The world has a tendency to balance the good with the bad, I spent about 3 years unemployed after I lost my apartment, then saw a parent betray me for their private fame. I had no way out, but I took a chance on new friends. 2 of the 3 years was spent with them and for all their support I still felt empty. No girlfriend, no job, no degree, and no way forward. I was in my darkest place for those 2 years thinking about what happened but I pushed through my darkness. I finally got a job to pay back my friends for the place to live, but felt overwhelmed from 40+ hours I thought I wanted, I worked for 4 months to prove my dilligence. My boss approved my part time so I could have a social life as well as professional. Now Im about to go on my first date in 8 years. Moral here: Do not let your darkest roots take place, fight on and if you need help, ASK. You are stronger with others, we are evolved to be social creatures and even introverts need to talk with friends often. If you can get through the hard times, your brightest moments will come but you have to want it and not wait for it. You have to earn it and strive for your happiness especially when its hard Take chances my friends, they might just work out
Thank you for sharing your journey of resilience and hope. Your courage to seek connection and push through the darkness is truly inspiring. Remember, every step you take toward your happiness is a victory. Keep embracing opportunities and trust that brighter days are ahead. You are never alone in this journey.
This hits too close to home. I came home from a deployment last year, I signed right before graduating and went a deployment not long after. I've been home and I'm separating from the army. I'm 21 now, but I've been unemployed aside from the army, I've never felt so lost in my entire life, I don't even have my liscense as I never got it during highschool and life has just been chaos. Now that the dust is settled it feels like I've been blinded. I don't know my purpose in life or what I want to do with myself. I have a complicated relationship with god but that's something I've been struggling with. Even if I do get my liscense I'm still just lost. I've never really had any real career interests. My life is just a void rn, I feel like I'm trapped in my own mind.
@@Matthew-nd2iq get close to God brother and take some time to think things through find what you wanna do in life trust me brother you have a purpose out there i wish you the best of lucks and i trust on gods timing brother things will get better matthew :)
20 years old, no job, no studies... everyone around me become independent, but I Still live with my parents... I feel... empty... Édit : Alright guys hum… thank you for the support yall give to me… it realmy helped me feel better… thank you all
@@blacks7159 I've been where you are. At some point you have to realize to not gauge yourself based of what others around you are doing. You need to focus on yourself. The change you want will only come from within you.
Dam, man that's really sad But that doesn't mean everything is hopeless, that YOU are hopeless, cuz is ain't like that I've got lot's of shit on me too. But, I hope, I really hope that two of us (and even more of us) I hope that we WILL make it That everything is gonna be alright in our lives
And you're the one with the biggest advantage, use your loneliness to grow, get a skill and get damn good at it, then grow again. I was in exactly the same position my life at 20 years old. Still feels like yesterday.
I'll do you one better: I have a bachelor's degree in Computer Science, I am employed... and I still live with my parents, at 28. It's been tough for everyone, you still have time to turn stuff around.
@@undertakerkillerfrost1489 Try ending it, if you feel like you're going to leave behind *something* in your life then that's how you know that you actually cared about something in your life.
i'm turning 30 this month and i feel like i haven't even began to get my life in order. my goals are slipping further and further away from me yet i'm already drowning in work. no one to come home to. no one to tell my stories to and no one to remember i even existed in the first place. this music brings out the things i wanted to bury so long ago yet i'm drawn to things like this over and over again
I'm in a similar boat brother. You're likely trying your best too, but it's hard to keep that up everyday when we don't feel seen or appreciated from time to time. I wish I had some advice for you, but I don't.
"One of the greatest tragedies in life is that you will always be loved more than you will ever know. Maybe someone in class finds your presence inviting and warm, even if you have only ever exchanged a few words - maybe none at all. Maybe someone on the street loves your smile, and it gets them through the next few streets. Or maybe someone noticed you weren't on the bus you usually take, missing the sight of your mere presence. Or someone you used to be friends with wishes - even if only for a fleeting moment - to relive the cheerful friendship you once shared, to be able to call your name just once more. Or maybe someone at work is disappointed when you aren't there to brighten their day after hearing that you won't show up today. We tend to think that we have disappeared for good when we are no longer in the picture, but ultimately, we have never left the frame."
I've been doing really well for myself lately. I got a good job I like a few months ago it pays well and its been a blast learning something new and complex making my brain work everyday. I'm not a workaholic but i enjoy my time off from work to spend with friends and family. it suck because i came home today and my dog was missing a small chunk out of her ear and she is getting old and i try not to worry about it. It's hard to though life has bumps in the road and today is one of those for me this is just a reminder that no mater how hard it gets always keep moving forward there is going to be a new moment... a new day.
keep on going man. just like you said, keep going. there are times even i've been at my worst state and just going on eventually brings the light into the dark when you need it the most. hope the dog is well and i hope things go greatly for your future, mate.
Just want to thank you to the people giving positive affirmation to those of us who doesn't get that from anyone in our lives. We really needed those words
People don't tell the truth often, it's easy to spew the most basic positive affirmations without putting any thought or care into it because it's easy attention and you immediately land yourself on everyone's good side, so to me the positive stuff if the most repulsive, I don't want lies so I'd rather people tell me to end myself because at least that's 100% the truth.
Be proud you made it this far, let's keep going. Even if we fall, even if we are alone, the future is not written in stone. Be proud of yourself, if you can't, be sure I'm proud of you. Take this little confidence and face your dreams. Be proud of the road you took, because when I can't be of mine, at least I can be of yours. Be proud, because there is only one you. Be proud. Recomended song: Blooming in the mood - Wolpis Carter
Really don't know what I'm doing anymore. I hate to sound like a debbie downer and whatnot, but it really is just a struggle to get through my day-by-day. I'd consider myself a pretty tough person---rather, I don't crumble easily whatsoever---but it feels like I've hit an impassable wall that I don't want to scale anymore. Feels like all this stress is clouding my mind, and I'm just a wet puddle of existence floating around in some dark, endless void.
I felt like that quite a bit last year. It felt like everything was just closing in around me. I feel like there is always that one random, that one friend, that one family member, that one mentor, or that one moment in life that helps us get through. Despite my pain I try to take everyone small victory and run with it. U got this.
lowkey just stated word for word how im feeling these days. Sorry to hear another person's going through something like this. I know a lot of ppl prolly do because its natural and whatnot but still, im sorry bro.
It’s okay to feel lost and overwhelmed. Remember, even the toughest souls encounter obstacles. Take small steps, breathe, and allow yourself to feel. Healing takes time; you're not alone in this journey. Seek light in the small moments.
Just a friendly reminder to anybody who may be struggling today: You are doing great! You've made it so far, and I know that you'll be able to get even further! If you fail, all you need to do is get right back up and keep going, it doesn't matter how many times you fall. There is always someone waiting for you on the horizon of tomorrow, even if you feel alone. You are loved, you are needed, and you are wanted. If you're thinking of giving up, don't! Look around you and see how many bright colors are around you, and if you can't see them yet, know that you'll see them soon. All you have to do is look, and the world will give them right to you! You might be fighting today, but tomorrow maybe you'll be able to sit down and say "I'm glad I kept going." Your story doesn't end with an " I give up." It will always end with a "What's next?" So keep going, and find your next adventure. Maybe you'll find more than just treasure at the end of this road. Maybe you'll find friends and family you would have never expected! You'll grow and learn how to help the people around you! And most importantly, you'll have found what it means to be you, to be yourself, and how to be the best version of you, the one that you love the most. So keep going, keep fighting, until there's nothing left to fight and you can sail on in a bright world full of amazing people that both you and the world chose. Be you. Because you are loved, you are needed, and you are wanted here. And there is so much left here for you to experience and learn to love 😊
@@Robot9462 I'm glad it helped you ^-^ Never forget that you are loved by someone, and will always be needed by someone, even if you haven't met that person yet You matter, and everything you think and feel will always be valid, no matter who you're talking to Your pain should never be pushed down and minimized, because it's a part of you and should always be recognized 🤍 You are important, and one day many people will see how important you are and how you will change the world and affect the people in it 🫂 That goes for anybody and everybody who reads this and this reply, you all matter and you always will 🤍🫂
The real problem is who actually loves me I have no one my parents are dead my family is gone I don't have any friends who do I have the best conversation I've had lately is with the cashier at the gas station
@@HunterCralle-g4l I'm so sorry to hear about your family But that cashier is someone you could consider to love and be loved by in that friendly way Maybe invite them out sometime to hang out! I know you may not think it, but you're not alone, I promise 🤍🫂
@@Robot9462 I'm glad it helped you, never forget that you matter and are important to someone You are loved, and I hope you are able to fulfill your dreams one day 🫂
watching and listening to this playlist i do care broken,depressed,sad but not quitting,not giving up,and smiling with tears to welcome morning with a cup of coffee or tea to begin work once again
Your strength shines even through tears 🌄☕️. Facing each morning with a smile, despite the pain, shows incredible resilience. Take it one step at a time-you’re stronger than you know. 💪✨
10/12/24 I'm in college. Shocker... I never thought i'd get here, although I never understood why. Going on these videos and seeing people in worse condictions, or see people give motivation where there is none. It, makes me happy of who I became, but also sad I could'nt help others have the same things I have. Or do the same things I do because they've just been dealt a bad hand in life. Maybe a parent left, or died. Maybe they never got together with anyone, or just never fit in. Maybe they were poor, or maybe they never felt the need to do anything more. And I know barely anyone will see this and read it through, so i'll be brief here. No matter how dark a place may be, or how empty it feels. If you look, there are candles to help you guide you way out. Just what I always say, "Messes can be cleaned up, if you put in enough time and effort."
@J.Rs_Angelo that's very selfless of yourself, yet both you and I end up in the same place; one sad, one not. don't forget to love yourself amongst all the love you spread to others, it's the easiest way to end up like myself.
My friends said they cared about me but they never called my number, sent me a text, or even a stupid GIF/meme, whenever I confronted them about it they'd make up some nonsense excuse every time or pretend like they did send me something, the only people I've ever known are cowards who always gaslight me.
This feeling is weird. Since the very first moment all this started it was only a matter of time, sooner or later this would end. We weren't meant for each other, we weren't even close to be something good for each other. But we still tried, we tried for something impossible, and we laughed, and we smiled, and we loved each other, and because of that, we ended everything. Pain, Im in pain of course, but at the same time I feel happy, I feel this is what we should do long time ago, and finally we can start moving on, creating our own lives Of course you cared, you cared about me, and most important you cared about yourself. I'm sorry for not being able to stop this before, but its better now than never. Thank you for caring for me. Thank you for making me happy. Thank you for loving me, and thank you for letting me love you. Is that love what make us able to finally say "no more". Thank you. I love you too. Goodbye
Your journey through pain and happiness is profound. Embrace this transformation as a step toward growth and healing. You are strong, and this ending opens new beginnings. Allow yourself to feel, to heal, and to move forward with love in your heart.
My problems arent important though. Do not worry about me, Im not worth caring about. I will still to the day I die put others before me, their lives are more important.
listen to surat yousuf when you feel out of it and are really at the end of it all, maybe prejudice will stop you but I don't think there is anything to lose this far down the line you can just type into youtube
No , they probably wont. I dunno if you have family, but they might care untill they die, after that you will be forgotten like the greatest men and women of the past that we have no idea about. No one is remembered forever.
I'll just say this. People care about you more than you might think, they just don't express it to you directly. you are loved, there's ALWAYS someone that cares about your well being and what you aspire to become in life. Always. even if you don't think so. Often times we think people don't care about us because that's the idea we put into our head, but that's just in our head. How others view us is different than how we view ourselves. Its what we tell ourselves. You might think this way because they don't ask about you, but deep down they do, you just don't know it. Chin up Andrew, I know we are both strangers to each other, I don't know your story, I won't pretend that I do - but I do understand your position. Everything will be fine, all the best. sending virtual hug. 🤗
@@andrew_sizzle In regards to your second comment. Couldn’t agree more with the thought… but when I hear someone else say it I realize how unhealthy it is. I just want to feel something again. I hope you find your happiness.
To whoever may need it, first off know that we're proud of you for getting up again today. Regardless of the state of your room, how many meals you got in, or how many errands you completed. You are cared about, you are invaluable, and you are wanted. You DESERVE to see tomorrow and be given an opportunity to have something put a smile on your face, even if it's just for a quick moment. I know it might feel like you're completely alone right now and have no one you used to lean on in the picture. I promise, me and just about everyone else in the comments are right there with you battling losses, break ups, pain, and even death. I lost my mom to cancer this year and feel alone most of the time, she was my rock and I miss her every day. This world is cruel and harsh but equally as much it is beautiful. DO NOT let it's evil side win, push through to the good and bring as many as you can with you. Please believe me when I tell you, if you could see a movie of all the good to come and all the people you will share memories and love with, you would never once for a second consider leaving. In the meantime, use the time to heal yourself so you can be ready to be everything you were meant to be for them. It's not a cliche, it's not dumb, you have to learn to love yourself FIRST before everyone else. Speak positive words literally out loud to yourself until your thoughts fall in line. Take yourself to that restaurant you know you like. Give yourself that shower that you know is gonna make you feel better. Go on a walk to that one area near your house you just find peaceful. Start small, one thing at a time, one day at a time, but do something because you deserve it. There is a brighter tomorrow coming and we need you to be there with us to see it happen. Get some sleep, drink some water, and eat a snack. Much love
Thank you for your heartfelt message. Your words are a reminder of the strength we all carry, even in our darkest moments. Healing is a journey, and taking small steps is a powerful way to show yourself love. Remember, you're never truly alone. Keep holding onto hope. 🌈
had another strong disassociative episode today it hit really hard and brought me to tears. i tried to break free of this pain for around nine years now. im 25 now and i still struggle to get by mentally. i know what i currently have is really good but it always feels... empty in my heart. i wonder how many of the people who say they care actually do. i tell myself that they do and im sure they do but my heart that has been shattered for so long in my childhood for things i wont name. im still going but i wish to be free of finding some of my days crying and distancing myself from the people who care even though its out of habit
It’s natural to feel distant and wonder about others' intentions, especially after pain. Trust that healing is a slow journey, and it’s okay to take small steps. Try not to judge yourself too harshly-your journey is a testament to resilience. Let each day be a chance to reconnect, even in small ways.
@heartbroken_club while i definitely agree it sometimes feels like i also fall backwards the more i think when im alone. Thats why i try to put myself around others. I thought it would help but all it does is delay those thoughts that haunt me. Just a moment of peace before im reminded about the things i fear.
life is one crazy thing and its never been harder for me but at the same time its made me realize how much i care for the people around me and want to spend time with them especially since there are so many people i cant do that with anymore
Life can be overwhelming, yet it brings clarity about our connections. Cherish those relationships and make moments count. You're not alone in this journey. Welcome to Heart Broken Club🫂🥺
It's hard, I feel like I should be on top of the world. I've got everything I could care about: I'm traveling the world, my financial situation is good, my family cares about me, good diet/don't really drink, but I feel like I'm hitting a brick wall. Every day it's hard to get out of bed for some reason, and then I shove myself further into a pit for doing nothing with my day. I want to rest, but then I get mad that I'm wasting my day inside. At the end of the day I feel bored with life, even though in retrospect my day-to-day is anything but. I trudge through because I know people care about me, but the hardest part is learning to care for myself. I wonder how it feels to be able to do that naturally...
Don't take what I say as the truth. It's just something that may or may not be happening to you. There is a possibility that you are living the way other people want, not the way you want (deep inside). Because things can bring comfort, status or distraction but not necessarily purpose. Maybe your life lacks something simple but meaningful, like real acceptance/intimacy/friendship/virtue or you can't talk about certain important things to anyone. Maybe this is your body saying: your life is shallow right now and I want it to be deep, then I'll make you feel bad until you find your way again. Or it can be something completely different.
You probably don't need anyone to tell you this. But you actually sound like you need therapy. What you're going through sounds like depression. Some of us have it all, and we still feel like shit, we're just going through the motions without actually living in it at all. You can only bottle it up for only so long, so if I were you I'd seek a professional and talk to them about it.
It's okay to feel this way despite your successes. Sometimes, the pressure to enjoy life can be overwhelming. Focus on small, positive steps each day. Cultivating self-care can transform your experience. Remember, it's a journey, and you're not alone in feeling this way.
I woke up in a bad head space and this feeling suck. I wish everyone who comes across this video, I wish your day improves, there is always more to look forward to in life, never give up!
I take a deep breath. Then let it out. I take another deep breath. Then let the thoughts go. My breath is shaky. My eyes sting. I breath again. I realize yet again how much I've been holding in. Then I breath again. The beat changes. A song ends. I breath again. I don't let it all out. But it's enough for now. Thank you for the playlist. It helped.
I just turned 33, I'm living in the north part of my hometown in a nice apartment but I've never been married. I've got a good job, I get by 8 PM, I do some stretches and drink warm milk before bed. I sleep well enough, don't wake up with fatigue or anything. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't have anything that'd make me lose sleep. I don't have any friends or enemies, I don't care about winning or losing, but I feel like if I did fight, I'd never lose.
Your strength in navigating this loss is truly inspiring. Remember, healing is a journey that takes time, and it's okay to feel the weight of your emotions. Embracing friendships and supporting one another can be a beautiful way to honor your connection with him. Keep focusing on your healing, and know that it's okay to take things one step at a time. You're not alone, and brighter days will come. Sending you warmth and encouragement on this path.
The past few years, I've become extremely confused with who I am, truly. I hate myself. I'm 24 in a few days, and I'm stuck. I've worked the same job for a little over 2 years now, fine with the job, no complaints. I've got my own car fully paid off. My 1 year old credit is very good. I have no debt. Even though I live with my grandma, I pay electric, landscaping, internet, groceries, etc. Even through all of this, I have a deep sense that I *am* lazy, I'm pathetic, I'm never happy, my family doesn't like me because of my laziness, I'm skinnier than skinny could get, I've become unemotional besides from sadness. It feels hard to take a compliment and even harder to smile when someone talks to me. I feel like every single day I'm drifting away. I used to have a large friend group that I tried talking to, it felt like none of them seemed to really care about what I had to say, switching topics, or basically saying something like "you got it! 👍" I can't blame them, on the internet I was a much different person. Very aggressive, very "I don't give a fuck about anything" mentality, but that was far from the truth. I cared about so much, even when I said those things. I began writing in a journal (a year ago) since that's something I've read online about coping, nothing seems to help, if anything it makes me realize even after a year later, I'm feeling the exact same. Re-reading the same thing over and over again. It feels like the journal is just a long list of rambles about the exact same topic(s). I don't know if anyone will bother reading this, but I wanted to maybe just vent this again. To an anonymous audience. Thank you.
acabo de leer un reflejo de como me siento, estoy en mi utlimo año escolar. Toca afrontar la vida, tendré q dejar la pereza que es mi debilidad. Animos para mi mismo, solo espero no desmoronarme.
Do I care? I ask myself this question a lot. Maybe I should care more so I don't lose my way but how can I care when no one else does. Caring about someone, even myself, is hard when i was never shown how to care about myself or others
Do you want to care? is the question. Cause the world feels like a facade and nothing matters. You can set some goals, reach them before you are too old to live comfortably and you eventually die. So do you want to care?
It's completely understandable to feel this way. Learning to care for yourself and others is a journey, especially if you haven't seen it modeled. Start small, and be gentle with yourself. Over time, you can cultivate that care within and create a nurturing space for growth.
feel like ever since she shattered my heart into a million pieces, i've just never been myself since. and it feels like i never will be again unless she either comes back someday or i find someone else to replace her. but who knows it either of those things will ever happen. its been 9 months since it happened. and i only feel like ive only ever so slightly gotten over it, but not really. i still feel like i love her. i still have dreams that are just me and her. are these feelings and thoughts just unable to go away? maybe it really does just show how much i loved her and cared about her, and how i guess still do. in total we were together for a year and 10 months. so we were coming up on two years. and i felt like it was the greatest time of my life. i felt so happy, more then i ever had, and my life was just fine before her, but that year and 10 months, i literally felt like i was on top of the world with her, and i had it all planned out on where i wanted to go and what i wanted to do. we were planning on having me move in with her so i could always be with her to support her in person so she could actually pursue college and not get easily sad and depressed and overwhelmed, because this time i would always be there for her when she came home to love her and help her and support her all the way. and to give her whatever she wanted, to just make her the happiest girl in the whole world. because thats all I've ever wanted for her. but none of that happened. since 9 months ago she shattered my heart, when i still loved her and cared for her deeply, like no other feeling i had ever felt for anyone in my entire life in the entire universe. so because of that, i just feel like ive never been myself since then. and i still feel like i really miss her. like im missing the other half of me. like im empty and not whole anymore. and i just don't know if there's any hope left for me anymore. i just miss you so much. and I'd do anything for a second chance. even if it really is that unlikely of that ever happening.
Gonna turn 19 in a month, yet I still didn't do anything in these past five years. I've started uni this September and actually found some friends for the first time in 9-10 years, but this didn't fix my issues. My friends call me smart for things I've learned when I was around 12, and this makes me remember even more that I didn't do anything since then. The last time I was doing things to improve myself I was a kid, not even much of a teenager, and now I'm an adult.
You may feel alone and meaningless on life, right? 🫂 I can feel you. I have a business. So many responsibility on me, but no one can feel the same way, and i can't tell anyone my stress. Even I tell my friend. They don't understand. However, I think people in the world is same. Everyone have their own problem, that no one can understand, that change my mind to know my issues is not a big problem. I accept it as my destiny. I hope my experience can give you inspiration on your life.
Changing my perspective on life makes this song just feel like nice lobby music. Calm and relaxing music to just sit down and enjoy. Or maybe it’s just supposed to feel that way.
To all, I found the biggest thing that set me free was to learn to forgive and let go. As you can see my name, I've spent many years being hateful and resentful to others that have wronged me or let me down. Forgiveness is so powerful, even if they don't deserve it. Accept people's imperfections and understand you will be hurt; you will be let down and you must forgive and let go.
That's a wonderful achievement! Taking positive steps, no matter how big or small, is crucial for growth and healing. Celebrate this moment and recognize the courage it took to move forward. Keep trusting yourself and your journey; each step will bring you closer to where you want to be.
If you're here, you're likely going through something. Just know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You might be in the darkest part, but keep going and you'll find the light. Take care of yourself, drink water, eat well, and try to get some rest. Love you dawg! 🗿👍
Thank you for sharing such kind words. Life can be hard, but remember, every step forward counts. Keep caring for yourself, and things will get better. You got this, my friend. 🫂💜
no one cares. a common expression these days yet like most expressions it has little basis in reality. the fact is maybe no one cares about you as an individual but they do as a human. "yeah but thats not enough" i know the feeling believe me. i cant tell you things are going to get better. if i did it might turn out to be a lie. what i can tell you is that life with all its misery, loneliness and pain is worthwhile. food is good. sleep is good. the breeze is good. trees are good. life is good. joy is everywhere you just have to look for it. some times you may find yourself blinded by fear or anxiety. you may even get stuck in one place for years. when that happens its okay to take your time, its okay to struggle. its okay to fail a thousand thousand times and if the pain is too much to bear iis okay to retreat for a while until your ready to face the world again. what matters is you push. you dont take it laying down. its okay to fall. its okay to lay on the ground for a while but eventually your going to have to get up. failure is a luxury.
I never understood the suffering of people now that I see these comments something woke me up from this nightmare reality where hell truly becomes true
Awakening to the pain of others can be a heavy burden, but it also opens the door to empathy and connection. Embrace this new awareness as a chance to grow, heal, and share kindness. Your understanding can be a light for others in their darkness.
Thank you for your enduring support! Your presence means a lot to our community. It’s wonderful to see how we’ve grown together. Your journey and insights enrich us all.
just want to check up with everyone in the comments, seems like we all have something similar going on, but atleast we have each other, the positive comments are really helping me as well, thank you to everyone
We all know why we are here. Sometimes it a wound needs to fester. It feels more real or valid when we pay attention to the pain. I think it can be okay to feel that profound sense of empty sadness. One of my favorite things I heard was on a Toonami bump on Adult Swim when I was young. "Now you can lie there for a second, cry a little if you need to, but get back on your feet. Cuz it's the gettin' back up that counts. That's what shows you've got heart. That's what helps keep you goin'." The sadness is only here for a moment. Feel it. But don't give in to it, please.
Acknowledging your pain is a powerful step toward healing. It’s okay to sit with your feelings for a while; they remind us of our humanity. Just as you mentioned, it’s the act of rising again that reveals your strength. Embrace the sadness, but remember it is temporary. You have the heart to keep moving forward. 🌟
damn, the amount of emotional unloading here is insane, I have lived through tough times, and I won't say I know how all of y'all feel, but I hope yall do better, cuz no life is ever a straight line, only ups and downs make it believable. I just want yall to know that I support of yall, even if I don't know your name or user. And if you need to find someone to talk to, I'm available, always.
Yes I did really care but it was torn away from me, killed with cruelty. Now only what's left are freezing wind and serenity in silence. It's really weird to be dead-alive, waiting for the death to finish the work and take my physical self because in me? There's nothing left to take.
Your pain is profound, and it’s okay to feel lost. Remember that healing is a journey, and even in silence, there’s potential for rebirth. There’s light waiting for you to discover it again.
It's already November, I keep making the same mistakes with myself, even when I promised myself to be better, but nothing works, I've been feeling more and more empty and I sink every day into this darkness
Sometimes growth feels slow, like walking through darkness 🌑. But even the smallest steps forward count. Keep being gentle with yourself; healing is a journey, and brighter days are possible 🌅💫
31yrs, trash job, all alone, never been loved by anyone, social anxiety, bullied all my life.. I feel like Im running but without going in any direction.. stuck in a disgraceful life. The question is "Do you really care?".. the answer is.. Not anymore.. my time is over.. If you have a good life.. if you are a normal person with no mental health issues.. if you have mother and father love.. if you have someone that love you and care about you be grateful every single day cuz not everyone are blessed with this things. Its possible I'll not hold on anymore cuz Im so fucking exausted.. I.. I just want to rest.. so if u read this take care and I hope life is be better for you than that was for me. See you all in the other side..
"I have to get things serious"....I have been telling myself since I was at 7th grade but....I'm now at 9th grade and haven't taken things serious yet.....do I care? Yes, I do. But I don't know where to start or even I know I just got distracted.....now all I can do is just sit on my couch and hoping I'm going to take things serious today....
It's completely okay to feel lost at times. Starting small is key-set achievable goals each day, and celebrate those wins. Don’t be hard on yourself; everyone has distractions. Embrace each moment as a new opportunity to grow, and take it one step at a time. You can do this!
I sometimes wonder what the feeling is when you moved back to a state you grew up in.Wondering if some people from school would know or recognize me.There’s a book I’m hoping to start reading called “The subtle art of not giving a F***”. By far it’s surreal and it sometimes feels terrible from nostalgia.I only hope that I made the right decision from moving and I’m slowly flapping my own wings without my family’s help.
yeah i felt that too. wonder what the feeling is when you moved back to your old home. but then, if you think that more deeply, if you move back to your old place, the people you saw in your childhood is not there anymore. same as to your old school. your once called classmates could have forget about you cuz people are constantly growing up and older. i always said to myself that “i just love an idea of it in my mind, not as the real thing.”
After seeing all of my friends have success on their lives im happy for them but kinda sad too. While im still the same old from 6 years ago who trying to break the lock, im still trying.
I'm still young but it's weird I lost my father not because he died but because he just kept letting me down. Every time he said he was coming to see me I got exited and then when he didn't show up I cried. But after a while I just stopped... feeling sadness. It's very strange to live with this because I just don't have empathy. I thought about death but I just never could I was too scared that death was just none existence. With my dad not being around I lost two people I thought were siblings, a younger brother and a older sister, I didn't see them for years and when we finally talked we had nothing in common and were on different paths. I feel a hole in my heart a whole that can't be filled. I keep trying new things and the hole is there all the way. My family/friends don't know about this, I feel alone, even with my loving mother and step father the hole stays open. I just wish my dad would turn his life around and be there for me, even writing this I feel nothing, empty. I have been through two divorces and seen my dad on a hospital bed after a car wreck, after the wreak I am not even sure if it's him, He looks different and has even told me he feels like he just picked up where somebody else left off. I haven't seen him or talked with him for around a year now. I feel the pressure of expectation and see my dreams leaving me. I feel as though I put on a mask that can never be removed, I don't even know who I am anymore. I have a container inside me, it holds all that sadness that i don't feel and recently it has started to reach it's limit and pour out, I tried making it bigger but that didn't help it just delayed it and now even that is full. My mom always asks me why i am so destructive but I think it's just a release of that sadness. I keep remembering all the time I spent with my dad and when I do I feel the container crack, I think I am about to break soon, I don't know how much longer my container can hold up. If you are wonder I don't mean kill myself when I say break, I think I will just lose everything, my friends/family/life. I used to love going to my dad's side of the family when I was younger. They were poor but i was still fed and had a lot of fun. Now that I am older I can see that they use drugs. One of my uncles even died. My dad's mother is a slave to vapes and drugs and even put it above me when I was around. My dad's dad just sits on his bed all day watching anime rotting. My dad's living brother is also a slave to vapes. I had a cousin that I loved to hang out with and I would walk with her at my dad's grandmother's house. I haven't seen her in who knows how long, I miss her. I don't even remember her name. My great grandmother on my dad's side lived with two other old ladies, I thought of them as my great grandmothers as well but every visit one more would be gone, I didn't even get to go to their funerals, now it's just my great grandmother alone in a house in a forest. My mom didn't see her father either. I have two step dads(One married to my mom, one alone) and I go to family gatherings with both of them to their sides of the family. Even time I go I think about my dad's family, my blood family and feel the hole inside me grow and my container fill and crack even more. I have so many expectation that I just want to give up. I am supposed to go to pass high school with a 4.0, take all AP classes, and do awards like DS and DSG. i am expected to go to collage and graduate. I am expected to have a family when I get older. I am supposed to be a multimillionaire before the age of 25. I am expected to be the strongest man around me. I am expected to never cry or be weak. I just feel myself slipping away and a shell taking my place. All the things that bring me joy don't anymore, I have a ton of bad habits, I don't even know what to do with my life. My escapes from reality are shot down by my family. I want to learn a new language and they told me that I should learn a different one, I told them that I wanted to learn this one and they instead offer no support. Everyone sees me as this kind, smart, young man but they don't see the cracks in my container or the mask I put on. I just don't know how much longer I can do this. I don't know if I can keep going like this, I want to ask for help but I am to afraid. I keep getting told to reach out and find help, but if I reach out the people I know will find out about this. You want to know something funny about lacking sadness, it takes love with it, I don't feel a connection with anyone. I don't love my family, my friends, or even myself, I just can't love. What I need more than anything in the world as a woman to hold me while I cry in their arms and tell me it is all going to be ok but I feel once I do that she would leave me in search of a stronger man not that I even have a girlfriend. I feel like everything I do is not good enough, I feel that i will never reach any of my own goals. I just can't anymore, I can't with goals, expectation, I can't with sadness, and love, I can't with life anymore but I don't want to feel the cold grasp of death. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Live life to the fullest, take every day exactly as it is- one single day. Sometimes it's short, sometimes it's long, sometimes it doesn't even feel like a day. Do things that make you happy, beyond just an escape. Do everything as if you're trying your best to live without regret. Get yourself out there, for yourself. Work to buy things that you want, take classes because they are interesting to you. The people you'll find yourself surrounding you will all be divisions of the life you live, and if you want a super cool girlfriend or friends to hang out with, you gotta be that person to yourself first.
Your pain and emptiness are deeply felt, and it's okay to express these emotions. Acknowledge the cracks in your container-they are signs of growth and healing. Seeking help is a courageous step. Remember, vulnerability is not weakness; it's a bridge to deeper connections. You are worthy of love and understanding. Reach out when you can, and know that it's never too late to find support. Your feelings matter, and you are not alone in this journey.
Ive been in a 3-year LDR relationship, which was a rollercoaster ride for sure, but the longer, it went stale for me. As a fresh college student, I was focussing on making more new friends, busy with assignments, and all. Not long after we called it off for real. With me getting pressured by my parents and also being unable to keep up with her demands, we broke up. A girl from my college DM'ed me, hinting that she liked me like 5 to 6 months later after I broke up, but I can't reply to her confession either. I just can't love anymore. Idk, maybe I'm just going to stay single for the rest of my youth and find a better one after I started working.
It's understandable to feel overwhelmed after a significant relationship ends. Give yourself the grace to heal and rediscover your sense of self. Embrace this time for growth and learning; love will find you again when you’re ready. Remember, your worth is not defined by others.
Man I am 26 now and feel like I wasted my time on the wrong things. My parents always told me to get financially stable in life. So I focused most of my time around making money and buying a house, but now that I have all of that I don't have anyone to share it with. It just feels empty and I can't muster up any courage to go outside and meet someone, because I never learned to do that my entire life, it was always just work. I feel like I am trapped in my comfort zone. As a kid I always just rolled my eyes at the saying "money isn't everything in life" but now I finaly understand it. For what did I put in all this work if I am all alone with it in the end. I know all I have to do is go outside but there is nothing worse for me than to be in a huge group of people that I don't know. So I reached a dead end. I can't go outside but I won't get anywhere without doing so. I slowly feel like I am just gonna stay like this till I am old and dusty
Hey, I hear you 🫂💜. It’s never too late to step out of that comfort zone, even in small ways. Try connecting with one new person at a time. Growth happens in tiny steps, not leaps . You’re not stuck forever-just take one step today. ☯️
I got angry at my brother’s wife once, and he moved across the country. He wont answer his phone, and his texts feel empty like she’s over his shoulder to make sure he doesnt say anything out of line. He makes our mom cry everyday, and I cant change anything. I’ve never felt so powerless in my life
May good come to everyone's way this year, and may you have something good to look forward to. Whether it be opportunities, changes in lifestyle or some form of good will that'll last through the good and the bad when you need it most.
Sometimes the hardest words people need to hear are the ones that should make us smile and happy. Not because we need it or want it necessarily. But because we somewhere in our head have just never heard it or couldn't bring ourselves to say it to ourselves. So when someone else says BRILLIANT, or something else positive, it is at that point you know that positive words can truly be a blessing and that's what it's all about. Bringing care starts with more than just positive actions. You got to have the actions with the love and care of good intent and wishes. So starting out this next upcoming year, I want to see other people's smiles and happiness more than my own. To see other people find a spark that makes their world filled with joy and vividness unlike any other. To see a world so bleak see rays of light in the innermost part of ourselves. Sometimes it's hard to see that and it's a way to ask the question about truly caring. @@heartbroken_club
21 years old, lost my last job, failed in getting other 2 after, all my friend are gatting maried, getting their home and acchiving lots of things while i can't even get out of the point i am stuck for the last years. Everyone around me makes me fell like crap and i fell guilty for this because most of the time they are good to me but i can't even look at their face because i fell they will be desapointed sooner or later and will give up on me, my mother, my friends and my girfriend all deserve a better person and i can't manege to be this better person. My sleep schedules are like crap lately, i can't focus on anything, i keep trying to be better and know i can't just give up but sometimes (Most of the time realy) i kind of just want it all to end. Think a just kind of needed to put it out somewere.
Your feelings are valid, and it's okay to express them. Remember, growth takes time, and it's essential to be gentle with yourself. Seek support from loved ones or professionals who can help you navigate this journey. You are worthy of love and understanding.
After 9 long years our friend group finally split up and I’m sorry to Mason, Jacob, Abraham if I was annoying or hard to be around I was just so so hurt
It's natural to feel hurt after a long friendship ends. Remember, healing takes time. Apologizing shows your care; it's a step towards understanding. Surround yourself with those who support you and allow yourself to process these emotions. You’re not alone in this journey.
I'm turning 21 this year but i cant take college seriously because of my mental health and it sucks to let this side of me to see my family i don't want to put any burden to my mother but i can't really make them my inspiration again when i fking studied hard and hard and be productive about it i just pursue my damn selfish dream to become a pro artist and not supporting my middle class family, life so sucks and the process of it is hard ,brutal and it hurts emotional
bro you should look it from the other prospective, maybe by achieving your dream will allow you to support them aswell, your are the golden ticket if you want to
It’s brave to acknowledge your struggles and prioritize your mental health. Remember, pursuing your dreams doesn’t make you selfish; it’s a part of your journey. Allow yourself to feel and heal. Your passion for art can inspire both you and your family in ways you may not yet see. You are not alone in this.
We shared our hearts and loved one another. But I was the one who became scared and afraid of everything changing so quickly. I don't know if I was right or wrong... I don't even know if I was even ready. All I know is that I hope she's alright and living her life the best she can.
It's natural to feel scared amidst change. Remember, your feelings are valid. Trust your journey and cherish the love shared. Wishing her well brings healing.
For anyone who needs to hear this: I love your hair or lack of I love your forehead I love your eyebrows or lack of I love your eyelashes or lack of I love your eyes I love your ears I love your nose I love your cheeks l love your mouth I love your laugh I love your teeth or lack of I love your chin I love your neck I love your shoulders I love your chest I love your arms I love your hands Ilove your tummy I love your hips I love your thighs Ilove your knees I love your shins I love your feet (not in that way.) I love your moles/marks I love your scars I love your voice I love what you do I love your personality I love you on your good days I love you on your bad days I love you when you when you wear makeup I love you when you don't wear makeup. I love your skin I love you when you're sad I love you when you're mad I love you when you're happy I love you when you hate me I love you when you love me I love you when you forget me I'm proud of you for getting some sleep I'm proud of you for trying to sleep I'm proud of you for waking up I'm proud of you for getting up I'm proud of you for brushing your teeth I'm proud of you for tending toward your braces I'm proud of you for doing your hair I'm proud of you for washing your face I'm proud of you for doing skin care I love you for doing your makeup (if youwear it) I'm proud of you that you got out of your room I'm proud of you for getting dressed I'm proud of you TRYING to eat breakfast. I'm proud of you for being clean I'm proud of you for trying to be clean I'm proud of you for being alive I'm proud of you for being a good friend I won't judge you for your looks I won't judge you from your race I won't judge you for your life I won't judge you for your family I won't judge you for your past/childhood I won't judge you for your body I won't judge you for your body I won't judge you for your tears I wont judge you for your age I won't judge you for your sexual orientation I wont judge you for your gender I wont judge you for your money I won't judge you for where you come from I won't judge you for your language You aren't ugly You aren't too fat You aren't too skinny You aren't annoying You aren't mean You aren't evil You aren't crazy You aren't weird You aren't worthless You aren't scary You aren't selfish You aren't too feminine You aren't too masculine You aren't too young You aren't too old You aren't disgusting You aren't a doormat You aren't a toy You aren't a monster You are beautiful You are pretty You are handsome You are kind You are cool You are everything you want to be You aren't perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes I wont judge you for anything I'm so proud of you I love you. Now it's your turn to share this message.
if you're feeling down, dont listen to sad music, only makes it worse. go outside, get some sunlight and water, it'll help improve your mood. go for walks. or even better, workout. if you feel confused, write down your thoughts. talk to people. hang in there, everyone has dark chapters in their lives, understand it and learn from it, it'll make you stronger for future struggles.
Life can be unpredictable and painful. It's okay to grieve this loss. Allow yourself to feel and heal. Remember, love remains in our hearts even after parting.
30 yo moved in with a friend of mine to get on my feet. Totaled my car, had to find a new second job, the girl I love got pregnant by someone else and I can't even fathom taking care of them because I feel like she's still interested and fucking with other men since we're not together. Insecurities. The depressions keeping me from taking care of business and legal shit and it's a struggle to try going to the gym like I love. Can't even play apex like I used too. I want to take care of myself but it's a process and I can't rush it. God willing everything falls into place and I can be happy n confident again. It'll take a lot of work. Luckily I have some great friends, family and music for support through this low time. Thanks for listening I just wanted to let it all out
It’s brave of you to express your feelings. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Lean on your support system, take small steps toward self-care, and let music be a guiding light. Trust that brighter days are ahead as you work through this process.
18 anos, agora são 01:02am, estou no trabalho (home office), trabalhando agora pq passei o dia todo procrastinando, eu realmente não gosto desse trabalho mas é oque eu tenho pra fazer, tudo que eu queria era uma vida simples, um apartamento, gatos, um video game, café quentinho e paz... daqui 2 meses eu me formo na escola, vou continuar no trabalho que estou por um tempo mas não sei oque fazer depois. estou cansado...
It's okay to feel overwhelmed. 🌌 As you approach graduation, remember that every step brings you closer to your dreams. 🌟 Embrace the simple joys-your ideal life is possible! 🏡🐾 Take time to breathe, and know that peace is within reach. ☕✨
So far the trick I have learnt to beat it all sadly is to have no expectations not a single one. The universe doesn't care about you and you shouldn't care about it either. Just do what you gotta do and life will sort itself out. Once you put any sort of crazy expectation on something you are seeing I yourself up to fail. Anyone who disagrees with this is just lying to themselves or hasn't hit that solid stone brick wall yet. But they will everybody does at some point in their life. Everybody.
Man I'm 31.. My wife divorce me last tuesday... and we live together in a condo.. My life feels like its spiring down a hill. I don't know what to do.. She's giving me HOT and cold answers. Days where she acts like my wife.. and days where she acts like nobody... I don't understand .. I spoiled her and wasted $500 to show her how sorry I was and we should work on this.. but she keep telling me she don't love me and detached from me.. and it hurts day by day.. I honestly.. keep trying to fight to show her I love her.. If I leave this condo.. she pays the bills herself.. she would have NO CAR.. and can't get to work without a bus.. I feel bad if I did something like this to her.. because I genuinely love and support her from the bottom of my heart.. and I don't know what I should do..
I say you try to listen to her problems and why she feels so indifferent towards you, try to change that and make the effort. But if that doesn't work sadly their isn't much you can do. A friend once said to me that a relationship is like a bird, it needs two wings to fly and it one gives up it's just gonna bring both down to ground, into a state of despair. You gotta value your partner but also yourself. Hope your marriage works out, best of luck 👊
man, i was divorced too by momma boy. like your story. i amma women, no car, pay the bills alone later on, give up my kid to his family or they will gaslighting my living work.
"Have you ever heard the definition of insanity? Insanity is doing the same shit... over and over again hoping... that things will change... That. Is. Madness." - Vaas Montenegro
I don't deserve to be loved, every relationship I had I destroyed them just by being myself whether it's friends or gf I just ruin my recent one with my gf and she was my everything she was the perfect girl and I had to fuck it up...
it gets better man. I fuck up every relationship too and my friend is in a similar place. We may be unattractive but, life is still worth living you are alive and breathing for a reason. You may not understand it yet but, you were chosen to live in this beautiful yet ugly world we called Earth and you will find your purpose my friend.
@@alexhall2754 You dont know if live is worth living, you dont know the guy, he might be in such deep shit that its not worth it. If you can pay for a roof over your head and have food, and do something you enjoy sure.
@@Dexyu or maybe he could be in a situation where there IS hope. Why shut down other's attempts to help other people? Do you think you're making a positive impact? Think about it .
holy cornball. shut up. you right your life is pointless. you have no direction in life and no future waiting at the finish line. And when its all over. you will be alone. no friends. no lover. give up before you are ahead of yourself you attention seeking cornball
It’s easy to feel unworthy after loss, but remember, your true self is deserving of love. Healing takes time. Embrace your journey, and allow yourself to grow from these experiences. You are not alone.
Anyone else here feels like finally giving up but there’s so much pressure on you constantly that you can’t? Same. I honestly just want to go to sleep forever. My ex cheated on my for 7 months out of our 11 month long relationship. There was so much lying and manipulation. It’s been about a year since we broke up and I’ve had to suffer in silence because we weren’t supposed to be together. Our parents didn’t like us together. I still haven’t gotten over her because before I could get all my answers she ghosted me. I’ll never forget how I spent Valentine’s Day alone, while she spent it with the guy she was cheating on me with. She said they grew and changed as people together. She said she still loved me just “differently”. I just think back on all those good times and think about how they were all lies. I told her that my biggest fear was dying alone and she said that as long as she was there that wouldn’t happened. Look at where we are now. That’s only a small part of my problems now. There’s so much shit going on and it feels like I’m drowning. Struggling to uphold everyone’s expectations. I just want to sleep and live peacefully in my dreams where I can be happy for more than 2 minutes at a time. Where I’m not constantly reminded of my inadequacies. I was SA’d and nobody knows. I told some friends I thought I could trust and got blown off and laughed at. Friends leave me so often I stopped having best friends because I know they’d leave. Why didn’t I tell my parents about my SA? Well I tried telling them once about being groped and they blew it off. My mom has called me lesser than a gnat so why would she care. My dad has called me a disappointment so why would he care. Sorry for typing all this out. Sorry if it jumps around a lot. Feel free to ignore my comment.
Bro ik love feels good and stuff you love her and stuff but she's not the right person bro fr idk what's your age but if your below 25 you got soo much to achieve don't loose hope and the next thing is if your friends make fun of you friend new friends you can trust it's simple and don't expose your stuff to everyone only to some of your close friends keep working hard for your parents they will appreciate it so start working and one day everyone will love you and someone will love you like a king
I hear your pain and confusion. Remember, it's okay to seek help and share your feelings. Healing begins when you acknowledge your struggles. You're not alone, and you deserve compassion and support.
@@Griseofulvin779 I really don’t miss her anymore. Just the good times we had and knowing that I’ll never get that back. I’m 18 and in college and I made the mistake of enrolling in 5 classes and the weight and stress they put on me and killing me. I haven’t been able to have a stress free day in over 2 months.
@@heartbroken_club Thank you, It’s an honor just to get a response back. There’s so much more I could’ve added to my initial comment. I really need a therapist because I don’t really have anyone to reach out to that is willing to hear me talk about my problems.
The only reason I live is because of my friends and family. i would never hurt them. but i live on empty. im only 19, i understand it gets better. i just feel hopeless. i dont wanna call it depression, just sadness. no job, yes friends, i go to a junior college, i do track. but i just feel sad, so hopeless. i feel like i have no meaning. i just have a missing piece in my heart. the cycle just keeps repeating. i wake up, practice, homework, play games with my friends from home, sleep. i just don't know where i'm going. i live such a good life, people love me, i don't understand.
Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’re failing. 💜☯️ Sometimes life feels like a loop, but meaning often grows quietly. 🫂🎆 Celebrate small joys, and trust the missing piece will find you. 💤✨
I don't really care anymore, the least amount of frig I give is to me living lol. I may have a job, a stable income, and pull through my family through the hardest times. I gradually got to know how much they'd care. If the people that gave me life don't care whom am I to care. There's only one person that'd showed that they do gaf and honestly, I'm still here for them. The moment that thread is gone :) I've lost my teenage, and most of my youth over work and earning pennies. My only hobbies being wasting time on crap like anime and games lol. I bet no one would even remember me even within my own family lol
I'm an apathetic person by nature, when I say I care about you, it means something different. I'm not chemical in my connections with the people I love, so I'm decisive instead. I love you out of conscious choice rather than the non verbal strings that bind people together, all that is the normal impulse that we see in the movies. I chose love you because you have shown me that you are a safe place, In conflict to all the dangers that surround me. I cannot love you chemically, I fear that you may want that of me, and leave me if I can't. So help me feel a little safer in my care, and maybe, just maybe, I can let my chemistry win over the fear barriers built over years in my mind.
I have family and friends that care about me. They’re the main reason I’m still here. I’m going to get meds tomorrow so I can hopefully get these thoughts out of my mind. But I can’t help but wonder if they would be better off if I wasn’t here
It’s truly heartwarming to hear that you have family and friends who care about you; they see your value even when you might not. Seeking help through medication is a courageous step toward healing. Remember, your presence matters more than you realize, and your loved ones would feel the void if you weren’t there. Take it one day at a time. You’re not alone in this journey. 💖
This is my first time ever writing about my vulnerabilities to the internet. idk really know how to feel often. Ive been taking meds to calm my anxiety and depressive episodes down; it is working well. But there are times where past memories still linger, past trauma, deep pain on my chest. It is not surprising that right now and in the future, ill have days where everything seems hopeless and bland. Is it truly okay to feel like this? to let this flow in and out of my mind? does it feel like all the work, in taking medication, makes it worthless?
I don't really know what you've been through and going through so I can't give you the best advice. But for me past traumas take a while to get over I mean I guess you may recover but you never truly get over it. There's gonna be days that are miserable but just keep going one day at a time. Things will get better even if it doesn't seem like it you just gotta have hope you know. Yeah it's okay to feel like this sometimes but you gotta look at the positive things in life. It's the small things that matter. Just keep going no matter how worthless it may seem because your worth it. Hopefully everything turns out good for you I wish you nothing but the best.
Hello there. I had something like you have. Just tried to live without any attention on all of it for years. But one day I'd realized, it was time to change something so I tried to make my thoughts busy with something. And that something was a way to build me better. In my case it was a gym. Sometimes we have issues we can't resolve but we can try to switch our toughts for something else. I hope it will work for you as it work for me.
It’s perfectly okay to feel this way. Healing isn’t linear, and past pain can resurface. Your efforts with medication are valuable; embrace your feelings as part of the journey. You’re not alone. Keep reaching out for support.
The world has a tendency to balance the good with the bad, I spent about 3 years unemployed after I lost my apartment, then saw a parent betray me for their private fame. I had no way out, but I took a chance on new friends. 2 of the 3 years was spent with them and for all their support I still felt empty. No girlfriend, no job, no degree, and no way forward. I was in my darkest place for those 2 years thinking about what happened but I pushed through my darkness.
I finally got a job to pay back my friends for the place to live, but felt overwhelmed from 40+ hours I thought I wanted, I worked for 4 months to prove my dilligence. My boss approved my part time so I could have a social life as well as professional. Now Im about to go on my first date in 8 years.
Moral here: Do not let your darkest roots take place, fight on and if you need help, ASK. You are stronger with others, we are evolved to be social creatures and even introverts need to talk with friends often. If you can get through the hard times, your brightest moments will come but you have to want it and not wait for it. You have to earn it and strive for your happiness especially when its hard
Take chances my friends, they might just work out
Thank you for sharing your journey of resilience and hope. Your courage to seek connection and push through the darkness is truly inspiring. Remember, every step you take toward your happiness is a victory. Keep embracing opportunities and trust that brighter days are ahead. You are never alone in this journey.
This hits too close to home. I came home from a deployment last year, I signed right before graduating and went a deployment not long after. I've been home and I'm separating from the army. I'm 21 now, but I've been unemployed aside from the army, I've never felt so lost in my entire life, I don't even have my liscense as I never got it during highschool and life has just been chaos. Now that the dust is settled it feels like I've been blinded. I don't know my purpose in life or what I want to do with myself. I have a complicated relationship with god but that's something I've been struggling with. Even if I do get my liscense I'm still just lost. I've never really had any real career interests. My life is just a void rn, I feel like I'm trapped in my own mind.
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nah you r amazing bro, take care
@@Matthew-nd2iq get close to God brother and take some time to think things through find what you wanna do in life trust me brother you have a purpose out there i wish you the best of lucks and i trust on gods timing brother things will get better matthew :)
20 years old, no job, no studies... everyone around me become independent, but I Still live with my parents... I feel... empty...
Édit : Alright guys hum… thank you for the support yall give to me… it realmy helped me feel better… thank you all
@@blacks7159 I've been where you are. At some point you have to realize to not gauge yourself based of what others around you are doing. You need to focus on yourself. The change you want will only come from within you.
Dam, man that's really sad
But that doesn't mean everything is hopeless, that YOU are hopeless, cuz is ain't like that
I've got lot's of shit on me too.
But, I hope, I really hope that two of us (and even more of us)
I hope that we WILL make it
That everything is gonna be alright in our lives
you a loser bro holy moly. How are you so cooked. Start studying or something. how you got no studies. You got no hairline or jawline either i bet
And you're the one with the biggest advantage, use your loneliness to grow, get a skill and get damn good at it, then grow again. I was in exactly the same position my life at 20 years old. Still feels like yesterday.
I'll do you one better:
I have a bachelor's degree in Computer Science, I am employed... and I still live with my parents, at 28.
It's been tough for everyone, you still have time to turn stuff around.
You'll realise how much you cared about something until the very moment you lost it.
True
So how do u know if u care about ur life 😢 ?
@@undertakerkillerfrost1489 Try ending it, if you feel like you're going to leave behind *something* in your life then that's how you know that you actually cared about something in your life.
True didn't realise, the girl that I loved left me after 3 years. I never tought that it would be so painful.
real
i'm turning 30 this month and i feel like i haven't even began to get my life in order. my goals are slipping further and further away from me yet i'm already drowning in work. no one to come home to. no one to tell my stories to and no one to remember i even existed in the first place. this music brings out the things i wanted to bury so long ago yet i'm drawn to things like this over and over again
Hang in there, life gets difficult and I was in the same boat as you except with no job + debt. Focus on yourself more and you can do it
im praying for u
good luck, things will iron themselves out eventually I'm sure
I'm in a similar boat brother. You're likely trying your best too, but it's hard to keep that up everyday when we don't feel seen or appreciated from time to time.
I wish I had some advice for you, but I don't.
the pain you be feeling is unbearable..im sorry you're going through that all alone.
"One of the greatest tragedies in life is that you will always be loved more than you will ever know. Maybe someone in class finds your presence inviting and warm, even if you have only ever exchanged a few words - maybe none at all. Maybe someone on the street loves your smile, and it gets them through the next few streets. Or maybe someone noticed you weren't on the bus you usually take, missing the sight of your mere presence. Or someone you used to be friends with wishes - even if only for a fleeting moment - to relive the cheerful friendship you once shared, to be able to call your name just once more. Or maybe someone at work is disappointed when you aren't there to brighten their day after hearing that you won't show up today.
We tend to think that we have disappeared for good when we are no longer in the picture, but ultimately, we have never left the frame."
Thats very wise words pal, I hope you're having a great life, and that your loved by all.
@@kennethjohnson8469 Thank you :D Wishing you a happy life filled with love as well.
cornball
nah i hate everyone and everyone hates me
Alan Watts
I've been doing really well for myself lately. I got a good job I like a few months ago it pays well and its been a blast learning something new and complex making my brain work everyday. I'm not a workaholic but i enjoy my time off from work to spend with friends and family. it suck because i came home today and my dog was missing a small chunk out of her ear and she is getting old and i try not to worry about it. It's hard to though life has bumps in the road and today is one of those for me this is just a reminder that no mater how hard it gets always keep moving forward there is going to be a new moment... a new day.
try to find someone to marry and get kids
i needed that thanks..
keep on going man. just like you said, keep going. there are times even i've been at my worst state and just going on eventually brings the light into the dark when you need it the most. hope the dog is well and i hope things go greatly for your future, mate.
thanks bro
u got this homie keep going strong and sometimes its okay to depend on others too so remember that
Just want to thank you to the people giving positive affirmation to those of us who doesn't get that from anyone in our lives. We really needed those words
dang you matter bro dont doubt yourself, you can do it 👍❤
The world is always trying to tear each other apart. What harm will be done if I just want to put a piece of it back.
People don't tell the truth often, it's easy to spew the most basic positive affirmations without putting any thought or care into it because it's easy attention and you immediately land yourself on everyone's good side, so to me the positive stuff if the most repulsive, I don't want lies so I'd rather people tell me to end myself because at least that's 100% the truth.
THANKYOU💜🫂
@@anirudhraman8036you guys matter too
Be proud you made it this far, let's keep going. Even if we fall, even if we are alone, the future is not written in stone.
Be proud of yourself, if you can't, be sure I'm proud of you. Take this little confidence and face your dreams.
Be proud of the road you took, because when I can't be of mine, at least I can be of yours.
Be proud, because there is only one you.
Be proud.
Recomended song: Blooming in the mood - Wolpis Carter
I have been helped a lot by that song.
Thank you friend 🥰💝💖
THANKYOU💜🫂
Really don't know what I'm doing anymore. I hate to sound like a debbie downer and whatnot, but it really is just a struggle to get through my day-by-day. I'd consider myself a pretty tough person---rather, I don't crumble easily whatsoever---but it feels like I've hit an impassable wall that I don't want to scale anymore. Feels like all this stress is clouding my mind, and I'm just a wet puddle of existence floating around in some dark, endless void.
change it live a little you don't need to push yourself too hard. Make slightly improvement, don't worry everything will be fine mate. You got this
Hi there, stranger. Here is another stranger wishing you some respite; lots of blessing for you. ♥
I felt like that quite a bit last year. It felt like everything was just closing in around me. I feel like there is always that one random, that one friend, that one family member, that one mentor, or that one moment in life that helps us get through. Despite my pain I try to take everyone small victory and run with it. U got this.
lowkey just stated word for word how im feeling these days. Sorry to hear another person's going through something like this. I know a lot of ppl prolly do because its natural and whatnot but still, im sorry bro.
It’s okay to feel lost and overwhelmed. Remember, even the toughest souls encounter obstacles. Take small steps, breathe, and allow yourself to feel. Healing takes time; you're not alone in this journey. Seek light in the small moments.
Just a friendly reminder to anybody who may be struggling today:
You are doing great! You've made it so far, and I know that you'll be able to get even further! If you fail, all you need to do is get right back up and keep going, it doesn't matter how many times you fall.
There is always someone waiting for you on the horizon of tomorrow, even if you feel alone. You are loved, you are needed, and you are wanted.
If you're thinking of giving up, don't! Look around you and see how many bright colors are around you, and if you can't see them yet, know that you'll see them soon. All you have to do is look, and the world will give them right to you!
You might be fighting today, but tomorrow maybe you'll be able to sit down and say "I'm glad I kept going."
Your story doesn't end with an " I give up."
It will always end with a "What's next?"
So keep going, and find your next adventure. Maybe you'll find more than just treasure at the end of this road. Maybe you'll find friends and family you would have never expected! You'll grow and learn how to help the people around you! And most importantly, you'll have found what it means to be you, to be yourself, and how to be the best version of you, the one that you love the most.
So keep going, keep fighting, until there's nothing left to fight and you can sail on in a bright world full of amazing people that both you and the world chose.
Be you. Because you are loved, you are needed, and you are wanted here. And there is so much left here for you to experience and learn to love 😊
Thank you for this comment, its been hard recently but reading it made me release tears that I had been holding back for to long.
@@Robot9462 I'm glad it helped you ^-^
Never forget that you are loved by someone, and will always be needed by someone, even if you haven't met that person yet
You matter, and everything you think and feel will always be valid, no matter who you're talking to
Your pain should never be pushed down and minimized, because it's a part of you and should always be recognized 🤍
You are important, and one day many people will see how important you are and how you will change the world and affect the people in it 🫂
That goes for anybody and everybody who reads this and this reply, you all matter and you always will 🤍🫂
The real problem is who actually loves me I have no one my parents are dead my family is gone I don't have any friends who do I have the best conversation I've had lately is with the cashier at the gas station
@@HunterCralle-g4l I'm so sorry to hear about your family
But that cashier is someone you could consider to love and be loved by in that friendly way
Maybe invite them out sometime to hang out!
I know you may not think it, but you're not alone, I promise 🤍🫂
@@Robot9462 I'm glad it helped you, never forget that you matter and are important to someone
You are loved, and I hope you are able to fulfill your dreams one day 🫂
watching and listening to this playlist i do care broken,depressed,sad but not quitting,not giving up,and smiling with tears to welcome morning with a cup of coffee or tea to begin work once again
Your strength shines even through tears 🌄☕️. Facing each morning with a smile, despite the pain, shows incredible resilience. Take it one step at a time-you’re stronger than you know. 💪✨
10/12/24
I'm in college. Shocker... I never thought i'd get here, although I never understood why. Going on these videos and seeing people in worse condictions, or see people give motivation where there is none. It, makes me happy of who I became, but also sad I could'nt help others have the same things I have. Or do the same things I do because they've just been dealt a bad hand in life. Maybe a parent left, or died. Maybe they never got together with anyone, or just never fit in. Maybe they were poor, or maybe they never felt the need to do anything more.
And I know barely anyone will see this and read it through, so i'll be brief here.
No matter how dark a place may be, or how empty it feels. If you look, there are candles to help you guide you way out. Just what I always say, "Messes can be cleaned up, if you put in enough time and effort."
Proud of you, you are doing great, thank you
@@Fazbreaker I always try my best for others.
@J.Rs_Angelo that's very selfless of yourself, yet both you and I end up in the same place; one sad, one not. don't forget to love yourself amongst all the love you spread to others, it's the easiest way to end up like myself.
@@Fazbreaker I’ll try…
@@J.Rs_Angelo love you, whether you love yourself or not I love you, you're doing great keep up the amazing work
She said she cared about me, but she left me without even a goodbye
x2
Same here.
x3
x4.
My friends said they cared about me but they never called my number, sent me a text, or even a stupid GIF/meme, whenever I confronted them about it they'd make up some nonsense excuse every time or pretend like they did send me something, the only people I've ever known are cowards who always gaslight me.
1 hour lying down trying to sleep, but only thinking about the mistakes I made...
Mistakes feel heavy at night, but remember, they’re lessons, not definitions of who you are. Be kind to yourself; tomorrow is a fresh start. 🫂💜
This really made me think man *Cough* "Those really were the days"
This feeling is weird. Since the very first moment all this started it was only a matter of time, sooner or later this would end. We weren't meant for each other, we weren't even close to be something good for each other. But we still tried, we tried for something impossible, and we laughed, and we smiled, and we loved each other, and because of that, we ended everything. Pain, Im in pain of course, but at the same time I feel happy, I feel this is what we should do long time ago, and finally we can start moving on, creating our own lives
Of course you cared, you cared about me, and most important you cared about yourself. I'm sorry for not being able to stop this before, but its better now than never. Thank you for caring for me. Thank you for making me happy. Thank you for loving me, and thank you for letting me love you. Is that love what make us able to finally say "no more".
Thank you. I love you too. Goodbye
My god, this is too real😭
Bye
Your journey through pain and happiness is profound. Embrace this transformation as a step toward growth and healing. You are strong, and this ending opens new beginnings. Allow yourself to feel, to heal, and to move forward with love in your heart.
1 hour im just sitting. Ty u
Glad you liked it! ❤️🩹💜
same
I could die tonight and not a single person would care. Praying it will get better is starting to become an impossible dream.
My problems arent important though. Do not worry about me, Im not worth caring about. I will still to the day I die put others before me, their lives are more important.
listen to surat yousuf when you feel out of it and are really at the end of it all, maybe prejudice will stop you but I don't think there is anything to lose this far down the line you can just type into youtube
No , they probably wont. I dunno if you have family, but they might care untill they die, after that you will be forgotten like the greatest men and women of the past that we have no idea about. No one is remembered forever.
I'll just say this. People care about you more than you might think, they just don't express it to you directly. you are loved, there's ALWAYS someone that cares about your well being and what you aspire to become in life. Always. even if you don't think so. Often times we think people don't care about us because that's the idea we put into our head, but that's just in our head. How others view us is different than how we view ourselves. Its what we tell ourselves. You might think this way because they don't ask about you, but deep down they do, you just don't know it. Chin up Andrew, I know we are both strangers to each other, I don't know your story, I won't pretend that I do - but I do understand your position.
Everything will be fine, all the best. sending virtual hug. 🤗
@@andrew_sizzle In regards to your second comment. Couldn’t agree more with the thought… but when I hear someone else say it I realize how unhealthy it is.
I just want to feel something again.
I hope you find your happiness.
We got this. KINGS & QUEENS see yall at the top. Keep pushing forward.
Keep shining and pushing forward, you're unstoppable! 🌟
To whoever may need it, first off know that we're proud of you for getting up again today. Regardless of the state of your room, how many meals you got in, or how many errands you completed. You are cared about, you are invaluable, and you are wanted. You DESERVE to see tomorrow and be given an opportunity to have something put a smile on your face, even if it's just for a quick moment.
I know it might feel like you're completely alone right now and have no one you used to lean on in the picture. I promise, me and just about everyone else in the comments are right there with you battling losses, break ups, pain, and even death. I lost my mom to cancer this year and feel alone most of the time, she was my rock and I miss her every day. This world is cruel and harsh but equally as much it is beautiful. DO NOT let it's evil side win, push through to the good and bring as many as you can with you. Please believe me when I tell you, if you could see a movie of all the good to come and all the people you will share memories and love with, you would never once for a second consider leaving.
In the meantime, use the time to heal yourself so you can be ready to be everything you were meant to be for them. It's not a cliche, it's not dumb, you have to learn to love yourself FIRST before everyone else. Speak positive words literally out loud to yourself until your thoughts fall in line. Take yourself to that restaurant you know you like. Give yourself that shower that you know is gonna make you feel better. Go on a walk to that one area near your house you just find peaceful. Start small, one thing at a time, one day at a time, but do something because you deserve it.
There is a brighter tomorrow coming and we need you to be there with us to see it happen. Get some sleep, drink some water, and eat a snack. Much love
Thx man.
Thank you for your heartfelt message. Your words are a reminder of the strength we all carry, even in our darkest moments. Healing is a journey, and taking small steps is a powerful way to show yourself love. Remember, you're never truly alone. Keep holding onto hope. 🌈
had another strong disassociative episode today it hit really hard and brought me to tears. i tried to break free of this pain for around nine years now. im 25 now and i still struggle to get by mentally. i know what i currently have is really good but it always feels... empty in my heart. i wonder how many of the people who say they care actually do. i tell myself that they do and im sure they do but my heart that has been shattered for so long in my childhood for things i wont name. im still going but i wish to be free of finding some of my days crying and distancing myself from the people who care even though its out of habit
It’s natural to feel distant and wonder about others' intentions, especially after pain. Trust that healing is a slow journey, and it’s okay to take small steps. Try not to judge yourself too harshly-your journey is a testament to resilience. Let each day be a chance to reconnect, even in small ways.
@heartbroken_club while i definitely agree it sometimes feels like i also fall backwards the more i think when im alone. Thats why i try to put myself around others. I thought it would help but all it does is delay those thoughts that haunt me. Just a moment of peace before im reminded about the things i fear.
life is one crazy thing and its never been harder for me but at the same time its made me realize how much i care for the people around me and want to spend time with them especially since there are so many people i cant do that with anymore
Life can be overwhelming, yet it brings clarity about our connections. Cherish those relationships and make moments count. You're not alone in this journey. Welcome to Heart Broken Club🫂🥺
It's hard, I feel like I should be on top of the world. I've got everything I could care about: I'm traveling the world, my financial situation is good, my family cares about me, good diet/don't really drink, but I feel like I'm hitting a brick wall. Every day it's hard to get out of bed for some reason, and then I shove myself further into a pit for doing nothing with my day. I want to rest, but then I get mad that I'm wasting my day inside. At the end of the day I feel bored with life, even though in retrospect my day-to-day is anything but. I trudge through because I know people care about me, but the hardest part is learning to care for myself. I wonder how it feels to be able to do that naturally...
Don't take what I say as the truth. It's just something that may or may not be happening to you.
There is a possibility that you are living the way other people want, not the way you want (deep inside). Because things can bring comfort, status or distraction but not necessarily purpose. Maybe your life lacks something simple but meaningful, like real acceptance/intimacy/friendship/virtue or you can't talk about certain important things to anyone.
Maybe this is your body saying: your life is shallow right now and I want it to be deep, then I'll make you feel bad until you find your way again.
Or it can be something completely different.
You probably don't need anyone to tell you this. But you actually sound like you need therapy. What you're going through sounds like depression. Some of us have it all, and we still feel like shit, we're just going through the motions without actually living in it at all. You can only bottle it up for only so long, so if I were you I'd seek a professional and talk to them about it.
It's okay to feel this way despite your successes. Sometimes, the pressure to enjoy life can be overwhelming. Focus on small, positive steps each day. Cultivating self-care can transform your experience. Remember, it's a journey, and you're not alone in feeling this way.
You're doing it. That's how it feels. A bit boring after a while, just like everything else.
I woke up in a bad head space and this feeling suck. I wish everyone who comes across this video, I wish your day improves, there is always more to look forward to in life, never give up!
Thank you for sharing your warmth; brighter moments await you too.
I take a deep breath. Then let it out. I take another deep breath. Then let the thoughts go. My breath is shaky. My eyes sting. I breath again. I realize yet again how much I've been holding in. Then I breath again. The beat changes. A song ends. I breath again. I don't let it all out. But it's enough for now. Thank you for the playlist. It helped.
THANKYOU💜🫂 So happy to hear that
I just turned 33, I'm living in the north part of my hometown in a nice apartment but I've never been married. I've got a good job, I get by 8 PM, I do some stretches and drink warm milk before bed. I sleep well enough, don't wake up with fatigue or anything. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't have anything that'd make me lose sleep. I don't have any friends or enemies, I don't care about winning or losing, but I feel like if I did fight, I'd never lose.
I’m glad it resonated with you! Sometimes we just need that perfect moment of calm. Take it easy and enjoy the peace. 💜🫂
I like this relaxed lofi, makes my mood better during a lonely evening, thanks! Time to get into the bed, I need to do my morning run tomorrow...
Your strength in navigating this loss is truly inspiring. Remember, healing is a journey that takes time, and it's okay to feel the weight of your emotions. Embracing friendships and supporting one another can be a beautiful way to honor your connection with him. Keep focusing on your healing, and know that it's okay to take things one step at a time. You're not alone, and brighter days will come. Sending you warmth and encouragement on this path.
If only she said goodbye or let me tell her how I feel, but she just left, disappeared.
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i hate how people do this. its so painful. especially after happening again and again and again and again , can we ever trust again?
The past few years, I've become extremely confused with who I am, truly. I hate myself. I'm 24 in a few days, and I'm stuck. I've worked the same job for a little over 2 years now, fine with the job, no complaints. I've got my own car fully paid off. My 1 year old credit is very good. I have no debt. Even though I live with my grandma, I pay electric, landscaping, internet, groceries, etc. Even through all of this, I have a deep sense that I *am* lazy, I'm pathetic, I'm never happy, my family doesn't like me because of my laziness, I'm skinnier than skinny could get, I've become unemotional besides from sadness. It feels hard to take a compliment and even harder to smile when someone talks to me. I feel like every single day I'm drifting away.
I used to have a large friend group that I tried talking to, it felt like none of them seemed to really care about what I had to say, switching topics, or basically saying something like "you got it! 👍" I can't blame them, on the internet I was a much different person. Very aggressive, very "I don't give a fuck about anything" mentality, but that was far from the truth. I cared about so much, even when I said those things.
I began writing in a journal (a year ago) since that's something I've read online about coping, nothing seems to help, if anything it makes me realize even after a year later, I'm feeling the exact same. Re-reading the same thing over and over again. It feels like the journal is just a long list of rambles about the exact same topic(s).
I don't know if anyone will bother reading this, but I wanted to maybe just vent this again. To an anonymous audience. Thank you.
acabo de leer un reflejo de como me siento, estoy en mi utlimo año escolar.
Toca afrontar la vida, tendré q dejar la pereza que es mi debilidad.
Animos para mi mismo, solo espero no desmoronarme.
Do I care? I ask myself this question a lot. Maybe I should care more so I don't lose my way but how can I care when no one else does. Caring about someone, even myself, is hard when i was never shown how to care about myself or others
watch self-care videos
Do you want to care? is the question. Cause the world feels like a facade and nothing matters. You can set some goals, reach them before you are too old to live comfortably and you eventually die. So do you want to care?
@Dexyu yes I do and i finally found a reason to care
holy yap. shut up you cornball
It's completely understandable to feel this way. Learning to care for yourself and others is a journey, especially if you haven't seen it modeled. Start small, and be gentle with yourself. Over time, you can cultivate that care within and create a nurturing space for growth.
feel like ever since she shattered my heart into a million pieces, i've just never been myself since. and it feels like i never will be again unless she either comes back someday or i find someone else to replace her. but who knows it either of those things will ever happen. its been 9 months since it happened. and i only feel like ive only ever so slightly gotten over it, but not really. i still feel like i love her. i still have dreams that are just me and her. are these feelings and thoughts just unable to go away? maybe it really does just show how much i loved her and cared about her, and how i guess still do. in total we were together for a year and 10 months. so we were coming up on two years. and i felt like it was the greatest time of my life. i felt so happy, more then i ever had, and my life was just fine before her, but that year and 10 months, i literally felt like i was on top of the world with her, and i had it all planned out on where i wanted to go and what i wanted to do. we were planning on having me move in with her so i could always be with her to support her in person so she could actually pursue college and not get easily sad and depressed and overwhelmed, because this time i would always be there for her when she came home to love her and help her and support her all the way. and to give her whatever she wanted, to just make her the happiest girl in the whole world. because thats all I've ever wanted for her. but none of that happened. since 9 months ago she shattered my heart, when i still loved her and cared for her deeply, like no other feeling i had ever felt for anyone in my entire life in the entire universe. so because of that, i just feel like ive never been myself since then. and i still feel like i really miss her. like im missing the other half of me. like im empty and not whole anymore. and i just don't know if there's any hope left for me anymore.
i just miss you so much. and I'd do anything for a second chance. even if it really is that unlikely of that ever happening.
Gonna turn 19 in a month, yet I still didn't do anything in these past five years. I've started uni this September and actually found some friends for the first time in 9-10 years, but this didn't fix my issues. My friends call me smart for things I've learned when I was around 12, and this makes me remember even more that I didn't do anything since then. The last time I was doing things to improve myself I was a kid, not even much of a teenager, and now I'm an adult.
You may feel alone and meaningless on life, right? 🫂 I can feel you. I have a business. So many responsibility on me, but no one can feel the same way, and i can't tell anyone my stress. Even I tell my friend. They don't understand. However, I think people in the world is same. Everyone have their own problem, that no one can understand, that change my mind to know my issues is not a big problem. I accept it as my destiny. I hope my experience can give you inspiration on your life.
Changing my perspective on life makes this song just feel like nice lobby music. Calm and relaxing music to just sit down and enjoy.
Or maybe it’s just supposed to feel that way.
Enjoy the calm, and let the music guide your journey.
To all,
I found the biggest thing that set me free was to learn to forgive and let go. As you can see my name, I've spent many years being hateful and resentful to others that have wronged me or let me down. Forgiveness is so powerful, even if they don't deserve it. Accept people's imperfections and understand you will be hurt; you will be let down and you must forgive and let go.
Forgiveness truly sets us free. 🌟🫂 Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting; it means choosing peace over pain. Thank you for sharing such wisdom.
i took a step in the right direction the most objectively positive step that i could
That's a wonderful achievement! Taking positive steps, no matter how big or small, is crucial for growth and healing. Celebrate this moment and recognize the courage it took to move forward. Keep trusting yourself and your journey; each step will bring you closer to where you want to be.
If you're here, you're likely going through something. Just know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You might be in the darkest part, but keep going and you'll find the light. Take care of yourself, drink water, eat well, and try to get some rest. Love you dawg! 🗿👍
Thank you for sharing such kind words. Life can be hard, but remember, every step forward counts. Keep caring for yourself, and things will get better. You got this, my friend. 🫂💜
"Maybe "forever" is not a word meant for people, but for memory"
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This helps me relax when I'm stressed out
not my best time, but this is my way to get through it, ty for making the playlist, its helping more than it looks
THANKYOU🫂🥺
My best friend got bored of me. Already some months passed but I still think about that person even tho I have new friends.
It's okay to miss someone. Cherish your memories while embracing new connections. Healing takes time; be gentle with yourself.
Great relaxation this video....
THANKYOU💜🫂
Awsome, so relaxing and inspiring.
You doing good work, keep goin.
THANKYOU!!!
Thank you💟
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Do I really care? I don't know. I didn't care to notice if I really care
I would say we do care, it's just that caring feels more pain when we lose it.
You'll realise how much you cared about something until the very moment you lost it
That's true... You care for that one individual and when you lose it.. you feel even more pain
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no one cares. a common expression these days yet like most expressions it has little basis in reality. the fact is maybe no one cares about you as an individual but they do as a human. "yeah but thats not enough" i know the feeling believe me. i cant tell you things are going to get better. if i did it might turn out to be a lie. what i can tell you is that life with all its misery, loneliness and pain is worthwhile. food is good. sleep is good. the breeze is good. trees are good. life is good. joy is everywhere you just have to look for it. some times you may find yourself blinded by fear or anxiety. you may even get stuck in one place for years. when that happens its okay to take your time, its okay to struggle. its okay to fail a thousand thousand times and if the pain is too much to bear iis okay to retreat for a while until your ready to face the world again. what matters is you push. you dont take it laying down. its okay to fall. its okay to lay on the ground for a while but eventually your going to have to get up. failure is a luxury.
cornball. shut up holy yap
True~
I never understood the suffering of people now that I see these comments something woke me up from this nightmare reality where hell truly becomes true
Awakening to the pain of others can be a heavy burden, but it also opens the door to empathy and connection. Embrace this new awareness as a chance to grow, heal, and share kindness. Your understanding can be a light for others in their darkness.
your page has grown....am a vet here been here a long time now
Thank you for your enduring support! Your presence means a lot to our community. It’s wonderful to see how we’ve grown together. Your journey and insights enrich us all.
man i needed this so much today9/27/2024 i will always remember this day i was so lost in my overthinking and i came upon this legend video
Trust that this calmness found you for a reason. Hold onto it.
These playlists are truly wonderful. I get a lot of coding done listening to these. Thank you
Glad you like them!
this is really nice love the vibes of the music, and visuals.
THANKYOU!!!💜💜
@@heartbroken_club your welcome
I feel like I could stay here for a while
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anime girl from "Mahouka Koukou no Rettousei"
I was wondering if it was this anime...
thanks
what about character name
@@crystalesian saegusa mayumi i think
THANKYOU💜🫂
just want to check up with everyone in the comments, seems like we all have something similar going on, but atleast we have each other, the positive comments are really helping me as well, thank you to everyone
Your support for each other is powerful. Together, we can heal and grow stronger. Keep sharing your light with one another.
We all know why we are here. Sometimes it a wound needs to fester. It feels more real or valid when we pay attention to the pain. I think it can be okay to feel that profound sense of empty sadness.
One of my favorite things I heard was on a Toonami bump on Adult Swim when I was young.
"Now you can lie there for a second, cry a little if you need to, but get back on your feet. Cuz it's the gettin' back up that counts. That's what shows you've got heart. That's what helps keep you goin'."
The sadness is only here for a moment. Feel it. But don't give in to it, please.
Acknowledging your pain is a powerful step toward healing. It’s okay to sit with your feelings for a while; they remind us of our humanity. Just as you mentioned, it’s the act of rising again that reveals your strength. Embrace the sadness, but remember it is temporary. You have the heart to keep moving forward. 🌟
damn, the amount of emotional unloading here is insane, I have lived through tough times, and I won't say I know how all of y'all feel, but I hope yall do better, cuz no life is ever a straight line, only ups and downs make it believable. I just want yall to know that I support of yall, even if I don't know your name or user. And if you need to find someone to talk to, I'm available, always.
Your words radiate so much kindness 🫂💜
@@heartbroken_club anytime
Yes I did really care but it was torn away from me, killed with cruelty. Now only what's left are freezing wind and serenity in silence. It's really weird to be dead-alive, waiting for the death to finish the work and take my physical self because in me? There's nothing left to take.
Your pain is profound, and it’s okay to feel lost. Remember that healing is a journey, and even in silence, there’s potential for rebirth. There’s light waiting for you to discover it again.
It's already November, I keep making the same mistakes with myself, even when I promised myself to be better, but nothing works, I've been feeling more and more empty and I sink every day into this darkness
Sometimes growth feels slow, like walking through darkness 🌑. But even the smallest steps forward count. Keep being gentle with yourself; healing is a journey, and brighter days are possible 🌅💫
31yrs, trash job, all alone, never been loved by anyone, social anxiety, bullied all my life.. I feel like Im running but without going in any direction.. stuck in a disgraceful life. The question is "Do you really care?".. the answer is.. Not anymore.. my time is over.. If you have a good life.. if you are a normal person with no mental health issues.. if you have mother and father love.. if you have someone that love you and care about you be grateful every single day cuz not everyone are blessed with this things. Its possible I'll not hold on anymore cuz Im so fucking exausted.. I.. I just want to rest.. so if u read this take care and I hope life is be better for you than that was for me. See you all in the other side..
I’m so sorry you feel this way. 💜 You matter deeply, even when life feels heavy. Rest, but don’t give up; brighter days await. 🫂☯️✨
"I have to get things serious"....I have been telling myself since I was at 7th grade but....I'm now at 9th grade and haven't taken things serious yet.....do I care? Yes, I do. But I don't know where to start or even I know I just got distracted.....now all I can do is just sit on my couch and hoping I'm going to take things serious today....
Don't worry! One day you will.
There are no any changes in one moment. Something can take a month. Something can take for years.
It's completely okay to feel lost at times. Starting small is key-set achievable goals each day, and celebrate those wins. Don’t be hard on yourself; everyone has distractions. Embrace each moment as a new opportunity to grow, and take it one step at a time. You can do this!
Good vibe for studying at 4 am
I'm glad to hear that the vibes are helping you study!
I sometimes wonder what the feeling is when you moved back to a state you grew up in.Wondering if some people from school would know or recognize me.There’s a book I’m hoping to start reading called “The subtle art of not giving a F***”. By far it’s surreal and it sometimes feels terrible from nostalgia.I only hope that I made the right decision from moving and I’m slowly flapping my own wings without my family’s help.
yeah i felt that too. wonder what the feeling is when you moved back to your old home. but then, if you think that more deeply, if you move back to your old place, the people you saw in your childhood is not there anymore. same as to your old school. your once called classmates could have forget about you cuz people are constantly growing up and older. i always said to myself that
“i just love an idea of it in my mind, not as the real thing.”
Returning to familiar places can stir deep feelings. Trust your journey and embrace the growth that comes with change. You are not alone.💜🫂
After seeing all of my friends have success on their lives im happy for them but kinda sad too. While im still the same old from 6 years ago who trying to break the lock, im still trying.
The part "quiet" is 100% sampled of Cathrine OST - Also Sprach Brooks. This plays at the stray sheep bar.
I'm still young but it's weird I lost my father not because he died but because he just kept letting me down. Every time he said he was coming to see me I got exited and then when he didn't show up I cried. But after a while I just stopped... feeling sadness. It's very strange to live with this because I just don't have empathy. I thought about death but I just never could I was too scared that death was just none existence. With my dad not being around I lost two people I thought were siblings, a younger brother and a older sister, I didn't see them for years and when we finally talked we had nothing in common and were on different paths. I feel a hole in my heart a whole that can't be filled. I keep trying new things and the hole is there all the way. My family/friends don't know about this, I feel alone, even with my loving mother and step father the hole stays open. I just wish my dad would turn his life around and be there for me, even writing this I feel nothing, empty. I have been through two divorces and seen my dad on a hospital bed after a car wreck, after the wreak I am not even sure if it's him, He looks different and has even told me he feels like he just picked up where somebody else left off. I haven't seen him or talked with him for around a year now. I feel the pressure of expectation and see my dreams leaving me. I feel as though I put on a mask that can never be removed, I don't even know who I am anymore. I have a container inside me, it holds all that sadness that i don't feel and recently it has started to reach it's limit and pour out, I tried making it bigger but that didn't help it just delayed it and now even that is full. My mom always asks me why i am so destructive but I think it's just a release of that sadness. I keep remembering all the time I spent with my dad and when I do I feel the container crack, I think I am about to break soon, I don't know how much longer my container can hold up. If you are wonder I don't mean kill myself when I say break, I think I will just lose everything, my friends/family/life. I used to love going to my dad's side of the family when I was younger. They were poor but i was still fed and had a lot of fun. Now that I am older I can see that they use drugs. One of my uncles even died. My dad's mother is a slave to vapes and drugs and even put it above me when I was around. My dad's dad just sits on his bed all day watching anime rotting. My dad's living brother is also a slave to vapes. I had a cousin that I loved to hang out with and I would walk with her at my dad's grandmother's house. I haven't seen her in who knows how long, I miss her. I don't even remember her name. My great grandmother on my dad's side lived with two other old ladies, I thought of them as my great grandmothers as well but every visit one more would be gone, I didn't even get to go to their funerals, now it's just my great grandmother alone in a house in a forest. My mom didn't see her father either. I have two step dads(One married to my mom, one alone) and I go to family gatherings with both of them to their sides of the family. Even time I go I think about my dad's family, my blood family and feel the hole inside me grow and my container fill and crack even more. I have so many expectation that I just want to give up. I am supposed to go to pass high school with a 4.0, take all AP classes, and do awards like DS and DSG. i am expected to go to collage and graduate. I am expected to have a family when I get older. I am supposed to be a multimillionaire before the age of 25. I am expected to be the strongest man around me. I am expected to never cry or be weak. I just feel myself slipping away and a shell taking my place. All the things that bring me joy don't anymore, I have a ton of bad habits, I don't even know what to do with my life. My escapes from reality are shot down by my family. I want to learn a new language and they told me that I should learn a different one, I told them that I wanted to learn this one and they instead offer no support. Everyone sees me as this kind, smart, young man but they don't see the cracks in my container or the mask I put on. I just don't know how much longer I can do this. I don't know if I can keep going like this, I want to ask for help but I am to afraid. I keep getting told to reach out and find help, but if I reach out the people I know will find out about this. You want to know something funny about lacking sadness, it takes love with it, I don't feel a connection with anyone. I don't love my family, my friends, or even myself, I just can't love. What I need more than anything in the world as a woman to hold me while I cry in their arms and tell me it is all going to be ok but I feel once I do that she would leave me in search of a stronger man not that I even have a girlfriend. I feel like everything I do is not good enough, I feel that i will never reach any of my own goals. I just can't anymore, I can't with goals, expectation, I can't with sadness, and love, I can't with life anymore but I don't want to feel the cold grasp of death. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Live life to the fullest, take every day exactly as it is- one single day. Sometimes it's short, sometimes it's long, sometimes it doesn't even feel like a day. Do things that make you happy, beyond just an escape. Do everything as if you're trying your best to live without regret. Get yourself out there, for yourself. Work to buy things that you want, take classes because they are interesting to you. The people you'll find yourself surrounding you will all be divisions of the life you live, and if you want a super cool girlfriend or friends to hang out with, you gotta be that person to yourself first.
@@derekrose3926 I don't really know how to reply to this, but thanks.
Your pain and emptiness are deeply felt, and it's okay to express these emotions. Acknowledge the cracks in your container-they are signs of growth and healing. Seeking help is a courageous step. Remember, vulnerability is not weakness; it's a bridge to deeper connections. You are worthy of love and understanding. Reach out when you can, and know that it's never too late to find support. Your feelings matter, and you are not alone in this journey.
Ive been in a 3-year LDR relationship, which was a rollercoaster ride for sure, but the longer, it went stale for me. As a fresh college student, I was focussing on making more new friends, busy with assignments, and all. Not long after we called it off for real. With me getting pressured by my parents and also being unable to keep up with her demands, we broke up. A girl from my college DM'ed me, hinting that she liked me like 5 to 6 months later after I broke up, but I can't reply to her confession either. I just can't love anymore. Idk, maybe I'm just going to stay single for the rest of my youth and find a better one after I started working.
plus knowing how incompetent I am, I subconsciously became insecure of other people, talking with girls had probably become my biggest problem fr
It's understandable to feel overwhelmed after a significant relationship ends. Give yourself the grace to heal and rediscover your sense of self. Embrace this time for growth and learning; love will find you again when you’re ready. Remember, your worth is not defined by others.
this is such an amazing video! keep on doing what you’re doing ❤ can you please tell me the anime in the background it would really make my day ❤
Thank you for your kind words 🌟💖! Keep shining ✨.
Man I am 26 now and feel like I wasted my time on the wrong things. My parents always told me to get financially stable in life. So I focused most of my time around making money and buying a house, but now that I have all of that I don't have anyone to share it with. It just feels empty and I can't muster up any courage to go outside and meet someone, because I never learned to do that my entire life, it was always just work. I feel like I am trapped in my comfort zone. As a kid I always just rolled my eyes at the saying "money isn't everything in life" but now I finaly understand it. For what did I put in all this work if I am all alone with it in the end. I know all I have to do is go outside but there is nothing worse for me than to be in a huge group of people that I don't know. So I reached a dead end. I can't go outside but I won't get anywhere without doing so. I slowly feel like I am just gonna stay like this till I am old and dusty
Hey, I hear you 🫂💜. It’s never too late to step out of that comfort zone, even in small ways. Try connecting with one new person at a time. Growth happens in tiny steps, not leaps . You’re not stuck forever-just take one step today. ☯️
i love to take a while and just admire consciousness
That’s a beautiful practice. 💜☯️
I got angry at my brother’s wife once, and he moved across the country. He wont answer his phone, and his texts feel empty like she’s over his shoulder to make sure he doesnt say anything out of line. He makes our mom cry everyday, and I cant change anything. I’ve never felt so powerless in my life
May good come to everyone's way this year, and may you have something good to look forward to. Whether it be opportunities, changes in lifestyle or some form of good will that'll last through the good and the bad when you need it most.
Such a kind wish! 🫂💜 I hope this year brings you the same-moments of joy, growth, and strength to cherish through every twist. 🎆☯️💤 Keep shining!
Sometimes the hardest words people need to hear are the ones that should make us smile and happy. Not because we need it or want it necessarily. But because we somewhere in our head have just never heard it or couldn't bring ourselves to say it to ourselves. So when someone else says BRILLIANT, or something else positive, it is at that point you know that positive words can truly be a blessing and that's what it's all about. Bringing care starts with more than just positive actions. You got to have the actions with the love and care of good intent and wishes. So starting out this next upcoming year, I want to see other people's smiles and happiness more than my own. To see other people find a spark that makes their world filled with joy and vividness unlike any other. To see a world so bleak see rays of light in the innermost part of ourselves. Sometimes it's hard to see that and it's a way to ask the question about truly caring. @@heartbroken_club
21 years old, lost my last job, failed in getting other 2 after, all my friend are gatting maried, getting their home and acchiving lots of things while i can't even get out of the point i am stuck for the last years. Everyone around me makes me fell like crap and i fell guilty for this because most of the time they are good to me but i can't even look at their face because i fell they will be desapointed sooner or later and will give up on me, my mother, my friends and my girfriend all deserve a better person and i can't manege to be this better person. My sleep schedules are like crap lately, i can't focus on anything, i keep trying to be better and know i can't just give up but sometimes (Most of the time realy) i kind of just want it all to end. Think a just kind of needed to put it out somewere.
Your feelings are valid, and it's okay to express them. Remember, growth takes time, and it's essential to be gentle with yourself. Seek support from loved ones or professionals who can help you navigate this journey. You are worthy of love and understanding.
my fav playlist
thankyou💜☯️🫂✨
After 9 long years our friend group finally split up and I’m sorry to Mason, Jacob, Abraham if I was annoying or hard to be around I was just so so hurt
Do your own thing then.
It's natural to feel hurt after a long friendship ends. Remember, healing takes time. Apologizing shows your care; it's a step towards understanding. Surround yourself with those who support you and allow yourself to process these emotions. You’re not alone in this journey.
I'm turning 21 this year but i cant take college seriously because of my mental health and it sucks to let this side of me to see my family i don't want to put any burden to my mother but i can't really make them my inspiration again when i fking studied hard and hard and be productive about it i just pursue my damn selfish dream to become a pro artist and not supporting my middle class family, life so sucks and the process of it is hard ,brutal and it hurts emotional
bro you should look it from the other prospective, maybe by achieving your dream will allow you to support them aswell, your are the golden ticket if you want to
It’s brave to acknowledge your struggles and prioritize your mental health. Remember, pursuing your dreams doesn’t make you selfish; it’s a part of your journey. Allow yourself to feel and heal. Your passion for art can inspire both you and your family in ways you may not yet see. You are not alone in this.
We shared our hearts and loved one another. But I was the one who became scared and afraid of everything changing so quickly.
I don't know if I was right or wrong... I don't even know if I was even ready.
All I know is that I hope she's alright and living her life the best she can.
It's natural to feel scared amidst change. Remember, your feelings are valid. Trust your journey and cherish the love shared. Wishing her well brings healing.
For anyone who needs to hear this:
I love your hair or lack of
I love your forehead
I love your eyebrows or lack of
I love your eyelashes or lack of
I love your eyes
I love your ears
I love your nose
I love your cheeks
l love your mouth
I love your laugh
I love your teeth or lack of
I love your chin
I love your neck
I love your shoulders
I love your chest
I love your arms
I love your hands
Ilove your tummy
I love your hips
I love your thighs
Ilove your knees
I love your shins
I love your feet (not in that way.)
I love your moles/marks
I love your scars
I love your voice
I love what you do
I love your personality
I love you on your good days I love you on your bad days
I love you when you when you wear makeup
I love you when you don't wear makeup.
I love your skin
I love you when you're sad I love you when you're mad
I love you when you're happy
I love you when you hate me I love you when you love me I love you when you forget me
I'm proud of you for getting some sleep
I'm proud of you for trying to sleep
I'm proud of you for waking up
I'm proud of you for getting up
I'm proud of you for brushing your teeth
I'm proud of you for tending toward your braces
I'm proud of you for doing your hair
I'm proud of you for washing your face
I'm proud of you for doing skin care
I love you for doing your makeup (if youwear it)
I'm proud of you that you got out of your room
I'm proud of you for getting dressed
I'm proud of you TRYING to eat breakfast.
I'm proud of you for being clean
I'm proud of you for trying to be clean
I'm proud of you for being alive
I'm proud of you for being a good friend
I won't judge you for your looks
I won't judge you from your race
I won't judge you for your life I won't judge you for your family
I won't judge you for your past/childhood
I won't judge you for your body
I won't judge you for your body
I won't judge you for your tears
I wont judge you for your age
I won't judge you for your sexual orientation
I wont judge you for your gender
I wont judge you for your money
I won't judge you for where you come from
I won't judge you for your language
You aren't ugly
You aren't too fat
You aren't too skinny
You aren't annoying
You aren't mean
You aren't evil
You aren't crazy
You aren't weird
You aren't worthless
You aren't scary
You aren't selfish
You aren't too feminine
You aren't too masculine
You aren't too young
You aren't too old
You aren't disgusting You aren't a doormat
You aren't a toy
You aren't a monster
You are beautiful
You are pretty
You are handsome
You are kind
You are cool
You are everything you want to be
You aren't perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes
I wont judge you for anything
I'm so proud of you
I love you. Now it's your turn to share this message.
Wish RUclips had a copy paste in mobile version
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@@shikk1029 I thought it did?
@@m0n4rch12 nah my doesn't, but I can always screenshot it and then just scan
@@shikk1029 ohh okay
this playlist showed all my feeling when i remind about that person, but stime we just need get over it and nice playlist
Letting go is part of healing. 🌿 Take it one step at a time. You're strong. 🌸 Keep going. 💖
Thank you.
THANKYOU!!!
if you're feeling down, dont listen to sad music, only makes it worse.
go outside, get some sunlight and water, it'll help improve your mood. go for walks. or even better, workout.
if you feel confused, write down your thoughts.
talk to people.
hang in there, everyone has dark chapters in their lives, understand it and learn from it, it'll make you stronger for future struggles.
The worse feeling of losing someone is when it wasn't even because you both chose to. Life looked at you both and said, "Nah lemme fix that."
Life can be unpredictable and painful. It's okay to grieve this loss. Allow yourself to feel and heal. Remember, love remains in our hearts even after parting.
30 yo moved in with a friend of mine to get on my feet. Totaled my car, had to find a new second job, the girl I love got pregnant by someone else and I can't even fathom taking care of them because I feel like she's still interested and fucking with other men since we're not together. Insecurities. The depressions keeping me from taking care of business and legal shit and it's a struggle to try going to the gym like I love. Can't even play apex like I used too. I want to take care of myself but it's a process and I can't rush it. God willing everything falls into place and I can be happy n confident again. It'll take a lot of work. Luckily I have some great friends, family and music for support through this low time.
Thanks for listening I just wanted to let it all out
It’s brave of you to express your feelings. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Lean on your support system, take small steps toward self-care, and let music be a guiding light. Trust that brighter days are ahead as you work through this process.
18 anos, agora são 01:02am, estou no trabalho (home office), trabalhando agora pq passei o dia todo procrastinando, eu realmente não gosto desse trabalho mas é oque eu tenho pra fazer, tudo que eu queria era uma vida simples, um apartamento, gatos, um video game, café quentinho e paz... daqui 2 meses eu me formo na escola, vou continuar no trabalho que estou por um tempo mas não sei oque fazer depois. estou cansado...
It's okay to feel overwhelmed. 🌌 As you approach graduation, remember that every step brings you closer to your dreams. 🌟 Embrace the simple joys-your ideal life is possible! 🏡🐾 Take time to breathe, and know that peace is within reach. ☕✨
so chill
THANKYOU💜🫂
So far the trick I have learnt to beat it all sadly is to have no expectations not a single one. The universe doesn't care about you and you shouldn't care about it either. Just do what you gotta do and life will sort itself out. Once you put any sort of crazy expectation on something you are seeing I yourself up to fail. Anyone who disagrees with this is just lying to themselves or hasn't hit that solid stone brick wall yet. But they will everybody does at some point in their life. Everybody.
Expectations can be heavy, but letting go brings peace. 🌿💜 Just keep flowing with life’s rhythm. 🫂☯️🪻✨
wow this is a wall of comments. Absolute cinema.
These comments are like a living masterpiece of emotions and stories. 🫂💜
Man I'm 31.. My wife divorce me last tuesday... and we live together in a condo.. My life feels like its spiring down a hill. I don't know what to do.. She's giving me HOT and cold answers. Days where she acts like my wife.. and days where she acts like nobody... I don't understand .. I spoiled her and wasted $500 to show her how sorry I was and we should work on this.. but she keep telling me she don't love me and detached from me.. and it hurts day by day.. I honestly.. keep trying to fight to show her I love her.. If I leave this condo.. she pays the bills herself.. she would have NO CAR.. and can't get to work without a bus.. I feel bad if I did something like this to her.. because I genuinely love and support her from the bottom of my heart.. and I don't know what I should do..
I say you try to listen to her problems and why she feels so indifferent towards you, try to change that and make the effort.
But if that doesn't work sadly their isn't much you can do. A friend once said to me that a relationship is like a bird, it needs two wings to fly and it one gives up it's just gonna bring both down to ground, into a state of despair.
You gotta value your partner but also yourself.
Hope your marriage works out, best of luck 👊
man, i was divorced too by momma boy. like your story. i amma women, no car, pay the bills alone later on, give up my kid to his family or they will gaslighting my living work.
i love purple
ME TOO
ME TOO💜
ME TOO
"Have you ever heard the definition of insanity? Insanity is doing the same shit... over and over again hoping... that things will change... That. Is. Madness." - Vaas Montenegro
I don't deserve to be loved, every relationship I had I destroyed them just by being myself whether it's friends or gf I just ruin my recent one with my gf and she was my everything she was the perfect girl and I had to fuck it up...
it gets better man. I fuck up every relationship too and my friend is in a similar place. We may be unattractive but, life is still worth living you are alive and breathing for a reason. You may not understand it yet but, you were chosen to live in this beautiful yet ugly world we called Earth and you will find your purpose my friend.
@@alexhall2754 You dont know if live is worth living, you dont know the guy, he might be in such deep shit that its not worth it. If you can pay for a roof over your head and have food, and do something you enjoy sure.
@@Dexyu or maybe he could be in a situation where there IS hope. Why shut down other's attempts to help other people? Do you think you're making a positive impact? Think about it .
holy cornball. shut up. you right your life is pointless. you have no direction in life and no future waiting at the finish line. And when its all over. you will be alone. no friends. no lover. give up before you are ahead of yourself you attention seeking cornball
It’s easy to feel unworthy after loss, but remember, your true self is deserving of love. Healing takes time. Embrace your journey, and allow yourself to grow from these experiences. You are not alone.
this hits
Thankyou💜☯️🫂
idk what it is but i get so many things stuck in my eyes listening to this. Like 15 things.
and those were?
gimme just 2
i wana know if i can relate
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I wished I could feel like you guys.
If you are feeling down or have been struggling, just know that me and God love you and that you'll make it through it if you trust in God.
faith and love will illuminate your path through these tough times.
Anyone else here feels like finally giving up but there’s so much pressure on you constantly that you can’t? Same. I honestly just want to go to sleep forever. My ex cheated on my for 7 months out of our 11 month long relationship. There was so much lying and manipulation. It’s been about a year since we broke up and I’ve had to suffer in silence because we weren’t supposed to be together. Our parents didn’t like us together. I still haven’t gotten over her because before I could get all my answers she ghosted me. I’ll never forget how I spent Valentine’s Day alone, while she spent it with the guy she was cheating on me with. She said they grew and changed as people together. She said she still loved me just “differently”. I just think back on all those good times and think about how they were all lies. I told her that my biggest fear was dying alone and she said that as long as she was there that wouldn’t happened. Look at where we are now. That’s only a small part of my problems now. There’s so much shit going on and it feels like I’m drowning. Struggling to uphold everyone’s expectations. I just want to sleep and live peacefully in my dreams where I can be happy for more than 2 minutes at a time. Where I’m not constantly reminded of my inadequacies. I was SA’d and nobody knows. I told some friends I thought I could trust and got blown off and laughed at. Friends leave me so often I stopped having best friends because I know they’d leave. Why didn’t I tell my parents about my SA? Well I tried telling them once about being groped and they blew it off. My mom has called me lesser than a gnat so why would she care. My dad has called me a disappointment so why would he care. Sorry for typing all this out. Sorry if it jumps around a lot. Feel free to ignore my comment.
Bro ik love feels good and stuff you love her and stuff but she's not the right person bro fr idk what's your age but if your below 25 you got soo much to achieve don't loose hope and the next thing is if your friends make fun of you friend new friends you can trust it's simple and don't expose your stuff to everyone only to some of your close friends keep working hard for your parents they will appreciate it so start working and one day everyone will love you and someone will love you like a king
I hear your pain and confusion. Remember, it's okay to seek help and share your feelings. Healing begins when you acknowledge your struggles. You're not alone, and you deserve compassion and support.
@@Griseofulvin779 I really don’t miss her anymore. Just the good times we had and knowing that I’ll never get that back. I’m 18 and in college and I made the mistake of enrolling in 5 classes and the weight and stress they put on me and killing me. I haven’t been able to have a stress free day in over 2 months.
@@heartbroken_club Thank you, It’s an honor just to get a response back. There’s so much more I could’ve added to my initial comment. I really need a therapist because I don’t really have anyone to reach out to that is willing to hear me talk about my problems.
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The only reason I live is because of my friends and family. i would never hurt them. but i live on empty. im only 19, i understand it gets better. i just feel hopeless. i dont wanna call it depression, just sadness. no job, yes friends, i go to a junior college, i do track. but i just feel sad, so hopeless. i feel like i have no meaning. i just have a missing piece in my heart. the cycle just keeps repeating. i wake up, practice, homework, play games with my friends from home, sleep. i just don't know where i'm going. i live such a good life, people love me, i don't understand.
Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’re failing. 💜☯️ Sometimes life feels like a loop, but meaning often grows quietly. 🫂🎆 Celebrate small joys, and trust the missing piece will find you. 💤✨
I don't really care anymore, the least amount of frig I give is to me living lol.
I may have a job, a stable income, and pull through my family through the hardest times. I gradually got to know how much they'd care.
If the people that gave me life don't care whom am I to care. There's only one person that'd showed that they do gaf and honestly, I'm still here for them. The moment that thread is gone :)
I've lost my teenage, and most of my youth over work and earning pennies. My only hobbies being wasting time on crap like anime and games lol.
I bet no one would even remember me even within my own family lol
I don't even have dream left either. And day by day I'll just become a empty husk that will provide till retirement XD
i wanna know your story bro, tell me about it
your worth isn't defined by their actions. Seek joy in what you love, even if it feels small right now.
I'm an apathetic person by nature, when I say I care about you, it means something different. I'm not chemical in my connections with the people I love, so I'm decisive instead. I love you out of conscious choice rather than the non verbal strings that bind people together, all that is the normal impulse that we see in the movies. I chose love you because you have shown me that you are a safe place, In conflict to all the dangers that surround me.
I cannot love you chemically, I fear that you may want that of me, and leave me if I can't. So help me feel a little safer in my care, and maybe, just maybe, I can let my chemistry win over the fear barriers built over years in my mind.
I have family and friends that care about me. They’re the main reason I’m still here. I’m going to get meds tomorrow so I can hopefully get these thoughts out of my mind. But I can’t help but wonder if they would be better off if I wasn’t here
It’s truly heartwarming to hear that you have family and friends who care about you; they see your value even when you might not. Seeking help through medication is a courageous step toward healing. Remember, your presence matters more than you realize, and your loved ones would feel the void if you weren’t there. Take it one day at a time. You’re not alone in this journey. 💖
@@heartbroken_club Thank you. That means a lot
This is my first time ever writing about my vulnerabilities to the internet. idk really know how to feel often. Ive been taking meds to calm my anxiety and depressive episodes down; it is working well. But there are times where past memories still linger, past trauma, deep pain on my chest. It is not surprising that right now and in the future, ill have days where everything seems hopeless and bland.
Is it truly okay to feel like this? to let this flow in and out of my mind? does it feel like all the work, in taking medication, makes it worthless?
I don't really know what you've been through and going through so I can't give you the best advice. But for me past traumas take a while to get over I mean I guess you may recover but you never truly get over it.
There's gonna be days that are miserable but just keep going one day at a time. Things will get better even if it doesn't seem like it you just gotta have hope you know.
Yeah it's okay to feel like this sometimes but you gotta look at the positive things in life. It's the small things that matter.
Just keep going no matter how worthless it may seem because your worth it. Hopefully everything turns out good for you I wish you nothing but the best.
Hello there.
I had something like you have. Just tried to live without any attention on all of it for years. But one day I'd realized, it was time to change something so I tried to make my thoughts busy with something. And that something was a way to build me better. In my case it was a gym.
Sometimes we have issues we can't resolve but we can try to switch our toughts for something else. I hope it will work for you as it work for me.
It’s perfectly okay to feel this way. Healing isn’t linear, and past pain can resurface. Your efforts with medication are valuable; embrace your feelings as part of the journey. You’re not alone. Keep reaching out for support.