We hope that by all doing our part we will see the future that everyone deserves.

    • @regissanford7104
      @regissanford7104 4 года назад +1

      Any of us who have the opportunity or privilege must keep space and educate ourselves.

  • @aleidbarend
    @aleidbarend 3 года назад +3

    I know what it feels like to be over looked and no matter what I always viewed it as something was wrong with me, I wasn't good enough. Its got to extremely painful when it has so little to do with your talent and more to do with the colour of your skin. Thank you for your enlightening talk.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад +1

      Society likes to remind us there is something wrong with us. I didn’t want to accept the glass ceiling over my head so I kicked it down and watched it fall. Now I know nothing can stop me....

    • @asherPreynolds
      @asherPreynolds 3 года назад

      @@EsieAKACraige that response put a bit of a fire in my belly - keep at it Queen

  • @Newview.592
    @Newview.592 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing ..

  • @therealjuanschmidt
    @therealjuanschmidt 3 года назад +2

    Fair skin beauty products, lighten your skin change your life. I have no words for this. I really had no idea. Goes to show that I need to educate myself some.

    • @ezekielaliss
      @ezekielaliss 3 года назад +1

      It's really heartbreaking to see so many beautiful people not feeling good enough because of this sort of BS.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад +1

      The products feed the mindset that many people have been conditioned to believe. Many people pass advertisements on a regular with having no clue about what its for. Many big name companies have a bleaching line because it sells...Revlon, Neutrogena, Vaseline. Those products are banned in Canada but exist in high demands in other countries. Its a complex issue that truly has no easy solution.

    • @therealjuanschmidt
      @therealjuanschmidt 3 года назад

      @@EsieAKACraige forget ads, look at truth!

    • @kathrynlthomas
      @kathrynlthomas 3 года назад

      @@EsieAKACraige Omg.... I had no idea that still these products were being manufactured.

  • @ladyvalli1
    @ladyvalli1 3 года назад +1

    That's awesome! Despite the pressure you had you managed to bring your heritage on the stage!

  • @Myrodance
    @Myrodance 4 года назад +4

    So proud of you Esie! 💜

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      Myrodance thank you Boo. Love you girl xo

  • @sabahachim
    @sabahachim 3 года назад +2

    I wouldn't have a clue what this feels like but I can only imagine the frustration. Being so talented and so on the ball, knowing your worth and having people shoot you down because of your skin? Like, I think I'd be throwing stuff. But she is doing all that she can, raising awareness, doing the research. And now I have to educate myself. I had no idea about shadeism.

    • @tinatuvalle
      @tinatuvalle 3 года назад +1

      Start looking it up, you learn so much

    • @dustinprichards
      @dustinprichards 3 года назад +1

      @@tinatuvalle I'm going to now

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you for taking interest beyond this talk to do research on the subject. I appreciate it.

  • @maxpoyntz4960
    @maxpoyntz4960 3 года назад +1

    This is beautiful and it is tragic. But she is simply beautiful.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      It is tragic Max. Thank you for taking the time to listen to my story.

  • @asherPreynolds
    @asherPreynolds 3 года назад +3

    Maaan I remember when Worl' Boss started with the whole cake soap thing and then reading a story from a young man who started following in his foot steps and lightening his skin only to have spend a fortune with a doctor because it was so bad for his skin. It's about time these conversations were had and perception changed. I just wish there was more I could do to help ease the suffering.

    • @chantalbrovic
      @chantalbrovic 3 года назад

      thanks for sending to me ash, defs have some more reading to do now

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      I think what's important is that we continue to speak about it. If we become silent we become complacent, so its important we do our best to bring awareness and understanding as we move forward.

  • @seeChattrisse
    @seeChattrisse 4 года назад +2

    Yes Esie!! What a bold and graceful entryway into a conversation which is absolutely necessary. Thank you so much for this.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Thank you Chattrisse! Big love to you!

  • @mattfinley4544
    @mattfinley4544 4 года назад +3

    Very eye opening!!! A must watch.

  • @iamarchiestewart
    @iamarchiestewart 4 года назад +2

    You are a beautiful woman! And clearly beyond capable and strong - using that voice for such good.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Thank you Archie! Appreciate the compliment

    • @jonasblix
      @jonasblix 4 года назад +1

      she really is beautiful

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      @@jonasblix Thank you!

  • @verymarysalisbury
    @verymarysalisbury 4 года назад +1

    You are beautiful - period

  • @danfisher5197
    @danfisher5197 2 года назад +1

    Bravo!

  • @andreanthony215
    @andreanthony215 4 года назад +5

    Wow! This is amazing! And you're so inspirational! ❤

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Thank you Andre! Appreciate the compliment. Hope you're well.

  • @carstenberns7104
    @carstenberns7104 3 года назад +2

    Absolutely amazing presentation. I want to see this play she put together!

  • @tiffanymay4265
    @tiffanymay4265 4 года назад +3

    Keep raising the bar.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      Tiffany May always sis....always

  • @sandycrisp4518
    @sandycrisp4518 4 года назад +1

    Somebody else said this too, but Esie you are so beautiful, and maybe this happened so you would step forward and become a voice.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Hey Sandy, I 100% agree. Our tribulations give us our greatest voice if we choose not to make it our greatest crutch. I'm thankful I can stand in this skin at this point in my life.

  • @kademalik4271
    @kademalik4271 3 года назад +2

    The shame is, not that it happened, but that it continues to happen.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      True words....

    • @kathrynlthomas
      @kathrynlthomas 3 года назад

      We can make a difference though! The conversation is happening now, people are demanding justice and I am finally starting to understand how I can use my privilege to actually help.

  • @lollo-lia
    @lollo-lia 3 года назад +1

    You beautiful, courageous and fierce woman, thank you for all that you are doing

  • @levshalazar
    @levshalazar 3 года назад +1

    A few years ago on some fb page or something, a picture of a stunning girl was shared, she had just won a beauty pageant and the smile she had was the proudest I had ever seen. The comments though I noticed were very differing in opinion about this little girl's accomplishment. There were a lot of wyt women saying that we needed to celebrate this little girl for more than her beauty and stunning skin, but her Mother pointed out that women of colour have very rarely been celebrated for their beauty and that it is high time we did as such... And I couldn't agree more. I hate the way we objectify but every person deserves to feel represented in this world, to feel beautiful just as we are, accepted and celebrated. I really hope that the conversations that have been had over the years, that are now leading to action - make a long lasting change. To hear Esie's story, to know that such a talented and beautiful woman would be treated like this is not okay. It was never okay. It needs to change now.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you Levsha. We need to take our power and our voices back. Everything that happened to me gave me the courage to stand up and create a new rhythm. I am grateful for that. I hope that the children that are growing up now see many possibilities on the horizon. I hope education on these subjects become the norm so we can stop ostracizing people silently and allow them to exist as their full self.

  • @amberdenkins
    @amberdenkins 3 года назад +2

    Rising above shad-ism. This topic makes me anxious because her challenges are real.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Deep breathes Amber 😊. I've transformed my challenges into my superpower.

    • @amberdenkins
      @amberdenkins 3 года назад

      @@EsieAKACraige very cool!

  • @avajayden1729
    @avajayden1729 3 года назад +1

    Your story reminds me of Michaela DePrince. Amazing that you don't give up and move on to your dream.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Thank you Ava! Michaela is pretty amazing!

  • @charlesaddington
    @charlesaddington 4 года назад +3

    Talent, elegance, capability can never be measured by a skin co,or.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      Thank you Charles. It surely cannot be measured by skin colour but we understand that this isn't the society we live in.We can only do the work to change it.

    • @charlesaddington
      @charlesaddington 4 года назад

      @@EsieAKACraige and I vow to work, at least in my own little corner of the world.

  • @axelrespert3498
    @axelrespert3498 3 года назад +1

    Has anyone read ‘The colour Purple’? This is a whole new level of the conversation for me.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Beautiful book! Alice Walker speaks on colourism and is the first person to name it officially. I hope this inspires you to do more research. :)

  • @adagunesesq
    @adagunesesq 4 года назад +14

    This is so wrong, this woman is so beautiful, how could she be turned away.

    • @happybarker
      @happybarker 4 года назад

      B-L-M

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      What people see as beautiful changes because of how they've been conditioned. Our society is now seeing the beauty of the diversity in complexions. We hope that as time goes, other women as beautiful as me with my complexion won't have to encounter the same level of hardships

    • @jaspernedivek
      @jaspernedivek 4 года назад

      She is beautiful

    • @jacquelinehogan3313
      @jacquelinehogan3313 4 года назад

      there are still bad people, and right now one has been voted out of office.

    • @blaisedominique
      @blaisedominique 3 года назад

      I love her, strength through openess, and simply beautiful too.

  • @michellemyers-maxwell7472
    @michellemyers-maxwell7472 4 месяца назад

    💥🙏🏾💥💪🏾💥🙌🏾So So POWERFUL. Bless you my sister!! 💓

  • @jamesbowie4540
    @jamesbowie4540 4 года назад +10

    Someone else said its 2020, but look at people and you think its 1950, I hope the protests finally start some serious change.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      We can only hope....

    • @jamesbowie4540
      @jamesbowie4540 4 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige great talk, hope you come to Oregon and speak one day!!!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      James Bowie putting it into the universe!

  • @yoursecretstar
    @yoursecretstar 3 года назад +2

    It still amazes me that this happens.

  • @lestnewman
    @lestnewman 3 года назад +3

    I wonder if she had any idea what sort of history was in the making when she did this talk. I know in my heart we have swung every which way and it is now time to embrace and celebrate different shades. Finally POC are being listened to and given credit for their amazing skin. But I know there is still so much work to do, more education. Us pale sorts need to hold other pale sorts accountable, we need for history to actually portray what has happened in our history rather than white washing over it.

  • @alisonjanicewhite
    @alisonjanicewhite 4 года назад +30

    This is so bizarre, it's 2020 and she is so beautiful, why is this happening?

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +3

      HI Alison, Thank you for your compliment. I think this is the biggest question. Looking into the why unleashes skeletons from the closest but we need to do so in order to heal.

    • @ruperttheprince
      @ruperttheprince 4 года назад +1

      believe me it happens way too much.

    • @ruperttheprince
      @ruperttheprince 4 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige you are powerful, they can see it, thats why they tried to push you away, you keep going.

    • @thetoddfrank
      @thetoddfrank 4 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige represent, thats what you are doing for all of us, thank you.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      @@ruperttheprince Thank you Rupert! The strength in my voice comes from the journey of the pain. Adversity really built me up and I'm grateful

  • @ben-basi
    @ben-basi 4 года назад +1

    “Ignorance and prejudice are the handmaidens of propaganda. Our mission, therefore, is to confront ignorance with knowledge, bigotry with tolerance, and isolation with the outstretched hand of generosity. Racism can, will, and must be defeated.”
    ― Kofi Annan

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Beautifully said... It will be defeated

    • @ben-basi
      @ben-basi 4 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige thank you!

  • @mon6745
    @mon6745 4 года назад +2

    Yes Esie!!!!!

  • @northcosca
    @northcosca 4 года назад +2

    Such a beautiful woman!!!

  • @songbirdangel
    @songbirdangel 4 года назад +5

    Poweful !!!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      songbirdangel thank you so much! 🙏🏿💛

  • @mehdidouinine
    @mehdidouinine 4 года назад +4

    I can't believe she faced this in Canada?

  • @flodavis
    @flodavis 4 года назад +3

    There will come a day that our movement, our color and our voice will be celebrated because of the difference. Its happening now where majority white is removing color blocking.

  • @simaobitencourt
    @simaobitencourt 4 года назад +2

    I agree that our physical differences shouldn't affect our opportunities, but what is the right way to see our differences, not in judgment just in observation?

    • @thecurenotthesymptom
      @thecurenotthesymptom 4 года назад

      to not let prejudice and stereotypes guide our view of differences.

  • @michealdrozd
    @michealdrozd 4 года назад +1

    NO NO NO, this is wrong! Man this woman has got it all, why would they say this to her?

  • @grantcayden
    @grantcayden 3 года назад +1

    The idea of someone becoming ’12 shades lighter overnight’ is alarming - That sounds like something that is unhealthy for the skin and the soul. What kind of world have we created where someone would voluntarily do that to themselves  Thankyou for bringing this to my attention.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 2 года назад

      ITs a multi-billion dollar industry so there are a lot of people who feel this way. I've always been intrigued of why people make this choice just to understand them better. We all make choices others may not agree with but there are real repercussions that can affect one's life with skin bleaching. I hope my words might cause someone to think twice about their choice.

  • @davidangus6502
    @davidangus6502 4 года назад +2

    Some else said it too, man this is Canada this happened in. Wow...

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      Of course this happens in Canada. Racism and prejudice didn't stop at the Canadian/US border. This issue is deeply rooted into our society and it will take just as much work to build new bridges towards change

    • @kogordanuk
      @kogordanuk 4 года назад +1

      Canada is littered with racism. I can't believe people are shocked by this.

    • @davidangus6502
      @davidangus6502 4 года назад

      @@kogordanuk look at Alberta - reneck oil mongers

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      @@davidangus6502 In order for us to see a change we have to be willing to break the cycle. They are people just like everyone else that feel entitled to how they feel and why. If we look beyond Alberta we can find the similar mentality all throughout this country. I am often asking what needs to happen for us to see a change...I think very few people are ready to meet people half way.

  • @adamcenturione8631
    @adamcenturione8631 3 года назад +1

    We must maximize negentropy within and amoungst to optimize the rate of adaptation, which is the driving force of evolution.

  • @thehammygnow
    @thehammygnow 4 года назад +5

    You know what, this isn't the first time I have heard the entertainment industry being like this, and mostly the get a pass. Thats not right.

    • @lestnewman
      @lestnewman 3 года назад

      how everything industry being like this?

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Its been structured like this for decades. Its just not been talked about.

  • @blaisedominique
    @blaisedominique 3 года назад +2

    I am curious to know that after the discussions had in this last 12 months if Esie thinks we are getting any closer to fully understanding the depth of this issue?

    • @avajayden1729
      @avajayden1729 3 года назад

      I hope we are learning more

    • @RafaelZCruz
      @RafaelZCruz 3 года назад

      I would say yes and no, it'll be work for all of us for the foreseeable future

    • @avajayden1729
      @avajayden1729 3 года назад

      @@RafaelZCruz 🥰 good work

  • @sienaredders
    @sienaredders 4 года назад +3

    After watching the US president last night I am not surprised, leaders need to take the lead roles in ending racism, not promoting it.

  • @anarrowgirl1878
    @anarrowgirl1878 3 года назад +2

    ❤️

  • @aliyahrhodes
    @aliyahrhodes 3 года назад +3

    Is it about what I got or what I gave? I questions myself on this daily.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 3 года назад

      Great question to ask yourself....

  • @ZedLove
    @ZedLove 4 года назад +4

    TEDx Talks has almost 26 million subscribers, but somehow this video is still under 1000 views after 5 months?

    • @stewynotthedog
      @stewynotthedog 4 года назад +2

      thought the same thing, this talk is fitting right now more than ever.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      @@stewynotthedog @ZakNitsch thank you for finding your way to this page. I hope that now more than ever this discussion gets amplified in the way it needs to be.

    • @iamarchiestewart
      @iamarchiestewart 4 года назад +1

      agreed! lets share it! get it out there!

  • @tulsibloom
    @tulsibloom 2 года назад +1

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @jonathangravenor9208
    @jonathangravenor9208 3 года назад +3

    Cannot believe this happened in my country! Just wrong.

  • @ianrendle
    @ianrendle 4 года назад +3

    You just need to look at the United States and see whats happening, and you understand why this happened and still happens. When our leaders don't call out hatred it happens.

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      Huge facts. They are making the situation worse not better. We hope people continue to have courage to have the hard conversations so it becomes the catalyst for change.

  • @theone2830
    @theone2830 2 года назад

    Up!!!

  • @kyootzee
    @kyootzee 2 года назад +1

    A history of oppression or a future of possibilities

  • @shannonhensley
    @shannonhensley 4 года назад +2

    Don't you think protest has brought the discussion forward, much faster!

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад +1

      It has! But this topic has been snowballing over the last few years. Timing is everything and this is a topic that needs to be amplified!

    • @shannonhensley
      @shannonhensley 4 года назад +1

      @@EsieAKACraige Agreed 1000000%

  • @keithmlawrence
    @keithmlawrence 4 года назад +2

    You would have thought the arts was much more progressive than this...

    • @EsieAKACraige
      @EsieAKACraige 4 года назад

      It definitely isn't. The arts- especially the commercial/entertainment industry are the ones that set a standard many people are being conditioned to consume. The videos, films, stage shows all adhere to a certain standard that promote a certain type of beauty...basically whiteness or lightness.

  • @glenbeckernotthatoneeither
    @glenbeckernotthatoneeither 3 года назад

    Become 12 shades lighter over night? What have we become when this is a standard for success. Its just not right.

  • @richargxz4487
    @richargxz4487 3 года назад +1

    this video is aks

  • @fabriziomarcos_70
    @fabriziomarcos_70 4 года назад +1

    abrí una pagina y me apareció esto que es esto