INLOVE WITH A NARCISSIST | EMOTIONAL ABUSE| SOUTH AFRICAN YOUTUBER

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @sphow
    @sphow 11 месяцев назад +2

    Esheeee… sektgeni ngok sekungcono competition? My thoughts exactly!!! In other news… umhle Zee, you’re gorgeous ❤

  • @mandisanjombolwana5892
    @mandisanjombolwana5892 Год назад +3

    Wow! Their rudeness is disgusting, it's like nothing I've seen before. Unapologetic people. They disappear and make no contact for no reason, but will always make contact when you're not thinking about them and made plans already.

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад

      Then you will be blackmailed that you prioritize other people over them! Yho! Mandy!

  • @asisiphomagolorana1108
    @asisiphomagolorana1108 Год назад +5

    Omg triggered when you said “how can someone’s move from being a loving person to being a monster” my ex exactly and I kept making excuses for him 😭😭😂

  • @yonelaphanyaza
    @yonelaphanyaza Год назад +6

    You’re such a great storyteller. Also you’re speaking about something serious but it was entertaining at the same time. Glad he didn’t dim your light.

  • @andyzitho9625
    @andyzitho9625 Год назад +7

    Yhoo we need a support group for survivors (read victims) of Narcissistic lovers bethuna!😂Its not funny because the emotional scars they leave you with aziqhelwa. The love bombing and then discarding? Silent treatment? The abuse behind closed doors while he's sweet with everyone else? Andikagqibi nokuyibukela le video, ndiyabuya because I'm triggered sana. I'm sorry that you had to go through this Zee.

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад +2

      Sana!😭😭😭 You have put it so well I truly hope that you did not go through a similar experience. You’ve literally summed up the video! Kuba nzima sana! It has left me emotionally and mentally scarred!☹️🥺

    • @asisiphomagolorana1108
      @asisiphomagolorana1108 Год назад +2

      Yi spitting facts,everytime I chilled with my friend or family he would call tellling me how much he misses me and would rather be with me I cut off all my friend and family and the abuse started yohhh😭😭😭😂😂😂haiiisana

    • @andyzitho9625
      @andyzitho9625 Год назад +1

      Uthi why am I suggesting a support group for survivors? 😭😭😭 I want to open my chest about my own experience. Bangcolile ababantu yho. And the sad part is they will NEVER change.

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад

      @@asisiphomagolorana1108 Banjalo sana! They master isolating people.

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад +1

      @@andyzitho9625 Askies my baby. We not deserve these experiences sana.🫂🤍

  • @yoladiniso5794
    @yoladiniso5794 Год назад +2

    Sana this was definitely a movie, the beach scene is killing me 😂😂😂😂

  • @sphow
    @sphow 11 месяцев назад +1

    “Nja ye game” 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Andfun uhleka bonanje Zee. This is a troubled soul if you ask me. Yaaaaaas ghel! Speak it into existence 📺 🤞🏾

  • @Sive_Nyanda
    @Sive_Nyanda Год назад +2

    Glad you’re in a good space now love ❤ nobody can dim your light.

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад

      Thank you mntase. Sana! Why would my boyfriend want to sim my light?! I am so glad that I left.

  • @thobekamagopeni3643
    @thobekamagopeni3643 Год назад +2

    Oooh my gosh Zee, I went through the exact thing. It took me 2 years to let go or rather set myself free from this person. I was a mess afterwards yoh that person really crushed my spirit and really believed the nasty things he’d say about me. I had to fight hard to get myself to the space I’m at now and I’m glad you’re in a good space now as well.

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад +1

      I am truly sorry that you went through abuse. It is wounding. I am glad that we made it out.

  • @SiyamthandaQinga
    @SiyamthandaQinga Год назад +1

    Yoh sana! This video triggered me so much! 😩🤣😵‍💫 Yoh! Thanks for sharing, hopefully it’ll raise awareness for other girls ❤

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад +1

      I honestly hope that it does. I share my experiences with the hope to create an awareness to inform and educate others. 🤍

    • @zandysishuba
      @zandysishuba 3 месяца назад

      sundoyikisa wena!

  • @aveladywili
    @aveladywili Год назад +6

    “Nxib’iBellville”😂😂😂

  • @samkelisiwesinoxolo1556
    @samkelisiwesinoxolo1556 Год назад +2

    Notification gang 😍❤ sendikhona Zee✌😂😂

  • @VhoTurnDoor
    @VhoTurnDoor Год назад +2

    Hayi Zee! I would have run for my life just from the first incident of being shouted for inikisi. Even if that guy wanted more than business with you, your BF is supposed to trust that you like him enough to handle whatever advances that other people make. If anything, he's the one that needs to up his game to show what his intentions are, ngawe.

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад

      Hayike sana! That incident was the beginning of being abused. Very hurtful yonke sana la experience.

    • @VhoTurnDoor
      @VhoTurnDoor Год назад +1

      @@conversationswithzee2055 askies maan. Glad that sekwadlula.

  • @yoladiniso5794
    @yoladiniso5794 Год назад +1

    Yho mkr, I don’t even know what to say after watching this 💔 the devaluing, gaslighting Phof udelusional kwa yena woah. I’m glad you managed to get yourself out that situation sana because what was that?! I love how narate the story, usizobela umfanekiso ngqondweni ❤

  • @siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888
    @siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888 9 месяцев назад +1

    Zintle, it was like am watching a movie. You are a very good story teller. I so enjoyed this ❤

  • @ziphozihle27
    @ziphozihle27 Год назад +1

    When you narrate a story your face and eyes light up 😂❤

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад

      Inoba I am a great actor okanye I am animated. 😂😂😂 I truly love story telling.

  • @anelisasalman4012
    @anelisasalman4012 Год назад +1

    Wena you are a gone girl 🤣😍😍
    You are a very good story teller. Thank God you came out of that situation ❤️

  • @LolokaNkitha
    @LolokaNkitha 5 месяцев назад +1

    ingajajani......uba ufike enxiba icodraw epink mthengele ebomvu mtase❤❤❤❤

  • @asisiphomagolorana1108
    @asisiphomagolorana1108 Год назад +1

    Narcissists are very Romantic at first before they show you their true colors 😂😂😂reminds me of my ex worse naye ibiyi king of mucci (fake Gucci)😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @siyamthandahokwana6667
    @siyamthandahokwana6667 Год назад +1

    The scene at the beach take the cup sana zintle yhuuu ngathi yi movie

  • @puseletsomonnaemang2958
    @puseletsomonnaemang2958 Год назад +1

    I'm still married to a narcissist just working on my exit... Yhoooo I really really thank God for finding out about narcissism ngoba maybe nge ndisa hleli with the hope zokuthi kuzoba right 🙄 the guy is soooooo moody

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад +1

      I am sorry that you went through all of that. May you find a way to heal and to leave. 🤍

  • @sesethumoni4222
    @sesethumoni4222 Год назад +1

    Ndiyavuya ukuva ukuba waphuma apho, He was definitely not the one for you. I’m so proud of you ❤

  • @lindokuhlethukuthezi4979
    @lindokuhlethukuthezi4979 Год назад +1

    Ooh I can relate ndanceda ndaphuma😔thanks for sharing your story mntase❤️❤️

  • @zaneledyongomane1865
    @zaneledyongomane1865 Год назад +1

    Yhooo I was once in this situation but for me it only lasted 1 month because ndabona ba no this is not I want...wandigqiba xa ethi you must know there's someone like you out there yhooo ndathi see me now see me no more

  • @namhlamakinza8821
    @namhlamakinza8821 Год назад +2

    I relate yhoooo

  • @ludwekazijodwana2834
    @ludwekazijodwana2834 Год назад +1

    You should consider story telling sana - kunini ndihleka wesi xa ulinganisa uLV😂😂😂. So sorry for the experience and glad into yokba wadlula apho.

  • @lolwetuapril2462
    @lolwetuapril2462 Год назад +1

    Ntombazana❤❤❤ yhey yhey yhey wayibeka indaba yangathi yijoke..oh but sana sidlula ebugxwayibeni. I'm glad I watched this video, I thought ndizo lila qha ndaphela ndibona similarities, sana sisgulo esi banaso aba bhuti. I'm glad you okay, enough to share your story. ❤❤ khaze no part2 kaloku wathini yena xa usele umshiyile.. zizgebenga ezi😅

  • @ZolaJoka
    @ZolaJoka Год назад +1

    Ndigqitywa leligama lingu Luvuyo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад

      Phofu I came up with it while making this video. What a suitable name.😂😂😂😂

  • @yoladiniso5794
    @yoladiniso5794 Год назад +1

    “ I know the industry “ shut up Luvuyo 😏😏

  • @SangaNgqanji27
    @SangaNgqanji27 Год назад +1

    Ingathi I just watched a movie sana my heart💔💔

  • @sphow
    @sphow 11 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂😂😂 I wonder bengathini xa unomgalel’amanzi ngalamavovo akhe + 5k followers, just kidding🙈

  • @athinolz
    @athinolz Год назад +1

    Xasesithetha inyani wayegula uLV 😑 I’m glad you got out of that relationship ❤

  • @sibongilentlanganiso3132
    @sibongilentlanganiso3132 Год назад +1

    ❤❤ our Zee

  • @khalemomohlafuno44
    @khalemomohlafuno44 Год назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @mandisanjombolwana5892
    @mandisanjombolwana5892 Год назад +1

    Andisa khuzi. The no affection part and silence endlini. Soze angakwenzeli ukutya ke phof, ucinge nirght. Sies.

  • @xolelwaphepani6995
    @xolelwaphepani6995 Год назад +1

    😢

  • @olganolu7690
    @olganolu7690 9 месяцев назад +1

    Ndisuka yhooo guys ndandingakwazi nocinga wec eyoba ndingabambi foun yhooo wayenondingcwaba ndihleli

  • @odwamathew3
    @odwamathew3 Год назад +1

    Ndizayigqibezela ekuseni eTVin 😂😂

  • @yoladiniso5794
    @yoladiniso5794 Год назад +1

    Mandiphume emsebenzin ndizobukela sana 😁

  • @lukhomelokuhle1290
    @lukhomelokuhle1290 2 месяца назад +1

    Enkosi Zee❤❤❤

  • @XoliswaPlaatjie-r4v
    @XoliswaPlaatjie-r4v 4 месяца назад +1

    Zee sendisuka emfaneni onjalo, yangath ubalisa nge ex yam Sana, phof umntu undilanda everyday,sixabana every for into engekhoyo, phot sajola i 2 years, ndamyeka ngokwam engafuni tu ba siyeke endi threatenisha, phot efuna nomtshato but asikho happy.if ku ringa i phone ndihleli naye utsiba kqala, uxabana sendincokola ne friend ku WhatsApp photo yena ulibele kuqumbela umoya,.yhoo haai lamfana andinabhongo lakhe..

  • @lindirobeni8464
    @lindirobeni8464 Год назад +1

    My darling uthi wayenxiba oLV baphi 😂😂😂😂

  • @Pearlmtsewu
    @Pearlmtsewu Год назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EnricoPetersen
    @EnricoPetersen 25 дней назад +1

    Exactly 💯

  • @monicamase7589
    @monicamase7589 Год назад +1

    Tjooo hai sana trigged too. But I’m also glad I got out 😂 not sure the levels of narcissistic personality because I think I might have gotten myself in to another one ndisajongile kodwa 🫤😂🫣

    • @conversationswithzee2055
      @conversationswithzee2055  Год назад

      😂😂😂! Yey! Kunzima kwa love sana. The narcissistic behavior is shocking Phofu iqala kancinci. It’s like people pace themselves. Hayi!