5 Rules Men Must Never Break (Attraction Power Dynamics)
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- If you're a man, these are 5 rules men must never break, but only if you want to be as attraction as possible and have the ability to control the power dynamics of attraction.
Cheers!
1 - Don’t chase (build it and they will come)
2 - investing (she should invest more/same than you)
3 - Qualifying (talk is cheap.. act like value)
4 - more or less? Who’s worth more? (smv)
5 - power/date up
Key take away ; woman want value.
nah, this has big flaw: spoiled brats are too dumb to realize someone is of value
only 1,2 works
Yeah but if she doesn’t like you, if she doesn’t find you attractive, none of this will matter. She won’t chase because she doesn’t care, she won’t invest anything because she doesn’t care, and she won’t care about your value because she’s not attracted to you. She’ll probably think you’re a great guy and will genuinely think you’re cool…but she won’t want to sleep with you if she’s not attracted to you. These things will work 100% if she’s attracted to you, but if she isn’t, then these things will do nothing.
Value=money,confidence and social influence.
@@nickp3949 if you have these things you would become attractive to most of them
I made these mistakes recently with 3 different girls without even realizing it. When they would say things like “you’re freaking hot” “I miss you” “you’re quite the catch” I would return the attention and show them signs of commitment by calling them babe and mine. Huge mistake. I realized how the power dynamic rapidly changed. Your instinct tell you that if you don’t return the attention she will get mad and could leave but this is not at all the case gentleman.
You messed up
@@JaredDeinlein don’t worry there is plenty more
@@cosmiccloud9382 yeah one time when I was younger a girl was really into me, like obsessed with me we made love did it all, then I told her " I really like you a lot " or something like that, she got disgusted then ghosted me and was chasing after a guy who was ignoring her and acting indifferent to her. I was like wtf. Now I know dont act like a simp.
Doesnt matter bruh if u learning u moving forward
@@kimL93 exactly
MY TAKEAWAY:
Don't Chase girls.
Make sure you're investing less time and energy than her. (Not every time, cause too much makes you a PIMP)
Qualify her don't let her qualify you (SET the STANDARDS FOR HER.)
Don't Try to Please her or Girls in general. EX: Working out for the sole purpose of getting girls. Or Making Money to attract girls.
Make sure you have more value and everything you do adds to your power and not take away your power.
Superb.
Your comment had some credibility until you referred to ‘power’ & ‘value’, stop buying in to all that crap man, seriously, it’s not real, it’s all in your head.
Just be real, be genuine, don’t be that guy who has to pretend to be someone he isn’t just so he can get a girls number.
@@Jay-ob4ti he plainly stated to not do anything for women. Therefore, in nevermind power and value, he's talking about _personal_ power and value. Ie. the way you value your own self, not the way others might value or not value you.
Great
If you treat a girl like a celebrity, then she'll treat you like a fan.
so... does that mean she'll blow you? 🤔
Probably true that’s was one my mistake too
Good one
Is it the other way around?
I just watched that video where the guy mentioned this….😅
This guy is a much more realistic and better influence on young dudes that are tired of being treated like low value simps. I have improved myself and how I realize that a lot of women are chasing ME now! Guys focus on goals not chicks
How
I would highly recommend reading the 48 laws of power. It explains all of the rules of power that can be used in any aspect of your life including getting a girl.
Focus on your health and business goals for yourself, and everything will work out
What has worked for me is giving girls only morsels of my attention. Just last night I spoke to a girl I hadn't given my attention to for a couple of days and when she saw me approaching, I could tell she was bothered/angry because of how I was treating her. But as soon as I started talking to her and made eye contact, she couldn't help but give me a big smile... We had a fun conversation. This same girl asked me recently why I haven't been around her that much. I told her I'm busy with work and side projects.
And there's a couple of girls like her that I'm treating the same way and getting the same reaction. So, it works, guys. And this girl is older and taller than me...with a banging body. I'm 5'-6" with average body and I'd say average (or a little above average) looks. So, if I can do it, so can you.
Do not drag yourself through the mud for women. You have tons of options. You just have to believe it. And all you have to do is be different (just a little bit more confident and mysterious/unpredictable than the rest).
But how you get into a conversation with a girl, or a stranger girl, that's my dilema, i don't know what to say, for example I go to her I say Hi, how are you, any ideas I don't have and then my mind becomes clear, no idea at all what to say. And if I were in an actual situation like that my mind will only make me say bullshits
@@ovidius9862 What I like to do is observe something odd, interesting or funny that happens nearby and ask her about it. Then I gauge her response and if I can tell she's open to talk, it's on. Then I ask her the usual questions... Name, reason for being there, school, work, favorite shows, travel etc. If I can't think of an approach that could work, I move on... There's plenty on girls out there. One thing, though.... I'm not looking for a partner for life. I just want to have fun and not be tied down.
@@ovidius9862 Approaching girls from different cultures (Asian, Egyptian, Iranian etc) makes things easier. I've asked many of them a recommendation for a great restaurant that serves food from the part of the world they're from. They seem to loooove giving you their opinion about such things. Heck, an Iranian girl at work even cooked a meal for me after having that convo lol. And that approach helped me get the number of a little beautiful Egyptian princess. It's worked for me countless times.
@@ovidius9862 I usually start out with a neg if you can identify one. something like "your shoe is untied your gonna slip and break your nose. What is the matter with you?" It doesn't have to be real mean, however it can be. You have to deliver it from a point of confidence.
@@charlesfinnegan7930 @Luis Remirez Ok guys thank you so much, i will keep in mind those ideas.
I go to the gym to be the sexiest and prettiest me. I got tired of having woman but giving them a shitty version of me. I’ve learned to give the best me to anyone I come across
Bruh I died when he said “The Shirt is going to find me unattractive and leave me”💀😂
Your videos have impacted the way I see things.
They have truly opened my eyes.
I'm forever grateful
I genuinely don't care about power, I care about mutual interest or numbers more than people, if it's not being put out then I check out, the best thing you can do is be genuine other than wanting to for your own self interest, proving yourself is also not genuine, don't play games with people in relationships unless that's the quality you want to attract you've been warned.
Here's a trick to be successful with women... Whatever average men do, do the opposite.😉
Not sure if it's a universally available rule tbh and overall just bad advice
Doesn't work like that always
Here’s an even better trick: there’s no such thing as “tricks”.
Lot of money is a easy cheat codes
@@amn.kobain you kinda want a girl to love you not your money
thanks mahn👊👊💫this goes a long way in driving value addition in my life
Couldn’t disagree more about what you said about investing less in your significant other. Why would you even be in a relationship with someone if you distrust them to the extent that you feel the need to play manipulative games like that? Guys, if you view every relationship as a power struggle, you’re going to live a very lonely existence, with or without a partner. No thanks.
I guarantee that a very large majority of the guys consuming this content are not in relationships. Lol. So concepts like mistrust of your partner are warmly welcomed by a “sour grapes” type crowd. And saying “Nah..” makes these single guys with no hope feel like a winner by default, as they pretend the that being single was their own choice, and not where the dating market placed them. Got 100 guys chiming in here about relationships and about 15 of them are actually in one. Lol
Just cause you are in a relationship does not mean there will not be some kind of power struggle. A woman will test you from now till the end. If she is flat out disrespecting kick her to the curb.
Agree!
He is teaching men how to be selfish women (not even high value women).
Alpha men are hunters and like the chase. It’s their instinct. And now, he is making all the men the ‘pretty’ selfish queen who refuses to give in more than what she takes.
These are not high value men. High value
men are kind, generous, intelligent, ambitious and SECURE.
If men are so insecure and only focus on money (cause he thinks money would attract more women), they finally do. But they only attract low value women who are thirsty, insecure, gold diggers or having mental problems.
Like attracts like people.
Agreed. Women want men who make them feel the feelings. The money game is for guys who can’t make women feel things. A dork with a bunch of cash is still a dork.
@@charlesfinnegan7930 Okay, that has nothing to do with my point. I never said that you should put up with someone disrespecting you. But if you feel the need to play power games with someone, you clearly don’t trust them, and how can you have a relationship with someone you don’t trust? If you just want a sex partner, whatever, play your stupid games. But mature, self-respecting men have better things to do. A woman who you can’t be yourself around isn’t worth your time.
There's so much misinformation about what it takes to attract women, and the funny thing is that women don't even know what they're attracted to. I don't mean that as a criticism, but rather as a comment on how so much of attraction is subconscious, so women aren't actively aware about what's turning them on about a guy. This is why men need to be wary of taking dating advice from women.
Yep
@@arctic92 oh how about the fact that they won't tell us what the problem is and they'd just shut off. Us men aren't mind readers. Be straight up and tell us what we're doing wrong or what you want.
Great video, sir. Thank you
thanks for letting me know about my future plans for myself (I kept myself in my comfort zone for long enough) I tend to change it
Don't do it it's a trap.
I workout and on my journey to make my body a weapon is only for the sole purpose of protecting People i care. And Clutching when i am at a disadvantage. I do it to protect and to defend not to attack or look cool.
Having the power means you have the choice to be the best and to offer the best.
Girls have self awareness but you don't seem to be able to show it so don't chase because if you chase you'll make their ego inflate like a balloon, yes they know how useless they can be.
Don't put gasoline on the fire and respect yourself.
Eat, Sleep, take care of hygiene, obtain knowledge, good body shape, have fun sometimes and dress well
*Today's message is about a song by Alan Jackson titled - Angels and Alcohol.*
Funny title, right.*
Personally, I think Alan must have been high on whiskey when he wrote that song.
Lmao.
So the first verse of the song goes like this...
"You can't mix angels and alcohol
I don't think God meant for them to get along
When it takes control, you can't love no one at all
You can't mix angels and alcohol"
Each time I hear that song, I just keep thinking about the line:
*"I don't think God meant for them to get along"*
Just like Angels and Alcohol (according to Alan)...there are things that just won't go along in this life no matter what.
An example that comes to mind is "making money" and "making excuses"
I always say you can't make money and make excuses.
You have to pick one and be okay with it.
So, which one are you choosing today?
Angels or Alcohol?
Making money or making excuses?
Just one.
And be okay with whatever comes out of that choice.
*Have a great day!* 💕 💕
Piss
This piece is a gem; reminds me of a book that was also a jewel in its field. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I can't understand fully easily because of not familiar with your accent but I watch again and again and your videos are awesome I'm making in my like list
thanks bro, i think this is the reason why my girl is losing interest in me
If women are interested in a man..then all the tips/rules/laws work... Or else they'll simply find someone else.
Totally easy in the short term... but in a long relationship
i am going to the gym 6 years ago because i was 120 kg fat guy chasing women and when i get in shape they saw how strong i was and that is when i learned they look at youre looks thats why i like training in a hoodie i do it for myself
This is right on
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Phenomenal vid💯
crazy facts man!!!!!
Hello guys now I can see another mistake I’ve been making
1. Qualifying myself to a girl as someone who could become a potential lover.
-Trying to visit her whenever she’s sick
-giving her gifts etc
Q1.And the question I have about investing :
What if you’ve been calling her sometimes and she calls other time? Should I ride my ego and try to be in position of power by reducing the time I’ve been calling her ?
Q2. I still live at my parents house and I’ve been visiting a girl at their home and whenever I try to ask her to visit me back she answers that she’ll visit when I get my own home , what should I do ?
She wants to sex you get your own place
For your second question, I would start hitting the gym really hard, pick up as many hours at your job as possible and find an apartment. Being on your grind will definitely cause you to be less available to her in an actual way instead of faking that you're busy. Girls are attracted to scarcity, she will be wondering why she doesn't see you as often and when she does she will notice you've been working out. Don't even tell her you're looking for an apartment, just one day out of the blue invite her over to your place for a movie. It doesn't matter how much you like this girl, don't show her your interest and she will start to qualify herself to you.
@@One_Eleven111 wow that’s can be pretty great I think I should disappear from her so that I can work on my self
Maybe you could stop playing infantile games and simply be genuine with her? Crazy thought, I know, but maybe women are actually human beings, and you don’t need be an insecure little baby who’s scared that he’ll look weak because he shows basic kindness? It‘s that insecurity and need to manage your image that is repellant to women, not the attention itself.
@@georgerockwell149 Show basic kindness, but I guess you've obviously never heard that saying of _misinterpreting kindness for weakness_ have you...
Great!
Yes, yap!!
Haha! I love how ever since Andrew Tate was cancelled, he keeps popping up in random videos
i wollw one big rule treat other how you want to be treated
Wish I had this video earlier in life
Ppl have forgotten the spelling of love.
love isnt real
u were fed that by disney u idiot, Movies and tv shows feed people these lies and now we grow up and believe that its real. It doesnt exist, U live in such a comfortable time to where u dont even realize "love" is a lie
Make a video about Andrew tate vision
Isn't there enough videos already out
@@jimdaniel4412 no.. and will never be.
Y'all Tate fanboys need to chill. We get it.
@@TheClaudiofish bro there was a recent 5 hour podcast of him on some other channel.
It's enough philosophy for a lifetime.
I don't think anybody needs more than that
@@plutoreturns9630 tate supporters not fanboys, grow up goofy kid
Fellas, all 100% of these tactics work! But they only work on low quality, insecure women high-value women will ignore all of these tactics. Just FYI!
Ok, my problem is idk what to say. I’m going to a dance with this girl and she always comes and sits and stands next to m but never says much and neither just bc I’m stuck between saying this or doing this. What should I do?
Delete her conversation and number if you feel tempted to message her, then the only option is she will miss you and wonder wtf happened and will check in with you in some way.
No sound in the video
1:08 chasing
why even i make these mistakes😓.... am in this situation right now 😪😪😪
One thing you did not understand is why it is this way. When a man is high status he does not have time for her bad behavior and a leader of the pack has lots of choice with women witch women via biology see as a sign of the big dog. When our packs became much better then 13 it became much harder for the females too tell who the top dog is. Then they go back to the sign above to try to tell who that person is. This is a simple matter of survival for a women as our brains are build for living in the stone ages. Witch would mean if she did not get the top dog she would have a harder time surviving and getting resources like food. Multiple that by generations of imprinting then women seeing a man ignore her with status. Women do only run after men with preserved status.
Don't show too much interest or don't show too little intrest both r dangerous.
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Turn your “read” on if you have an iPhone. When they text you make sure you open it. Don’t answer .
Be real but aware!
If power was most attractive features then wouldn’t guys like Elon Musk/Steve Jobs be the moser sought after/ lusted for guys on the planet?
Steve Jobs is dead
They r, its just in secret. Women arent gonna go around screaming omg I want to f elon. No, but if elon were to walk in a room of women they will all be on their knees in minutes
@@uncomfortabletruths7990 yep, they don’t feel the need to keep it a secret for the good looking/attractive guy
Who they attracted to what they attracted to and why they attracted to you you went in the gym so you could work out to make yourself more attractive wish you already attractive and why you was attractive and who the f*** you was attracted to so it doesn't matter if she likes you it mattered if she respects you regardless of your time in the gym.
Well... I just realized my recent mistakes.
If you enjoy ideas about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
I think the author who made this video is totally mistaken. You can have power, but if you don't have any chemistry then you will not go far at all with that woman that you really like. Chemistry determines everything in a relationship. It's not money, nor power, or even social status even though these elements are nice but they will not hold a woman forever. You must click with her and the rest is history. The formula of the rich ugly and the rich attractive guy is no longer in circulation. That theory will not work today due to women making money. Can you conquer her with your chemistry? Broke Chads, and ugly men with chemistry have more luck with a woman than that attractive rich kid or unattractive rich kid but who has no chemistry. Feb. 24 , 2023. USA
If you consciously believe all these things you are actually insane
*What if Both Sides end up competing on who invests in the relationship?*
That happened to me about a month ago, just stand your ground and don't EVER break, my girl left me on seen, didn't message her after that for 15days (she didn't either) she eventually came back crying thinking i've abandoned her and ofc the whole situation steered all the power towards me.
@@ziki3518 That sounds like good advice for a situation i can relate to. Thank you for that.
I'd love to be buff but I think I only work out cause fat people illnesses run in my family. Id rather not die from hbp, heart attack or stroke.
Just because i lift because of a woman doesn't mean i lift FOR her. Big difference guys
toxic as fuck, but unfortunately true
women are toxic, this is what they deserve
I have all the power and hella game
real men dont shout this out so you have no power or game
Bro said we go jim for girls 😂
Heyyy there, I have a short question here, I'm 22 years old and my New girlfriend and I are not texting each other anymore, she greeted me on text and I took 30 minutes without replying then I after I replied and she was angry asking why I did not reply to her massage fast, then she started playing no more replying on my massage then I noticed that with one massage that I sent then I waited until night but no reply until I again send her other message in the morning saying "happy Sunday..... My live🍂" then she did not reply again🤷♂️so since from Sunday morning I'm trying my best to avoid text her and now I'm starting to feel like she will never get back to me. So how long should I keep silent?
Bro all I can say is she’s doing pull back because you wasn’t able to do it first and now she’s unsure about you,
She’s testing the level of your confidence just leave her alone no texting no calling until she does so.
Let her till she come back on her own will
She will only come back if you ignore
her until she comes/messages you...This is just a Weakness test...In a relationship the one who can walk away anytime has more control and power...if you ignore her she will come back..if you contact her again,then she will treat you like a Shit now or some days after...
@@digcurbnr2312 thanks broh✌️.... But what if she doesn't get back to me until a month 🤷♂️
@@mzwakheeddie1832 I would move on to someone else after a week. Not worth it.
@@arctic92 wow, what a good strategy thank to you I now have an idea wat to do David
it seems like the modern unicorns millenniums of the column run around with donut hairstyle it seems like they're held the power 😬🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂 millennials unicorns
Don't chase a woman and she will see you like one of those passive guys, and will be game over in no time.
1:44
3:40
Lol most men don't or won't get this
Can't watch. I hate this supposed "artistic" form of videos. Visually jarring and takes away from the message.
So close your eyes. Or look away. There you go I fixed it for you.
@@216trixie No I just won't watch. I know its a popular trend but I find it juvenile.
Cant read this post. I hate supposed “constructive criticism” posts. Cognitively jarring and makes the message worthless. ;)
@@silverback4423 Good one LOL. Very clever.
@ANDREWTATE
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