That side chick at her married man’s funeral was so wrong sana. I think as people we need to know where to draw the line. Tbh it was a bit ruthless of her to go to his memorial and his funeral🥲zero consideration for the wife at all and the fact that she knew that the wife knows is so wrong on all levels .
I get you but 4 years with someone you need that closure hle . I think when people are sides they dont think of those situations where you the person you with dies. Its very disrespectful of her to attend hle But also silwelani nge ndoda eseyisishiyile ? The wife got all closure she didn't. It would be wrong if she showed face in sense of wanting to be seen her not wailing during the funeral is definitely being respectful in sense "imagine holding your tears to go cry in the car" hayi ustrong . Yhhho yaze ya tricky isituation yakhe
I think in addition to what ZeeX was saying (with the 50/50 femininity person) femininity is not necessarily what sustains relationships. Someone can be with the most femme of people and still not have lasting relationships. I am very weary around the femininity chats that we sometimes have as women (because independence, control over your own life and hustling shouldnt necessarily be considered unfeminine, for example). Seeking softness and femininity for yourself is not wrong at all (because we are allowed to explore and express all sides of ourselves: feminine and masculine) but as soon as you make it a thing to seek those things because you think it will guarantee companionship, that is where things will go left. Just go on with the general idea of finding people who are soft landings and who allow you to feel safe enough to let go of the control like was said in the video
The one about your friends not inviting you to things? Very tricky. Sometimes your friends get closer in your absence and its hurts, but you have to respect that. Otherwise if its just a matter or them ousting you from the bigger group just see it as a blessing because its much worse being surrounded by People who don’t like to hang out with you.
This is true but my good sis needs to put herself first and leave before she gets into a cycle of having expectations and consistently getting disappointed by the friends.
@@motlalepulelekholoa3766 Sad but really worth the Peace of Mind later. If your friends consistently exclude you? Leave them be Darling, otherwise they just keep getting closer while you beg to be included.
I'm also still working on being in touch with my femininity and I truly appreciate how you gave your insight on that❤. This journey really is a marathon and although I have learnt to let go of the need to be in control all the time , I recognize that the people I allow into my space are just as important in my "healing". Its not conducive to be around people that make you feel like you constantly have to have your guard up but I recognize now also that the relationships we have with other people are a direct reflection of us so it's important that we as girls set the tone for ourselves on the kind of love we need and in our toxic independence case, I think we need to normalize creating a reward system for ourselves so that we will have no choice but to be good to ourselves FIRST before a partner or friend does it. 🌱
Great advice Zee smomondiya. Tbh the one where her friend's man is cheating on her friend - she defs must tell her friend but she must also prepare to lose her friend. 9/10 times, the friend that tells always ends up being the villain. That time all the friend wants to do is to protect her friend. A person who is "my man this, my man that" will most probably not leave her cheating man 🤞
About the “ my man, my man, my man” friend. Don’t say a word. If your relationship means that much, keep it quiet and let the LORD do his work. I’ve lost a great friend over such nonsense.. and all he had to say was “apologise” and he made her break up with ME!. If your friend is a blind, let her. Or let other people tell her. You’ll turn into a common enemy ( they were even rumours saying , I’m the one that wanted my friends bf) … Turn BLIND too and focus on your friendships. Prepare yourself for the day it all comes crushing DOWN.
On the last dilemma... sis knows she has to cut that man off, he's a walking red billboard ke sana😂😭 but nonchalant, emotionally unavailable men be so attractive sometimes yoooh. It reminds me of how men want "good girls" but go for the opposite and try change them. Girls do the same thing😂😂
The funeral girl nguye owrongoooo kuAcrimony 😂😂😭😭 the way I laughed when she said she kept going to the car to cry. Weehh sisi. And the 24 year old is probably embarrassed by that fossil pushing 40, best to stay away sana, because being scared to be seen with someone means you don't like them thaaaat much and what you're doing is against your comfortability - just my 2cents though. Loved this Zee, would love more ngoba I kikiii'd
First all WHAT A SMOMONDIYA! Even nase India bayakothuka becoz whaaattt😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥🔥 Also love love the new set ke sana😍 it’s so clean and so scrumptious 😘 Pls the girl that went to the memorial and funeral?!? Sana! Akho need 😭 she took it to far but I’m sure he needed some closure and also she sounds like someone who doesn’t talk about this kwiChomi zakhe so she’s bottling everything hence the secret cry😭 abeRight marn🥺
The side chick at the funeral is so wrong because she agreed to be hidden for 4 years and now suddenly she wants to be known by who because your person has passed, are people suppose to give you the opportunity to grieve our loud when your relationship was never out there. Attention seeking tendencies taking the spotlight away from the wife thst you know about also I love his friends for not giving you the platform even worse showing you thst it has always been her even now it’s her
I don’t really think she wanted to be “known” , I just think it’s a matter of her being at a memorial and funeral and closing(healing) a phase she had with a partner. I also think she should allow herself to express her grief, at the end of the day she cared for him as much as family and friends did.
Moghel wa Funeral overdid it! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Life was nice when she was living the cheat life and the wife’s/kids feelings probably didn’t matter, suddenly you want to come and cry the loudest in-front of everyone?? 🤣🤣 Get outta here and Go see a therapist or Ntate Moruti.
I strongly strongly believe girls in their early 20s should be dating guys also in their 20s. That 24 year old has WHAT in common with a 37 year old grandpa!???? Throw that man away! Also the funeral mourner, “Gabrielle you’ve gone too far!”
The one who have friends who are in different levels, she must pray about it, talk to God about the way she feels and try to ask to not feel somehow and learn ukubabongela. It worked for me 😌.
Can we talk about how beautiful the whole screen is (you plus the Background) it's GIVING babes
That side chick at her married man’s funeral was so wrong sana. I think as people we need to know where to draw the line. Tbh it was a bit ruthless of her to go to his memorial and his funeral🥲zero consideration for the wife at all and the fact that she knew that the wife knows is so wrong on all levels .
Very wild of her
I sympathize with her but bruhhhhhhh be uyaphi to those services. It's kinda, sorta disrespectful hey.
I get you but 4 years with someone you need that closure hle . I think when people are sides they dont think of those situations where you the person you with dies. Its very disrespectful of her to attend hle But also silwelani nge ndoda eseyisishiyile ? The wife got all closure she didn't. It would be wrong if she showed face in sense of wanting to be seen her not wailing during the funeral is definitely being respectful in sense "imagine holding your tears to go cry in the car" hayi ustrong . Yhhho yaze ya tricky isituation yakhe
Sana🥺🥺
Heavy on that GIVE THE WIFE A BREAK!!! so so valid!! Like let this poor lady mourn without your interference 😭😭
Aowa guys 🤨 stop dating people in relationships and married people.
Like !! And being fully aware and participating is disgusting
We are close to 100K pow pow🎉🎉❤
The quality of this video 🤭🔥!! You literally look so crisp !
Yaaaay I’m so happy you like it 🫰🏾
I think in addition to what ZeeX was saying (with the 50/50 femininity person) femininity is not necessarily what sustains relationships. Someone can be with the most femme of people and still not have lasting relationships. I am very weary around the femininity chats that we sometimes have as women (because independence, control over your own life and hustling shouldnt necessarily be considered unfeminine, for example). Seeking softness and femininity for yourself is not wrong at all (because we are allowed to explore and express all sides of ourselves: feminine and masculine) but as soon as you make it a thing to seek those things because you think it will guarantee companionship, that is where things will go left. Just go on with the general idea of finding people who are soft landings and who allow you to feel safe enough to let go of the control like was said in the video
Great perspective, I definitely agree🫰🏾
The one about your friends not inviting you to things? Very tricky. Sometimes your friends get closer in your absence and its hurts, but you have to respect that. Otherwise if its just a matter or them ousting you from the bigger group just see it as a blessing because its much worse being surrounded by
People who don’t like to hang out with you.
This is true but my good sis needs to put herself first and leave before she gets into a cycle of having expectations and consistently getting disappointed by the friends.
I related to mogirl there and it's better to just detach and move on or as ZeeX said to be friends with the ones who actually like her in the group.
@@motlalepulelekholoa3766 Sad but really worth the Peace of Mind later. If your friends consistently exclude you? Leave them be Darling, otherwise they just keep getting closer while you beg to be included.
The quality of your videos gets me sold everytime
I'm afraid uSisi we Funeral ugagamele😂... What do you mean uye nakwi memorial!? But ke wethu, you looked gorgeous telling us amabibi abantu sweety😂❤
🎉🎉🎉 please give us more. Sidenote we as ladies know when it's not working but love to play the what if game and gents capitalize on that 😶🌫️
The quaaaality!!? Sickening 🥹😍 looking gorgeous Zee 🫦
Sana
Just focusing on your beauty 💕💕💕
I'm also still working on being in touch with my femininity and I truly appreciate how you gave your insight on that❤. This journey really is a marathon and although I have learnt to let go of the need to be in control all the time , I recognize that the people I allow into my space are just as important in my "healing". Its not conducive to be around people that make you feel like you constantly have to have your guard up but I recognize now also that the relationships we have with other people are a direct reflection of us so it's important that we as girls set the tone for ourselves on the kind of love we need and in our toxic independence case, I think we need to normalize creating a reward system for ourselves so that we will have no choice but to be good to ourselves FIRST before a partner or friend does it. 🌱
I absolutely love this 🥹🥹❤️
Great advice Zee smomondiya. Tbh the one where her friend's man is cheating on her friend - she defs must tell her friend but she must also prepare to lose her friend. 9/10 times, the friend that tells always ends up being the villain. That time all the friend wants to do is to protect her friend. A person who is "my man this, my man that" will most probably not leave her cheating man 🤞
Facts actually! But a friend who would leave her over that is a friend she doesn’t need in the first place.
Wooo. Zee came in with the wisdom on the independent, Daddy issues. I kept snapping my fingers. ♥️👏🏾
Ohh yasss! The way I jumped when I saw the notification 🥹🥹😭
Me too 😂
Please for my sake do this more often, listening to you speak about other people's dilemmas is so Therapeutic 🥺❤️
Responses to every dilemma was real honestly. Enjoyed the video 🤍
9:31 your response/reaction to this particular dilemma????? So on point and well said💯 thanks doll❤️
This quality??? INSANE ke sweetie 😤😤❤
Such a girly girly. I agree with all of your opinions, zee’maker sense maan. What a 10/10 video.
I've been a subscriber for idk how long but i still cannot get over how gorgeous you are! 😭
This wig makes you look like a black American hoooneeeyy😍😍😍❤️🔥.. Quality and everything 10/10
The opening scenes had me cracked up already😂😂😂. I love it here
love love loveeee the dilemma episodes as always !!!! Your make up ma'am !!!!😍😍
Watching the entire video because of how beautiful ZeeX is🔥🔥🔥the beat ate🥰
HI Zama, do you have a video on this makeup look? its absolutely stunning!!
Check out my TikTok babee❤️
@@ZeeXOnline on it! Thank you ❤️
This look ? Ate ate ate!!😍😍
The singlehood part😍😍, I needed that 😊
You actually give such good advice. Very mature responses. I enjoyed this❤
"You can fall ALL you want" 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
About the “ my man, my man, my man” friend. Don’t say a word. If your relationship means that much, keep it quiet and let the LORD do his work. I’ve lost a great friend over such nonsense.. and all he had to say was “apologise” and he made her break up with ME!.
If your friend is a blind, let her. Or let other people tell her. You’ll turn into a common enemy ( they were even rumours saying , I’m the one that wanted my friends bf) … Turn BLIND too and focus on your friendships. Prepare yourself for the day it all comes crushing DOWN.
Leave the friendship baby and don’t explain it because they know what they are doing.
Thank you!!.
You look so beautiful ❤and those lamps look amazing,where did you get em from?
i missed this series real bad so happy you brought it back.❤
Loved this segment, part 2 please ❤❤❤
On the last dilemma... sis knows she has to cut that man off, he's a walking red billboard ke sana😂😭 but nonchalant, emotionally unavailable men be so attractive sometimes yoooh. It reminds me of how men want "good girls" but go for the opposite and try change them. Girls do the same thing😂😂
We need this lewk on TikTok😍❤
I’ve been saying “What 😮” almost every time you read the dilemmas 🤣🤣🤣 xeim people are weird outchea😢
haike sana ugal we-funeral. she was doing the most
The funeral girl nguye owrongoooo kuAcrimony 😂😂😭😭 the way I laughed when she said she kept going to the car to cry. Weehh sisi.
And the 24 year old is probably embarrassed by that fossil pushing 40, best to stay away sana, because being scared to be seen with someone means you don't like them thaaaat much and what you're doing is against your comfortability - just my 2cents though.
Loved this Zee, would love more ngoba I kikiii'd
Yoh this was really good ❤️can’t wait to see more of these ❤
Just here to say I love this segment ❤️🥺
Awusemhle sana! Stunner! I *love* this segment since since! You are so smart, wise and witty! Love it Ange
Lmao. The dilemma at 19 mins.
First all WHAT A SMOMONDIYA! Even nase India bayakothuka becoz whaaattt😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥🔥
Also love love the new set ke sana😍 it’s so clean and so scrumptious 😘
Pls the girl that went to the memorial and funeral?!? Sana! Akho need 😭 she took it to far but I’m sure he needed some closure and also she sounds like someone who doesn’t talk about this kwiChomi zakhe so she’s bottling everything hence the secret cry😭 abeRight marn🥺
aowa zeex, these need to be an hour long 😭
Honestly!!!😭
I love these videos because ma’am you say the truth love you 🥰
The video, quality👌👌👌
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂the side chick at the funeral and the crying breaks... 😂😂😂girl is a drama queen.
The friendship part you talking to me
Same eyy
The girl that went to the funeral, Hayibo DISRESPECT sana. Can you put yourself in another women’s shoes just for once?!
The girl that went to the married man’s funeral becimba kuzothini? Did she wanna cry ashiyisane nomfazi? Oh uyayibaxa bc besiyaphi to begin with 💀
Wena undidikela ubamhle too much Sana andazi or I should get popcorns or I fan 😅😊 ha.a ezi dilemma 😮😂love you somuch Zee❤
😂😂❤️ love you too!!
Perfect timing!
Loved this , Zee you’re GORGEOUS!!!🔥🔥🔥
I was honestly on my way to comment this ! Like tammnn she’s GORGEOUS 🔥
The best monday ke sana
Zeee babyyy you're doing well babyyy ❤
Thank you sthandwa ❤️
The quality is scrumptiouuuuuus okur
Zee you’re so beautiful 😭😍😍
OH YEEEEEBOOOOO🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
You look so pretty 😍 also the background 😍
Ndim ke u”I was bored “ 😂😂
Road to 100k🙌🎉🎉
"can you tell me what the point is" 😂😂😂 18:54
Lip combo eatsssss❤
The side chick at the funeral is so wrong because she agreed to be hidden for 4 years and now suddenly she wants to be known by who because your person has passed, are people suppose to give you the opportunity to grieve our loud when your relationship was never out there. Attention seeking tendencies taking the spotlight away from the wife thst you know about also I love his friends for not giving you the platform even worse showing you thst it has always been her even now it’s her
I don’t really think she wanted to be “known” , I just think it’s a matter of her being at a memorial and funeral and closing(healing) a phase she had with a partner. I also think she should allow herself to express her grief, at the end of the day she cared for him as much as family and friends did.
I love these!!
Not the side chick going to the funeral 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽thats was too much!
Road to 100K 🎉😊
Goodness, you’re gorgeous🥹😍😍
Americano baby🔥🔥😍
It’s me liking the video before actually watching
Moghel wa Funeral overdid it! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Life was nice when she was living the cheat life and the wife’s/kids feelings probably didn’t matter, suddenly you want to come and cry the loudest in-front of everyone?? 🤣🤣 Get outta here and Go see a therapist or Ntate Moruti.
Looking so Gorgeous Zee damn😍🔥
We want more of this please.
Aii Zee umhle man yoh 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😔✋
Waze wamuhle Zee 😍😍❤️
ingathi ixakekile iZeeXFamily sana 😭
We all know who that “my man this,my man that” story is about right?😂😂
😂😅 thought i was the only one
You give good advice 💫
umhle sana😍😍😍😍🥰
you look gorgeous
yaa going to the funeral was a lottt chile no no
I strongly strongly believe girls in their early 20s should be dating guys also in their 20s. That 24 year old has WHAT in common with a 37 year old grandpa!???? Throw that man away! Also the funeral mourner, “Gabrielle you’ve gone too far!”
Love this😂😂❤
0:10 waze wamuhle weZama❤
Notification gang! Sesikhona 🥳🤍
New subie in the building 🎉
Really enjoyed this ❤😢
I enjoyed entlek I will watch it again ❤😂
This video should have been long😂❤
Notification gang💕
I don’t think the guy is known for bad things, she just doesn’t want people getting into her business because that’s what they do.
The one who have friends who are in different levels, she must pray about it, talk to God about the way she feels and try to ask to not feel somehow and learn ukubabongela. It worked for me 😌.
That was lovely 🎉❤
Sis we funeral did TOO much soze kaloku
Uy’baxile shame😭
Another one thank you ❤🎉
love your videos so much ❤
You look like Coco Jones😍❤️😻