Can You Be Single And Happy? | Real Talk Season 2 Episode 16

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  • Опубликовано: 5 авг 2024
  • For most people, finding their life-long partner is the ultimate goal but does that mean that we can't be happy if haven't found ours?
    Valentine's Day is coming but instead of talking about love, love, love, the cast discusses about their single lives and their thoughts about being ready for a relationship.
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Комментарии • 105

  • @joelconolly5574
    @joelconolly5574 3 года назад +179

    Single without marriage. Yes.
    Single without socialising. Absolutely not.

    • @thongkh88
      @thongkh88 3 года назад +2

      i m one of the legend... y not?

  • @aishahnawi8491
    @aishahnawi8491 3 года назад +96

    im 30 & still single..its okay as long as u pursue ur life with positive thinking

    • @Nabila-dx8xf
      @Nabila-dx8xf 3 года назад +4

      me too..sometimes I cant believe this year I am 30..and single..still feel like young inside..but need to find someone now..time fly so fast..know know already 35

  • @denisbelov7448
    @denisbelov7448 3 года назад +151

    Can you be single and happy?
    The answer is yes. If you have a job or other options like books, video games or something else ( or even your dreams) you can be happy without a partner.

  • @joshuafathal2321
    @joshuafathal2321 3 года назад +305

    Hope one day someone will agree with Farah

    • @Nouveau0
      @Nouveau0 3 года назад +3

      Which one's Farah? And what are we agreeing on? 😂

    • @farahfarzmusic
      @farahfarzmusic 3 года назад +1

      maybe one day.........

  • @againstthetypical
    @againstthetypical 3 года назад +77

    I hate the idea that my happiness needs to be define by another person. I am single and am really happy. People who think that relationship or marriage is a must in life , there is nothing wrong but don’t judge people who is really happy with being single. Not everyone feels the same way or need to live a stereotypical life.

    • @embershen364
      @embershen364 3 года назад +2

      Agree. Anyone can be happy, regardless of their circumstances. If they title this video can I be poor and happy, will receive so much backlash.

  • @sahanamoses9902
    @sahanamoses9902 3 года назад +29

    Eric trying to fix his spot with John is a mood

  • @dearfiyah
    @dearfiyah 3 года назад +111

    I think that if someone is single for too long and is used to everything going only their way, it will be difficult for them to compromise if they ever date. This may not be true to all but I think the older a person is, the more likely true this is.

  • @ehseahla
    @ehseahla 3 года назад +120

    Nothing wrong doing shit alone ah, chances are people don't even notice you at all. You do you; happy can alr. It is also perfectly fine to date yourself and treat yourself well from time to time; don't even need to go through the entire bullshit of acting diplomatic and deciding what your date like to do or to eat what fuck, you want just go only. Besides, walking into "fancier" places alone feels a lot more baller leh :>

  • @xzack69ersx3
    @xzack69ersx3 3 года назад +10

    I'm 32 and single , Pursue your career and indeed Godwilling you fall in love naturally

  • @suhaimibull9629
    @suhaimibull9629 3 года назад +5

    i been single for 9 year already. Single is the best thing to happen.. you can do what ever you wish..

  • @summerchek2493
    @summerchek2493 3 года назад +28

    I'm 31 and still haven't get a relationship not more than 1-2 month relationship as well. I feel like I wasn't ready yet but in the same time I carving for comfort sometimes. So when I go dating app and it kill the carving straight away.

  • @erin_wongggggg
    @erin_wongggggg 3 года назад +84

    Who agrees this is too short ? 😭😭😭

    • @djeckyb
      @djeckyb 3 года назад +1

      yes because no one cares about us and our lonely ass

  • @kyuketsukii96
    @kyuketsukii96 3 года назад +14

    Embrace whatever comes along the way. Eventually if you are single then fine, or if you get into a relationship then make the best out of it. Its not like if you dont have a relationship you will have a worse quality of life and vice versa. A relationship is more of a "want" than a "need".

  • @sayurik
    @sayurik 3 года назад +18

    We need more insights from Farah!! Her analysis really strikes a cord with me ❤️

  • @gustlewustle
    @gustlewustle 3 года назад +4

    This was a really great discussion! Good valid points from everyone. Thanks for posting even on CNY Day!

  • @thatdollarcoke
    @thatdollarcoke 3 года назад +32

    Damn, this is too short a video for such a relatable topic in society

  • @sezmihusayn4426
    @sezmihusayn4426 3 года назад +6

    companionship is crucial for healthy individually n society...being single and having meaningful relationship with beautiful people around still a good foundation..whats matter is soul ties u have in ur lifetime,not just with spouse.

  • @xiaoodoggy22
    @xiaoodoggy22 3 года назад +23

    Single for 28 years hahaha 😅

  • @kagebunshin4380
    @kagebunshin4380 3 года назад +7

    They might as well ask me... I've always been single and happy as a clam. Helps if there are other things in life you find really meaningful and enjoy tremendously. I love eating alone - a great way to try any restaurant you want at a price point you're comfortable with, at any time!

    • @hozarinna
      @hozarinna 3 года назад +1

      Vice versa! No expectations

  • @tllee6000
    @tllee6000 3 года назад +5

    I’m in my forties but definitely not sad watching movies alone in one corner. Haha

  • @libraries144
    @libraries144 3 года назад +5

    yes, i am singale and very happy being with myself. i dont think anyone can love me more than i love myself

  • @YuYingGan
    @YuYingGan 3 года назад +5

    I agree that maybe it is trauma and you dont want to evaluate your past in order to move on.... Am too just waiting and focusing on myself. Not rushing to find someone, not feeling like something is missing.
    Bring myself out for a good dinner and ok to watch movie alone. :) Have been doing it before I got attached hehe.

  • @thamutha
    @thamutha 3 года назад +6

    Single and don't really understand the process of being into someone. Consider myself to be an old soul, empath.
    Possible Reason : difficult past which I managed to overcome.
    Dream : Every girl is pretty I want something more.
    Now : Don't really think about it. Acceptance of singlehood, possible future of meeting soulmate and standby to apply BTO 2 room single scheme :D

  • @yxinz
    @yxinz 3 года назад +2

    I think we should have live juicy chats so audience can throw in their two cents and some questions too

  • @podianwar7220
    @podianwar7220 3 года назад +2

    Nice and meaningful chats .....

  • @goodlife4593
    @goodlife4593 3 года назад +15

    What if , you are attached but unhappy? Isn’t that worst ? So it’s better to be single. at least you have options. But for ladies, time is ticking. Meeting a bad , unsuitable guy is a waste of your time.

  • @markjohn3461
    @markjohn3461 3 года назад

    best way to end the week

  • @syazwansyafiq4495
    @syazwansyafiq4495 3 года назад

    Hopefully realtalk have their own podcast on spotify! Please make that happen

  • @ISTARI22
    @ISTARI22 3 года назад +2

    Farah, Farah, you're so funny... In her own world hahahahahahaha

  • @SinisterzMan
    @SinisterzMan 3 года назад +3

    Been single all my life, 25 this year. It's not that I'm single by choice but it's like i have the worst luck with girls i guess :(

  • @henrysim8185
    @henrysim8185 3 года назад +55

    Am i the only one who thinks that once you reach a certain age (e.g 28-35) you wanna remain single for life ?

    • @archangel323118
      @archangel323118 3 года назад +2

      Nope, you are not alone. At 32, I do enjoy being single yet hanging out w friends/family without that extra commitment :) And I have had about 5 exes throughout my life.

    • @embershen364
      @embershen364 3 года назад +8

      I wanted to be single since I was in primary 1. Bc I’m asexual and my parents showed me how toxic marriage can be.

  • @96Fransisca
    @96Fransisca 3 года назад +5

    jon at the ending was like in his own world tho..
    hope you are fine jon 🙂

  • @happyleaf9635
    @happyleaf9635 3 года назад +11

    I love being out alone (most people are just OK to be alone if no choice). I’m married btw. I love to watch movies alone, eat hotpot alone, walk around alone. I think the only activity I don’t do like to do alone is go KTV alone. I got excited at the thought of travelling alone also but don’t dare haha so I prefer to go with my husband

    • @happyleaf9635
      @happyleaf9635 3 года назад +1

      I do enjoy going out with my husband. Just that I’ll go out EXTRA just to also enjoy it myself hahaha

  • @Itspavi98
    @Itspavi98 3 года назад +40

    Poor farah is cut off! she looks so sad in the beginning! hahaha

    • @joachim977
      @joachim977 3 года назад +4

      Ifkr?? I wanted to know more about that fabulous outfit

    • @farahfarzmusic
      @farahfarzmusic 3 года назад

      oh noo!! we shot our intro after everything was over! hahaha so no i wasn't sad that i got cut off😂

    • @farahfarzmusic
      @farahfarzmusic 3 года назад

      @@joachim977 awww

  • @tywakorn
    @tywakorn 3 года назад +2

    When is the part 2 of this topic?

  • @Lala_lalacllll
    @Lala_lalacllll 3 года назад +1

    Yas Eric is back!

  • @JuzNicky
    @JuzNicky 3 года назад +3

    I do agree with Farah. The insecurities about yourself and dumping that baggage onto your partner.
    also what the Mandonlorian said in a Zula vid I could not have said it better myself.
    I also dunno how to say but I get it.
    and where the heck did that dress come from ?

    • @farahfarzmusic
      @farahfarzmusic 3 года назад +2

      THANK YOU!! At least you got what I was trying to say! hahaha

    • @farahfarzmusic
      @farahfarzmusic 3 года назад

      also the fit is from bdiggityislandlife.com/collections/farah-farz-x-bum-diggity hehe

  • @Jolin_Toh
    @Jolin_Toh 3 года назад +7

    eric carrying the show big time 😂

  • @Samanthayeo93
    @Samanthayeo93 3 года назад +4

    I get it Farah 💯

  • @MrBoliao98
    @MrBoliao98 3 года назад

    I think I like Jon, like if I exercise and all, earn money and make myself better. Whether I do a good job is another kettle of fish.

  • @f.p1758
    @f.p1758 3 года назад +4

    Wtf that was so short
    I'm too used to 1hr podcasts tt 8mins feel like nothing...

  • @SXLEOPARDSKINNED
    @SXLEOPARDSKINNED 3 года назад +2

    But Farah, how does one do the ground inner work? :)

  • @kenneth81x
    @kenneth81x 3 года назад +15

    Farah looks so hot in that dress!

  • @heartwarmingofficial
    @heartwarmingofficial 3 года назад +1

    Girl in blue reminds me of naya rivera (rip)- beautiful souls

  • @JustKorenaFilipinainSingapore
    @JustKorenaFilipinainSingapore 3 года назад

    You guys shld do a podcast

  • @omega_3_998
    @omega_3_998 3 года назад

    Eric low key wants the dude beside him ... nah scratch that. Eric HIGH key wants him.

  • @reenajiyong6330
    @reenajiyong6330 3 года назад

    Only when I grew older in my late 20s then I'm okay to eat alone. If not I die also can't sit anywhere alone.

  • @Tyler_Memo
    @Tyler_Memo 3 года назад +1

    What ? No Comments ? They look so funny though . Hahahas .

  • @tuapuikia
    @tuapuikia 3 года назад +1

    Single with sex life: 👍🏽
    Single with nun lifestyle: 👎
    Single with friends: 👍🏽👍🏽

  • @xiaodingdang2764
    @xiaodingdang2764 3 года назад +2

    abit random but what is the brand of the grey teddy bear t shirt

  • @jeremytan27
    @jeremytan27 3 года назад +1

    First!

  • @emiheartxkpop
    @emiheartxkpop 3 года назад

    need longer videos!

  • @gerardtx291
    @gerardtx291 3 года назад +1

    Farah in wonderland

  • @Honeymagmangospoof
    @Honeymagmangospoof 3 года назад +1

    I hate being single and want a relationship so bad because it is affecting every aspect of my life . Can someone advice where to find a partner ?

    • @archangel323118
      @archangel323118 3 года назад +4

      To be honest, you can find a partner anywhere. At a gym, cooking class, shopping mall, dating apps etc. It's not the location but rather taking the first step to knowing someone and letting it progress.

    • @kagebunshin4380
      @kagebunshin4380 3 года назад +1

      CMB. More legit than tinder, and I know a lot of ppl who found long term relationships from there.

  • @nyiloronikki160
    @nyiloronikki160 3 года назад +1

    50 and never had a relationship.uhukuhuk......

  • @KS-jl3og
    @KS-jl3og 3 года назад

    Eric n John kinda twin

  • @critixoutsider8066
    @critixoutsider8066 3 года назад +1

    Looks like you people are school kids. I am still single in 45...And there are so many free birds like me . Very busy enjoying the freedom life.😁😁😁

  • @ahfanzai
    @ahfanzai 3 года назад +5

    24 years and never dated before... help me...

  • @LordAaronus
    @LordAaronus 3 года назад

    it's a question of privilege

  • @gabrielliew455
    @gabrielliew455 3 года назад

    This life you have, Please live it for yourself, not for others, not for society, not for your parents wanting a grandchild. Marriage is a calling and its not for everyone. Make solid plans for your golden years, have good insurance and don't be a burden to society next time. Don't ever get married cause all your friends are doing so, And dont have children because you're afraid there'll be nobody to send you off on your last journey. The world is pretty wicked anyways.

  • @johnchen6310
    @johnchen6310 3 года назад

    Chim Leh....

  • @smdsfq
    @smdsfq 3 года назад

    Invite Salome Blaque next time please!

  • @relativelybasic
    @relativelybasic 3 года назад +1

    4:33 why Farah look so pissed like John interrupting her.

  • @trevbermi1684
    @trevbermi1684 3 года назад

    is farah single?

  • @killerostar23
    @killerostar23 3 года назад

    no wonder when I wanna laosai the toilet always full 🥲

  • @davidadambra
    @davidadambra 3 года назад

    uh

  • @Staar624
    @Staar624 3 года назад

    Boring

  • @ifeelhalfnaked484
    @ifeelhalfnaked484 3 года назад +4

    im 28, ive dated over 130 females since my early 20s.
    for guys, i think as you date more, your expectations will go higher cause you have been seeing ugly sides of human nature. For girls, it's advisable to settle down before age 30. Once you over 30s and being an 'independent' woman, i tell your, jialat liao....no successful guys desire a controlling, feminist woman who tries to boss him around.

    • @gummyypeach
      @gummyypeach 3 года назад +7

      And vice versa, no successful girls desire a fuckboy who waves his dating report around like a trophy

    • @goodlife4593
      @goodlife4593 3 года назад

      130.. that’s quite a big number haha. True, woman 35 and above, if still single, will be left on the shelves forever.. only options left are divorced man or undesired man.

    • @pandoracode3659
      @pandoracode3659 3 года назад +2

      Uh... I can tell you, even if become in 30s and single.. we still can be submissive and act like 小女人 to the ones we love. We even can bring in extra money to suit to your convenience. Heck, you don’t even in to commit and pay so much in having a family. Even buy hdb flat, women also pay half, divorce also split half. depends how guys treat us well. Not all are feminist ok 👏🏻