How to ask someone out & fear of rejection - Sweet Aunt Spicy Aunt with Jessica Kellgren-Fozard

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @noe-db5iw
    @noe-db5iw 2 года назад +600

    jessica nearly choking to death after some of stevie's answers perfectly encaptures the two ends of the sapphic spectrum😭

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 2 года назад +41

      They play off each other so well!

    • @jwb52z9
      @jwb52z9 2 года назад +12

      I'm not so sure, being American myself, whether it's the lesbian spectrum or if it's a very outspoke American vs a very prim and proper Brit.

  • @pinkpanda202
    @pinkpanda202 2 года назад +474

    Truly my favorite collab. When Jessica said "absolutely stop that" in her posh accent I lost it. More of these, please!

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 2 года назад +26

      That part and when Jessica said that the throuple was not a bad idea, were hilarious.

    • @geraldiinapommedeterre629
      @geraldiinapommedeterre629 2 года назад +14

      Truly! Both of them are funny by themselves but when they are together there is this hilarious energy!

  • @Christine-kq1xx
    @Christine-kq1xx 2 года назад +383

    I would 100% watch this every week if you made it regularly.

    • @mariebourgot4949
      @mariebourgot4949 2 года назад +14

      Same! :)

    • @stevie
      @stevie  2 года назад +158

      A deaf girl and a hard of hearing girl start a podcast…that they can never listen to.

    • @Christine-kq1xx
      @Christine-kq1xx 2 года назад +73

      @@stevie called "Sorry, what?" or "Block and Delete"

    • @logo9470
      @logo9470 2 года назад +10

      @@stevie 🤣😂🤣 I was already a fan of Jessica’s but now I love you as well. You’re hysterical!

    • @sebastianevangelista4921
      @sebastianevangelista4921 2 года назад +5

      @@stevie Imagine hiring someone to edit it for you. What would that be like for them?

  • @dejWA
    @dejWA 2 года назад +19

    "Would you... absolutely stop!" killed me dead 😂

  • @Teajay21
    @Teajay21 2 года назад +24

    Jessica's face when Stevie is like "I got her to agree with me on cults and throuples!" LOL 😆

  • @josieboebi
    @josieboebi 2 года назад +165

    hello wife! hello boss!

    • @Mummabear3
      @Mummabear3 2 года назад +5

      You must have a great fun at "work".

  • @firefly24601
    @firefly24601 2 года назад +235

    Jessie's reactions to Stevie's answers just... MAKE this video! 💜

  • @ashe1317
    @ashe1317 2 года назад +32

    These two, aesthetically, are just serving bubbline vibes 🦇🍬

    • @stevie
      @stevie  2 года назад +8

      Omg 🥹🥹🥹

  • @rascalowe
    @rascalowe 2 года назад +45

    Your opposing energy is crazy ahahah
    Great colab!!!

    • @stevie
      @stevie  2 года назад +6

      Thank you!! 😁

  • @moonell
    @moonell 2 года назад +116

    Definitely need more Jessie and Stevie collabs! I'd subscribe for a regular J&S segment for sure. I am NOT trying to start a cult here though, just to be perfectly clear, Stevie 💜

    • @stevie
      @stevie  2 года назад +16

      Deal!

  • @Lady-Y
    @Lady-Y Год назад +1

    God, as someone who recently cut off an abusive parent, the autism question at 7:06 got me. Makes me sad that parents preventing/discouraging a diagnosis is a shared experience, but it’s also strangely cathartic? Like, knowing I’m not alone in this struggle.

  • @nakymatonlapsiN
    @nakymatonlapsiN 2 года назад +30

    i know jessie is probably lip reading but the way she looks at stevie while she's giving her answers is very 'i want to study you under a microscope'

  • @jamiebumbaugh
    @jamiebumbaugh 2 года назад +14

    for burnout, if at all possible, go on a short medical leave. that's what i had to do to overcome my burnout. no amount of hobbies or distractions were able to pull me out, but taking a month off of work really helped. i was fortunate enough to have some money saved up and a partner to help carry myself through it though.

  • @thelouisemonarchy5551
    @thelouisemonarchy5551 2 года назад +50

    This friendship is worth millions 🤩I love the chaotic energy of it all and can't stop laughing 🤣

  • @elentari801
    @elentari801 2 года назад +48

    You both are individually great, but when you collab, you really play off each other, just the right mix of opposites and complimentary, and that's why people want you to collab more!

    • @tom4ivo
      @tom4ivo 2 года назад +1

      Stevie plays well off of a lot people, because her lack of hesitation and self-consciousness always gives the other person something to react to.

  • @xxoldmagicxx
    @xxoldmagicxx 2 года назад +42

    Rewatching because this pairing is Iconic✨

  • @jennifers5560
    @jennifers5560 2 года назад +156

    Does anyone else think that Stevie liked it when Jessica reprimanded her when she said “Would you absolutely stop”?

    • @stevie
      @stevie  2 года назад +81

      I do love causing some chaos

    • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
      @PhoebeFayRuthLouise 2 года назад +2

      @@stevie You could teach a masterclass on minor chaos!

  • @LilDinoGuy
    @LilDinoGuy 2 года назад +47

    Oh no you’ve alienated Squarespace’s scientologist customer base lol
    Also no lie I have been extremely tempted to go into inpatient mental healthcare just to rest from work but then I realized I’d need to pay for my stay. The rehab answer was morbidly funny because it’s relatable.

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 2 года назад +8

      My friends and I used to talk about how nice it would be to have a short stay at a minimum security prison to escape our lives for a bit.

    • @anniestrooo
      @anniestrooo 2 года назад +6

      Nah I thought it would be great to go to the mental hospital to take a life break…then I realize they will make me work to get better(aka eat well and wake up early)

    • @drodlaren
      @drodlaren 2 года назад +8

      Lol I also thought this and then it ACTUALLY happened and it wasn’t a break from what I was trying to get away from, but it made me realise I have anxiety and there’s no place that will make that magically disappear, only I can do that. Not saying y’all have that though, but you’ll be surprised what you can learn from getting the thing you thought you wanted. (Also capitalism can f off)

  • @sophiawhettingsteel3489
    @sophiawhettingsteel3489 2 года назад +40

    i love this collab! i think spicy aunty and sweet aunty is a great new series idea too

    • @stevie
      @stevie  2 года назад +9

      I think so too!

  • @sarahhiggins1515
    @sarahhiggins1515 2 года назад +89

    I love this friendship so much 😂 feels like good cop bad cop 😅

  • @Shadow-zf5uc
    @Shadow-zf5uc 2 года назад +10

    Stevie Boebi got a Stevie Bob. I love the new haircut on Stevie. It's so cool!

  • @livinginthenow
    @livinginthenow 2 года назад +37

    You two are AMAZING together. A natural comedy duo. More please! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @saraxadam3659
    @saraxadam3659 2 года назад +9

    people don't understand this friendship?? my best friend & I are the definition of sweet aunt/spicy aunt, it's so much fun

  • @kiarimarie
    @kiarimarie 2 года назад +6

    The dating app question reminds me how I felt my now husband took too long to reply to my first message and I insisted on waiting just as long to reply back. It's okay, though, we made it to the first date and all ended well.

  • @bianca_apollonova
    @bianca_apollonova 2 года назад +6

    PLEASE make this a regular thing in the channel, I absolutely beg of you
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @tiffanylikestodance4452
    @tiffanylikestodance4452 2 года назад +38

    Jessica is the best. Such a good collab 😂

  • @noasoher4409
    @noasoher4409 2 года назад +3

    Lol the Scientology mention threw me off... couldn't stop laughing😅😂

  • @micke_mango
    @micke_mango 2 года назад +22

    Ha! Great fun. 💜
    Jessica really brings out the most fun&feisty version of Stevie...

  • @tom4ivo
    @tom4ivo 2 года назад +2

    On asking someone out but fearing rejection: You could try flirting with them a few times, then say "You keep flirting with me; when are you going to ask me out?"

  • @arcadiaexeter
    @arcadiaexeter 2 года назад +52

    So does Josie being Jessica's PA mean way more Stevie/Jessica co-labs!? Cause if so YAY!!

    • @AnnikaK87
      @AnnikaK87 2 года назад +1

      I had no idea. Sure they have lots of possibilities now!

  • @charlottesimons8925
    @charlottesimons8925 2 года назад +18

    My favourite people on this platform together!! So happy 💜

  • @MossyBear
    @MossyBear 2 года назад +21

    Please collab more! :) impeccable energy and great advice

  • @honorcollins6962
    @honorcollins6962 2 года назад +4

    I need a hundred more sweet aunt spicy aunt videos please xxx

  • @mirandafaiths
    @mirandafaiths 2 года назад +5

    OBSESSED W THIS DUO IVE BEEN WAITING SINCE 2019

  • @sarahwithstars
    @sarahwithstars 2 года назад +3

    My favourite lesbian aunties (with Claudia)!! Thanks for this interesting insight and pep talk xx
    Blocking and Deleting
    Brene Brown has lot of answers!

  • @mykamorningstar3964
    @mykamorningstar3964 2 года назад +2

    I'm living for your denim jacket, Stevie- it suits you as a spicy aunt! Love seeing the collabs with the two of you again 🥰

  • @Chriswallace8821
    @Chriswallace8821 2 года назад +9

    Love you two as a collab. So different in styles, love it. Jessica’s look when Stevie says block and delete also love it. 😊

  • @BeingTheHunt
    @BeingTheHunt 2 года назад +3

    Stevie doesn't fear rejection because she is beautiful, amazing and no one would ever say no to her.

  • @HCSAgirl99
    @HCSAgirl99 2 года назад +8

    honestly the different perspectives in advice is really helpful and entertaining.

  • @victoriajeanleslie3116
    @victoriajeanleslie3116 2 года назад +1

    I found this channel from watching Jessica. Instant 👏 sub👏

  • @humanoidcat9633
    @humanoidcat9633 2 года назад +1

    The ad was absolutely hilarious 😆

  • @jmrzcat
    @jmrzcat 2 года назад +5

    This was so delightfully chaotic, please do more of these!

  • @PurpleHat026
    @PurpleHat026 2 года назад +7

    You two are such a good duo. Please please make loads more of these

  • @gypsydonovan
    @gypsydonovan 2 года назад +26

    I love you both so much. It's always great to see you together.

  • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
    @PhoebeFayRuthLouise 2 года назад +1

    “Block and delete!”
    I’m voting for y’all to do these collabs often!

  • @whateverta
    @whateverta 8 месяцев назад

    I found Stevie on Jessica's page.
    Thank you both.
    I feel way more normal after listening to Stevie
    Block and delete
    Who cares why they are not reaponding, let them go.
    I have tried to explain this to someone, and it's nice to hear I am correct.

  • @asimplemoth5342
    @asimplemoth5342 2 года назад +8

    My favorite aunts who taught me more than the entire k-12 school system!!!
    A blessed day indeed lol

  • @leonellabakes
    @leonellabakes 2 года назад +1

    I just love the two of you having fun together!!

  • @rainbowwwkim
    @rainbowwwkim 2 года назад +8

    I always love seeing you two collab :) so yes do more

  • @tammysantana7200
    @tammysantana7200 2 года назад +2

    Laughed out loud, you must do more collabs.

  • @gingersal8052
    @gingersal8052 2 года назад +2

    I'm pretty sure you girls collabed during the pandemic (clothes swap), lovely vids as well! Great to see you back!

  • @oli_kate
    @oli_kate 2 года назад +4

    This was very enjoyable, I'm here from Jessica's channel but hello I think I'm joining this channel too I have subscribed

  • @Scorpeeeohhh
    @Scorpeeeohhh 2 года назад +2

    Stevie!!!! The new hair looks AMAZING on you!!! 😵❤️‍🔥

    • @stevie
      @stevie  2 года назад +1

      Thank you!!

  • @soriano1996
    @soriano1996 2 года назад +4

    You two make a great pair of friends! More videos would be So welcomed!! 🥰✨

  • @truecrimelover2022
    @truecrimelover2022 2 года назад +6

    loved this please make many many more

  • @lauralie9658
    @lauralie9658 2 года назад +3

    I love your new shorter hair cut, so cute!

  • @mjmartinez9255
    @mjmartinez9255 2 года назад +1

    I havent watched you since like 7th-8th grade, now im a senior and ive missed you so much

  • @MissSnuffles117
    @MissSnuffles117 2 года назад +5

    I love these collabs so much 🥰

  • @RitaaLeci
    @RitaaLeci 2 года назад +1

    You've got a hilarious dynamic, I love it!!

  • @dayzm6708
    @dayzm6708 2 года назад +2

    *Incredibly* amusing I wish to see more pleaseeee

  • @tarynmichelleart
    @tarynmichelleart 2 года назад +2

    Jessica's face when Stevie said "thanks...for sponsoring...my box"

  • @JewelShadow
    @JewelShadow 2 года назад +2

    Y'all's collabs are the best ❤️

  • @xRiriRebel
    @xRiriRebel 2 года назад +1

    always love to see you two collab

  • @RoOuel
    @RoOuel 2 года назад +3

    I love this, some of these are actually useful and they’re always entertaining if not 😂❤

  • @Kissakaali
    @Kissakaali 2 года назад +2

    Living in a commune really helps with recovering from burnout. Loneliness makes things just worse.
    Also music and arts and crafts are excellent ways to think something else than the stressful job.
    And is the job is too stressful and has negative impact on your health: just block and delete it. You deserve better. Move to a commune. It is cheaper than living alone.

  • @neemad
    @neemad 2 года назад +1

    This was hilarious ❤️❤️ Definitely do more of these Q&As. I love you both❤️. Your squarespace ad was both interesting and hilarious and even though I don't need a website, it had me seriously considering it lol

  • @allisonroth
    @allisonroth 2 года назад

    I definitely like these enough for you to make more! Love how your senses of humour mesh

  • @sofie.h
    @sofie.h 2 года назад +1

    wish i could like this video more than once so here's a comment instead!! this was so great and I really hope it becomes a series!

  • @lennanicholson9972
    @lennanicholson9972 2 года назад +2

    Sweet and spicy aunt advice is so good, definitely more please (I have questions I could use advice on...)

  • @bobhendricks4024
    @bobhendricks4024 2 года назад +1

    Shaving my head becoming a member of the Cult of Stevie!

  • @spiderwickian
    @spiderwickian Год назад

    This is the best ad I’ve ever seen for square space by the way

  • @elizabethfreed472
    @elizabethfreed472 2 года назад

    I love this video!! Please please make this a series!
    Also you both have such totally different aesthetics in this vid and you both look adorable, have great hair, and are quintessential lesbians ❤️❤️❤️

  • @amyharth5446
    @amyharth5446 2 года назад

    This was great. I’m so glad that I found you from Jessica’s video!

  • @rudeboyjohn3483
    @rudeboyjohn3483 2 года назад

    Whenever I need a dose of wholesome, I stop by just to check in on these wonderful people

  • @charliebrown1184
    @charliebrown1184 2 года назад +3

    I haven't laughed this much in ages, you three are just the absolute best!

  • @sportsnthingsshows2786
    @sportsnthingsshows2786 2 года назад +1

    Definitely we need more collabs awesome content

  • @theknight3583
    @theknight3583 2 года назад +1

    I love this! You have such a fun dynamic!

  • @wrongsideofmidnight
    @wrongsideofmidnight 2 года назад +6

    I like the shorter hair 😊

    • @josieboebi
      @josieboebi 2 года назад +2

      isn’t it so nice!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @lilyb0red
    @lilyb0red 2 года назад +1

    yes please more of this !

  • @nternetrat
    @nternetrat 2 года назад +1

    8:10 human design!!!!!!!!! period period period

  • @darkangel926_
    @darkangel926_ 2 года назад +1

    We need more of the two of you together ❤️

  • @pamelaivey3253
    @pamelaivey3253 2 года назад +3

    Wow Stevie cut her hair, looks good.

  • @DisastersDynamicsDisability
    @DisastersDynamicsDisability 2 года назад

    I feel so understood on the fear of rejection, especially in romantic circumstances! I'm not personally bothered by romantic rejection and love staying friends with people even if they don't like me romantically because for me, romance is not the be all or end all. I value friendships so much. It might be also because I'm polyamorous, because I look at love as a thing that is different for each person and doesn't always need a label, just loving is enough

  • @kaz555
    @kaz555 2 года назад +1

    Loving this Collab 💜 x

  • @darew1101
    @darew1101 2 года назад +1

    yes. more.

  • @JessHawk
    @JessHawk 2 года назад +3

    I loved this video

  • @melloyellosurge
    @melloyellosurge 2 года назад

    1) I would recommend the book Rejection Proof by Jia Jiang as a guide to dealing with rejection. It explains a lot of things with respect to rejection and how we deal with it as human beings.
    2) Nothing to add, here.
    3) Couldn't have said it better myself.
    4) I would be wondering why they need one to begin with but in the end, it's their life. I'd say "go nuts, squirrelly".
    5) Some of that was the worst advice I've ever heard. Some people should totally do them if only for everyone else's entertainment. It should go without saying that the previous sentence was a joke.
    Nice to see a new video after what seemed like forever. Keep up the good work.

  • @susantaylor3101
    @susantaylor3101 2 года назад +2

    Absolutely love the hair ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Eleeyore
    @Eleeyore 2 года назад +1

    This was so much fun! Would love to see more of you two collabing!

  • @sarahruth402
    @sarahruth402 2 года назад +1

    love the new hair Stevie! 💇‍♀️

  • @Ha_Wa_
    @Ha_Wa_ 2 года назад +2

    ngl the ad read was so good I was sorta disappointed when it was suddenly back to the actual video

  • @sleepingroses761
    @sleepingroses761 2 года назад +1

    Stevie cut her hair! It's so cute 😊

  • @TaikiFouLung
    @TaikiFouLung 2 года назад +1

    this was sooooo fun :D

  • @SantiSayWha
    @SantiSayWha 2 года назад +2

    Love seeing you two together! Can't wait for the commune community lol

    • @Mummabear3
      @Mummabear3 2 года назад

      And then you can knit all day.

    • @RegrettablyLongwinded
      @RegrettablyLongwinded 2 года назад +1

      Ditto, sign me up! I can raise livestock, garden, knit, and sew a tad. Please consider my audition for the commune, I'm pan but hopefully that makes up for my straight cis partner 🤣

  • @cynhanrahan4012
    @cynhanrahan4012 2 года назад +8

    Please, Lesbian Aunties (even though I'm old enough to be you mother), make more collabs, especially now that you live near.

  • @SwashBuckTief
    @SwashBuckTief 2 года назад

    2:36 unfortunately this didn't work for me 😔
    well, I wasn't exactly selling anything. I had a job canvassing and went around asking for donations. but I still got rejected more often than not, and it kinda hurt 😅
    also I still fear rejection lol

  • @RosyFlamingo
    @RosyFlamingo 2 года назад

    Loving the haircut Stevie 💜

  • @quietestkitten
    @quietestkitten 2 года назад

    I love this collab soooo much!!

  • @soccerbopper124
    @soccerbopper124 2 года назад

    i love you both so much the dynamic is incredible

  • @lisasavage2979
    @lisasavage2979 2 года назад +1

    You two are the perfect pair for this! Lol