Great teachings. I wish more folks were this conscious about the way people talked to themselves and their co workers and loved ones. 👍🙏🌞😎 The past few weeks I've noticed the stark contrast between the love I get from my kitties at home and the often ugly energies I witness from my coworkers. Or when a friend lashes out at me out of the blue. I'm super sensitive and I don't approve of negative words used against me from friends and loved ones. At times I'm good at turning it into a positive, and sometimes I'm not able to because I'm in shock by the way they are speaking to me. 😮
Hollywood is an evil satanic environment. It's not safe for your baby. On top of that, I was there during covid, and I witnessed the gangs that moved to Hollywood from all over the country. All of a sudden they were showing up at my carwash on Melrose and Vine. Once the lockdown was lifted I left CA all together. It's not safe in LA anymore. Things have changed dramatically. And it's very sad and traumatizing.
One transformative statement that you said that really helped me was that the subconscious doesn’t have a sense of humor. I had to overcome being called a crybaby in middle school. Now even at 60 years old I feel guilty if I cry. But I need to see myself as the compassionate one because I cry if you’re hurting. That’s not a character flaw. That means I’m a loving person.
Explaining what responsibility means at its most useful meaning is enlightening empowering and exciting. Thank you Tana for helping me 'get it'. Thank you Dr. Amen for prompting her to share here.
The names I was called by my Mom definatley effected me my whole life; sherrishit.... Thankfully I have done a lot of healing and my words matter indeed...teh words I tell myself and the words i speak with others. Thankyou for yoru honesty and sharing with us.
The thing I learned is that whatever I tell my subconscious, it takes as ‘Bible’ and tries to find evidence of. So I can use that to my benefit and not always unconsciously leave that to my detriment-“Ciara you are productive and accomplished” just completely flipped my mood today. Thank you so much for this...just like you said, the words you speak are for us. You touched me today.
I don't allow bad words in my house. For example, dumb, stupid, etc are bad words. I know people think I am being too strict. However, I don't want them to talk negatively to each other or themselves. Now, I'm still open enough to notice if they do it to themselves, we talk about it in a loving way.
Just found you. Love it. Wish I found you both years ago. Now I have a 35 year old daughter who’s gone through a lot of trauma from her past starting her senior year and I don’t know how to help her.
Ahah moment here I never thought about that when you judge yourself harshly it could be a sin. Just as if I have negative thoughts about another could be a sin. This is a new area of confession.
Many thanks, I've been looking for "books on programming the subconscious mind" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Giyoe Fonogan Builder - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my m8 got amazing results with it.
Bruce Lee said: Don't speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn't know the difference. Words are energy and cast spells, that's why it's called spelling.
Its 2009, I've joined a think tank group, with members from around the world and I'm having a bet of a conflict with the man who started the group. One day, I received an email from a doctor in India. Are you a monk? I had no idea why he was asking me this. It would be four years before I would see why he asked me that question. In 2010, I made the decision to undo what I had began to do, be like those around me. You know, to judge what's right and wrong, what's good and bad, and boy talk about politics. And this isn't who I am, which really isn't what anyone is suppose to be. So, at age 51, I made the bold move to discover, Who I am. 2012, now, think about this, up till the time I asked the question. Who am I? one evening while walking my dog, Vica. I stopped and asked a question. How did I live as a kid? That is, the years before I started going to school, which was the first 15 years. And sure enough, there it was, I was like a monk. A child monk. I can give you a pretty good idea of the life the Dalai Lama lived as a child. Now, what is the mental state of a child before they get their mind or before the environment they live in changes their mental state? It's a meditative state. Now, imagine, if, children could be raised in a setting like I was raised in and it stays with them for life? When, I went back through my life for the first time. It was very clear that I very different from everybody I was ever around, I was very unique in many ways. What is a 18 month old like? What happens, when you fearlessly take on task, challenges, conflicts, serious problems and its all treated as though it's just something to do like riding a bike or playing tag with the other kids. There is no negative or positive to it. It's just something to do. Just about every business that I worked at, I did something there that was amazing, I broke records, showed company's how to better use their equipment, showed a 42 year old Wendys franchise a safer, better way to filter the frying oil, among many other ways to help the business run smoother. I did this in retail, fast-food, dine-in, hospitality and many other types of businesses. I would end up holding over 40 jobs in a period of 30 years. And I excelled at most of them. Now, the monkism, I had no attachments like a baby. I had no need or want for money, material things, or attention and recognition-and I got loads of it for my accomplishments. Imagine, having no ego, no pride, no use for confidence or self-esteem, I didn't now anything about failure or success. Even the past didn't exist, nor did the future. Here is a powerful word, Mushin. I believe humans are suppose to be out seeking as much knowledge as we can gather. We are not suppose to be living a repetitive lifestyle. Now, get this, at age 15, I was asked to helped someone who was living with depression and on sedatives. When, I was 9 years old, something in me moved me to want to know more about the behaviors associated with suffering, there was no sadness-which sadness shouldn't exist, for it's a creation just like fear. Something deep inside me wanted to discover what caused this behavior. Let's jump forward to 2013, I decided to take what I had discovered about my new finds on who I am and this living in a monk-like way, so, I became a De-Stress Therapist. Which really comes down to this. Live fully in the present and all your problems will go away. You and many of your guest talk about brain chemistry. My life corresponds with what you are saying, what Dr. Bruce Lipton, Joe Dispenza, Dr. Mark Hyman, Deepak Chopra, Gregg Braden to a degree, and a host of others. The life I have lived up to this point tells me that I have it right. That by accident, how my parents raised me was the correct way. They were not mean to me, they did not teach me anything through words, but, through their actions. Always doing something good, right in the moment. Always helping someone or feeding someone. Very compassionate people And the science confirms how I lived my life works great for the brain and the body. Now, do you want to hear the best part. I have two lives to compare against one another. For almost 35 years I lived one way and the next 15 years I lived as you do, today. Let me ask you a question. Do you ever get negative thoughts about someone or something? Do you have any dislikes about anyone or anything, how about food-that is taste. Is there anything that bothers you about politics or the environment or how people do things? Do you get angry, upset or frustrated over things which you cannot change, you will never be able to put your hands on it? People live in such a way today that has been a behavior for 100s of 1000s of years. And it's all wrong.
Would you say, actions came before words, thus, words triggers parts of the brain associated with these actions. A baby comes into this world, after nine months of living inside mommy and what has mommy being doing? When, I heard my mommy talk about dad and her relationship with each. And knowing how my siblings are, I could see a connection, When, my dad came back from the war, he was very wild, mom learned the hard, from that experience, she would use a broom to wake him up from a nap. So, my oldest brother happened to be a mean kid. A couple of years later, my dad has calmed down alot and my next brother happens to be a lot nicer than the older one. Mom said that by the time Cathy was born, dad had gotten control of this rage in him. There was finally peace in the home and life was really good. Which makes me think that what created me, was that she was finally able to go through a pregnancy in peace and calm, perhaps too much of it. When, I came into the world. Everything about me seemed normal, until, I began to age, and then, it was obvious that I wasn't like any of the other kids. You can say that my state was like that of an autistic child. I was dependent on my mom to get me out of bed, clothed me, feed me and she would sit me on the floor, where I would spend most of the day. She told me that I didn't like to be touched, I had no affection and I didn't like sweets. In the summer of '67, mom been an open minded person and one who didn't hold to the past and didn't have much common sense(super intelligent) let the older siblings take me to the public pool with them. Bo, my oldest brother forgot he had taken me and left the pool with some friends. A short while later, mom said Cathy, came running into the house, I couldn't understand her, but, it had to do with you. When, I got to the pool, I heard someone say, You need to stop the boys not going to make it. I kinda like to think that the pool manager saw my mom and said, I have to try one more time. That last try ended up saving my life. And it did something else. Four days later, I'm released from the hospital, and due to the length of time without oxygen, all of my memory is deleted-probably not much there any way based on how I lived the first 6 years. This near drowning shocked my brain in such a way that it altered my mental state to that of a child around the age of birth in some ways and between a 12 and 18 month old child. So, here is a baby in a 6 year olds body and my parents are clueless, just as the family doctor is clueless of this. Do you want to know what a baby is like? There is no fear, there is only curiosity. It's a life of seeking out new things, an exploratory life. Now, imagine, a One year old being placed in 1st grade, now, I haven't lost everything, like walking, but, I have zero connections with what is going on in the classroom. So, the next day, my parent take me to see someone who can tell them what's going on. And the diagnosis, mentally retarded, of course this would be the diagnosis, they're expecting me to behave like a 6 year old, words mean nothing to me and like every thing a 6 year old would respond to, a baby wouldn't be able to. Also, mom lived in denial, when, someone would ask her. Is he retarded, she would always reply with, No, he's fine. My mother refused to sign papers to legally keep me out of school. She lived with this fear of the state taking me from them and placing me in an institute, something she saw happen to her grandmother who had a mind like that of a 12 year old(so, could the way that my mother lived during the pregnancy with me have triggered genes from her side of the family?) Because, they didn't sign the papers and they knew school wouldn't be good for me. To avoid getting in trouble with the law, we gave up the good life and went on the road. For the next six years, I would live a life very much like a feral child. What they didn't know was that the near drowning had altered my psychological state, pretty much to a normal state. Before the near drowning, they couldn't touch me, I had no affection, and so they continued to treat me as they had before. They never showed me any love, compassion or affection. There would be no tv, no music, no Christmas, no birthdays, no Easter, or Thanksgiving or any type of celebrations. You can say, that it was very much a life like a monk. As we moved around all over Texas, my older siblings went to school to get educated, I went out into nature to get my education. Lets jump forward to the age of 33, when, I asked a question, after, realizing I wasn't like anyone. Who am I? Soon after that I asked another question. How did I get this way? 1993, I started my research on the human brain. Let me tell you, there isn't much research to be found at a library, especially, 1993. At age 47, I would learn about what I have just shared with you. My parents and siblings never told me anything about my childhood. Now, imagine, having a brain like a Buddhist monk, a Shaolin monk, a Tibetan monk, a little of each or you could say, how human being should live. I could endure extreme pain, I lived fully in the present, I didn't not judge right from wrong, good from bad or live in a negative or a positive state. It was a neutrality state. Which is why I call myself a Neutralogist
I am a registered nurse and I am married to a orthopedic surgeon for 40 years. We have so much in Common! I had a 2 year old when we met in the surgical ICU! My daughter is now a mother with two boys !! She considers him her father and he walked her down the Isle when she got Married ! He is now a grandfather to 2 amazing boys ,5 & 7who adore him . I listen to your podcast every night and always send to my daughter , sister, and friends ! My husband listens as well! I have done a lot of work on myself & My marriage thru the years! I love your honesty and integrity in your podcast . The teenage years were difficult but we made it through! We have 32 year old single son who lives in L A . I would love to come to your clinic in LA for a brain scan as I see my memory is changing & I cannot remember things like I used to. We live in Miami and Aspen! Where is the nearest clinic in LA? My son lives in Hollywood Hills! Please advise? Our office number is 305 5342229. Ask for Ileanna. Thank you !!!
People are also afraid of that after they come to the end of their grief, they will end up forgetting their "loved" one/thing whatever that means to them.
re. married couples who have differences in sex drives: I felt that the woman saying to a husband "I'm trying to invest in our intimacy" is a big turn-off for the other party. I feel that to truly invest in intimacy, one must provide what the other party needs, and in this case the man might need to "be desired"-- as that emotion is what drives him, pure biology.. It's not a sin for the woman to "call forth the actor in me" and fake-it-till-you-make-it, so to speak. I think that is a genuine way to invest in the intimacy. In other words, 'play' a little bit, and 'dance the dance'. I hope this makes sense.
What do you do when one of the spouses/my husband is not a good communicator.? I always seem to be the problem solver, the “glue” in the family. He would rather not talk and just disappear not showing concern to resolve which would make me even more frustrated. Initially I would be calm with whatever the situation was but because of his behaviour , naturally I’d raise my voice, I’m ultra sensitive an empath and extremely detailed person , Yes a bit of a perfectionist.So it was very easy for me to pick at and recall past situations , and before you knew it… out came those nasty words Being expressive , which can be wonderful at most times, But then the combination of being reactive and expressive together can create more friction at the worst of times,when it’s actually meant (in my mind) to resolve,
The Bible talks about the power of your words . Google it ! There is a spiritual realm . Jesus said whosoever SAYS to this mountain ... He said SAY 3 x in that statement he was making . Words ,faith !
@amenclinics #thebrainwarriorsway does Tana have her own RUclips channel or podcast? Because I really like listening to her and the way I can relate when she brings her own things up and shares #amenclinics #tantamen #davidamen
Life is a test and trial and after death reward will be given depend upon how we deal with these test and trial and accept God authority despite being in difficult suitation and not play blame game ------
@@ElizabethRenny1 Don't condemn others for their understanding of life and death because the book you stake your life on is full of error in translations, some say up to 5000 errors in translation. "We have seen that the original biblical texts contained errors of various sorts, but further errors have been introduced by translators. Sometimes these errors are deliberate interpolations by translators, performed to tidy up inconvenient or inconsistent passages. In other cases they are genuine mistakes. "
@@gwenscott535 yes this is true . Inspire of that, there are a lot of jewels in the Bible. For example : As a man thinketh so is he . Or be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind. I just manuver around the bull... 😎
I do still (having been divorced for 16 years) blame my ex for many things. I don't feel so hostile towards him anymore, but am really sad because of our loss of our first son, at the age of 20, to suicide. One of the things I haven't let go of, is that a few years after our divorce, our son at age 14 began suicidal behaviors and ended up in hospital many times. I was over twenty thousand dollars in debt and wanted my ex to help with expenses to take our son to Amen Clinic. He wouldn't. He used money as a punishment towards me. Nothing I could say or do could change his mind. Now I'm living without my boy and it guts me. I should have just put it all on my overfull credit card and dealt with it. I accepted the barriers that my ex put up. My son deserved more from me, but I was doing the best I could with my own battles with illness and the issues of my two younger sons. I felt like my sons and I were frequent fliers at the psychiatrist offices. I need to shed that blame from both my ex and I. I also need to better forgive my son for his suicide. I am dealing better now than ever before, but I don't feel like I'm there yet. I still hold on to insane thoughts. My hope is to dismiss more and more negative and blaming thoughts as they arise. I don't need any of that garbage digging deeper grooves into my brain. I refuse to become that part of my mother.
Great teachings. I wish more folks were this conscious about the way people talked to themselves and their co workers and loved ones. 👍🙏🌞😎 The past few weeks I've noticed the stark contrast between the love I get from my kitties at home and the often ugly energies I witness from my coworkers. Or when a friend lashes out at me out of the blue. I'm super sensitive and I don't approve of negative words used against me from friends and loved ones. At times I'm good at turning it into a positive, and sometimes I'm not able to because I'm in shock by the way they are speaking to me. 😮
Hollywood is an evil satanic environment. It's not safe for your baby. On top of that, I was there during covid, and I witnessed the gangs that moved to Hollywood from all over the country. All of a sudden they were showing up at my carwash on Melrose and Vine. Once the lockdown was lifted I left CA all together. It's not safe in LA anymore. Things have changed dramatically. And it's very sad and traumatizing.
One transformative statement that you said that really helped me was that the subconscious doesn’t have a sense of humor. I had to overcome being called a crybaby in middle school. Now even at 60 years old I feel guilty if I cry. But I need to see myself as the compassionate one because I cry if you’re hurting. That’s not a character flaw. That means I’m a loving person.
Julie, can I use your experience as an example in my book?
Explaining what responsibility means at its most useful meaning is enlightening empowering and exciting. Thank you Tana for helping me 'get it'. Thank you Dr. Amen for prompting her to share here.
This video explained years of suffering for myself !!! Thank u ❤
You are my best mentors and teachers. Bless you with all my hearts.
The names I was called by my Mom definatley effected me my whole life; sherrishit.... Thankfully I have done a lot of healing and my words matter indeed...teh words I tell myself and the words i speak with others. Thankyou for yoru honesty and sharing with us.
The adornment of each other is completely cutesy in these two. Excellent advice! Thank you!
Great information session Dr Amen and Tania.
Thank you so much. I can’t tell you how much this has helped me. I’m thinking about my words! ❤️🙏
The thing I learned is that whatever I tell my subconscious, it takes as ‘Bible’ and tries to find evidence of. So I can use that to my benefit and not always unconsciously leave that to my detriment-“Ciara you are productive and accomplished” just completely flipped my mood today. Thank you so much for this...just like you said, the words you speak are for us. You touched me today.
Dealing with the subconscious -problems and do this good talk morning and night. Programming.
Love your parenting style - do Not protect your children from consequences!
Loved the topic about self talk..I tend to look at myself in a negative way..blame my self a lot instead of the situation I was in
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Just great to listen again. Four years already :)
So what do I do today if negative talk ? I listen to your podcasts again.
Grateful, with love
I like that the Doctor speaks paused and clear. The wife should learn that.
I agree. She interrupted him A LOT. I just watched him take a big deep breath. Shoulders up and then down. She just talked over him again. 22:30
Thank you Family Amen
This helps me tremendously.
Thanks!
I don't allow bad words in my house. For example, dumb, stupid, etc are bad words. I know people think I am being too strict. However, I don't want them to talk negatively to each other or themselves. Now, I'm still open enough to notice if they do it to themselves, we talk about it in a loving way.
Just found you. Love it. Wish I found you both years ago. Now I have a 35 year old daughter who’s gone through a lot of trauma from her past starting her senior year and I don’t know how to help her.
I love the topic of self talk. My daughter is Bi-polar depressive and she needs your help.
Thank you!!
Tears in my eyes as I watching this episode 🙏
Ahah moment here I never thought about that when you judge yourself harshly it could be a sin. Just as if I have negative thoughts about another could be a sin. This is a new area of confession.
Many thanks, I've been looking for "books on programming the subconscious mind" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Giyoe Fonogan Builder - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my m8 got amazing results with it.
I became a brain warrior. I must have your cookbook.
Thanks for this inspiring conversation. Your words can make or break a relationship.
Excellent INFORMATION, FOR THE WORLD...thanks for your wonderful educational services deeply appreciated. , AMSTERDAM HOLLAND LOVES THIS ..BE BLESSED.
So grateful for the information ❤💯👍
Bruce Lee said: Don't speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn't know the difference. Words are energy and cast spells, that's why it's called spelling.
I agree that where the mind (ur words) goes the body follows!
Its 2009, I've joined a think tank group, with members from around the world and I'm having a bet of a conflict with the man who started the group. One day, I received an email from a doctor in India. Are you a monk? I had no idea why he was asking me this. It would be four years before I would see why he asked me that question.
In 2010, I made the decision to undo what I had began to do, be like those around me. You know, to judge what's right and wrong, what's good and bad, and boy talk about politics. And this isn't who I am, which really isn't what anyone is suppose to be. So, at age 51, I made the bold move to discover, Who I am.
2012, now, think about this, up till the time I asked the question. Who am I? one evening while walking my dog, Vica. I stopped and asked a question. How did I live as a kid? That is, the years before I started going to school, which was the first 15 years. And sure enough, there it was, I was like a monk. A child monk. I can give you a pretty good idea of the life the Dalai Lama lived as a child.
Now, what is the mental state of a child before they get their mind or before the environment they live in changes their mental state? It's a meditative state. Now, imagine, if, children could be raised in a setting like I was raised in and it stays with them for life?
When, I went back through my life for the first time. It was very clear that I very different from everybody I was ever around, I was very unique in many ways. What is a 18 month old like? What happens, when you fearlessly take on task, challenges, conflicts, serious problems and its all treated as though it's just something to do like riding a bike or playing tag with the other kids. There is no negative or positive to it. It's just something to do.
Just about every business that I worked at, I did something there that was amazing, I broke records, showed company's how to better use their equipment, showed a 42 year old Wendys franchise a safer, better way to filter the frying oil, among many other ways to help the business run smoother. I did this in retail, fast-food, dine-in, hospitality and many other types of businesses. I would end up holding over 40 jobs in a period of 30 years. And I excelled at most of them.
Now, the monkism, I had no attachments like a baby. I had no need or want for money, material things, or attention and recognition-and I got loads of it for my accomplishments. Imagine, having no ego, no pride, no use for confidence or self-esteem, I didn't now anything about failure or success. Even the past didn't exist, nor did the future.
Here is a powerful word, Mushin. I believe humans are suppose to be out seeking as much knowledge as we can gather. We are not suppose to be living a repetitive lifestyle.
Now, get this, at age 15, I was asked to helped someone who was living with depression and on sedatives. When, I was 9 years old, something in me moved me to want to know more about the behaviors associated with suffering, there was no sadness-which sadness shouldn't exist, for it's a creation just like fear. Something deep inside me wanted to discover what caused this behavior.
Let's jump forward to 2013, I decided to take what I had discovered about my new finds on who I am and this living in a monk-like way, so, I became a De-Stress Therapist. Which really comes down to this. Live fully in the present and all your problems will go away.
You and many of your guest talk about brain chemistry. My life corresponds with what you are saying, what Dr. Bruce Lipton, Joe Dispenza, Dr. Mark Hyman, Deepak Chopra, Gregg Braden to a degree, and a host of others. The life I have lived up to this point tells me that I have it right. That by accident, how my parents raised me was the correct way. They were not mean to me, they did not teach me anything through words, but, through their actions. Always doing something good, right in the moment. Always helping someone or feeding someone. Very compassionate people
And the science confirms how I lived my life works great for the brain and the body. Now, do you want to hear the best part. I have two lives to compare against one another. For almost 35 years I lived one way and the next 15 years I lived as you do, today. Let me ask you a question. Do you ever get negative thoughts about someone or something? Do you have any dislikes about anyone or anything, how about food-that is taste. Is there anything that bothers you about politics or the environment or how people do things? Do you get angry, upset or frustrated over things which you cannot change, you will never be able to put your hands on it?
People live in such a way today that has been a behavior for 100s of 1000s of years. And it's all wrong.
Would you say, actions came before words, thus, words triggers parts of the brain associated with these actions. A baby comes into this world, after nine months of living inside mommy and what has mommy being doing? When, I heard my mommy talk about dad and her relationship with each. And knowing how my siblings are, I could see a connection,
When, my dad came back from the war, he was very wild, mom learned the hard, from that experience, she would use a broom to wake him up from a nap. So, my oldest brother happened to be a mean kid. A couple of years later, my dad has calmed down alot and my next brother happens to be a lot nicer than the older one.
Mom said that by the time Cathy was born, dad had gotten control of this rage in him. There was finally peace in the home and life was really good. Which makes me think that what created me, was that she was finally able to go through a pregnancy in peace and calm, perhaps too much of it.
When, I came into the world. Everything about me seemed normal, until, I began to age, and then, it was obvious that I wasn't like any of the other kids. You can say that my state was like that of an autistic child. I was dependent on my mom to get me out of bed, clothed me, feed me and she would sit me on the floor, where I would spend most of the day. She told me that I didn't like to be touched, I had no affection and I didn't like sweets.
In the summer of '67, mom been an open minded person and one who didn't hold to the past and didn't have much common sense(super intelligent) let the older siblings take me to the public pool with them. Bo, my oldest brother forgot he had taken me and left the pool with some friends.
A short while later, mom said Cathy, came running into the house, I couldn't understand her, but, it had to do with you. When, I got to the pool, I heard someone say, You need to stop the boys not going to make it. I kinda like to think that the pool manager saw my mom and said, I have to try one more time. That last try ended up saving my life. And it did something else.
Four days later, I'm released from the hospital, and due to the length of time without oxygen, all of my memory is deleted-probably not much there any way based on how I lived the first 6 years. This near drowning shocked my brain in such a way that it altered my mental state to that of a child around the age of birth in some ways and between a 12 and 18 month old child.
So, here is a baby in a 6 year olds body and my parents are clueless, just as the family doctor is clueless of this. Do you want to know what a baby is like? There is no fear, there is only curiosity. It's a life of seeking out new things, an exploratory life. Now, imagine, a One year old being placed in 1st grade, now, I haven't lost everything, like walking, but, I have zero connections with what is going on in the classroom.
So, the next day, my parent take me to see someone who can tell them what's going on. And the diagnosis, mentally retarded, of course this would be the diagnosis, they're expecting me to behave like a 6 year old, words mean nothing to me and like every thing a 6 year old would respond to, a baby wouldn't be able to. Also, mom lived in denial, when, someone would ask her. Is he retarded, she would always reply with, No, he's fine.
My mother refused to sign papers to legally keep me out of school. She lived with this fear of the state taking me from them and placing me in an institute, something she saw happen to her grandmother who had a mind like that of a 12 year old(so, could the way that my mother lived during the pregnancy with me have triggered genes from her side of the family?)
Because, they didn't sign the papers and they knew school wouldn't be good for me. To avoid getting in trouble with the law, we gave up the good life and went on the road. For the next six years, I would live a life very much like a feral child. What they didn't know was that the near drowning had altered my psychological state, pretty much to a normal state. Before the near drowning, they couldn't touch me, I had no affection, and so they continued to treat me as they had before.
They never showed me any love, compassion or affection. There would be no tv, no music, no Christmas, no birthdays, no Easter, or Thanksgiving or any type of celebrations. You can say, that it was very much a life like a monk. As we moved around all over Texas, my older siblings went to school to get educated, I went out into nature to get my education.
Lets jump forward to the age of 33, when, I asked a question, after, realizing I wasn't like anyone. Who am I? Soon after that I asked another question. How did I get this way? 1993, I started my research on the human brain. Let me tell you, there isn't much research to be found at a library, especially, 1993.
At age 47, I would learn about what I have just shared with you. My parents and siblings never told me anything about my childhood. Now, imagine, having a brain like a Buddhist monk, a Shaolin monk, a Tibetan monk, a little of each or you could say, how human being should live. I could endure extreme pain, I lived fully in the present, I didn't not judge right from wrong, good from bad or live in a negative or a positive state. It was a neutrality state. Which is why I call myself a Neutralogist
I read the whole thing , thanks for sharing. Wow what a story
I love this channel
That's a really good green screen setup, lighting and everything!
41:26 he was so mesmerized by her
The word mental for mental illness has connotation for all of us as a problem, we need to label this area differently. ✅☮🇦🇺
I love this
Your wife not only looks beautiful but also sounds smart as you are. I surmise it's the effect of a very healthy and loving relationship.
I am a registered nurse and I am married to a orthopedic surgeon for 40 years.
We have so much in Common! I had a 2 year old when we met in the surgical ICU!
My daughter is now a mother with two boys !! She considers him her father and he walked her down the Isle when she got Married !
He is now a grandfather to 2 amazing boys ,5 & 7who adore him .
I listen to your podcast every night and always send to my daughter , sister, and friends ! My husband listens as well!
I have done a lot of work on myself & My marriage thru the years! I love your honesty and integrity in your podcast . The teenage years were difficult but we made it through! We have 32 year old single son who lives in L A . I would love to come to your clinic in LA for a brain scan as I see my memory is changing & I cannot remember things like I used to.
We live in Miami and Aspen! Where is the nearest clinic in LA? My son lives in Hollywood Hills! Please advise? Our office number is 305 5342229. Ask for Ileanna. Thank you !!!
People are also afraid of that after they come to the end of their grief, they will end up forgetting their "loved" one/thing whatever that means to them.
Thank you. Love the information!
That was amazing. Thank you.
re. married couples who have differences in sex drives: I felt that the woman saying to a husband "I'm trying to invest in our intimacy" is a big turn-off for the other party. I feel that to truly invest in intimacy, one must provide what the other party needs, and in this case the man might need to "be desired"-- as that emotion is what drives him, pure biology.. It's not a sin for the woman to "call forth the actor in me" and fake-it-till-you-make-it, so to speak. I think that is a genuine way to invest in the intimacy. In other words, 'play' a little bit, and 'dance the dance'. I hope this makes sense.
What do you do when one of the spouses/my husband is not a good communicator.? I always seem to be the problem solver, the “glue” in the family. He would rather not talk and just disappear not showing concern to resolve which would make me even more frustrated. Initially I would be calm with whatever the situation was but because of his behaviour , naturally I’d raise my voice, I’m ultra sensitive an empath and extremely detailed person , Yes a bit of a perfectionist.So it was very easy for me to pick at and recall past situations , and before you knew it… out came those nasty words Being expressive , which can be wonderful at most times, But then the combination of being reactive and expressive together can create more friction at the worst of times,when it’s actually meant (in my mind) to resolve,
Loving your guys.
Is it the same with brain injured people who have negative thoughts/talk?
Labelling mental illness as an illness needs changing to a healthy group we all live in ☮✅
Words created everything.....Yeshua
Subconscious is just a recorder and will just press play anytime it gets triggered to chime in
Great information. Dr Daniel please take your hands out of your pockets - not good body language!
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We would not tell others the horrible negative things we tell ourselves......
My mom says that kind of stuff to me all thr time.
32:39 the One-page miracle
I'm not sure now what I say just know things dont work out liked I'd like it...xxx
Every thing we say and listen ....and???
What about everying thing we see theough eyes
And touch and smell
So very true 😜😂
Is that his wife?
Never heard the end of your evil ruler tanya took over???
I would so let you study me with my traumatic past
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How can you say positive things to a cheating partner and welcome them in ?? Can you really change cheaters with your positive words?? 😢
Bloody hell lol 😆
The Bible talks about the power of your words . Google it ! There is a spiritual realm . Jesus said whosoever SAYS to this mountain ... He said SAY 3 x in that statement he was making . Words ,faith !
She talks too much!!!! She lost track of the topic.
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He is constantly smacking his lips., she does it often too,
in Islam we have to pay attention to what we are saying very carefully
it's like a big rule prophet Mohammad taught us
You said you are there to hel help woo?maybe to help them into trouble
@amenclinics #thebrainwarriorsway does Tana have her own RUclips channel or podcast? Because I really like listening to her and the way I can relate when she brings her own things up and shares
#amenclinics #tantamen #davidamen
He is God. He escaped the friendzone.
Life is a test and trial and after death reward will be given depend upon how we deal with these test and trial and accept God authority despite being in difficult suitation and not play blame game
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“God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
@@ElizabethRenny1 Don't condemn others for their understanding of life and death because the book you stake your life on is full of error in translations, some say up to 5000 errors in translation.
"We have seen that the original biblical texts contained errors of various sorts, but further errors have been introduced by translators. Sometimes these errors are deliberate interpolations by translators, performed to tidy up inconvenient or inconsistent passages. In other cases they are genuine mistakes. "
@@gwenscott535 yes this is true . Inspire of that, there are a lot of jewels in the Bible.
For example : As a man thinketh so is he .
Or be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind.
I just manuver around the bull...
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I do still (having been divorced for 16 years) blame my ex for many things. I don't feel so hostile towards him anymore, but am really sad because of our loss of our first son, at the age of 20, to suicide. One of the things I haven't let go of, is that a few years after our divorce, our son at age 14 began suicidal behaviors and ended up in hospital many times. I was over twenty thousand dollars in debt and wanted my ex to help with expenses to take our son to Amen Clinic. He wouldn't. He used money as a punishment towards me. Nothing I could say or do could change his mind. Now I'm living without my boy and it guts me. I should have just put it all on my overfull credit card and dealt with it. I accepted the barriers that my ex put up. My son deserved more from me, but I was doing the best I could with my own battles with illness and the issues of my two younger sons. I felt like my sons and I were frequent fliers at the psychiatrist offices. I need to shed that blame from both my ex and I. I also need to better forgive my son for his suicide. I am dealing better now than ever before, but I don't feel like I'm there yet. I still hold on to insane thoughts. My hope is to dismiss more and more negative and blaming thoughts as they arise. I don't need any of that garbage digging deeper grooves into my brain. I refuse to become that part of my mother.
Get a New Testament . Jesus wants to help you. He said whoever comes to me I will in no wise cast out ! Now is the time of salvation .