Lauren M Incorrect. Gabby had a family who supported her through her entire life/career. Simone Biles was in foster care as a child before being adopted by her maternal grandfather. But yes, she is an Olympic gold medal winning gymnast.
You are literally the future woman and mom I want to be. Thank you so much for sharing your heart and your story. You make me cry by how good of a heart you have and love you are pouring into these foster kid's lives. Crying tears because this is literally the type of life I've always wanted to live.
@@lilyduffy2923 I remember how important my friends were and having to leave them when I'd move from foster home to foster home. It always broke my heart. As an adult it's hard to open up sometimes because it hurts me to lose people
To Miss A- I started gymnastics when I was 13 and was put with a bunch of little kids and one girl who was two years younger than me. It was embarrassing, but I stuck with it because I thought it might still be something I liked. Today, I still love tumbling and gymnastics, and the few years I was in the class, I even became friends with some of the kids who were a lot younger than me. We had a special relationship and competed together. Overtime, I got a lot better and I found my passion. Even though I started much later than most people, I found what I love and can now tumble quite well. Don't give up and definitely don't ever compare yourself to others! You're doing great, and everything takes time.
@@kaylamesser5733 kinship is unlicensed placements. So relatives or someone else that has some kind of connection to the child/family. Family friends, teachers, etc. Any relationship that would allow the kids to keep a connection to relationships or community. There are never enough foster homes, so kinship/relative homes are lifesavers for sure. However, being unlicensed means that access to financial supports can be pretty limited.
It’s so good to see her starting an activity as an older kid! It’s never too late to get started! I am a dance teacher and older beginners are some of my favourite classes to teach. I have seen dancers start at age 12-13 and reach national level competitions within a few years, so no goal is too far away! Go Miss A!!
As a gymnastics coach myself, I can say that the sport is for any age!! I have students that started at 12+ And they’re thriving and competing now. I hope she loves it and enjoys her time in the sport! You all seem like such an amazing family, keep doing what you’re doing!
I cannot even fathom living my life as a teenager and taking care of siblings or parents or whatever it may be. The world is cruel to kid sometimes. I’m 16 and I still have a two parents who hug me before school in the morning and tell me they love me every night. My parents drive me to and from each and every activity, and support me every step of the way. Thank you for being that person for kids who don’t have it. Every kid on this earth deserves unconditional love, and not all always receive it 💜
I love that you tell Miss A and your own children that "we don't say that we can't, we say that we will try." You are fostering a growth mindset-- that she has the ability to learn new things and to grow from her mistakes, and that's really important for building resilience. So I applaud you and your ability to communicate that, because positive thoughts like these she can carry with her throughout her whole life.
i know how she feels to think it’s too late to start in a sport that is so competitive like gymnastics or cheer because everyone always starts so young. i started tumbling classes just like the one you showed when i was thirteen and i am now a sophomore in high school and am varsity cheerleading captain. you tell her don’t worry because feeling left behind drives you to be the best in your class. she’s got this. 💪🏻
I am 17 years old and I have had many CYS (or CPS) visits. I live with my grandma and my mom because my mom is a heavy drug user. There have been countless times where I have been stranded in the car with her because she was too high to drive. My principal has had to drive me home from school many times. There have been countless ER visits. Every time something like this would happen I would help cover it up. We would blame it on the new medications she was on or some medical condition etc... I spent my whole life doing anything and everything to stay out of the system because my situation couldn’t be worse than foster care. The horror stories of abuse and neglect kept me complacent in my own abuse and neglect. Seeing how there are amazing (AMAZING) families out there like yours makes me regret all of that so much. I would do anything to go back in time and tell the case workers that NO I do not feel safe. I wish your family all the best. You are a truly incredible family. Thank you for all you are doing
I really didnt know how to express this feeling I got while watching their videos but you put that feeling into words. & you are much younger than myself. You're so very smart & self reflective for your age, that will take you far. I hope you're doing well. & on the days you aren't, just know that things won't always be this way. 💓
I’ve never considered being a foster parent and probably never will, but I cry every time I watch one of your videos. You and your husband are such caring, loving people and I appreciate that there are people like you to help these children. Much love to you and your family, and I wish Miss A the best with her new hobby. :)
Miraculous Marinette Yup! I’m a haydur there but a lover here. AL could get as much positive feedback as these two do if she’d only do better for herself.
Be The Village I think they are referring to Amberlynn Reid, but I’m not 100% certain since I don’t watch her videos. I searched for “Big AL” on RUclips and that’s who came up, and who seemed to fit the description. I had no idea who “Big AL” was either though.
Hey! Former foster sister, current gymnast, and former cheerleader, if Miss A is interested in more tumbling/cheerleading route a really good option is to go to any local cheer gyms because a lot of them may offer intro cheer classes for high school cheerleaders therefore it may be girls more around her age and still be around her skill level to make her feel a little more comfortable! I started cheer classes when I was around 13 and there were plenty of girls who had done no tumbling yet! Just an idea! I love what yall are doing and hope for the best for yall and Miss A
Tell Ms A that “if she quits now, she’ll soon be back where she started and when she started she was probably wishing to be where she is now”. I’ve been seeing that quote a lot lately and found it helpful when I was comparing myself to others. ❤️
I did gymnastics for 12 years, and there were always younger athletes who were more talented than me. Even when I was 17... I was competing with 8 year olds! It was still fun! I had a blast! Don't do it to go to the Olympics, do it for your health and well-being! Gymnastics is a great sport!
When I was in high school I had befriended some young ladies who were living in a foster home. I invited them to come volunteer down at my local humane society with me. I think that would depend on what age they’d allow that at your local shelter. But it was definitely fun and therapeutic for them. They enjoyed getting out of the house but also not necessarily having to be around a bunch of people all the time. We would feed/water, bath and walk the dogs. Same goes for the cats, we’d make sure the litter boxes were fresh, fresh food and water and would play with them. Just an idea though. :)
Myspacemuncher some shelters will allow children that are not old enough to physically interact with animals come in and read to the dogs. It’s a stress free way to improve a child’s reading skills and is very therapeutic for animals. This would be great for a lot of foster children who might not have had a consistent or strong education and might be embarrassed by his or her lack of reading skills.
A kid acting like a kid, is one of the best things to see and hear in this world. Fun thing we do is stress ball fights.... just like a snow ball fight, but with stress balls, and a sprinkler.
Sounds like you guys had a great weekend! It’s been SOOO hot! Stay safe! Edit: Good censoring job! It’s surprisingly hard to keep a blur box in the right spot for a fat video like that
Go Miss A! I was always to chicken to try a flip. With bravery like that you can accomplish anything!! Bravery is the first step, then hard work. I hope you keep up your lessons.
If at all possible could you please let Miss A know how proud we all are of her and to never give up something that she enjoys because of comparing her self to others. She can do anything she puts her mind too.❤
As a public high school teacher with 27 yrs of experience, I have to commend you both on your caring and empathetic natures. You are so in tune with how Miss A must feel in different situations and you are willing to make adjustments. Being fluid is the key to dealing with teens. I have already given out your youtube channel to one future foster couple as a source of encouragement and information on what to expect. I am thankful there are people like you both in our society.
My boyfriend is in foster care and he has really good foster parents they give him food and a safe place but you guys are on another level of greatness. You make these kids feel so comfortable and go above and beyond to make sure they are happy. I wish there were more foster families that are this amazing ! Good luck with your guys journey to foster care I love the videos!
Love that she gets to try gymnastics! As a former coach, I saw the sport give kids a sense that they can overcome obstacles. Some people believe exercise where you use your own weight can help with mental health too. So grateful for the love and support you give to Miss A and all of the kids who come your way.
You guys are seriously the best! My husband grew up in and out of foster care. He was listening in while I was watching some of your vlogs and he said "Miss A is one of the lucky ones." It might not always feel like it to you, but you're going above and beyond compared to a lot of other foster homes. Thank you for not only providing kids with a safe environment, but also doing your best to make their stay as comfortable and enjoyable as possible!
I'm so impressed by how much you care about Ms. A! When I was 8, I was in foster care. I wasn't allowed to see anyone I knew previously (outside mandatory parent visitations) nor was I encouraged to make new friends. My fosters would never let my new friends from my new school come over to play. (One time one randomly stopped by to ask if I could play, and they told her no. They acted kind of confused and offended afterwards that someone stopped by to see me.) The only people I had to play with were their other two fosters (that they adopted) who were like 2 and 4 yrs old.
It is very clear to see that you put as much effort, love and support into Miss A as you would if she was “your” daughter. It must feel amazing to her. You’re great!
I know this will probably get lost in all the comments but please let Miss A know to hang in there and enjoy what ever she can. Make friends and relish every good time. It does get better. She Is a treasure and as she grows all the good and bad things meld together making you stronger and much more capable. All my thoughts and prayers are with her. (I grew up in an abusive home). I was lucky and met lots of wonderful adults who were great life examples. That helps so much as tou go into being your own adult. Thanks for being the wonderful examples you are for her however brief it is.
I'm like addicted to this series. I love hearing about her and I ABSOLUTELY love how you are covering all the bases. Like wanting to make her as comfortable as possible and respecting her boundaries and encouraging her to be a kid and everything in between. It's something you don't see often and it just makes my heart so happy that there is good people out here making a difference. You guys are such great foster parents. ♥️ we need more of you out in this world!!
Let Miss.A know that I started Ballet and Contemporary classes a couple months ago at age 28! I’m not the best and it’s a lot of work but I love it and it’s never too late to start something new. Good luck to her in gymnastics!
I'm 17 and stay with my sister. My two little sisters are in foster care atm, I hope their carers are even half as nice and considerate as you two. My little sisters deserve the world and I can't wait for the opportunity to give that to them once court is over and they're away from our abusive, neglative parents. I get so often scared they're been treated worse than they deserve but your channel comforts me in how they're being treated. I hope they're happy right now. I haven't seen them since January and I've possibly got the chance to see them soon and I really, really hope I can!
As a former elite gymnast and head gymnastics coach, adult gymnastics is literally the best thing on the planet. The individual class sounds like it was absolutely perfect! There are often drop in adult classes that she could consider in the future.
I started horse back riding at 12, I was in lessons with five year olds and I did camps with all kids that were young and better than me, four years later and I’m jumping and riding all the advanced horses and with the advanced girls my age. Miss A can do it too she’s already doing so amazing.
I am a high school cheerleading coach. Some of the best and most hard working kids I know started their first year of cheer when they were in high school (I’ve even had girls who start cheering their senior year!!). As long as you have a heart for it and work hard, you will succeed. Also, I truly appreciate your outlook on this experience. Everything from giving a child the opportunity to be a child, to rooting for the parents so reunification is possible. I’ve seen so many kids going through this process who are just beaten down and broken because every sense of normalcy is taken from them. They have to grow up so quickly, so I love that you give your foster kiddos a chance to thrive and be what they are...children. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all that you do.
😭😭 these videos just warm my whole heart. I absolutely love the updates. You and your husband are just amazing people, and I love your videos. They need more people like you guys to foster.
I’m still young but you’ve honestly inspired me and are teaching me the skills of what a future mother should be/have! What you guys are doing are amazing 😃
I don’t know Miss A’s story but I just have a strong feeling that the love you are giving her and the doors you are opening for her is going to save her life. The things you are doing might seem small but to her I bet they are just so BIG and life changing for her. All that love and support will stick with her for the rest of her life. I absolutely love your videos! ❤️❤️❤️
I was a county caseworker and then transitioned into assuring that our county’s kids in foster care can remain in their home school when in placement. Your enthusiasm and “proud foster mom” glow is amazing. I wish I had more families like yours willing to make normalcy for teens in care. The fact you offered to take her friend to a baseball game was so touching to me. You’re awesome and I’ll be sharing your channel with my provider agency and county agency friends!
I was a foster mom for many years and hope to do it again someday. We took one of our kiddos to Disney with us. It wouldn't have been fair to have left her in respite while we were gone and it truly was so magical for her and for us!
Go A!! Thanks for sharing your journey. My husband was in foster care for several years and does not have very many pleasant memories. I’ve always wanted to foster but he is still scarred from his childhood. So, we’ve made the decision to support those in our life that are fostering. Just watching these videos has allowed me to support them better. While we’ve been good about the basics, it’s allowed me to have better dialogue with them. ❤️
My sisters and I were with kinship foster parents for years (eventually they gained full guardianship of course) and we all did cheerleading (and hated it) before moving on to band (which we also all three hated lol). It was very cool though to be able to do extra-curriculars that we had previously been unable to do due to moving around a lot and lack of money. Eventually, I and my youngest sister went into the arts, and our middle sister went into outdoor exploring activities. My aunt and uncle got me my very first guitar and I'm still playing 9 years later, so I think it's so, so helpful and important for foster parents to give the kids new opportunities and it's very cool that you are doing that for Miss A.
I just wanna say, from a very young age I knew I wanted to do something like this when I was old enough and seeing you change this girls life is just so so amazing. Every video I watch I can just see how dedicated you are to making sure this young girl is happy in the situation she was put in and it makes me so happy that honestly I tear up a little because you are such great role models and I strive to be as loving and caring people as you are.
God bless you & your family! You are so attentive to Miss A's needs & still allowing her to be a kid, & make the transition into foster care as healthy & positive as possible!
@@Carolina-jy4lu What are you talking about Carolina? I don't want to invalidate your opinions, so perhaps you can formulate a coherent response clarifying the distasteful comment you chose to share on this person's platform and for the world to see. If you are feeling "sick" considering the idea that it takes a community/ "village" to properly raise stable humans, you might want to consider why that is. I am actually a little concerned about you Carolina. I hope you can find peace in your life instead of spreading negativity online. Maybe you don't know, but everything you or anyone else says has value and weight in this world. So try to formulate sentiments that validate others instead of merely showing disgust, as comments like that have a very poor value and breed a toxic environment that these RUclipsrs and their audience do not need. May you find joy today Carolina.
We had 2 fosters and other kids from same family live with us. Was so hard at first. Very bad behaviors. We still are friends with them today . They are grown up now . Its great to help kids.
I just am blown away at how you go above and beyond to ensure the needs of your foster kids. Not just their basic needs but you guys are nurturing the whole child which, I dont think you realize, is quite rare in the system. My little cousins went into he system for some time (there mom had an emotional break down and then the case worker became very vindictive and actually removed the children from family care (their grandmothers home in Avery traumatic way...oulling them from under tables at 9 pm etc - it was very traumatic ) ) and while the girls (newborn and 3 at the time) got amazing homes (tho separated) the boys ( 4.5 and 7) went into a group home where they said they were abused and came out of it (the family fought to get them back) with some serious behavioral issues (one of them has now been diagnosed with a mental health disorder, had killed 2 animals, has had to go Ito behavioral health centers, etc. when they came back to the family home the older one was doing some very concerning things, displaying very odd behaviors that previously were not seen in him). The state said that boys over the age of 4 have a hard time finding a foster family :( Girls are better off but still the older they are the harder it is. And even if they find a home, there are many who do it for the $$ abusing what the system is for and providing the kids with he absolute bare minimums. If for some reason I wasn't able to parent my own children, I would hope and pray they would have someone just like you to step in to care for them. I mean family members dont do the things you guys do for a lot of kids. I often wonder if you guys realize how special you are...probably not because I think it comes so naturally to you. Your just living up to the standards that are totally normal to you and your husband. If you only knew these standards are quite rare in the system.
It sounds like you guys are doing a really good job in helping miss A live as normal a life as possible. It’s amazing that your still so new to fostering and you’re already doing so well. Im excited to see how you’re journey progresses
I started gymnastics when I was 14 and there were no older girls. I felt super embarrassed that they could all do better things than me and they were much younger. But now I found a high school class and have improved a lot! I hope Ms. A continues to find interests that she can improve in.
Please reassure Ms. A that it it NEVER too late to try something new. I started ballet when I was 13, and I really enjoyed it for three years. Can't wait to see what else she tries :)
When I was 17 I moved to a nice group home and even though there were 7 other foster children and the fp 2 own children. they always gave us individual attention. The activities that I enjoyed with my foster dad were watching P.D Live, Playing Flag Football and he will always go to my practices and games which I loved. With my foster mom, I enjoyed going shopping. Before I came to that placement I didn't know how it was to have parents who cared for you and were stable. So this family truly changed my life and my views. I'm now 19 and I still have contact with them, they weren't able to adopt me but they are my parents. I really enjoy watching your videos because you guys truly care about the children that arrived at your home and honestly, foster parents like you are rare. I spend years in care and finally had an amazing placement when I was 17. And I honestly believe that you guys will change the lives of many foster care children. You guys are amazing!!!!! I love your channel! I'm sorry that you weren't able to adopt Miss A, but I'm sure you changed her life!
Woo-hoo! Go miss A for trying something new!! Also a sleepover sounds like the best idea making sure she still has normalty with her friends, that's really awesome!
It would be wonderful if you could adopt her....you are all so amazing and Miss A is very lucky to have you....my son was 16 and learned how to skate and play hockey for the first time ever! Keep up the great work Miss A....gymnastics and cheer is a lot of fun and you can learn it no matter what age you are! Have fun and be a kid!
I never comment on RUclips videos but I just had too!! You guys are AMAZING! So considerate and loving towards Miss A 💕💕 You are a true example of selflessness. Love from Canada 🇨🇦
I was never in foster care & I’m not a foster parent, but I did volunteer at my local community theater between the ages of 12 & 16 and I loved it! I got to be a “teen volunteer” (teacher’s aid) for the little kid classes, which earned me a week of free classes. Maybe Miss A can release her creativity at a local theater or in a similar space! I also grew up in Cleveland & loved going to the art museum - they used to have free concerts outside in the summer, which I loved!
Thanks for the updates. Always happy to hear your compassionate voice :) Miss A is so brave to try something new like that, especially something most people start much younger! Yay for her! I love that you are able to balance giving her some responsibility and space (which is age-appropriate for a teenager), and still keep her safe and secure. Looking forward to hearing more tips and updates!
I started gymnastics a little over a year ago ( only knowing how to do a cartwheel and I didn’t have proper form) and I am 12 years old but 11 at the time and now I am competing in bronze last season and I am training in silver and going to compete silver next season. It is never to late to start. The jumpy thing that you called is actually the bronze vault that I competed and I saw people at one meet that did the same as her. I think that it is great that you are letting her get involved in activities. You are an inspiration honestly.
I love your videos so much! I was in foster care for about a year as a teen, and am now at university studying to be a teacher. Coming from a former foster child, you have no idea how much of a difference you are making on these girls, simply by loving on them and providing them with opportunities. My foster parents were amazing about allowing me to continue with the activities I was already a part of. I have done Taekwondo my whole life, and at the time I was put into the system I was in the middle of competition season and on the road to nationals. My foster parents went out of their way to do everything possible to allow me to keep competing. (With competition season I was going out of state almost every other weekend, and you know how much communication and paperwork that meant for my mom, foster parents, and case worker). Thank you for what you do, both by opening your home to these kids and by posting these videos to educate everyone about the realities of the foster system!
I got to scrapbook 😊 Although the state reimbursed the county. And it was only a one time "recreation" type program thing? We all got to pick one thing we'd like to do as a hobby. My foster sister picked electric guitar. Scrapbooking and paper crafting in general are things that I have carried into my adult life. Hobbies are so therapeutic and I'm happy that Miss A gets to do gymnastics 💚
It’s like every time I watch you talk about your foster children you guy just light up, you go above and beyond to give them hope, structure and genuine love 😭your own children are just blossoms that you can tell we’re raised to love everyone. Well done guys.
My daughter is 10 & she does competitive cheerleading & absolutely loves it! That’d be something to look into for her. They have a tumbling class right at the gym she cheers at ☺️ I think it’s so amazing what you’re doing for Miss A & foster care kids!! I love watching your videos. You all seem like the perfect people to be foster parents!
Awesome that she's having fun in gymnastics and getting to see friends! My little brothers love gymnastics as well and one of them actually got 18th place at nationals. I'm not much of a gymnast myself, I prefer swimming lol. Overall looks like a super fun weekend! 💖❤💕🌈👍
Yes to more live streams! We are learning so much about the foster process and hope to start classes when we are financially stable. Being patient until then is definitely the right decision for us.
Aww she seems like such a natural gymnast!! Keep it up Miss A!! What you said about the word “can’t” reminded me of what my old babysitter/assistant dance teacher used to say: “Can’t lives on won’t street”, meaning if you say you can’t do something you won’t be able to do it. The word “can’t” was basically banned at our dance studio lol
Aww, that's awesome that Ms. A is doing her job...... enjoying her last days of summer having fun with friends. That's awesome that she'll get a chance to try out different activities like gymnastics. She looks like a natural. ❤
I went into foster care at 15 (I'm 24 now) and my last family was wonderful (despite the really difficult situation and time in my life.) They got me into road cycling because that is what they enjoyed as a family. I took to cycling really quickly and it became an avenue to work through emotions, set goals, find a sense of structure, build a community, and keep me out of trouble. I think any sport or activity can do this. Keep helping her follow her interests whatever they are and she'll find something too.
so glad you updated us :) she is obviously a sweetheart. and she should be really proud of herself, many people are too scared to do flips like that, and she did them WELL! i hope that when she looks back on her stay with you guys, she views them positively even if her personal situation was not ideal. So far it seems she will have plenty of space to grow with you guys, plenty of opportunities to prove to herself that she CAN, and i'm excited to go along for the ride
I did competitive gymnastics for so many years, and I can say that the beginning is really hard. However, gymnastics taught me so much, and it’s honestly such an amazing sport! Good luck to Miss A! Hang in there, girl!
The title just made me so effin happy, i subscribed from the new kiddo video for Miss A & as a gymnast & gymnastics coach the discipline should be so amazing for you guys! Hope the gym you found her welcomes her with open arms ❤️🤸🏾♀️
I feel her so much. My mom always tries to sign me up with the y and I did swim classes but it was all little kids and I was obviously much better and it was really awkward. You did the right thing by letting her do private lessons. They can be a bit awkward alone but after a while you get close with the coach and it’s awesome. Please tell miss a that she will be a great gymnast.❤️go her!💪🏻❤️
I just graduated university, specializing in youth care. It's so valuable for me to see your view and this experience as a whole. I love how you give Miss A space where she needs it but on the other hand, also encourage her to try new things and how you try to involve her in your daily life as much as possible. She will appreciate this so much when she looks back on this experience in the future, I think! Also, I want to take some time to say how amazing it is that a family member of hers told her to continue living her life. It is so important for foster children to be granted this ''permission'', because often times they feel guilty for liking the new environment. They are very loyal to their biological parents and this holds back some children to dive into new things. Great job on the family member for this!
Miss A is so inspiring! She motivates me to try new things even tho I’m “old”! Also I loved “seeing” her in her tumbling class even tho I know you had to block out her face for privacy reasons! Maybe you should “show” her more and just block out her face?
Simone Biles was in foster care and now she’s a gold medal Olympian.
We’ll all see Miss A rockin it in the Olympics one day. With people like this behind her, she’s bound to go far. Such a fantastic family.
Simone Biles was adopted and is the current best female gymnast. Pretty cool stories!
She stayed with a host family so she could train with chow in Iowa. Simone biles was in foster care and was adopted by her grandparents
Lauren M Incorrect. Gabby had a family who supported her through her entire life/career. Simone Biles was in foster care as a child before being adopted by her maternal grandfather. But yes, she is an Olympic gold medal winning gymnast.
Violet Hill that was Gabby Douglas who trained in Iowa
You are literally the future woman and mom I want to be. Thank you so much for sharing your heart and your story. You make me cry by how good of a heart you have and love you are pouring into these foster kid's lives. Crying tears because this is literally the type of life I've always wanted to live.
Your message is making me cry!!
Ditto that!! Exceptional job for your second kid
You put it into words beautifully. I feel the same way watching these videos.
Same! I want to be a foster parent and have a career in helping kids, I love these videos.
One of my teachers once told me “don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle” maybe that would help her ☺️
That’s what I told her!
I absolutely love how comfortable she is with you and how understanding you are.
I wish I had foster parents like them when I was in the system
That awesome that Ms.A gets to stay with her friends I know kids in foster care who don't what you do is amazing and keep it up
Yeah when I was in foster care I never got to see my friends. Sometimes they would call but that's it. It's so sad when you lose your friends 😭
@@ItsMissYvette I'm so sorry that you never got to see them I cant imagine life without my friends
@@lilyduffy2923 I remember how important my friends were and having to leave them when I'd move from foster home to foster home. It always broke my heart. As an adult it's hard to open up sometimes because it hurts me to lose people
To Miss A- I started gymnastics when I was 13 and was put with a bunch of little kids and one girl who was two years younger than me. It was embarrassing, but I stuck with it because I thought it might still be something I liked. Today, I still love tumbling and gymnastics, and the few years I was in the class, I even became friends with some of the kids who were a lot younger than me. We had a special relationship and competed together. Overtime, I got a lot better and I found my passion. Even though I started much later than most people, I found what I love and can now tumble quite well. Don't give up and definitely don't ever compare yourself to others! You're doing great, and everything takes time.
You’re an inspiration!!!
We do karate for our foster daughter. We don’t get reimbursed because we are kinship fosters parents. But it’s worth it to see how much she enjoys it.
It really is amazing to see the kids grow :)
Brittany Bower What is a kinship foster parent?? I’m very curious about foster care.
@@kaylamesser5733 kinship is unlicensed placements. So relatives or someone else that has some kind of connection to the child/family. Family friends, teachers, etc. Any relationship that would allow the kids to keep a connection to relationships or community. There are never enough foster homes, so kinship/relative homes are lifesavers for sure. However, being unlicensed means that access to financial supports can be pretty limited.
@@kaylamesser5733 foster care through a family member! ❤
Desirae Miller You can actually become a licensed kinship foster parent & they do reimburse once a month in Texas.
It’s so good to see her starting an activity as an older kid! It’s never too late to get started! I am a dance teacher and older beginners are some of my favourite classes to teach. I have seen dancers start at age 12-13 and reach national level competitions within a few years, so no goal is too far away! Go Miss A!!
As a gymnastics coach myself, I can say that the sport is for any age!! I have students that started at 12+ And they’re thriving and competing now. I hope she loves it and enjoys her time in the sport! You all seem like such an amazing family, keep doing what you’re doing!
I cannot even fathom living my life as a teenager and taking care of siblings or parents or whatever it may be. The world is cruel to kid sometimes. I’m 16 and I still have a two parents who hug me before school in the morning and tell me they love me every night. My parents drive me to and from each and every activity, and support me every step of the way. Thank you for being that person for kids who don’t have it. Every kid on this earth deserves unconditional love, and not all always receive it 💜
I agree. Beautiful comment. I'm glad you have gratitude for the fact you DO have that and realize not all kids do.
Of all the videos that RUclips randomly suggests to me, your channel was one of the best ones 👏🏾👏🏾
❤️❤️❤️ so glad you stuck around ❤️❤️❤️
I love that you tell Miss A and your own children that "we don't say that we can't, we say that we will try." You are fostering a growth mindset-- that she has the ability to learn new things and to grow from her mistakes, and that's really important for building resilience. So I applaud you and your ability to communicate that, because positive thoughts like these she can carry with her throughout her whole life.
i know how she feels to think it’s too late to start in a sport that is so competitive like gymnastics or cheer because everyone always starts so young. i started tumbling classes just like the one you showed when i was thirteen and i am now a sophomore in high school and am varsity cheerleading captain. you tell her don’t worry because feeling left behind drives you to be the best in your class. she’s got this. 💪🏻
Your videos make me want to be a foster mom when I'm an adult!
The system needs great foster parents. I had a lot of foster parents growing up who were in it for the wrong reasons. It scarred me as a child.
Samee
Me too!
same!
I am 17 years old and I have had many CYS (or CPS) visits. I live with my grandma and my mom because my mom is a heavy drug user. There have been countless times where I have been stranded in the car with her because she was too high to drive. My principal has had to drive me home from school many times. There have been countless ER visits. Every time something like this would happen I would help cover it up. We would blame it on the new medications she was on or some medical condition etc... I spent my whole life doing anything and everything to stay out of the system because my situation couldn’t be worse than foster care. The horror stories of abuse and neglect kept me complacent in my own abuse and neglect. Seeing how there are amazing (AMAZING) families out there like yours makes me regret all of that so much. I would do anything to go back in time and tell the case workers that NO I do not feel safe. I wish your family all the best. You are a truly incredible family. Thank you for all you are doing
My heart breaks for you ❤️ I hope you are safe now!
I really didnt know how to express this feeling I got while watching their videos but you put that feeling into words. & you are much younger than myself. You're so very smart & self reflective for your age, that will take you far. I hope you're doing well. & on the days you aren't, just know that things won't always be this way. 💓
Aw how exciting!!! Seeing friends is so important while in foster care! I'm glad she's having a good time!
I’ve never considered being a foster parent and probably never will, but I cry every time I watch one of your videos. You and your husband are such caring, loving people and I appreciate that there are people like you to help these children. Much love to you and your family, and I wish Miss A the best with her new hobby. :)
Crazy Plant Lady Heyy I see you on big al’s videos!
Miraculous Marinette Yup! I’m a haydur there but a lover here. AL could get as much positive feedback as these two do if she’d only do better for herself.
Crazy Plant Lady agreed!
@@vivichan767 Who is AL? I'm lost...
Be The Village I think they are referring to Amberlynn Reid, but I’m not 100% certain since I don’t watch her videos. I searched for “Big AL” on RUclips and that’s who came up, and who seemed to fit the description. I had no idea who “Big AL” was either though.
Hey! Former foster sister, current gymnast, and former cheerleader, if Miss A is interested in more tumbling/cheerleading route a really good option is to go to any local cheer gyms because a lot of them may offer intro cheer classes for high school cheerleaders therefore it may be girls more around her age and still be around her skill level to make her feel a little more comfortable! I started cheer classes when I was around 13 and there were plenty of girls who had done no tumbling yet! Just an idea! I love what yall are doing and hope for the best for yall and Miss A
This is so great! Definitely going to look into it!
Tell Ms A that “if she quits now, she’ll soon be back where she started and when she started she was probably wishing to be where she is now”. I’ve been seeing that quote a lot lately and found it helpful when I was comparing myself to others. ❤️
I did gymnastics for 12 years, and there were always younger athletes who were more talented than me. Even when I was 17... I was competing with 8 year olds! It was still fun! I had a blast! Don't do it to go to the Olympics, do it for your health and well-being! Gymnastics is a great sport!
When I was in high school I had befriended some young ladies who were living in a foster home. I invited them to come volunteer down at my local humane society with me. I think that would depend on what age they’d allow that at your local shelter. But it was definitely fun and therapeutic for them. They enjoyed getting out of the house but also not necessarily having to be around a bunch of people all the time. We would feed/water, bath and walk the dogs. Same goes for the cats, we’d make sure the litter boxes were fresh, fresh food and water and would play with them. Just an idea though. :)
Myspacemuncher some shelters will allow children that are not old enough to physically interact with animals come in and read to the dogs. It’s a stress free way to improve a child’s reading skills and is very therapeutic for animals. This would be great for a lot of foster children who might not have had a consistent or strong education and might be embarrassed by his or her lack of reading skills.
I volunteer at the local animal shelter near me, you can start once you are 12 years old.
A kid acting like a kid, is one of the best things to see and hear in this world. Fun thing we do is stress ball fights.... just like a snow ball fight, but with stress balls, and a sprinkler.
Very cool idea!
Sounds like you guys had a great weekend! It’s been SOOO hot! Stay safe!
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Good censoring job! It’s surprisingly hard to keep a blur box in the right spot for a fat video like that
That was johns work :)
Go Miss A! I was always to chicken to try a flip. With bravery like that you can accomplish anything!! Bravery is the first step, then hard work. I hope you keep up your lessons.
If at all possible could you please let Miss A know how proud we all are of her and to never give up something that she enjoys because of comparing her self to others. She can do anything she puts her mind too.❤
I always do ❤️
@@BeTheVillageCommunity Thank you so much. Both you and your husband are fantastic parents.☺
As a public high school teacher with 27 yrs of experience, I have to commend you both on your caring and empathetic natures. You are so in tune with how Miss A must feel in different situations and you are willing to make adjustments. Being fluid is the key to dealing with teens. I have already given out your youtube channel to one future foster couple as a source of encouragement and information on what to expect. I am thankful there are people like you both in our society.
My hats off to you to give this precious child an shot at a normal life!!
Your videos are always like a ray of sunshine. Your love and warmth radiate through the screen. So much respect to your family.
Your kindness and empathy towards Miss A warms my heart.
My boyfriend is in foster care and he has really good foster parents they give him food and a safe place but you guys are on another level of greatness. You make these kids feel so comfortable and go above and beyond to make sure they are happy. I wish there were more foster families that are this amazing ! Good luck with your guys journey to foster care I love the videos!
So glad your boyfriend is in a good home during his time in foster care ❤️
Love that she gets to try gymnastics! As a former coach, I saw the sport give kids a sense that they can overcome obstacles. Some people believe exercise where you use your own weight can help with mental health too. So grateful for the love and support you give to Miss A and all of the kids who come your way.
You guys are seriously the best! My husband grew up in and out of foster care. He was listening in while I was watching some of your vlogs and he said "Miss A is one of the lucky ones." It might not always feel like it to you, but you're going above and beyond compared to a lot of other foster homes. Thank you for not only providing kids with a safe environment, but also doing your best to make their stay as comfortable and enjoyable as possible!
Breaks my heart that he said that 😢
I'm so impressed by how much you care about Ms. A! When I was 8, I was in foster care. I wasn't allowed to see anyone I knew previously (outside mandatory parent visitations) nor was I encouraged to make new friends. My fosters would never let my new friends from my new school come over to play. (One time one randomly stopped by to ask if I could play, and they told her no. They acted kind of confused and offended afterwards that someone stopped by to see me.) The only people I had to play with were their other two fosters (that they adopted) who were like 2 and 4 yrs old.
Yes more live streams would be great!
Good to hear!
It is very clear to see that you put as much effort, love and support into Miss A as you would if she was “your” daughter. It must feel amazing to her. You’re great!
I know this will probably get lost in all the comments but please let Miss A know to hang in there and enjoy what ever she can. Make friends and relish every good time. It does get better. She Is a treasure and as she grows all the good and bad things meld together making you stronger and much more capable. All my thoughts and prayers are with her. (I grew up in an abusive home). I was lucky and met lots of wonderful adults who were great life examples. That helps so much as tou go into being your own adult. Thanks for being the wonderful examples you are for her however brief it is.
I will let her know :)
I did gymnastics when I was 14-15 and I was in a class with younger kids. I didn’t let it bother me. There is nothing to be ashamed of!!!
You make me want to be a foster mom when I’m older. Go you and miss a!❤️❤️
Yes! Please look into it.
Much respect for being a foster parent i was a foster kids thank you so much for everything your doing
I'm like addicted to this series. I love hearing about her and I ABSOLUTELY love how you are covering all the bases. Like wanting to make her as comfortable as possible and respecting her boundaries and encouraging her to be a kid and everything in between. It's something you don't see often and it just makes my heart so happy that there is good people out here making a difference. You guys are such great foster parents. ♥️ we need more of you out in this world!!
Let Miss.A know that I started Ballet and Contemporary classes a couple months ago at age 28! I’m not the best and it’s a lot of work but I love it and it’s never too late to start something new. Good luck to her in gymnastics!
You go girl!
I love how you can workout while Miss A has her class. That works out perfectly.
I'm 17 and stay with my sister. My two little sisters are in foster care atm, I hope their carers are even half as nice and considerate as you two. My little sisters deserve the world and I can't wait for the opportunity to give that to them once court is over and they're away from our abusive, neglative parents. I get so often scared they're been treated worse than they deserve but your channel comforts me in how they're being treated. I hope they're happy right now. I haven't seen them since January and I've possibly got the chance to see them soon and I really, really hope I can!
I hope you get to see them soon too!
As a former elite gymnast and head gymnastics coach, adult gymnastics is literally the best thing on the planet. The individual class sounds like it was absolutely perfect! There are often drop in adult classes that she could consider in the future.
I started horse back riding at 12, I was in lessons with five year olds and I did camps with all kids that were young and better than me, four years later and I’m jumping and riding all the advanced horses and with the advanced girls my age. Miss A can do it too she’s already doing so amazing.
Way to go! I want to go horseback riding... can I start at 30+? lol
Be The Village You definitely can it’s never too late to start!
I am a high school cheerleading coach. Some of the best and most hard working kids I know started their first year of cheer when they were in high school (I’ve even had girls who start cheering their senior year!!). As long as you have a heart for it and work hard, you will succeed.
Also, I truly appreciate your outlook on this experience. Everything from giving a child the opportunity to be a child, to rooting for the parents so reunification is possible. I’ve seen so many kids going through this process who are just beaten down and broken because every sense of normalcy is taken from them. They have to grow up so quickly, so I love that you give your foster kiddos a chance to thrive and be what they are...children. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all that you do.
Yay for sleepovers! And Ms A, you not only CAN do it, you DID do it on day one of class! That was awesome!
😭😭 these videos just warm my whole heart. I absolutely love the updates. You and your husband are just amazing people, and I love your videos. They need more people like you guys to foster.
I’m still young but you’ve honestly inspired me and are teaching me the skills of what a future mother should be/have! What you guys are doing are amazing 😃
You got ads! I'm watching them all! ❤
Aw thank you 🙌🏼
You are never too old to start as long as it’s something you love doing.
Go Ms. A with gymnastics!! My 11 year old loves it. I love how she makes you all proud. Also great for friends time. You guys are great!!
I don’t know Miss A’s story but I just have a strong feeling that the love you are giving her and the doors you are opening for her is going to save her life. The things you are doing might seem small but to her I bet they are just so BIG and life changing for her. All that love and support will stick with her for the rest of her life. I absolutely love your videos! ❤️❤️❤️
I was a county caseworker and then transitioned into assuring that our county’s kids in foster care can remain in their home school when in placement.
Your enthusiasm and “proud foster mom” glow is amazing. I wish I had more families like yours willing to make normalcy for teens in care. The fact you offered to take her friend to a baseball game was so touching to me.
You’re awesome and I’ll be sharing your channel with my provider agency and county agency friends!
That’s amazing!! If you ever view a video and think we share too much, call it out. We are trying to balance information with confidentiality.
I was a foster mom for many years and hope to do it again someday. We took one of our kiddos to Disney with us. It wouldn't have been fair to have left her in respite while we were gone and it truly was so magical for her and for us!
How awesome!!!
Go A!! Thanks for sharing your journey. My husband was in foster care for several years and does not have very many pleasant memories. I’ve always wanted to foster but he is still scarred from his childhood. So, we’ve made the decision to support those in our life that are fostering. Just watching these videos has allowed me to support them better. While we’ve been good about the basics, it’s allowed me to have better dialogue with them. ❤️
my mom always told me “can’t will never get you anywhere, it will never help you accomplish anything.”
Yes!
My sisters and I were with kinship foster parents for years (eventually they gained full guardianship of course) and we all did cheerleading (and hated it) before moving on to band (which we also all three hated lol). It was very cool though to be able to do extra-curriculars that we had previously been unable to do due to moving around a lot and lack of money. Eventually, I and my youngest sister went into the arts, and our middle sister went into outdoor exploring activities. My aunt and uncle got me my very first guitar and I'm still playing 9 years later, so I think it's so, so helpful and important for foster parents to give the kids new opportunities and it's very cool that you are doing that for Miss A.
Thank you for sharing!
I just wanna say, from a very young age I knew I wanted to do something like this when I was old enough and seeing you change this girls life is just so so amazing. Every video I watch I can just see how dedicated you are to making sure this young girl is happy in the situation she was put in and it makes me so happy that honestly I tear up a little because you are such great role models and I strive to be as loving and caring people as you are.
Your doing a great job. Self worth in children is very important. Thank you for spending time with Ms A. Time is undervalued.
God bless you & your family! You are so attentive to Miss A's needs & still allowing her to be a kid, & make the transition into foster care as healthy & positive as possible!
Wow. You folks are really good people. Helping other humans develop and have some stability is very honorable. I wish your family much health.
@@Carolina-jy4lu What are you talking about Carolina? I don't want to invalidate your opinions, so perhaps you can formulate a coherent response clarifying the distasteful comment you chose to share on this person's platform and for the world to see. If you are feeling "sick" considering the idea that it takes a community/ "village" to properly raise stable humans, you might want to consider why that is. I am actually a little concerned about you Carolina. I hope you can find peace in your life instead of spreading negativity online. Maybe you don't know, but everything you or anyone else says has value and weight in this world. So try to formulate sentiments that validate others instead of merely showing disgust, as comments like that have a very poor value and breed a toxic environment that these RUclipsrs and their audience do not need. May you find joy today Carolina.
We had 2 fosters and other kids from same family live with us. Was so hard at first. Very bad behaviors. We still are friends with them today . They are grown up now . Its great to help kids.
Wow, it's hard to believe that was Miss A's first tumbling class, she ROCKED it! 😱👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I just am blown away at how you go above and beyond to ensure the needs of your foster kids. Not just their basic needs but you guys are nurturing the whole child which, I dont think you realize, is quite rare in the system. My little cousins went into he system for some time (there mom had an emotional break down and then the case worker became very vindictive and actually removed the children from family care (their grandmothers home in Avery traumatic way...oulling them from under tables at 9 pm etc - it was very traumatic ) ) and while the girls (newborn and 3 at the time) got amazing homes (tho separated) the boys ( 4.5 and 7) went into a group home where they said they were abused and came out of it (the family fought to get them back) with some serious behavioral issues (one of them has now been diagnosed with a mental health disorder, had killed 2 animals, has had to go Ito behavioral health centers, etc. when they came back to the family home the older one was doing some very concerning things, displaying very odd behaviors that previously were not seen in him). The state said that boys over the age of 4 have a hard time finding a foster family :( Girls are better off but still the older they are the harder it is. And even if they find a home, there are many who do it for the $$ abusing what the system is for and providing the kids with he absolute bare minimums.
If for some reason I wasn't able to parent my own children, I would hope and pray they would have someone just like you to step in to care for them. I mean family members dont do the things you guys do for a lot of kids.
I often wonder if you guys realize how special you are...probably not because I think it comes so naturally to you. Your just living up to the standards that are totally normal to you and your husband. If you only knew these standards are quite rare in the system.
You guys are doing an amazing job!
Beautiful to see her thriving 🥰
It sounds like you guys are doing a really good job in helping miss A live as normal a life as possible. It’s amazing that your still so new to fostering and you’re already doing so well. Im excited to see how you’re journey progresses
I started gymnastics when I was 14 and there were no older girls. I felt super embarrassed that they could all do better things than me and they were much younger. But now I found a high school class and have improved a lot! I hope Ms. A continues to find interests that she can improve in.
Please reassure Ms. A that it it NEVER too late to try something new. I started ballet when I was 13, and I really enjoyed it for three years. Can't wait to see what else she tries :)
When I was 17 I moved to a nice group home and even though there were 7 other foster children and the fp 2 own children. they always gave us individual attention. The activities that I enjoyed with my foster dad were watching P.D Live, Playing Flag Football and he will always go to my practices and games which I loved. With my foster mom, I enjoyed going shopping. Before I came to that placement I didn't know how it was to have parents who cared for you and were stable. So this family truly changed my life and my views. I'm now 19 and I still have contact with them, they weren't able to adopt me but they are my parents. I really enjoy watching your videos because you guys truly care about the children that arrived at your home and honestly, foster parents like you are rare. I spend years in care and finally had an amazing placement when I was 17. And I honestly believe that you guys will change the lives of many foster care children. You guys are amazing!!!!! I love your channel! I'm sorry that you weren't able to adopt Miss A, but I'm sure you changed her life!
Woo-hoo! Go miss A for trying something new!! Also a sleepover sounds like the best idea making sure she still has normalty with her friends, that's really awesome!
It would be wonderful if you could adopt her....you are all so amazing and Miss A is very lucky to have you....my son was 16 and learned how to skate and play hockey for the first time ever! Keep up the great work Miss A....gymnastics and cheer is a lot of fun and you can learn it no matter what age you are! Have fun and be a kid!
I never comment on RUclips videos but I just had too!! You guys are AMAZING! So considerate and loving towards Miss A 💕💕
You are a true example of selflessness.
Love from Canada 🇨🇦
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I was never in foster care & I’m not a foster parent, but I did volunteer at my local community theater between the ages of 12 & 16 and I loved it! I got to be a “teen volunteer” (teacher’s aid) for the little kid classes, which earned me a week of free classes. Maybe Miss A can release her creativity at a local theater or in a similar space! I also grew up in Cleveland & loved going to the art museum - they used to have free concerts outside in the summer, which I loved!
Thanks for the updates. Always happy to hear your compassionate voice :) Miss A is so brave to try something new like that, especially something most people start much younger! Yay for her! I love that you are able to balance giving her some responsibility and space (which is age-appropriate for a teenager), and still keep her safe and secure. Looking forward to hearing more tips and updates!
How fun, she must feel so good to be able to experience new things, in a safe and comfortable place, surrounded by caring people!
I started gymnastics a little over a year ago ( only knowing how to do a cartwheel and I didn’t have proper form) and I am 12 years old but 11 at the time and now I am competing in bronze last season and I am training in silver and going to compete silver next season. It is never to late to start. The jumpy thing that you called is actually the bronze vault that I competed and I saw people at one meet that did the same as her. I think that it is great that you are letting her get involved in activities. You are an inspiration honestly.
I love your videos so much! I was in foster care for about a year as a teen, and am now at university studying to be a teacher. Coming from a former foster child, you have no idea how much of a difference you are making on these girls, simply by loving on them and providing them with opportunities.
My foster parents were amazing about allowing me to continue with the activities I was already a part of. I have done Taekwondo my whole life, and at the time I was put into the system I was in the middle of competition season and on the road to nationals. My foster parents went out of their way to do everything possible to allow me to keep competing. (With competition season I was going out of state almost every other weekend, and you know how much communication and paperwork that meant for my mom, foster parents, and case worker).
Thank you for what you do, both by opening your home to these kids and by posting these videos to educate everyone about the realities of the foster system!
Your foster parents sound like wonderful people ❤️❤️❤️
I got to scrapbook 😊 Although the state reimbursed the county. And it was only a one time "recreation" type program thing? We all got to pick one thing we'd like to do as a hobby. My foster sister picked electric guitar. Scrapbooking and paper crafting in general are things that I have carried into my adult life. Hobbies are so therapeutic and I'm happy that Miss A gets to do gymnastics 💚
Scrapbooking, I used to LOVE to do that!
@@BeTheVillageCommunity Me too. My scrapbooking morphed into card making over time. Speaking of which, I'm going to be sending you guys a card. 💚
It’s like every time I watch you talk about your foster children you guy just light up, you go above and beyond to give them hope, structure and genuine love 😭your own children are just blossoms that you can tell we’re raised to love everyone. Well done guys.
My daughter is 10 & she does competitive cheerleading & absolutely loves it! That’d be something to look into for her. They have a tumbling class right at the gym she cheers at ☺️ I think it’s so amazing what you’re doing for Miss A & foster care kids!! I love watching your videos. You all seem like the perfect people to be foster parents!
Awesome that she's having fun in gymnastics and getting to see friends! My little brothers love gymnastics as well and one of them actually got 18th place at nationals. I'm not much of a gymnast myself, I prefer swimming lol. Overall looks like a super fun weekend! 💖❤💕🌈👍
You guys are wonderful parents. MISS A is so lucky to have been placed in such a loving home who wants the best interest for the kids.
Yes to more live streams! We are learning so much about the foster process and hope to start classes when we are financially stable. Being patient until then is definitely the right decision for us.
So glad y’all want more live streams!
Aww she seems like such a natural gymnast!! Keep it up Miss A!!
What you said about the word “can’t” reminded me of what my old babysitter/assistant dance teacher used to say: “Can’t lives on won’t street”, meaning if you say you can’t do something you won’t be able to do it. The word “can’t” was basically banned at our dance studio lol
Aww, that's awesome that Ms. A is doing her job...... enjoying her last days of summer having fun with friends. That's awesome that she'll get a chance to try out different activities like gymnastics. She looks like a natural. ❤
you guys are truly the best. you can tell that you care deeply. it’s really sad how most kids in the foster system don’t have a good experience.
I went into foster care at 15 (I'm 24 now) and my last family was wonderful (despite the really difficult situation and time in my life.) They got me into road cycling because that is what they enjoyed as a family. I took to cycling really quickly and it became an avenue to work through emotions, set goals, find a sense of structure, build a community, and keep me out of trouble. I think any sport or activity can do this. Keep helping her follow her interests whatever they are and she'll find something too.
so glad you updated us :) she is obviously a sweetheart. and she should be really proud of herself, many people are too scared to do flips like that, and she did them WELL!
i hope that when she looks back on her stay with you guys, she views them positively even if her personal situation was not ideal. So far it seems she will have plenty of space to grow with you guys, plenty of opportunities to prove to herself that she CAN, and i'm excited to go along for the ride
I did competitive gymnastics for so many years, and I can say that the beginning is really hard. However, gymnastics taught me so much, and it’s honestly such an amazing sport! Good luck to Miss A! Hang in there, girl!
The title just made me so effin happy, i subscribed from the new kiddo video for Miss A & as a gymnast & gymnastics coach the discipline should be so amazing for you guys! Hope the gym you found her welcomes her with open arms ❤️🤸🏾♀️
You are an amazing woman for this tell miss A that we all believing her❤
Great ideas! Sounds like her life with you is going smoothly and she gets to be a teen. 👍🌟
I feel her so much. My mom always tries to sign me up with the y and I did swim classes but it was all little kids and I was obviously much better and it was really awkward. You did the right thing by letting her do private lessons. They can be a bit awkward alone but after a while you get close with the coach and it’s awesome. Please tell miss a that she will be a great gymnast.❤️go her!💪🏻❤️
This is very reassuring, thank you!
I just graduated university, specializing in youth care. It's so valuable for me to see your view and this experience as a whole. I love how you give Miss A space where she needs it but on the other hand, also encourage her to try new things and how you try to involve her in your daily life as much as possible. She will appreciate this so much when she looks back on this experience in the future, I think!
Also, I want to take some time to say how amazing it is that a family member of hers told her to continue living her life. It is so important for foster children to be granted this ''permission'', because often times they feel guilty for liking the new environment. They are very loyal to their biological parents and this holds back some children to dive into new things. Great job on the family member for this!
Miss A is so inspiring! She motivates me to try new things even tho I’m “old”! Also I loved “seeing” her in her tumbling class even tho I know you had to block out her face for privacy reasons! Maybe you should “show” her more and just block out her face?
That’s really awesome, you guys truly are a Godsend to Miss A.
This is so beautiful! Miss A has a whole village of support from us! 💜❤️
You are the best mom/foster mom!! Such a wonderful human