Go off king! ❤ we need more men saying this, the pill analogies only scare off genuine women who would’ve loved you for just being you. These ideologies target vulnerable men who haven’t yet received the love they deserve and then turn them into someone that is hard to be around as a woman. Why would a genuine woman want to be with a guy who thinks she only with him for status or money ?? It only attracts woman who actually think like that. It’s heartbreaking..
Sane, level headed advice. Your video on being 'ugly' was an inspiration and has helped out many men. I am from Sydney, Australia, and despite not being physically attractive myself, I too am married to a South-American girl. We have been married for 7 years and have children together. I do not have much money, and she could have left 5 years ago after she got residency... My situation infuriates blackpill people.
If you live in a better continent ofc the girl wold like to date you. But trust me if you were in south america you wold not date an australian girl.Why do you think passaport bros do? Go in more poor countries, or take the girls from there.
I'm not even black people but the fking assumptions you guys make on what red and black pill are infuriates. At least know what they are. Black pill in summary is if you basically don't have good genes, you can't do anything about it. They believe looks play a major role in society, and you can't do anything about your own looks. If I'm wrong on this definition correct me, but how tf did what I just define apply to your situation?
THANK YOU. These men scare the fuck out of me. They’re the kind to kill women who don’t want them. Thank you for being sane. Thank you for not buying into the bullshit. We need more people like you.
@ALittleHungryMonster: "They're the kind to kill women who don't want them." That is probably one of the most unscientific, insensitive, wide-sweeping statements I have ever seen. If you are willing to unironically make and believe such horrifyingly irrational statements, then you will probably be super scared of all sorts of weird things like aliens and ghosts and such and have an insatiable desire to dehumanize groups of people about whom you are ignorant. Yes... people are scared of what they don't understand... that's why we often name brands of demographic ignorance in reference to phobia. Those are absolutely despicable words, that apparently someone actually uttered... in 2024. Have we learned anything?
@ALittleHungryMonster: Let's try again, because apparently we aren't supposed to know when people make completely unscientific, insensitive, wide-sweeping statements in certain contexts: That's the kind of statement that your statement was, referring mainly to the part about how they're the kind to k*ll women who don't want them. I had more detail to add that did not display, but these are the essentials. It's ironic that your comment displayed but mine didn't, especially given that it's 2024.
@ALittleHungryMonster: Let's try again, because apparently we aren't supposed to know when people make completely unscientific, insensitive, wide-sweeping statements in certain contexts: That's the kind of statement that your statement was. I had more detail to add that did not display, but these are the essentials. It's ironic that your comment displayed but mine didn't, especially given that it's 2024.
You don't really discuss the arguments that are presented to you; there is no logic to what you say as well (something that you criticize others of doing). You present no stats, no evidence, not even an attempt to do so. If you don't like the pill analogies it's fair; but the pill analogies are just used for fun oftentimes for people to spread memes and yes often times there are many trolls. However the important thing is the evidence that is presented for the arguments. The important thing is the truth. There is such a thing as human nature; and there are things that matter to us ALL as humans. And there are things like obvious physical traits that matter to every one of us when we are choosing for partners, regardless of whether we are men or women. By the way, your use of Stephen Hawkin as a means to debunk evidence...a cherry picked example that you didn't even bother to research properly. He met his first wife much before his body deteriorated. He is even twice divorced and you don't know anything about his personal life. It's just an example that makes you feel good.
If you based yourself on pure attraction there are biological stuff that is right about this, there is chemical attraction, and physical too. Buuut, in our society, real couples that last and are healthy have more to do with having shared values and objectives. Being in love is not the same than love someone and want a healthy lifelong commitment. Love is something you built in time, being in love is just the first step that has to do with biological chemistry. Reducing real bonds to just chemistry is what we criticize. Reproduction surely plays a huge role into attractiveness, and how man tend to see more attractive young women etc... whatever, not all men really want to reproduce, some mature men for example already had children that have grown up and now they want a couple to live happy their retirement, and some of those men actually DO marry to women of their ages. Because even if they see more attractive young women, they will find more things in common with someone of their age, and they will be more likely to have more shared values and views. One example of that is Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant, I mean a guy like that could have a young women if he wanted to, but he is with a woman of his age (or more) because of common views and values. At the end, you do whatever you want regardless of biology. There are also other man that are like playboy and want young girls, but not all of them want to satisfy those urges, others just want peace and quiet, and be with someone that are like them. Same for women. I have always preferred men of my age, other of my female friends like older looking men. Diversity exists. Both women are men are creating rifs between them at this times, is very hard to get to know the right person. Both men and women are chosing to be single and for me that is totally valid. The difference is that we don't go there labeling people and nature in boxes and in stupid ways. But well, you can do that if you want. What I share with the guy on the video is that I just don't understand how seeing the world like that and reducing the interesting complexity of the human mind and society to such little and short minded boxes makes you happy or fulfilled, or see that interesting in general. I prefer to dive into the nuances of biology, or the intrincate theories of Carl Jung, Idk, there are lots of more interesting things to study or to obssess with.
Bro, I am a follower of yours from Mexico, I really love your videos, I may not be the one to give you advice because I don't have your complete life context, but always remember that you are worth a lot and that you and your happiness come first, I admire you bro and I admire your ability to represent many people who do not have a voice, you are great. God Luck
Based on youre profile pic you dont look bad or ugly. I think there are allot of girls intressed in you. But you have also put some effort in dating girls. Good luck
@@0707565 Hey man appreciate it but its not about being ugly or handsome , its about the generation and people , i literally got no effort to put , i am looking for the right one if she comes one day than i am down for it till that day i ll be alone
Agree. You made a life for yourself and didn't make excuses. You found happiness. And it wasn't by existing in an echo chamber of sad, lonely men. You're an example of a good guy who deserves the life you've made for yourself. You're a great example of how to live on your own terms instead of letting others dictate to you. Kudos!
Keep gaslighting him, people like you think you do good but you’re just evil giving people false hope. He, a EU citizen, married a woman from a country in economic crisis after barely knowing her, gave her money, and all of a sudden she travels back to her home country. It’s naive and delusional to think she did it out of genuine attraction
Who remembers Destiny making fun of the red pill community? 😂😂😂 Hoping your situation will be different for your sake, but the odds are not in your favour bruh, you've been warned.
My friend is a 37 man who never had any job. He is overweight and have lots of acne, so he is not what society would call attractive. Yet he have had several girl friends, due to the fact that he see women as people.
NGU, I agree with a lot of your points and I also think it's very important to keep positive mindset like you do and stop complaining and do things to improve. But. To me you seem to be in a delusion. You should see that things are not right, your wife leaves to other side of the world for a year or 2? only 2 months after marriage. That just seems very suspicious.
@@NeverGiveUp-Main I don't want to seem like a douchebag, but he has a point. And it's very telling that instead of defending her reasoning for moving back to Argentina, you digress and focus only on the commenters themselves, without trying to defend your situation. That being sad, i wish you luck and a happy relationship
Boyo you don't live in reality 60% of americans young men are single while young girls are 34%, the average male is not good enough. why do you think there are news about young male lonlines, use you're logic please.
@ibby1295 That is what all bluepilled men think. I think it is because only the best-looking men have skeletons titulating and big enough to evoke lust and attract a woman who genuinely wants to be with him, snuggle with him in her youth. What your attributing to the cause are what I think are the symptoms, coping mechanisms because of being unattractive.
You can ignore it all you want. But the blackpill or lookism is real. You of all people should know this. Just cause you imported a girlfriend doesn't negate your past experiences and the experiences millions of others are having everyday.
Eh, I think some Incels or whatever kind of people who are using the "pill-analogy" take it too far. Lookism, as in getting treated way better when your handsome or beautiful, is true though. It's undeniable.
Yeah sure looks splay a huge role in selecting a partner. I would say the majoiryt of the people on this planet want to have a partner they find attractive as in good looks. But there are men and women who select partners who doesn't look as good but they still find them attractive. It's just a matter of who you meet and sure it's gonna be harder for people who aren't as good looking, but trust me there are many who find love still.
She is from Argentina, they met online (she commented on his video) after some chatting she asked him to buy a plane ticket so that she could visit him. He is from sweden. She stayed with him for a few months and ended up marrying him after he agreed to give her some money so that her family could pay off their debts. After that she said she would travel to Argentina to deliver the money to her family and never returned. The poor guy thinks she's just "taking some time off" and that she will return eventually. She's a gold digger, she used him to pay for her huge medical bills and fucked off back to latam right after this.
@@NeverGiveUp-Main If she comes back, I'll write you a personal apology letter. In the meantime keep coping. I'll sit back with popcorn and watch the eventual fallout when you finally wake up.
@@NeverGiveUp-Main My bruddaman bill, she is your wife, you are literally her family now, there's no such thing as missing family since her family is now you. Really try and reflect upon that, i hope you come out of this whole situation better, even if things end up badly as it may seen. Work on yourself and seek Jesus.
Lmao i said it was too early and here we are. Let this be a lesson kids. NEVER get married in 3 months of dating someone. NEVER. Guy has only got himself to blame when every warning sign was there
Black pill means accepting the harsh reality thats all someone who is blind or deaf will never enjoy tv or music they must cope with something else the same way someone who doesn't have good looks will never get genuine love there's expections for example you and julie where the wife ran to her country 2 months after marriage if you happy with that then good for you.
Just because yiu subscribe to these ideologies doesn't automatically make you treat women bad. You're insane for saying that. That's like me saying, if you side with LGBTQ you hate men. Like we it tends to be the case because that's the type of people these groups (pill ideology and LGBTQ) attract, but know that the pill ideology hasn't been here for long. When it first became popular (depending on what you think is popular), it was chill. Now there are a lot of depress dudes with a lot of hate and frustration in them coming. I haven't associated with these groups in a year or so but I can't take the disrespect to some of these red pill and MGTOW creators that taught me a lot.
There are blind people who manage to get their vision back/ also technological breakthrus where some blind people can get their vision back. And some forms of deafness is cureable/ also there is a sense of feeling vibrations that can stimulate a similar experience to hearing music. So even your own metaphor is incorrect... Anyway, whats your source? All i see is a: Trust Me Bro.
@NeverGiveUp-Main your response is literally confirming his point, you said it yourself: "SOME people" - exception doesn't disprove the rule, bc majority can't be exception. Also do you really need sources to understand which types of life enjoyment blindness and deafness are taking away from you? I mean, you can find it in any online dictionary....
@@NeverGiveUp-Mainbro i respect you for the strength you have living such hard life and i wish you absolute best from the bottom of my heart but you should be aware and enlightened to not get hurt in future. Be smart my guy and be strong to face the truth.
Big yikes reading the comments. This guy made a video and kept pushing himself until he made something out of it and eventually found love. Instead of whining in the comments, y'all should do something to improve your lives and go touch grass instead of being consumed and limited by the pill analogy.
Lmao... this dude just got used by a foreign woman looking for a free pass to another country and wealth. He might not know it yet, but that's what's up. This is what many (not all) women do. They use men to get things they want. Some remain loyal, some don't once they succeed. You being a woman wouldn't understand it. So just butt out of the conversation if you're gonna hurl insults.
Ignore the hate comments. They are left by bitter incels who sxualize women all day and then complain about why no women want them. Idk what is going on in your relationship, but even if you guys ever do break up, you can always find another partner . Just stick to being a good guy and find other hobbies to interest you . Wish you the best .
Clearly you have never loved anyone before. Falling in love have nothing to do with any of that. Today its quite twisted, where love is seen only as a physical attraction. And you my friend, belong in that mindset.
@@NeverGiveUp-MainIt is conspicuous what this woman is to you. You should stop with this condescending writing tone, it's not adult to use diminutives like you know so better and take pity on opposing worldviews.
@@NeverGiveUp-Main I never said anything about love being all about physical attraction. I said black pill doesn’t count a rich guy “getting hoes” because that’s not genuine attraction. Black pillers value and are concerned with true attraction and true love, not just in the dating market and in society in general.
1:59 I hate to break the news but there are at least 100 million more men in the world so it is entirely possible there is no women interested in you who is presently not in a relationship. If everyone in the world was to get a relationship there would still be incеIs. She’s not waiting copecels.
This comment section and this topic make me feel bad so I'm not listening, but I wish you the best since you're one of the persons who helped me getting out of the blackpill and depression, I hope this will help people who can hear you now
@@s.aureus1254 I'm not in depression anymore, my mind isn't working against me anymore. Sure it can come back, but now I know it's a disease and that these blackpill theories aren't rational nor reality. And God knows how deep in it I had to go to realize that I wish you the best
Thanks for spitting the truth. I have watched ur video's since the beginning. I have to agree I think there is truth behind every pill. Being tall handsome rich does positively affect your dating life but like you said everyone values different things and a lot of the people in the redpill and blackpill think it's over if you are not 6ft or make 6 figures.
waiting for rehab to make a video about this delusional video , this guy even after so many years of being treated like shit by womens and even his ex think that meditation will help and women from other countries have different mindset. We as humanity are the same - we behave the same and think the same but you know blackpill will collect - like it always does
@@MikeJensen-w2vif she was actualy 3/10 then god damn i feel bad for dude, sacrificing so much time and resources just to get 3/10 and then being heartbroken by her...
i agree, you are limiting yourself when you limit yourself to a pill analogy. the world is way to complicated to be able to navigate it thought one set of mind. in my opinion the more bread and knowledgeable you are the best is it for anyone to get the best outcome of most situations.
The blackpill is not limiting, it actually sets a lot of people free, now they understand why things are the way they are, its better to know the hars truth than to live in delusion. Just wait a bit and come back here, the blackpill will come and will collect.
He needs a hair transplant, microblading in his eyebrows, get rid off those ass-looking glasses, a rhinoplasty, loss some bodyfat and a chin transplant lol He needs to invest in himself and with improving his looks, he will unconsciously tell his wife that he can cheat her more easily than before and with that, it will make him more desirable for her
Want to find someone? Pick something you think is cool, make music, pick up an instrument, make paintings do scrapbooking, whatever you want, being nice is like the bare minimum, everyone is nice, but if you have hobbies, you're already way more interesting, and you don't need to be good even, that'll come with time anyway
No hobbies 4 ur face lol Most people are ok with their partner/spouse not having the same interests as them as long as they’re physically/seggsually attracted to them. But keep gaslighting buddy boyo 😁👍🏽
I will say it once and will continue saying it... men should date in their looksmatch range. So a guy who is a 4 should date a 3 , 4 or 5 at most. This is because the relationship will be healthy for both sides. Otherwise there will always be that insecurity from the lower attractive person and there will always be potential for infedility from the more attractive partner. This feeling will always be there everyday and everywhere you go. Its not healthy thinking and worrying like this everyday. The only exception to this is if you have millions to make it up or live in the middle of nowhere where there is no competition.
the problem is that women always date up and men date down. nah it won't be healthy because in that case women will be passing their ugly features onto their sons.
@enexe6229 I don't think every man or woman really thinks, let alone cares about if the person they love will "make their son ugly". On a subconcious level maybe but that's not gonna stop people from getting together
It's better when the man is more attractive as vvomen only date up and across. She won't respect you otherwise. However, even hideous vvomen have insane standards now.
By the way, I’m not saying this to be mean or anything. People’s reaction to you isn’t unreasonable. The reason why some are questioning your relationship is because it’s odd, to say the least. Really what do you have that others don’t? You don’t have money, good health, good looks, good prospects, or any real status. Maybe you got a decent personality, but that’s a dime a dozen. Me personally, I think your Wife got an image in her head of you, even though the image might not be true. Probably just a matter of time, until the image is gone. Hope the best for you, but that’s how it looks.
Some women have this "saviour" approach where I am gonna save him from loneliness etc. but reality is that if she wants to change her mind , it can be done in the heartbeat. Where's our man here cannot do that. Result? He is purely dependent on her and would be in huge depression if the relationship went south. I don't want it to happen, I'm glad he got a woman, but let's be realists here. shes in full control of the relationship. He isn't.
do you not think that they perhaps just click? do you not think its possible that they have natural chemistry? do you think that his downfalls have forced him to cultivate his personality and think about things other men might not consider which would in turn increase his "value"? not trying to be condescending. im just curious.
can you not argue that its possible that she could be dependent on him? that his qualities, individualities and experiences are so unique to him that they are unattainable else where. is that not incentive for her to stay with him? yes, she can get other men. but there is only one version of him. and we im sure we can both agree, hes a very distinct person. furthermore, i don't think he would be as doomed as you think if this relationship ended: from an emotional standpoint, there would no doubt be suffering. but he has had a previous partner with whom he his relationship with was very serious in the past. he's had two serious relationships at his young age. it would be naive to think he couldnt have another.@@davsss6406
I remember a long time ago seeing your video and I'm very happy for you dude, hope you prove these projecting weirdos wrong and live a happy life with each other.
@@iiCounted-op5jx I don't really give much mind to this whole pill nonsense I just try not to be a bad person, and telling some poor guy his marriage is doomed just because your life is a trainwreck seems selfish and rude tbh.
I love you man but this advice is absolute dogshit. When my parents had an arranged marriage the main factors she and her family cared about in my dad was his appearance, how much money he was bringing in, his reputation, and his status. That's it. It has always been this way for centuries. Only all of a sudden in the 21st century is this "new age" of individualistic/relativist thinking so popular. Why are we trying to lie to young men? I just don't get it.
@@kalekoi What an oversimplification. 90% of the world operated this way not too long ago and a large part of it still does. Let's ignore what a HUGE chunk of the middle east and Asia still do....
@@DaveThaBossDTB that really doesn’t take away from my point. some people doing it one way doesn’t mean that it is *always* done that way. there are absolutely other ways, healthier ways, of forming and maintaining relationships
@@kalekoi So first off it is not just "some" people. Almost 50% of the world's marriages are arranged so what are you smoking? You argue for individualism whereas I argue for harmony and a more pragmatic view that some things are more effective than others and will be more successful as time passes. I refuse to ignore a huge chunk of history and ongoing history because a bunch of delusional nerds think they can attain love more efficiently in their "new age" way than what has worked for centuries and still works... By telling young men otherwise you are dooming them and lying to them about what their role as men should be. If young normal/average men had a equal chance and success at attracting a woman as a chad would, I would agree with you. But we are not even close to that stage yet and I do not think we ever will be unless majority of men and women increase their stages of psychological development.
@@DaveThaBossDTB bioessentialism and appeals to history, sheesh. as someone who was once down that rabbit hole i don’t think there’s changing your mind, but i will encourage, try to at least consider the possibility that the world could be different than this framework you’ve built up. there are plenty of other reasons for things having commonly been done a certain way than it being the “best”, “natural”, or “only” way. bye.
No, I think he's simping since he got famous and spent all that time around the new girl. He denies the pain of so many men who are mistreated and given a poor deal on love. Perfect example of a guy who only acts bluepill because it benefits him, without caring for others. (beta)
It's impressive the number of unresolved, shallow, envious people who can't be happy and don't want to see anyone happier, basically the brainless and unloved audience of pill theorists, but they know that the problem lies within themselves.
"the problem lies within themselves" Yes, and it's a problem that is often intractable. No amount of effort or self-help guru babble will instruct these ones. Meritocracy is an ideological lash used by others to bolster their ego. For each "win" in this ludicrously absurd game we call life, there are piles of losers. None of these losers asked to compete, life is an imposition and deterministic. When your parents combine genes it is a roll of the dice and predispositions exist from day one.
Man I am happy you got someone in your life. But you have over 285k subscribers and you found 1 or maybe 2 girls who showed interest in you. What does that tell you? Let's say that your audience is half female. Ok, but that that's still a huge number of subscribers. Pure math, man.
@@akrtaha3733I'm literally as average as you get and i got to bone like 3 girls before settling for long term relationship and all that before hitting 25. Cope and seethe dungeon dweller
I don't think you know Blackapill at at. "Hoe math" "Wheat waffles" "Thinking-ape" have hundreads of diagrams, charts, countless hours of video where they include everything: looks, personality, status, money, charisma, your values, compatibility, drive, every single feature possibile. Blackapill is: 1) admitting looks is the most important 2) woman will ! value your other traits after! you pass the looks test. 3) status is also important (Stephen Hawking) 4) money - guy for her has to provide genes of safety 5) She will dump you and go for better opition when opportunity comes, without mercy and hesitation.
This is sad bro. Give up the pills and all this intellectualising trash and live life. These people you listen to are all losers that have no success with women, why would you take their advice on women?
Bruh the thing about looks being important will go both ways lmao . But in the real world you'll see more pretty women settling for someone that isn't considered physically attractive
@@DavidW-ng5zvso untrue. all my friends have very average looking boyfriends. girls really vary with personality but most just want a guy that respects them. blackpillers view women one-dimensionally, thats why they don’t get any
@@faulle8083Yes, vvomen are far more picky when it comes to looks. They view over 80% of men as below average and swipe left on 95% of men. Most men have very low standards and have to take what they can get.
When you fall in love with someone your brain makes them attractive to you. When I first started dating my husband I didn’t find him attractive but he had a good personality and was easy to get along with. I thought he was so ugly I didn’t like to look at him. As time went on and I fell in love with him I felt attracted to him. I think he’s so cute now!! I’m happy I don’t go for looks because we have been together almost 7 years. Find someone you get along with. Everything else will fall into place
They are just projecting their insecurities. Even if your wife came for the green card, you will find another one. Life doesn't end in one relationship. We have to cherish the present moment
I think this topic is *really* hard to navigate because there's valid points from both sides. Look, I don't know your relationship. I don't know if your wife is genuine. Obviously her going back to Argentina doesn't look good on paper, but there could also be a valid reason for the temporary separation. Take it from someone who's been in a long distance relationship for 5 years. I got engaged to my wife within 7 months, and we got married around 3 years later. There are good, genuine women out there, but there's also a lot of really bad ones who will take advantage of starstruck, lonely men. I hope it works out for you. I hope you assessed her well before committing to her. Every relationship is a leap of faith, so you have to trust your intuition.
Some people are born, as rejects for their, whole life for that reason. You just cannot, find love but the other gen z does. Thats why where living in a Twilight zone..
Yep i’m 16 and i think i’ve accepted now that the face i was born with has made me practically unloveable. It’s been very hard for me to take this in but i think that as a boy accepting that it was over before it started helps me manage being lonely a little bit. Not being given the chance in the first place doesn’t make me miss something i had, rather i try not to miss something i was never even given
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Ok from my point of view you dont have great looks and you have money she has the looks but doesnt have money she loved you i guess and you helped her with money and now she still has the looks and now she has the money and she has the ticket back to her family and no need for anyone. Am i wright?
A lot of the BP is toxic man, the crabs in the bucket mentally is very prevalent but that being said if you think she loved you unconditionally and that your channel success and Swedish money had nothing to do with it, then you're quite naive tbh.
@@johnny-mnemonic13 Yeah just like philippenes to americans you can make american minimum wage and its many times what a phillipeno woman makes. That's why they love americans because it seems like they are all rich to them.
You are real and you have depth that's why. I'm not the ugliest or best looking. My wife moved 7000 miles to live with me whilst I was living with my dad putting all my limited funds into my failing business. She is 13 years younger than me, from a wealthy family, educated with her own business and hot. We now have 2 kids and a fun relationship. Screw everyone. Most people are cunts.
@@andrew213rn We met online. I just put on my profile I'm not after any more BS relationships. I want my final one. I have little money but I'm pretty smart, hard working a good laugh when you get to know me and I'm kind hearted. Please no offense don't bother contacting me if you are after different. - Something along those lines... Then we chatted for a year before we met. Good luck
@@andrew213rnI dont think you can make it happen faster honestly. You just have to talk to a lot of girls but also not with the intention to date them. Things tend to appear once you stop desperately searching for them.
i'm happy for you and i agree that the pill analogy is stupid, but lets be honest here. you luck out thanks to your channel, you were indeed bald to expose yourself and you put the work, but you're still an exception. the fact that a good thing happened to you doesn't automatically cancel the struggles you went through in your life do to how you looks, something that you didn't have control over. you claim that the guys who give up on finding a partner never tried, that they didn't put any work and just choose to "hate" women. do you believe is possible? i tell you that they most likely tried and tried and tried again, until they couldn't do it anymore. Maybe they weren't as strong as you or lucky enough. effort doesn't equal succes, there is not such formula.
sorry but comes off egotistical when you have such a a big audience who need help, but instead you only whine about what people say about your relationship in the comments😂
He made one 10 minute long video addressing a very big issue and how it relates to his own life but according to you he "only whines about the comments". And anyway, at least he is defending his relationship. Not egotistical if you have self worth.
Keep coping, but hate to say it you won’t find a women that truly loves you and doesn’t want you for something. I would say to keep working on yourself but that doesn’t help either
Brother, you got played. The sooner you accept it, the smaller the damage in your mind and heart will be. It's already gonna be huge, dont make it worse. For your own good.
I'm sorry bro I always rooted for you, but this is a dumb take. Black pill is real. It always comes to collect. This isn't hating on you, I'm always rooting for you, but the black pill will come to collect. It always does :(
Ppl just can’t accept ppl are different. To say “i suffer and i don’t know understand why” is too much for some people, they’d rather be certain and still suffer. I think it’s a commonly accepted psychological phenomenon or something like that. A 100% chance of failure feels better to most than a 20% chance of failure, as crazy as it sounds. Ppl don’t want to be realistic, even if that’s why they, even to themselves, say they believe in X or Y pill. If those people are correct, why do they try so hard to prove you wrong? Why are they so cruel about it? It’s clearly disturbing to them. Personally when i see a flat earther i don’t get mad because i know I’m correct, and i’m not threatened. Why do people come here just to comment rude stuff? Why do they search the comments section and give likes to every rude one? As for me i’m an ugly unfit insecure painfully socially anxious and boring person, and i’ve still had some girls like me (def not delusion, i always look for every reason they might *not*). That fucking enraged the black/red pill people who noticed that and they all started making comments. Even when my own fucking brother, who is better looking, found that out he started insulting the shit out of my appearance at every opportunity. People can’t stand you when you break the way they see the world, as if you’re destroying it yourself directly. My spiritual belief is that the point of earth is to learn to see past the illusion of pain, suffering, hate, etc. When you believe the illusion you enter “hell”, and if you don’t you enter heaven. And it applies to daily life in a less spiritual way. When you believe the illusion you believe you’re in hell and become a disgusting demon like creature. You go to happy peoples videos and insult them and bring them down, because you literally believe happiness doesn’t exist. It even seems like the world around you changes. When you’re in heaven you get surrounded with nice people like you did. When you’re in hell all the nice people get repulsed by you and you believe everyone is trying to use you, because at that point, they are. If i would’ve believed the illusion with my brother and insulted him back, i would’ve just been insulted more. I chose to not believe it and was still kind to him, and he once he realised i was right he felt bad and now we’re good again. With other people too, if i’d fall for the illusion and if idve been rude to them idve disgusted the people who liked me. And like in this situation, if you keep responding to negative comments you will only get more. Either metaphysically or logically, the energy you give off changes the world around you. And you also have the power to change peoples view of the world, like what you’re doing. I’m not religious but i think that’s what the story of jesus was. Someone who saw past the illusion and was still kind and showed people the truth, and people wanted to test him so much, to see if he wasn’t actually saying they truth, that they killed him. In the same way, i think of all the negative comments are a “test” as you whether what you’re saying is true (bc when you understand the truth you can’t unsee it no matter how rude people are) Anyways basically don’t believe the mean comments. They’re just rooting each other on, that’s why they all have so many likes, while they nice people aren’t as desperate so it seems like there are less. They’re just lost. You probably already know all that’s but still i thought i should say it so that you know that there are people who agree with you and are rooting for you ❤
I did have a black pill way of thinking for a little while and was prideful in the way I looked but that only made me feel bad about myself at the end of the day and looking down on people isn't the way i wanted to live my life. Over a year ago I got saved/encountered God in a powerful way and he changed the way I view myself and life. Any guy has a chance to find the right woman for themself, its best to look for a Godly woman because they dont look at the outward appearance but they see your heart just as God does 🙏🏻✝️
What’s gonna happen? If for some reason, Russia becomes aggressive, and Sweden is involved in a full-fledged conflict as I’ve been seeing on the news serious question have you ever thought about things like that? Will you defend your country or flee? thank you sir just curious I am really into politics and history. Have a nice day. The reason I mentioned this is because I saw if I’m correct, the Swedish, Prime Minister told its citizens to prepare for conflict. Just wanted to know your opinion and how you feel. God forbid of course
I think even amongst those who subscribe to pill thinking, there is a lot of variety and there is a spectrum. Even amongst the same pill such as "redpill" there are those who claim to be that who see thing too black and white and absolutist which is more so what you mentioned, and there are others who understand nuance better, and see things as a matter of probabilities not certainties, and who still treat others (women included) with a fair amount of basic respect/decency by default without causing any real issues or harm
The moment you categories your self in that sort of way you are not a person, you are a sheep. Have your own opinion, formulate your own ideas. In my opinion, if you are courageous, self aware and determined nothing stops you from getting what you want, self awareness will allow you to find your goals(a person with no goals is going no where, the same as being blind. your working for no reason). Courage is going to allow you to take the first step and try different paths until you get to one that seems to work and to give up and try a new one if you've invested in one that does not. And finally, determination is going to allow you to keep going especially if things are tough. I believe determination and courage can be developed through facing adversity. That can be done via sports and hard work(in my opinion martial arts are the best, especially muay thai and bjj as they offer constant hardships in a safe environment) and self awareness is a bit harder to train but if you try to think about your actions from the third person perspective and get into the habit of stopping and reflecting you can train that too. When you reach a point when you have all three characteristics nothing can stop you.
"if you are courageous, self aware and determined nothing stops you from getting what you want" That's just not true though. For each moment of victory for one, there are piles of losers. Look at competitive sport for instance - such a huge investment in a persons life and only a small percentage go on to succeed. Meritocracy is an ideological lash to keep us running at the wheel. Which is not to say don't try, if you have the disposition to do so, but these tired old self-help platitudes need to go. "nothing can stop you" Nonsense.
you are missing the point. Obviously not every body can be an NBA player, but you can change you desires and wants to fit your life. If you changed your desire and achieved the new one you have achieved what you wanted to achieve. That's where self awareness comes into the picture, if you are truly self aware then, by definition, your goals are going to be within the realm of possibility for you. I would love for you to give me an example of a goal that cant be achieved by a person with the three characteristics that is also congruent to his abilities and possible to achieve. @@JB.zero.zero.1
To clarify what I'm saying, a 5ft guy wishing to be an NBA player lacks self awareness and thus, does not fulfill al of the requirements of theory I've presented. @@JB.zero.zero.1
@@SoupSailor give me an example of something that cannot be achieved under those conditions. Again, self awareness will insure you understand what your negatives are and adjust accordingly. The only goal you really have to attain in life is self fulfillment which is 100% dependent on you.
i already told him that in one of his previous videos , she did just like many men from my country do they marry an old or unattractive European woman and leave her after getting money from her or citizenship, i knew that was going to happen !
I'm from Argentina.. It is ok if you think you are in a good relationship.. but the question that beats any kind of justification is "why are you married with her and she decided to leave your side?" i know there is a "reason" and you explained in another video but it is simply not normal to live 12.553 km away from your partner and don't have any prospects of when she will return with certainty.
May be unrelated but, if you ever decide to come visit Argentina, we could hang out if you want to meet new people. I'm always open for new aqcuaintances or maybe friendships.
I am happy for him. At the same time, I think it would behoove him to not shun the very community that he seems to have unwittingly been a part of. One can acknowledge the plight of the black pill while still enjoying his current relationship and not totally abandon the community shared in his suffering which provided some camaraderie
You're a legend because of that pure, honest video: That's attractive. And physical attractiveness fades over time. I prefer an attractive personality over looks
I am happy that you found a partner despite the terrible odds. And i know you are in a honeymoon phase where you are only looking things all rosy. But take it from an older man, she saw you for passport and money. Im also from a latin country and thats what most women here do. Argentina has one of the most attractive men in the world but also one of the poorest. Unfortunately money is sometimes more important than looks until they have it. Basically what im trying to say is think logically and use your brain.. as long as your ok with this fact then you will endure for any possible outcome. There is absolutely nothing wrong to marry a woman who only sees value in you for everything but your looks. And im not talking about personality.
Much of it is luck - not that I believe in luck per se, but you likely have the disposition to push for change within your own life, plus the opportunity to do so. Other men will be different to you, they have unique physiology, unique biochemistry, unique maturation and cultural backgrounds, unique brain structure & functioning. I think it's great that you are currently in a better position in life, but generally speaking, looks matter, status matters and that's the way most cultures function. We can't always push past this and your own circumstance is more of a fringe case imo There are young men who have the odds stacked against them from the get go, and in some respects, videos like this just create an atmosphere of false hope. We have to be realistic about our looks and circumstance, as difficult as that can be. I don't want to be needlessly negative of course and if a person finds your video here inspirational, well more power to that person and I hope it works out.
Go off king! ❤ we need more men saying this, the pill analogies only scare off genuine women who would’ve loved you for just being you. These ideologies target vulnerable men who haven’t yet received the love they deserve and then turn them into someone that is hard to be around as a woman. Why would a genuine woman want to be with a guy who thinks she only with him for status or money ?? It only attracts woman who actually think like that. It’s heartbreaking..
Many men have no hope.
Sane, level headed advice. Your video on being 'ugly' was an inspiration and has helped out many men. I am from Sydney, Australia, and despite not being physically attractive myself, I too am married to a South-American girl. We have been married for 7 years and have children together. I do not have much money, and she could have left 5 years ago after she got residency... My situation infuriates blackpill people.
If you live in a better continent ofc the girl wold like to date you. But trust me if you were in south america you wold not date an australian girl.Why do you think passaport bros do? Go in more poor countries, or take the girls from there.
So you are a white man with a black woman? Don't you suppose that has something to do with it?
No we’re happy for you. Black pill is about proportion and probability, it’s not an absolute.
I'm not even black people but the fking assumptions you guys make on what red and black pill are infuriates. At least know what they are.
Black pill in summary is if you basically don't have good genes, you can't do anything about it. They believe looks play a major role in society, and you can't do anything about your own looks. If I'm wrong on this definition correct me, but how tf did what I just define apply to your situation?
@hooaah5561have you ever considered that you’re just unbearable to interact with because of the way you think and act?
THANK YOU. These men scare the fuck out of me. They’re the kind to kill women who don’t want them. Thank you for being sane. Thank you for not buying into the bullshit. We need more people like you.
only the blackpill ones
@ALittleHungryMonster: "They're the kind to kill women who don't want them." That is probably one of the most unscientific, insensitive, wide-sweeping statements I have ever seen. If you are willing to unironically make and believe such horrifyingly irrational statements, then you will probably be super scared of all sorts of weird things like aliens and ghosts and such and have an insatiable desire to dehumanize groups of people about whom you are ignorant. Yes... people are scared of what they don't understand... that's why we often name brands of demographic ignorance in reference to phobia. Those are absolutely despicable words, that apparently someone actually uttered... in 2024. Have we learned anything?
@ALittleHungryMonster: Let's try again, because apparently we aren't supposed to know when people make completely unscientific, insensitive, wide-sweeping statements in certain contexts: That's the kind of statement that your statement was, referring mainly to the part about how they're the kind to k*ll women who don't want them. I had more detail to add that did not display, but these are the essentials. It's ironic that your comment displayed but mine didn't, especially given that it's 2024.
@ALittleHungryMonster: Let's try again, because apparently we aren't supposed to know when people make completely unscientific, insensitive, wide-sweeping statements in certain contexts: That's the kind of statement that your statement was. I had more detail to add that did not display, but these are the essentials. It's ironic that your comment displayed but mine didn't, especially given that it's 2024.
Blackpill is just reality. Most women actually don’t want an ugly guy. There are exceptions of course, but they don’t make the rule.
You don't really discuss the arguments that are presented to you; there is no logic to what you say as well (something that you criticize others of doing). You present no stats, no evidence, not even an attempt to do so.
If you don't like the pill analogies it's fair; but the pill analogies are just used for fun oftentimes for people to spread memes and yes often times there are many trolls. However the important thing is the evidence that is presented for the arguments. The important thing is the truth.
There is such a thing as human nature; and there are things that matter to us ALL as humans. And there are things like obvious physical traits that matter to every one of us when we are choosing for partners, regardless of whether we are men or women.
By the way, your use of Stephen Hawkin as a means to debunk evidence...a cherry picked example that you didn't even bother to research properly. He met his first wife much before his body deteriorated. He is even twice divorced and you don't know anything about his personal life. It's just an example that makes you feel good.
based blackpill
If you based yourself on pure attraction there are biological stuff that is right about this, there is chemical attraction, and physical too. Buuut, in our society, real couples that last and are healthy have more to do with having shared values and objectives. Being in love is not the same than love someone and want a healthy lifelong commitment. Love is something you built in time, being in love is just the first step that has to do with biological chemistry. Reducing real bonds to just chemistry is what we criticize. Reproduction surely plays a huge role into attractiveness, and how man tend to see more attractive young women etc... whatever, not all men really want to reproduce, some mature men for example already had children that have grown up and now they want a couple to live happy their retirement, and some of those men actually DO marry to women of their ages. Because even if they see more attractive young women, they will find more things in common with someone of their age, and they will be more likely to have more shared values and views. One example of that is Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant, I mean a guy like that could have a young women if he wanted to, but he is with a woman of his age (or more) because of common views and values. At the end, you do whatever you want regardless of biology.
There are also other man that are like playboy and want young girls, but not all of them want to satisfy those urges, others just want peace and quiet, and be with someone that are like them. Same for women. I have always preferred men of my age, other of my female friends like older looking men. Diversity exists.
Both women are men are creating rifs between them at this times, is very hard to get to know the right person. Both men and women are chosing to be single and for me that is totally valid. The difference is that we don't go there labeling people and nature in boxes and in stupid ways. But well, you can do that if you want. What I share with the guy on the video is that I just don't understand how seeing the world like that and reducing the interesting complexity of the human mind and society to such little and short minded boxes makes you happy or fulfilled, or see that interesting in general. I prefer to dive into the nuances of biology, or the intrincate theories of Carl Jung, Idk, there are lots of more interesting things to study or to obssess with.
Bro, I am a follower of yours from Mexico, I really love your videos, I may not be the one to give you advice because I don't have your complete life context, but always remember that you are worth a lot and that you and your happiness come first, I admire you bro and I admire your ability to represent many people who do not have a voice, you are great. God Luck
being alone : my experience
Mine too
Based on youre profile pic you dont look bad or ugly. I think there are allot of girls intressed in you. But you have also put some effort in dating girls. Good luck
@@0707565 Hey man appreciate it but its not about being ugly or handsome , its about the generation and people , i literally got no effort to put , i am looking for the right one if she comes one day than i am down for it till that day i ll be alone
@@0707565 fake assurance brings sadness go away
Take the alone pill 😞
Agree. You made a life for yourself and didn't make excuses. You found happiness. And it wasn't by existing in an echo chamber of sad, lonely men. You're an example of a good guy who deserves the life you've made for yourself. You're a great example of how to live on your own terms instead of letting others dictate to you. Kudos!
literally what life does he have? also there's nothing wrong with being in the blackpill community
He let a complete stranger take advantage of him 😂
Keep gaslighting him, people like you think you do good but you’re just evil giving people false hope. He, a EU citizen, married a woman from a country in economic crisis after barely knowing her, gave her money, and all of a sudden she travels back to her home country. It’s naive and delusional to think she did it out of genuine attraction
@@BamberdittoPingpongwhen did he say he gave her money tho ?
@@iiCounted-op5jxyes there is… you’re just making yourself depressed… and then its harder to be a charismatic person somebody would want to date
Who remembers Destiny making fun of the red pill community? 😂😂😂
Hoping your situation will be different for your sake, but the odds are not in your favour bruh, you've been warned.
Yeh, i dont really care about the opinion of people using the pill analogies.
Its the equivalent as taking a flat earther serious.
@@NeverGiveUp-Main Lol okay bro
If people were right about the earth being flat at least 50% of the time, we would be living in an even stranger world than we already do.
@@Arc100kempirical data, but let's see if he is the one in a billion 😂
@@NeverGiveUp-Mainsee you when it collects bro
My friend is a 37 man who never had any job. He is overweight and have lots of acne, so he is not what society would call attractive. Yet he have had several girl friends, due to the fact that he see women as people.
That is the real key to most women
@@TheSerendipiaThe real key is be Helathy, Lean , have good skin , dress well , be respectful and BIGGEST OF THEM HAVE A BACKBONE
@@debarshisaha7323 you are obviously not a woman
NGU, I agree with a lot of your points and I also think it's very important to keep positive mindset like you do and stop complaining and do things to improve. But. To me you seem to be in a delusion. You should see that things are not right, your wife leaves to other side of the world for a year or 2? only 2 months after marriage. That just seems very suspicious.
3 months.. Not 3 years
@@NeverGiveUp-Main This comment will age poorly brother, I promise you.
@@iamnotoforiginald9206 Poor guy. He's in his denial phase. We've all been there.
absolutely brutal 3months shes already been railed by hernan drago lookalikes back in argentina@@NeverGiveUp-Main
@@NeverGiveUp-Main I don't want to seem like a douchebag, but he has a point. And it's very telling that instead of defending her reasoning for moving back to Argentina, you digress and focus only on the commenters themselves, without trying to defend your situation. That being sad, i wish you luck and a happy relationship
Boyo you don't live in reality 60% of americans young men are single while young girls are 34%, the average male is not good enough. why do you think there are news about young male lonlines, use you're logic please.
Well, I think it's more because of things like social media, addictions, lack of self worth, and overall attitudes towards men that's resulted in this
@ibby1295 That is what all bluepilled men think.
I think it is because only the best-looking men have skeletons titulating and big enough to evoke lust and attract a woman who genuinely wants to be with him, snuggle with him in her youth.
What your attributing to the cause are what I think are the symptoms, coping mechanisms because of being unattractive.
@ibby1295 Well we're still in a shithole regardless.
Where you getting those stats bro
@@Pitkänen22 literally from every site
You can ignore it all you want. But the blackpill or lookism is real. You of all people should know this. Just cause you imported a girlfriend doesn't negate your past experiences and the experiences millions of others are having everyday.
Did she know what he looked like in pictures?@@totem6064
Eh, I think some Incels or whatever kind of people who are using the "pill-analogy" take it too far. Lookism, as in getting treated way better when your handsome or beautiful, is true though. It's undeniable.
Aren't they gonna be separated for a year while his wife "heals" emotionally in Argentina?
@@ma_junia how do you know she did? weren't they living together? please provide me with some context
Yeah sure looks splay a huge role in selecting a partner. I would say the majoiryt of the people on this planet want to have a partner they find attractive as in good looks. But there are men and women who select partners who doesn't look as good but they still find them attractive. It's just a matter of who you meet and sure it's gonna be harder for people who aren't as good looking, but trust me there are many who find love still.
She is from Argentina, they met online (she commented on his video) after some chatting she asked him to buy a plane ticket so that she could visit him. He is from sweden. She stayed with him for a few months and ended up marrying him after he agreed to give her some money so that her family could pay off their debts. After that she said she would travel to Argentina to deliver the money to her family and never returned. The poor guy thinks she's just "taking some time off" and that she will return eventually.
She's a gold digger, she used him to pay for her huge medical bills and fucked off back to latam right after this.
Did she really left him
Any evidence to back that up? :)
Source: Trust Me Bro
@@NeverGiveUp-Main If she comes back, I'll write you a personal apology letter. In the meantime keep coping. I'll sit back with popcorn and watch the eventual fallout when you finally wake up.
@@lltoon hoooly gigachad
@@NeverGiveUp-Main My bruddaman bill, she is your wife, you are literally her family now, there's no such thing as missing family since her family is now you. Really try and reflect upon that, i hope you come out of this whole situation better, even if things end up badly as it may seen. Work on yourself and seek Jesus.
So many pills so little time.
“You are in the category of people who like to categorize everything.“ 0:44 hahaha nice sentence 😂
English isnt his first language mate it’s harder from him to articulate things
Lmao i said it was too early and here we are. Let this be a lesson kids. NEVER get married in 3 months of dating someone. NEVER.
Guy has only got himself to blame when every warning sign was there
what happened to him that you are writing this?
did she divorce him?
@@xyplo1she went back to her country
@@whatalegenddamnso?
@@Svengrustaben so she will stay there and Milk his money
@@whatalegenddamn how do you know? Her family lives there, she’s not just gonna abandon her family cause she got married
honestly i feel bad for those people like it’s honestly sad 😭
Black pill means accepting the harsh reality thats all someone who is blind or deaf will never enjoy tv or music they must cope with something else the same way someone who doesn't have good looks will never get genuine love there's expections for example you and julie where the wife ran to her country 2 months after marriage if you happy with that then good for you.
Just because yiu subscribe to these ideologies doesn't automatically make you treat women bad. You're insane for saying that.
That's like me saying, if you side with LGBTQ you hate men. Like we it tends to be the case because that's the type of people these groups (pill ideology and LGBTQ) attract, but know that the pill ideology hasn't been here for long. When it first became popular (depending on what you think is popular), it was chill. Now there are a lot of depress dudes with a lot of hate and frustration in them coming. I haven't associated with these groups in a year or so but I can't take the disrespect to some of these red pill and MGTOW creators that taught me a lot.
There are blind people who manage to get their vision back/ also technological breakthrus where some blind people can get their vision back.
And some forms of deafness is cureable/ also there is a sense of feeling vibrations that can stimulate a similar experience to hearing music.
So even your own metaphor is incorrect...
Anyway, whats your source? All i see is a: Trust Me Bro.
@NeverGiveUp-Main my experience bro
The difference is that being blind is objective but when you’re assessing your looks you’re heavily biased
@NeverGiveUp-Main your response is literally confirming his point, you said it yourself: "SOME people" - exception doesn't disprove the rule, bc majority can't be exception. Also do you really need sources to understand which types of life enjoyment blindness and deafness are taking away from you? I mean, you can find it in any online dictionary....
Geomaxxer denying blackpill is laughable
Imagine not saying maxxing in every sentanse like an idiot and talk properly 🤣🤣🤣
@@NeverGiveUp-Mainbro i respect you for the strength you have living such hard life and i wish you absolute best from the bottom of my heart but you should be aware and enlightened to not get hurt in future. Be smart my guy and be strong to face the truth.
@@heavyadrelingblogs5630 real but black pill is stupid
@@NeverGiveUp-Main what??
Big yikes reading the comments. This guy made a video and kept pushing himself until he made something out of it and eventually found love. Instead of whining in the comments, y'all should do something to improve your lives and go touch grass instead of being consumed and limited by the pill analogy.
Says asian woman who absolutely despise asian men, and act like monkeys when a tall white dude appears in tokyo streats...
Hey both of you stop fighting
Lmao... this dude just got used by a foreign woman looking for a free pass to another country and wealth. He might not know it yet, but that's what's up. This is what many (not all) women do. They use men to get things they want. Some remain loyal, some don't once they succeed. You being a woman wouldn't understand it. So just butt out of the conversation if you're gonna hurl insults.
I agree
Imagine writing shit like "big yikes".
Ignore the hate comments. They are left by bitter incels who sxualize women all day and then complain about why no women want them. Idk what is going on in your relationship, but even if you guys ever do break up, you can always find another partner . Just stick to being a good guy and find other hobbies to interest you . Wish you the best .
Can you explain why women are not sexual?
@@menonalevi6984 ask your mom . If u have one
Black pill is about genuine attraction and love, not about getting girls only because of your status and resources.
Clearly you have never loved anyone before. Falling in love have nothing to do with any of that. Today its quite twisted, where love is seen only as a physical attraction. And you my friend, belong in that mindset.
@@NeverGiveUp-MainIt is conspicuous what this woman is to you.
You should stop with this condescending writing tone, it's not adult to use diminutives like you know so better and take pity on opposing worldviews.
@@NeverGiveUp-Main I never said anything about love being all about physical attraction. I said black pill doesn’t count a rich guy “getting hoes” because that’s not genuine attraction. Black pillers value and are concerned with true attraction and true love, not just in the dating market and in society in general.
@@NeverGiveUp-MainOf course it does. Sexual attraction always starts with looks.
@@gj9157love and sex are two different things.
1:59 I hate to break the news but there are at least 100 million more men in the world so it is entirely possible there is no women interested in you who is presently not in a relationship. If everyone in the world was to get a relationship there would still be incеIs. She’s not waiting copecels.
Blackpill is real but I think most of us ugly guys can learn to be happy alone opposed to being rejected 10000s of times
Most trucels will learn to cope with being single for life but happy? No.
@@forcedtohaveahandle people can be happy while being celibate
@@gambalombo nah not really
@@gambalomboare you celibate?
@@CryptidBuddy no
This comment section and this topic make me feel bad so I'm not listening, but I wish you the best since you're one of the persons who helped me getting out of the blackpill and depression, I hope this will help people who can hear you now
Those who have critical thinking will find a good way to happiness, one way or another.
You may be done with the black pill but it'll never be done with you.
@@s.aureus1254 I'm not in depression anymore, my mind isn't working against me anymore. Sure it can come back, but now I know it's a disease and that these blackpill theories aren't rational nor reality. And God knows how deep in it I had to go to realize that
I wish you the best
Ultimate truth. That is what you should pursue.
@@s.aureus1254deluded incels is a better definition of "blackpill"
Saw you instagram and thought I had to support you. We are here for you !
Wow
You are really cool
Thanks for spitting the truth. I have watched ur video's since the beginning. I have to agree I think there is truth behind every pill. Being tall handsome rich does positively affect your dating life but like you said everyone values different things and a lot of the people in the redpill and blackpill think it's over if you are not 6ft or make 6 figures.
waiting for rehab to make a video about this delusional video , this guy even after so many years of being treated like shit by womens and even his ex think that meditation will help and women from other countries have different mindset. We as humanity are the same - we behave the same and think the same but you know blackpill will collect - like it always does
Trust and believe.
Waiting too
Humans don't behave the same and think the same, everyone has different values
@@riccardobarone384blackpill is pure biology
@@MikeJensen-w2vif she was actualy 3/10 then god damn i feel bad for dude, sacrificing so much time and resources just to get 3/10 and then being heartbroken by her...
Stephen Hawking who appeared on the Epstein files is not the best example to make...
Imagine Stephen Hawking in his wheelchair paralyzed having child $3X 😅😄🤣😂😆
@@HelenaNyborg-nq9ypi personally don’t want to imagine that
@@Cho0segoose Your loss
@@HelenaNyborg-nq9ypare u okay?
@@HelenaNyborg-nq9yphow would that even work? He can’t get hard
Black pill always wins
Maybe in your life because youre a loser by your own choices.
Always
Amen
You can't lose a game if you don't play it 👆
i agree, you are limiting yourself when you limit yourself to a pill analogy. the world is way to complicated to be able to navigate it thought one set of mind. in my opinion the more bread and knowledgeable you are the best is it for anyone to get the best outcome of most situations.
The blackpill is not limiting, it actually sets a lot of people free, now they understand why things are the way they are, its better to know the hars truth than to live in delusion. Just wait a bit and come back here, the blackpill will come and will collect.
I really don't wanna see this guy dumped by his wife. But even she does, he at least may accept the harsh reality and start looksmaxxing
He needs a hair transplant, microblading in his eyebrows, get rid off those ass-looking glasses, a rhinoplasty, loss some bodyfat and a chin transplant lol
He needs to invest in himself and with improving his looks, he will unconsciously tell his wife that he can cheat her more easily than before and with that, it will make him more desirable for her
Want to find someone? Pick something you think is cool, make music, pick up an instrument, make paintings do scrapbooking, whatever you want, being nice is like the bare minimum, everyone is nice, but if you have hobbies, you're already way more interesting, and you don't need to be good even, that'll come with time anyway
No hobbies 4 ur face lol
Most people are ok with their partner/spouse not having the same interests as them as long as they’re physically/seggsually attracted to them.
But keep gaslighting buddy boyo 😁👍🏽
@@lucid_5685 well, it is, but it doesn't offer anything, all you do is consume another's work, especially if you only do CSGO and the likes
@@magicmoonmonke what did they say ?
@@magicmoonmonke lmao
Yes, black pill alvays collect
I love that phrase. You know why? Because I love the truth.
I will say it once and will continue saying it... men should date in their looksmatch range. So a guy who is a 4 should date a 3 , 4 or 5 at most. This is because the relationship will be healthy for both sides. Otherwise there will always be that insecurity from the lower attractive person and there will always be potential for infedility from the more attractive partner. This feeling will always be there everyday and everywhere you go. Its not healthy thinking and worrying like this everyday. The only exception to this is if you have millions to make it up or live in the middle of nowhere where there is no competition.
the problem is that women always date up and men date down. nah it won't be healthy because in that case women will be passing their ugly features onto their sons.
@enexe6229 I don't think every man or woman really thinks, let alone cares about if the person they love will "make their son ugly". On a subconcious level maybe but that's not gonna stop people from getting together
It's better when the man is more attractive as vvomen only date up and across. She won't respect you otherwise.
However, even hideous vvomen have insane standards now.
Cope 2/10s still think they’re model stacies
stephen hawking was on epsteins island
He was also born before color photography and instant travel.
He also fingered the statue of liberty
Maybe he didn’t know this yet? The news about it is still relatively new tbh.
what you mean . what's so special about this island
@@surena3727 you're in for a long wild ride bro
By the way, I’m not saying this to be mean or anything. People’s reaction to you isn’t unreasonable. The reason why some are questioning your relationship is because it’s odd, to say the least. Really what do you have that others don’t? You don’t have money, good health, good looks, good prospects, or any real status. Maybe you got a decent personality, but that’s a dime a dozen.
Me personally, I think your Wife got an image in her head of you, even though the image might not be true. Probably just a matter of time, until the image is gone.
Hope the best for you, but that’s how it looks.
Most people don't have any of that either and are able to date. This guy is kind and smart which is rare nowadays.
Some women have this "saviour" approach where I am gonna save him from loneliness etc. but reality is that if she wants to change her mind , it can be done in the heartbeat. Where's our man here cannot do that. Result? He is purely dependent on her and would be in huge depression if the relationship went south. I don't want it to happen, I'm glad he got a woman, but let's be realists here. shes in full control of the relationship. He isn't.
do you not think that they perhaps just click? do you not think its possible that they have natural chemistry? do you think that his downfalls have forced him to cultivate his personality and think about things other men might not consider which would in turn increase his "value"?
not trying to be condescending. im just curious.
can you not argue that its possible that she could be dependent on him? that his qualities, individualities and experiences are so unique to him that they are unattainable else where. is that not incentive for her to stay with him? yes, she can get other men. but there is only one version of him. and we im sure we can both agree, hes a very distinct person.
furthermore, i don't think he would be as doomed as you think if this relationship ended: from an emotional standpoint, there would no doubt be suffering. but he has had a previous partner with whom he his relationship with was very serious in the past. he's had two serious relationships at his young age. it would be naive to think he couldnt have another.@@davsss6406
I think she might be cluster B and has idolized him.
I remember a long time ago seeing your video and I'm very happy for you dude, hope you prove these projecting weirdos wrong and live a happy life with each other.
Lol he put messages to "approval" the little manchild.
"projecting weirdo's" you misspelled realistic people who don't partake in bluepilled delusions
@@iiCounted-op5jx I don't really give much mind to this whole pill nonsense I just try not to be a bad person, and telling some poor guy his marriage is doomed just because your life is a trainwreck seems selfish and rude tbh.
@@Morra5472 Yeah man being a nihilistic edgelord is totally more mature lmao
You'll never run away from the data and scientifically-based theories
I love you man but this advice is absolute dogshit. When my parents had an arranged marriage the main factors she and her family cared about in my dad was his appearance, how much money he was bringing in, his reputation, and his status. That's it.
It has always been this way for centuries. Only all of a sudden in the 21st century is this "new age" of individualistic/relativist thinking so popular.
Why are we trying to lie to young men? I just don't get it.
“my parents were this way and some other people are, therefore everyone must be that way”
@@kalekoi What an oversimplification. 90% of the world operated this way not too long ago and a large part of it still does. Let's ignore what a HUGE chunk of the middle east and Asia still do....
@@DaveThaBossDTB that really doesn’t take away from my point. some people doing it one way doesn’t mean that it is *always* done that way. there are absolutely other ways, healthier ways, of forming and maintaining relationships
@@kalekoi So first off it is not just "some" people. Almost 50% of the world's marriages are arranged so what are you smoking?
You argue for individualism whereas I argue for harmony and a more pragmatic view that some things are more effective than others and will be more successful as time passes. I refuse to ignore a huge chunk of history and ongoing history because a bunch of delusional nerds think they can attain love more efficiently in their "new age" way than what has worked for centuries and still works... By telling young men otherwise you are dooming them and lying to them about what their role as men should be.
If young normal/average men had a equal chance and success at attracting a woman as a chad would, I would agree with you. But we are not even close to that stage yet and I do not think we ever will be unless majority of men and women increase their stages of psychological development.
@@DaveThaBossDTB bioessentialism and appeals to history, sheesh. as someone who was once down that rabbit hole i don’t think there’s changing your mind, but i will encourage, try to at least consider the possibility that the world could be different than this framework you’ve built up. there are plenty of other reasons for things having commonly been done a certain way than it being the “best”, “natural”, or “only” way. bye.
the whole pill thing is just stupid
It’s a thought experiment and a metaphor. It’s actually very deep.
cope
Its based on a general consensus. That doesn't mean outliers don't exist. This is something most don't seem to understand.
Of course it's stupid, but it's a fact.
The truth is not stupid
No, I think he's simping since he got famous and spent all that time around the new girl. He denies the pain of so many men who are mistreated and given a poor deal on love. Perfect example of a guy who only acts bluepill because it benefits him, without caring for others. (beta)
In the end he has lost. Just like every guy that becomes a bloomer as soon as he gets a girlfriend.
It's impressive the number of unresolved, shallow, envious people who can't be happy and don't want to see anyone happier, basically the brainless and unloved audience of pill theorists, but they know that the problem lies within themselves.
Ana she already left him she needs some "space" just admit you women love good looking boys
"the problem lies within themselves"
Yes, and it's a problem that is often intractable.
No amount of effort or self-help guru babble will instruct these ones.
Meritocracy is an ideological lash used by others to bolster their ego.
For each "win" in this ludicrously absurd game we call life, there are piles of losers.
None of these losers asked to compete, life is an imposition and deterministic.
When your parents combine genes it is a roll of the dice and predispositions exist from day one.
just another virtue signalling woman.
@@whatalegenddamnshe’s coming back march
Man I am happy you got someone in your life. But you have over 285k subscribers and you found 1 or maybe 2 girls who showed interest in you. What does that tell you? Let's say that your audience is half female. Ok, but that that's still a huge number of subscribers. Pure math, man.
You’d rather cope than improve yourself
Average guys get 0
@@akrtaha3733I'm literally as average as you get and i got to bone like 3 girls before settling for long term relationship and all that before hitting 25. Cope and seethe dungeon dweller
You can't just say half his subscribers are women, and therefor all of these women who watch him want to be potential partners for him
Most are men and do you always try show interest to female RUclipsrs to date them? No one does this
I don't think you know Blackapill at at. "Hoe math" "Wheat waffles" "Thinking-ape" have hundreads of diagrams, charts, countless hours of video where they include everything: looks, personality, status, money, charisma, your values, compatibility, drive, every single feature possibile. Blackapill is: 1) admitting looks is the most important 2) woman will ! value your other traits after! you pass the looks test. 3) status is also important (Stephen Hawking) 4) money - guy for her has to provide genes of safety 5) She will dump you and go for better opition when opportunity comes, without mercy and hesitation.
This is sad bro. Give up the pills and all this intellectualising trash and live life. These people you listen to are all losers that have no success with women, why would you take their advice on women?
Bruh the thing about looks being important will go both ways lmao . But in the real world you'll see more pretty women settling for someone that isn't considered physically attractive
@@ldrago6031 no. VVomen are far more picky when it comes to looks.
@@DavidW-ng5zvso untrue. all my friends have very average looking boyfriends. girls really vary with personality but most just want a guy that respects them. blackpillers view women one-dimensionally, thats why they don’t get any
@@faulle8083Yes, vvomen are far more picky when it comes to looks. They view over 80% of men as below average and swipe left on 95% of men.
Most men have very low standards and have to take what they can get.
I envy your delusion.
Ignorance is a bliss 😂
Hater😂 jelly??
Never Get Up
JFL at meeks for sayinh that 😂
sorry you gotta go through this man.
I love you man, I respect you greatly
When you fall in love with someone your brain makes them attractive to you. When I first started dating my husband I didn’t find him attractive but he had a good personality and was easy to get along with. I thought he was so ugly I didn’t like to look at him. As time went on and I fell in love with him I felt attracted to him. I think he’s so cute now!! I’m happy I don’t go for looks because we have been together almost 7 years. Find someone you get along with. Everything else will fall into place
They are just projecting their insecurities. Even if your wife came for the green card, you will find another one. Life doesn't end in one relationship. We have to cherish the present moment
I think this topic is *really* hard to navigate because there's valid points from both sides. Look, I don't know your relationship. I don't know if your wife is genuine. Obviously her going back to Argentina doesn't look good on paper, but there could also be a valid reason for the temporary separation.
Take it from someone who's been in a long distance relationship for 5 years. I got engaged to my wife within 7 months, and we got married around 3 years later. There are good, genuine women out there, but there's also a lot of really bad ones who will take advantage of starstruck, lonely men.
I hope it works out for you. I hope you assessed her well before committing to her. Every relationship is a leap of faith, so you have to trust your intuition.
Some people are born, as rejects for their, whole life for that reason. You just cannot, find love but the other gen z does. Thats why where living in a Twilight zone..
Yep i’m 16 and i think i’ve accepted now that the face i was born with has made me practically unloveable. It’s been very hard for me to take this in but i think that as a boy accepting that it was over before it started helps me manage being lonely a little bit. Not being given the chance in the first place doesn’t make me miss something i had, rather i try not to miss something i was never even given
Jag är ledsen att många som kommenterar är idioter. Det är kul att se att saker gått framåt för dig, din fru verkar fantastisk. Bra jobbat verkligen att sprida sanningen som du gör, det är viktigt för dem sorgliga i kommentarsfältet att höra.
Thank you, man! Huge respect! 💪✨
Ok from my point of view you dont have great looks and you have money she has the looks but doesnt have money she loved you i guess and you helped her with money and now she still has the looks and now she has the money and she has the ticket back to her family and no need for anyone. Am i wright?
Wrong 🤣
@@NeverGiveUp-Main You wish he was wrong lol
İ promise if she returns ill apologise
She'll come back to him when she needs more money again or online attention.
@@cnarhatrnaz3561time to apologize
A lot of the BP is toxic man, the crabs in the bucket mentally is very prevalent but that being said if you think she loved you unconditionally and that your channel success and Swedish money had nothing to do with it, then you're quite naive tbh.
I have less than minimum wage 🤣..
@@NeverGiveUp-Main surely you get YT money no?
@@NeverGiveUp-Mainthat min wage is tons in Argentina. Soon she'll be asking for $$ to help her poor Granma or some lame excuse.
@@johnny-mnemonic13 Yeah just like philippenes to americans you can make american minimum wage and its many times what a phillipeno woman makes. That's why they love americans because it seems like they are all rich to them.
You are real and you have depth that's why. I'm not the ugliest or best looking. My wife moved 7000 miles to live with me whilst I was living with my dad putting all my limited funds into my failing business. She is 13 years younger than me, from a wealthy family, educated with her own business and hot. We now have 2 kids and a fun relationship. Screw everyone. Most people are cunts.
Any tips on how to meet someone like that? How did you guys meet
@@andrew213rn We met online. I just put on my profile I'm not after any more BS relationships. I want my final one. I have little money but I'm pretty smart, hard working a good laugh when you get to know me and I'm kind hearted. Please no offense don't bother contacting me if you are after different. - Something along those lines... Then we chatted for a year before we met. Good luck
@@andrew213rnI dont think you can make it happen faster honestly. You just have to talk to a lot of girls but also not with the intention to date them. Things tend to appear once you stop desperately searching for them.
How did you meet yours?@@tibi9733
The problem is with Hollywood. People watch too many movies so that today Everyone thinking they live in a fucking movie
It's only part of the problem
i'm happy for you and i agree that the pill analogy is stupid, but lets be honest here. you luck out thanks to your channel, you were indeed bald to expose yourself and you put the work, but you're still an exception. the fact that a good thing happened to you doesn't automatically cancel the struggles you went through in your life do to how you looks, something that you didn't have control over. you claim that the guys who give up on finding a partner never tried, that they didn't put any work and just choose to "hate" women. do you believe is possible? i tell you that they most likely tried and tried and tried again, until they couldn't do it anymore. Maybe they weren't as strong as you or lucky enough. effort doesn't equal succes, there is not such formula.
this isn’t a male-centric issue, women face this too. we’re just less vocal. i know soooo many lonely women
People are so toxic .Happy for you bro keep going.
Well look into the matrix red pill and blue pill. That has meaning
Its easy for you to say this, having found a person you love, but a lot of us including myself have never known someonelse to love us.
This comes from the man that understod that looks maters so he traind, ate better and trained his socialskills for most of his life💪🏾 never give up
@@Maxivsu And I've been doing the same for 15 years. I'm in my 30s now. Other people are not as fortunate even though they work just as hard
I will remember you
Actually it's partly luck too. And that has nothing to do with pills or your hardwork. Just hope that the timing and person fits right
@@anusree8707 yes you are right, As he also explained in the video:)
The amount of negative comments down here is absurd. I just wanted to say that I completely agree with you.
sorry but comes off egotistical when you have such a a big audience who need help, but instead you only whine about what people say about your relationship in the comments😂
Your comment matches your laughing emoji pfp.
What are you yapping about
@@ibby1295yeaaah the op is kinda stupid
He made one 10 minute long video addressing a very big issue and how it relates to his own life but according to you he "only whines about the comments". And anyway, at least he is defending his relationship. Not egotistical if you have self worth.
The stephen Hawking take is not aging well
She used you for money, keep coping
I genuinely hope you find happiness one day. It’s very sad that you’re here just spewing hate for no reason
find happiness
Honestly this is as dumb as labeling people based on their zodiac sign or country stereotypes
Keep coping, but hate to say it you won’t find a women that truly loves you and doesn’t want you for something. I would say to keep working on yourself but that doesn’t help either
Brother, you got played. The sooner you accept it, the smaller the damage in your mind and heart will be. It's already gonna be huge, dont make it worse. For your own good.
I'm sorry bro I always rooted for you, but this is a dumb take. Black pill is real. It always comes to collect. This isn't hating on you, I'm always rooting for you, but the black pill will come to collect. It always does :(
I feel very sorry for you man.
I hope you can find happiness one day.
It will. But after that the blue pill or the red pill will aslo come to collect. All of the pills are true
I agree, it's sad and funny at the same time how simple-minded some people are. For some people the way of thinking is what can't be can not be.
Ppl just can’t accept ppl are different. To say “i suffer and i don’t know understand why” is too much for some people, they’d rather be certain and still suffer. I think it’s a commonly accepted psychological phenomenon or something like that. A 100% chance of failure feels better to most than a 20% chance of failure, as crazy as it sounds. Ppl don’t want to be realistic, even if that’s why they, even to themselves, say they believe in X or Y pill.
If those people are correct, why do they try so hard to prove you wrong? Why are they so cruel about it? It’s clearly disturbing to them. Personally when i see a flat earther i don’t get mad because i know I’m correct, and i’m not threatened. Why do people come here just to comment rude stuff? Why do they search the comments section and give likes to every rude one?
As for me i’m an ugly unfit insecure painfully socially anxious and boring person, and i’ve still had some girls like me (def not delusion, i always look for every reason they might *not*). That fucking enraged the black/red pill people who noticed that and they all started making comments. Even when my own fucking brother, who is better looking, found that out he started insulting the shit out of my appearance at every opportunity. People can’t stand you when you break the way they see the world, as if you’re destroying it yourself directly.
My spiritual belief is that the point of earth is to learn to see past the illusion of pain, suffering, hate, etc. When you believe the illusion you enter “hell”, and if you don’t you enter heaven. And it applies to daily life in a less spiritual way. When you believe the illusion you believe you’re in hell and become a disgusting demon like creature. You go to happy peoples videos and insult them and bring them down, because you literally believe happiness doesn’t exist.
It even seems like the world around you changes. When you’re in heaven you get surrounded with nice people like you did. When you’re in hell all the nice people get repulsed by you and you believe everyone is trying to use you, because at that point, they are.
If i would’ve believed the illusion with my brother and insulted him back, i would’ve just been insulted more. I chose to not believe it and was still kind to him, and he once he realised i was right he felt bad and now we’re good again. With other people too, if i’d fall for the illusion and if idve been rude to them idve disgusted the people who liked me. And like in this situation, if you keep responding to negative comments you will only get more. Either metaphysically or logically, the energy you give off changes the world around you. And you also have the power to change peoples view of the world, like what you’re doing.
I’m not religious but i think that’s what the story of jesus was. Someone who saw past the illusion and was still kind and showed people the truth, and people wanted to test him so much, to see if he wasn’t actually saying they truth, that they killed him. In the same way, i think of all the negative comments are a “test” as you whether what you’re saying is true (bc when you understand the truth you can’t unsee it no matter how rude people are)
Anyways basically don’t believe the mean comments. They’re just rooting each other on, that’s why they all have so many likes, while they nice people aren’t as desperate so it seems like there are less. They’re just lost. You probably already know all that’s but still i thought i should say it so that you know that there are people who agree with you and are rooting for you ❤
You saved my life man
I did have a black pill way of thinking for a little while and was prideful in the way I looked but that only made me feel bad about myself at the end of the day and looking down on people isn't the way i wanted to live my life. Over a year ago I got saved/encountered God in a powerful way and he changed the way I view myself and life. Any guy has a chance to find the right woman for themself, its best to look for a Godly woman because they dont look at the outward appearance but they see your heart just as God does 🙏🏻✝️
False
are you drunk
years of alcoholism left lasting effects on his brain
If your girlfriend wont comeback or you 2 two end up breaking up will you change your views?
That js his WIFE not gf . Big difference lol
What’s gonna happen? If for some reason, Russia becomes aggressive, and Sweden is involved in a full-fledged conflict as I’ve been seeing on the news serious question have you ever thought about things like that? Will you defend your country or flee? thank you sir just curious I am really into politics and history. Have a nice day. The reason I mentioned this is because I saw if I’m correct, the Swedish, Prime Minister told its citizens to prepare for conflict. Just wanted to know your opinion and how you feel. God forbid of course
Honest question, when will she return from her country?
March 👍
she will return to ask for more money lmao
When she can't rub two pennies together.
I think even amongst those who subscribe to pill thinking, there is a lot of variety and there is a spectrum. Even amongst the same pill such as "redpill" there are those who claim to be that who see thing too black and white and absolutist which is more so what you mentioned, and there are others who understand nuance better, and see things as a matter of probabilities not certainties, and who still treat others (women included) with a fair amount of basic respect/decency by default without causing any real issues or harm
The moment you categories your self in that sort of way you are not a person, you are a sheep. Have your own opinion, formulate your own ideas. In my opinion, if you are courageous, self aware and determined nothing stops you from getting what you want, self awareness will allow you to find your goals(a person with no goals is going no where, the same as being blind. your working for no reason). Courage is going to allow you to take the first step and try different paths until you get to one that seems to work and to give up and try a new one if you've invested in one that does not. And finally, determination is going to allow you to keep going especially if things are tough. I believe determination and courage can be developed through facing adversity. That can be done via sports and hard work(in my opinion martial arts are the best, especially muay thai and bjj as they offer constant hardships in a safe environment) and self awareness is a bit harder to train but if you try to think about your actions from the third person perspective and get into the habit of stopping and reflecting you can train that too. When you reach a point when you have all three characteristics nothing can stop you.
"if you are courageous, self aware and determined nothing stops you from getting what you want"
That's just not true though.
For each moment of victory for one, there are piles of losers.
Look at competitive sport for instance - such a huge investment in a persons life and only a small percentage go on to succeed.
Meritocracy is an ideological lash to keep us running at the wheel.
Which is not to say don't try, if you have the disposition to do so, but these tired old self-help platitudes need to go.
"nothing can stop you"
Nonsense.
you are missing the point. Obviously not every body can be an NBA player, but you can change you desires and wants to fit your life. If you changed your desire and achieved the new one you have achieved what you wanted to achieve. That's where self awareness comes into the picture, if you are truly self aware then, by definition, your goals are going to be within the realm of possibility for you. I would love for you to give me an example of a goal that cant be achieved by a person with the three characteristics that is also congruent to his abilities and possible to achieve. @@JB.zero.zero.1
To clarify what I'm saying, a 5ft guy wishing to be an NBA player lacks self awareness and thus, does not fulfill al of the requirements of theory I've presented. @@JB.zero.zero.1
In the movies, sure. Real life doesnt work like that. Deal with it.
@@SoupSailor give me an example of something that cannot be achieved under those conditions. Again, self awareness will insure you understand what your negatives are and adjust accordingly. The only goal you really have to attain in life is self fulfillment which is 100% dependent on you.
Alot if sad and miserable dudes in this comment section that are simply dragging down others to their level of misery.
Always good advice from you. I appreciate your opinions and analysis.
I hate to break it to you but she’s not coming back ! Attraction is the most important thing to women she was using you
Its possible she will. Avg wage in argentina is 200 and 4k in sweden. No reason not to live there comfortably and use him for some more years
i already told him that in one of his previous videos , she did just like many men from my country do they marry an old or unattractive European woman and leave her after getting money from her or citizenship, i knew that was going to happen !
@@Yunoooo156no money for ur face
@@Yunoooo156she can find a more attractive dude in argentina thats rich
She came back. And now?
Nowadays people are obsessed with clans, and flags, and it will lead to doom
Great conspiracy talk.. down the ugly Rabbit Hole... Or in the pink Rabbit Hole
I'm from Argentina..
It is ok if you think you are in a good relationship.. but the question that beats any kind of justification is "why are you married with her and she decided to leave your side?" i know there is a "reason" and you explained in another video but it is simply not normal to live 12.553 km away from your partner and don't have any prospects of when she will return with certainty.
Flight is scheduled in March..
@@NeverGiveUp-Mainany time period during march? prove these miserable mfs wrong
@@Videymann she came ;)
you matured soo much in these past 6 years, really inspirational
Im not suprised, because is really supicious when only meet about months and want to married...
May be unrelated but, if you ever decide to come visit Argentina, we could hang out if you want to meet new people. I'm always open for new aqcuaintances or maybe friendships.
YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ANYTHING! THE MATRIX HAS ATTACKED ME!!!
I am happy for him. At the same time, I think it would behoove him to not shun the very community that he seems to have unwittingly been a part of. One can acknowledge the plight of the black pill while still enjoying his current relationship and not totally abandon the community shared in his suffering which provided some camaraderie
Seems like ppl are jelly about you having a wife these comments are so weird
Good video bro. I almost didnt click u gotta work on ur thumbnails but im glad i listened i agree w u 100% i c why she chose u!!
Im really beautiful can i come and meet you you buy me stuff and then i go home k? 😅
Someone once said that I look a bit like you and I lost all confidence that I had.
@@givethankseveryday why? Is it a good thing?
@@givethankseveryday I do fine. However, I just want to look like me.
I don't want to look like other people. I'm allowed my own identity.
@@givethankseveryday nope, there is not a single person that I look like.
I don't want to look like someone else, just me.
😭
Hiroshima Nagasaki level of blackpill 😂
You're a legend because of that pure, honest video: That's attractive. And physical attractiveness fades over time. I prefer an attractive personality over looks
This speech is a medicine for me.
I am happy that you found a partner despite the terrible odds. And i know you are in a honeymoon phase where you are only looking things all rosy. But take it from an older man, she saw you for passport and money. Im also from a latin country and thats what most women here do. Argentina has one of the most attractive men in the world but also one of the poorest. Unfortunately money is sometimes more important than looks until they have it.
Basically what im trying to say is think logically and use your brain.. as long as your ok with this fact then you will endure for any possible outcome. There is absolutely nothing wrong to marry a woman who only sees value in you for everything but your looks. And im not talking about personality.
Much of it is luck - not that I believe in luck per se, but you likely have the disposition to push for change within your own life, plus the opportunity to do so.
Other men will be different to you, they have unique physiology, unique biochemistry, unique maturation and cultural backgrounds, unique brain structure & functioning.
I think it's great that you are currently in a better position in life, but generally speaking, looks matter, status matters and that's the way most cultures function.
We can't always push past this and your own circumstance is more of a fringe case imo
There are young men who have the odds stacked against them from the get go, and in some respects, videos like this just create an atmosphere of false hope.
We have to be realistic about our looks and circumstance, as difficult as that can be.
I don't want to be needlessly negative of course and if a person finds your video here inspirational, well more power to that person and I hope it works out.
Luck is everything in this life…
Do you have a real job ? How do you survive? New to channel 👋🏼 thank you